Why Men Shouldn't Get Married Today

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  • @richcooper6527
    @richcooper6527 Před rokem +28

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    • @Raverraver9999
      @Raverraver9999 Před rokem

      Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
      And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
      From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
      For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.

    • @tonymaurice4157
      @tonymaurice4157 Před rokem

      Evolution and abiogenesis is a Lie!

    • @tizziluca00
      @tizziluca00 Před rokem

      imo Rich, I disagree with the fact that only 300 pounds guys that still live in their basement with their mother are the only ones sexless. If it was like that, the situation would be much less dramatic. Rich, I'm a 5,9 average looking guy, thin, I'm 22 still in college, and the problem is that women look me down so much because of their delusional mindset. Like, the problem now is that being avarage or even above avarage is not enough for competing on the market, women are so spoiled and want to date up so much that an avarage guy is automatically below avarage in their head. And I'm not talking about extremely good-looking girls that are out of my League, I'm talking about avarage women that always expect too much from men, especially in their 20s. Like, what are we supposed to do, wait for our 30s/40s to have sex just because of the fact that I'll be financially stable(hopefully), like these girls expect a 20 year old to be the s***. I believe that this is due to social media that have created unrealistic expectations for women.

    • @bootyiman
      @bootyiman Před 4 měsíci

      Thanks

  • @johnnytate69
    @johnnytate69 Před rokem +669

    1) Marriage is IPO for women
    2) Divorce is cashing out.
    3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government

    • @bucktownxxx
      @bucktownxxx Před rokem +68

      I worked with a woman who was mid 40's divorced with 2 kids from a guy makin about 1 million a year. She bragged about how she was pullin 120k a yr in child support. Her salary was only 30k a year. Whatta buncha BS. Crooked ass system.

    • @strangerdanger8462
      @strangerdanger8462 Před rokem +27

      Great comment, brother. Permit me to add one or 2 more....
      4. Alimony/Spousal support is annuity payments to wahmen.
      5. Marriage is a stock option for wahmen. To be exercised when the time is right.
      Stay single, fellas. Stay free. Maintain sovereignty over yourself and your resources.

    • @Andrew66632
      @Andrew66632 Před rokem

      Fucking Racket. All it is.

    • @off-roadadventuresnorthwes692
      @off-roadadventuresnorthwes692 Před rokem +5

      Truth!

    • @AthenaCannon
      @AthenaCannon Před rokem +3

      Let’s make it clear that 90% investors lose on investing …

  • @malone4735
    @malone4735 Před rokem +563

    “A marriage contract is the only agreement where a woman is richly rewarded for breaking it.”
    -Rich Cooper💯

  • @annatar6453
    @annatar6453 Před rokem +677

    Marriage is a man betting half his wealth that he can keep a woman happy forever. Men, find something better to spend your time and wealth

    • @mysocalledknife07
      @mysocalledknife07 Před rokem +14

      🤯

    • @johnnytate69
      @johnnytate69 Před rokem +58

      1) Marriage is IPO for women
      2) Divorce is cashing out.
      3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government

    • @4lugan
      @4lugan Před rokem +1

      And what is for women?

    • @annatar6453
      @annatar6453 Před rokem +64

      @@4lugan an insurance policy to protect them from their depreciating value

    • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
      @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 Před rokem

      Similar to my cousin with the child

  • @bradypatton1094
    @bradypatton1094 Před rokem +561

    Marriage cost me everything. Dumbest thing I EVER did.

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo Před rokem +163

      Marriage cost me everything also. And I never got married. My best friend did. Took his own life after a divorce.

    • @4lugan
      @4lugan Před rokem +2

      Say more

    • @brigadeiro111
      @brigadeiro111 Před rokem +16

      @@bigneiltoo 😞😞😞

    • @gigachad-rx3zv
      @gigachad-rx3zv Před rokem +14

      No, u choosing a bad woman cost u everything. You failed as a man, she lost respect

    • @wutang23361
      @wutang23361 Před rokem +7

      ​@Kirk Patrick sorry to hear that about ya friend

  • @tonika7543
    @tonika7543 Před rokem +197

    Don’t get married because you’ll lose your
    1. Money
    2. Freedom
    3. Sanity

    • @Tarantulisimo
      @Tarantulisimo Před rokem +11

      FACTS..Fellas if you don't like having control of your money/finances, if you don't value freedom/space, & if you don't require sanity/peace of mind, then by all means go get married

    • @shadowmancer99
      @shadowmancer99 Před 9 měsíci

      Only if you are such an incompentant idiot that you dont actually vet each other first.

    • @bookerlo1977
      @bookerlo1977 Před 8 měsíci +3

      And in worst cases, death.

    • @chosenone8131
      @chosenone8131 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Facts 😂

  • @pianoatthirty
    @pianoatthirty Před rokem +606

    To wake up everyday without a girlfriend, wife or kids, is like waking up to Christmas morning.

    • @stevejames3857
      @stevejames3857 Před rokem +47

      Agreed. Freedom!

    • @joecampos7999
      @joecampos7999 Před rokem +28

      The way I'm feeling right now.
      🤘🤘🤘

    • @SRG_Donnelly
      @SRG_Donnelly Před rokem +19

      Dude I need to make a song about this

    • @pianoatthirty
      @pianoatthirty Před rokem +12

      @@SRG_Donnelly merry christmas! spread the word! XD

    • @logwind
      @logwind Před rokem +13

      Having a girlfriend I think is rather nice.

  • @anonymoususer1824
    @anonymoususer1824 Před rokem +28

    If you're single like me and laying in your bed just take a deep breath, close your eyes, smile and be thankful 🤗

  • @AlphaEngineer2022
    @AlphaEngineer2022 Před rokem +246

    I remember being 16 doing my apprenticeship in engineering, and this old divorced dude that worked on the shop floor would always try to give me advice.
    The one piece of advice ill never forget was. “Be careful with women, you’ll never see them sneaking around, and they can take you down with one bite, they are snakes with tits”
    I found it funny at the time, poor guy must have seen some stuff.

  • @antonthemanton3065
    @antonthemanton3065 Před rokem +110

    I used to be that religious guy... Grew up in the church. Married what I thought was a good wife. Until she destroyed our marriage. Got red pilled, and left the church. I still check in with my old church friends now and then. Lots of them got cheated on.

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Před rokem +17

      Sounds similar to me but I still have a much closer relationship to God and recently finished the Bible.

    • @budrick2003
      @budrick2003 Před rokem +12

      @@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 What does having finish the Bible Have anything to do with this?

    • @seekeroftruth45
      @seekeroftruth45 Před rokem

      That's because most church women are whores in disguise looking for men to fall for it.

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 Před rokem

      @@budrick2003 Good question: what does the bible have to do with this? That guy has confused topics. Besides bible is a lie, link:
      czcams.com/video/phwVzxP8xl0/video.html

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 Před rokem

      If god existed he would have saved the marriage of such religious person like you. But because there is no god your marriage was destroyed by evil woman.
      czcams.com/video/phwVzxP8xl0/video.html

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 Před rokem +66

    I'm 67, and this is not a new problem, this began in the 70s, nothing I did got women interested, at 46 I quit dating, wasn't worth the hassle and all I found were leftovers

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 Před rokem +13

      I quit dating, too. But I quit for the fact that I was wasting my time and life for these worthless creatures.

    • @scottbrown7415
      @scottbrown7415 Před rokem +13

      Women aren't worthless. I occasionally meet one that I would be willing to pay seventy five or a a hundred bucks for an hour of fun with. But, marriage? Oh Hell no!

    • @ericephemetherson3964
      @ericephemetherson3964 Před rokem +2

      @@scottbrown7415 Threfore, you've become worth a lot.

    • @scottbrown7415
      @scottbrown7415 Před rokem +3

      @@ericephemetherson3964 to Me. I'm priceless. A true "one of". And i actually own my car and home. It's not part of community property.

  • @randyscrafts8575
    @randyscrafts8575 Před rokem +50

    Dudes are stupid. As it's said, "She's not yours, it's just your turn."

  • @deakdeagen938
    @deakdeagen938 Před rokem +62

    So true. I married later in life (29 y/o). I grew up blue-pilled with a Disney perception of marriage (man meets woman, falls in love, gets married, lives happily every after). I made a very poor choice for a wife (single mom). It lasted less than 3 years. I describe it as misery interrupted by moments of happiness. Have been single ever since. Modern women are broken. I guess I am just destined to be single. I don't ever get lonely (especially now that I am red-pilled and understand female nature) but at times, it sucks to be alone. At 50+, I can't imagine trying to find a wife in times we are living.

    • @logical_lb3059
      @logical_lb3059 Před rokem +6

      You’re lonely. Some men can handle being alone, u obv can’t. Get a partner but don’t marry

    • @info88w11
      @info88w11 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Can be lonely within a Marriage much worse than being lonely in singledom

    • @everydayfun9531
      @everydayfun9531 Před 6 měsíci +7

      It's better to be lonely now than get married and losing everything you ever built!

    • @northamericanproductions
      @northamericanproductions Před 15 dny

      Plenty of lonely men in sexless marriages.

  • @demonicaxeman7264
    @demonicaxeman7264 Před rokem +85

    I recently told a woman who is married that me as a guy has it great because I don't have a woman in my life and and I can nap, eat, etc...do whatever the fuck I want. She surprisingly said she agreed with me.

  • @robertreynolds2726
    @robertreynolds2726 Před rokem +95

    My father told me once to never buy something that depreciates, always lease it. Why would a man get married when there is, at best, only a 50 percent change of making it and then when she leaves she gets half of everything and you only get to see your kids once every 2 weeks. Lease it until it gets a few miles and then lease another one.

    • @4lugan
      @4lugan Před rokem +2

      What about cars? He is partially right. If you lease it, you’ll end up paying more for it. Whereas if you pay it upfront, you pay a small amount.

    • @sphincterlicker69
      @sphincterlicker69 Před rokem +5

      I dont lease or buy i just rent exotics every once ina while, like lamborghini ferrari porsche for a weekend.. drive the 💩 out of them, have my fun with them and thats it, no long contracts signed.

    • @IaintTheHerb
      @IaintTheHerb Před rokem +10

      In other words, if it flies, floats or fucks, its cheaper to lease it!

    • @wolfthequarrelsome504
      @wolfthequarrelsome504 Před rokem

      So,
      Divorce, a mass movement today.
      Thank you, liberals, not

    • @Raverraver9999
      @Raverraver9999 Před rokem

      Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
      And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
      From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
      For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created

  • @brianscott3503
    @brianscott3503 Před rokem +44

    The problem is less than 5% of women are attractive, feminine, friendly and willing to follow a man’s lead…so marriage today is not an option for 95% of women

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 Před rokem

      Womem have no interest in following a man's lead

    • @captainazrale4404
      @captainazrale4404 Před rokem

      Absolute bollocks, close your bible.

    • @stevenkrupka3670
      @stevenkrupka3670 Před 9 měsíci

      The makeup/atittudes are hideous!
      Women, a word to you all , be FEMININE, SEXY and KIND all the days of your life.
      A little I say LITTLE out of shape, you can fix that.
      But PLEASE stop with all that fakeup, its time has gone, its ugly and you all look different, worse in the morning.

    • @Don2Boxeo
      @Don2Boxeo Před 8 měsíci

      not true

    • @WEANDK
      @WEANDK Před 6 měsíci +2

      Didn't you mean to say it's not an option for men

  • @bigneiltoo
    @bigneiltoo Před rokem +75

    If you ever had a lawyer review an NDA, you realize marriage is a bad contract.

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 Před rokem +3

      Avoid the Western women mostly but today is the worst , because of the financial situation

  • @Eric-kn4yn
    @Eric-kn4yn Před rokem +43

    Govt has replaced husband

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo Před rokem +1

      And "Govt" means taking his money to pay other men to aim guns at him to force him to obey women.

    • @sebastiancorrales
      @sebastiancorrales Před rokem

      In nazi Germany the gov replaced mom and dad figure .

  • @eke313
    @eke313 Před rokem +122

    15 years ago I did my own personal analysis on marriage and saw no sense in a couple paying the public just to acknowledge the pair as partners. This is ridiculous.

    • @KingRandor82
      @KingRandor82 Před rokem +21

      After I broke up with my previous ex, I started really thinking about why I wanted to get married from the get-go; I viewed it then as something "ya just do". That's a hell of a legal and financial commitment for something "ya just do" . I realized I'd never genuinely thought about it, and I'm glad that moment hit me.

    • @shadowmancer99
      @shadowmancer99 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Why do people NOT understand that legal marriage is both a committment, a responsbility, and a set of legal PROTECTIONS. there is a lot of benefits to being married beyond the good feels, specifically being able to hold each other's secrets and next of kin decision making among others. Ignoring these is stupid, cause when they come up, you will be grateful for them. Not saying marriage is for all, but stop thinking of this as a trap....its not.

    • @Me97202
      @Me97202 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Marriage let’s the government into your personal life.

    • @Me97202
      @Me97202 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @@shadowmancer99. “Protections?” Maybe for women.

    • @shadowmancer99
      @shadowmancer99 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@Me97202That is such a child's way of looking at. Yes, marraige does confur a bit of responsibilities on you, but it also help you legally. It protects your rights wen it comes to medical decisions. Itprotects you privacy in the case of legal matters. It helps protect you legal parental rights. Itsfine if you dont want to get married but its silly to ignore the practical benefits that comes with it as well.

  • @MrBoxofplastic
    @MrBoxofplastic Před rokem +41

    I was driving Uber and this 27 yo woman broke up with her boyfriend who she moved to Florida with so that she could be a bootie call for her older, successful boss who has 2 kids. When I tried to press for why her ex-boyfriend was no longer good enough for her she just didn't have any specific answers. Commitment doesn't mean anything I guess to party girls especially.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Před rokem +11

      She was bragging, not looking to be challenged. In her mind she is winning.

  • @NUKEzx10r
    @NUKEzx10r Před rokem +128

    Wish I was aware of this information prior to 2019. 🇨🇦 I was content on my own, then pressured into marriage. I didn't even propose and my wife already had the venue booked and planned. To top that off, it was an issue when I wanted to invite my own blood mother. After building 95% of our income property last year, she served me a separation agreement for 90k. This women went from unicorn, to the worst human I've ever met in my 33 years. Locked out, and opp(police) can't help you regain access for basic necessities such as water, bathroom, and shelter at that matter. Turns out she's a criminal lawyer, and I set my young business plan aside starting own company to build her two residential water front properties. I was just a useful tool. No kids, but took my gsd.

    • @bigneiltoo
      @bigneiltoo Před rokem +33

      "This women went from unicorn, to the worst human I've ever met" - my last sixteen dates.

    • @graemelock4103
      @graemelock4103 Před rokem +31

      So you didn't propose, she booked a venue, and you said "I do" when you didn't even ask???????? Man I truly wish you the best in building yourself back up post-divorce, but that was a seriously bad call on your part

    • @Drumbeat52
      @Drumbeat52 Před rokem

      Turns out she's a criminal lawyer?? You didn't know what she did before you married her?? Do you have your eyesight or are you handicap? Your entire post gave me a headache. 😁

    • @NUKEzx10r
      @NUKEzx10r Před rokem +2

      @@graemelock4103 thanks.

    • @ecinaz
      @ecinaz Před rokem +6

      Good grief. Best of luck man. I bet you won't do that again .

  • @josephstevens9888
    @josephstevens9888 Před rokem +30

    One of my work colleagues brought over a girl from Russia marry. This girl had him thrown out of HIS house, and now she lives there with her boyfriend.

    • @mate-way
      @mate-way Před rokem +1

      Typical

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 Před rokem +1

      But the Russian girls are more better than western women but some of them are bad . But majority Russia women love to marry their own man Russia

    • @mate-way
      @mate-way Před rokem +4

      @@Mrgreen2558 Young girls in big cities most of them are "modern" nowadays. They aren't taught to be wife. Their mothers didn't do it. Especially single mother. Same shit with Ukraine girls, women.
      Philippino girls are more suitable for marriage and long-living with husband.

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 Před rokem

      @@mate-way Yes the Asian women like Philippines, Chinese,veitnam and Indonesia

    • @gumdeo
      @gumdeo Před rokem +5

      @@Mrgreen2558 Definitely not Chinese! Divorce rate there is high.

  • @FAITHandLOGIC
    @FAITHandLOGIC Před rokem +84

    Men want marriage. Women want a wedding. Big difference.

    • @Mrgreen2558
      @Mrgreen2558 Před rokem +8

      Women don't have mercy on man when the situation get worst financial

    • @Polecat-qz5om
      @Polecat-qz5om Před rokem +3

      I don’t want either

    • @duronbryant5921
      @duronbryant5921 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Women also want to do there own thing in marriage 💯

    • @everydayfun9531
      @everydayfun9531 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Don't want ethier nomore.

  • @nicholasbrown7068
    @nicholasbrown7068 Před rokem +11

    I have a co worker that has been married and divorced 3 times. Lives alone and is 78 years old working 55 hours a week.

  • @jaylen8822
    @jaylen8822 Před rokem +133

    I'm doing a 5 year apprenticeship program in Local 669 I hear nothing but horror stories from guys all the time regarding divorce, losing half their pension, losing the equity in the house etc.Now I realize these men are not red pilled but i'm very red pill aware. So when I heed the warning online through these videos, and see these scenarios really play out in real life. It really makes you think. This is a gynocentric society, believe me, DO NOT SIGN A MARRIAGE CONTRACT.

    • @wolfthequarrelsome504
      @wolfthequarrelsome504 Před rokem +2

      Tell me, what's life about? Money?😂😂😂😂

    • @nicesmack9309
      @nicesmack9309 Před rokem +1

      I'm thinking about joining union for hvac. Is this the right route to go?

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před rokem +1

      @@nicesmack9309 Wrong video

    • @nicesmack9309
      @nicesmack9309 Před rokem +2

      @@Bob31415 How so? The original comment the guy joined the union. Just asking if it right.

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před rokem +3

      @@nicesmack9309 Lol. Ok friend. If you want my opinion, I'd say yes, join because workers in this country have been getting yanked around by corporations for at least two generations. Good luck in your career.

  • @baja1k1
    @baja1k1 Před rokem +51

    I have my GF from Mexico , we have been together 16 years , she has a small friend circle , doesnt speak english , cooks and cleans like women of the past , go south my friends

    • @sebastiancorrales
      @sebastiancorrales Před rokem

      Go south for women , don’t go south to find men , both don’t want us it seems only chicks that want Latin men are Slavic women

    • @anandvora4481
      @anandvora4481 Před rokem +2

      Or south east (Asia)

    • @DSN262
      @DSN262 Před rokem +1

      @@sebastiancorrales English?

    • @tburton2877
      @tburton2877 Před rokem +2

      Colombia is where I went much better than the West

    • @giama7618
      @giama7618 Před rokem +1

      John wayne only dated hispanic women 👍

  • @tjhookit
    @tjhookit Před rokem +49

    I was standing right next to him as the best man at my closest friends wedding twenty years ago. I had the chance to tackle him before he said those two words that ended up causing him so much misery. To this day I still apologize to him.
    Friends don’t let friends say “I do”…….ever.

  • @Bob31415
    @Bob31415 Před rokem +27

    Rich is SPOT ON with everything he says about modern culture. What used to be considered weird and disgusting (and rightfully so) is now considered normal and beyond reproach by the decadent woke speech/thought police of the media, corporations and "educational" system. Our society needs about 200 million more people like him.

  • @marcomarco7099
    @marcomarco7099 Před rokem +20

    I met a 50+ years old woman with 2 kids she was divorcing. I was in choc when she told me: 1) She cheated on his husband multiple time. 2) She was happy to get all brand new furniture at her new home. 3) She was happy to get more child support as she was earning in her new job (she never worked in her life before). 4) She was not able to made to fill tax declaration as she never need to do. 5) She was in a toxic relation with a little criminal chad. Summarize: Enough red flags, I run.

  • @jensta2257
    @jensta2257 Před rokem +70

    It goes both ways. I grew up in a Christian household and I saw so much cheating in the church and my father preacher cheated on my mom and ruined her and traumatized his daughters.
    I despise cheating so much I’m actually terrified of even getting married. As a woman! I’ve been single my whole life and actually a virgin by choice, mostly cause I don’t want to be a 304. This world is just awful. Cheating hurts so much. It ruins families, it traumatizes ppl. Idk marriage is no longer a priority and it sucks because I always dreamed about being a good wife and good mother and being with one man my whole life but I really don’t know anymore 😢

    • @theDavidJVarela
      @theDavidJVarela Před rokem +3

      Do you do Latin dancing by any chance?

    • @samstan4462
      @samstan4462 Před rokem +7

      Follow inner peace...and trust God

    • @charliesmith7942
      @charliesmith7942 Před rokem +6

      You sound like a great woman. There's alot of men who would love to be with you

    • @kyo215
      @kyo215 Před rokem +14

      Men cheating versus women cheating not the same, however if he try to destroy ur family that's dumb, men can still love their wife if they cheat, women cheat to feel so not the same.

    • @jensta2257
      @jensta2257 Před rokem +9

      @@kyo215 i really have a hard time understanding tbh.. I can see maybe a one night stand a man won’t catch feelings and won’t bother with those women, but not a complete side chick, that’s a different story. Most men I know that cheating end up leaving their wives and children to go and live a new life with the side chick. The thing is men spend ALOT of time entertaining the side chick. They text a lot, they lie a lot to go see them, it’s like what’s the point if the man will take so much time away from the wife and kids?? My father wouldn’t even pay attention to us because he was so entertained with side chicks. It’s like what’s the point, this is the argument of alot of ppl when they think of a cheating father, husband, he was never truly there… this is what hurts

  • @johnkeith2450
    @johnkeith2450 Před rokem +49

    I am 64, and a Believer in Christ. I gave up sex outside of marriage for Him in 1979...It was not always easy, but I have had a great life. Been around the world more times that I can remember, have friends all over the U.S. and world.....I was open to marriage and still am....But you can have a great life without marriage.

    • @bruha321
      @bruha321 Před rokem +7

      gay

    • @humbleservant9343
      @humbleservant9343 Před rokem +2

      @@bruha321 🤦‍♂️😂

    • @johnkeith2450
      @johnkeith2450 Před rokem +12

      @@bruha321 Projection

    • @Raverraver9999
      @Raverraver9999 Před rokem +3

      Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
      And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
      From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
      For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created

    • @scottyc9304
      @scottyc9304 Před rokem +2

      I agree John, it’s definitely possible

  • @mwilliams82684
    @mwilliams82684 Před rokem +50

    I lost a house and car that I had before I met her. Nevertheless, the court in Texas gave her everything. And get this, she’s the one that filed for divorce NOT me. She was remarried 10 months later to some other dude from her work.

    • @taghazoutmoon5031
      @taghazoutmoon5031 Před rokem +10

      That's tragic. Sorry dude

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Před rokem +1

      the laugh/cry emoji >> 😂 for the insanity.

    • @dubreil07
      @dubreil07 Před rokem +1

      I’d like to know how you guys interacted before marriage

    • @mattmiller859
      @mattmiller859 Před rokem +1

      and hes gonna leave her when the devils done using her ... karmic energy is always in effect......

    • @drippietorsti705
      @drippietorsti705 Před rokem +2

      Easy come easy go! The clean up guy is on a timer.

  • @sprezzatura8755
    @sprezzatura8755 Před rokem +73

    Just back from Dubai. Woke-free as near as I can tell. Whole different vibe. Political arguments are virtually non-existent. No gender confusion, alphabet people activism or other nonsense. Refreshing! Lots of beautiful women. No more Western women.

    • @logwind
      @logwind Před rokem +5

      Did you meet the Top G?

    • @sprezzatura8755
      @sprezzatura8755 Před rokem +3

      @@logwind Unfortunately I did not! But I sure hope to. I expect to be spending more time there. If you're looking for a place that feels fairly normal then check out Dubai. It's not perfect and I'm under no illusions about the downsides but dramatically better than the west.

    • @ralpholiver8512
      @ralpholiver8512 Před rokem +1

      I've been talking to a filipina woman since April of 2021. We've had our ups and downs. But I still love her and respect her

    • @taym2720
      @taym2720 Před rokem +6

      You only saw dubai from the outset. On the inside, alot of these things happen, just not on social media as the laws are very tough.

    • @kni9ght
      @kni9ght Před rokem

      I can’t wait to get my passport and see this world, the west is dead

  • @chrismichaels4224
    @chrismichaels4224 Před rokem +51

    The fact that Tia Mowry stated that her marriage was like a graduation from college is all the proof you really need to hear not to get married.

  • @dh12.
    @dh12. Před rokem +11

    Woman view alimony and child support as a career choice.

  • @stickyfinger100
    @stickyfinger100 Před rokem +2

    Hi Rich... I have been going through a mind whirlwind twister this yr....From negative to Positive .I am a 46 yrs old male.
    Struggled with meeting women a massive loss in confidence. The last 1.1/2 yrs i had put on 105 kg through excess alcoholic consumption over eating... 4 months later i am now 84.8 kg just basically changing my diet. Setting it up every night if not in the morning in one of those dietary trays i take to work.. Avocado , Egg , Goat Cheese , Smoked Salmon , Pepper Vita-Weat Crackers ect... and basic exercise fast pace walking around the block a couple of times after i come home from work everyday....I figured out its all in the mind , Self belief and persistence / determination ...Your clips have helped me out so much.
    Still working on the women thing hahaha.....Merry Christmas Rich to you and family and a Happy New YR.
    Reply

  • @GidarGaming
    @GidarGaming Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the perspective, brother. I really liked your comments about home schooling. 👍

  • @Herbster41
    @Herbster41 Před rokem +21

    I'm a Christian, and I believe in holy matrimony. That said, what Richard says is 100% accurate. I know because I've experienced it first hand. I have a son, and when the time comes, I can't in good faith cast him into the lion's den that is present-day marriage. Most likely I will advise him not to do it.

    • @andyjohnson5484
      @andyjohnson5484 Před 5 měsíci

      Modern day "marriage" is not biblical marriage. When women are encouraged to ditch their husband by financial incentives, society, even friends from church, it's just not the same as what marriage has been historically. Today, it's destruction of the family unit at the foundation. Not healthy for society.

  • @Margart526
    @Margart526 Před rokem +127

    Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know what i am bringing this here for, i can't stop thinking about her.

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 Před rokem +1

      it's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation my wife for 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.

    • @Margart526
      @Margart526 Před rokem +1

      @@bartholetbay412 wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

    • @bartholetbay412
      @bartholetbay412 Před rokem +1

      @@Margart526 her name is MIRIAM CHAMANI DIETRICH, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer

    • @Margart526
      @Margart526 Před rokem

      @@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @haynesatteh4463
      @haynesatteh4463 Před rokem

      you shouldn't let that determine your happiness, stay safe.

  • @SP-td9xj
    @SP-td9xj Před rokem +22

    I'm so glad people like rob are introducing themselves into this community, the red pill stuff does an ok job identifying a problem in modern dating, but at the end of the day if your values and moral structure aren't good then you're never gonna find the happiness and fulfilment that you're searching for, that's what a lot of the alpha stuff simply doesn't offer you

  • @GracelessTarnished
    @GracelessTarnished Před rokem +17

    Agree 100% with Rich. It's absolutely disgusting how we are not allowed to say certain words because they aren't politically correct. Yes, certain things are wrong and gross and we should not be accepting of it and exposing our children to it especially when they are too young to understand.

    • @oboogie32
      @oboogie32 Před rokem

      You want to say n*gger, go right ahead.

  • @macparra3576
    @macparra3576 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I'm a 49yr old successful tech attorney that's in okay shape and I can tell you that if I want to get married I can do it tomorrow, BELIEVE ME!
    This could very well change in the future but as of now I have made the decision that at this point in my life I do not want children. I believe that the only reason a person should get married is for the purpose of starting a family because I believe in the "nuclear family unit" and children need to be raised in a 2 person household which means a Mommy & Daddy.
    If children are not apart of the equation than all you are doing by getting married is inviting the state into your life and I really don't know why anyone would do that willingly??

  • @jays7318
    @jays7318 Před rokem +3

    Great discussion. I agree with much of what was said

  • @Elementorandmore
    @Elementorandmore Před rokem +1

    Completely true. You are so wise. The part about welcoming the state into your household when getting married. Great line.

  • @jeremylundeen9798
    @jeremylundeen9798 Před rokem +1

    Great discussion. 👍

  • @DreidMusicalX
    @DreidMusicalX Před rokem +8

    I'm, 33 years into a relationship as of this very day and never married. And I never will. Our vows were to each other, not the state. Its been, 50/50 since day one. It's the only way a relationship works today in the west.

  • @johnathanepic3790
    @johnathanepic3790 Před rokem +21

    Can't imagine being married if not tied to faith. Like I literally can't think of one argument for it. I could argue getting married is one of the biggest acts of faith that one could actually do.

    • @ErikLiberty
      @ErikLiberty Před rokem

      One argument is that making a commitment to each other publicly had more weight to it than privately.

    • @remoevans7847
      @remoevans7847 Před rokem +1

      Faith is the omission or suspension of critical thought/logic.

    • @johnathanepic3790
      @johnathanepic3790 Před rokem

      @@remoevans7847 Faith is hope realized to its fullest potential. Most people live hopeless lives have hopeless dreams so I don't expect most people to have genuine faith. IMO

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před měsícem

      True even if its abiut faith keep to just religious marriage not goverment

    • @suhaibsuhaib5947
      @suhaibsuhaib5947 Před měsícem

      ​what weight does it have when 56% of it ends and 80-90% of woman intiate it

  • @eddiediesel9035
    @eddiediesel9035 Před rokem +1

    I love your honesty Rich and you're not scared to speak the truth.

  • @grahamashe9715
    @grahamashe9715 Před rokem +24

    It doesn’t matter anymore where she’s from. If a woman has a smartphone or more than two female relatives or friends, she’s a feminist or feminism sympathiser.

    • @stevenkrupka3670
      @stevenkrupka3670 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Im finding that flow and ebb here in SE ASia, along with"international womans day in month of may" TV, Internet, bull horns in streets even!
      Young girls wearing bold lettered t shirts "gender equality"
      Strong western influences all over

  • @stoicgraham1224
    @stoicgraham1224 Před rokem +10

    You can still propose and have a wedding without getting legally married

  • @HARwinsOUTagain
    @HARwinsOUTagain Před rokem +20

    Thank goodness you brought up the Passport Bros. Makes no damn sense to me. Spend thousands to bring a girl over here only for her to be assimilated into American culture and boss babe garbage in a matter of years. Come on now…

    • @d.j6371
      @d.j6371 Před rokem

      At least they are more feminine and weigh less than men from the beginning.

    • @HARwinsOUTagain
      @HARwinsOUTagain Před rokem +1

      @@d.j6371 the beginning? That ain't worth spending all that money, time and effort for "a few years". You might as well have fun only with a modern girl and save yourself the hassle.

    • @scottgaylon1196
      @scottgaylon1196 Před rokem +2

      My understanding is that the first warning the passport bros get is to NOT bring her to the west. Heard that message many times as I looked into it.

    • @d.j6371
      @d.j6371 Před rokem

      @@HARwinsOUTagain yes from the beginning. Actual feminine energy. It no longer exist in the US. You have to feel it to know. Poland, Bulgaria, Romania have absolutely amazing beautiful and in shape women. Body positivity delusion doesn't exist. They know that fat isn't attractive.

  • @ericephemetherson3964
    @ericephemetherson3964 Před rokem +12

    I never married. Even in times when a woman represented some value I noticed that no matter how much one wanted to entertain her she was never satisfied. So, the next step was the potential possibility of marriage. Then, that thought quickly disappeared from my mind for if she acts the way she does before marriage I wondered what it would be like after marriage. I think that men should never consider marriage now and ever. My male friends suffer now. And it is one manner of learning even though I warned my male friends not to do that. Now they tell me that I was correct.

  • @Bununci
    @Bununci Před rokem +3

    I love your vids Rich.

  • @cenktoplar8378
    @cenktoplar8378 Před rokem +6

    I am one of them. I will be 33 soon and still remain my V-card. But there is a reason behind. And dont get me wrong that picture you see is me. I am 6ft and 190 lbs , I fight as a Pro here in Europe , I do have that Chad look but I dont bother with that. Here in Belgium houses are the biggest investments. So I have one (2016 model brand new) an another one in University city for student where I rent for students. I have daily 2018 model Toyota and a 94 GT4 Celica as a fun ride. 3 MTBikes worth of 20K euro and savings etc. But when I look at the others who got luck and have been pump and dump or in and out relationships or every friday and staurday party party NONE OF THEM have 300 euros in their bank accounts. NONE !
    They start parting at the age of 20's and time goes so fast and all of sudden they find themselves 35 years old , no investment no stability etc. So men try to rebound what they have done wrong at their 20's but its late and women of course in short way trying to find a computer nerd IT guy who he never had luck with any woman and now she doing a favor to him and marry him but while dating the beta and make the beta wait they go and serve themselves to a guy who pulls her hair and give her eye-rolls.
    DIS GUS TING !

  • @Dan.50
    @Dan.50 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Mine fought me every step of my life. Anytime I would try to improve myself or even our lives I was fought tooth and nail. You young men hear me out. Don't EVER live with one under any circumstances. They exist to destroy you, it's all they think about. Save yourselves.

  • @JonasErving
    @JonasErving Před rokem

    great episode👍👍

  • @sylwester9761
    @sylwester9761 Před 3 měsíci

    You are a cool breeze of truth in a world full of lies! You just got yourself a divoted subscriber! ❤

  • @mysterio1570
    @mysterio1570 Před rokem +34

    My friends that did not cohab and had no sex before marriage are basically stable. No uncoupling from what I see. My friends that went into relationships where they had sex and Cohabed. The relationship broke up. Thats just in my world. At 51. I would have to be with a woman that has a low body count with a woman that is 27 yrs old. Lots of women that I see have some sort of problem no matter what’s going on in their lives.

    • @Crichjo32
      @Crichjo32 Před rokem +3

      Many young women these days are unstable, because they've been encouraged to sleep around. And an attractive young women can stack up bodies like there's no tomorrow, because all they have to do is open their legs and men will come swarming like bees to honey.
      Men on the other hand have to play the game right to get with a chick, and they're up against very stiff competition. So if a guy has a high body count, they brag about it and people look at them with awe. Men with high body counts are seen as chads, and women are seen as sluts. Neither is good or healthy though. Men get cocky and feel like they can do anything they want, and women get messed up in the head and get depressed. Either one, won't last long in a long term relationship, let alone marriage. Unless they do some serious soul searching and change their ways.

    • @stevenkrupka3670
      @stevenkrupka3670 Před 9 měsíci

      A have familymember that was 100 pc virgin till marriage @18....
      Divorced at 30, afetr 1 child , another bf and 2 more kids, then marriage to recovering drug user, destroyed the home.
      Not the rule maybe but , NOTHING is gauranteed in relationships

    • @mysterio1570
      @mysterio1570 Před 9 měsíci

      @@stevenkrupka3670 I hear you. It’s about playing the odds.

  • @Waltoo-jr1ji
    @Waltoo-jr1ji Před rokem +10

    Stop, saying, I feel like. Makes you sound like a woman. Say think when you mean think and only use the word feel when you’re talking about your feelings!

    • @DSN262
      @DSN262 Před rokem

      It's an American way of speaking and is very feminine

  • @drazicmilosovic1065
    @drazicmilosovic1065 Před rokem +1

    🤘 12:39 very nice mentions on the righteous music there Rich 🤘

  • @homeacres9454
    @homeacres9454 Před rokem +62

    I'm a Muslim man (i'm in Malaysia),i didn't had sex before marriage. Got married when I was 26 years old. Still being happily married to the same women after 18 years. The problem with me is that when i get older and having better resources now, i start to commit infidelities outside.....having girlfriends and doing it. 😅
    Muslim man could have 4 wives at the same time, so yes humans are not monogamous. Thats why its already being factored-in in the Islamic teachings. "Smart men dont get married".....i agree to that....but only for the western world. Bcos western women are damaged on the inside. Ohhh yeahh....the west is totally screwed this time.

    • @4lugan
      @4lugan Před rokem +1

      Change your religion……
      Are you telling me girls who were raised in the Muslim world are not damaged?

    • @nap871
      @nap871 Před rokem +4

      Well said

    • @The01t
      @The01t Před rokem

      So you stayed a virgin as a man for all that time because of a stupid religion?...... Dam.....

    • @wolfthequarrelsome504
      @wolfthequarrelsome504 Před rokem +2

      Who said marriage is all about you?
      It's not. Like much of life, it's a sacrifice.
      But a worthy one.

    • @ZainAhmed-ns2di
      @ZainAhmed-ns2di Před rokem +5

      @@wolfthequarrelsome504 marriage has to be a net positive. The sacrifice has to be worth jt

  • @charliebrownlives1348
    @charliebrownlives1348 Před rokem +14

    Truthfully, how can our world not collapse?

    • @hansgrueber518
      @hansgrueber518 Před rokem +3

      Im Just hoping It does...nothing worth fighting for anymore

    • @ecinaz
      @ecinaz Před rokem +4

      It is collapsing. Thanks Joe Biden

  • @bmylesk
    @bmylesk Před rokem +5

    Churches need to marry couples without the state and marriage license. This is where we can come together between the religious and non religious.

  • @BWater-yq3jx
    @BWater-yq3jx Před rokem

    I was on board with the bands until he got to Poison and Warrant, lol.
    Cool... interesting message? What, the importance of cherry pie??

  • @mr.nobody4900
    @mr.nobody4900 Před rokem +5

    Do more videos with this guy...two different worlds, two different views in one video. Great content

    • @Crichjo32
      @Crichjo32 Před rokem +1

      It's great to have one atheist and one religious guy, have a mature debate where they agree on some things but disagree on others. This is why debate and talks are so beneficial to society.

  • @hwy1310
    @hwy1310 Před rokem +52

    Marriage is a gamble, the odds are against you. They say 50% end in divorce, it’s probably more like 75%.
    Almost everyone I know has been divorced and the one’s that are married are miserable, trapped.

    • @_cesarjoseph
      @_cesarjoseph Před rokem

      I would like to know where you live. Those numbers are quite high

    • @tonydiesel3444
      @tonydiesel3444 Před rokem +2

      80%

    • @hwy1310
      @hwy1310 Před rokem +3

      @@_cesarjoseph reality

    • @Raverraver9999
      @Raverraver9999 Před rokem

      Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
      And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
      From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
      For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created

    • @brendanalfo411
      @brendanalfo411 Před rokem +1

      The odds are so far against you it's a 8 chamber Russian roulette revolver of which 7 chambers are full your not gonna survive

  • @Rick_787
    @Rick_787 Před rokem +2

    Judeo-Christian-Islamic religions seem to provide a structure within which the male and female dating strategies can reify themselves to an outcome that maximizes but also compromises both.

  • @jth_printed_designs
    @jth_printed_designs Před rokem +6

    10:00 Everything I’ve seen about the passport bros (which I admit isn’t a lot) is them saying that you absolutely cannot bring the women back here

  • @tomdrummy4984
    @tomdrummy4984 Před rokem +9

    Simple solution is a prenup. Once women are in their 40’s and divorced, they blame the new guy for what their ex did to them. That’s my biggest turnoff. Being stuck in the past……in their head.

    • @workingshlub8861
      @workingshlub8861 Před rokem +1

      prenups are useless.....she just has to say she was" confused" when she signed.....do not marry at all

    • @williamrubin4912
      @williamrubin4912 Před rokem +8

      Prenups are routinely challenged. all she has to do is say she signed under duress and the judge will throw the prenup out

    • @Disniqqahere
      @Disniqqahere Před 9 měsíci +3

      That shit would get flipped if you’re in a state that favors the woman.

  • @jonathancisneros7150
    @jonathancisneros7150 Před rokem +6

    It’s better to be alone. One of the things a man must value is the idea of having nothing. Having more money doesn’t make you a better person, having a better physical shape won’t make you a better person, or have casual sex with many women won’t make you a better person. But I think hardest part for a man is to do Gods will without the need of a women. Feminism pretty much socially engineered the women and a millennial generation that has gotten soft. The traditional marriage is dead. The only thing I got going is be alive everyday.

    • @geodude6244
      @geodude6244 Před rokem +3

      I don't really like your view. I understand your viewpoint but we're here playing the game of life might as well try putting yourself at an advantage. You can't run cry and hide from the truth.

  • @matthewgardner5983
    @matthewgardner5983 Před rokem +3

    Rich Cooper really nails things on the head!

  • @uncomfortabletruth8976
    @uncomfortabletruth8976 Před rokem +9

    Approaching 50 now, avoided marriage as I knew early on it’s madness for men to marry. Woman are not dates or anymore, I have lots of friends and every single one is miserable or been divorced. Always had Roman chasing me dated much younger woman since I was 25. Please men start having standards and pull these woman up for terrible behaviour.

    • @WEANDK
      @WEANDK Před 6 měsíci

      Every single one is miserable if they're being divorced that says it all right there

  • @michaspi
    @michaspi Před rokem +3

    Kowalski has the credited response and I’m glad he offers the Christian perspective on Rich’s show. I’m Catholic and follow the Theology of the Body, worth looking into!

  • @julianbryant1975
    @julianbryant1975 Před rokem +1

    Preach, brother! There is nothing wrong with being a playboy. Hello sir. Stay healthy and hydrated

  • @craigscothern5100
    @craigscothern5100 Před rokem +2

    A single man can live very cheaply without a wife and family. He doesn't have to work all hours doing a dangerous job he hates. He can afford to pick and choose when he works, for how long and in a job he enjoys.
    The downside to this is that governments are losing money via income tax. They are having to borrow money to pay for all the single mothers on welfare. In a few years society will see one half paying for the other. All men paying for all parasitic single motherrs. This is already happening in the US where men are being forced to pay child support for children that aren't even his! There is no legislation backing this up, only ( usually ) female judges making up laws as they go along.

  • @jennifer3551
    @jennifer3551 Před rokem +4

    I agree and neither should women. I mean why???

  • @brendanalfo411
    @brendanalfo411 Před rokem +9

    In Australia if you have a kid with her it's actually 70% of your wealth whipped and 25% of your income paid until the kid is 18 or upto 25 if the kid goes to university it devastated my father. He has nothing now. His loss is my win. But a tragic way to avoid disaster.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Před rokem

      and your Mother? did she contribute wealth and income to you?

    • @brendanalfo411
      @brendanalfo411 Před rokem +1

      @Riggity Doo mine? was an exception to these modern day one's. She was dads 2nd of 3 wives the 3rd fucked him over. My mother has always been generous to her children. And didn't go for child maintenance or alimony etc.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Před rokem +2

      @@brendanalfo411 nice but I don't understand how his loss was your win if she didn't take child support. Maybe it is different there.

    • @brendanalfo411
      @brendanalfo411 Před rokem +3

      @Riggity Doo because I won't make the same mistakes. I seen to much growing up and I experienced it as the child so I know these government policies wouldn't help my could be child/ren in such a situation. they don't care about the next generation and so any stupid mistake on my behalf would be to not learn from the lessons my father has taught me. And so my life isn't designed around getting married and children it's about finding the cracks to ensure it won't happen

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Před rokem

      @@brendanalfo411 gotcha. Yeah marriage is a joke. Never married for the same reasons you state (almost, dodged a big bullet). I do have a son that spends half his time with me, so IMO, I got lucky there.

  • @thunders2020
    @thunders2020 Před rokem

    this is sooooooo true!!!

  • @top_tier5593
    @top_tier5593 Před rokem

    Wise words Rich

    • @info88w11
      @info88w11 Před 8 měsíci

      Rich is a Bi_ch 's worst enemy

  • @SithMonk3y
    @SithMonk3y Před rokem +5

    If you think religion will keep her loyal, you've never met a pastor's daughter.

    • @DD-ky2pi
      @DD-ky2pi Před rokem

      What’s your experience ?

    • @SithMonk3y
      @SithMonk3y Před rokem

      @@DD-ky2pi I stated my experience 😑

    • @DD-ky2pi
      @DD-ky2pi Před rokem

      @@SithMonk3y You didn’t go into detail on what makes a pastor’s daughter disloyal..

    • @SithMonk3y
      @SithMonk3y Před rokem +2

      @@DD-ky2pi My experience is that the mass majority are extreme party girls and the particular one was a serial cheater. Don't need to write a book about it.

    • @ceciliaabdalla8954
      @ceciliaabdalla8954 Před měsícem

      Maybe why Christians need a savior to save them from their sins because they are incapable of doing good

  • @adamkuestner2961
    @adamkuestner2961 Před rokem +4

    No more marriages until men can get benefits from a divorce as well

  • @jth_printed_designs
    @jth_printed_designs Před rokem +1

    “Need to take the car for a test drive before you buy”
    If it’s a new car, not really
    If it’s a used car, absolutely. Need to see if the shocks are shot and the steering is crooked.
    Even then, buying either is a massive risk today.

  • @Chris-um3se
    @Chris-um3se Před 7 měsíci

    I complained to the Sacramento public library about Drag Queen story hour.

  • @chadparke1351
    @chadparke1351 Před rokem +4

    There is nothing wrong with a man getting married if he Is ready to make that commitment and he has met a good mature woman he loves and who loves him. However, men and women both need to choose wisely. Stop chasing booty, get your priorities straight, and figure out what it is you want in life. Not everyone is marriage material

  • @Bob31415
    @Bob31415 Před rokem +4

    As a Christian I really respect the respectful way that Rich addresses the other gentleman in this discussion who happens to be a Christian. Tip of the hat.

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před 4 měsíci

      @@missioncodez Your insulting words show that you yourself are not worthy to be called an adult. You people love to use those words "sky daddy" don't you? Why do you get so triggered by someone else's beliefs?

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před 4 měsíci

      @@missioncodez You can't even post a reply without using insulting language by calling someone an idiot because of their faith. Do you enjoy cold drinks? Do you enjoy a good night's sleep? You better get all that you can while you're still in this life because in the place where you are headed you are going to be screaming for water to cool your burning tongue and rest will be something you wil *never* ever have again. You will be wide awake forever and you will pine for the worst day you ever had in this life. The sands in the hour glass of your miserable life are running out and you are closer to that place than when you posted your first blasphemy here. Keep arrogantly rejecting the Savior and find out. If you do, sucks to be you.

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před 4 měsíci

      @@missioncodez You can't even post a reply without using insulting language by calling someone an idiot because of their faith. Do you enjoy cold drinks? Do you enjoy a good night's sleep? You better get all that you can while you're still in this life because in the place where you are headed you are going to be screaming for water to cool your burning tongue and rest will be something you wil never ever have again. You will be wide awake forever and you will pine for the worst day you ever had in this life. The sands in the hour glass of your miserable life are running out and you are closer to that place than when you posted your first blasphemy here. Keep arrogantly rejecting the Savior and find out. If you do, sucks to be you.

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před 4 měsíci

      @@missioncodez Your time is running out. Sucks to be you.

  • @RandomUser-he3fr
    @RandomUser-he3fr Před 10 měsíci

    Spitting facts

  • @Wellh0wrya
    @Wellh0wrya Před rokem

    Hey ur guest is wearing a shirt ! Kudos

  • @motorbreath22
    @motorbreath22 Před rokem +4

    This dude has been celibate for 11 years and hasn't found a woman that he likes. This tells alot fellas, even he can't find a woman that he finds suitable for him.

  • @underdoge8338
    @underdoge8338 Před rokem +9

    @3:39 "isolated mistakes" lol no one accidentally has sex. This guy thinks that by becoming a trad con and being a good boy for God he can put the genie back in the bottle and live happily ever after in a trad con marriage.

    • @BO-mb8rr
      @BO-mb8rr Před rokem +1

      Man whore to celibate back to man whore back to celibate because of the J-man. Christ and cuckservative grifters are the worst.

  • @davidless57
    @davidless57 Před rokem

    Great show and content, we think a like. Lol

  • @christopherhennessey8991

    Twice divorced .I have three daughters .No way in hell would I ever get married again.

  • @anniealexander3402
    @anniealexander3402 Před rokem +5

    I'm paying for my teenage daughters car and insurance. My ex-husband has been ignoring her. His dad just passed away and he was expecting a large inheritance.
    Imagine my ex-husbands response during the reading of the will when he learned his dad made our daughter a trust fund including cash and stocks. He quickly reunited with our daughter and insisting his name be put on the accounts.
    My ex-husband is running around telling trash that I'm going to take his money. I've given my two oldest children single family homes. My son moved into his Oct 17th. It's a 3br brick ranch on 8 acres. My daughter got hers about 6 years ago. It's a ranch on a full basement on one acre. The master bath is big enough to put a bed in.
    I our daughter an Infiniti for graduation. He didn't contribute one penny. The insurance alone is $244 a month. He pays $0.
    Our daughter told him that he has never been part of her life and just found concern for her when it comes to getting his name on her account. But he is doing the usual manly thing and accusing me of being a money grubbing B. That's what people are hearing but I'm not asking for any money. I work full time/overtime and I'm mortgage free. I'm not asking for my name to be on the account.
    I have my own accounts, checking, savings, 2 Roth 401k accounts, and two taxable brokerage accounts. I have $100k unsecured credit line.

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Před rokem

      Do you have a job, cause I missed where you mentioned your high paying job.

    • @anniealexander3402
      @anniealexander3402 Před rokem +1

      @@riggitydoo5116 I work in fiber optics and I've been a landlord since I was 19 years old. I had two homes completed paid off by the age of 24. I was working on paying off a 3rd when I got married. I sold it and paid off my ex-husbands debt.

    • @anniealexander3402
      @anniealexander3402 Před rokem +1

      @@riggitydoo5116 We just deposited that check and my name is joint on the account. My daughter knows I don't need or want the money. I'm mortgage free and live in a 3000sqft cape cod.
      I own enough real estate that I could have sold and never worked another day in my life. But I chose to give my children homes. My oldest daughter gets to be a stay at home mom because they aren't stressed over having to pay rent or a mortgage. My son couldn't find anything for rent less than 1300 and credit has tightened and he was denied a loan. But now he is living in a nice home for free.
      But a jackazz is running around telling people be is worried ill steal our daughters money. When the truth is I'm still working to make my kids lives easier.

    • @anniealexander3402
      @anniealexander3402 Před rokem +2

      @@riggitydoo5116 But payback is a bi!ch! Today, I told my ex-husband that if I had wanted the money I would have taken him back two months ago when he was trying to sweet talk me. I guess I forgot to mention I Said it in front of his girlfriend. 🤣😅😂
      Oh....she looked at him very angry 😠😡😤 So, I'm guessing he is having a great afternoon now that they are alone. 😅🤣😂

    • @anniealexander3402
      @anniealexander3402 Před rokem +1

      @@riggitydoo5116 I paid tax on 23k of capital gains from day trading last year.

  • @Spice1_
    @Spice1_ Před 2 měsíci

    Ty

  • @allen4758
    @allen4758 Před rokem +3

    Heard of another couple who split last night,. 2 young kids , stay at home mom with a good husband,, but she wasn't happy and moved back to her parents, WTF

    • @Hechangethnot
      @Hechangethnot Před rokem +4

      Women just can't be made happy sadly

    • @Bob31415
      @Bob31415 Před rokem +2

      @@Hechangethnot So true. They are chronic malcontents.

  • @666Victor777
    @666Victor777 Před rokem +6

    1:33 I'll tell you more, even if you are tall, fit, as I am its hard to get women nowadays, standards are just too high, so this example of a overweight guy living in the basement is a total BS

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 Před rokem +1

      Yep I own my house and cars and am in the best shape of my life with a lot of $ saved up, 41. Crickets on my side of town and I’m told I’m a good looking man.

  • @AthenaCannon
    @AthenaCannon Před rokem +5

    What if women refuse to have kids unless man marries her? Seems that is an ultimate control point women have.

    • @dh12.
      @dh12. Před rokem +8

      Show them the door

  • @Gomes719
    @Gomes719 Před rokem +1

    Rich cooper is speaking from experience and I totally agree the question is that is a reason why Oprah Winfrey refuses marriage

  • @Deeredman4
    @Deeredman4 Před rokem +6

    Rich is MGTOW and I bet he doesn't even realize it.
    Guys, there is more to MGTOW than just being monk mode. You can still date and be MGTOW. MGTOW just means you're not going to get married.
    If you're reading this; love the channel and the content Rich, and welcome to the fold brother! Lol

    • @JL03241
      @JL03241 Před 7 měsíci

      Exactly! MGTOW is NOT anti-women. Its anti letting women control you and your life. It puts the MAN in the drivers seat. It asks - is the risk worth the benefit. The reason most MGTOW do not get married is because it is anathema to this doctrine. You are ceding control to the state - and to a woman who is supported by that same governing body. In countries where there is true equity in marriage - it may be an option but even then you are ceding control of your life to another person. That said - there are good women out there. I know. I had one born and raised in Central Asia. Passed away two years ago. I was lucky - most men today are not. At least in the west.

  • @commonsenseisntcommon1776

    I'll never get married! It's stupid for men.

  • @podpatriot4442
    @podpatriot4442 Před rokem +3

    Sex is the only reason men want women around, in reality. Without the sex, most guys would rather hang out with their guy buddies.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 Před rokem

      I’m confused ? Why do many men say never get married ? Then how do they get a gf , since dating ur gf leads to marriage ?

    • @podpatriot4442
      @podpatriot4442 Před rokem +2

      @@Cousinbiddy1 Who says dating and having a girlfriend leads to marriage? That’s a decision that requires mutual consent. There’s no rule saying anyone has to get married.

    • @Cousinbiddy1
      @Cousinbiddy1 Před rokem

      @@podpatriot4442 I mean that’s obvious, having a gf means u want to be her wife someday in the future