How Much Will He Think About You IF HE IS THE ONE Who Pulled Away?

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  • čas přidán 3. 07. 2024
  • Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
    Ever wondered why men pull away and what goes on in their minds post-breakup? In "The REAL Reason Men Pull Away & Reflect," dating coach Elliot Scott demystifies the male psyche for you. Let's jump right into it and unravel the complexities of what a man truly thinks when he's the one stepping back.
    With over a decade of experience guiding clients through the rollercoaster of dating and relationships, I am going to teach you:
    - The timeline of a man's thought process after a breakup
    - Why a man's ego and pride influence his decision to pull away
    - How and when he might start reflecting and possibly regretting his choices
    You will want to watch this video because I show you how to understand the signs, read between the lines, and interpret what's really happening when silence speaks louder than words. Here's what you'll find:
    1. Insight into a man's initial reaction after ending things
    2. The stages of reflection and the chance of him reaching out again
    3. The balance of assets vs. liabilities in his internal debate
    I'm no licensed professional, but my experience, knowledge, and the success stories from my clients speak volumes. Whether you're trying to "get a guy to like you," seeking "signs a guy likes you," figuring out "how to get your ex back," or simply craving authentic "relationship advice," this video is a goldmine.
    The link to my Regret Playlist, which is helping many just like you, is down below-so get it at the end of this video. Love you all, take care, and peace.
    CHAPTERS:
    0:00 - Guy's Thoughts When Pulling Away
    1:00 - Analyzing His Silence
    3:50 - Emotional Distance Reflections
    7:40 - Understanding Male Withdrawal

Komentáře • 49

  • @KomalJhaOnline
    @KomalJhaOnline Před 6 měsíci +43

    Mofo keeps stalking me on a daily basis inspite of being with another girl.

  • @MirandalindaL.A
    @MirandalindaL.A Před 4 měsíci +17

    He pulled away so i got the hint and i finally left. I was very loving caring and overall nice to him ❤ im now with another guy thats treating me nice and giving me the time of the day. Los Angeles CA

    • @jadaturner3972
      @jadaturner3972 Před 2 měsíci

      Did he come back??

    • @MirandalindaL.A
      @MirandalindaL.A Před 2 měsíci

      @@jadaturner3972 hi. Yes he's been texting constantly but I'm ignoring him. After me going on no contact I've realized I deserve better. I was all over him during the 2 year relationship but I felt I was just getting crumbs. No contact does work just have to be patient.

    • @MirandalindaL.A
      @MirandalindaL.A Před 2 měsíci

      @@jadaturner3972 yes he did. I went on no contact radio silence and he has been texting me constantly wanting to check in on me in all. I have been ignoring all text messages and he still trying I know he misses me it's obvious. After going on no contact I've realized I deserve better and I don't want him no more. I'm working on myself and have peace.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 Před 21 dnem

      I'm done with love. Done. Done. Done.

  • @julievanzile2482
    @julievanzile2482 Před 6 měsíci +13

    I was the one that had to walk away. I wasn't healed from my divorce and I didn't realize it until I was giving giving giving. Honestly I think I was too vulnerable and I didn't think I'd have feelings for someone. Wasn't ready for it.

  • @hushpuppies872
    @hushpuppies872 Před 6 měsíci +14

    I just met with a jerk who just used me and broke off in the most insensitive rude and nasty way. Ghosted me. I was like I mean how is that even possible? How can someone be so downright rude?

    • @edithk2997
      @edithk2997 Před 6 měsíci

      You met an asshole girl move on

    • @stefanieleavitt5224
      @stefanieleavitt5224 Před 6 měsíci +3

      Yeah, things seemed good and I got ghosted after 8 mos. Never heard from him again either.

    • @mmommo-hx4dx
      @mmommo-hx4dx Před 6 měsíci

      6 mos@@stefanieleavitt5224

    • @jent6476
      @jent6476 Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@stefanieleavitt5224 You will. They always come back. Of course, don't wait around for the wrong guy

    • @user-tt8vg7jk2u
      @user-tt8vg7jk2u Před 6 měsíci +2

      Guys are scared of comittment.

  • @lucyloo7457
    @lucyloo7457 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Amazing video! Makes total sense. Thanks so much!

  • @marilynm9426
    @marilynm9426 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Great video as always Elliot 👏 please post more often 🌹

  • @KomalJhaOnline
    @KomalJhaOnline Před 6 měsíci +8

    Why men come back after years ????

  • @angelaward6642
    @angelaward6642 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I pulled away from him and eventually rejected him. I know he says otherwise. I’m good. I started as soon as I friendzoned him after he avoided me and ghosted me. Plus he talked about his ex wife, and was going through a divorce. I wish him luck and rejected him. Yet he friended me and then i unfriended him. He was a manipulator and also emotionally unavailable. I walked away

  • @elenag6431
    @elenag6431 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Amazing advice

  • @ceelee126
    @ceelee126 Před 29 dny

    This was a great video. Its everything I needed to hear today, thank you

  • @alycer.8158
    @alycer.8158 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I fken love these-and yeah your my favorite coach...

  • @Cat-el4td
    @Cat-el4td Před 6 měsíci +6

    Thanks for the great advice. Oml Elliot u are looking mighty fine 😍

  • @Ravilette
    @Ravilette Před 3 měsíci

    Elliot, I can tell how much you talk to women effectively by how you qualify and repeat concepts respectfully. Haha, we are very emotionally intelligent and see between the lines very clearly. Thank you, for joining us 😂❤
    (Thanks for being so relatable) ✨

  • @Xbunnixxkilled
    @Xbunnixxkilled Před 6 měsíci +4

    Can you do a video on (dating apps) what to expect from a guy you havent met yet??? Like should he call you on the phone? Should he only text how often ??? and when you should finally meet in person?? how do you know if u should meet??? Thank youuu ❤

  • @Beautifullysaid
    @Beautifullysaid Před 6 měsíci

    Lol, I'm gone u too much, but good video. Happy holidays, keep up the good work

  • @blackcarriebradshaw
    @blackcarriebradshaw Před 6 měsíci +5

    Im about to hit 3 months of no contact. 😔What you said at 7:16…do men really think to themselves, “Im emotionally unavailable?” If so why don’t they just fix it?

    • @greybun5273
      @greybun5273 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Because… they… don’t wanna fix it?

    • @user-tt8vg7jk2u
      @user-tt8vg7jk2u Před 6 měsíci +2

      Because they don't want to put in the effort and work to fix it.

    • @user-tt8vg7jk2u
      @user-tt8vg7jk2u Před 6 měsíci

      @@greybun5273 Guys are scared of comittment. I'm so glad I'm staying single. I don't have to worry about stuff then. It's easier.

    • @hamood1424
      @hamood1424 Před 5 měsíci +1

      It’s not something that you can fix by command, you let time do the work.

  • @elizabethtorrez9232
    @elizabethtorrez9232 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Does this also pertain to a DA?

  • @panthers4440
    @panthers4440 Před 6 měsíci

    Any videos on what to do if you go down his fone & find msgs to other women ? Entertaining 3rd parties - he says he didn’t cheat ?! Like realy ?! 😅

  • @rare.3540
    @rare.3540 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Elliot! 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

  • @blanka9206
    @blanka9206 Před 3 měsíci

    My boyfriend ghost me a week ago, only because I stop helping him, so I pull away I think that's what he wanted he haven't rech out to me , I believe his waiting for me to contact him but I don't think I will so we can go back to the same his emotional he had always blame me for our argument he always gaslight the relationship and always blame me for it. I did alot for him and he leaf only because I stop helping him. 😢

    • @Zane-zr7ic
      @Zane-zr7ic Před 3 měsíci +2

      U pulled away cos u rhink he wanted it so ur doing it for him not urself u need to do it for urself if he's gaslighting u thikk urself lucky he's not reaching out uv had a lucky escape

    • @JoyHustles-cz3bn
      @JoyHustles-cz3bn Před 15 dny

      You should be happy he left because he showed you he was with you because of what he was getting from you....just taking and not giving back ....use this opportunity to shower yourself with love ,hobbies stay with people who can't breakup with you like family ....its a pattern and life rollercoaster

  • @afrintayeba2981
    @afrintayeba2981 Před 6 měsíci +2

    I dont think if he is just jump talking to other women,he cant be in his worst position...cz he cant feel void...any thought girls??

    • @us5freaak
      @us5freaak Před 6 měsíci +6

      What are you talking about

    • @musicbrazilian7065
      @musicbrazilian7065 Před 6 měsíci +14

      The best gift one can give a man is space to talk with other women because egotistical people attract narcisists folks. I am the one not calling back he does not deserve me I hope he meet someone as selffish as he is.

    • @Nono38-jj1tk
      @Nono38-jj1tk Před 6 měsíci +3

      What?

    • @LindaC444
      @LindaC444 Před 6 měsíci

      I think they try to pretend they're fine, enjoying their decision....and then it hits them. Especially if the girls they talk to don't compare to u

    • @LindaC444
      @LindaC444 Před 6 měsíci +3

      And that's why they call to check in/test a month or so later lol

  • @MoonFoxSassy
    @MoonFoxSassy Před 6 měsíci +4

    Daddy

  • @rayliddicoat7959
    @rayliddicoat7959 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Keep wearing black my dating coach❤. Are couple who have both been thru hell and divorced every love and trust again? I know you know Elliot 😮😮. Love from Julie in California