my hair is falling out... so i bought a wig lol
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today im sharing my #hairloss journey because i went platinum blond and was very sad. today im sharing what i did in terms of hair products, hair extensions, and wigs. please feel free to share if you've experianced anything similar. also, the money from this video will be donated to those suffering from hair loss, please share any organisations you recommend. - Komedie
I think the obsession with being platinum blonde is not really about the hair, but about something deeper. You have had so much change in the last year that it makes sense that you have put so much value on being blonde. It seems like it gave you comfort and strength during your harder times because it was something you could control and gave you instant gratification you may have been seeking. I have done a similar thing with my hair and had to cut it short. It made emotional because my hair means so much to me. Now it is healthier. You are still gorgeous and will continue to be no matter your hair journey. Try not to get too down about it. It is time to heal and take time for yourself. I hope you feel better❤️
Idk ive always loved plantinum blond hair on women and its the most attractive thing ive ever seen on women so of course id want it. Lol. Nothing deeper. I use the best bleach so my platinum blond hair is healthier than my old brunette hair. Its also down to my butt. I have a good program to prevent any damage. Not many people know how to do bleach right. And its actually really easy to manage more than direct dyes too.
I think i'm going through the same thing haha
@@BunnyDreamer Hi! Can I ask ur process? When u lighten how often? Etc
Thank you:) 🌻🌻🌻
Same i swear
This is a really really sweet and lovely comment thank you for sharing it!❤️
I feel like this is the closest we've seen to the way Blair acted before the breakup. I know people change and I love her either way but it was nice to see her be so real and vulnerable with us here. That transition time can be so damaging to your ego.
I agree
Same same saaaaame!! This video made me so happy because it feels like her. Change is fine, but true change of character is generally gradual and doesn’t tend to be completely inconsistent with the person one used to be, especially if there’s nothing wrong with the person one used to be. I’m glad to see Blair again. I think all we want is to see her happy and well and I hope she’s getting there again. Even if her changing meant her being happy I’m fine with that but I think we all feel this way because this seems more natural and genuine than how she’s been lately, and usually that’s because people are being themselves and in an ok place.
Ditto! She seems like she's the same blajr here, the other videos have just felt off but as long as she's doing good.
Blair, maybe you should buy some brunette wigs you genuinely like and when you’re feeling up for it you can wear them around your home (or out) so you can get used to seeing yourself with a different hair colour? If you decide you don’t like yourself brunette that’s okay but perhaps if you start seeing yourself in other hair colours rather than blonde you may discover that your identity doesn’t need to be so closely tied to a particular look?
I think you are a beautiful bleach blonde, dirty blonde, and brunette!
Hey Blair, IDK if you care about the whole “gentlemen prefer blondes” stereotype or not, and I know I sound like a dickbag but - my weight has fluctuated a lot in my life. Men found me more attractive when I was thinner, but none of the men I met at those times were worth knowing. The men I met when I have been bigger - even just as friends - are truer, kinder, and have treated me better. Think about the people you’re adding to your life by being “hotter” - if they otherwise wouldn’t be interested, do you even want them? ❤️
On behalf of those of us who needed to hear this, thank you for sharing🖤 🥰 I deeply relate to your experience so this especially hit home for me. Sending love from WI. :)
You've got a good head on your shoulders! Thanks for that nice words of wisdom 🙂 you've made many people chance their perception of themselves! Good for you 😁
I needed to hear this thank you
THIS IS THE BEST COMMENT
Absolutely Love this comment! It’s SO true! People aren’t genuine anymore, guys or girls or whatever. And the right ones find you when you are your most authentic self I find. & Blair is beautiful no matter what, she has a kind heart🤍
imo the hairdresser should’ve said no a long time ago. My mom has said no to a ton of people to save the integrity of their hair, and told them what they COULD do instead.
EXACTLY!!!!!!!
They should have adviced her not to bleach it again but they bleached her already damaged hair 🤦🏻♀️.
Do a Pinterest board of brunette hair/people with stunning brunette hair and just look at it all day.
This is a lovely idea. I feel slightly discriminated against as a redhead lol but I imagine it is still damaging to try to dye your hair red? So I'm just kidding ❤️
@@bananawammabama I wish my hair was red, mine is boring and black
@@bananawammabama more like damaging to get out! I loved having red in my hair but I refuse to let the colour near me ever again, fried my hair off trying to get it out 😭 it’s such a damn beautiful colour though! I really love the orangey reds, they’re stunning 😍
@@iamnotreal0717 I wish my hair was black, mine's dirty dark-blonde/greyish brown. The grass is always greener :) I bet you hair is beautiful
@@bananawammabama i believe since blair is a natural brunette it’s be less damaging! also most shades of red, at least the more natural ones, require bleaching beforehand if starting with darker hair
I feel like we've been watching a mental breakdown for like a year and it's reached its crescendo and now hopefully things start to level out. Hope you feel better Blair! P.s. I have seen you with dark hair and omg, you are so beautiful. You don't need those vapid dudes in your life anyway. Be your natural self when you feel comfortable with that and see what happens.
My sister in law was in a really bad car accident in February. She’s still mostly bedridden from it. But on top of all of the scars and pain, her hair has fallen
Out from the trauma and hormonal changes. I feel terrible for her because she has literally lost almost everything and is left with the almost buzz cut short regrowth. She wants a wig but they are rather expensive. Her medical bills have literally surpassed 1.5 million dollars.
I’m hoping to save up and allow her to get a nice human hair wig
Sounds like your sister might be the person who could use that wig she talked about donating for this very reason 👍🏻🌹
you should make a go fund me :)
@Neurotika does she still need a wig? I shaved my head before covid started, so I would have virgin hair that I could donate to someone. It's a little past my shoulders now, and I'm happy to fully shave my head again so there's as much length as possible. Maybe we could connect somehow and I could help?
I can hear the pain in your voice. Don't feel stupid for feeling through this loss. I also went through it due to hormones. It is a part of you, but just like anything else in life you figure out a way to adapt. Take the time you need to get through it. Your walnuts are here for you xx
Can you please tell me more, like what happened? My hair fall out last winter and I think it was because of hormones.. waiting to grow it back :(
@@Jenni-Martikainen in my personal experience, my hormones would spike and it would be expressed by my period being all over the place despite me being on birth control. actually since i this was over years, some birth control would just make it worse. eventually i was tired of playing with soley medication, so in conjunction with medication, i had to fix my diet. long story short, three months later diet, regular exercise and stressing less helped with my hormones. a few months after that i was able to come off birth control as well.
this may not work for everyone but it was how i was able to stop the hairloss and it was able to grow back
now i take care of my scalp on top of it with regular finger scalp massaging, tying my hair back for work with loose braids or loose low pony, washing with shampoo less often (1-2x a week), and managing stress better
@@Jenni-Martikainen check your thyroid, heart and vitamin levels. Some meds will also affect hair growth and loss.
There is no shame in hair loss. I have trichotillomania so I have struggled with hair loss for years. I'm proud of Blair for talking about it so openly.
Me too girl. My hair is DESTROYED
It’s a hard thing to deal with. A few years ago I was in a really bad place with it and at the same time my step daughter was going through so much I finally decided my hair or her life so I just shaved my head and called it done. It was weird for a bit but now almost 5 years later I still haven’t let it grow back out. I know it’s not for everyone but it was best for me.
I lost all my hair 4 years ago. Then recently I started losing it again. Like it is falling out in chunks. I have severe psoriasis. I wish I could get a nice wig to cover it up. I don't even know where to start.
@@tannad5332 I shaved because of trich too... it sure is liberating... but I'm back to the struggle of growing it out now lol. need some hair to hide behind
It’s called a Topper, not a wig. And you’ll need to move the clips around eventually as they will cause traction baldness in the spots they clip. If you need help or questions let me know. 😊
The monologue at the end was the most real I’ve seen Blair lately. She’s always trying to be funny and sarcastic but seeing her express her raw emotions is so refreshing.
Please don’t be embarrassed; we all deserve to be heard out. You might want to speak with a professional about your blond addiction; your self-awareness will get you far. Wishing you the best!
Love how you're able to joke with the hairdressers and everyone despite this being a hard process, we hope you get your hair back healthy and normal 😘
Right!! I love her sense of humor lol. Fair play to her , I agree she is being great in this process. Considering she's gone through a break up too. One strong ass woman
Finding a new color that doesn't require bleach is a chance to explore new parts of your identity/try on diff personalities! At the least it will be cheaper/easier to manage & makes travel easier so it's a win-win
Definitely agree! After I retired from the Army (only natural colored hair is in keeping with regulations), I went BONKERS trying different colors and I love it so much!
She should dye her hair walnut-colored 😂
it’s really not just hair, a lot of women have huge emotional tie to our hair. Most of us have been growing it for years, we’re bound to feel a bond to it. It’s also the root of a lot of our confidence. I have curly hair like 3b curly, and when I was younger I hated it so I straightened it every Sunday and would touch it up throughout the week, so essentially I was putting heat on my hair every day from 3rd grade to like my middle school years and then I started again in highschool, and in highschool it got so bad that I couldn’t wear white shirts because it would have broken off hairs all over it and it looked so bad. My hair stopped curling, it looked dry and uneven from breaking off, and when I got the big chop I CRIED. It sucked.
I feel like hair falling out is one of woman's worst nightmare's honestly. This video was very open, it must be hard showing something like this online. I'm sure it will grow back fast!
I used to be someone who said “it’s just hair it’ll grow back”, but after half my hair snapped off last year from trying to go bleach blonde I really felt the effect it had on my confidence and self esteem. I felt so ugly and just not myself when I looked in the mirror. With lots of care and patience my hair has finally gotten back to a somewhat normal length and thickness, but I’ll never say “it’s just hair” ever again lol
may i ask how long it took to get back to a more normal length for you? was it the full year? mine burned off from bleaching too. i had shoulder length hair and it burned off so that the hairs at my crown were about an inch long. i went to the salon to get it done in a pixie cut and the lady just buzzed it all off. it's taken months for it grow into the pixie cut i originally wanted and i can't help but have this sinking feeling that it'll never, ever grow back - even though i know it will in my head, i still can't get past the feeling of "i'll be stuck like this forever"
Hair is such a safety blanket for so many people. I personally can't relate that much because I've always had very fine hair and struggled with it my entire life. Cutting my hair short and then ultimately shaving it all off was the best thing I every did though. It is so incredibly empowering and I would recommend it to anyone especially the people that hide behind their hair. Because at the end of the day it is just hair and we are all just as beautiful without it and cutting it short or shaving it off really shows you that. It proved to me that I don't need hair to feel pretty. I would love to see you with short hair b, but at the end of the day it's your decision and you need to feel comfortable with it. You do you boo ❤️
Same here ❤️ it took a pixie cut to make me realize just how beautiful I truly am!
Well said we gotta do what makes us feel good and comfortable
Beautifully said !!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏thank u
I'd never get a date if I had no hair so not an option. Though I'm sure it's empowering to some women
I’m glad I’m not the only one who deeply struggles with hoe emotional hair loss can be. I used to have such thick hair. Then 3 years ago I developed trichotillomania. Seeing photos of how much it’s progressed physically makes me sick. I have so many bald spots, short pieces of hair, and just super damaged hair. It always makes me feel so dramatic to be upset because “it’s just hair” but it legit makes me want to cry. I’m glad you’re able to be so open on your channel
Me too and I feel I can't get out of chronik stress so that it could get better😔
You can call them toupee, in the hair loss world, women usually refer to them as toppers. It helps us to differentiate between the shorter, Bob styles that often times, but not always, men wear.
blair you'd be gorgeous with a full head of hair or bald idc, GORG
The SAME thing happened to me years ago except.....it was literally the entire top of my head the broke right off 😂😫i ended up shaving it all off and wore lace wigs for some time. i was literally obsessed with going lighter...and lighter.
Yall I regularly dye my hair blonde and I'm scurrd now
@@n0thinghere2c68 make sure you're using products to repair your hair after bleaching. Olaplex is great. Marrakesh leave in spray before brushing. I love Moroccon Oil brand products. Only wash once a week. If you use purple shampoo, stick with Redken, it's less drying than many out there. Use a dry conditioner instead of a dry shampoo.
Let your hair air dry as often as you can. Avoid using heat tools. And when you do blow dry, straighten or curl, do not turn the heat up as hot as it goes. Start low, then work your way up, IF needed. Bleached hair doesn't need a high setting for manipulation. Those hot hot temps are for dark, thick, shiny hair, that doesn't hold.
Stretch out time between color sessions as long as possible.
Two of my friends lost a lot of hair due to bleaching. It was breaking off the ends and at the roots. I waited 8 weeks before touching their hair. (Luckily we were on lock down so they didn't see much of anyone!) I did an ashy root shadow, 1 shade darker than their natural shade, and I added neutral/warm low lights. Both have extremely blonde hair still, but with more depth, more shine, and less maintenance.
I hope this helps! **Bleach, purple shampoo and straighteners, are our hair's number 1 enemy!
This is what happened to me about 6 months ago and yep I shaved it off too and have been wearing lace front wigs ever since.. How long did it take for your hair to grow back? Mines only just over an inch long and growing back almost black... I'm a natural blonde so this is a bit discerning..
@@cassandralovely6182 it took me about a year to get it shoulder length if im correct. Everyone is different though, focus more on the health of your hair rather then the speed. It will get there💘 and if i knew what i knew now i would totally rock that shorter hair while you have it! I am sure you look stunning with short and long hair, either way. Your hair will grow back sooner than you know.
Within the past 2 years, I've gotten my hair highlighted (balayage) twice for the first time since I was 12. I'm 34. The first time was a lot less than the 2nd. I waited a full year before getting it redone. And I also started this process on completely virgin hair. My stylist was shocked at how light and bright it got just after one session. I didn't have to come back, once was perfect. I got a lot more blonde the second time, which was this past August. And I've been very lucky. No excess damage or abnormal hair loss. However, I do know that if I don't make sure I allow as much time between appointments as possible, or if I don't keep getting regular trims to maintain the health of my hair, I could easily end up in this same situation. It's a huge fear. But at the end of the day, hair does grow back. This girl is so beautiful. If it were me, I'd 100% go for a cute pixi cut and wear the wig on days I wanted my long hair. If she decides to just chop it, her hair will grow back 1000x faster and recover from the damage so much better.
i immediately felt connected to this video as soon as it began playing! i have always thought my hair was my best feature and i recently started losing a LOT of it. as a matter of fact, i literally was just looking at how thin the hair on the top of my head was in the mirror literally seconds before seeing this video haha.. i have been looking for so many things to help and nothing is working. i feel so devastated and i know the stress of it is contributing even more to my hair loss!! thank you for posting this and allowing yourself to be vulnerable in this way... it really put into perspective that i am not the only one that is going through this! 💗
Look into micro-needling your scalp!
@@kiiiirbzzz should i speak with my pcp about it?? i just went through blood work to see if its hormonal and it came back as i have a bit higher than normal free testosterone so i have an appt with my ob/gyn in november.. but i was also on birth control since i was 17 until this january, and i am 26 now! so i figured some of it was related to that.. 😩 thanks! i will look into it :)
Completely relatable. I always had reasonably thick hair, but I've been noticing hair loss around the top and front of my hair for a few years, I can't at all see my scalp but I noticed my ponytail thinning out dramatically and my hairline lookinh thinner and higher. I am pregnant now and it's as thick as I remember it being before all the stress... but I am so scared and sad about it returning to 'normal' after delivery, because my new 'normal' sucks.
I would check if it is hormonal or because of a medication. If it isn't, Nioxin has great products that have helped my clients. Also prenatal vitamins help a lot too.
Have you possibly had covid? I had it and Roughly 3/4 months later my hair started falling out. It’s called shedding and happens to your body with major viruses.
As a black woman I used to feel like I had to have straight hair to be accepted because society as a whole tends to look down on afro hair. So I had relaxed hair from the age of 5 until 2 years ago when I stopped relaxing it. My hair is also really thick, but the relaxer thinned it out and would break off my hair and it wouldn't grow past a certain length. It wasn't easy to transition to my natural hair and there have been times when I was so self conscious because of my hair, but I have no regrets. I love my hair in it's natural state now and my hair feels amazing. My advice is to just do it. Wear your hair brown. The longer you do it the more comfortable you will feel. And once time passes and it grows out healthy, you will be so happy you did it and realize that healthy, silky brown hair looks and feels better than fried, broken bleached hair.
I moved to LA and was obsessed with going lighter. I relaxed AND bleached my hair 🥲, and when I came back home my regular hairstylist was like wtf did you do girl. It truly was about how I felt about myself (I was going through a rough time, like heavy trauma) and how society (esp living in LA during a time where ash blonde balayage was so popular, where being blonde has always been popular) made me feel like I had to look a certain way to feel pretty. It was so extreme. I felt like an idiot when I put it all into perspective, but it was such a learning experience.
You look amazing on your photo!
@@Beeoog @Frankie O I can't imagine living in LA. I would've definitely succumbed to the pressure to fit in. I already felt pressure just living in Texas. How is your hair doing now? Still relaxed and/or bleached? And how are you doing now?
@@sintara8442 Thank you! 😊
Love love love natural hair! Glad you love your hair as is! Hair is precious!! ❤️❤️❤️
i feel you so much. i’ve lost my hair due to an eating disorder which resulted in anemia. i was too scared to even touch my head for a year and a half. you’re not alone❤️
I have something going on with my hair right now and I’m so afraid to touch it! Like I don’t even want to comb it. I don’t know what I did I used this product for hair growth and it like burned or overstimulated my scalp and I’ve actually lost hair. I’m so scared I’ve done permanent damage. So good to know I’m not alone 😭
They natural growth that’s growing out looks so thick and good though! You can get a cute bob in no time💁🏻♀️
I 1000% was addicted to being blonde and this exact thing happened to me and now I’ve been able to stop bleaching and let it grow out and I went dark and I’m loving it so much
Also girl hair is such a part of so many peoples identity, I can’t even imagine being in your position here, you’re much more chill than I would be!
I totally understand how bad you feel about your hair. It's not just a superficial thing, it can affect a person a lot.
I've had trichotillonania since I was 3 years old (I'm 25 now), the longest my hair has ever been was above my shoulders when I was in primary school. In 2012 I decided to cut my hair suuuper short to see if it would stop pulling it out but it didn't work. I haven't cut my hair since then but the longest strands of hair I have now are no longer than 7cm, I have very few hair and some bald spots. It's crazy, I know.
I bought extensions a couple of times over the years but they were very expensive to maintain and uncomfortable, both to wear and to hide. A wig would be the best thing that could ever happen to me.
It feels a bit uncomfortable to tell this openly but I know there may be many people who may be going through similar things and it might do them good to read about other people so they don't feel so alone.
I know how much it hurts, I know how much it affects your confidence, I know how it feels to not want to leave your room because you feel "ugly", I know what it's like to not feel normal, but I hope you know that hair doesn't define you. As hard as it is to get out of bed, look in the mirror and leave the house, I want you to know that you are very strong, that you are not alone and that, even though you might not see it, you are beautiful!
as someone with trichotillomania you have no idea how much this means to me. many women with this disorder hide this side of them (me included) due to feelings of shame. i have bald spots that never recovered and rly choppy hair.. im trying to get my hair to grow though. at times of extreme stress i try and wrap a scarf around my head at home to create a barrier (doesnt always work lol) or try and replace that action with something else (filing my nails for example) im still struggling and looking for new solutions everyday but i thought i’d share this with you so you don’t feel so alone in this comment section. much love 💕
the fact that i hardcore panicked admitting this disorder to my HAIRDRESSER but not this youtube section… the irony 😂
As someone with lupus who has suffered severe hair loss this comment really touched me. Thank you for posting this
I lost 50-60% of my hair through pregnancy and after pregnancy. Invisible bead extensions (find someone certified) have been a game changer. Edit: on my 3rd year with handtied extensions and haven’t lost any volume due to them.
Hey Blair, a friend from high school also had issues with her hair falling off, she had a whole patch missing in her hair on one of the sides but that was completely due to stress, she said she was fine but that's how her body reacted to constantly feeling under pressure. She decided to cut it extra short so that the hole wouldn't show so much ... People never talk about that but hair loss for women is so traumatic, she eventually got better and it grew back. But I just wish it could be more of a normal topic. Thanks for sharing that with us 😘
You just made me relive the most traumatizing moment of my life, i bleached my then luscious hair, and i lost all of it i have like 1/3 of what i had before and it’s not coming back i feel you🥲🥲i hope you restore it 🤍
I lost the same spots of hair bc of my own trichotillmania after sexual assault. It’s been a year and my hair has grown back mostly but I totally understand this because I felt the same way and still sometimes do. You’ve got this girl!! We are here for the journey.
I’m very sorry to hear about your past trauma. I actually do hair pulling too, but to my eyebrows mostly. This stems from childhood abuse. I’m truly sorry to hear you’ve gone through that feeling too. I wish you all the best in your life.
Me too :( started after my best friend died. My hair is finally at shoulder length, and I still struggle sometimes with my brows and lashes. I admire her talking about this online
Blair, I relate to this so deeply. My mom is naturally white blonde, and my dad is a dark brunette and my hair is somewhere in between. All I wanted growing up was to be blonde like my mom, so naturally, I also caught the platinum hair bug, and it totally destroyed my natural curl pattern. It took me 3 years, a lot of patience, and slowly allowing my hair to grow back out naturally, and resisting the temptation to dye it for the curls/health of my hair to return. Happy to report all is well again, but I appreciate you publicly sharing your hair journey. Lots of love to the Walnut!
Edit: RE: working through the desire to stay light blonde, the only thing that got me to love myself with my real hair color was one of my best friends from Finland. We were living abroad together, and one day she asked me what my real hair color was, and reinforced that I was beautiful with my natural hair color, and shared with me the Finnish beauty standard, which is to be natural and accepting of one's self. Like I mentioned above, it took me years, and internal work, to let go of my belief that I was only lovable or beautiful blonde. Remember to nurture your inner child, who maybe once learned to believe her natural hair wasn't pretty enough (but it absolutely is!).
I have copper red hair and was bullied for year. When I dyed my hair the bullying stopped. 2007-2020 was dye and bleach. I might dye my hair next month but who knows. But thin hair also runs in my family and I don't know when m father went bald so I'm like close to wig city
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 awe what assholes. Just know I wouldn't had picked on it but said it was pretty and said screw them.
@@constantine9142 I was in high school when I first dyed my hair that was probably why. I started bleaching 2009 the day before graduation
My kid is blonde like his dad and when he was little would argue his hair was black like mine(it's just a really dark brown) but still as he gets older he begs me to dye his hair black like mine and I tell him no. I love his hair cause I love him and he would look like he got in a fight with ink and lost. He would have to dye his brows to make it work. So I just keep telling him when you have your license I'll let you dye it hoping he forgets it. I never understood why kids do that other than they are close to that parent like mine is with me.
I did the sameeee thing. I also kept my hair long because my mom always told
Me it looked better and made me feel awful when I cut it shorter but I have very thin hair and keeping it long was high maintenance, it would tangle and break easily and was basically a nightmare. FF to this year and after going no contact with my parents I sat down to watch “Underworld” and realized I looked a lot like Kate beckinsale in that movie and said “screw it” and cut it up to my chin that night, I’ve never loved a haircut more! My curls are gone but I’ve gone to my natural color and I’m actually embracing a couple silver hairs that have shown up. I’m only 25 but I’ve learned to really love my hair and find a haircut I really love after frying it off with bleach and always having it put up when it was long
It isn’t falling out. It’s breaking off. You’re beautiful either way.
This makes me so happy! My sister has trichotillomania, after dealing with a abusive ex,. She finally gave in.. shaved her head. She could never afford good wigs. She wore bandannas for years. I got her a wig for her birthday last year. This whole year.. I’ve never seen someone so happy, and living more free.
Your doing something wonderful by giving wigs!
I have androgenic alopecia. Every type of hair loss sucks, and it's not talked about for women. So I really appreciate you sharing your story!
Same, it sucks honestly
I lost my hair due to lupus about 10 years ago. I always had pretty long hair and I was devastated. I remember not realizing how bad it was until I went to the shower drain to clean the collected hair and the whole drain popped out with so much hair underneath. I joke that it was like a person under there.. but right after I remember running and crying to my dad and showing him my loss. It was also around the same time I was going to get married. I remember I couldn’t wear it long and flowing as it was shorter and wouldn’t look the way I wanted due to how thin it was. I can say 8 years later that my lupus is under control and it’s all back with its original look and feel. It took time but it did come back
Thanks for sharing your story! It really brings back the old vibes that brought me to your channel in the first place ♥️😘
Blair: "I bleached my hair to death and was then surprised when it fell out"
Also Blair: "hey guys~ this is what I use for bleaching my teeth~"
lol the irony wasn’t lost for me. Hope she doesn’t overdo the teeth whitening too. Her teeth look so good right now though😆
If you don’t have anything nice to say, just don’t
@@danielskalicky7630 it wasn’t mean..it was a warning. don’t be so sensitive
next video: my teeth are falling out...so i bought dentures
@@danielskalicky7630 all they did was quote her… how is that mean? are you 3 years old?
That happened to me too. I have natural black hair and decided to bleach it WHITE, not blonde but white, so after a year of having 4 bleaching sessions per retouch every month (it wouldn’t lighten my very dark hair other way) my hair started falling off and I had weird chunks and balding spots all over my head. I dyed it back to black but obviously it keeps breaking off on the parts that were once bleached, so I have super short hair waiting to grow out all the damaged one. Yes it’s a nightmare sometimes.
I dunno if this comment is unhelpful but I’m actually really digging a short hair Blair! Giving me Blondie vibes ☺️
Agreed!
I also liked her shorter blonde. Her before hair was too thick and constantly covering her face but anyone who has their hair falling out would have anxiety.
If the male attention from having the blonde hair is superficial to begin with, is it really the right kind of attention at the end of the day? Love you Blair. ❤️
One thing I learned growing up, don't ever say "My hair is so thick. I can do whatever I want & dye it every colour I want" to yourself. Don't say it. Just don't do it. Trust me, it's a curse. I said the same thing too when I was teenager. In my culture, sometimes the negative things that we say might end up as a prayer. So you have to be careful in whatever you say. I dyed my hair many times too when I was teenager. Sadly, it started to break off when I was just 16. It continued to do so until now even I stopped dyeing my hair for a very long time. I cut my hair in order for it to grow thick but nope. It only grew longer, not thick anymore like in the old days. Some ppl said temporary / semi permanent hair dye is fine but nope, any type of hair dye & bleach are still dangerous. The more you do it, the more your hair gets fucked up. Try to give your hair a break. Stop bleaching / dye & just wear wig. Wigs are normal, wigs are your lifesaver. Don't be discouraged or ashamed of wearing it. At least with wigs, you can change as many colours as you want without sacrificing your real hair 🤗 There are many other women who go through the same thing as you do. Baldness does not define us in any shape or forms. I've met many women who shaved their heads because of hair loss / cancer & they're still very beautiful. The same goes to you, you're beautiful even if your hair goes a shade darker. I recommend you to work your inner self first. It's important for you to have a strong mental health to go through this journey 🙂 Stay strong, fighting !!
I don’t know if I believe in curses, but I do say “knock on wood” just in case lol
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Understandable that hair is a security and comfort, however in the grand scheme of things you’ll find that it really isn’t that serious. I was obsessed with being blonde too, but it was damaging my hair. I realized that even though it was fun, and I liked it, at the end of the day it wasn’t really me. I actually buzzed my head to prove something to myself, and I guess to people around me who told me I looked better as a blonde. Having a buzz cut, the fuzz ball, the pixie, the mullet, then the bob..it made me not take myself so serious and embrace the me that is good enough the way I come. With or without hair.
Also; I found myself a boyfriend during my buzzcut time, and the men I’ve attracted to myself after I buzzed my head & rock my true natural color have been FAR AND BEYOND better than the people that I attracted to myself as a blonde. TRUST
I have pcos and have lost so much of my hair. I’m still in the grieving process and have yet to accept it. It’s very hard to go through as a woman because our hair is more important to us than we even realize. I’ve always wanted to try wigs and this video was inspiring that you were confident enough to show this vulnerable moment with us ❤️
Okay but you would look GORGEOUS with a pixie cut!!!! I went through a time where I would change my hair color every two months for yeeeears. As you can imagine, it wreaked havoc on my natural curly hair. It took me years to fix my curl pattern. What helped me was 1) a big chop followed by frequent hair cuts 2) oil in my hair every night and day and 3) finding heatless hair styles like pin curls. I know a big cut can be so scary but it's kinda like seeing clothes on a hanger. Sometimes you think it looks ugly on the hanger but you try it on and it looks great! Worse that can happen is you hate it, you wear the wig you already have, and let it grow!
So, it's good you're trying some products to fix things externally using the oils and such to help with the fried hair, but it's also important to address internal issues that could contribute to your hair loss (the drugs, smoking, recent calorie deficit - possibly lack of nutrients). Good luck! the wig looks great!
Your feelings are so valid and I'm sorry that you're going through this. However, I hope you dumped that hair stylist because no actual professional should allow clients to only go 3 weeks between bleaching and then overlap bleach. Even if that's what you said you wanted, he should have refused you to protect the integrity of your hair. I know you're attached to your blonde hair (trust me, I'm attached to mine as well), but I do hope that you're able to be okay with keeping it a more manageable natural color so that it prevents this from happening again.
I have alopecia and patches of my head hair, all of my eyelashes and some other facial hair fell out in elementary school. My hair still gets patchy sometimes or I notice patches when they are half grown out. I know how it upsetting it can be especially when you really dont want short hair or to shave. You can do this girl, make sure you're eating good too, giving your body what it needs let's it run the best it can when you are chronically deficient in vitamins and nutrients your body cannot complete chemical reactions and your metabolism slows and your body will steal from your organs and such for nutrients. I have never tried biotin but people suggest it all the time for supporting hair and nail health ✌❤
I got a grant for a wig from variety. They help children in need and they have given me $12 000 in total to give me two real custom hair pieces. Thank you for sharing your story with us and making us feel less alone. Xx
ive never bleached my hair but i lost over half my hair after an eating disorder and i was NOT prepared for the emotional reaction. it's a very unique and difficult feeling and experience that is so much harder than you expect. im sorry this has happened :( thank you for sharing this!! there's a strange stigma and taboo around hair loss in women, so this made me really happy to see (at your demise, unfortunately). as a fellow hair loss sufferer, this made me feel understood ♡
i lost mine bc of thyroid issues so i’m definitely in the same boat as yall. like blair said, you can’t understand how losing your hair feels until you’re losing your hair. i’ve lost a lot of things in my life and my hair is still among the hardest things i’ve lost
this is so interesting because I love being brunette. it makes me feel so powerful and exotic. funny how we all have our little things that make us feel secure, no matter how different they are. your wig looks beautiful though 🤎
Not trying to psychoanalyze too much here, but you might be addicted to dying your hair and having “control” over that much like people turn to eating disorders so they can feel “control” in that part of their life. It usually stems from a feeling of being helpless or not in control of some other aspect of your life, so you turn to something you feel you can control. I wish I could help more or say there was an easy fix, but that’s just my two cents. You still look beautiful with or without the hair piece, and I love and appreciate your openness as I know this must be hard. Thanks for being awesome and good luck with your hair journey 🥰❤️
Or just because it’s easier to get male attention or rich dudes if you’re blonde and skinny.
@@CherryJuli meh, I get plenty attention from rich men & have experienced a similar lifestyle as Blair and I’ve never been blonde 🤷🏻♀️
@@cassidyjackman4272 so you’ve never been blonde and can’t tell the difference.
@@CherryJuli I mean I never experienced any sort of different treatment then my blonde friends, some would say I was treated better, some might say I wasn’t I suppose, but I think it’s quite subjective and you might be putting a little too much value on blonde hair 😂
@@CherryJuli lmao being blonde has nothing to do with that
Blair I just went through this right before the pandemic so I cut my hair into a pixie cut to let my natural locks grow out. Being blonde does not make us beautiful, but being happy and healthy does 💖 thank you for opening up about your hair struggles, it makes me feel less alone xo
It can be hormonal too! I started losing a lot in my early/mid 20s; I lose almost a handful of hair of a time every time I wash it. I appreciate how open, insightful, and honest you are.
It’s a little yucky but mayonnaise, egg, and olive oil masks are definitely helping to strengthen and moisturize my dry, fine hair.I taught myself to trim it with good hair scissors, sleep with a satin bonnet and pillowcase, and never touch my hair with a towel. Only microfiber hair towels. I gently brush and NEVER use elastic!!!
Hair damage and re-growth is such an emotional journey. Oh and vinegar hair rinses will also change your life. No more product buildup and the ✨ shine ✨ is incredible.
Why did I think of Big Ed when reading mayonnaise ahah😂
I am doing the oil masks too. I am trying to use 0 heat on my dry fried hair.
Vinegar wash?? Hmm never heard of that! Def use the silk pillowcases and bonnet (sometimes) lol but I forgot about the towels! They're the worst - tshirts are better too apparently. I've been trying to take better care of my hair recently and for me that's not putting it in HIGH ass messy buns everyday, that's so bad for her! Lol thanks for the tips!!
I've been wearing wigs for years. I was born blonde but I needed blonder. I was as blonde as you for like 12 years.. and my hair was getting thinner & thinner so I stopped going so light & I've been wearing some good quality wigs/weaves since. I look the same. And when the wig comes off, my hair is healthy underneath. It took like 3 years but yeah :D
I had this happen because I have PCOS (1/5 of women my age in Australia have it) but my body couldn't hack the hormone fluctuations. Half my hair fell out. I had huge chunks coming out in the shower - it was very scary. I've bleached my hair for 14 years, never had any issues and but everyone kept blaming the bleach and I felt like I was going insane. I can completely understand the emotions behind what you're going through. Losing my hair like made me feel so sad. I felt like without it I'd be ugly. It's been a big journey and I have luckily grown all my hair back. You have such a beautiful soul and a beautiful face Blair, no matter if you have hair on your head or not. Sending you love from Australia.
Would you mind sharing what you did to help it grow back? I have pcos also and my hair is very thin now. My hair was always very fine, but now I’ve lost so much of it there’s just nothing to it. My ponytails are about as thick as my little fingernail! I’ve always hated my hair, but I’d kill to have my old hair back now!
Also would love to know how you grew all your hair back! I have PCOS too.
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I'm 15 and have PCOS too. It's really hard for me to see hairfall
If you ONLY bleach the roots, you're hair will be OK, but that's the key! LOL. Lots of people bleach their roots every month (without overlap) and have long blonde hair. It will still have some damage, but it will grow. Just do some highlights at the root in about three months to keep up the feeling of being blonde and a shadow roots to help extend your growout time. I love your sense of humour and honesty. Thanks for the vid!
The most comfortable I feel that she has been with us in a long time, I love this video so much
girl chop it short, you would look gorge and your hair will grow sm quicker
i used to have really thick, curly hair, but when i was in high school i was so obsessed with losing weight that i did a very extreme diet. after about a year, i started noticing that my hair was falling out a lot. it wasn't until about 5 years after that i was able to visit a dermatologist. i was diagnosed with telogen effluvium, which normally should last for 6 months to a year, but at this point it was chronic. it's now been about 8 years and i still have not been able to reverse it. i'm really self-conscious about my hairline, my part is very wide since so much hair has fallen, and i am literally shedding everywhere i go. sometimes i feel like it's improving, but then i grab my hair and realize i have about 25% of what i used to have, and it stresses me out which cause more hair loss. so, i know how you feel and i wish you good luck in your regrowth journey
sounds like her after her break up. :(
The wig looks insanely gorgeous!! I genuinely can’t even tell. Loved your vulnerability and realness in this video 🤍
I was obsessed with coloring my hair wild vibrant colors, but having brown hair l needed to bleach to get the color to pop. I couldn't get blue out of my hair so I put 40 developer on for....oh an hour or so...in the shower handfuls of hair were coming out. My thick beautiful hair went from being almost past my butt to above my shoulders. 😭😭Its long again, relatively healthy, and I am able to color it again, but it isnt as thick as it once was. I will never bleach again! You still look beautiful and I appreciate you sharing this with us!
I love you walnuts, I lost 40% of my hair because of a massive surgery and I was constantly pulling and prodding my scalp because I was so terrified of how see-through my hair became. Your beauty comes from far beyond your hair! 🖤
You have such a good heart for donating! And don't feel bad about this, it's just another season in life that you will get through and learn from. You got this! ❤ you are beautiful no matter what!
I was introduced to your content through a short and totally didn’t get your humor at first but DANG you are so relatable. Thanks for your honesty and sharing your story
I had hair loss from a health issue last year, but it’s finally growing back. It’s really hard and was an unfortunate physical reminder of how sick I was but it’s getting better every day. Thank you for talking about this 💕
Awwww baby, if it helps at all, you are so stunning you could literally not have a single hair on your head and we would all still think you are an actual goddess. Your beauty comes from within and that's what we love about you💓
I got a terrible haircut last fall when going to a new stylist and my bangs got butchered off in the front. Luckily I kind of hid the bad cut with hairbands for a few months while it grew out, but for those months I felt so ashamed. Thanks so much for being open about your hair struggle and making it less stigmatized.
The rant at the end, the honesty was beautiful, girl, I FeEl you!
girl. we all love you. and your hair will grow back! and WOW what a good and kind thing to donate the money for someone that needs it.
This end result hair color on you and the piece is SO. STUNNING!! I think this is an incredible way to re-gain the health of your hair while not continuing to compromise it!!
I have an alopecia spot where I lose hair whenever I’m stressed out. I may have long hair but I NEVER expose that part of my head to anyone. I wish hair loss was normalized. Blair, you would look beautiful no matter what hairstyle you have, even bald! I’m sorry you’re going through this ❤️
I'm so sorry Blair. You are beautiful! And it will grow back. I love you so much. Keep up your spirits.
This video came out at just the right time. My hair started slowly falling off after bleaching too and I didn’t realize it till I dyed it blue and I could actually see my hair strands in the shower. It was literally splitting like an inch from the root. Same issues as you described: stress, imperfect bleached, etc. This is such a sensitive issue for so many people and you’re so brave for sharing this Blaire. We’re all wishing you the best, and we can grow our hair out together bestie 🥺❤️
You’re beautiful Blair, I hope your hair grows back soon and you feel good about yourself again xo
For me it was what blonde represents in society, I really wanted to be associated with that. But my low self-esteem suffered more when I looked like a freshly hatched chick from all the bleach damage. But girl, you look so much like Lana del Rey, with brown hair the guys will fall to your feet!
B! I just wanted to say thank you for sharing this with us. I can't imagine how difficult this whole experience has been for you... even if it is "just hair," it means so much more. Just know that we're all supporting you and you look so beautiful!!
I've had really tough days dealing with hair loss from alopecia. I understand how emotional and hard it can be to deal with. Kudos to you for being vulnerable and also recognizing other forms of hair loss. Also, hair fibers are amazing!! I use them on my bald spots when going out and no one can tell. Good luck on your regrowth journey
I think it’s quite common for people to cut their hair when they’re going through a transitional period, hair can hold on to a lot of stagnant energy so I feel like cutting it off if a great idea! I remember hacking my dreads off, I didn’t want to at the time, but It almost felt liberating afterwards ❤️
Love your transparency as always Walnut! You’ve got this, the wig looks gorg!
You're beautiful and I'm glad you were so open and transparent about what happened. Your hair looks so good shorter!
Thank you for being so open about this. It’s a struggle. This makes me feel so normal.
I feel like you are in a better place, yet not. Really looking forward to seeing you grow. LOVE YOU BLAIR !
I went through a really had time in my life a few years back, I’ve always had light blonde curly long hair….. I cut it all off. I instantly felt so empowered and in control of my decisions, I feel like you wanting to be blonde is similar in a way, we channel our emotions into different areas when we don’t want to say them out loud. Wishing you all the best my love!❤️
Coming out on the other side of postpartum hair loss- it’s definitely a confidence struggle! I used to be a platinum blonde and I never had the kind of hair loss I have now! It’s crazy. You’re gorgeous Blair, and we love you! Thanks for being so honest and open💕
You’re so beautiful inside it doesn’t even matter because you shine regardless babe. 🤍💛🧡 you truly are gorgeous. Ty for being so honest and real for everyone who needs it for encouragement for self confidence, relating, or even a boost to love ourself, or a 😊 smile. You’re so amazing and I hope you don’t stop KNOWING that.
Sending walnut prayers for your hair girl. I went blonde for so long but because of the damage I just ended up going a very very dark plum/ black roots. It looks great! Also saw hidden crown hair has hair toppers to clip in as well!!! They're super cool and good quality
Thanks for sharing your hair journey! I’m a natural dirty blonde who loves being a light blonde and I’ve done the same thing. You’re a dime glow up or not 🥰
It took 2 years to undo the damage I did. I highly recommend sticking with the same hair stylist once you find the right one. A big issue I had was going to different stylists who would continue to bleach over my already bleached spots.
Thank you for being so open and honest about your experience
So nice of you to have opened up about this.
I’m going through this right now and you’re right with the stress it makes it worse. I have it in my crown so I can’t part my hair in the middle anymore, it’s made me so insecure because I was just starting to love my natural hair and not rely on wigs. But I think I’m gonna try to wear wigs again , thanks for making this video 🥺
don't worry blair we are here with uuu
Oh hun you are NOT alone. I bleached my hair so badly I shaved it all off and I’m currently growing it out. Your emotions are valid. This video was very good and I think your idea of raising money for wigs is a fantastic way of healing from this journey you’re on.
You look great 🤗💖, don’t be so angry at yourself, it is great that you realized the problem and you do everything to make it right! 💪🏽
Girl, I feel you. I have a skullet now, but I vibe with it. I had chemical damage some years ago as well. Protect your hair and have fun trying out different wigs! Also, the OLLY Sephora vitamins are great.
Love that you’re also giving a wig to someone in need. Such a generous walnut 🥰
This is the most real video you've made in a while. So happy to see you vulnerable and healing and happy that you seem more like yourself lately
So cool your donating! You’ll change someone’s life with this