Men and Marriage: Why Men don't want to get married?

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  • čas přidán 22. 08. 2024

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  • @shivanimadanbose4056
    @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +20

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    • @ksrinandasai8089
      @ksrinandasai8089 Před měsícem

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 ok ,I will watch other related topics also

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      @@ksrinandasai8089 Thank you for your support 😊

    • @aaku-gt1it
      @aaku-gt1it Před měsícem

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056 orto ne aadmiyo ki tarah hona chuna hai par aadmiyo ne kab kaha tha ki wo orto k tarah hoge ? aadmi shadi karta hai patni laata hai taki wo uska Ghar sambhale

    • @aaku-gt1it
      @aaku-gt1it Před měsícem

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056dusri baat ab ladkiyo ko bhi samjhna chahiye ki wo agar job karti to kisi berojgar ladke ya apne se kam salary wale ladke se shadi kar sakti hai jaisi kisi company ki owner kabhi apne peon se shadi nahi karegi ya driver se ??wo or bada businessman hi dundegi

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      @@DataScientist1996
      Thank you for sharing your deeply personal thoughts and experiences. It's clear that you've given this a lot of consideration, and your perspective highlights the complexities and changing dynamics of relationships and family roles in modern society. It's important to respect individual choices and understand that everyone has their own reasons for the paths they choose. Focusing on contributing positively to the world and caring for loved ones, regardless of marital status, is a commendable approach. Appreciate your insight and honesty.

  • @sagaradhikari3192
    @sagaradhikari3192 Před měsícem +565

    Its the unrealistic expectations of women and biased laws which are preventing men from thinking about marriage.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +9

      Why do you think women expectations are unrealistic?

    • @unlockedsecrets9543
      @unlockedsecrets9543 Před měsícem +1

      ​​​@@shivanimadanbose4056
      They don't believe in equality when it doesn't suit them. So if she's earning 1 lakh per month she wants a ahudband who's earning more than 2 lakh per month. They hate their in laws even if they're good folks and expect husband to love her parents
      because they have double standards. They say they're empowered when it suits them and say they're not when it suits them to gain benefits.
      For her, her money is hers and her husband's money is also hers.
      They want benefits of modern culture and also benefits of traditional culture.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +8

      Parents of both boy & girl need to be respected. Each child had to take up responsibility of their parents

    • @harrypotter4795
      @harrypotter4795 Před měsícem +103

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 burh the problem is ladki kuch bhi nahi karegi or ghar ka kaam bhi nhi or pese bhi chiye kon hi manega a

    • @sagaradhikari3192
      @sagaradhikari3192 Před měsícem +135

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 well most of the girls who are earning have a bitter attitude which says that they don't need anyone. By any chance if they decide to marry then they and their parents for a guy who is already settled and earning more than a lakh per month. Besides they think that household duties are a burden. Even if divorce happens due to infidelity or any other reason, only the men will have to pay the price. So whats the point of marrying when everything is against us

  • @BruceLee-lx6zh
    @BruceLee-lx6zh Před měsícem +263

    41 and happily single. Don't want toxicity and unfairness into my life.

    • @rrr8161
      @rrr8161 Před měsícem +22

      Respect sir

    • @surajkolhe8268
      @surajkolhe8268 Před měsícem +10

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @anandmehta2323
      @anandmehta2323 Před 29 dny +36

      Same here. Enjoying life. Have a few hobbies, travel etc and have no headaches like all my married friends.
      I know very few couples where the wife is a sweetheart who brings peace, warmth and joy to her guys life. Rest all are nagging bitches who can never be happy no matter how much the husband does for her.

    • @christopherhall2571
      @christopherhall2571 Před 29 dny

      @@anandmehta2323 "I know very few couples where the wife is a sweetheart who brings peace, warmth and joy to her guys life." I concur!!!!

    • @dragorod6307
      @dragorod6307 Před 28 dny +20

      great decision, stay single brother don't fall for this modern day 304's, they'll only ruin your mental health

  • @swarnadipmitra1095
    @swarnadipmitra1095 Před měsícem +196

    Women: Why don't you want to marry?
    Men: Laws are very women sided and scary for men, they give too much power to the women over her husband, one false domestic violence case and the man's life is literally over.
    Women: Not all women are bad like that. Most are decent.
    Men: why don't you give the keys to your safe to a random stranger on the street?
    Women: Are you crazy? Who knows what he will steal.
    Men: Not all people on the streets are bad like that. Most are decent 😂
    Edit:
    Women: surprised pikachu face
    Population: under control
    Unemployment: reducing
    Global warming: stabilising
    Crime rate: lowered
    Competition: stalled
    Hotel: trivago

  • @SlimJim3082
    @SlimJim3082 Před měsícem +354

    Men don't wanna pay full price for a used product. Period

    • @user-vk9ji2nf1b
      @user-vk9ji2nf1b Před měsícem +53

      Yes correct 💯
      Same reason for me,used product kyun use kare becoz am still virgin @24

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +25

      But a non virgin guy should not demand a virgin girl.

    • @SlimJim3082
      @SlimJim3082 Před měsícem +40

      @@superboy3633 men are the buyers lol. We can demand. The product can't... What world are u living in?

    • @dawntodusk2023
      @dawntodusk2023 Před měsícem +6

      Ok so virgin girl = toxic and non-virgin girl = loyal, wants an understanding, ambitious person.
      Ab chalega?

    • @educarion960
      @educarion960 Před měsícem +13

      ​@@dawntodusk2023 then i want choose anyone simple i want to virgin loyal and non toxic

  • @cankit7272
    @cankit7272 Před měsícem +133

    90% girls apne past mein phasi hui h shaadi k baad b wo apne ex boyfriend se baat krna nhi chodti ...boyfriend ko apna muh bola bhai btati h yahi sab reason h

    • @Vshoko_youtube
      @Vshoko_youtube Před měsícem +10

      Ryt

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +22

      I think thats cheating on your partner & cant be accepted

    • @user-ny3id6kl3g
      @user-ny3id6kl3g Před měsícem

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 and what exactly can a man do in this situation?
      what exact remedies are there??
      A man who is stuck in such a wedding has no option
      you might go far enough to say, consider divorce!
      and then what?
      I think you are well aware about the laws you have to pay your wife to leave you, because she is busy making someone else's bed warm
      after that comes a long litigation of 10-15 years
      god forbids if you have a child with that wretched woman, you'll most likely miss out his/her entire childhood.
      so why men don't wanna get married?
      I think it's a joke, so far, I've lived my entire life in Chandigarh {I can't even think about the women in places like Mumbai or Bangalore} women start dating men left and right from the moment they hit their teens, by the time they are literally pressured into marrying and ruining someone's life, they are just intoxicated creatures, that are both irredeemable and insufferable.
      SO YEAH MEN WOULD MUCH RATHER GET A LOYAL DOG AND CHASTISE THEMSELVES FOR THEIR ENTIRE LIFE, THEN TO EVER JUMP INTO A POOL OF MUD AND SLOTH WITH A WOMAN!
      I would love to read your reply on this, you seem like an old woman, maybe you'll leave a better perspective, though I'm doubtful.

    • @anandmehta2323
      @anandmehta2323 Před 29 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 Yeah but cheating by women is so very common. Almost every girl I know has her boyfriend/husband and 10 other guys in their dm's.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056family courts ignore that unfortunately in India

  • @sandeepshonik6523
    @sandeepshonik6523 Před měsícem +93

    Its biased laws and mother in laws thats scaring men away. Law ki laadorani se door raho is the mantra. .....

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +5

      Ohh thats scary

    • @sandeepshonik6523
      @sandeepshonik6523 Před měsícem +15

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 hope u did not say that in sarcasm. Because if someone visits Women police station and Court will see how men are been harrowed. Thousands of men commit suicide because its not easy to fight biasled laws while doing a job and seeing your family being torn apart. And yes, she takes kids away, that hurts.. insult overall hurts...hope u never find yourself in such situation otherwise you will be out of words to describe the scaryness

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny +1

      @@shivanimadanbose4056seriously didn’t you know or just pretend ing like other feminist

  • @pratikthakur7189
    @pratikthakur7189 Před měsícem +152

    With due respect Ma'am... Apne Men ke bare mein toh explain kr diya.. But you didn't mention the increasing promiscuous behaviour of women.. And also our messed up law system.. Which only acts in favour of women.. And women are using it for their own benefit very shrewdly... This are also some of the biggest reasons...💔💔

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +13

      I mentioned about failed marriages for which both men & women are irresponsible. Infidelity irrespective of gender leads to divorce, isnt it

    • @pratikthakur7189
      @pratikthakur7189 Před měsícem +37

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 you're right ma'am... But the thing is it is the husband that have to suffer... Doesn't matter who has done Infedility(wife or husband) ... Why would any sane person(male) would want to marry in such circumstances... 💔💔🥲

    • @Shivam782
      @Shivam782 Před měsícem +21

      @@pratikthakur7189 because of the rise of feminism which defines the satisfaction of women matters the most and social media which can be called an infidelity machine, this cheating is happening a lot but the women favoring law is a two sided blade for men. Men would have to suffer if he does infidelity or even if the wife does. So how men will be motivated for marriage.

    • @pratikthakur7189
      @pratikthakur7189 Před měsícem +4

      @@Shivam782 Bro maine bhi toh same thing kaha hai... Aap mere argument ko support kr rhe ho ya counter?!

    • @krishm9194
      @krishm9194 Před měsícem

      She won’t disclose those things bro coz she’s indirectly emphasising the so called women empowerment women independency shit n all coz she’s a woman too

  • @din4557
    @din4557 Před měsícem +66

    Just to add some major setbacks for men.
    Biased laws against men
    Men have to pay for maintenance of these so called empowered women.
    Men along with their family have to face the brunt of many criminal laws.
    Men are denied custody and even visitation of their children at times.
    Men and the male members can be charged with false cases like rape, molestation, unnatural sex.
    The list goes on and on
    Not to forget when a man comes out of these cases by winning in court,no coercive action is taken against woman who had filed it

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +9

      Thats the unfortunate truth

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny +2

      @@shivanimadanbose4056unfortunately family courts and feminism does not acknowledge that plus our Hindu religion is also in favour of women they have given married women Goddess status

    • @cuttingstitching-dressmaki3016
      @cuttingstitching-dressmaki3016 Před 27 dny

      The whole world is facing these issues and the real perpetrators are the elites who want the family system destroyed so they can easily control individuals with materialism. The only ones who can fight it unfortunately are men themselves. But men want to run away from responsibilities and they are letting evil forces win. Why dont protest the same way as women did in western countries that brought women liberation? Men need to start protesting and stop running, its the only way ahead, dont expect any good from women that they will come to propose us men, they are illogical emotional creatures. We will have to fight ourselves for our rights

  • @Alexander-ch6ch
    @Alexander-ch6ch Před měsícem +104

    Ma'am there's no 50/50 in marriage and today woman are just want to lead but they are not capable after that they just put false case in court.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +3

      Could you tell me how they want to lead

    • @Alexander-ch6ch
      @Alexander-ch6ch Před měsícem +46

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 ma'am they just demand expensive things/ travel and all . If we( men) don't do those things they just start chaos at home all day and all night. And also emotion manipulation and all.

    • @vikramadityaparihar563
      @vikramadityaparihar563 Před měsícem +8

      Yes, you are right I had also decided not to marry....Just money only 😘

    • @rajdeeppatil3623
      @rajdeeppatil3623 Před měsícem +14

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 Mam, the Gen Z generation is crazy. You might not know but if you look closely are ground level, like in colleges, in job sectors, women have lost their true value which was "femininity". If women are not women, why men should need them? I am not pointing you dear mam, women like you are ultra rare and it used to be in olden times. Maybe your generation is the last generation who were true WOMEN and actually did all their responsibilities very honestly. I respect you dear mam.

    • @sololife9260
      @sololife9260 Před měsícem

      ​@@Alexander-ch6ch bro she's also a woman, do you think she doesn't know that. Even she's manipulating the narrative as empowered women and non-empowered men. She's not ready to accept that women only want to date up not down.

  • @princereddy4887
    @princereddy4887 Před měsícem +93

    Reason is the extreme materialistic culture that has come into our society, My wife divorced me to reunite with her lover and only married me because of family pressure and soon bailed

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +25

      @@princereddy4887 that's why i fear marrying a woman, i mean work hard get a car get a home pay emi's and at the end of the day that's what you get? LoL i am better alone

    • @Neetukumari-qz2ke
      @Neetukumari-qz2ke Před měsícem +6

      Isme tho ladki k parent ki galati hai

    • @MohitSingh-gv3gf
      @MohitSingh-gv3gf Před měsícem

      why the girl is not Wrong in it ??
      Atleast she must have taken that stand for her life otherwise It's bullshit to blame the parents only in whole this cycle the BOY with whom the Girl is married have caves a lot ..

    • @arghyaghoshal9439
      @arghyaghoshal9439 Před měsícem +22

      ​@@Neetukumari-qz2ke Ye India hai boss galti kisi ka bhi ho suffer ladko ko hi krna padta hai

    • @anirudhnair6194
      @anirudhnair6194 Před měsícem +6

      ​​@@Neetukumari-qz2ke aisa bolo ki ladka ka Galti hai kyumki pyda hua ke mard ban gaya. Aur ladki apni family aur parents ke bare mein socha , but wo bechera ladka aur uska zindagi ke bare mein nahi socha. Aisa faltu ki excuses felo mat.

  • @indianfirst1883
    @indianfirst1883 Před měsícem +209

    Have been a single male all throughout my life and advise others as well to remain single. Your mental health is more important than having a partner and raising a family.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +9

      Doesn't family provide emotional support too?

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +18

      @@indianfirst1883 Great choice brother 🙌🏻❤️🏋🏻‍♂️

    • @indianfirst1883
      @indianfirst1883 Před měsícem +38

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 Do not generalize like this. If by marriage all people were getting the emotional support always then why is there more pain and suffering in men these days ??? Why are there more broken marriages now than during the times of our parents ?? Trust me, if you can stay alone as a single male (which is not possible for everyone I agree) then it is worth more being on your own. And when it comes to family support during tough times like when I was admitted due to covid-19 infection, I have by siblings to depend upon and also supported them when they needed my support.

    • @ashishs4665
      @ashishs4665 Před měsícem

      It's more like, I have a pathetic life so everyone should have the same..

    • @vinay10949
      @vinay10949 Před měsícem +29

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056 Gender biased laws, Courts still believe women in patriarchy? Man needs to provide provide provide, else go to jail, Then all false cases coming up, with no accountability.

  • @aniksinha9513
    @aniksinha9513 Před měsícem +265

    I also don't want to get married due to feminism despite being a govt job holder and eligible bachelor😂😂

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +10

      💁‍♀️💁‍♀️💁‍♀️

    • @sachinpawar1460
      @sachinpawar1460 Před měsícem +60

      Full support to you brother, when the laws and society both are against men then it's better to be single and prioritise other goals. 👍👍

    • @saitamapreetsingh3057
      @saitamapreetsingh3057 Před měsícem +33

      Bro maze karo life me, bhaad me gyi women's expectation and bhaad me jaye ye marriage, have sexual freedom all you want.

    • @kshitijpanda
      @kshitijpanda Před měsícem +6

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056ma'am he wanted to say pseudo feminism.

    • @aniksinha9513
      @aniksinha9513 Před měsícem +1

      @@saitamapreetsingh3057 wahi toh

  • @Abhishekkumar-l2g7f
    @Abhishekkumar-l2g7f Před měsícem +204

    I am 30, i have decided to stay single forever.....

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +36

      @@Abhishekkumar-l2g7f Great choice brother 💪🏻🏋🏻‍♂️.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +6

      Why have you decided to stay single?

    • @user-xk5uq2jr1c
      @user-xk5uq2jr1c Před měsícem +20

      Same here

    • @ujjwalyadav3783
      @ujjwalyadav3783 Před měsícem

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056is adhed umr ko kon ldki dega apni😌

    • @Abhishekkumar-l2g7f
      @Abhishekkumar-l2g7f Před měsícem +74

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 Main reason is - women centric marital laws which are often misused against men.....

  • @masterquiz143
    @masterquiz143 Před měsícem +59

    I am 30 and trying to get married …
    Get my situation…
    Studied from Good University Good College…
    Got Govt job …
    Father Mother Govt Employee… Sister Doctor…
    Yet Some 12 th standard pass girl want Class 1 officer .
    Girl expectations very high
    Girl parents expectations much high …
    Today’s marriages are not Marriages. They are commercial Showoffs where Boy can boast of a beautiful girl , Girl gets a Rich bakra for life and Both parents show off their Wealth…
    Hell I want a normal girl for marriage … 😅

  • @tusshargupta99
    @tusshargupta99 Před měsícem +32

    The only answer is.
    Men don't want to mess up their heads with toxic women

  • @danielbucket9772
    @danielbucket9772 Před měsícem +45

    I dated a girl , she gave me a long list of demands. Which is impossible for me 😊

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +9

      My question is that what I can get after marrying a girl?

    • @abxknight1386
      @abxknight1386 Před měsícem

      ​@@superboy3633Food and

    • @rrr8161
      @rrr8161 Před měsícem +5

      Relationship vs Financialship

    • @dragorod6307
      @dragorod6307 Před 28 dny +7

      @@superboy3633 you'll get to raise another mans kid 🤣

    • @Moe-Moe121
      @Moe-Moe121 Před 25 dny +3

      Just marry her I guarantee you she divorce and files cases against you for alimony and property😂😂😂

  • @mohammedakramjameel6322
    @mohammedakramjameel6322 Před měsícem +65

    Being a man. . . Yahan pe comment likhna bhi aj kal dangerous sabit hota he . . .but still I would like keep it as diplomatic as possible. Today's women say they have studied well , they have got great degrees, they can live independently, they are earning well and many more things. . . before marriage girls parents portray that there's no girl in d world better than their daughter for marriage. . But once marriage the so calle mother in law will show her true cheap colors which she terms herself as power... Added to it india laws are absolutely biased towards women. Being a married woman in india gives tremendous amount of power against her husband by the constitution. . So all this makes an Indian married woman an empowered woman . . . Also these days getting a suitable match is very very difficult. . Rather i suggest. . Stay single. . Earn well. . . Spend well. . Serve ur parents. Explore world. . Help the poor . . Do good deeds and complete ur time on earth . . Don't get in into so called trap of marrige

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      Do you think Indian women are empowered while men are not?

    • @mohammedakramjameel6322
      @mohammedakramjameel6322 Před měsícem +7

      Most definitely mam... I beleive The reason of my comment speaks out the same and the comment itself tells the same. .

    • @KR-dp6cb
      @KR-dp6cb Před měsícem +1

      ​​​@@shivanimadanbose4056yup men r not that much empowered, mere blood relation mein ek bhaiya hai 2 saal pehale shadi hui thi, lekin kuch time baad phir unn didi ke behaviour mein change aa gaya Bangalore se ghum kar Ane ke baad, uske naam pe property bhi likh diya tha bhaiya ke Ghar valo ne kyunki unhone socha tha vo bahut achi hai, divorce ke baad pata chala un didi ka dil kisi aur pe aa gaya, kuch mahine pehale divorce ho gaya unka.
      Aur property bhi mil gaya unko.

    • @factsunloaded4808
      @factsunloaded4808 Před měsícem +1

      ​​@@shivanimadanbose4056no that why fir women protection there are 59 laws but for men its zero...thats why men were never empowered 🎉jab protected environment milega tab na insaan empowerment hoga😂

    • @mayukhranjanbhuyan380
      @mayukhranjanbhuyan380 Před měsícem +16

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056please educate yourself regarding the anti men laws and rampant misandry in the Indian society. You're simply hitting the softer issues while ignoring the hardcore ones and this won't help in anyway shape or form.

  • @HonestReviewers
    @HonestReviewers Před měsícem +34

    Iitian here, not getting married bcoz it’s not worth the hassle

    • @okayaresd
      @okayaresd Před 20 dny +1

      Tu ladka pehle hai ki IITian?

  • @Hopelessboy-Av7
    @Hopelessboy-Av7 Před měsícem +27

    Its hard to find a fresh girl. All expired and torned ones

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem

      @@Hopelessboy-Av7
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's important to approach discussions about relationships with respect and sensitivity. Everyone has their own unique journey and experiences, and valuing individuals for who they are is key to building meaningful connections. Let's strive for conversations that promote understanding and respect for all.

    • @educarion960
      @educarion960 Před měsícem +12

      same bro and it hard for us virgin guys who were busy building our career

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny +3

      @@shivanimadanbose4056😂😂😂😂 you live in a Utopian world 😂😂😂😂

    • @TheChallengerTechnofom
      @TheChallengerTechnofom Před 24 dny

      Virgin guys like us will only get a secret escort girl..., funny but true😂😂

    • @Gavin_Francis_123
      @Gavin_Francis_123 Před 17 dny +2

      ​@@educarion960 I know very well...that you wouldn't even have tried to find .... You are simply saying to counter his statement and that's how fake and pathetic you guys have become

  • @Edu_Think.007
    @Edu_Think.007 Před měsícem +26

    Dear Boys, learn laws before getting married.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      That would help

    • @SodiumSyndicate
      @SodiumSyndicate Před měsícem

      If you learn the laws, no Indian man will ever marry an Indian woman in India. The only way out is to marry a foreign girl in a foreign country & keep her there only with the kids. But that means your culture is gone. India is finished.

    • @NishantKumarsinghRajput1
      @NishantKumarsinghRajput1 Před 23 dny

      Shadi kar k dulha banna hai ki lawyer banna hai 😂😂

    • @KnottyLawyers
      @KnottyLawyers Před 19 dny

      If you know the formula of water that doesn't mean you will not sink in it.

    • @-Blue-_
      @-Blue-_ Před 12 dny

      ​​@@shivanimadanbose4056laws ko padhne ke bat vo shadi karega hi nahi 😂😂😂 mai to chahata hu ki india ka fertility rate 0.9 tak chale jaye

  • @SAPCareers2025
    @SAPCareers2025 Před měsícem +48

    RECENTLY THE SUPREME COURT HAS PASSED A LAW IN WHICH IF A GIRL SLEEPS WITH AN EMPLOYER TO GET A JOB, ITS NOT A CRIMINAL OFFENSE ANYMORE😂😂😂

    • @mad-myths
      @mad-myths Před měsícem +11

      supreme court : Yo go girl 👍

    • @SAPCareers2025
      @SAPCareers2025 Před měsícem

      @@mad-myths they are promoting prostitution in corporate

    • @souravroy6431
      @souravroy6431 Před měsícem +5

      Noo that can't be true. Really???

    • @SAPCareers2025
      @SAPCareers2025 Před měsícem +5

      @@souravroy6431 yes Iam thinking now to hire good looking female candidates😅

    • @Ashutoshh608
      @Ashutoshh608 Před měsícem +4

      ​@souravroy6431 yes its true...extramaritial affairs are not crime anymore

  • @GoodVibeClipz
    @GoodVibeClipz Před měsícem +15

    I am 40 single, have a job, Happy , live alone , I do cooking and cleaning and all other things. So why do I need a girl. I can take care of myself. If I save money for my future, the old age is not a probem.
    So make money, buy assets. Enjoy life.❤❤❤.
    I don't hate women. I am just a Happy Man.

  • @juicepops5344
    @juicepops5344 Před měsícem +16

    Marriage serves no purpose in men's life except having children which can happen without marriage also💀

  • @MrArian772001
    @MrArian772001 Před měsícem +58

    Women are not trustworthy at all. When we ask them during the meeting....what are her expectations? She says bas loving caring and usual stuff.. shaadi ke baad huge checklist and arguments. You are not capable.. tum mujhe yeh nahi dete woh nahi dete.. forget it.. stay away and enjoy being single. Institution of Marriage is no longer respected. Women have started disrespecting men in the name of freedom of expression and fake feminism..Pehle marriage matlab HUM tha..now it is all about ME ME ME

    • @devangpatel4461
      @devangpatel4461 Před měsícem +4

      सही है भाई, I'M ALSO face this kind of situation

    • @sonukr2008
      @sonukr2008 Před měsícem +3

      Bro, it's because of the rise in narcissistic women.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      Could you pls elaborate?

    • @sonukr2008
      @sonukr2008 Před měsícem +5

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 Narcissism is a broad spectrum personality traits than can be overt or covert variety. People with these traits show typical characteristics which you can find in internet. However,few traits like grandiocity, validation,sense of superiority, manipulative tactics or gaslighting etc are common. These people are eternally broken inside but portrays a false identity outward.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056please visit family courts and get real time experiences in seeing family matter hearings please don’t be naive

  • @karthikchand
    @karthikchand Před měsícem +23

    I am 21 years old, from childhood I decided that I will never get married and I will stay single until my death, not because of all those reasons which was mentioned in this video, because from childhood my dream is to become a Bhramhachari and to never loose my virginity. I am always alone and don't talk with anyone. And what's wrong in prioritizing ourselves and our dreams, how can you tell its wrong? I will die, I will do suicide but I will never marry.

    • @mad-myths
      @mad-myths Před měsícem +4

      Maybe you will feel lonely very soon , because you always alone and don't talk to anyone.its not good for your mental health you are social animal you can't be alone if you don't have friend you can talk to your parents but please talk 🙏

    • @karthikchand
      @karthikchand Před měsícem +1

      @@mad-myths My parents already know about this, and this is my personal decision to stay single forever. And I don't think I will get mentally ill because of loneliness. You can watch there are so many sadhus and sanyasis who live single without any mental health issues.

    • @mad-myths
      @mad-myths Před měsícem +3

      @@karthikchand even monks have other monks as friend they talks to eachother

    • @karthikchand
      @karthikchand Před měsícem +1

      @@mad-myths Watch an oldest living person who is 128 years old and he is Bhramhachari

    • @mad-myths
      @mad-myths Před měsícem

      @@karthikchand what? how verginity comes in it i am talking about a male have other male to talk to understand each other emotions even if he does not want to marry he still has people around him brahmchari ho ya nahi uska isse koi connection nahi hai

  • @pradeep21singh
    @pradeep21singh Před měsícem +15

    Women are independent but always look after 10 x times richer men . Once marriage is broken then independent women get a huge amount of alimony and maintenance .
    Adultery is a crime for a husband but not for a wife.

  • @sayandeysarkar3354
    @sayandeysarkar3354 Před měsícem +48

    Thik hai women ko biasness dikhaao, but sabse important real reason aapne chod diya woh hai,more laws and sections in favour of women and girls , and men having no security in the same, and many false allegations, cases, by women even if false , Men suffer a lot,from family death to them jailed to spending tons of alimony or punishment...Also some fake pseduo feminism concepts exist today,--these are well known facts,

    • @drarunmaurya3127
      @drarunmaurya3127 Před měsícem +1

      Men are born free. Nature did not gave him organs to give birth and nurture so reproduction is not their primary responsibility. It was responsibility of women so they wanted some creature who can provide and protect them to fulfill this smoothly. Men's role was just to donate sperm and move on. So matriarchy invented institution of marriage and trapped men by offering him many incentives like food, mex, money, name, reputation, appreciation etc. etc. . Men got lured and become ready to take responsibilities of a married life in exchange of these things. With time it became tradition and culture. But at present due to change in women attitude and laws there are no incentives for men to get married but still he has to bear all responsibilities of marriage life, if fails , he goes to jail. Responsibility with out any rights is like slavery !

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem

      I have covered it

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +1

      @@sayandeysarkar3354 Exactly

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem

      Thats true

    • @factsunloaded4808
      @factsunloaded4808 Před měsícem

      Yup... that's why 90 percent dowry cases are fake one done to supress boys family... that's why according to NCRB men suicide rate is 4 times than women in marriage...at this out family society structure will fall just like its happening in west due to extreme Feminism and gender biased laws 🎉

  • @user-hs4bc9um8r
    @user-hs4bc9um8r Před měsícem +29

    Ma'am i also dont want to marry, cuz im very afraid of biased laws, i have seen so many cases where men are completely ruined by their ex wives, i m 23 right now and i have convinced my self that I'll never marry. Idont want to go to jail under 498a, and I'm unable to handle dowry case on myself. I give up 😢.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +5

      Laws should be fair and neutral irrespective of gender

    • @mad-myths
      @mad-myths Před měsícem

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056but they are not

    • @RoyalRaj-ou7zm
      @RoyalRaj-ou7zm Před měsícem +2

      Proud of you brother.!

    • @kallolchakraborty98
      @kallolchakraborty98 Před 28 dny

      ​​​@@shivanimadanbose4056no its not law only support female ese hazaro case me apko dikha sakta hu jaha pe ladko ka life barbad kardia... biased judiciary system

    • @maheshgupta2620
      @maheshgupta2620 Před 27 dny

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056 law is not fair it is one side , in current time a sex worker better option than a wife.

  • @hemant-------
    @hemant------- Před měsícem +52

    I am 36, not interested in marriage.
    Leading to happy, healthy, succesful life.
    And you mentioned right, I really wanna roam the world,
    And also my parents will (but not with me 😂)

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +1

      @@hemant------- 🙌🏻❤️🏋🏻‍♂️

    • @simpleguy38
      @simpleguy38 Před 24 dny +1

      I am 36 too not married 😅🎉

  • @rajukumar-vf2nt
    @rajukumar-vf2nt Před měsícem +17

    Some girls are burden trust me. They dont want to contribute in the family. One of my friends got married a year ago now he is very frustrated

  • @Bees3689
    @Bees3689 Před měsícem +39

    Marriage benefits only women. The laws are in favour of women. Why do men take risk ?

  • @numenorian8606
    @numenorian8606 Před měsícem +17

    Anti Men Laws & Men treated as Third class citizens in this country

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      Why do you think so?

    • @VivaDukors
      @VivaDukors Před měsícem +14

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056 Women: innocent until proven guilty.
      Men: guilty, until proven innocent.

    • @mad-myths
      @mad-myths Před měsícem +2

      ​​@@shivanimadanbose4056ever traveled in delhi metro?

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056your acting so naive😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bipanshurajak1073
    @bipanshurajak1073 Před měsícem +21

    Mam man scare of marriage because of cheating wife cases , fake gender bais cases & laws fake , and cases like Joyoti maurya are increaseing men think meri wali alg hai but she prove she is not unique 😂0

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      Why do you think sop

    • @bipanshurajak1073
      @bipanshurajak1073 Před měsícem +10

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 because women want equality but can't marry equal salry man women want equality can't fight against gender bais indian law women want sanatan dhrma type RESPECT but can't follow sanatan dharm
      Have you ever saw any Muslim women Fight Against HIJAB

  • @Salian85
    @Salian85 Před měsícem +30

    I’m an Indian guy based in the US, I’m well settled and look good. From past 1 year I’m trying to get married and couple of things that really scared me. Modern Women are not emotionally available, they have a laundry list of unrealistic expectations from men, almost everyone says that she doesn’t need a man which has become annoying to my ears, emotional connection is not a priority, instagram is their go to app for showing everything that they are doing, their career has become so important that there is no time for connection . I’ve started to wonder should I even invest my time finding a woman that doesn’t exist anymore. I think 15 years back, it was still easy to find a good woman but now it has become impossible. I feel sad to see Indian women turning out this way

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      @@Salian85
      Thank you for sharing your experience and concerns. The dynamics of relationships have indeed changed over the years, and it can be challenging to navigate these changes. It's important to remember that while some individuals may have different priorities, there are still many who value emotional connections and meaningful relationships. It might take time and patience to find someone whose values align with yours. Keep an open mind and continue to seek out genuine connections. Your perspective is valuable, and I appreciate you sharing it.

    • @devangpatel4461
      @devangpatel4461 Před měsícem +4

      इसलिए ये गुजराती & Punjabis USA & Canada Jare है For Marriage Purposes

    • @Salian85
      @Salian85 Před měsícem

      @@devangpatel4461 person well settled in india or abroad, should really understand a woman very well, as we have a lot to lose if things go wrong

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +3

      ​@@devangpatel4461Bahi Usa ka haal hi behaal h. Usa ki ladkiya 👎👎

    • @devangpatel4461
      @devangpatel4461 Před měsícem

      @@superboy3633 Kya Kar सकते हैं, मिलेंगी कभी ना कभी 🤣😝😅😍😜

  • @guhhhamqd4019
    @guhhhamqd4019 Před měsícem +26

    What about uncontrollable female promiscuousity and biased laws
    Saari criteria admi hi meet up karega kya

  • @ssri4695
    @ssri4695 Před měsícem +13

    My mom has started searching for girl for last one year the way most of parents talk and their thinking, only money. even after talking to few girls they are really interested me. they don't want to understand each other. They want us to understand them, even if they are wrong.
    Single marna pasand karunga par ye sab ke saath Jeevan nahi jeeyuga. jaha hame sirf or sirf provider ke nazar se dekha jaata hai. They don't want to see us as human beings who has feelings too. and these feelings comes from mother and father love toward us. I will stay single but will never make a relationship which doesn't have a kind of love which my mother and father has showed and taught me.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      This is really sad. Marriage requires understanding among 2 people

    • @kunalsamotra2072
      @kunalsamotra2072 Před měsícem +4

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056men not want marriage because today women demands is very much and men want virgin wife today women are not virgin so men not want marriage boyfriend girlfriend dating culture destroy marriage system why men married if relationship whitout marriage is ok now days 😂😂

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny +1

      @@shivanimadanbose4056why are you giving bookish ideal replies when such situation does not exist currently 😂😂😂??

  • @shauryabhansali3731
    @shauryabhansali3731 Před měsícem +15

    Achha hai na, shaanti milegi.
    Sabko khush rehne ka hak hai.
    If men don't wish to marry, it's not a big issue.
    At least they are ignoring a lot of mental stress.
    Koi economic crisis ya duniya khatam nahin hogi iss se 😂

  • @abdulquadiransari7476
    @abdulquadiransari7476 Před měsícem +22

    Par ladke shadi nhi kar rahe isme problem kya hai 🤔. Ladkiyon ko khush hona chahiye.

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +5

      @@abdulquadiransari7476 😂🙌🏻❤️

    • @Viky0414
      @Viky0414 Před měsícem +14

      Abala naris are unhappy because abala naris herself can't fulfill all her dreams like bungalow,car,15LPA, foreign tours,so She is going to demand all this from her husband once she gets married.. that's the fact..

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +6

      😂? Ladkiya kyu khush hungi?

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +11

      Unhe gumne kon leke jayega? Unko pizza burger kon khilayega?? Unko kapde kon dilayega???

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@superboy3633more importantly sex and child birth😂😂😂

  • @vijayraj7662
    @vijayraj7662 Před 25 dny +3

    Men 1st salary - responsibility
    Women 1st salary - independence
    This where problem starts with unrealistic expectations and ambition

  • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
    @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem +55

    1. Economic reason : We feed a family and we are capable of feeding a single new women added to the family as well, but when they ask for a bunglow, a car, 12 LPA+ well if i am having all that why should i even want a women in my life else than my mother.
    2. Men don't want to marry an women, cuz when a women is empowered when she is earning right, for men when we take care of our family when our parents don't have to work anymore earning is not just enough. For women they earn 5K+ month they are empowered. As a man I won't marry a women who gets 100K+ month but don't know how to cook. If i can get a maid at 2K why buy bunglow and car for that single women? Makes sense right
    3. Not marrying any women is better than marrying a wrong women yes we strongly believe that. Cuz we look for a women who can take care of the house and their parents and be respectful. If she earns and don't know such stuff i don't care how much she earns I ain't marrying her even if she is superior to me for me women who cooks is far more richer than who might me earning lakhs per month.
    4. Yes we want to enjoy life, women is just a burden in our life later men realises that those who learns from elses lesson they marry late. Cuz what is a need of women in our life I don't get it at all? One more member for health care, one more to feed, one more to take care of and yes utmost women ain't trust worthy these days so i prefer staying single and would love to die single

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      Thats an interesting perspective

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem

      Thank you, appreciated​@@shivanimadanbose4056

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +4

      @rsdn7334 Now thats important. Shall i prepare a video on it?

    • @swatipriya562
      @swatipriya562 Před měsícem +2

      If you are only earning enough to feed a single woman if get added , why will 100k+ salary women will anyway marry you just to cook meals for you , tmhari expectations toh kuch alg level ki hai that don't even make sense

    • @swatipriya562
      @swatipriya562 Před měsícem +2

      But anyway let me give you some advice well feed your family and keep that extra money as a saving that's would cost you feeding one women

  • @pranavchaudhari5828
    @pranavchaudhari5828 Před měsícem +14

    You missed the main point; the biased laws favouring women in this country.

  • @thewalker338
    @thewalker338 Před měsícem +17

    No seal No deal...

  • @chetanpandey5044
    @chetanpandey5044 Před měsícem +17

    Guys I have subscribed to SIFF (Save Indian Families Foundation) that is actively trying to save innocent men from misuse of 498A and such biased laws. Besides that, there's an urgent need to amend laws.
    Even though I have 2-3 years till marriage but still I am contributing 3K/month to this cause. So I am not saying all this blindly but believe that our current law system is a threat against innocent men...

  • @1.Superman
    @1.Superman Před 26 dny +5

    Men are in love, women are in business.
    Dear Women, I wanna clear one more thing, listen- We don't care if you're independent or not, whether you're earning 10k per month or 100k per month.
    We want authentic Loyalty, Care, Compliance and Love which is rare in females today.

    • @madhumallarapu5384
      @madhumallarapu5384 Před 14 dny

      I think women with these qualities can only be found in our mother's generation.

  • @Ankit-hk1yy
    @Ankit-hk1yy Před měsícem +11

    Why to marry just to have sex & babies in today's time men are getting nothing in return when she is not interested in taking care of the family and parents then there is no point to marry

  • @Enneogon
    @Enneogon Před měsícem +16

    Well I'm 23 years old. I don't even want to marry due to neither virginity nor other delusional things. The reason is beyond these things.😂😂😂

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      @@Enneogon
      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's important to recognize that everyone has their own reasons for their views on marriage, and those reasons can be deeply personal and varied. It's commendable that you have a clear understanding of your own perspective. If you ever feel comfortable, sharing more about your reasons could provide valuable insights for others. Appreciate your input!

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +2

      Same. What will I get after marriage? Except kids!

    • @Starkscrazy
      @Starkscrazy Před měsícem

      ​One more thing this is the naked truth that women retains the dna n genes of her previous sexual partners in her body throughout her life n gets it transferred to the baby even though she got pregnated by husband the baby will not be of his genes n dna so it's like forcing man to take up lifelong responsibilities of another man's baby who is not of husbands blood line of you have any doubt you can even Google it you will get it is kept under the carpet as it reveals the reality of this so called empowered pple @@superboy3633

    • @SodiumSyndicate
      @SodiumSyndicate Před měsícem

      @@superboy3633 Unless she is a VIRGIN, you can't even be sure those kids are yours with the female mindset today.

  • @AkashSinghBhati
    @AkashSinghBhati Před měsícem +8

    My wife's mother has ruined everything in between me and my wife, my wife only listens to what her mother says, she doesn't respect any family member of mine, she plays victim card every time we have a argument on any matter, she is a habitual lier and her family supports her lies. They are never ready to accept my point of view.
    My mother treats her like a daughter but my wife doesn't put any efforts to be a good daughter, she is always complaining and making the house environment negative.
    Although my family is always supportive to her but she has ruined all our efforts, she lies about my house environment to her parents, and they believe her blindly. They disrespect me and my family members in all family functions by ignoring and avoiding to meet us with dignity at functions. They make us feel like aliens.
    My wife thinks she is still her father's little angel. What she fails to understand is that she is now married and has to make some adustments to complete this marriage. I and my family have made so many adjustmets but why can't she?
    Note: I haven't taken any dowry strictly. Nor her parents bothered to give their daughter anything during marriage. All my relatives now say that thats one of the reasons she doesn't feel home here in her sasural. 😂
    I and my family are doomed big time.

    • @SodiumSyndicate
      @SodiumSyndicate Před měsícem +2

      When I was a kid, an idealistic uncle of mine was looking for a bride but did not want any dowry, he was in a good job & was handsome. All girls rejected him saying there must be something wrong with him if he doesn't want dowry - finally he got sick & demanded 1 crore dowry & it got negotiated to 50L (in 1996) & he got married.
      W*men are like overgrown kids, treat them well, they'll sit on your head - be a bad guy, they'll serve at your feet.

  • @abhinavbisht5076
    @abhinavbisht5076 Před měsícem +17

    Women lie about their past

  • @mg1906
    @mg1906 Před měsícem +20

    What do men get in return?

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +2

      What are mens expectations ?

    • @mg1906
      @mg1906 Před měsícem +10

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 it's simple.... Respect, kids and physical intimacy.

    • @Kaisen671
      @Kaisen671 Před měsícem

      ​@@mg1906 0 found

    • @kunalsamotra2072
      @kunalsamotra2072 Před měsícem +16

      ​@@mg1906today women are not virgin and today women demand very much

    • @superboy3633
      @superboy3633 Před měsícem +5

      ​@@mg1906What about mental peace?

  • @RJ-vz2zl
    @RJ-vz2zl Před měsícem +12

    Way man don't want to marry
    1.If she provides home. Boy don't want to three home. Because Today are risk If girl false complan against boy, boy lost there house.
    2. If girl are doctor she want a doctor she is IAS she want IAS same class. But boys doses not do that.
    3. AFTER marriage girl money girl money boy money family money.
    4. Girl family demand expansive gift like 500grm gold or etc boy not afford this.
    5. They want every thing form boy and boy family but not single responsibility.
    6. Boy fears false case, alimony, big settlement amount, lost there house.

  • @asifmohammod5624
    @asifmohammod5624 Před 27 dny +4

    I remained single , I was very peaceful. No drama. There is no peace above spirituality. Nothing comes over freedom.

  • @arnavsamaddar6638
    @arnavsamaddar6638 Před měsícem +12

    Anti male laws
    Shame

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      Laws should protect people irrespective of their gender

    • @Kaisen671
      @Kaisen671 Před měsícem +5

      ​@@shivanimadanbose4056 it could be better if indian men should marry women from outside of this country atleast it'll save them from biased laws.

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před měsícem

      ​@@Kaisen671 that's why mother of my friend brought girl from Myanmar for him. Indian women r not suitable for marriage anymore.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056please tell this to the lawmakers politicians and feminist groups

  • @ashishs4665
    @ashishs4665 Před měsícem +21

    One more reason would be watching crime patrol, and crime related youtube channel.. most of the crime shown are happening with married couples be it illicit relationship or cheating.. further repels both men and women away from marriages.

  • @aninda2457
    @aninda2457 Před měsícem +8

    Unless the laws are reformed and prenuptial agreements are accepted by courts, it’s a huge risk for men to marry. So, my dear men, spend your hard earned money on the life you want to enjoy and not end up spending on alimony and maintenance !

  • @kshitijpanda
    @kshitijpanda Před měsícem +9

    Well the major reason why men don't want to marry now is the gender biased laws for sure.

  • @humble730
    @humble730 Před měsícem +12

    ये point बिल्कुल गलत है की हमें पैसा कमाने वाली लड़की चाहिए हमें बस एक अच्छी लड़की चाहिए जिसका व्यवहार अच्छा हो लोगों से अच्छे से बात करे घर का काम सम्भाले और घर में ही रहें क्योंकि पैसा कमाना हमारा काम है लड़कीयों का नहीं और वैसे भी आज कल की लडकीयां घर से निकलते ही उनके Affair शुरू हो जातें हैं लेकिन ये बात लड़कीयों को समझाओं तो वो बुरा मान जाती है कुल मिलाकर आज कल की लडकीयां औरत कहलाने के लायक ही नहीं है क्योंकि ना उनके जुबान पर उनका काबू रहता है और ना ही उनका अपने शरीर पर किसी भी लड़के के लिए अपने कपड़े उतार दो बस और जब पकड़ी जाएगी तो उनका Victim card ready रहता है खुद को बचाने के लिए। आज कल की औरतों से कुछ उम्मीद करना बेकार है क्योंकि वो बेशर्मी की सारी हदें पार कर चूकी है लेकिन फिर भी उनमें शर्म नाम की कोई चीज नहीं है।

  • @Niranjan1983-nz7vl
    @Niranjan1983-nz7vl Před měsícem +7

    Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties
    Arthur Schopenhauer

  • @ss0498
    @ss0498 Před 27 dny +3

    It's like asking why people don't want to fly in a plane that has a 75% chance of crashing.

  • @kalki9628
    @kalki9628 Před měsícem +10

    If i will going to marriage then my life will be hail.... No one love men.... People love men's money and property......... We love us and our dreams...... No one want to sacrifice themself for a woman and a child........ Think it, a man all over of his life spend to build a baby and his/her carrier,and he get kick in his ass from that baby after a certain time......... Marrage is a hell for us..

  • @Addyw00d30
    @Addyw00d30 Před měsícem +8

    All I heard is ' never get married '

  • @kalki9628
    @kalki9628 Před měsícem +10

    Womans are empowerd,, that's fine,,, they choose their life,, we can choose our life,,,, no one want to merge his life and sacrifice his life for a woman,,, mental peace and a stress free fit life diserves everyone.....Stay single, stay fit,, mentaly and physically..

  • @kazukikurama9637
    @kazukikurama9637 Před 24 dny +3

    As a Man : if I'm a women i will choose a man who had a stable job and stable income to run a household.
    This how reality works.
    When women earn money im independent.
    When a Man earn money : i can have a stable family.

  • @nishantaadi
    @nishantaadi Před 20 dny +2

    I am 32 years old single man. All my life I got rejected by girls due look and status. Same groom family keep rejecting me due to look and status. I told my family I am happy to be the single. Today, I work for myself, earn for myself, spend on myself and love myself. So I work, save the money, do exercise, learn etc. Best 👌 👍

    • @educarion960
      @educarion960 Před 19 dny +1

      @@nishantaadisame and even if you end up getting a girl she would be already fucked up by her exes you will just end up as a beta bucks provider

  • @yogeshkhanna5173
    @yogeshkhanna5173 Před měsícem +17

    Well you forget mentioning about anti men laws is very important in making men decidedeto remain single forever..
    But since you are pro feminist why would you mention it.

  • @user-jw5bl9iu7n
    @user-jw5bl9iu7n Před měsícem +4

    👰 : "My money is my money, Husband's money is also my money 🤡"

  • @rohitbodra6561
    @rohitbodra6561 Před měsícem +15

    beacause hm ladke womens ko full ajadi dena chahte hain....

  • @mohittyagi4510
    @mohittyagi4510 Před 27 dny +4

    Wrong, nowadays many men support their wives in their careers and also do household chores. Furthermore, women have become independent, but their thoughts have not changed; they want their life partner to earn more than them.

  • @feenixdexter
    @feenixdexter Před měsícem +11

    now its became business deal rather than the life partner.......

  • @Kadedior
    @Kadedior Před 29 dny +4

    Im 18 my mother is eruopean and dad is Indian, she left India and took me with her in Germany,now i miss my dad

  • @vicky25293
    @vicky25293 Před měsícem +5

    Women and parents want expensive wedding. The men just want a wife who'd make their life easier. They're not getting that.❤🎉🎉
    Simple 🎉🎉

  • @nishantgola139
    @nishantgola139 Před měsícem +7

    The main cause in my opinion is the FEMINIST GOVERNMENT and GENDER BIASED LAWS.

  • @Prasanta530
    @Prasanta530 Před měsícem +8

    After 12 hours of shifts.
    End of the months
    After paying all bills nothing remain in hand.So marrying isn't relevant to me.Just trying to survive somehow.

  • @basantasamanta3972
    @basantasamanta3972 Před měsícem +9

    Where is 498 B my rights then why to get married when you can get it without marriage

  • @NewNew-cp7wn
    @NewNew-cp7wn Před měsícem +16

    Forget abt marriage even being in a relation with them is dangerous bcos she can easily with no evidence file u with a case of segss on false promise of marriage under bns 69. Guys becareful.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +3

      @@NewNew-cp7wn
      Thank you for sharing your concerns. It’s important to be aware of legal implications in relationships and ensure that both parties are clear about their expectations and agreements. Open communication and mutual respect can help prevent misunderstandings. If you have legal concerns, consulting a legal professional for advice is always a good step. Your caution is appreciated.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056consulting a legal person again have to pay legal fees 😂😂😂

  • @disizrohit
    @disizrohit Před měsícem +9

    ladkiya na to kamana chahti hain na ghar k kaam krna chahti hain. Inko ghar me maid chahiye aur kaheingi k hum to maid to suoervise krte hain kaam karwate hain.
    they just want to be couch potato

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem

      @@disizrohit
      Aapke thoughts share karne ke liye shukriya. Sabki experiences aur perspectives alag hote hain. Bahut si ladkiyan aaj kal professional aur ghar dono mein hard work kar rahi hain. Generalizations se bachna zaroori hai, kyunki har insaan ki motivations aur contributions alag ho sakti hain. Healthy relationships mutual respect aur understanding par based hoti hain. Appreciate your perspective.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056bookish impractical thoughts

  • @nil6149
    @nil6149 Před měsícem +7

    Hindu Marriage Act, Hindu Guardianship Act , 498A, 125 CRPC are responsible for this.

  • @ajaykelkar3070
    @ajaykelkar3070 Před měsícem +19

    I want to create Akhand Bharat. That's why I don't want marriage

    • @lonewolf8644
      @lonewolf8644 Před měsícem +3

      Kaise karega bhai plan bata.

    • @lonewolf8644
      @lonewolf8644 Před měsícem +3

      Main tere saath hu

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před měsícem

      Without children how u will do akhand Bharat?

    • @user-vk9ji2nf1b
      @user-vk9ji2nf1b Před měsícem +3

      ​@@surojeetchatterji9966Aa gya hawas ka pujari😂😂😂
      Abb mat bol mujhe ki economy padh le

    • @surojeetchatterji9966
      @surojeetchatterji9966 Před měsícem

      @@user-vk9ji2nf1b jahil murkh, having children isn't hawas. Hawas ka maulana hota hay pujari nhi.

  • @tapashaviator
    @tapashaviator Před 13 dny +3

    The answer is simple, decreasing benefits.. increasing liability.. marriage for men has become a fools game.

  • @anshuldwivedi1919
    @anshuldwivedi1919 Před 25 dny +2

    I used to know a lot of women who didn't work or used to earn < 5LPA but hunted for men earning 20LPA+.
    I used to ask them what effort had they put into their career to expect the guy earning what they couldn't being at the same age.... and this question used to royally piss them off

  • @akshay-jr1qz
    @akshay-jr1qz Před 19 dny +2

    My reason for not getting married is I don't want to bring any innocent children to suffer in this awful world

  • @rishabhbundele1449
    @rishabhbundele1449 Před měsícem +4

    Even In my family my w elders brother have decided to stay single they are doing very well in life but they dont want to get Marry because of unrealistic expectations and laws they is no benifits for men in a marriage if both men and women are not ready to compromise and these days women dont want to compromise at all

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem +1

      @rishabhbundele1449
      Thank you for sharing your family's experiences and perspective. It's clear that the decision to marry or stay single can be influenced by various factors, including societal expectations and legal concerns. Compromise and mutual understanding are indeed crucial for any successful relationship. It's important to recognize that everyone has different priorities and values, and these should be respected. Appreciate your thoughtful input on this complex issue.

  • @Gavin_Francis_123
    @Gavin_Francis_123 Před 17 dny +2

    I'm 31 years old and the reasons are : False dowry case .... false domestic violence cases on husband and his family... women wanting her parents to be taken care of but hates husband's parents... women centric laws ...no peace of mind....no freedom.... dealing with her mood swings.... I'm a bachelor and will never marry 😅😅😅

  • @rajibdeka2207
    @rajibdeka2207 Před 7 dny +2

    Leave us alone. We are enjoying our life. We don't need unnecessary emotional drama.

  • @unlockedsecrets9543
    @unlockedsecrets9543 Před měsícem +16

    Yes please make more videos about this topic. Women in India are misusing their privileges against men. They have become extremely greedy and expectations are sky High. They want all the rights but no responsibilities. And unfortunately the systems in place the authorities are supporting their madness. झूठे केस करके किसी की जिंदगी खराब करना एक पाप है जो आज लड़की और लड़की के परिवार वाले खुलम खुला कर रहे हैं

    • @user-ow6fv7ry9h
      @user-ow6fv7ry9h Před měsícem

      @@unlockedsecrets9543 🙌🏻

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      She will not make any video on it all 😁😁😁

  • @RamKumar-gi6fi
    @RamKumar-gi6fi Před 20 dny +3

    33 and happy single life ... I chose sex over love.

  • @sonfire1
    @sonfire1 Před měsícem +15

    9 years of marriage and i am not getting peace in my life,
    Not only my wife but my son behaviour is also Ceotic,
    Every time harsh talking done by my wife, i really regret marrying her and i am financially broken to,
    Guys, dont do marriage, you will get sex if you are bachelor, about 20 to 30 years ago it was defficult to get sex unless prostitution but now days girls are giving sex in school age so if you dont marry you will enjoy diffrent women,
    Population is to much so no need to rise kids, they only become financially burdan and no guarantee they will support you in your old age,
    You still want some one then save money go for Live in, many women are living in livein because they also dont want to indulge with same man for life
    Just dont marry, it is not worth now,
    Earn and enjoy healthy life.

    • @RoyalRaj-ou7zm
      @RoyalRaj-ou7zm Před měsícem

      True

    • @RoyalRaj-ou7zm
      @RoyalRaj-ou7zm Před měsícem +3

      You should talk to my parents because they're forcing me to get married.

    • @thepatriot.7935
      @thepatriot.7935 Před 14 dny +1

      Even live in girls have all the rights of a wife now. And infact henceforth, some states are making it compulsory to register live in relations as well.
      So be single in entirety bhai

  • @terranowa2080
    @terranowa2080 Před 21 dnem +3

    I'm a Indian male. i will never marry. Even if I change my mind, I will marry someone from a different country.

  • @user-ir7mf1qt3t
    @user-ir7mf1qt3t Před měsícem +5

    You did not mention the most important point. Its the gender biased laws which are totally against men.

  • @learntoconstruct4704
    @learntoconstruct4704 Před 25 dny +1

    This is such a cliche video. One of the major reasons is that women have started earning but don't contribute to household expenses. Since they are working so they don't really want to do household work as well. In such case men have to provide financially as well as in household work. There is no real value left for men to get married.

  • @vipinrawat2220
    @vipinrawat2220 Před měsícem +6

    Ye to bilkul hi glt argument h except funancial one, it could be one reason but the prime reason is women's unrealistic expectation. Other is they want to be as far as away from their in laws want their husband to do same, and woke feminism is obvious

  • @SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp
    @SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp Před měsícem +9

    Laws are destroy families

  • @nirmalsaini579
    @nirmalsaini579 Před měsícem +12

    Fully agree, understanding each other and accept situation can lead a happy married life😊

  • @venkatvivek7710
    @venkatvivek7710 Před 20 dny +2

    I married a girl, at first she was ok with what i was but demands started comming as the days got passed, comparing me with someobe who is successful at last it ended in divorce and paid huge alimony, now i want to stay single forever

  • @CryptoAlvie
    @CryptoAlvie Před měsícem +6

    No relationship❌ and No marriage. ❌
    Being single i am very happy living my own, travel along and providing my family🎉

    • @educarion960
      @educarion960 Před 19 dny

      @@CryptoAlvie bhai par sex kase karte ho fir?

  • @dominikjunior1998
    @dominikjunior1998 Před měsícem +5

    From the beginning of time men have valued beauty, purity and youth from women. Nowadays its least at the time of marrying.
    Definitely men are considering whether marriage is really worth doing. In west its already a trend. Soon hitting India.

  • @Boiled_potato_69
    @Boiled_potato_69 Před měsícem +3

    You just tried to balance by saying marriages fail because of men and women both but reality today's modern indipendent strong feminist women want so much that We men can't provide.

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem

      Could you pls explain

    • @Boiled_potato_69
      @Boiled_potato_69 Před měsícem

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 "my money is my money your money is also my money". " If i want to go night out with my you should let me do it otherwise you are insecure " agree or not when a man earn money he thinks about provide for his family but when a woman earn money she only provide herself ( not necessarily but mejority of the time )

    • @Boiled_potato_69
      @Boiled_potato_69 Před měsícem +4

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 men setting boundary for women is labelled as insecurity women setting boundary is called preference.

    • @Boiled_potato_69
      @Boiled_potato_69 Před měsícem

      @@shivanimadanbose4056 think about your parents also they sacrificed a lot because of love their relationship is successful, there is must be some issue but still the relationship is successful.

  • @saralmishra287
    @saralmishra287 Před měsícem +2

    I m a 21 male and i also don't want to marry . The reason is not about laws or thier attitude but this is i didn't find single women who is emltionally available for her men all womens(approx99%) will leave u at your lowest and want u in your prime they just want your money,security . If i don't get anything from return why should be marry then .i don't want to say women are bad everyone has thier own expectations and there is nothing wrong in this just because i can't tolerate this i don't want to marry

  • @ssark9187
    @ssark9187 Před měsícem +5

    Mam, what about gender biased laws?

    • @shivanimadanbose4056
      @shivanimadanbose4056  Před měsícem

      @@ssark9187
      Thank you for raising this important issue. Gender-biased laws can indeed impact perceptions and experiences in relationships and marriage. It’s crucial to address these concerns through legal reforms and ongoing discussions to ensure fairness and equality for all individuals. Awareness and advocacy play key roles in addressing such biases. Your input is valuable in highlighting the need for continued dialogue on this topic.

    • @rohanutep81
      @rohanutep81 Před 27 dny

      @@shivanimadanbose4056please take further to politicians law makers and feminist groups

  • @Swarn-dd3pj
    @Swarn-dd3pj Před měsícem +7

    Prefer to stay single life is going good and is peaceful. Second thing is when we see a beautiful girl after spending we get to know about their ugly personality ugly mindset. Fir pata nai kyu abjib sa ghinn sa aata hai jab wo ladki ass pass hoti hai.