Hey Elliot, I've read all 6 of your guides last week, literally binged it all. They are very straight to the point and helpful to my situation, especially the FILTERING MEN guide - where I literally asked some of the questions you suggested on a recent first date, they helped a LOT. Thank you for the gems
Yep! I did this recently. Walked away from a situationship because he wouldn’t commit and went NC. I wasn’t bluffing. I was done. He came back 5 mos later and I told him he doesn’t get a chance unless he commits. He said he was ready now for a relationship. I told him I needed 2 mos to decide after getting reacquainted and that after the end of those two months if we weren’t both committed, that was it for me. I’m still deciding if I’ll say yes even if he’s serious. I may say no. If he backs out, I will be blocking him and I will not desire to talk to him ever again. Oh, and I should mention he isn’t getting any sugar walls this time either. He knows what it’s like. So he doesn’t get to come back for assets. He’s being tested for sincerity. We shall see if he passes. He has one month left to convince me.
@@gracefullyrachel6573 he did end up committing. I had to bring it up and I was kind about it but firm on my resolve. I told him I didn’t want him to do it unless he wanted to though and he said he wouldn’t do anything he didn’t want and he didn’t want to lose me so we’ve been together now a few months officially. But I’m honestly still not sure if he’s going to be able to show up for me the way I personally need. I guess we shall see.
The man should be the one proposing a commitment. If not then he is not in his masculine role, wants to cheat in peace or is deeply insecure so wants you to chase him and inflate his ego...
If he comes back, have your shopping list ready for your time and charge him a unblock fee. Without consequences or punishment, they won't change their bad behaviour.
I agree with you Elliot ! if he comes back is everything or nothing , he knows where the door is. And I’m not wasting my time anymore. But while and if that happens I’m not waiting , I am meeting new people , he’ll be lucky if I’m single when he comes back.
He' right. In 2 cases. The guy won't even drive across town to see me, yet after I say I've had enough. He's in shock mode and moves to another state for another girl and soon comes the ring for another girl. Sometimes you have to be willing to walk away In both cases, if I would have taken the guy back and told him what a jerk he was-I would have been the girl with the ring. But yes, it's a negotiation.
I think that if a man and I broke up because he didn’t want to commit, and then he came back later, saying that he wanted to commit I probably would be skeptical. I probably wouldn’t be 100% in and there would be a significant period where he would need to prove himself before, I would go for it. That being said this has never actually happened to me. Most men seem to just self disqualify once they know that I’m serious about a commitment. And I don’t need to move in with someone right away or get married but I need some type of verbalization that there is a commitment between the two of us.
I want to get married and he knows it from the beginning of our relationship and he just lead me on about he will marry me. But when we broke up, I heard from his friend Helena that he is never be ready to get married. So it helps me move on fast knowing that the 3 yrs relationship we have is just a big LIE. So no for a LIER
I had this scenario a few months ago. He came back. I told him I’d only see him if he wanted a relationship and he agreed. We’ve been together now but I can’t shake the feeling that he only did it so he doesn’t lose me not because that’s what he really wanted. Thoughts?
I think this guy was love bombing me.🤣 He brought me everything I wanted took me everywhere. Then he said he wanted me to buy him something and or go half. I said na. I can't afford it I never asked for nothing I always said I would pay for myself. He always said no it's ok. 🤷
@ELLIOT I was dating a guy for 3 months. We both had said I love you. We were in a ltr. On our last date he said we were taking things day by day. We broke up after that. Why would a guy see things as day to day in a ldr?
Hey Elliot, I've read all 6 of your guides last week, literally binged it all. They are very straight to the point and helpful to my situation, especially the FILTERING MEN guide - where I literally asked some of the questions you suggested on a recent first date, they helped a LOT. Thank you for the gems
That means a lot thank you so much.
He came back and I wanted to observe a few things by not given all my energy. Only to realise that nothing has change.
Yep! I did this recently. Walked away from a situationship because he wouldn’t commit and went NC. I wasn’t bluffing. I was done. He came back 5 mos later and I told him he doesn’t get a chance unless he commits. He said he was ready now for a relationship. I told him I needed 2 mos to decide after getting reacquainted and that after the end of those two months if we weren’t both committed, that was it for me. I’m still deciding if I’ll say yes even if he’s serious. I may say no. If he backs out, I will be blocking him and I will not desire to talk to him ever again. Oh, and I should mention he isn’t getting any sugar walls this time either. He knows what it’s like. So he doesn’t get to come back for assets. He’s being tested for sincerity. We shall see if he passes. He has one month left to convince me.
He has to spend big cash to get anything. to prioce he is serious.
Any Updates, did he commit @AD-hh6dd
@@gracefullyrachel6573 he did end up committing. I had to bring it up and I was kind about it but firm on my resolve. I told him I didn’t want him to do it unless he wanted to though and he said he wouldn’t do anything he didn’t want and he didn’t want to lose me so we’ve been together now a few months officially. But I’m honestly still not sure if he’s going to be able to show up for me the way I personally need. I guess we shall see.
The man should be the one proposing a commitment. If not then he is not in his masculine role, wants to cheat in peace or is deeply insecure so wants you to chase him and inflate his ego...
💯 this is accurate!
He has a motive. I recently did this and it was the best feeling ever . Dodged a major time waster
I've said it before and I'll say it again: Elliot is a dating genius!! Another gem- thank you Elliot!!
Only if you mean it:)
Im so glad Im single!
There isnt any, sorry. He CHOSE to leave so never take him back.
lol 😂 so true. If comes back again… let him go again. lol 😂
If he comes back, have your shopping list ready for your time and charge him a unblock fee. Without consequences or punishment, they won't change their bad behaviour.
@@basicinfo2022 Your terms of conditions would be better then punishment, if you want a win win committment
Who are your guys???Willie Lujan
This is very true, always regreted giving someone second chance, they mess everything up at the end even worse than the first time
If he ghosts - you should not want him.
I agree with you Elliot ! if he comes back is everything or nothing , he knows where the door is. And I’m not wasting my time anymore. But while and if that happens I’m not waiting , I am meeting new people , he’ll be lucky if I’m single when he comes back.
The answer Is : NEVER.. Did I get an A+++?
"If you both want the same thing and you both want to avoid risk, it would be jumping into a relationship." I like that a lot. 👍🏼
Legit. No lies detected. I'm glad you chose this as your life's work
Love that comment 🌟
lol whyyyy does the thumbnail look like you’re doing a super complicated math equation
Yay! The return of the whiteboard blackboard❤
OMG board is back! Loved it 🎉
Hope you like it
I love the black board too.
Yes professor scott in town 😊
Don't stay hoping, actions above words. no negotiations anymore. Period🎉
He' right. In 2 cases. The guy won't even drive across town to see me, yet after I say I've had enough. He's in shock mode and moves to another state for another girl and soon comes the ring for another girl. Sometimes you have to be willing to walk away In both cases, if I would have taken the guy back and told him what a jerk he was-I would have been the girl with the ring. But yes, it's a negotiation.
Elliot is the best❤
Lol I’m intrigued by your board behind you there.
You are just like me and I love your lessons you’re helping so many women
Thank you , needed this video. Got back together ish with my situationship but im learning to set boundaries
Best explanation ever and so true
I think that if a man and I broke up because he didn’t want to commit, and then he came back later, saying that he wanted to commit I probably would be skeptical. I probably wouldn’t be 100% in and there would be a significant period where he would need to prove himself before, I would go for it. That being said this has never actually happened to me. Most men seem to just self disqualify once they know that I’m serious about a commitment. And I don’t need to move in with someone right away or get married but I need some type of verbalization that there is a commitment between the two of us.
I want to get married and he knows it from the beginning of our relationship and he just lead me on about he will marry me. But when we broke up, I heard from his friend Helena that he is never be ready to get married. So it helps me move on fast knowing that the 3 yrs relationship we have is just a big LIE. So no for a LIER
Can you do a video diffresnses between assets and relationship?
How to know man is commited, and onest and emotionaly ready
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I had this scenario a few months ago. He came back. I told him I’d only see him if he wanted a relationship and he agreed. We’ve been together now but I can’t shake the feeling that he only did it so he doesn’t lose me not because that’s what he really wanted. Thoughts?
If he loves the variety of women more he will not commit because he doesnt want to loose that freedom
I think this guy was love bombing me.🤣 He brought me everything I wanted took me everywhere. Then he said he wanted me to buy him something and or go half. I said na. I can't afford it I never asked for nothing I always said I would pay for myself. He always said no it's ok. 🤷
@ELLIOT I was dating a guy for 3 months. We both had said I love you. We were in a ltr. On our last date he said we were taking things day by day. We broke up after that. Why would a guy see things as day to day in a ldr?
Could you make a video on how to get princess treatment?
That's not a thing lol
Thanks
I guess just dont get too hopefull about a comittment.
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Hope deferred makes the heart sick. - That's what the Bible said.
i been watching this man for YEARS lmaooo and i have learned nothing
😂😂😂 I see so that’s how he makes his money
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