pros and cons of having a boob job, narcissist mother, and body hair (GIRL TALK Q&A)
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- čas přidán 27. 10. 2022
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today im talking about boob jobs, plastic surgery, narcissism, and astrology lol - Komedie
Coming from a country with free health care, school, paid leave, vacation, sick days and 6 months of pregnancy leave for both men and women- I'm so sad to hear that dreaming of that is called an unpopular opinion, when everyone deserves breaks from work and to not go broke or down with stress, while being able to get free help when sick 😔
@S.K I know right , where ??? Will they take me ? Lol being disabled in America is impossible to live
what country 🥹
@@baby.nay. that depends on you. for many of us we are thriving because we choose to do so.
What country is that?
@@imakuro9066 I assume it’s the UK
I watched a recent reel where someone said that guys who chase difficult women, is like a challenge for them. They want to “tame” women and it’s similar to how toxic women chase the “bad boy.” It’s not healthy😅 so you want a happy healthy relationship, you both need to respect each other’s boundaries, as well as knowing to walk away from people who treat you poorly.
Couldn’t agree more ❤
I’m having my implants removed early next year. I’m so excited for the heal. Breast implant illness SUCKS
I’m so sorry you are struggling with this. Many positive thoughts for your explant!!! ❤
Got mine removed 3 years ago due to the same thing! So excited for you to heal!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I’m Eastern European with a narcissistic mother and when my mom talks to me i either 1. Ignore depending on her hostility level or 2. Get angry. Hope this helps besties 🥰
P.s. this only works when you no longer live in their household ❤️
my mom is lithuanian (don't know if that's eastern europe). She is super controlling and likes to play the victim + speaks to me like I'm a child (I live alone for years already).
I’m sorry you had to deal with that 😢
Agreed. Blair also hit the nail on the head. It is rare that narcissists change without intense and honest therapy. You are your biggest ally and must protect yourself. Shame on people for judging us for getting tired of abuse and manipulation. *Also, don't let her get to you though. She is not worth your emotional energy.
Breast implant illness!! Just be aware of that too. I only learned after I had mine done and it really freaked me out. It's also kind of scary to think about how I have something inside my body and if it were to burst and I had no money to get it taken out, what would I do!! That's a super scary thought... but other than that no regrets 😂
I highly recommend that people watch Dr. Anthony Youn. He is a plastic surgeon who talks about this and other drawbacks. He also does reaction videos that are very entertaining.
That’s my ONLY hesitation on getting them. Breast implants Illness scares me 🫣
Breast Implant Illness is dependent on the patients level of health. If you're not healthy. Your implants won't be.
@@sarahwales6276 A great point! but you could be perfectly healthy, get the implants, be fine for years, then develop an autoimmune disease or something. You just never know. I think that's very scary.
I'm somewhat still young and was healthy. The past two months, I've been dealing with the shingles. Something that's common with older people and immune compromised. My health declined a lot and it seemed like there was no explanation.. or well the explanation was "stress" but I'm not convinced. Anyway, I'm somewhat getting better. It is very scary to realize you can be healthy one day and just a few days later be dealing with a health issue that lasts for months or the rest of your life.
Definitely keep that in mind. Like I said, I'd still do it again. These are just things that I didn't really think about before. Try to do your best to take care of your body, no matter what you decide.
@@sarahwales6276 breast implants are a foreign, inorganic substance in your body. Your body is designed to attack things that don’t belong there.
I love you Blair but I just wanted to sayyyy I have the totally opposite take on pursuing second dates! In my eyes, if you are feeling a spark and you put cagey/distant vibes or hints out there, instead of expressing your interest confidently, you’re going to attract the wrong kind of guy 💜 being confident and direct cuts through a lot of the BS. you are already so great at being vulnerable even if you often use humor to do so. I admire it your openness. love your content girl!❤️🔥
I haven't talked to my mom for 12 years. Never been happier!
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I thought we could do a chill q&a today so we could chill and catch up and get to know each other more
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Monday has been Ms Walnut....i miss you lol x
The most freeing thing ever is realizing that even though someone is family, you don’t have to have a relationship with them. You don’t owe them your love or time. Obviously you want to have good relationships with family but if all they bring is toxicity, abuse, or any form of hurt or discomfort to your life 👏🏼cut them out👏🏼 no person, family or otherwise, is worth your mental well-being
Boob jobs definitely warrant patience and consideration - so many young women get them before their bodies are done growing and changing drastically, and it really effects the end result. Keep in mind, boob jobs aren't the only kind of plastic surgery that will require tune-ups fairly regularly. Even facial procedures change with time and require more and more work down the line. Just don't rush; you only feel like there's an urgency, when really you have - and should take - all the time you need to make an informed decision.
My dad is a breast surgeon - not cosmetic - and when there was the PIP scandal he had to remove so many “faulty” (toxic) implants from my MUMS FRIENDS. But he isn’t a cosmetic surgeon so he couldn’t replace them and they were fuming
I started asking myself "am I the right person for someone else?" Looking for the right person was becoming depressing as I was judging others constantly and it was emotionally draining. I decided to try and become the wife of someone's dreams. The journey is self reflective and rewarding. Even if I don't find a partner at the end I think I will like the destination.
I'm supposed to be woking on my research project but I was so overwhelmed and anxious so I decided to take break and watch a video and it happened to be yours, didn't know you were gonna give advice about anxiety but it helped. Thank you walnut
Your content at the moment makes so many of us smile ❤ Thankyou for being your authentic self
I effing love how you are such an open book
You are so smart and analytical, we have so much in common
You’re honestly is so refreshing. Luv you sm
“Life is like waves, there are ups and downs but it never stops moving”
wow can’t believe your almost at 1 million girly that’s crazy so happy for you ❤️
I love the honesty with all your answers!! 🤍🤍🤍
B you’re so close to 2 mil!! ❤ take care of yourself bb
Love your videos, they always brighten up my day 💞💞
really slick ad placement haha first time I watched the whole thing
your videos always make my day💗💗
Best videos my favorite you tuber and person your so inspirational ,motivational and fun your killing it girl❤
thank you for speaking out on having a narcissist parent, i felt way better once i stopped talking to them before hearing you also did, definitely a good choice
That lipstick mirror looks cute! Makes me wish that you would make a makeup video, walnut crackhead style content next. ❤️
So close to a million!!
Hearing your horoscope placements actually made so much sense, and also why I like you so much. I’m a Scorpio with libra moon and sag Venus and Capricorn rising :)))
Narcissistic mothers are hard I bond with my best friend over it and becoming independent from an early age got us through I love that you understand you gotta take your mental health over the relationship to function okay thankyou for always bearing your soul to us your walnuts
Loving the content Blair.. we have a lot in common. I hope you have a great weekend! 💜
As my Italian mother use to say “There’s a lid for every pot. “
Just wanted to let you know that everything will be okay, have faith!💕🙏🏾
Love this video and your takes !
I really like your personality, Blair. ❤
Your back! Hope you are well.
U are back wuhuuu 😍
Also I absolutely love your channel. New Subscriber Here !!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Omg you answered my question
I live in Canada, and although our healthcare is mostly covered, I also yearn for paid time leave off, consideration for how important time spent with family is (pregnancy leave), and also education. :/ Not everyone is born into a lifestyle where these things are obtainable without a huge amount of sacrifice and a lot of drive.
Love your channel
I’m so interested in your chart, you’re really interesting to listen to and I wonder what placements make it so. Would you ever post the full chart???
Late but happy to be here 😌💕
missed you 💖
Throughout the highschool years I tried not to draw attention, I knew everybody but few people knew me. When I was in college, someone from my hometown was speaking to a friend of mine from my dorm and they said they knew me, I was that nice simple girl. Oh how my vision has changed since then 😄
Baby girl, you forgot to put a link to the ILP. It's ok though 💖 I wanted an excuse to comment and say how much I love your content. You have inspired me to make my own videos on CZcams. Thank you for being you ✨
Lol I was just going to tell you that you should get into doing people's birth chart and then you said I've been getting more into the chart. Doing readings for people is so fun.
Blair, the reason you get along with so many people is those mutable placements in your Big Three! I'm a Pisces Sun, Sag rising, Gemini moon...probably whi relate to you, very complimentary placements!
anyway, its the Sag and Pisces placements that make you that way, Sagittarians are social chameleons and Pisces has a fluid understanding of a reality...mentally ill or not, it's in our charts to be that way!
I know that there are multiple people in the world who i could be happy with; i also believe soulmates are not just romantic. Our challenge is to not abandon ourselves with our fluid nature because its very easy to shift our preferences to suit the situation. It's a matter of finding the ONE, but of finding someone who fits our needs and preferences enough to create the reality you want.
Also my Venus is in Aries and my ex was an Aries and we could not have been more incompatible sexually, and otherwise, just saying.
i have heard that when someone's moon matches your sun, they make you feel understood, and that was my ex, and I've noticed it other connections as well and it's 100% true, both ways. When my moon matches their sun, people always comment on how I "get" them
I definitely think you can be compatible with numerous people - totally not a weird thing!
I’ve done the same with my homework’s definitely wrote good papers within a matter of hours and get an A 😂😂
I had a breast aug in 2016. I love them. They changed after having a baby in 2021 and breast feeding, but I actually prefer the look because they look more natural now bc they have dropped a bit. Some may see this a negative though.
I like mine too:) but I rlly needed to get them done after kids. Alot of girls who get them dont need them
MORE ASTROLOGY PLEASE
your chart>>>>
You are wise girl 💜
what really shocked me was the maternity and paternity leave that America has 😳
also been debating getting a boob job for the longest time but this girlie is too scared 😂
you're so close to 1 mil! 🥺💜
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Blair babes you didn't leave the link tho! It's not in the description box
Lol yes, where's the link?! Literally sold me on it
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Ty lovely!
Girl I knew I liked you. Libra moon squad 🎉🎉
i love the mirror behind u
Authentic blair is my favorite❤️❤️
Scorpio Venus and Sag sun here too! Deep and dark love for us girlies lol
I love Q & A time
"Astrology has never lost me money"
💀💀💀 BLAIR!!! Shots fired 😂
Married to a Scorpio. It's not for everyone lol. But they are fiercely loyal, love with a lot of passion and are ready to kill for the ones they love so it's not only bad.
I can confirm with my Scorpio bf
I strongly agree with your take on just cutting people off I’m Mexican my culture my family are very family oriented and always tell me that she’s my mother and the only mother I’ll ever have so I should forgive her and blah blah blah but My mother is a narc and I spent years begging her to change and I was so extremely emotionally dependent on her and eventually I realized I could literally just leave… and stop choosing to put myself in the same situation over and over again and I cut her off completely and moved like 15 hours away I don’t even care what my family or anyone thinks anymore 😹😹 I am at peace just trying to do better but I have never been this calm. I used to think I was an angry person naturally and a cry baby and what not but nooo it was just my environment
Good for you!!
My fave coping mechanism is also analysing personality traits into astrological stereotypes. I don’t care what anyone says, it’s scientifically valid B! From a heavy mercury walnut with IC in Scorpio in the 5th. x
I love you Blair! 💕 Just wanted to comment to say that I have breast implants through the armpits and they’re silicone Motiva, not saline!
you should get a vintage Kelly bag bc they have a shoulder strap!
You have to - Stop looking for Mr Right
You’re amazing! You don’t need some man to “make you happy” 🎉
Imagine how many people you’re making happy with your videos!!!!❤
Perfect person is someone you can be besties with along with partners…. Take your time 🥰🥰
You’re so smart ❤
IPL machines aren't permanent, it lasts about a year or so. I've been using it for like 5 years now and it's totally worth it imo, but it's not permanent like laser hair removal
love you !
Love your chart 😍 I'm a scorpio with 4 scorpio placements and a sag mercury 🥰💜🖤
Never clicked on anything so fast
11:46 such good advice
Hi Blair your beautiful as always 😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️
I’m waayyy to early 😂❤
“Why are you doing this to me 🫤😩” 🤣
I have five scorpio placements as well!!! We are great:)
Ms. Walnuts- what is in your 7th house, and/or ruler of that house? That may guide you to what type of partner you click with. Every single guy I've been serious with has had moon in scorpio! I have moon in Virgo so there is a yin/yang balancing effect there-
luv u blair
I love your brain girl
Love your videos. I had my augmentation in 2009, the only thing that goes through my mind is BII, I haven’t gotten mine replaced and they feel “ok”. I think If I went back in time, I wouldn’t have gotten them.
Are they not meant to be replaced every 10 years
I like the way you think! ❤
I'm also a Sagittarius Sun and Scorpio Venus and I'm dating a Scorpio Sun now and can confirm that it's perfect lol.
The boob sweat is also the worst!! I think if more people told me about this I would have never, it’s truly suffocating. Also, my doctor told me to change every 8-10 yrs. not 10-15; I have silicone smooth rounds so maybe it’s different per type.
I get boobs sweats too n I have mine done, is this known for implants?
@@flymetothemoon9541 all big books, natural or implant
Mine are 15+ years, I checked 3 months ago, everything is fine. I even breastfed 2 years my daughter and they didn't change. To not have brest implant illness, I recommend high raw plant based diet, regular Detox and fasting and positive thoughts!
@@desislavapeeva3330 I agree with this, extra clean anti inflammatory diet lessens the chance of bii
My Dr said u don’t have to ever change just do ultrasounds or mri
Bestie I’m having such a shitty day 😢 my depression is so bad 😕 thank you for uploading ❤
Love you
@@BabyMango thank you friend ❤️
I love you babes ❤❤
I could totally see u with a scorpio!
Finally someone said it... Birkins are bags and that's it... use it as a bag please
I ALWAYS thought the Birkin was the ugliest bag ever and never got it. The Kelly is much cuter and looks better when kept in pristine condition.
it comes down to each persons body type, ik girls who have under muscle & it looks bad they separate and look un even from muscles / working out & not FULLY recovering like waiting 1 YEAR to work out but ive seen others thr look GREAT under the muscle so it RLY comes down to each person individually their body type/ lifestyle so u just rlly need to do research and look into whats best FOR YOU.
just be very mindful about recovery so many women think they are healed aftr 3-5 months and go back to living normal lifting things/ working out but in reality it takes a long time to FULLY 100% heal especially w the muscle i think thats why we see so many girls w bad lookin implants because they just aren't doing research or recovering right
you need to start a podcast alreadyyyy pleeeaaaassseeee
npr was saying yesterday that the mathematically perfect stopping number to get the ideal match is 9. So that you would ideally have 9 previous relationships before settling.
I love uuuuuu
Good advice regarding men taking the initiative as that is why God has given them testosterone.😊❤️✝️🌹💜✝️🌸
I so relate ❤
That telegram pissed me off lol
Yep, my mom had a boob job and ab 15 years of having them one ruptured.. but her insurance did pay to fix and replace it bc they were a hazard to her health! Lol
love you Blair bb ❤
I’m an Arab/Persian hairy monkey. I tried at home IPLs but it’s so time consuming and easy to slack on. So I started going to the clinic for laser hair removal. And it’s so awesome I literally do it full body and it saved me from a lot of self loathing.
Have you ever taken the Myers-Briggs MBTI personality test ? if so what is your personality type?