He's Emotionally Unavailable: When Will He Change And Commit?
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- čas přidán 14. 07. 2024
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Dating coach Elliot Scott asks the question many of you struggle with daily: can an emotionally unavailable man change his ways and commit? The answer is YES...with some big caveats. I'm going to teach you what it really takes for that distant, noncommittal guy to come around. Spoiler: it's not your job to fix him! Ladies, you'll want to watch this video because I show you how letting GO gives him the space for self-reflection. Ultimately real change happens when HE sees your value - and it rarely happens as quickly as we hope. But there are things you can do to maximize the chances he'll miss you and regret losing an amazing woman like yourself. So don't lose hope! The link to my free guide on getting guys to regret their mistakes is down below. Now let's jump right into the signs that he's finally ready for a real relationship.
CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Emotional Unavailability Transformation
0:50 - Male Change Dynamics
2:45 - Change Catalysts in Men
9:10 - Reasons Behind Male Transformation
10:38 - Making Him Regret Losing You
11:27 - Importance of Self-Improvement
13:04 - Coaching Services Offered
i come back to this video time and time again just to remind myself IT IS NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY TO CHANGE HIM AND BETTER HIM
Moral of the story...never until his own realization...
They can be emotionally unavailable but Karma don’t miss! I’ve seen it happen. The moment they want to commit to someone, it all goes wrong and their life fall apart. Then they come running back. The perfect time to reject them!! 😊
He needs to be a man of integrity, selflessness, and discipline first.
Noble is the word I'd describe it. A man with character and backbone. As rare as hens teeth these days.
Dont wait for a man to change. If you know your worth and what you want, it’s easier to let go.
TO ALL LADIES OUT THERE ……WHEN A MAN IS EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE TO YOU IS BECAUSE HE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR BEHIND YOUR BACK AND YOU HAVE NO IDEEA …TRUST ME ….I EXPERIENCED THIS IN MY “ marriage” ….run away …your person is a CHEATER.
Yup he like someone better than you.
He mostly has Satan in heart than God.
@@roser8911 you haven't understood
I agree. But i believe most of EUM are having affair with someone mentally, that's why they are not available for anyone else. They are broken hearted and waiting for that one girl.
@@mahiaggarwal6286yep. He’s still pining for his ex. They are in no contact, but his mind and heart belong to her. Not me.
He will commit when he finds the one he LOVES.
If he doesn't commit to you, then sorry, girl, but you are not "the one" for him. Move on.
That part
it's not always that clear. But that's just my opinion.
Ur watching this too so I assume a guy isn’t committing to u soooo take ur own advice? Clearly he doesn’t love u either
@@pizzelle2 You do realize the one means someone they would like to marry and be with. It doesn’t mean a magical person it simply means wanting to be with someone for life and to start their journey together.
@@pizzelle2this 🙌🏾
"They're all from NY City, and they're all talking to this same guy..."
*What the...* 🤣🤣🤣🤣
He sendin' you many clients man...
Probably west elm caleb😂😂
@@ToriHarris-lb6zg 😀
Elliot this one of my favorite videos you made. It really takes the sting out of dating an emotionally unavailable man and teaches women the pride and self love of walking away. After watching this I don’t want to be the one who sticks around. Just dumped my emotionally unavailable ex who I suspect is also a covert narcissist and a serial cheater, living life just like than man you described in this video. I purposely didn’t block him on Facebook so he can see me moving on, healing and being the bad ass bitch you talk about to someone who is more worthy. I’m hoping it doesn’t come back to bite me where I actually see him moving on with the woman who finally motivates him to change though. 😢 but there is really nothing else I can do but eventually have a beautiful life and find my own person. Your videos help me so much, thank you ❤
THE MAIN PICTURE THOOOO 💍 CUMON ELLIOT it’s too good 😂
My ex was a serial cheat, now he chases me … if he wants me he wants me. Can’t be bothered with mind games. I’m just getting on with life.
As a man ima let you know He doesn’t want you. He only wants you for sex. Just because a man wants you for sex doesn’t mean he likes you. When I was younger I would have sex with women that were a 2 on the attraction scale to a 10. Most men will literally have sex with anything. And if you don’t have sex with him he might be bummed out but he will purse sex with someone else.
My cheating ex started pursuing me too for another chance after I detached and was in no contact for years but I realize now that he's a dusty.
@@basicinfo2022what’s a dusty?
I know men need a relationship with God before they can have a relationship with women.
Spot on as always really needed to hear this 🙏
Especially the part with the fear of letting him go and the hope which is holding me back
Sending lots of energy to everyone who is going through of letting go process 🫶
i screamed when he said he still don’t feel bad 😭😭😭
One of my favorite videos of yours ❤
Love the sharing and empathy
Good video Scott! 👍🏻
😂🤣John from the UK- loving this story!
In my experience: never.
They fast open up when they meet the girl/woman they love immidiatly ! You will see how fast then marriage follows or proposal, trust me. SAD TRUTH
I really like your way and this video 😀
One thing though: You're putting your own story as a measure-but there is men who are *really* messed up. So i think you can't compare these to you, they would have a lot more healing to do than you. From what i see, a man can really run from a woman *because* he really likes her. I've even done that to men that i found really interesting-the more interest the faster i ran.
...because i was scared...
@@CeciledeLuireAre you a dismissive avoidant? If yes, do you prefer to end up alone instead of working on your fears?
@@ninaziva4639 no 😂 i had a year or two when i was so traumatized by a few things that i just could not trust any more. But generally i'm a lover ; )
I need this video. Thank you.
All this is useless.If he wanted you truly he wouldnt have to be almost forced into being with you.Let his fucking person go for your own good and benefit 💓
Factssss
Some women need to have all the reasons spelled out for them.
@@richerDiLefto yeah I understand 😿
Never.
Im so in love with him.... its about how he make me feel...
One billion dollar question
💯
Should be holding put a ring pop
Im actually starting to move on... Although yes, hope my family will be one again, yes, but i have been dating and started new job and back hitting the gym and happy..my life is great! Except the confusion with my marriage, he tells me he knows ill never let him go, which is not true, i feel i may file soon.... What do i say to him, when i tell him im on flight or fight, he says ill never go ? I dont know what to do, sux hes so confident that i wont leave, but i know im on the brink 😢
Sexond thing, how do i cut him out so he sees hes missing things in his kids life, and that i am miving forward.
NEVER .
What I wish is for me to stop being the lesson I want to be at the end of when these guys realize yup not fucking up this
Can you do a video about this ?
I just think you and I need to go on a date, babe.
If you cute, yes! If you ugly, then I would but the holidays are coming up and it's gonna be busy for me so idk when I'll have time.
Chrissy you know he's just like the rest of them 😂
@ElliotScottDating you can be the most prettiest girl and a narcissistic man will make you feel unloved and neglected during holidays because he's insecure and or broke.
Jennifer Aniston us to basic for you lol
I will agree Jennifer Anniston does look basic to me she looks like most of these white women on the streets