WHY MORE INDIAN WOMEN ARE SAYING NO TO MARRIAGE!
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- čas přidán 20. 08. 2024
- The Rise of Singlehood: Indian Women's Perspective
In recent years, a growing number of Indian women are opting to stay single, challenging traditional societal norms. In this video, we explore the reasons behind this shift, including career ambitions, personal freedom, and changing attitudes towards marriage. Join us as we delve into the perspectives of Indian women and understand the factors influencing their decision to say no to marriage.
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i am male and didnt fall into society pressure I didn't married till now at age of 33.
Then you should watch my next video on Why men dont want to get married?
You are very lucky. I have seen many men among my friends and distant relatives who are running behind courts and police stations to fight dowry and DV false cases. Women get interim maintenance and also child custody and happily live with someone else
Beta male never gets a girl
@@shivanimadanbose4056yeah bcoz too much false cases
great.
They should not marry, men will live in peace.
Do your own household chores and take care of your elderly parents and also work day and night. Good luck
@@anitaramchandani7838 why men can't do that? Also they can protect their family better than women!
@drarunmaurya3127 Men can choose to remain unmarried and lot of them are doing so. I believe both men and women try their best to protect their families.
@@shivanimadanbose4056 Best effort does not mean equal results ! Men can do their best but still can not give birth .
@@anitaramchandani7838😅
If u have money and are independent, u can even plan ur funeral these days. U don't need relatives to make u happy. I like my own company and catering to myself only.
Praise 🙌
Rightly said
She don't want to marry that's not mean she is celebating. So many of them are enjoying without marrying. She just marry when she need children , emotional support, support for growing children. Many of them appeal for divorce when their child grown up to 10 -15 years.
Couldnt agree more on this
@@shivanimadanbose4056you would not have to agree...bcoz u r also of same type...bengali double standard typical feminist ..
Also a LGBTQ supporter, tabhi samajh gya tha mai 🤣🤣@@rahuldey386
All india woman are same, I am also suffering, just don't marry
It is good not just women . Men also want unmarried.
Thats true. Should i prepare a video on it?
@@shivanimadanbose4056 yes
Yes please@@shivanimadanbose4056
@@shivanimadanbose4056 yes
Done will prepare a video on it
mai ladka hoon aur mai single isliye hoon kyonki mera aukat nahi hai gf banane ki....weddings toh door ki baat hai....😂
Jinki gf nahi hoti unko hi wife milti h, in real😊or vo bi achi vali😊😊
I am getting this feeling that shivani is unmarried.
Yess I agree.when you come from job you have to do household chores but husband is not bound to any thing so that's true for me atleast
Lot of women feel the same way
Tu ne shadi kyun ki?
This household chores are mainly referred to the women work by women, they completely forgot the men's contribution to run the house by saying it's his duty, it's a man's job.
Then yes husbands are not Bound to do wives work.
😮😮
Men is still the major expense bearer of the family.Most of them reach home late.Even though many girls are employed they do not share expense equally.
Why women don't want to marry is simpler than why men don't want to marry. Atlast we have understood "main thari pao ki juti na..."
Thanks for sharing your viewpoint
It's good to see Indian Women getting intelligent and wise, You go girls live freely... 👍🏼
Ladkiyo k iss decision se ladko ki zindagi kafi aaram de cutegi ... thanku for this decision girls❤❤❤
Suicide rate of married men in India is 24.3% (while that of women is 8.4%) and for men who never married is 12.1 % , the real victims of marriage are men , its both financially and mentally exhausting for men , it's not women opting out of marriage its actually men who don't want to marry now.
There is one more point .. Now women don't want to share the same roof with mil and fil and get tortured in her everyday life .
Maa maa hoti hai and saas saas .
Women ke body barren land ke tarah hote hai...aur boys ke paani wape badal ke tarah...jab tak dono ek nhi ho jaayenge....kabhi phool nhi khilenge..
True 100 👍👍 percent
Women nt interested in marriage but no woman deny of hookup culture, multiple sex partners, extra marital affairs, alcohol or other addictions, consumerism, western culture, playing victim cards etc etc
Now we men are happy to see harsh realities of today's women and thanks to God who save ourselves from witches
@gsclasses3608 Let the real face of women come forth. It's the men who are highlighted in bad light always. And men are blamed for everything that happens to women.
But by the women empowerment and women centric law...women's dark side will come down also..
Therefore, let more prone women centric law come.
Let more extra marital affairs and family breakdown cases happen that are initiated by women single handling at first.
So that dark faces of women could come in front of society, law maker.
@@ADARSHKUMAR-xm8ro true
High five 🫸🏽
@smugwise 🙌🙌💯
@@gsclasses3608 Sir not all women are such types. There are Women who are not into all these but genuinely do not seek partners of any kind at all. Always saying no to marriage is not about being able to adjust or have multiple partners. There exist all types. Spiritual ones also. Reason can ne any.
I am 30, decided to stay single forever 😊......
I am also 29 . And confused. But thinking that if I get good girl then only I will marry. Otherwise no big no for lifetime. Also marrying very late is having very less meaning in boys point of view.
Good choice. For body relief, masturbation and in advance level opt for Thailand travel.😊😂
@@nipun9229 It's good to stay single until you find good girl
@@nipun9229 Bhai koi batata nahi hai, mental torture ho jata hai shaadi ke baad
@@jaywant7777 Teri shadi ho gayi kya.
I would like to say. I had a mother in those times who didnt had much while she was growing and use to milk cows. The reality is that the people who think distroying family unit is freedkm then congratulations India is going to end. The western world is pushing towards collapse thats why they are opening immigration now.
The answer is feeedom and room to breathe freely but also maintaining the family unit in modern times. Their must be the values or else its going to turn bad.
This comment was to wake up pople that without new births their is no society to sustain. No people no future. Also its not anyone to decide whome should do what. IN GUJARATI house hold women are encouraged to be a part of bussiness or start their own.
Thanks
Well said! Both husband and wife should support each other equally. Following western lifestyle has started showing its effects already. Better our people return to our way of living. The loopholes can be addressed, but with the help of our wisdom only and not by blindly aping west.
They have already being into multiple relationships so that's why they don't want to get married. Weekend wedding night and Honeymoon phase is a routine for them.
True
Sorry to say, mam, but its all bakwas reasons u gave, i m also an independent, working, married, 2 kids also. But, its my 30 yrs experience that working women is the greatest sufferer/victim. Me too, if u want i will tell you several working women living hell, even they try to suicide, taking depression pills etc etc etc. In laws wale use karte h earning lady ko, torture karte h, i know some highly senior govt lady officers in pain. But aapko male female ki problems se kya lena dena, aapko to bas views, likes or subscribers chahiye, thts all. Namaste 🙏
Maine bhi dekha hai nd news mai lieutenant females ki suicide news suni hai.
Jaha in laws plus husband ne bhyankar mental torture kiya tha.
But ma'am i have a question related to it.
Jab working women accha kama leti hai ur woh own se rah bhi skti hai toh woh itna torture kuu jhelti hai.
Woh divorce kuu nhi deti hai ???
I heard a news of Rajasthan jaha ek MBBS armh doctor ki shadi baad uske husband ne usko khoob peeta ki uske kaan ke parde fat gaye ur daant toot gaye still she was tolerating after some months she did suicide.
I mean woh chahti toh nikal skti thi divorce dekar she was earning well but she did suicide.
Esa kuu ho rha hai working women ke saath ??
@@fire6915 hello mam, i hv filed divorce, as a result, my husband took my son with him, beti mere pas h, he said several times ki ab tujhe bachche dekhne ke liye tarsa dunga, or whi kiya bhi, unke parents, sisters sab mile huye h, or divorce bhi nhi de rhe, ab btao, itna aasan nhi h is purush pradhan samaj me avaz uthana, jo ladies case file karti h unhe victim card khel rhi h ye bolte h, kuch esi hoti h manti hu, but gehu ke sath ghun bhi pista h, u might have heard.
👍 Stay single stay happy. Marriage is a defunct institution. Ours is a singles group for 40+, all never married and we all are very happy.
That's good to hear about that
@@shivanimadanbose4056 🙏 No one has died of being single but many die a silent death everyday being with the wrong partner.
Hi can you join me in the group please
Thats true
@@shivanimadanbose4056 🙏
I'm 30 unmarried woman and I don't want to get married.
best decision
Same here
30 ka ho chuki hya, abhi eye mat bol ki shaadi karna nehi chahta, shadhi tere se koi karega nehi 😂,
Below 30 is okkk
But you are saying 30, that's mean you are 30+😂
@@Sagarpramanik670 esme hasni wali kia baat h? Tumhe pta h kia mere saath kia huwa h? Mere life m kia kia huwa h agar kisi ke bare m kuch nhi jante toh mt bola karo
@@Sagarpramanik670 I hope tumhe kabhi enn sabse guzarna na padhe
Because sex is available easily. So marriage is not compulsory.
Further singles can change sexual partners as and when required.
well as a man who is rich has no need to get married he can hire househelp and use tinder to fulfill basic needs
@@Jhon_wick03
Thank you for sharing your perspective. It's true that some people may choose to fulfill their needs in various ways without getting married. However, many individuals also seek deeper emotional connections, companionship, and long-term partnerships that go beyond basic needs. Everyone's path to happiness and fulfillment is unique, and it's important to respect diverse choices. Appreciate your input!
@@shivanimadanbose4056 true,I agree with your point
Never make women the top priority in life. Make your health, passion, career, hobbies, friends, relatives etc the top priority. Learn to live with or without women. Focus on yourself, work hard, make lot of money, have lot of fun.
Stop Simping and Completely stop trying to please women.
Life is too short to waste time and energy on women's emotional drama.
But women become evil when she does the same wow
Its wrong, woman want to get marry with a rich man like ambani and a charater like god, so woman not getting man of their desire so they are not married, they want to marry rich but india is middle income country all woman wont get rich so they are not marrying😂
Waah bhai 😂😂
GOOD JII YOU HAVE VERY DEEP AND SECRETS KNOWLEDGE AND YOU ARE RIGHT
Gr8 step by women . It will save men's life being ruined .
Jo sex life shadi ke baad shuru hoti h wo sex life ab shadi se pehle available h isliye ladkia ek ke sath rehna nhi chahti kyunki unko alag alag ladke pasand ate rehte h . Or baat rhi zimmedari ki to un sabko uthane ke liye ladkio ko zimmedar or sahassi hona padega or esi ladkiya aaj kl bhot kam dekhne ko milti h .
What about men they are also dating multiple women even though they are married I have seen multiple cases in neighborhoods and society.
@@88suhaniss jo bhi extra marital affair rakhta h chahe ladka ho ya ladki dono hi galat h . Dono ko maryada m rehna chahiye.
😂😂what a joke where all expenses carried by men and they don't want to marry 😂😂 reality check men doesn't want marriage
Nothing is absolute. There are many women carrying all expenses of family because of their irresponsible male partner. My mother is one
@@ghumakadpahadoose9441 yeah.....women who want men to carry all expenses......marry. The women who earns well can only choose to live without a male.
Bengali Detected Opinion Rejected.
Full time job is just an excuse like studying was in younger years to escape kitchen work.
If you want men to accept modernization of this institution then don't ask for traditional things from husband.
Be modern marry non earning younger guys, take him to your house, cater to his demands. Who is stopping you.
If you ask the same thing your grandmother asked 50-70 years ago then men will ask the same thing what was expected from your grandmother.
Can you change before asking him to change?
Thanks buddy for great response
Women just want to enjoy freedom without responsibility.
I hope there are some left who want to genuinely care about their family.
Don't marry is the real solution.
A successful woman wants only a very successful man.
A very successful man wants a very beautiful woman.
A very beautiful woman wants a very successful man.
Poor successful woman😢😢
@@lafonziou9584
Thank you for your comment. The dynamics of relationships and personal preferences can indeed be complex. It's important to remember that success and beauty can mean different things to different people. True compatibility often goes beyond these factors, involving shared values, mutual respect, and emotional connection. Your perspective highlights the diverse factors at play in modern relationships. Appreciate your insight!
can women sustain to work past her 50's and accept the men taking care of house only. oh yes the buying of fancy toys or travel abroad & local (all that jazz) for the men taking care of the house ...
(ohh wonder how this comment be treated )
@@jacobjp5799
Thank you for continuing the discussion. The idea of gender roles and expectations in relationships is evolving, and it’s important to recognize that each partnership is unique. Many women do continue to work past their 50s and can support their families, just as some men take on the role of managing the household. True partnership is about mutual support, respect, and understanding each other's strengths and preferences. It's crucial to find a balance that works for both individuals in the relationship. Appreciate your thought-provoking question!
@@shivanimadanbose4056 over 1 crore women are not married in China and its became a problem.
Great news and trend. Ladkiya hi shaadi ke liye 100% oppose karna shuru kar de to apne aap ye band ho jayega. Laws bhi gender neutral hone chahiye, false cases ko strict aur quick punishment hona chahiye.
Because of the attention they get from men in their teens and twenties they started to overrate themselves, and tend to become leftover women in their 30s and desperate.
Today's harsh reality👍🏻
True
True
What is harsh in it ?
@@abhijeetpanda2765 That all reason which make to feel women no need to marry that is harsh.
They want money through a sex and a living in relationship
Sabse zyaada ladkiyon ke parents hi unhe shaadi keiye force karte hai. Kyunki ladkiyaan aaj bhi anpne parents pe bojh hai. Wo isliye kyunki ladkiyaan job nahi karti. Government ke data 2202-23 ke mutabik 37 % ladkiyaan hi job karti hai. Shaadi keliye ladkiyaan isliye bhi ready nahi hai kyunki aaj kal ladkiyon ko zimmedaari nahi leni. Aise bahot se ladke hai jinki salary kam hai, lekin aise ladke ladkiyon ko help karte hai. Par aise ladkon se ladkiyaan shaadi nahi karti as unhe high package waala ladka hi chaahiye. So bahot complicated hai.
Indeed,. yeh kafi complicated hai
It's not like that kon apna ghar chod ke jayega ladke kyun nehi apna ghar chodke ladki ke ghar rehne ate hain
Boyfriend se kam chalta hai. Koi responsibility sar per nahi.
Azad panchi😅
All these are not practically practiced on the ground, except in internet
Stop this Bengali type idea through the internet
Well said 👏
bengali type LOL
Women are empowered and can pursue their career and do whatever they want. That's great. It's good to know the perspectives of women. As a DEI consultant and POSH expert i appreciate that you have brought forward the modern women's point of view succinctly. Well, the thing is if someone (women in this video) is having this perspective on life, then it's better to remain unmarried. This is because identities of a couple merge after marriage. The entire ceremony and it's rituals symbolises this merging of identities. The key purpose is to create progeny and create conditions that help the offspring to thrive. While fulfilling these duties the couple are able to enjoy a physical and emotional union.
The important thing is to understand what marriage means rather than jump into it. After marriage, a man gets to become a father. Now, as per societal norms and judiciary, the father has no value in the life of a child. He is supposed to only provide money as child support. His child can be taken away at any time. His access to the child is entirely dependent on his wife.
From the perspective of man, especially in current circumstances, let me tell you that before marriage a man earns and manages his home (like preparing food, cleaning his room/house, doing his laundry, etc.). If this lifestyle remains same (equally hectic as before marriage) and he gets additional responsibilities after marriage, where is the incentive for him to get married?
Besides, his wife's education, money, etc., adds no value to his life. From the practical point of view, women seldom provide for men in marriages. A man gets married only to receive love, affection, care, and physical intimacy. So, marriage will work only if his needs for love, care, intimacy are met by the wife. So, women should not take pressure, understand what marriage is, and realize the expectations of their would-be husband. If she thinks she can give meaning to marriage and her relationship with husband, she should go forward with marriage. Otherwise, it's not a good idea. It will bring suffering to her and the man she would marry.
Shivani ji can you also enlighten the Indian society on what will happen when this same career oriented woman who decides never to get married turns 60 ,at that time she may have pots and pots of money career achievements to boast of but who will she share it with ???,since she will have no husband no children,no daughter in law or son in law or grandchildren ,with whom she could share her joys ,her sorrows ,her excitement etc ???Post 60 every working woman will be forced to become a housewife . Nobody works till they drop dead or go to the grave ???Then what ???This unmarried lady 's parents are also going to die some day or the other ,her siblings also may not be always available for her ,so kindly advise what should she do then when she is at this juncture of her life ,how should she manage alone ,isn't being married to the right man a better option ,before the marriage is finalized, she can share these concerns with her to be husband and to be inlaws and make them agree to her viewpoint convince them some how ,if there is a problem, there is always a solution.
Family is important but what if the same family starts ignoring you. When you are post 60 , everyone around you would be busy. Your sons and daughters will be busy in their own life. It's hard to accept but only if you are lucky your spouse will be beside you. Most of the time husband don't give respect to their wife throughout their life and taken then for granted. How can you rely on that person ? Those who don't want to get married are actually looking for a true partnership but that is just a Mirage . The answer to your question is there are many old age homes of 3 star or 5 star standard. You will find friends to share your story with them . Why compromise so many yrs of your life with the wrong person on the presumption of the fact that , that person will take care of you
@@kaberipramanik6300 yaah but not all husbands and children are inhuman and bad some are caring ,but yes one would never be assured of that before marriage. Because of some inhuman life partners or a handful of husbands or wives the institution of marriage can't be deemed as ugly ,something to avoid.
Nothing will happen
What about before 60 for married women
Service of Humanity
Delaying marriage increases your chance of not getting married at all; that means facing old age, disease and death all alone. None of their mothers, grandmothers etc had to face those all alone. Please don’t start quoting exceptions.
Best of luck to all these single women in their 30s and so forth.
Population declines😂
I don't want to get married as well 😂
Thanks for sharing your view
0.0001% k alawa kisi ki aukaat nhi hai ki wo sari life single rahe 😂
Itna bhi saach nahi bolna tha bhai😂
Sach bolna paap hai.... Nadi kinare ssanp 🐍hai.
Kuchh jyada hi sach bol diya 😂😂
I'm confident that it's not difficult to remain single forever in life for someone who is straightforward, strong-willed, and determined to achieve their dreams.
@@SnehaAdhikary-y4y Good luck.
Wrong statement , all women want to marry but don't want to stay in marriage.
Yaar literally talking about the women 😢 Thank you so much ❤...
Ye society sarre sacrifice bas humse chahti hai..mardo ko saarr par betati hai..
Hum hi apna ghar chode..hum hi pregnancy mai sab dard sehan karre..kudh ka naam tak change hota hai....hum hi ghar sambhale hum hi bacche buddhe sambhale..aur sab mehnat karke bhi tanne bhi hum hi sunne😢..
I literally want to change indian societies 3 things
1- Be financially independent
2- Take the Army training so rapist will not be alive if they are doing anything wrong about you
3- Make the revolution in society hum hi kyu apna ghar chodde vo bhi to hamare ghar aa sakte hai 😢...
Akhir hum aurto ko bhi jinne ka haqq ....but the sad part is not men but women opposing other women 😢 that feels very bad...
🙏Hope so next generation women will not tolerate all this bullshit..
Love your thought process. We are the ones who make the change
Jeene ka haqq le lo. But fulfill the following duties for that.
First, change the legal system whereby groom gets legal right to the property of your father when the man becomes house husband.
Second, provide for your husband and children till retirement. Take your husband to vacations, restaurants, buy clothes and utilities for him, gift him bikes, video games, xbox, etc.
Third, change the family law system whereby a man becomes financially independent after marriage. Currently, not only his finances, his life is dependent on his wife after marriage.
Fourth, hire a maid/help and buy all the necessary utilities (like mixer grinder, vegetable cutter, washing machine, vacuum cleaner, etc.) so that he can either manage the helper or himself perform all housework using the utilities.
Simply by fulfilling the above four duties you can get your jeene ka haqq.
However, I cannot give solution on how to make the husband pregnant and make him suffer labor pain so that you become satisfied. You have to blame nature for that. I think you assume that men enjoy seeing their wives in labor pain.
Anyways all the best.
@@servantoflordkrishna4489
Thank you for sharing your detailed perspective. It's evident that you have strong feelings about the roles and responsibilities within marriage. The points you raise about legal rights, financial independence, and household duties reflect significant societal and legal considerations. These are complex issues that merit further discussion and thoughtful examination to ensure fairness and balance in relationships. Constructive dialogue is essential in addressing these topics and finding solutions that work for everyone involved. Appreciate your input and the depth of your concerns.
@@shivanimadanbose4056 to be honest I don't think the issues are complex to that level. Corporations are always propagating about breaking gender-based stereotypes. You also mentioned the same. So, just some laws must be legislated so that true equality is established. I believe the intention should be there. The corporations and people in your positions hardly discuss the points I raised above (how gender-based stereotypes disadvantage men). If these are also brought to the mainstream there is a lot of hope.
I would say, to the contrary, that the solutions you have proposed are challenging to implement.
For example, men are attracted to young women because of the fondness of beauty and chances of successful procreation. Certainly, women have every right to decide when they should marry. But no one is informing them about the consequences of their decisions. The issue is how to convince men to ignore their natural drives and marry older women?
Secondly, men don't have separate goals, desires, and dreams (career or life). Their goals and dreams always include their wife and children, if any. So, how are you going to convince men that empowered women can have individual goals and dreams? This is also considering that family is the biggest motivator for most men. They are alien to such thought since they were always empowered (because of their ability to earn money).
@@servantoflordkrishna4489but with that you will get title of gold digger and you have to listen the taunts of inlaws and their relatives be ready for that..
This all things is ok, i also think this like but most of our life happiness depends on our relationship,at the age of 31 I am going to marry because I have almost everything what i wanted at age of 24 but some thing is missing that is relationship so in my opinion every one should marry,there many people in this world you can find person suitable to you so not doing marriage is not a good option
Audio is very clear now. Thank you !
Summary: Women is sacred of responsibility and don't take leap of faith as they themselves are not having strong character.
Empowered women doesn't mean who just earn(that is basic life skills and thier fathers have invested in school n college),an empowered woman can feed and protect her family.A women not nurturing babies means they dint enjoy Womenhod.
Defending on husband for every small thing is a sign of weakness.
If men ate not weak and are responsible then they should be ghar jamais. Daughters will take care of parents.
Women are losing their femininity in the influence of western trends and they will regret for sure.
@@ninanani4085 u can find a ghar jamai....but let me tell you that man will be useless and his ghar jamai status will reap more bitterness inside you because you will never be enjoy the company of real man
Why to take responsibilities of their in laws where in return they get multiple taunts, constant complaints and judgements, husband is not taking sides, constant bitching ( my mother has gone through a lot, she cries secretly without telling and the reason is her in laws, even though she never gave back answers , never said a word but she is traumatized)
@@88suhaniss Correct.
Shaadi krke kya milega
Alg alg boyfriends ptau
Tan or dhan dono ka sukh lo
Gender roles are there for a purpose....
What is the purpose?
@@shivanimadanbose4056 So that families i.e. fundamental unit of society, runs with maximum efficiency, next generation is properly raised and the elderly are not left to wander in the old age homes or streets...
In society also roles are divided. Army personnel do not grow there own food, create furniture or produce films for entertainment, similarly a coder is not responsible for building roads,bridges and tunnels. What will happen if everybody does everything for what they are not fit for? Sub optimal resource allocation, poor quality, no growth and ultimately disintegration of society.
And that is what happening in Indian societies. Double income couples are also crying cost of living crisis, lack of energy and time hence lack of intimacy, no time for raising children or looking after aging parents, not properly managing their own mental and physical health therefore always on some kind of medication, list of problems goes on and on....
@@shivanimadanbose4056I think he meant men are providers and women are nurturers
Society is fully responsible for India to be overpopulated. Society is to be blamed.
Its actually good. Bad ones will get filtered out and good women will be left for marriage.
Going 50-50 means sharing house work and also contributing half of their salary, but women are still in a my money is money your money is our money mind set and men are still in women should do major part of house work
Thats true
Good women doesn't want to get married because they cannot find a rich and stable partner who she can look up to .
Thank you. Please say no to marriage. Don't marry a guy and ruin his life just bc your parents forced you to get married. Women tend to channel that hate , anger towards their husbands. Bc quite frankly no one else will tolerate you like that.
चाहे जितना भी सोच लो की शादी करनी है नही करनी है पर पहले समय की तरह कोई खुस नही रह सकता जो शादी कर रहे है वो तो दुखी है ही जो नही कर रहे वो आगे जाके दुखी होंगे क्योंकि अंत में बैंक बैलेंस के अलावाकुछ भी नही होगा
Lets make it simple, ghar ke kaam krke aajtk koi khush hua hai bhla.
Both should go for job and employ maid for household chores
Thanks for this insightful video. I am so happy to hear this that women dont want to marry 😂
Marriage was never meant for Men .. it kills them.
You are absolutely wrong bro.
Marriage institute is actually a boon for man and disaster for women.
Think about it twice then comment.
And analyze reports or data about it.
Report always say if man don't marry he got very depressive life. In opposite if woman don't marry she leads happiest life.
@fire6915
a. don't need your advice ..and don't preach me who can comment or who can't
b. This is an open platform and everyone is free to share their thoughts as far as it is respectful
Lol it's actually the opposite. Men don't want to marry nowadays.
@@vighig1903 yes we have that video also please check on our CZcams channel.
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Reality is we became paisay key pujari, ram or rahman to sirf masjid madir me, wese all of us follow and worship money and Hedonism. Most desi women just see men as a ATM machine with 2 legs.
Agar aap marriage nahi kar rahi hai... To kuch best kariye... Ya to kuch pese kamaye ua fir kuch bhi value with personality develop kare... Lekin agar ladkiya kuch bhi nahi kar rahi to best yehi hai ki marriage kar le.
Getting married is not the option
" Without faith it is impossible to please God " Hebrews chapter 11 verse 6
Majority of people lean on their own understandings.
Jesus Christ rightly said, when I return to this earth, will I find faith ? Gospel of Luke chapter 18 verses 1 oneards.
hota kuch nhi hai bs ego problems..wife kisi aur k office me bai ka kaam krna chahti hai ..aur fir ghar sambhalne k liye bahar se dusri bai aati hai.its simply flow of money nothing else...ab paisa hi sbkuch ho chuka hai..modern mothers bacche b zabardsati kr rhi hai ...creche me palte hai ya dada dadi ya nana nani se..pr bacche ko jiski zarurat hai wo kisi aur ka office smbhalti hai....paise zarurat puri krne k liye kmaya jata hai lekin aajkl paisa ek status symbol of independence ..freedom ka symbol bnta ja rha hai jiski wajah se ghar tut rhe hai shadiya nhi ho rhi...indian culture nasht ho gya
Wo tumhare bachche, tumhare maa baap nahi hote kya? Tum kyun nahi sambhalte. Dusre ke office mein maid ban kar khud biwi par ghamand dikhate go. Kis baat ka
@@ninanani4085 after a long time i see you.
And again you are right nina 👍👍👍
Ek cheez bhut hi simple hai jaisa yeh aadmi bol rha hai, ki yeh khud dara hua hai independent women se.
Aurato ki aankhein khul chuki hai ur ldko ko ldki milni hai nhi shadi ke liye that's why they are in fear.
Aap comment section dekho in logo ne unmarried ko shamelessly character less bolna start kr diya hai.
Hum kya hi umeed kr skte hai in logo se they are seriously disaster.
@@fire6915 true
When foundation want to stay above earth... structure collapse....
Man want a wife jiski atma p uska control ho😂😂😂body p bi or atma p bi😂
I'm 35 single & I'm peaceful i saw men cheating on women & it's serious turnoff so not focusing on marriage
Mat karo, purshon par upkaar hoga
The fact of the matter for this generation on the mother factor that it won't change so wait for the next generation😊
4.33 video time
Well researched and very well presented. Thank you ma'am for a very good vlog.🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐💚💚💚
well explained 👏
Thanks
Indeed 😊
Many thanks
Mam your study is based on age under 30 years because after that age every woman around the world is desperate for marriage because they hit the wall.
Ego is the wrost thing, if both men & women loss there ego then they can live together.
In the world nobody independent, only dead doesn't need anyone. If you are alive then definitely need each other.
If everyone think like that this world will stop. Don't go debate on men vs women instead of that how both gender work together and lead society.
At last when i met few of girls they much elder than me and now in 40's, they said live independent and alone is hard. If we go back we choose someone instead in the ego of strong & independent.
They told me that like Carreer, marriage is also achievement for girls. Note, these all girls those unmarried, independent and strong. They told that. I am just sharing those girls experience.
Girls whatever you thinking in 20's will change in 30s and whatever you think 30s will change in 40s.
See keep house husband. Thats it. Marry an unemployed guy and keep him as a ghar jamai. Women must accept this. Else, if everyone wants salaried guy not all will get it.
Reality 👍🏻
Im glad you liked it
Mam kya aap psychologist ho?
Shameless Men got triggered in comment section.
Kuch besharam aadmiyo ko smgh nhi aa rha kya bole toh bas "har aurat ke multiple s*x partner hai isliye shadi ki kya need" yeh bol dooo.
What a downgraded and road side mentality. 😓😓😓😓
@@fire6915 the same men marry a unemployed girl who is dependent on them and take so much dowry and insult her abuse her because they think their mother is useto be a slave of his father then how can a women choose to be a free life they be like if they reach their 60 70 they regret I don't understand what else left for regret at 70 life will probably end you have to die some day why their a compulsion of marriage on women they think they are protector's of women the truth is women need protect herself from them so called men I literally started to hating them without any reason why the hell they get interfere in every womans issues does someone ask them to do so they talk like as if they own the body of those womens
@@sonireddy6696 They are part of women's body......Because they come out of their stomach....
Dont hate them...consider them as part of you....They are your own...treat them like your own body..
When you use the words like "wants to" or " my choice" or other similar words be careful with it😮 own decision and accountability of consequences of your own decision are included. Wants to aur my choice jese words app tab use kar sakte he jab aap k pass various options already available ho. Younger ( not a minor of course) have more options and opportunities when it comes to dating or marriage but upto certain age then ladke uske samne as a marriage material dekhenge bhi nahi.aur jaha tak stereotypes ki baat he agar ladki ki certain age ho jati he tab wo Sadi k layak Maan li jati he aur ladke jab tak nahi kamata tab tak use gharwale bhi ijjat nahi dete na ladki ke papa ladki. It is compulsory for man to make money ( also more than her ) to be a marriage material 😢
सूक्ष्मय जगत का रहस्य है मैडम जी....
Nice interpret ! 👏
Many thanks
What about old age? Who will take care? Parents will leave this world; sibling/s will have their own lives; and nephews, neices would care two hoots. What support system will the woman have?
Most unmarried women become lonely and go into depression after a certain age. No amount of earned money will remove loneliness and depression.
Fir to maje hi maje honge unmarried women ke liye.
Private care - old aged facility (Charge = monthly basis depending upon facilities provided) including onsite doctor, nurse, food menu services, etc,,,,,,If you have money, you are well taken care of in old age (either by your own family members or aged care facility). If you are poor - no one wants you.
Dowry still exists only name changed gift mila kya 😅 diamond
In our society marriage is designed for men comfort not for women
Marriage is for women
All laws designed for women ,
Ab bol
Kalyug women r anyway not true women
@@arnavsamaddar6638kalyug men are not true men
@@arnavsamaddar6638 andhbhakt logic,, that 's true the traditional women leads women towards domestic slaavery
In another video I saw men don't want to marry and in this video women don't want to marry
Think for future generations 😢😢
@@sourav2051
Thank you for your comment. Each video explores different perspectives and factors influencing marriage decisions in contemporary society. By addressing various viewpoints, we aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of the evolving attitudes towards marriage among both men and women. Your feedback is valuable in highlighting the need for diverse discussions on this topic.
Bhot badiya video h ❤❤❤ Sun kar man kush ho gaya. Sala sari tension hi khatam.. injoye freedom ✨️
Very true. ❤
Thanks for sharing your input
Do you think women will suddenly become housewives and traditional when recession hits our economy ? I hope this society will not put all the burden to earn money on men. Also, why do most women do only white collar jobs ? I have never seen women opting to be a cab driver or an electrician
Mein wo samay dekh raha hu ki no average good men will help any unknown woman. Freedom focat ka milta hai , value nahi hai . Waqt phir badlega.
Today's harsh reality
Yes it is
Simple..
Guys who have got a better job at 26 , married 21 yrs bride, then they had children , n by the time, guy reach 50 yrs approx , they hav thr 25 yr old son/daughter to take care n retire .
Its for both, if r somewhat better lifestyle, above avg, do marriage first.
आगे का ट्रेंड ये होने वाला है कि prostitution बढ़ेगा, लड़कों का moral boundaries नए तरीकों से set होगी ।
35+ में बच्चे तो हो जाते हैं पर पालने की हिम्मत काम होने लगती है।
80s में भ्रूण हत्या की वजह से जो सेक्स ratio बिगड़ा है उसका नखरा है, पर अगले 10 साल में ये बदल जाएगा, तब 35 में लड़का हो या लड़की 35 के aas pas ही मिलेगा, अब उसका 35 तक हो जाने का reason जो भी हो
Sahi baat hai
Nice. There is so much of responsibility
Im glad you liked it
There is no one size fit all...dont get to conclusions...india is too diverse, ethnicity,culture,tradition,script, language n different family values....fake feminism n fake empowerment.....
I small so many insecure men 😂😂😂
Somepoints missing like new law of the country i. e live in relationship. More recreation sources like OTT./ CZcams.Reduction of sexual desire etc due to stress.
Good content well explained 👏👌
Many thanks
Jb Maine mom se Kha mom mujhe married life mein koi interest nhi h, mujhe kise bhe ldke se shadi nhi krna , mom also agree with me, and i am happy in my single life, my parents also support me ❤💫💃💃💃💃💃
Having these type of parents are such a blessing
@@shivanimadanbose4056 thank you ma'am 🙏
@@Realityoflife499 parents Happy honge hi na. Shadi, jahez ka expense bach jo gaya.
@@sssaaa4177 kush ascha krna chatee hun parents and society ke liye , bohat se log depression se jhoojh rhe h suicide conduct krr rhe h iss problem kaise solve krin mujhe iss prr kaam krna , ye ilaj mein free of cost krruge 🙏🙏
@@Realityoflife499Relationship zaruri hai..warna loneliness ho jaate hai...life partner sabko milna chaiye..
Vry nice
Im glad you liked it
Who will take care after 50 .
Private care - old aged facility (Charge = monthly basis depending upon facilities provided) including onsite doctor, nurse, food menu services, etc,,,,,,If you have money, you are well taken care of in old age (either by your own family members or aged care facility). If you are poor - no one wants you.
No one ask to a women after 35, outdated in market