We divorced but I still Take care of him

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  • čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
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Komentáře • 42

  • @Jordanzw00
    @Jordanzw00 Před 5 měsíci +31

    I have had a similar experience with my ex husband who is chronically ill. My good sis needs to look into applying for social security disability benefits for her children. It is a supplement to what their father would contribute to the household if he were still working. It’s not a lot, but it’s been extremely helpful in ensuring the mortgage is paid.
    My heart goes out to her.

  • @suziesmith9076
    @suziesmith9076 Před 5 měsíci +19

    The woman in the first email has special grace I would’ve wheeled that mofo back to his mama in Kenya 😂😩😭

    • @C_Nicole
      @C_Nicole Před 5 měsíci +3

      When I say I hollered at this comment; maybe a little too hard🤭🤣

    • @Chloeeezyyy
      @Chloeeezyyy Před 5 měsíci +3

      Packed him up in a box and sent him by mail

  • @azayra1156
    @azayra1156 Před 5 měsíci +27

    Praying for the woman in the first story 🙏🏻💜

  • @whenyouwishuponastar6643
    @whenyouwishuponastar6643 Před 5 měsíci +23

    I relate to the second letter. My husband and I got married sooner due to extraneous circumstances and we thought we knew each other but real life is different than sitting and talking all night. My advice would be to learn to communicate in a mature way, give each other grace and look forward to the future.

  • @hazaiahgold5269
    @hazaiahgold5269 Před 5 měsíci +5

    “I’m serious about everything. I bought a puppet” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @StephanieFrench
    @StephanieFrench Před 5 měsíci +6

    I think it's a good thing the babies feel comfortable around each other. They have a healthy understanding of bodies rather than seeing nudity as sexual or "bad"

  • @lynngevity3724
    @lynngevity3724 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You know what I truly enjoy about this podcast? I enjoy the HMAY ending segment. I am 28 yrs married and would love to start this. My hubs and I are pretty close to becoming empty nesters and will finally be able to take spontaneous trips, go out on random dates, etc. Keep up the good work!!!❤❤

  • @lateataylor8876
    @lateataylor8876 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Facts...Her experience sounds like Tyler Perry's movie. WOW
    She needs hella help with the work and stress load.😭😭😭

  • @sonyatheoneyouseek5040
    @sonyatheoneyouseek5040 Před 5 měsíci +3

    I miss those cooking segments on Beleaf in Fatherhood.

  • @chandabwsandidge0430
    @chandabwsandidge0430 Před 5 měsíci +6

    18:57 Community is DEFINITELY necessary. Respite care for the man so she can have time for herself in the interim until next steps.

  • @alethiadavis1208
    @alethiadavis1208 Před 3 měsíci

    Glen always made magic in the kitchen. I remember those cooking segments from back in the day. Glen , if cooking is your thing for you then keep it just for you. Nothing wrong with that. Blessings

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 Před 5 měsíci +8

    You guys are hilarious when you're sleepy. Did Yvette fall asleep when she was thinking of how married she is 😂? Thats so kind of you both to rally for the young lady, kudos and blessings 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @ty6015
    @ty6015 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Dont ever stop, we need more realness out here. Much love!

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 Před 5 měsíci +10

    How you got lotion party and still ashy 😂

  • @emmylewis2164
    @emmylewis2164 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Yesss, shea butter will get you right!

  • @DF-gq4gp
    @DF-gq4gp Před 5 měsíci +2

    The Berenstain Bears mom stance is stuck in my head! You took me back over 40 years to those books! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @saab75
    @saab75 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I believe Yvette. The emphasis is marrying you after 2 months for insurance. 2 months!

  • @empresslivewire
    @empresslivewire Před 5 měsíci +3

    Glen said they did a whole hour lol Where’s the rest of the episode then 😂

  • @Trisha81
    @Trisha81 Před 5 měsíci +1

    She can get her husband a PCA/Home Health aid worker. I would assume since he's disabled now he qualifies for medical assistance or some other type of program that can help assist her in that manner. Aside from that, maybe she should just let him go to the nursing home and she finds a second job. She didn't mention anything about her own family, can she not rely on them for childcare? Maybe she needs to go the ol school way and reach out to a neighbor with a teenager who can help babysit for a small fee. With cameras in the home of course. Her 2nd job could be remote. I know that's easier said than done but she has to start looking and exploring her options.

  • @Dea.jamone
    @Dea.jamone Před 5 měsíci

    The husband is hilarious when he’s sleepy 😭😭

  • @raggedyhaggity250
    @raggedyhaggity250 Před 5 měsíci +2

    The thing about marrying to share insurance plans/benefits, or tax benefits might not be a thing in USA but its a whole thing in Germany! The ppl there are so practical its a common joke there. I saw this courtesy of Uyen Ninh

  • @ItsPersonalwithAshleyElle
    @ItsPersonalwithAshleyElle Před 5 měsíci +1

    I feel the eating part of the fitness journey. I often struggle with eating the right amount of food to support the work I've been doing in the gym to actually see the gains so Yvette I feel you! (assuming this is what you mean)

  • @jamiehigh924
    @jamiehigh924 Před 5 měsíci

    You all are so funny together. It's really beautiful to watch.

  • @lateataylor8876
    @lateataylor8876 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Yes think about bringing back food for thought! Please 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 Maybe once a week or even once a month 😁

  • @amg5967
    @amg5967 Před 5 měsíci +8

    APPLY FOR CHILD SUPPORT SOCIAL SECIRTY WILL PAY YOU AND PUT HIM IN A HOME OR GIVE HIM OVER TO HIS SISTER

  • @CrystalH777
    @CrystalH777 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Man I love y'all! 💚💚💚

  • @Mgenao76
    @Mgenao76 Před 5 měsíci

    YES FOOD FOR THOUGHT!! 🎉❤

  • @TheHarrisFour
    @TheHarrisFour Před 5 měsíci

    OMG yes bringing back food for thought would be nice but I hear Beleaf saying he doesn't want cooking to feel like work

  • @chandabwsandidge0430
    @chandabwsandidge0430 Před 5 měsíci

    33:51 I’m assuming YT kicked back a lil something for these ads I’m watching… lol, right at your stretch break, YT said, time for an ad lol.

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 Před 5 měsíci

    Lmao I love y’all so funny

  • @jehovahskid
    @jehovahskid Před 5 měsíci

    My two kids had eczema and their doctor said to use vegetable shortening after bathing to seal in moisture. It has no chemicals or perfumes in it and it's cheaper.😊

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci

      They used to put Crisco & plastic gloves on this one boy in the early '00s 😂

    • @Heyu7her3
      @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci

      But cocoa butter (the kind in a cylindrical tub) is how I heal my eczema in the winter months

  • @Heyu7her3
    @Heyu7her3 Před 5 měsíci +2

    The title just screams HECK NO. Just think whether an ex-husband will do the same for you... 🥴😭

  • @empresslivewire
    @empresslivewire Před 5 měsíci +1

    She suggested marriage way too quick. She should have made him bring it up

  • @annak706
    @annak706 Před 5 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @stephaniejones7015
    @stephaniejones7015 Před 4 měsíci

    Women have to stop missionary dating & marriages. The couple who got married for insurance, something else could have been figured out.

  • @djwright5686
    @djwright5686 Před 4 měsíci

    Why r u into solving the problem. She clearly as toxic as he is. She has decisions to make.only she can do that. Resources r what will free her. So that where she needs to head.❤

  • @tamikalove2658
    @tamikalove2658 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I truly appreciate this channel and I salute you both for your transparency and sharing your life for the culture.🤎