Is Dating At Work in 2024 Worth It?
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- She wants to date a man that works at her gym... Should she shoot her shot or not?
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DO NOT shoot your shot! You work at the gym, he sees you & knows where you work. Just be friendly, if he’s interested he’ll talk to you. If not, he’s not interested or has a girlfriend. Simple.
Looking up his profile isn’t that creepy, it’s more of being nosey. BUT people need to remember that someone’s social media personality only shows what they want you to see. There are plenty of couples who look like happy families online but are headed for divorce, or kind & gentle looking men who are actually abusive. Speaking from experience, a lot of fione men tend to be lame in real life. Don’t get wrapped up in fantasy land!
Nah Glen girls are detectives. If we have a name we are SEARCHING OKAY!? 😂 Gotta know if he’s worth the time of shooting a shot.
She has a crush on a man so she looked him up and that made the crush worse. This is normal Glen😂😂 I do think she should just be nice to him and maybe strike up conversation, and see if he’ll bite. If his IG or socials are public can he be mad?
Delulu girlhood. Men don’t get it 😂
I think it depends on the job. The gym is seen as a more "social" spot. Similar to a bar. I know bartenders who look up customers on social media and it's fine.
The bank is more of a "private" setting. I think any job that deals with sensitive/private information, you have to operate at a different level.
I love how yvette is being as honest as possible and Glen is making sure to protect the family name 😭😂 “let’s just say 2 weeks”..
“Chocolate baby story time” had me weak! When Glen said that he yelled at the son because he started seeing dollar signs the more he played around 😆😆
I remember in an earlier episode Yvette liked Idris Elba and Glen wasn't having it LOL
I met my fiancé at work. Neither of us currently work there now but now we have a 3 month old and are getting married this yr. We worked together while dating for almost 2 yrs.
“Appalled” 😂😂 LOL
Fun episode!!
Hope Theo heals fast!
Thank you! He's doing well, bummed about hockey though.
That is exactly it... the man who findth a wife... if you just go about your everyday self he will find you
as a 23 year old myself i am 100% looking up EVERYONE.😂 as for whether or not it’s creepy from work… debatable. but she probably didn’t have to search hard, first name and they live in the same city (probably even have mutual friends/followers) which most likely made her search very easy.
also! let’s keep in mind, she’s only observing what HE made public on social media 🤷🏽♀️. this is typical gen Z behavior
You've done this before I see... jk. Noted!☺️
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She should not shoot her shot lol she should be friendly with him (smile at him, say hello, look him in the eye) and if he doesn’t respond then move on. She doesn’t know him or if he would even be interested in her. He could have a whole girlfriend that he just doesn’t post. I agree with Glen she’s kinda setting herself up for a let down and also, when he finds out she looked him up how will he respond? I have a feeling men won’t really be fond of that lol I think she should slow down a little bit. It’s def crossing the line because she can see his address in his profile.
I agree with this. Just talk to him first lol. It's the best thing to do.
I’ve been working in banking for quite some time… I have absolutely smiled a little harder at a man that was already flirting after I see their account balances and credit score 🤷🏾♀️😂 I haven’t checked if they were at Starbucks but yeah… and added them on social after meeting. It’s a new day Glen 😂😂 Research is healthy!
😂😳 Glen is Too Old Schhool!
I definitely need to be attracted and that attraction has a range
Decision Making and the Will of God by Garry Frieson is a great book about how there isn't 1 right answer but God gives you options that they all could be right and within His will for your life
Homie from Love Jones stole Shawtys address from her record store receipt & showed up at her house. We sat there and called it a love story, naw home boy was a stalker!
Love the setup
The set is looking reall noiicceee lol
My goodness that chocolate baby story time reminded me of when my daughter broke her ankle trying to stop herself on the bike. The way I wanted to cry when they wanted to do X-rays and then sent us to the children’s hospital 😭.
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This looks good, you guys! Your realness is going to help and heal so many people. Your open communication and addressing things with one another is a good example.
Thank You!
I love the studio audience idea! Might have to take a trip 🎉
Crossing the line
Beautiful episode as always. Yvette, I am now an empty nester, but I LOVE the idea of that Mother's retreat...no workshops - just rest and connection. Exactly what mamas need 💚 Wishing you both (and your beautiful chocolate babies of course) rich blessings in 2024 (and beyond). I look forward to your stories and to doing life (virtually) with you
thank you!
OMG I wish I could attend the mom's retreat. My twins birthday is that month, 5th grade promotion ceremony and a week vacation already planned
Love it. You can't be any better. You 2 are awesome sauce
Also being fine is not always the answer
Glen gave some sound advice!
Yvette with a word at the end!!!❤
I’m older but taking the situation too far is not good , he might not be attracted to her, slow it down pray and let the Lord do his work in your life.
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I love the new set up 💙
“He will allow you to take that misstep, and the he will redirect you” 🤩💛✨ 42:20
You guys are great keep goin. We are here for it in every way possible. Love you guys. ❤
I love your channel ❤️ Greetings from Germany
love the set up
The way you guys harmonise is soooooo 🥰🥰🥰🥰I love it
I am cracking up laughing at you all seeing $$'s when you look at your son. Thanking God that I had good insurance when my son played every sport he could in each season. Then he would create risky situations and hurt himself like playing soccer with no shoes on in 30 degree weather. I thought I was gonna get arrested if I bought that boy back into the ER again, he had us in their so much. :)
I agree that it normal to look someone up on social media just don’t research/memorize and like Glen side put together a wholeeee life without haven’t talked to them first. You be surprised that something’s can’t translate thru social media and would surprise.
You should be cautious of searching someone's profile.
I so so so love you guys❤😂
I like the new set. And poll answer: Yes, It's a conflict of interest for sure.
OMG! That chocolate baby story was so funny!
Can you make a flyer I can tag my husband in so he gifts this to me for mother's day? 18:44
Tell her take her time she's twenty three
Declaring complete and quick healing over our internet nephew in Jesus name🫶🏼🙏🏼💪🏽
Hmm, not sure if Theo has glasses, but he may need glasses if he keeps falling
“ But You The Red Flag Tho ” LMAO Beleaf Does Not Hold Back
If your going against company privacy and looking up folks info.. yes you are a walking flag love
At minute 40:15 had me cracking up🤣🤣🤣
I know this comment is late (I'm just now listening to this episode) but pray against enemy arrows aimed towards Theo because as I was listening to the chocolate baby story about his accidents the Holy Spirit was saying it's an attack from the enemy (maybe witchcraft) that a spirit is making him accident prone. I'll be praying too, but just being obedient to comment the message from the Holy Spirit. Obviously take this to God in prayer, but you know the enemy loves to attack Christians and their firstborn sons for their birthrights. Jesus is Lord!! Love y'all and God bless! ❤
😮Y'all extending invitation s? Dont be surprised when show up now.🤨😏
Unfortunately, this is the age we live in to preview dating prospects
Nah I agree with Glen. That’s WILD behavior 😂😂😂 not saying I haven’t looked up people on social media or done a quick Google search to see if they k*lled someone 🙃😂 but I never added them and I waited for them to approach me or ask me out. If they didn’t…oh well 🤷🏽♀️
I’m torn on the looking up. I thought maybe she had actually spoken to him but to look someone up who didn’t even introduce themselves. Hmmmm. I do understand that it may be hard for a man to approach a woman and times have changed but uhhh. This makes me sound old. I never wanted to become interested in a man who I was not sure had any interest jn me. He sees her. Idk how to date in 2024 either. Thank goodness I’m married. This sounds stressful.
lurking a little isn't bad. but to either hit him up or let it be known will come off as being a little creepy. i called this woman gorgeous at wendy's a few months back....the next day she followed me on instagram and started liking my post. i couldn't imagine anyone liking this unless they had a real connection
It’s definitely normal in 2024 Glen 😂.
This behavior could cost her her job. This is could be considered stalking
Yeah it's not that serious, Glen getting old lol. A woman especially should research a dude she's attempting to interact with, and looking up socials isn't too much in this context.
Now, she said she's not abstinent, and wants a serious relationship. I think this will be a real test for her. Regardless of who he is when she starts to get to know him, or how vague he is with his plans for her, she's gonna be lusting after him. It may be clear that he's not her husband, and she's not his wife, even though he may be a nice guy. But if neither of you are abstinent and start doing everything you're imagining, you're going to forget all about the fact that marriage would be a problem for you two. Who knows how much time you'll waste, and start hoping against hope that it'll work. Next thing you know, you're in your 30's, and the next man you would have met had you not been distracted has already found someone else to be his wife, and you're wondering why you can't find a husband. Why didn't things work out with that great guy (that you forgot that even though he's great, you two would never end up married, or in a good relationship beyond sex.)
So make yourself available, draw some attention, start conversation so he knows you're interested. Just don't let your eyes distract you from the true prize.
Great and thoughtful comment with sound advice!
Now a" days you Need blood work and urine sample before
1 st dates
Nah that's creepy.
Is Yvette ADHD? She’s always distracted. I think I am also, so don’t take it personally.
Love the new setup? It seems more intimate, I think.
It's called life, just being a wife, and mom is a lot. Try it.