Want To Instantly Trigger His Regret For Leaving? Do This.
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- čas přidán 6. 07. 2024
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Are you tired of the same old dating pitfalls and want to make him regret leaving you? Well, this video is a game-changer! I'm Elliot Scott, a seasoned dating coach, and I'm here to show you how to flip the tables in your favor!
Let's jump right into it and uncover the secrets of making him realize the mistake he's made. I'll guide you through the complexities of male psychology in dating and teach you how to create an asset and liability battle in his mind. We'll tackle the importance of magnifying regret and how to effectively 'win the breakup'.
Throughout this video, you'll learn the art of instinctual competitiveness and how to utilize this in winning him back. I will be sharing valuable insights based on my experience and knowledge on the subject. Remember, I'm not a professional or licensed, but I've helped countless women navigate through their dating struggles successfully.
You'll definitely want to watch this video because I'm revealing tips and strategies that can boost your chances of making him come back. For more detailed guidance, be sure to check out my bundle of 6 guides, link is down below, focusing on no contact rules, power dynamics, and understanding how male psychology works in dating.
So, gear up ladies! It's time to navigate the dating world with confidence and savvy. Let me show you how to make your ex regret losing you and increase the chances of him coming back. You deserve nothing but the best. Let's get started!
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Introduction
02:00 - Assets vs. Liabilities
08:00 - Power of Reflection
11:00 - Evidence-Based Thinking
14:00 - Social Media Reflection
17:00 - Triggers and Doubt
20:00 - Missed Assets
23:00 - Possibility of Return
26:00 - Speeding Up Process
29:00 - Conclusion
Simple determinator, he doesn’t chase you….he doesn’t want you. Seriously!we shouldn’t be overthinking and creating plans to get him
But you watched the video 😂
Exactly.
Omg be quiet. We don’t come here for your nonsense
People regret their decisions all the time and change their minds. He didn't want you 'at that moment' but emotions change.
A man doesn’t chase a woman because she doesn’t value herself. Once she starts to do so over time (from a place of peace, not in an angry way) he will change his perspective of her which could change how he feels about her.
Go NO CONTACT, HEAL YOUR CHILDHOOD WOUNDS, HEAL FROM THE RELATIONSHIP, FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND IF HE COMES BACK AROUND MAKE HIM WORK TO GET YOUR TRUST BACK. HE MUST EARN IT OTHERWISE HE WILL NEVER VALUE YOU.
I want women to understand that you need to detox that dopamine from being with him… Trauma bond. Get in the gym and workout when you get the urge to contact him. 🎉 You think about him do push ups.
Great idea.
Wow! This is gold!
Men literally do the exact same thing 😂
I'm gonna have the nicest arms 😂
Genius,thank you!😊
Don’t worry guys. Go get a real estate license or a Master’s degree instead. Try hard to ignore them and work out a lot. Upgrade your style and get your teeth as straight and clean as possible. They hate when we BOSS UP. “Please believe me.”💋👩🏽🎓🎓
That part 👏👏👏👏
Wow that’s specific..😅
He is not interested, let him go and find someone else who is.
I fought to hard to make him mine. Should not have had to. Let him go gracefully. Not gonna wait around.
I hear you. 5 years of it was enough for me. I am done.
This generation is just ridiculous.
Either like somebody or leave them alone.
I don't know where this whole concept of chasing people are pulling away even came from.
There is just no hope.
Elliott your look has become so polished over the last couple of years. You almost look like a different person than when I subscribed three years ago.
Sometimes he comes back and fumbles you in the same way all over again 🤦🏼♀️
Yup. After all, you're just going to be proving him right if you keep getting in touch. Give him space, especially if you've built up a habit of being the one who reaches out to him. It should be a give + take.
This is me,I'm just learning to level up and recognize my worth after always being the one to reach out when things go wrong..😅😮
I’ve learned so much from you.glade to see you back posting 🙏🏽
Your definitely my favourite dating coach Elliott!! Best one on CZcams!! ❤
In my case, the only way for that to happen is when the person he dumped me for takes him for everything he's got 😂
THAT'S when they miss you. By then their value has dropped so ow that taking him bac makes no sense.
😁😅🤣
Right 😂😂
Thank you Elliot. You have helped me so much!
Thanks - Excellent advice ! 👏👏👏
Thank you for this! ❤
I walked away from mine and then started getting texts and calls from fake numbers
Thank u 🧘♀️and there it is ✨️peace
Waste of time, he’s a game player. Why bother with making him feel regretful? Let him go, they’ll he someone better in your future.
Right on time
I blocked him from my social media but his friends are screenshotting everything. 😂
I love love love your honesty and straightforward approach
Very true
What if we don’t follow one another on social😊 media 😭
Who would want a man after all of that? If I get to a place where I’ve moved on and I’m happier without him, why would I invite Mr. Miserable back into my life? The math ain’t mathing here!!
MORE OF THESE SIMILAR TOPICS PLEASE!!!!
Give me some examples of topics you went vids on
@@ElliotScottDating how to really win the breakup / how to make an emotionally unavailable guy commit / what if i am the one who cut things off because he won’t commit etc ;)
@@ElliotScottDating and can you link me to your guides, i just want to buy 1-2 of them instead of the whole bundle as not all of then are applicable to my situation - thanks!
Also it’s been 6 months… should I move on??
Loving Elliot’s thumbnails of late.
You liking those? hahaha
Haha I just looked again at "Latest Videos" list and... yup. Seconded! ☺️👍
elliot!! love your videos as always! is it possible that if you stay away and make him feel like he lost you, that he'd give up because he feels like it's too late? my situationship i cut off about a month ago recently liked me on a different dating app and i'm unsure how to proceed or if i should like him back haha i was wondering if the reason he hasn't reached out through text is because i haven't liked him back on the app and he thinks i'm no longer interested? thank you!!
He misses the assets; if he really cared he would have asked for a relationship, not a situationship and he would be reaching out to you actively. Liking you on some app is a useless and lazy way to engage, if you even want to call it that. He was probably bored and just curious how you would react. You deserve a man who wants a relationship and will be direct with you. ❤️
Thats a breadcrumb he's wanting you to chase him then he's got you where he wants same as before even though you ended it. If you stay strong and see how much effort he is willing to put in and is he gna give you what u deserve
I broke up w/ my ex (DA = dismissive avoidant), because he showed inconsistency and, despite all the flowery language in the world, he did not show evidence he was ready to commit. He is also separated (living apart from his ex) for almost 2 years & no divorce settlement. But he acted like we were a great team …Yada yada … mainly as I was the patient partner and carrying the effort.
So it’s been 3 months I broke up and went NC. I miss him, and he’s tried to reach me, but no grand gestures etc.
Do you think he finally realized he was not ready or finally respects me enough to leave me alone since he can’t give me what I want?
Part of me hopes he is trying to get his 💩 together, because he knows I have higher standards. The logical (non-emotional) side of me says to continue healing and move forward without him.
In same situation, I am mentally moving on, do you think his ways will ever stop? 🤔 these kind of people are always insecure about their choice. Once he has you he will think about the other chick he let go of😢
@@CleanSweetHomeI’m sorry to hear you are in a similar spot as I am. Good on you for moving ahead! He’s not seeing anyone and wasn’t seeing anyone to my knowledge - we were very close for 8 months in a committed relationship. He just seemed like…a mess…disorganized and struggled with balancing his career and kids (with no co-parenting arrangement). He was very sad when I broke it off, but I felt he wasn’t ready and wasn’t willing to let me go so he could focus on getting life in order and finalizing the divorce.
But it took me breaking up with him a few times to get him to “see the light”, and I felt the efforts always came late/after the fact and was tired of the cycle.
It’s been 3 months. That is probably not long enough for someone to heal and get life balanced for a new person to enter.
I want to reach out to be friendly and maintain contact, but perhaps that’s selfish.
Thank you for engaging. ❤️🙏🏼
Continue healing and move forward without him
@@acertainslantoflight you are right. I must lean into that.
You were an option, move on and block!
What if he’s blocked lol
What is it about me that he doesn’t want?
He said he has difficulty with commitment yet recently updated his Bumble profile from “long term, open to short” to “long term only” and changed one of his photos.. he smokes weed to destress, plays video games, doesn’t communicate, his dog seems depressed, and I paid for our first and half our second meal (he’s a teacher so I stupidly thought, ok, he does this difficult job that no one wants to do and he’s good at it, but not compensated accordingly.) but his soul is unmatched and there’s physical attraction.
Do we have to sacrifice one of the three: their soul/character, our needs, and the chemistry? I’ve worked hard on my body, he loves it! I’m smart, I’m interested in many a thing, why wouldn’t he want me?
Suddenly he gives real advice what to do & not just leave us wondering & buying his course.
NO ONE HAS MONEY FOR THIS SH*
What about if I’ve removed him from my social media?
what if I dont have Social Media to post?
My problem is I took his wanting to be friends as true and have been trying to be his friend but he will just read my messages and not reply. We also have the same social circle so he always stares at me in person even though he has a new girl. He doesn’t think I’m really gone. Is there a way to fix this?
Yes, don’t go anywhere were he is and if you do talk with others and act like he’s a stranger don’t let him notice him watching you just act like he’s invisible
Does this work if I’m the one who broke things off because HE GAVE ME NO CHOICE? He didn’t treat me very well and I wasn’t allowed to air any grievances with him, without him turning it into a huge fight.
He’s playing victim because I ended things. He takes zero accountability for the things he’s said to me.
We were together 5 years, and yes we tried couples therapy.
If a man is mentally strong none of this matters
@@Dollaupt what do you mean?
@@J3nnycat a man with a strong mentality don’t live with regret
Why do u want someone who treated u badly? Grieve the relationship and move on! Focus on what’s ahead of you , not what’s in the rear view mirror
He sounds lazy and clueless. Find someone who actually cares...
where can i find out your about prices for coaching?
elliotscottservices.clickfunnels.com/pricing-page1659523299475
My ex came back fully after 3 months meaning last month he fully expressed that he wanted me back before that he was reaching out with random messages.
He has done this breakup thing before a few times too. And I think I'm done with his manipulative ass.
But still, I miss him terribly I don't know what to do?!
Also, I saw he followed two girls on his Insta. Its making me so mad.
Please give advice
He’s only back for the assets Elliot stresses this if he takes 3 months hes not back for you hes back because he failed at replacing you. Dont accept disappearing acts past a month.
The cycle will continue if you let it. I know. I was in that toxic cycle for 5 years! Don't be me. You are too valuable and beautiful to be treated that way. Step out of that box and re-invent yourself. That's what I'm doing and it feels really good. ♡
Exactly, although I stopped watching his stories and he's now hidden them altogether from me. What does that mean? Did I trigger his ego or?
He wanted you to notice that he hid them from you
It means you need to move on, girl
He's playing games. It's a waste of your time.
Put off your social media and the guy will never know what you are up to.
does this apply to a marriage? where the husband wants a divorce because he is bored?
In a marriage it's about communication and trying to work it out. If he is bored it's about resparking the interest. That's both of your jobs though not yours. Meaning try new things, actually be open to growing as a couple, trying to be a good spouse, and so on. Idk if you watched the movie "Fireproof" but that's a great example of how the husaband should be stepping up. It's corny and has a christian undertone but still amazing.
Are you talking to him about your feelings enough?
Maybe start spending less time around him and see how much it wakes him up
He gets back to his ex… so … think nothing will help …
4:40
What if he pulled away twice?
Then he's 100% out.
I ghosted this guy and blocked him for good because he pushed me away. Will he ever regret it?
@@sonyasspot355if he wasent emotionally attached it won’t effect him
@ElliotScottDating Thank you Elliot! I needed that closure!
Lol. I hope you ladies know the guy is charging thousands of dollars for something that's all in a $5 book. And he talks too much without really saying anything at all.
This was top tier advice. 🤌🏼