I mean maybe he wanted to know if it was like legal and stuff you better to back out before then after I mean you could interpret it negatively or positively
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 me thinks he might have social anxiety and was told to go out and talk to strangers. he's not a POS like many says, he's just misguided is all. anywho, i'm sure he learned a lot from this conversation that will help him in life. such as "What is Kent?"
"the worst that can happen is her saying no" *The actual worst that can happen:* Charlie makes fun of you in a CZcams video and millions of people see it
@@meowtherainbowx4163 after maybe 3 uncertain social cues he got from her, he should’ve just told her he likes her and he wants to see if they can hangout sometime and if she she said no, he could move on.
Anyone that goes up to an employee to flirt has no concept of social function. They are literally obligated to interact with you and be polite. How could any human with a brain not see that no matter what, you won't get a reliably 'real' response from someone in this situation? It's like guys who think strippers really like them. "Nah man, she told me her REAL name!" ok pal.
I like that phrasing. He wasn’t merely not getting those cues; he clearly picked up on her being uncomfortable but chose not to acknowledge that because he felt entitled to behave that way
@@vgaportauthority9932 I think his problem is more he’s too focused on trying to ask her out instead of asking himself if he SHOULD ask her out. Autistic people are capable of being able to tell if a conversation is flowing naturally despite struggling with social cues. Especially since conversation can be a struggle in the first place. But yeah, that conversation wasn’t flowing and I think he could tell but he was just hoping maybe he could turn it around in his favor and he was clearly nervous. A lot of people struggle when it comes to dating and it doesn’t matter if the person is autistic or not^_~
an obviously shy and nervous guy telling you youre beautiful then running away would be funny and endearing, much preferable to you sticking around afterwards lol
This truly is Dark Charlie. It's the complete opposite: -Shirt is dark instead of white -Shirt is buttoned instead of not -Shirt is long sleeved instead of short sleeved
@@Petero3 yeah a part of me is like "wtf" but the other part of me understands he is probably just really really lonely, i used to be a lonely ass mf and when you dont speak to a single human being in like 5 years you start talking like this, luckily i chose to just try and make friends with some people first and learn from the way they talk but even now sometimes i have a bit of trouble with communication, like if someone drops hints i just will not get it, people have to be as straight forward with me as possible, the guy in this video really just needs proper guidance on how to be more social
@@Petero3 yeah but at the same time he's making another person uncomfortable, might ruin her day too, sometimes i do wanna start a conversation with a human being, but since I'm too nervous of being like that guy, i just mind my own business. That's the reality of being an awkward guy, no one cares for you, so you either need to become like that dude or be alone not interacting with anyone
As someone who frequently received these uncomfortably long, skin crawlingly creepy 'flirtatious encounters' from random men (who were ALWAYS between 5-15 years older than I was) from the time I was 14 until my mid-twenties. This video brought the memories flooding back. I bought fake wedding rings to wear to work. I didn't wear makeup. Always wore my hair in a ponytail or loose bun. As a pharmacy tech our uniform had a button up vest and a name tag for crying out loud! There are far more of these 'persistent' guys than most men realize. As much as things are getting better, women are still socialized to be polite, helpful, collaborative, and amiable. We're taught to consider other people's feelings before our own. Working in retail or customer service drills these traits into you further. You do what you can to make _suggestions_ that you're not available, such as wearing a fake 'wedding ring' or mentioning your real or imaginary significant other. But like others have said, there are always men who refuse to take rejection. I had one guy in his early 70s, who called my work so often just "ask me about my day" that _I got written up for it_ because his harassing calls interfered with our normal workflow. The old guy brought me a some kind of Smooth Jazz CD with a nude woman in shadows on the cover. When I refused his gift telling him that as pharmacy employees we aren't allowed to accept gifts of any kind as they can be considered 'bribes'. He 'forgot' the CD when he left. My coworkers had to screen all the incoming calls. When he hadn't heard my voice in 3-4 days he showed up at the pharmacy in person. When I arrived for my afternoon shift the cashier at the front of the store said my "boyfriend" had been by an hour earlier looking for me and said he'd be back later. I kept my cool. Gave him back his CD. Told him that his continued unwanted attention was causing issues for me with my supervisor. I had no problem helping him with anything pharmacy related but I could not engage in casual conversations with him while I was working. He apologized and left. I got written up again because the panic attack I had immediately in my car immediately after that encounter took longer than the 15-minute 'break' I was allowed. He left a voicemail once on the pharmacy voicemail system that had maybe 15 seconds of audio from a Michael Bublé song and then the old man saying, with a creepy and unnatural southern drawl, "I've gotta you under my skin, honey." That old guy is just one of literally dozens like him. Let me be clear, I'm not even a knockout/bombshell. I've always been somewhat overweight. I'm definitely average looking without makeup (how I am 99% of the time) but when I want to put in the effort, I 'clean up' pretty well. Moral of the story: Dropping the complement and running away is completely acceptable (and preferable) in most cases.
The older guys are always such creeps, I know how you feel, I used to get that crap working retail too. Like much older men buying and bringing my stuff as if that would somehow make me interested 🙄 and when I'm not even working they are still trying to talk to me, get my attention, etc. I have social anxiety and really don't like to be bothered by strangers and it just makes the experience so much worst
I don't even compliment because I don't want to come across creepy or more weird than I already am. Ever since my divorce, I've just accepted the fact that I'm going to die as alone then as I am today.
@@AChunkyDog You can always have pets. I too am going to die alone, but I have actually grown to like the idea of living forever alone, with just a dog or a cat for company..
@@AriAriAriAriAriAriariariarihuj chose a real bad lifetime to be autistic then didnt I 😩😩😩 Fairly certain the only thing that seperates me and them is the confidence to talk to someone for such an extended period 😔🙌
she should use this video for job interviews for retail. very VERY few retail workers are able to maintain that level of professionalism in the face of such discomfort
As a female who has worked in retail...yes, NEVER hit on someone who is on the clock. You come off as someone who is taking advantage of the fact that the they are on the job and HAS to be nice to you. Don’t ask them “what time are you off of work? What days do you work? How old are you? Where do you go to school?” And especially, “What are you doing after work?” Those are all creeper questions used by both old and young guys.
Never done it myself but I gotta ask, without using dating apps how and when can a dude ask a woman on a date or attempt to flirt without being a “creep”
@@xGhostKidx9I think people should observe and understand social cues. Obviously the guy in the video probably lacks that. If you can tell the person is uncomfortable, it's probably a good idea to stop. I'd say if it's someone you see work in a place you usually go to, I think the long game is better. Leaving a compliment here and there, wishing a good day. At some point, the person will feel more comfortable and be more receptive to conversations. It'll be easier to ask them out. I think the problem with dating is that people seem in a hurry to get laid, that's a put off for many others.
Good rule of thumb is to just never flirt with someone at work. Nobody is looking for love on shift. They just wanna collect that paycheck and go home. And because of "the customer's always right" bullshit, we're not allowed to tell you to f*ck off as blatantly as this guy clearly needs it to be
I always wonder if Charlie does a significant amount of hair care, or if he uses 6 in 1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, mouthwash, and motor oil.
@@invincibleunderthesun8545 Since we live in a world where it’s considered harassment to talk to women if you aren’t above average looking, I have to agree.
There's a straightforward trick to avoid unnecessary awkwardness. When you ask her the first two questions and notice that she's not very attentive, i.e. doesn't elaborate at all, just ask her "you're not really interested in having a conversation, are ya?". She'll likely respond "no", to which you say "fair enough, I won't bother you, have a lovely day" and walk away. It's really that simple.
@Heuristics Well, if that's how you want to perceive it, ok. In my world, if you're in doubt, asking if someone doesn't want to have a conversation and politely wishing them a good day is something to be expected, but again, maybe it's a cultural difference. From experience, I can say that some people are very introverted and shy, so it takes a while for them to open up. They don't necessarily want you to leave even when they don't seem very talkative at first, it's actually quite common. Simply checking if a girl is interested in talking with you isn't an assault.
Theres a difference between "I think you're beautiful!" and running away because you felt embarrassed and cringey, to a man forcing his flirting to a woman who is clearly uncomfortable about him. At least the former still has the decency to save himself and the girl from awkwardness and embarrassment, compared to Mr. Bad Boy here having no self-awareness, and social etiquette at all.
He honestly thought "I'll get her with this next line" after every failed attempt, like she was just waiting for him to ask her to play hacky sack on the beach.
Charlie’s character arc these past months wearing other colors than white is nothing short of inspiring. Maybe if we’re lucky we’ll see him in a red shirt. Maybe blue.
Tried to flirt with random girls once. I realized quickly they were very uninterested and luckily got saved by a friend before I could shamefully walk away. Not going for that strategy again, I'll happily be a virgin until I find a woman I vibe with instead of trying to pick up random girls in the club.
“You’re not the main character in the world. So stop acting like it.” True words. If everyone thought this once in a while there’d be a whole lot less bullshit
what impresses me is how he can still talk to her while she gives him the most violently deadpan expression i've ever seen in my life. As a socially awkward asshat when I talk to girls even when things are nice and cordial i'm so uncomfortable inside that i'd rather shove my arm into a box of peruvian centipedes but this man can endure waves of "please leave oh my god I could not be less interested in you it's physically impossible" vibes. Amazing. How to become that atomically dense? they could build reactor casings out of him.
You just get people like that plus the confidence i guess is admirable even if its misplaced, its fine, they talk to you even as a guy and are Trina get you to hang out with them, or decide to sit next to you if its uni, and you working, most of the time its fine you just say your woking, sometimes you have to say I’m off then just move to the next room.
@@expressrobkill Yikes, that type of tenacity isn't admirable at all. He didn't take any of the obvious social cues she was pushing - no social media, no specifics on where she's from, a deadpan expression, etc. Guys like this shouldn't be complimented because of their determination, they should be educated on how to read the most basic of cues that the other person is uncomfortable.
i wouldnt exactly say its impressive moreso extremely sad bc it either means hes just that entitled he thinks she'll eventually change her mind or plain delusional, probably both
@@expressrobkill i would say its more keen to a social disorder of some kind rather than admirable. There is a huge difference between confidence and being an egotistical sociopath 🤣 A confidant man would have picked up the first que of disinterest, bid her a good day and moved right along like nothing was wrong. it is what it is, hits and misses.
@@heckingbamboozled8097 I honestly need those kinds of classes ur talking about, as well as a full comprehensive guide on when I should reveal what about the various facets of my personality. I genuinely felt awful for this guy, since I'm currently going through his exact situation, with a twist. I honestly feel like I need to get a girlfriend before I become famous because if I'm still single by then, women will never ever love me for me, and they'll only want to marry me to then divorce me and take half of my money, and if I resist, Johnny Depp (physically and emotionally assault me and then publicly sue me for all I've got for physically and emotionally assaulting her) me and absolutely destroy my life. I was born with ADD, ADHD, and a "lucky strain" of Autism (Asperger's) that enhanced my mind instead of turning me into a vegetable. I grew up with no real friends, and I could only trust and talk to myself. Then I became incredibly smart, knowing the nature of human beings and how we're hardwired to serve ourselves, even if we help others, and now I'm cursed with this unshakeable outlook. I wish I could say that I was just a mindless mysoginist, because then it would be possible for me to change for the better alone. Btw, I already copied this comment and took it to Reddit.
i feel so bad for that girl. no matter how attractive a girl i met was, if she couldn't walk away then i never hit on her. its such a shitty thing to hit on a girl that is working and can't leave
Or at least just make it short and gtfo when they hint disinterest. "Hey, I've seen you here a couple times, would you be interested in going out/can I get your number", "no", "sorry to bother you, have a nice day". Sure it's awkward, but fucking hell it's done and over.
Yeah I hate people who try to hit on people in the service industry. You are automatically in a position of power, since they have to be nice to you and they can´t escape.
As a young woman in retail, the "getting to know you" convo behind a counter is painful. Seeing the same person multiple times over a few weeks and then them asking for a name/number is WAY different than someone trying to learn all about you in 30 seconds.
As a member of multiple retail discussion groups. I asked the best way to befriend a cashier without looking like a creep. Consensus was that there is no way. If you’re not already friends it’s off limits. Which sucks... because I really want to joke around when my cashier gives me a look after saying “it’s ok, I’ll make it fit” without going to jail
@@KB-fk3jj usually id be hesitant to comment on this kind of take, but to be fair especially after this vid i totally agree, and tbh ive been doing that myself for all my life so far.
@@dylanzrim3635 tbf it really does depends. I mean the most important thing to have is confidence. Sometimes when the cashier or in general, if she's cute i would ask her questions or i would say she's pretty, Mostly it usually ends well.
I don't understand how this guy just stood around for so long. Whenever I go up to the register, I always want to get out of there as fast as possible.
To be entirely fair, Charlie. I'm sure she would have taken "you're beautiful" wayyyyy better than "ArE yOu In HiGh ScHoOl" and asking specifically where she goes to school. You would have fared better than this creepo
Yeah exactly, some other peeps in the comments are completly missing the point, this guy is NOT just trying to make conversation, he's litterally acting like a goddamn predator and tbh its not just cringe, its fucking creepy. Hope i'll never meet someone like that.
Flirting is not asking intense personal questions like “how old are you…” this dude was giving the biggest stalker vibes ever… good on her for using fake info
@@kingofluck2912 the age was the least of the issue, then it went to education, which college, is it far from here? He was talking to her like he was interviewing her for a job... And the worst is, she is an employee so she has to be polite and can't walk away either. This was not a woman asking a guy questions in a bar... I feel bad for her, because he didn't do anything that would justify kicking him out.. so all she can do is endure it.
@@dumgreat9886 Wouldn't be surprised. 99% of the bollocks spewed out on TikTok is. Basically if it's on there take whatever you're seeing with a miniscule pinch of salt...
Yet this isn't being said about the girl. How about HER learning how to reject a guy properly? The autistic spectrum is wide and very common among men. Just because YOU don't have it doesn't mean you should shit on men who seem to have it.
when i was single usually id go with the "hows your day going? oh cool. same here so when ya off?? cool ima go grab dinner that day. you should join me... " approach.. short simple to the point.. and works like half the time. he could have just done that js... geez this was painful.
The worst part about these situations is you can’t leave. You’re at work, and they have to be the one to leave the building. It is so uncomfortable. I can’t imagine how she felt.
american culture is weird. If someone here tried that he'd get something between "if you have something related to my position, you can ask, otherwise ... " to "ugh dude just shut up" after like the third awkward question
i think she made a related video abt how she was the only one in the store too and she had to answer some of his questions purely because she was worried he might do something if he rejected her, i feel so bad for her
what’s fucked up is that she’s arguably justified in being annoyed by this interaction, but was harrassed on tiktok for posting this by thousands of men calling her “stuck up” for reacting to him this way and then her account got banned because of it
@@IzanamisBurden look at the replies of the comments in this section defending her. They are seriously doing the same thing. Belittling women and saying she was wrong. Incels everywhere
Nobody was in the wrong, neither the girl nor guy. The guy has the right to be socially awkward, the girl has the right to be an asshole. It isn't illegal.
I used to work for a licensed Starbucks, and there was this older man who would always walk around the store and talk to all the female employees. Eventually he started coming up to me and try to talk to me, and whenever I had a line he would stand and wait on the side while I helped customers. I hated this more than words can describe. Plus he would always try and bring me things (I refused but he would leave anyway) and asked me to go get coffee with him - Bear in mind, I was stuck in my department and if I walked away I couldn’t do my job - after I said no, he came in the next day and slammed his hands on the counter and raised his voice at me “since you won’t go and get coffee with me, can I at least get one now!?” I have transferred to at least two different stores because my job has changed, and somehow he has found me each time. Last weekend he showed up looking for me after calling multiple stores. He left me some books, but my heart sank when I saw him - I ran the opposite way into the offices. I was running the store that day covering for my boss, so I had another male coworker tell me when he left because I was hiding in the back. It sucks, but moral of the story: don’t flirt or harass people in customer service, it’s pathetic because not only are you distracting workers from doing their jobs but you’re just making them far more uncomfortable in a place that they go to every day to make their money.👏
You know it's bad when he pulls out the "Do you have Instagram?", and even worse when he gets a negative answer and pulls out the "You're too cool for Instagram?"
that's the thing with men like this.. once he finally clues in you're not interested you kinda have to worry he's going to start screaming that you're an uptight bitch
@@ordinaryhand The thing with women like this - older they get easier to pick up, like dawg dookie she's 19 and picky, she'll come around once she hits 40, lol
I have some really good friends that don't really give full sentences for an answer or even one word because they are socially awkward or just dont like talking
@@DefinitelyDux I do that with friends. If I'm talking to a new person I will at least make an effort to answer in full sentences if I want to make a good impression. Follow this advice, if she's giving one word answers leave her alone. Coming from a woman who doesn't like to talk much.
Honestly, it's good to have some self-respect, if she isn't showing interest in you, why pursue? It's like when women are super dry on dating apps and expect you to entertain them, it's insulting to you if you go overboard like this as well. And this aint even a dating app.
Not only is she giving curt one word responses, she's not asking him followup questions/ continuing the conversation, isn't smiling, tries to avoid eye contact with him.... dude turned off his GPS and stopped looking at road signs and is now upset bc hes lost
Correct. There’s no shame in making an effort and getting turned down. But once it’s blatantly clear a person doesn’t like you, just stop before you embarrass yourself permanently
I’ve seen guys hovering around the cashier ladies at GameStop from time to time and always feel bad for them (cashiers). One dude even dropped the “I can leave if you want me to” line, as if an employee would be able to show them off without risking getting into trouble.
It's painfully obvious that this happens to her all the time, too. She had her fake name, fake school, etc. all prepared and everything. It's not just the cringe that hurts here.
If the guy really liked her he should have applied for a job there, worked with her for several months and earned her trust, then asked her out in a casual, non-threatening way. You gotta put in the work dude. Otherwise you're just another pathetic dork creeper.
@Kino if you’re a stranger asking me for the locations I go to on a daily basis, my social media and my number be grateful she deals with you in private 😂
@Kinoyou’re saying she, a woman should’ve manned up? Yeah you wonder why women barely do that anymore cause on the news women get followed home and raped and killed for saying no nowadays. I don’t understand why you’re basically on creepy dudes side 🤨
Women are allowed to reject flirting and they don’t owe you like over the top politeness all the time. It makes me upset that men got upset at HER over the video
Don't worry, those "men" aren't real men to start with. A real man or should I say a real decent human being that happens to be a man would know that shit is 100% wrong
@@spirit_green there's no such thing as a real man. Being a man isn't a title of nobility it's just something that happens to people by nature of being themselves. No man is more or less a man and nobody is able to stop being a man (let me be clear that's not anti-trans, trans people don't just become anything they were always something and are just trying to figure it out). Also even if there were real men and guys like that are fake men, fake men still exist. They don't just conveniently stop bothering people because you decided their man card is invalid. I do like your correction at the end. This is about decency. Of course there can be exceptions like someone who is autistic could still be a decent human being in this situation as not recognizing nonverbal cues or proper situations to initiate certain kinds of interactions is very much a struggle for many people with ASD.
@@katocs I think a different term should be used. "Real man" implies there are less than real or fake men. Logically any man who hasn't been given that extra accommodation would be among the fake or less than real. Also "Real Man" has negative associations as well such as not seeking mental help or expressing emotions in a healthy way and in some cases to some people being a "real man" includes disrespecting or mistreating women. Another issue with using "real man" instead of "good person" or similar is that it seems to only apply to men. Women can achieve the same virtues, I think the term should be gender-neutral.
I am so impressed with her unbelievable ability to put out as many uncomfy signals as possible, almost as impressed as I am with the guy for ignoring them
The thing with flirting is, it's all about reading the other person. You shoot your shot, and if you miss you move on. This man missed, and proceeded to unload a double drum magazine and wasn't even close to landing a single shot. He missed so bad he shot at the broad side of a barn and hit the next barn over, and he somehow didn't realize how disinterested she was. From my experience, the best thing you can do is just chat and maybe get some form of communication with them and try to develop a friendship first. 99% of the time just walking up to someone and flirting with them is just gonna shock them and then weird them out. Play the slow game with multiple people at once and you'll have more success, and likely make friends out of your failures.
You are 100% right. Many people don't feel comfortable flirting with strangers, it's natural. It's especially bad in this situation because hitting on someone who's working... she can't walk away from the interaction, and since her job is Customer Service she also needs to try to stay polite and patient.
Even better advice: Don't treat it like a "game". It's not a game, it's building a relationship. Calling it a "slow game" makes it sound like you're still not there to treat them like an actual person with their own goals and desires.
Working retail, I'm fully prepared to tell someone I'm 17 and if they don't stop after telling them to quit it to get my manager. Which is what people should do, actually TELL people you're not interested. Because they will not get it this way. Girl, stand up for yourself, tell him to piss off.
Every time it cuts back to the video I'm surprised the guy isn't done yet. It is so painful to see her again giving short answers to his stupid questions
People saying maybe he has autism or anxiety, I have autism and anxiety and responding to "okay you're all done" with "am I really though" is so cocky and not at all anything that would cross my mind lmao. That's pretentious and creepy and very strange. I think he said it TWICE as well. And then he stuck around for longer. Im like Charlie, if I'm anxious I'm getting out of there as fast as possible. Im not coming up with some weird cocky shit on the spot
exactly no person with anxiety would act that way I have it idk about if autistic people do but anxiety definitely isn't like that i would be too anxious to even ask her a simple question yet alone act like a cocky dck head like him
I have anxiety too and I'm in the middle of trying to get tests to see if I have autism since my teachers have been telling me they think I have it (they work in special ED and are trained in that) and with anxiety, nope. Would not. Most I would be saying is "Sorry." If my card was messing up or making sure I was putting it in right and when I'm told I'm all set id probably say "Okay, thanks. Have a nice day." But maybe I'm just a better person than that dude.
I feel so bad for this girl. You gotta take a hint after awhile my guy. Just leave. She’s trying to do her job and you just keep going. Props to this girl for keeping her cool and not yelling at him despite him being a creep.
I wouldn't really call him a creep but he seemed like he just didn't know how to talk to girls and not seem weird doing it and at the same time she didn't really give many hints besides a odd face and not many men can tell women faces have meaning... Maybe if she just said im not interested or Please don't talk to me.
@@DefinitelyDux He sounds like a serial killer - what's your name, where do you live, how far is it, where do you go.....Jesus who the fuck asks a CASHIER this shit....
@@DefinitelyDux it could not be more clear how uncomfortable she was just from how she was acting, but especially from how short and closed off her answers were. She clearly didn’t want to speak to him
@@DefinitelyDux Mate if you genuinely think it was hard to tell she was absolutely uncomfortable because "she didn't give enough hints", I just pray to god you're not like this guy
This is what happens when you watch and read too many “how to be alpha and not be beta videos” and “signs she likes you” it makes you insecure and not yourself. Here are some of my lessons with rejection. 1. If your already developing feelings for a girl, immediately take the chances and opportunity to start a conversation, be friends with her at an appropriate time. If you notice that she’s not interested in all the conversations your having or she gives you an answer which is no, then move on confidently being yourself. Don’t take time for granted if your developing feelings for a girl, girls can lose interest very quick if you don’t do anything just go up, talk to her and be yourself pretty much it. You don’t want to be the type of guy that does nothing but stare at her and develop these feelings and fantasies that will eventually come crashing down at you when she says no. Don’t fantasize too much, that’s when you waste time. 2. Don’t bottle up your emotions and throw throw them at the girl. Can you imagine if you straight up told her confidently or awkwardly to a girl that you’ve been having feelings for her for so long yet you never talked to her, never had a conversation, never flirted, that’s weird af. It’s like some random ass person throwing coffee at your face and your like “ayo wtf was that.” Start as friends and just go from there, no need to over complicate things. And stop fearing all the possible rejections that can happen “oh what if she tells everyone, oh what if she looks at me this what if that” like bro stfu how do you that’s going to happen. If she does just ignore it and focus on your life and goals, and everyone else will forget it. This is why we gotta get rid of these alpha male strategy videos on CZcams. They give these great advices but with this whole “MaTheMatical PrOcESS” on getting a girlfriend. Bro here’s the key: 1. Be yourself 2. Be healthy. That’s it. Stop watching these videos. If you want to keep watching them, take them with a TINY TINY piece of salt. I hope everyone is great and living their best lives.
protip for socially awkward ppl: dont flirt w ppl who r working. if ur bad at social queues and flirt w someone whos at work, u wont be able to pick up if they are uncomfortable bc at work customer service people are punished for having tone or body language that is "unfriendly"
@@snowsox4319 The only possible reason I can foresee that people would be angry would be because it's not always men, just like 90% of the time. I've had 3 women that I can think of off the top of my head that I was in zero way interested in that didn't quite get the hint and it's awkward.
Honestly, the amount of creeps that have "flirted" with me at work is awful. I've had men be like this guy is to saying they want to put a baby in me, not even knowing my name. I had a woman flirt with me and when I said I wasn't interested, she pestered on about how I'm a fake bisexual, she can "flip women on" if I "let her try", and she kept coming in and giving me notes. My manager? Did nothing because I wasn't "being threatened". I hate that retail workers have to be nice to people who clearly need to be told to stop.
That's so awful. Worked in retail and once I helped this older man find something he needed and then he came back and asked my co-workers questions about me. Like my shifts, name, etc. When I came back from my break, I was left alone with that guy, without being told how creepy he acted, and he kept making trouble and a fuss about every single aspect just to be in the store longer. I'm sure he thought he was charming and clever, but it made my job extemely hard, had to keep smiling even though he was incredibly annoying and I almost gave up and told him to come back later when my coworker is on shift, because my brain got fried trying to reason with him, and when my male coworker came, this customer suddenly was like "Actually, this item will remain. Yes, I changed my mind. I don't want to exchange it." 🤦🏻♂️
@UCxcfAQUmMaabGEGW7bh9ruQ As a fellow guy, no. You’re feelings are the subject of whim, don’t let your actions be dictated by something like that. Nobody’s perfect but the most basic mature guy can learn to look past his feelings, at the very least when other people are involved. I really hope you’re young and just haven’t come to terms with how to handle your feelings, but trust me, Charlie’s right. Don’t be this guy. I spent way too much of high school being that guy. Really wish I hadn’t.
If you start off your flirtation with “Are you in high school?” odds are you shouldn’t flirt with that person 😂
yep, major creep move
Yea unless ur in highschool
i think it was in the middle of the conversation lmao
I mean maybe he wanted to know if it was like legal and stuff you better to back out before then after I mean you could interpret it negatively or positively
SVU OPEN UP!!!
Fellas, if the girl you're talking to has the same facial expression as a death row inmate 10 minutes from execution, just go ahead and take the L.
you never dated at russian girl?
aaah, if she's not interested, move on and try a different fish, it's that simple.
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 damn
I can't imagine sitting there trying to flirt with someone who is deadass staring down at their phone the entire time frowning. Poor fella.
@@ourcorrectopinions6824 me thinks he might have social anxiety and was told to go out and talk to strangers. he's not a POS like many says, he's just misguided is all. anywho, i'm sure he learned a lot from this conversation that will help him in life. such as "What is Kent?"
He was acting like she's an NPC and trying every dialog option to start a quest
Bro got 0 speech
I laughed too hard at that. Wouldn't it be the case that he's the NPC though?
No NPC act more normal or even funny
New Vegas taught we trying every dialogue option you see is a bad idea.
LMAO. Not only that, but like when you accidentally repeat the already greyed out text options, bwahahhaa.
I love how Charlie always has titles like "Don't be like this guy" or "This man will never get a date", and he just posts himself as the thumbnail
He's like this
He's very self depreciating.
Its actually very beautiful how little he cares 😆
Charlie you tryna tell us something?
No shame lol so much respect
"the worst that can happen is her saying no"
*The actual worst that can happen:* Charlie makes fun of you in a CZcams video and millions of people see it
Glad to see some people get it
Sadly, might still be worse
He would’ve been in much less trouble if he’d just popped the question, gotten rejected, and let her do her job.
@@meowtherainbowx4163 after maybe 3 uncertain social cues he got from her, he should’ve just told her he likes her and he wants to see if they can hangout sometime and if she she said no, he could move on.
fuck, i actually feel kind of bad for the dude haha. You know some poeple are just that dense, he probably had the worst wake up call afterwards.
It's not the compliment that makes it bad, it's the refusing to respond to her social cues.
Some people do not see those. Asbergers folks for example, just can not see it. It's bad...
Anyone that goes up to an employee to flirt has no concept of social function. They are literally obligated to interact with you and be polite. How could any human with a brain not see that no matter what, you won't get a reliably 'real' response from someone in this situation? It's like guys who think strippers really like them. "Nah man, she told me her REAL name!" ok pal.
I like that phrasing. He wasn’t merely not getting those cues; he clearly picked up on her being uncomfortable but chose not to acknowledge that because he felt entitled to behave that way
@@Saibellus As VGA said, we just don't know what that's like so it's hard to empathize. It's like being blind, but socially.
@@vgaportauthority9932 I think his problem is more he’s too focused on trying to ask her out instead of asking himself if he SHOULD ask her out. Autistic people are capable of being able to tell if a conversation is flowing naturally despite struggling with social cues. Especially since conversation can be a struggle in the first place. But yeah, that conversation wasn’t flowing and I think he could tell but he was just hoping maybe he could turn it around in his favor and he was clearly nervous. A lot of people struggle when it comes to dating and it doesn’t matter if the person is autistic or not^_~
you telling a girl she's beautiful and running away is kind of adorable
Moist Tsundere
I agree
Sometimes, we need to get the cringe out of our bodies before we become chads.
That made me think about Charlie without facial hair and short hair, he would look like a fuckboy
No it isn’t don’t do that
an obviously shy and nervous guy telling you youre beautiful then running away would be funny and endearing, much preferable to you sticking around afterwards lol
Genuine shyness is an unattractive trait however
@@Kirin5731 Not for everyone
@@beanboiz3381 In general it really is
@@Kirin5731 I am ready for the bachelor life.
@@Kirin5731 I kinda find shyness adorable sometimes and I’m shy too and people have called me adorable
This is what it must feel like to be a discord light user switching to dark
I'd agree, but I never switched on Light mode because I like my eyesight.
Also, shoutout to the chad above me giving you an non-botted comment
Everyone who does bots deserves to starve
@@cameron8529 holy shit
@@TaxEvader22 yes
@@cameron8529 Agreed they need to suffer
This truly is Dark Charlie. It's the complete opposite:
-Shirt is dark instead of white
-Shirt is buttoned instead of not
-Shirt is long sleeved instead of short sleeved
The alternate universe charlie
evil charlie be like
But he still has long hair
@@MrFizzy-xr2fp *Charlie proceeds to get a haircut*
+ he's more further from the camera
the funny part is that people got angry at HER for not taking this mans advances.
no way 😭😭
@Ryu Kurian nuh uh
This comment with that name is a full paradox
Never thought I'd have respect for a Tate fan out of all people.
@@GoldenWreck it's an ironic name.
Charlie: "Dont be like this guy"
Also charlie: *puts himself in the thumbnail*
Charlie not wearing a white shirt feels like a fever dream
Oh man the bots😭
Love your vids btw
I was thrown off from it
it's nothing new
This is an alternate version of Charlie from a parallel dimension; the white shirt Charlie Prime we usually see is strangely absent.
Lmao I knew something was off but I didn't know what
My therapist : “Black shirt Charlie isn’t real, he can’t woo you”
Black shirt Charlie :
I was a straight male before this video. Now I'm questioning everything
Shush
@@nsquezada27 Charlie’s magical powers of seduction work on both genders
Be careful girl I think he's about to start wooing
I may be blind but I'm pretty sure that isn't black
As someone who literally used to be this guy, I genuinely started wheezing at how accurate Charlie's description of his thought process was
Glad you picked up some self awareness along the way my friend lol
Good you aren't like that anymore. It never works because real life people aren't npcs lol
@wynn1587 shush kid
@@beanboiz3381 you'd be surprised
She is working. She isn't there to talk. She clearly isn't interested so WALK AWAY.
This is like sleep paralysis but he's locked to just repeating awful small talk
I think it's a mental condition or something. Many are hating this guy not realizing that each could become like that be we less lucky than we are.
The dude in the video sounds nervous af just listen to his tone lol
@@fastname6519 he's convinced that what he's doing will make him happier so he's forcing himself to do it. Being out of touch with reality is scary.
@@Petero3 yeah a part of me is like "wtf" but the other part of me understands he is probably just really really lonely, i used to be a lonely ass mf and when you dont speak to a single human being in like 5 years you start talking like this, luckily i chose to just try and make friends with some people first and learn from the way they talk but even now sometimes i have a bit of trouble with communication, like if someone drops hints i just will not get it, people have to be as straight forward with me as possible, the guy in this video really just needs proper guidance on how to be more social
@@Petero3 yeah but at the same time he's making another person uncomfortable, might ruin her day too, sometimes i do wanna start a conversation with a human being, but since I'm too nervous of being like that guy, i just mind my own business. That's the reality of being an awkward guy, no one cares for you, so you either need to become like that dude or be alone not interacting with anyone
The Charlie-verse is real, we are experiencing ‘Extended Wardrobe Charlie’
It feels unnatural
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Who are you?
Hey i got a brawl stars challenge for you, spend 8 million on the game
@@Harrisonmego uuhhh
As someone who frequently received these uncomfortably long, skin crawlingly creepy 'flirtatious encounters' from random men (who were ALWAYS between 5-15 years older than I was) from the time I was 14 until my mid-twenties. This video brought the memories flooding back. I bought fake wedding rings to wear to work. I didn't wear makeup. Always wore my hair in a ponytail or loose bun. As a pharmacy tech our uniform had a button up vest and a name tag for crying out loud!
There are far more of these 'persistent' guys than most men realize. As much as things are getting better, women are still socialized to be polite, helpful, collaborative, and amiable. We're taught to consider other people's feelings before our own. Working in retail or customer service drills these traits into you further. You do what you can to make _suggestions_ that you're not available, such as wearing a fake 'wedding ring' or mentioning your real or imaginary significant other.
But like others have said, there are always men who refuse to take rejection. I had one guy in his early 70s, who called my work so often just "ask me about my day" that _I got written up for it_ because his harassing calls interfered with our normal workflow. The old guy brought me a some kind of Smooth Jazz CD with a nude woman in shadows on the cover. When I refused his gift telling him that as pharmacy employees we aren't allowed to accept gifts of any kind as they can be considered 'bribes'. He 'forgot' the CD when he left. My coworkers had to screen all the incoming calls. When he hadn't heard my voice in 3-4 days he showed up at the pharmacy in person. When I arrived for my afternoon shift the cashier at the front of the store said my "boyfriend" had been by an hour earlier looking for me and said he'd be back later. I kept my cool. Gave him back his CD. Told him that his continued unwanted attention was causing issues for me with my supervisor. I had no problem helping him with anything pharmacy related but I could not engage in casual conversations with him while I was working. He apologized and left. I got written up again because the panic attack I had immediately in my car immediately after that encounter took longer than the 15-minute 'break' I was allowed. He left a voicemail once on the pharmacy voicemail system that had maybe 15 seconds of audio from a Michael Bublé song and then the old man saying, with a creepy and unnatural southern drawl, "I've gotta you under my skin, honey."
That old guy is just one of literally dozens like him. Let me be clear, I'm not even a knockout/bombshell. I've always been somewhat overweight. I'm definitely average looking without makeup (how I am 99% of the time) but when I want to put in the effort, I 'clean up' pretty well.
Moral of the story: Dropping the complement and running away is completely acceptable (and preferable) in most cases.
The older guys are always such creeps, I know how you feel, I used to get that crap working retail too. Like much older men buying and bringing my stuff as if that would somehow make me interested 🙄 and when I'm not even working they are still trying to talk to me, get my attention, etc. I have social anxiety and really don't like to be bothered by strangers and it just makes the experience so much worst
Retail sucks damn
I don't even compliment because I don't want to come across creepy or more weird than I already am. Ever since my divorce, I've just accepted the fact that I'm going to die as alone then as I am today.
@@AChunkyDog You can always have pets. I too am going to die alone, but I have actually grown to like the idea of living forever alone, with just a dog or a cat for company..
XD
When she laughed for a split-second when she corrected him on Cleveland/Ohio you just know his brain went "Girl laugh, must mean she like me"
This is Dark Themed Charlie and I like it.
OH NOOOOOO!!! Most people agree that my vids are the worst on CZcams. I agree to disagree. Please agree to disagree with the haters, dear chris
Truly sexy, I must say
Holiday theme Charlie
It's a fine look, but these bots are really on my nerves in the comments.
Finally, i can rest my eyes.
Charlie is dressed so nice I wouldn’t be surprised if a gamestop employee came into his house and called HIM beautiful
i loved you when i was a child
Then ran away
yoooo holy shit whussup robert
@@nnodns not a bot lmao
Looks like a pijama
Plot twist: he just really wanted to go to Kent
She had remarkable patience with this guy, dear lord.
Yea it's pretty impressive
yeah but, there wasn't much else she could do anyway
charlie is slowly turning into an elf king
His hair is getting even longer but the black shirt's a distraction attempt
Close to Christmas..
dwarf king*
hes got the king part already down
whaaaaaaaaaa
Some solid advice: Never flirt with someone who can't leave.
Literally
So don’t flirt with Prison inmates?
Yeah. Sometimes you can sense some chemistry, but then just leave it at one line.
Bad advice
Good advice is to understand simple body language to know when someone is obviously uncomfortable and leave when you realize that
@@AriAriAriAriAriAriariariarihuj chose a real bad lifetime to be autistic then didnt I 😩😩😩
Fairly certain the only thing that seperates me and them is the confidence to talk to someone for such an extended period 😔🙌
she should use this video for job interviews for retail. very VERY few retail workers are able to maintain that level of professionalism in the face of such discomfort
As a female who has worked in retail...yes, NEVER hit on someone who is on the clock. You come off as someone who is taking advantage of the fact that the they are on the job and HAS to be nice to you. Don’t ask them “what time are you off of work? What days do you work? How old are you? Where do you go to school?” And especially, “What are you doing after work?” Those are all creeper questions used by both old and young guys.
You put it so well! These guys take advantage of the fact that you have to be polite to them because you're working your job
Never done it myself but I gotta ask, without using dating apps how and when can a dude ask a woman on a date or attempt to flirt without being a “creep”
@@xGhostKidx9I think people should observe and understand social cues. Obviously the guy in the video probably lacks that. If you can tell the person is uncomfortable, it's probably a good idea to stop. I'd say if it's someone you see work in a place you usually go to, I think the long game is better. Leaving a compliment here and there, wishing a good day. At some point, the person will feel more comfortable and be more receptive to conversations. It'll be easier to ask them out. I think the problem with dating is that people seem in a hurry to get laid, that's a put off for many others.
@@solidwayunless the person who is asking is attractive
@@xGhostKidx9Just pick up on their vibes and everything is cool, just don't listen to these guys who say never do this.
This guy deserves a Pantene sponsorship for those long, luscious locks.
@cr1tikal multiverse no you didn’t. That is a video of some tts talking about truck driving
Pantene is very horrible for your hair, but okay
Pantene is cancer but in the form of hair products
I wouldn't say his locks are luscious lmao.
@@TheRealPapaChico He doesnt even have locks he has straight hair
Good rule of thumb is to just never flirt with someone at work. Nobody is looking for love on shift. They just wanna collect that paycheck and go home. And because of "the customer's always right" bullshit, we're not allowed to tell you to f*ck off as blatantly as this guy clearly needs it to be
this
Exactly, if the person you’re talking to can’t leave the conversation it’s not a chat, it’s a detainment.
Unless they’re your coworker
@@bando3582 No, not even then. That's arguably worse because now I'm stuck working with you after you've made me uncomfortable
@@Erin-tp4im not only that but I hate how much coworkers talk. I just want to make money without getting a headache
Very uncomfortable to watch. As a rule, I never flirt with people who are working.
I always wonder if Charlie does a significant amount of hair care, or if he uses 6 in 1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, mouthwash, and motor oil.
"I'm the kind of guy that could watch 2 girls one cup while eating chocolate ice cream and not feel a thing"
He is too dangerous to be left alive
Am I gonna regret saying that I don't know what that means?
I read this comment and I almost vomited after seeing that “scene”.
@@DistinguishedBread nope NOT at ALL
@@DistinguishedBread keep it that way, for your own sake.
@@depressedcat45 welp. ignorance is bliss
this does wonders for my confidence. no matter how bad I screw up talking to a girl I'll never be this guy
Don't speak too soon now
@@invincibleunderthesun8545
Since we live in a world where it’s considered harassment to talk to women if you aren’t above average looking, I have to agree.
@@honkhonk5181 incel logic be like
@@scorpion-qk7rr Bro not even incels are this stupid
Feels. I feel obligated to show my gf this to show her how great I am by comparison. lmao
There's a straightforward trick to avoid unnecessary awkwardness. When you ask her the first two questions and notice that she's not very attentive, i.e. doesn't elaborate at all, just ask her "you're not really interested in having a conversation, are ya?". She'll likely respond "no", to which you say "fair enough, I won't bother you, have a lovely day" and walk away. It's really that simple.
i think you just dont flirt with people working. she cant leave. if someone is paid to talk to people theyre probably not for you
nah that’s not it
@Heuristics If you don't mind being rude, sure, why not.
@Heuristics Well, if that's how you want to perceive it, ok. In my world, if you're in doubt, asking if someone doesn't want to have a conversation and politely wishing them a good day is something to be expected, but again, maybe it's a cultural difference. From experience, I can say that some people are very introverted and shy, so it takes a while for them to open up. They don't necessarily want you to leave even when they don't seem very talkative at first, it's actually quite common. Simply checking if a girl is interested in talking with you isn't an assault.
No, that’s passive aggressive and makes them extremely uncomfortable. Just don’t do this shit in the first place
Theres a difference between "I think you're beautiful!" and running away because you felt embarrassed and cringey, to a man forcing his flirting to a woman who is clearly uncomfortable about him.
At least the former still has the decency to save himself and the girl from awkwardness and embarrassment, compared to Mr. Bad Boy here having no self-awareness, and social etiquette at all.
Black shirt with long sleeves AND buttons?! Charlie’s getting a little crazy here…
🔪⚔️🗡
one day, susu will be noticed by senpai charlie..
cringe
He’s quirky like that
Evil Charlie be like: "WOOOO nooo darling! That's not what I've been anticipating. And no I won't wear the white t shirt. 😈"
He honestly thought "I'll get her with this next line" after every failed attempt, like she was just waiting for him to ask her to play hacky sack on the beach.
Kent
@@acekeianar where tf is that
@@speedydratini8868 Ohio
He definitely knows no boundaries, try not to get second hand embarrassment.
how do you get the goat on a stick
0:48 “a ding dong ditch with a f-ing creepy compliment attached to it” i’m dead 😂😂
Love how the title is “Don’t be like this guy” and then the thumbnail being a random pic of Charlie
Charlie’s character arc these past months wearing other colors than white is nothing short of inspiring. Maybe if we’re lucky we’ll see him in a red shirt. Maybe blue.
fax!
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LOL.
Whoa whoa slow down let's not get too crazy
perhaps even a shirt that has multiple colors
@@Gouneas All the colors of the bow.
dont be silly dude
"you're not the main character in the world. So stop acting like it."
Wise words Charlie. Wise words.
Then who is?
@@honkhonk5181 Dwayne The Rock Johnson
@@honkhonk5181 ryan reynolds
Beta mindset
@@Windrider784 semgma
Tried to flirt with random girls once. I realized quickly they were very uninterested and luckily got saved by a friend before I could shamefully walk away.
Not going for that strategy again, I'll happily be a virgin until I find a woman I vibe with instead of trying to pick up random girls in the club.
“You’re not the main character in the world. So stop acting like it.”
True words. If everyone thought this once in a while there’d be a whole lot less bullshit
what impresses me is how he can still talk to her while she gives him the most violently deadpan expression i've ever seen in my life. As a socially awkward asshat when I talk to girls even when things are nice and cordial i'm so uncomfortable inside that i'd rather shove my arm into a box of peruvian centipedes but this man can endure waves of "please leave oh my god I could not be less interested in you it's physically impossible" vibes. Amazing. How to become that atomically dense? they could build reactor casings out of him.
You just get people like that plus the confidence i guess is admirable even if its misplaced, its fine, they talk to you even as a guy and are Trina get you to hang out with them, or decide to sit next to you if its uni, and you working, most of the time its fine you just say your woking, sometimes you have to say I’m off then just move to the next room.
@@expressrobkill Yikes, that type of tenacity isn't admirable at all. He didn't take any of the obvious social cues she was pushing - no social media, no specifics on where she's from, a deadpan expression, etc. Guys like this shouldn't be complimented because of their determination, they should be educated on how to read the most basic of cues that the other person is uncomfortable.
i wouldnt exactly say its impressive moreso extremely sad bc it either means hes just that entitled he thinks she'll eventually change her mind or plain delusional, probably both
@@expressrobkill i would say its more keen to a social disorder of some kind rather than admirable. There is a huge difference between confidence and being an egotistical sociopath 🤣
A confidant man would have picked up the first que of disinterest, bid her a good day and moved right along like nothing was wrong. it is what it is, hits and misses.
@@heckingbamboozled8097 I honestly need those kinds of classes ur talking about, as well as a full comprehensive guide on when I should reveal what about the various facets of my personality. I genuinely felt awful for this guy, since I'm currently going through his exact situation, with a twist.
I honestly feel like I need to get a girlfriend before I become famous because if I'm still single by then, women will never ever love me for me, and they'll only want to marry me to then divorce me and take half of my money, and if I resist, Johnny Depp (physically and emotionally assault me and then publicly sue me for all I've got for physically and emotionally assaulting her) me and absolutely destroy my life.
I was born with ADD, ADHD, and a "lucky strain" of Autism (Asperger's) that enhanced my mind instead of turning me into a vegetable.
I grew up with no real friends, and I could only trust and talk to myself.
Then I became incredibly smart, knowing the nature of human beings and how we're hardwired to serve ourselves, even if we help others, and now I'm cursed with this unshakeable outlook.
I wish I could say that I was just a mindless mysoginist, because then it would be possible for me to change for the better alone.
Btw, I already copied this comment and took it to Reddit.
Charlie is literally angelic in this video. The way the light hits, the hair, the clothes. Beautiful
That's why I pray to him before going to sleep, knowing this angel exists make me feel safe
We all know he's Jesus
He's unironically attractive. I guess it's mainly his eyebrow and puppy eyes. Legit having a man-crush on the guy
I love you Lord
He really is jesus
"Don't be like this guy"
Thumbnail is just Charlie.
Who wouldn't wanna be like Charlie
incel: *sad sigh*
music: DONT WORRY BE HAPPY
i feel so bad for that girl. no matter how attractive a girl i met was, if she couldn't walk away then i never hit on her. its such a shitty thing to hit on a girl that is working and can't leave
That's a good way of thinking about it tbf.
Or at least just make it short and gtfo when they hint disinterest. "Hey, I've seen you here a couple times, would you be interested in going out/can I get your number", "no", "sorry to bother you, have a nice day". Sure it's awkward, but fucking hell it's done and over.
Yeah I hate people who try to hit on people in the service industry. You are automatically in a position of power, since they have to be nice to you and they can´t escape.
i feel bad for both of them bc the guy clearly isnt use to this and is trying his best but he just cant get anything out correctly
would feel bad if she wasnt sexist
To this day that dude is still trying to figure out "Kent"
if I gain any more respect for you it'll integer overflow
@The TacoCat no you didn’t
Hard to watch😓
But he just Kent do it
@@crochetcocoking4275 I Kent stop laughing
He should’ve just asked her if they had any really really small condoms
Lmao
At some point ya just gotta say:
- Well, sorry to bother you.
and just run outta there.
As a young woman in retail, the "getting to know you" convo behind a counter is painful. Seeing the same person multiple times over a few weeks and then them asking for a name/number is WAY different than someone trying to learn all about you in 30 seconds.
As a member of multiple retail discussion groups. I asked the best way to befriend a cashier without looking like a creep.
Consensus was that there is no way. If you’re not already friends it’s off limits. Which sucks... because I really want to joke around when my cashier gives me a look after saying “it’s ok, I’ll make it fit” without going to jail
My women is a manager at menards in the electrical and I gear her talking about people like like this all the time 😆
@@dylanzrim3635 what are you saying you’ll make it fit about??? lmao
@@KB-fk3jj usually id be hesitant to comment on this kind of take, but to be fair especially after this vid i totally agree, and tbh ive been doing that myself for all my life so far.
@@dylanzrim3635 tbf it really does depends. I mean the most important thing to have is confidence. Sometimes when the cashier or in general, if she's cute i would ask her questions or i would say she's pretty, Mostly it usually ends well.
I don't understand how this guy just stood around for so long. Whenever I go up to the register, I always want to get out of there as fast as possible.
Don’t y’all have friends? Get to know someone first before deciding to flirt with them.
To be entirely fair, Charlie. I'm sure she would have taken "you're beautiful" wayyyyy better than "ArE yOu In HiGh ScHoOl" and asking specifically where she goes to school. You would have fared better than this creepo
Charlies method was kinda cute this guy was just weird.
That “ARE YOU IN HIGH SCHOOL” made me want to crawl out of my own skin
@@SirenAngelique Zad 😢
@Owen Polar go away bot
Yeah exactly, some other peeps in the comments are completly missing the point, this guy is NOT just trying to make conversation, he's litterally acting like a goddamn predator and tbh its not just cringe, its fucking creepy. Hope i'll never meet someone like that.
Flirting is not asking intense personal questions like “how old are you…” this dude was giving the biggest stalker vibes ever… good on her for using fake info
How old are you is like a baseline question Unless you’re trying to catch a case. But your right the way he said it was weird as shit
@@cameronconwell4530 I've always been told it's rude to ask a woman her age
@@josephlouwerse2105 not to mention it's pretty creepy too. And why would you ask in a convenient store, right? he crossed a line there lol
@@josephlouwerse2105 Women ask men for their personal info all the time, shit that is a lot more rude than their age.
@@kingofluck2912 the age was the least of the issue, then it went to education, which college, is it far from here?
He was talking to her like he was interviewing her for a job...
And the worst is, she is an employee so she has to be polite and can't walk away either.
This was not a woman asking a guy questions in a bar...
I feel bad for her, because he didn't do anything that would justify kicking him out.. so all she can do is endure it.
I felt physical pain with the “am I though?” Line
Same! 😩
"You're not the main character"
More people need to realize this.
The fact she started recording means this been going on for a while longer than we saw
@Owen Polar uh huh. And I found a way to cure cancer.
yes charlie did say that in the video
orrrrrr maybee she just records interactions anyways
wait wasn't this staged????
@@dumgreat9886
Wouldn't be surprised. 99% of the bollocks spewed out on TikTok is.
Basically if it's on there take whatever you're seeing with a miniscule pinch of salt...
"You're not the main character in the world, so stop acting like it."
Humbler words could never be spoken from a main character
the wrock
@@ZAsym lmao
Yet this isn't being said about the girl. How about HER learning how to reject a guy properly? The autistic spectrum is wide and very common among men. Just because YOU don't have it doesn't mean you should shit on men who seem to have it.
@@MS-rk5if oki incel lol
@@scorpion-qk7rr I get that she is trying to work and she didn't show interest in him but he's literally just talking to her
when i was single usually id go with the "hows your day going? oh cool. same here
so when ya off?? cool ima go grab dinner that day. you should join me... " approach.. short simple to the point.. and works like half the time. he could have just done that js... geez this was painful.
He's got speech 0 and failed every persuasion speech check.
The worst part about these situations is you can’t leave. You’re at work, and they have to be the one to leave the building. It is so uncomfortable. I can’t imagine how she felt.
seriously this is exactly why you don't hit on people who are at work
Yup, can’t imagine having to put up with these people while working
american culture is weird. If someone here tried that he'd get something between "if you have something related to my position, you can ask, otherwise ... " to "ugh dude just shut up" after like the third awkward question
@@Maric18 yea, I can't understand this.
i think she made a related video abt how she was the only one in the store too and she had to answer some of his questions purely because she was worried he might do something if he rejected her, i feel so bad for her
That girl was straight up just hoping she wasn't about to die at her retail job
shut up like they live in a Muslim country
@@Rodoadrenalina No, they live in a much more dangerous place... the US.
@@horohorosrin you didn't just say the US is worst for women than Muslim countries. bro get out hahahaha. you trolling right?
@@borislav6561 Tell me you're islamophobic without telling me you're islamophobic
@@horohorosrin lol. You're still trolling. How are women worst off in the states?
This guy was just distracting her so his friend could rob them blind.
Very successful method.
Who is responsible for that Gamestop's music track. Absolute fire fam.
what’s fucked up is that she’s arguably justified in being annoyed by this interaction, but was harrassed on tiktok for posting this by thousands of men calling her “stuck up” for reacting to him this way and then her account got banned because of it
Damn, that's sad
Don't people freak out over literally anything?
@@IzanamisBurden look at the replies of the comments in this section defending her. They are seriously doing the same thing. Belittling women and saying she was wrong. Incels everywhere
@@IzanamisBurden tiktokers are braindead in most possible ways imaginable, both sjw's and anti-sjw's look tame and intelligent compared to tiktok
Nobody was in the wrong, neither the girl nor guy. The guy has the right to be socially awkward, the girl has the right to be an asshole. It isn't illegal.
I used to work for a licensed Starbucks, and there was this older man who would always walk around the store and talk to all the female employees. Eventually he started coming up to me and try to talk to me, and whenever I had a line he would stand and wait on the side while I helped customers. I hated this more than words can describe. Plus he would always try and bring me things (I refused but he would leave anyway) and asked me to go get coffee with him - Bear in mind, I was stuck in my department and if I walked away I couldn’t do my job - after I said no, he came in the next day and slammed his hands on the counter and raised his voice at me “since you won’t go and get coffee with me, can I at least get one now!?”
I have transferred to at least two different stores because my job has changed, and somehow he has found me each time. Last weekend he showed up looking for me after calling multiple stores. He left me some books, but my heart sank when I saw him - I ran the opposite way into the offices. I was running the store that day covering for my boss, so I had another male coworker tell me when he left because I was hiding in the back.
It sucks, but moral of the story: don’t flirt or harass people in customer service, it’s pathetic because not only are you distracting workers from doing their jobs but you’re just making them far more uncomfortable in a place that they go to every day to make their money.👏
That's so messed up. Fuck that guy.
That’s horrible, I’m sorry to hear that. Try to stay strong
You should probably go report him, this guy is bad news than the guy on the video
Report that guy. This is just plain stalking and harassment.
Dude. Get a restraining order
My rule is if I get more than three one word responses I just lose interest it kind of tells me that they're not interested or they're a boring person
Bro tried at least lol. He may of been ridiculously awkward and suck at taking social cues but he’s no creep.
You know it's bad when he pulls out the "Do you have Instagram?", and even worse when he gets a negative answer and pulls out the "You're too cool for Instagram?"
that's the thing with men like this.. once he finally clues in you're not interested you kinda have to worry he's going to start screaming that you're an uptight bitch
@@ordinaryhand I couldn't hear him very well in the video but I thought he was just making an awful joke that didn't land
"Do you have Instagram?"
"No"
"Liar! Here's your page, it says you were online a few hours ago!"
@@ordinaryhand
The thing with women like this - older they get easier to pick up, like dawg dookie
she's 19 and picky, she'll come around once she hits 40, lol
@ShroomTube You'd be surprised
Pro tip lads, if she's giving you one word answers, she ain't interested, quit while you're still ahead, don't be this guy.
I have some really good friends that don't really give full sentences for an answer or even one word because they are socially awkward or just dont like talking
@@DefinitelyDux I do that with friends. If I'm talking to a new person I will at least make an effort to answer in full sentences if I want to make a good impression. Follow this advice, if she's giving one word answers leave her alone. Coming from a woman who doesn't like to talk much.
Honestly, it's good to have some self-respect, if she isn't showing interest in you, why pursue? It's like when women are super dry on dating apps and expect you to entertain them, it's insulting to you if you go overboard like this as well. And this aint even a dating app.
Not only is she giving curt one word responses, she's not asking him followup questions/ continuing the conversation, isn't smiling, tries to avoid eye contact with him.... dude turned off his GPS and stopped looking at road signs and is now upset bc hes lost
Correct. There’s no shame in making an effort and getting turned down. But once it’s blatantly clear a person doesn’t like you, just stop before you embarrass yourself permanently
"I can watch 2 girls 1 cup with chocolate ice cream"
That kind of power will destroy the world
I’ve seen guys hovering around the cashier ladies at GameStop from time to time and always feel bad for them (cashiers). One dude even dropped the “I can leave if you want me to” line, as if an employee would be able to show them off without risking getting into trouble.
It's painfully obvious that this happens to her all the time, too. She had her fake name, fake school, etc. all prepared and everything. It's not just the cringe that hurts here.
Yeah. Its extremely sad. I feel awful that she even has to do that shit in the first place.
If the guy really liked her he should have applied for a job there, worked with her for several months and earned her trust, then asked her out in a casual, non-threatening way. You gotta put in the work dude. Otherwise you're just another pathetic dork creeper.
@@t.c.b4722 That’s just as fucking weird lmao
That's some straight stalker shit
@@t.c.b4722 that is much more creepy than what he did tbh.
This man is ridiculously lucky that she didn’t turn the camera on him
frrrr
@Kino a fair kill
my thoughts exactly
@Kino if you’re a stranger asking me for the locations I go to on a daily basis, my social media and my number be grateful she deals with you in private 😂
@Kinoyou’re saying she, a woman should’ve manned up? Yeah you wonder why women barely do that anymore cause on the news women get followed home and raped and killed for saying no nowadays. I don’t understand why you’re basically on creepy dudes side 🤨
Lmfao bro why does Charlie look like such a gigachad in the thumbnail
Every day I get more and more grateful that I'm not attractive, or a woman. And especially not an attractive woman
Women are allowed to reject flirting and they don’t owe you like over the top politeness all the time. It makes me upset that men got upset at HER over the video
Don't worry, those "men" aren't real men to start with. A real man or should I say a real decent human being that happens to be a man would know that shit is 100% wrong
@@spirit_green there's no such thing as a real man. Being a man isn't a title of nobility it's just something that happens to people by nature of being themselves. No man is more or less a man and nobody is able to stop being a man (let me be clear that's not anti-trans, trans people don't just become anything they were always something and are just trying to figure it out).
Also even if there were real men and guys like that are fake men, fake men still exist. They don't just conveniently stop bothering people because you decided their man card is invalid.
I do like your correction at the end. This is about decency. Of course there can be exceptions like someone who is autistic could still be a decent human being in this situation as not recognizing nonverbal cues or proper situations to initiate certain kinds of interactions is very much a struggle for many people with ASD.
@@thugpug4392 this is wholesome
@@katocs I think a different term should be used. "Real man" implies there are less than real or fake men. Logically any man who hasn't been given that extra accommodation would be among the fake or less than real. Also "Real Man" has negative associations as well such as not seeking mental help or expressing emotions in a healthy way and in some cases to some people being a "real man" includes disrespecting or mistreating women. Another issue with using "real man" instead of "good person" or similar is that it seems to only apply to men. Women can achieve the same virtues, I think the term should be gender-neutral.
Let a woman ever talk to me like this. PLEASE.
Im pretty sure charlie wouldnt have been this creepy at all. Charlie is a gentleman and a scholar
No, any stranger would be creepy despite looks
I am so impressed with her unbelievable ability to put out as many uncomfy signals as possible, almost as impressed as I am with the guy for ignoring them
Him: "You wanna know my pin?"
Her: "No"
The credit card thief outside listening: *Dammit!*
So... where's the funny???
damn it´s you
notice me moustache man
Hello9o
Where's the funny I don't see it
The thing with flirting is, it's all about reading the other person. You shoot your shot, and if you miss you move on. This man missed, and proceeded to unload a double drum magazine and wasn't even close to landing a single shot. He missed so bad he shot at the broad side of a barn and hit the next barn over, and he somehow didn't realize how disinterested she was. From my experience, the best thing you can do is just chat and maybe get some form of communication with them and try to develop a friendship first. 99% of the time just walking up to someone and flirting with them is just gonna shock them and then weird them out. Play the slow game with multiple people at once and you'll have more success, and likely make friends out of your failures.
Honestly, that is sound advice.
@@JohnDoe-uf3lj yeah, just treat women like men, as in every human is a person, equally irrelevant unless useful to the sigma grindset , rule 1839173
You are 100% right. Many people don't feel comfortable flirting with strangers, it's natural. It's especially bad in this situation because hitting on someone who's working... she can't walk away from the interaction, and since her job is Customer Service she also needs to try to stay polite and patient.
Very well written comment right here
Even better advice: Don't treat it like a "game". It's not a game, it's building a relationship. Calling it a "slow game" makes it sound like you're still not there to treat them like an actual person with their own goals and desires.
Working retail, I'm fully prepared to tell someone I'm 17 and if they don't stop after telling them to quit it to get my manager.
Which is what people should do, actually TELL people you're not interested. Because they will not get it this way. Girl, stand up for yourself, tell him to piss off.
lmao nobody is gonna talk to you, curb your ego
why aren't you standing up for yourself for the reply above?
@@ELGG1894butthurt man
Every time it cuts back to the video I'm surprised the guy isn't done yet. It is so painful to see her again giving short answers to his stupid questions
People saying maybe he has autism or anxiety, I have autism and anxiety and responding to "okay you're all done" with "am I really though" is so cocky and not at all anything that would cross my mind lmao. That's pretentious and creepy and very strange. I think he said it TWICE as well. And then he stuck around for longer. Im like Charlie, if I'm anxious I'm getting out of there as fast as possible. Im not coming up with some weird cocky shit on the spot
exactly no person with anxiety would act that way I have it idk about if autistic people do but anxiety definitely isn't like that i would be too anxious to even ask her a simple question yet alone act like a cocky dck head like him
I'm not good at convos, but even I know when the shit is getting cringe
It's not autism because there are too many of them. It's cluelessness. These aren't the smartest people.
I have anxiety too and I'm in the middle of trying to get tests to see if I have autism since my teachers have been telling me they think I have it (they work in special ED and are trained in that) and with anxiety, nope. Would not. Most I would be saying is "Sorry." If my card was messing up or making sure I was putting it in right and when I'm told I'm all set id probably say "Okay, thanks. Have a nice day." But maybe I'm just a better person than that dude.
Don't be mean to the cocky autists. Geez
I feel so bad for this girl. You gotta take a hint after awhile my guy. Just leave. She’s trying to do her job and you just keep going. Props to this girl for keeping her cool and not yelling at him despite him being a creep.
I wouldn't really call him a creep but he seemed like he just didn't know how to talk to girls and not seem weird doing it and at the same time she didn't really give many hints besides a odd face and not many men can tell women faces have meaning... Maybe if she just said im not interested or Please don't talk to me.
@@DefinitelyDux if she would've said that some of yall be calling her a bitch. It's common decency and sense not to talk to people like this
@@DefinitelyDux He sounds like a serial killer - what's your name, where do you live, how far is it, where do you go.....Jesus who the fuck asks a CASHIER this shit....
@@DefinitelyDux it could not be more clear how uncomfortable she was just from how she was acting, but especially from how short and closed off her answers were. She clearly didn’t want to speak to him
@@DefinitelyDux Mate if you genuinely think it was hard to tell she was absolutely uncomfortable because "she didn't give enough hints", I just pray to god you're not like this guy
When I heard Lake Erie I had a epiphany that this happened near where I live
“Don’t worry, be happy” playing in the background as she is trying not to cringe is funny
Wheres ur Sephiroth pfp from?? Looks cool af
That right there is a great example of perfect timing lol
I dont think shes even cringing, but instead genuinely terrified.
This is what happens when you watch and read too many “how to be alpha and not be beta videos” and “signs she likes you” it makes you insecure and not yourself. Here are some of my lessons with rejection.
1. If your already developing feelings for a girl, immediately take the chances and opportunity to start a conversation, be friends with her at an appropriate time. If you notice that she’s not interested in all the conversations your having or she gives you an answer which is no, then move on confidently being yourself. Don’t take time for granted if your developing feelings for a girl, girls can lose interest very quick if you don’t do anything just go up, talk to her and be yourself pretty much it. You don’t want to be the type of guy that does nothing but stare at her and develop these feelings and fantasies that will eventually come crashing down at you when she says no. Don’t fantasize too much, that’s when you waste time.
2. Don’t bottle up your emotions and throw throw them at the girl. Can you imagine if you straight up told her confidently or awkwardly to a girl that you’ve been having feelings for her for so long yet you never talked to her, never had a conversation, never flirted, that’s weird af. It’s like some random ass person throwing coffee at your face and your like “ayo wtf was that.” Start as friends and just go from there, no need to over complicate things. And stop fearing all the possible rejections that can happen “oh what if she tells everyone, oh what if she looks at me this what if that” like bro stfu how do you that’s going to happen. If she does just ignore it and focus on your life and goals, and everyone else will forget it. This is why we gotta get rid of these alpha male strategy videos on CZcams. They give these great advices but with this whole “MaTheMatical PrOcESS” on getting a girlfriend. Bro here’s the key:
1. Be yourself
2. Be healthy.
That’s it. Stop watching these videos. If you want to keep watching them, take them with a TINY TINY piece of salt. I hope everyone is great and living their best lives.
Remember kids: if the person you’re trying to flirt with can’t physically run away from you if you start acting like this, it’s a bad time to do it.
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this guy has balls of steal tho. to have that much confidence. gotta give that to him at least
tiny balls of steel
@@jordsterroa Body-shaming against men is okay, apparently
@@godofmath1039 brother what are you talking about
protip for socially awkward ppl: dont flirt w ppl who r working. if ur bad at social queues and flirt w someone whos at work, u wont be able to pick up if they are uncomfortable bc at work customer service people are punished for having tone or body language that is "unfriendly"
literally this woman did not deserve the backlash she got for posting this vid
She got backlash??? Bruh
Idk why she got back lash but she’s saying why do men like it ain’t men
@@snowsox4319 In that case, I kinda understand it.
@@snowsox4319 The only possible reason I can foresee that people would be angry would be because it's not always men, just like 90% of the time. I've had 3 women that I can think of off the top of my head that I was in zero way interested in that didn't quite get the hint and it's awkward.
What’s her TikTok
The darker and longer his shirt gets, the more power he has
kinda like ichigos bankai
You can see the power steaming off of him
He has Venom in his skin
I can't believe I walk on the same planet as Charlie, a man so powerful deserves his own planet
dark power
i didn't know the one piece burning will ad guy had a YT channel
Bro this guy can't take a hint. 🤣🤣
Honestly, the amount of creeps that have "flirted" with me at work is awful. I've had men be like this guy is to saying they want to put a baby in me, not even knowing my name. I had a woman flirt with me and when I said I wasn't interested, she pestered on about how I'm a fake bisexual, she can "flip women on" if I "let her try", and she kept coming in and giving me notes. My manager? Did nothing because I wasn't "being threatened". I hate that retail workers have to be nice to people who clearly need to be told to stop.
That’s a yikes, all I got in retail was yelled at by the elderly XD best advice I ever got was use the “I have to get something in the back” excuse
@cr1tikal multiverse cap
That’s pretty fucked up.
But do you know what’s more fucked up?
Your profile picture like goddamn.
…… seems kinda threatening to me. There was a guy at my work saying he could “make me gay”….
… he was wrong, I still like women 😅
That's so awful. Worked in retail and once I helped this older man find something he needed and then he came back and asked my co-workers questions about me. Like my shifts, name, etc.
When I came back from my break, I was left alone with that guy, without being told how creepy he acted, and he kept making trouble and a fuss about every single aspect just to be in the store longer. I'm sure he thought he was charming and clever, but it made my job extemely hard, had to keep smiling even though he was incredibly annoying and I almost gave up and told him to come back later when my coworker is on shift, because my brain got fried trying to reason with him, and when my male coworker came, this customer suddenly was like "Actually, this item will remain. Yes, I changed my mind. I don't want to exchange it." 🤦🏻♂️
Sounds more like an interrogation with a million questions than flirting.
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I RECOVERED CHARLIES OLD VIDEO
Dude clearly isn't getting the hint that this isn't being reciprocated in anyway lol Some people really are daft.
I felt so uncomfortable watching the video, I don’t know how the girl was able to not have her soul cringe out of her body when it happened.
@UCxcfAQUmMaabGEGW7bh9ruQ As a fellow guy, no. You’re feelings are the subject of whim, don’t let your actions be dictated by something like that. Nobody’s perfect but the most basic mature guy can learn to look past his feelings, at the very least when other people are involved. I really hope you’re young and just haven’t come to terms with how to handle your feelings, but trust me, Charlie’s right. Don’t be this guy. I spent way too much of high school being that guy. Really wish I hadn’t.
@@codydagg2259 I think he definitely knows she's not interested but just wants to be "persistent."
I seriously think when an interaction is effortless, it flows well. You can tell this guy was trying sooooo hard and was trying to be obvious.