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    If you want to put a #narcissist in their place, follow these quick tips
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Komentáƙe • 66

  • @signatureblonde5956
    @signatureblonde5956 Pƙed rokem +16

    Oh i put him back in his place allright, i took him to court for his psychological manipulation tactics and I WON!

    • @karennimroozi9097
      @karennimroozi9097 Pƙed rokem +4

      Where do I start? Records, police reports or not, keeping a private journal, notes.

    • @kristinj8271
      @kristinj8271 Pƙed rokem +2

      Wow!

    • @signatureblonde5956
      @signatureblonde5956 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@karennimroozi9097 I kept all his texts were he was psychologically abusing me in by swearing and threatening me cursing me etc he even didn't have the courage to finish this relationship properly he put his dad to deal with it instead of him. He was 23 and I was 42 and that happened 3 years ago his father also threatened me that they will find me some were killed in the street.
      So I showed all this texts and evidence to the court and here I am.

    • @Tonyconstanza
      @Tonyconstanza Pƙed rokem

      @@signatureblonde5956 why would you date someone under 25 if your over 40? That’s nuts

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Pƙed rokem +7

    Discard delete ignore

  • @robertcamble3543
    @robertcamble3543 Pƙed rokem +3

    Narcissist's,a never see when they wrong. They always think highly of themselves &think theyre superior to everyone

  • @BlaBla-yr4pd
    @BlaBla-yr4pd Pƙed rokem +20

    My parents are both narcissist
 my whole life i tried to be the way they wanted me to be and it was never enough. Once i realised by watching ur video for example, i finally had the energy to react. In a month im going to move out and there is a CHAOS in the family right now. The love bombing is so much more intense and then they try to break me quick after. They know they dont have much time to manipulate me so they are doing all at once now. They tell me that im useless, evil, selfish, toxic, coldhearted and that i could never build a positive Relationship with them ever again because i do think always bad about them. It hurts, but i gotta stay strong
 sometimes i doubt myself because im not used to have an own will
but this is feeling right. I am overwhelmed but i keep going my path


    • @nryane
      @nryane Pƙed rokem +3

      Good luck! You’re making your way to freedom!
      Life isn’t always “easy”, but it is YOUR life you are experiencing. From my personal experience, I grieved what I wanted and didn’t have, and now my life is better, because I stayed the course toward ME!
      You are headed in the right direction - toward YOU!
      Blessings!❀

    • @ra.h.8840
      @ra.h.8840 Pƙed rokem +3

      đŸ€žđŸ‘đŸ‘đŸ‘

    • @maylin1986
      @maylin1986 Pƙed rokem +2

      Since this comment was made 1 month ago, I hope you've been able to move out and be in a better mindset mentally for yourself. Would like to see a follow up on you for your health and well being.
      That's a shame they have a child and they're blowing it with staying connected to you. For you and your future family to be happy & at peace, you have to do what's best so you can have a good life for you and your family. đŸ’›âœšïž

    • @BlaBla-yr4pd
      @BlaBla-yr4pd Pƙed rokem +1

      Thanks so much to everyone. Im living alone and it feels amazing. I am learning to be myself and i didn’t know making decisions by myself would be so hard but so fun. Im setting boundaries now, even tho it is difficult sometimes but i am succeding. Suddenly everything around me has more of a positive energy. I can feel im doing the right thing. Obviously the pain is still there but im going to a great direction to heal 😘 thanks so much to everyone that cared for me and gave me energy

    • @nryane
      @nryane Pƙed rokem +1

      @@BlaBla-yr4pd
      Congratulations on your start into good mental and emotional health.
      Consistent loving self-talk will help you stay on your path toward change.
      Blessings!đŸ„°

  • @donnaholton1981
    @donnaholton1981 Pƙed rokem +13

    What worked for me was the no contact from my ex-narcissist I know now that I never knew the person that I fell in love with, he no longer exist. He’s dead in my eyes and that’s how it will stay.

  • @tinariddle8668
    @tinariddle8668 Pƙed rokem +3

    Ignore them

  • @nryane
    @nryane Pƙed rokem +21

    5.5 years of no contact, here! I’ve let the ex know that he doesn’t matter to me, by blocking him, as well as having family no longer talk about him to me, and vice versa.
    I also continue to work on my healing from childhood C-PTSD. My self-talk indicates to me that I’m succeeding in re-parenting myself. It’s much gentler and kinder - LOVING, in fact!
    So freeing!
    Thanks for this simple “hack” for dealing with a narcissistic individual!

  • @Angelsamongus214
    @Angelsamongus214 Pƙed rokem +4

    Love the time limit tip. It's so easy to get wrapped up responding to them. 💗

  • @bobbyrainwater7590
    @bobbyrainwater7590 Pƙed rokem +5

    Setting a time limit is great. You have 4 minutes cuz I have shit to do. It also works if you have to go to a restaurant, bar etc ..you don't like with a group. Yall have 15 minutes. Order a beer. When 15 minutes is up,get up and leave.

  • @annaburns2865
    @annaburns2865 Pƙed rokem +15

    You can’t put a time limit on conversations when they are your coworker and you have to work 7 hours a day.

    • @christinegratzoll2032
      @christinegratzoll2032 Pƙed rokem

      I like that a time limit thx for comment

    • @dwlsn93
      @dwlsn93 Pƙed rokem

      Yes, yes you can.
      “Fascinating story, Sue - but I have a call to make. Can we chat another time? Great! Thanks! Pick up phone - (call anyone) yourself even!

  • @fairygurl9269
    @fairygurl9269 Pƙed rokem +4

    "You have NO Power Over Me!"
    Resource "The Labyrinth"♡♡

  • @notperfect.forgiven6042
    @notperfect.forgiven6042 Pƙed rokem +5

    Prfect responces. I did them all. I did not play games. Setting time limit-talk on phone. Then hang up and dont answer

  • @victoriasloan524
    @victoriasloan524 Pƙed rokem +4

    I wish I would have known this when my mother was alive.

  • @elliesquires2753
    @elliesquires2753 Pƙed rokem +2

    Ty, great advice

  • @izawaniek2568
    @izawaniek2568 Pƙed rokem +3

    Spot on.

  • @ambermcdonald1302
    @ambermcdonald1302 Pƙed rokem +4

    You look so pretty in this reel đŸ€— (you're always pretty, just seem particularly glowy here!)

  • @tooshay7396
    @tooshay7396 Pƙed rokem +1

    When I heard of the company A Place For MOM commercial, I did a spit take

  • @gunshine90
    @gunshine90 Pƙed rokem +1

    Thank you

  • @jamiejeff86
    @jamiejeff86 Pƙed rokem +1

    Time limit tip 0 seconds , future calls 0

  • @brendaleverick3655
    @brendaleverick3655 Pƙed rokem

    Smart lady. đŸ‘ŒđŸŒ

  • @sharonparis8916
    @sharonparis8916 Pƙed rokem

    Better things to do than to argue with a narcissist ❀

  • @HISIAM888RUHIS888
    @HISIAM888RUHIS888 Pƙed rokem

    Good Advice!!👍👍â˜ș

  • @rochellesmith510
    @rochellesmith510 Pƙed rokem +1

    Amen 😊

  • @BLIQUEMIST26
    @BLIQUEMIST26 Pƙed rokem

    Yup that why I’m in the living room now. I can’t stand him.

  • @sharonwoodin5337
    @sharonwoodin5337 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    I don't speak to the narcissist. I just walk away. Period.

  • @jhavajoe3792
    @jhavajoe3792 Pƙed rokem

    Good tactics if you're trapped in the scene, otherwise cut off all contact. Having to stand up all the time ( and resisting punching them in the face )is energy draining.

  • @shellys.8748
    @shellys.8748 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you so much such a blessing

  • @rhobot75
    @rhobot75 Pƙed rokem +2

    Kudos for making this a standalone w a beginning, middle, and end. I dont like when a channel merely rips a minute out of a longer video. (Instead of implanting a minute into a longer video to tear away layer as a short.) I don't like Shorts, I tend to groan seeing them in my Subscriptions tab in the laptop view but if i check one out I want to feel it is its own little drama. Phone view is easier bc they are on their own and i have to layeral scroll to see the shorts, i can ignore entirely... tho when i eventually do get back to laptop view they are still all there and mixed up w longer form vids. Ok, confession time, i am a bit OCD about subscriptions, if I watch right away or put to Watch Later, or if I decide I am not interested, I have to Hide them! So, all the new amounts og shorts are more work for me bc I have to Hide them! My poor arthritic index finger! But I cant scroll my Subs page and keep seeing vids I already watched or don't want to watch lol plus when enough time goes by, it gets too hard to scroll back in Subs for new vids to watch, I prefer a nice long Watch Later playlist. Ok,, lol.. again, good going making it a story and fitting a wrap up before time runs out. :))

  • @vickyharrell3839
    @vickyharrell3839 Pƙed rokem

    thank you

  • @simplyone200
    @simplyone200 Pƙed rokem +1

    My boundaries are stepped on purposely, what to do

  • @notperfect.forgiven6042
    @notperfect.forgiven6042 Pƙed rokem +1

    Sooo good. As i pulled away in the past, she once wanted to see me but my schedule was booked. she blew up that i did not drop everything to go see her. Satisfying.

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 Pƙed rokem

    NO MATTER WITCH NARC IT IS A FAMILY MEMBER ,CO WORKER OR WHOSOEVER I SPEAK ONES AND THATS IT NO TIME TO EXPLAIN I GIVE IT TO GOD IN SECONDS AND LEAVE YOU STANDING IF YOU THINK YOUR MY GOD HE WILL DEAL WITH YOU I ONLY FORGIVE AND BE STILL

  • @jessicakelly3980
    @jessicakelly3980 Pƙed rokem

    he used to hate when i.would talk and say his name over and over again

  • @Nick-zd5ni
    @Nick-zd5ni Pƙed rokem

    When my ex told me i can't tell her what to do anymore, i knew i was losing

  • @dr.rachnaarora4498
    @dr.rachnaarora4498 Pƙed rokem

    🙏🙏

  • @sassynana5201
    @sassynana5201 Pƙed rokem +2

    This is why Trump is RAGING since he lost the election.

  • @dianesorokac2260
    @dianesorokac2260 Pƙed rokem

    Hard 2 do when they are living in your house

  • @jdo4715
    @jdo4715 Pƙed rokem +1

    What are some examples of putting time constraints for family members?

    • @SherinDarwish
      @SherinDarwish Pƙed rokem

      @common ego Yes,that’s what I‘d like to know too!

  • @nadinecolbath5584
    @nadinecolbath5584 Pƙed rokem

    This doesn't work for my husband. He completely IGNORES me when I put my foot down then he walks away. He doesn't even CARE about ANYTHING if it doesn't affect him. He's an ahole!!!!

  • @dwlsn93
    @dwlsn93 Pƙed rokem

    Sooo, Dan
 I have 5 minutes for this conversation. I don’t have time to discuss why your mother’s , brother’s cat puked in your shoes when you were 5. Oh look
 3 minutes left! 😂

  • @tcsco.8888
    @tcsco.8888 Pƙed rokem

    Public notice: this is the broadcasters point of view. For entertainment only

  • @LeBronJames-yr8ku
    @LeBronJames-yr8ku Pƙed rokem

    ⚘

  • @Zanarkand_0
    @Zanarkand_0 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

    My piece of shit brother destroyed my confidence in myself. I am nearly 30 and have only now started getting my life back.

  • @rayaussie8325
    @rayaussie8325 Pƙed rokem +1

    I am male and received sexual manipulation and everything the narcissist poured out on me , yet i let her divorce me. In front of her husband she said with emotion " we should have still been together
    together. I shruged my shoulders turned away and walked on by.
    Her husband tried suicide ,could have been me.

  • @elzadosanjos3759
    @elzadosanjos3759 Pƙed rokem +1

    R ruim

  • @dickdastardly8067
    @dickdastardly8067 Pƙed rokem

    I had to do this after calling the police because she almost caused a shooting between me and the new supply. I told the police she is manipulating you, that idiot in cuffs but not me! She stood there with a stupid smile on her face trying to look innocent.

  • @1981jakehamilton
    @1981jakehamilton Pƙed rokem +1

    Women in hand