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  • @naturaldisaster4810
    @naturaldisaster4810 Před rokem +381

    getting plastic surgery is fine but the lying about it is the issue especially with having an impressionable audience since they think that there are these impossible beauty standards that aren't achievable without the plastic surgery and procedures these celebrities get

    • @shvonnemarie
      @shvonnemarie Před rokem +3

      This comment ^
      You couldn’t be more right

    • @QueenAlienRocker
      @QueenAlienRocker Před rokem +2

      This 🙌

    • @arie4311
      @arie4311 Před rokem +1

      Exactly! ✅

    • @nicolettestar5921
      @nicolettestar5921 Před rokem +2

      My parents are from the 50s and believe this to a T even though I show them before and after photos yet they refuse. This is why I have a low self esteem.

    • @NoudlePipW
      @NoudlePipW Před rokem

      🎯🎯🎯🎯

  • @nyc1087
    @nyc1087 Před rokem +30

    A facelift with a really good surgeon is $20k+. There is a famous surgeon who invented the ponytail life that a few celebrities have had and he charges $150k!! Celebrities do not pay normal prices. They go to the best doctors so they spend double the price usually. Doctors that “normal” people can’t afford. So don’t think you’ll get the same results as them.

    • @charissa6648
      @charissa6648 Před rokem

      Depends on where you live...they are about 10grand in Midwest with a great surgeon.
      Also, most of those celebrities like Meghan Fix get free lifts because they promote the surgeon..

  • @rmeadows94rm
    @rmeadows94rm Před rokem +120

    Blair, the queen of brand deals. Giving us the real, raw footage. Only a queen could. I will buy this product because your content is so top tier

    • @rapunzel4117
      @rapunzel4117 Před rokem +2

      Wise words, inner beauty along with wisdom, discernment, compassion and kindness is everything! Sounds like you have done your work on yourself and you sound healthier now. Like you as a brunette better:-). Confidence radiates from the inside out. Love your honesty. ❤️🇺🇸🌹💜✝️🌸

  • @Julia-cv5rx
    @Julia-cv5rx Před rokem +52

    You should film your next videos in your bathroom, I think people on tik tok are obsessed with it because the lighting is sooooo good!

  • @xAlbinopiratex
    @xAlbinopiratex Před rokem +63

    "You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.”
    - Roald Dahl 🥰❤

  • @StephanieP3
    @StephanieP3 Před rokem +143

    I struggle because if we are changing our bodies in a way that society asks for (bigger boobs, lips, smaller waist, etc) how can we truly say we are “doing it for ourselves” ? Is it making us momentarily happy until the next trend tells us we aren’t good enough and want to change again? People say let people enjoy things, they aren’t hurting anyone. Aren’t we just hurting ourselves? Idk, I struggle with it.

    • @bananawammabama
      @bananawammabama Před rokem +6

      Feeling comfortable in your body is different for everyone. Some people like to be cushy, some like to be small, some like to be athletic.

    • @StephanieP3
      @StephanieP3 Před rokem +23

      That’s not really my point. When so many only feel comfortable when they fit the ideal body shape of the time how can it be their true personal preference? It just sounds like peer pressure to fit societal standards that we rationalize that because we choose it and say it’s what we want that it’s not detrimental to our physical and mental health.

    • @witchcraftandlizardry
      @witchcraftandlizardry Před rokem +13

      @@StephanieP3 yea i agree I think it’s gaslighting yourself to say it’s for me when it’s not wanting to admit to not wanting to address the underlying need for approval cause that’s a painful but overall more satisfying process for sure. We tell ourselves stories unknowingly like ‘I’m this sort of person’ so then it can be surprising to find out our core beliefs and what we’re operating from are actually so different than what we thought we thought about ourselves. It’s so funny & interesting. I personally find the inward journey fun & interesting because once shame is released self exploration is fun cause you aren’t ashamed of anything you find cause you aren’t seeing stuff in such a binary good or bad way if that makes sense. Release of shame tho is def hard but it just takes practice like anything else and then it eventually snowballs and becomes easy. It’s faster than you think.

    • @audreyeverett3301
      @audreyeverett3301 Před rokem +1

      I agree and I believe it only perpetuates insecurities for other people.

    • @atomickitten4648
      @atomickitten4648 Před rokem +2

      The disappointment when whatever you did was "not enough" and you didn't get the "approval" cuz surgery needs time to heal must be soul crushing.

  • @XicaMarrua
    @XicaMarrua Před rokem +98

    There is a saying in my country, it says "There isn't ugly women, just poor husbands" 😅😂😂 But seriously, its about time that people stop fixating on certain looks, as a measure for their value or success, it took me quite a while to get to that point but Im glad I did, and I'm even happier to see you spread that message🥰🥰

    • @NoudlePipW
      @NoudlePipW Před rokem

      Seriously? Hahahaha, what country is this?

    • @XicaMarrua
      @XicaMarrua Před rokem +2

      @@NoudlePipW somewhere in south america😆😅

    • @jpiercy3636
      @jpiercy3636 Před rokem +1

      Tell me it's brasil

    • @XicaMarrua
      @XicaMarrua Před rokem +1

      @@jpiercy3636 nope😬

  • @caitlinkim7693
    @caitlinkim7693 Před rokem +36

    Blair gives me a ridiculous amount of self- confidence. go off queen love u

  • @ThursdayASMR
    @ThursdayASMR Před rokem +19

    I absolutely agree with you. I lost a significant amount of weight years ago and the way people treated me was like night and day. But I didn't feel any different about myself. At all. Unless you work on what's on the inside first, nothing will truly change for the better.

  • @lilyzwirzina7710
    @lilyzwirzina7710 Před rokem +16

    Just wanted to let you know I think some of the pictures you wanted to include didn’t come into the final cut! Right around when you wanted to show the “bougie vs cheap” outfits

  • @trtlduv07
    @trtlduv07 Před rokem +15

    Hi Blair! Thanks for sharing about your history with your boobs. I dealt with something similar. I had a rare deformity and hated how mine looked growing up. A few years ago I got mine done and I love them so much. I feel so much more comfortable in my body now. 💜 sorry that you have to get yours re-done! I’m sure it will go great!💜

  • @a24e
    @a24e Před rokem +82

    Blair please read about the working conditions at Shein, its absolutely horrid 😔

    • @ola45678910
      @ola45678910 Před rokem +12

      Are we pretending like other retailers are different though? Unless we buy certified brands and pay accordingly can we really claim there's a difference?

    • @ola45678910
      @ola45678910 Před rokem +10

      @@angj3611 we can talk about it for sure but if you´re gonna police content creators who support themselves by partnering with Shein and only Shein that's a laugh. Most brands are the same yet we only hear this about Shein. I'm not saying you're like that, but there's just no ethical way to consume things under capitalism. Does that mean we should give up? no. If we can we buy clothes that are certified as free from slavery (most are expensive), or second hand clothing if you can find it in your size that's awesome. If we can be aware of these issues and consume less clothing, repair, and not buy stuff you don't need also great. But If we are gonna pretend one brand in particular is forbidden and the other ones are ok you can miss me with that 🥱

  • @Whatamysaid
    @Whatamysaid Před rokem +2

    I found you thru “recommended” with your pizza conspiracy, Charles cheese episode. And I was floored to see the difference in your look with the transformation to the influencer look. Thank you for being hilarious, really down to earth and honest, and most of all for speaking to the community of young people who no doubt follow you, and emulate you. CZcams needs more of you.

  • @katherinechase3674
    @katherinechase3674 Před rokem +6

    Lots can be done with hair, make-up and clothing. I agree, knowing what looks good on you as an individual is super important!- Meaning clothing for your shape, color for your skin tone etc. Only follow trends up to a point, and in smaller ways- a pair of sunglasses rather than something permanent like a bbl, or even a tattoo-

  • @chelssss
    @chelssss Před rokem +7

    I've always enjoyed your content, but I do love your realness the most! Thank you, for being yourself.🖤

  • @ThinkLascivious
    @ThinkLascivious Před rokem +4

    Looking hotter and hotter over time may not have made you any happier but it definitely got you more subscribers & followers. This, of course, brings in more income. Which surely is bringing some level of happiness.

  • @yellowgreenbean
    @yellowgreenbean Před rokem +2

    The way I feel so much better after hearing Blair’s message at the end 🥺🥺🥺

  • @oliviabrown9289
    @oliviabrown9289 Před rokem +4

    i have so much respect for all the reflection you've been doing in some of your latest videos!

  • @NZKiwi87
    @NZKiwi87 Před rokem +22

    I’m 43, recently started an adult career online with my husband and am living my MOST fulfilled life. One thing that was 🤯 to me was how wrong I have always been about what ‘men’ want. They want a happy confident *enthusiastic* partner. I don’t wear makeup and have completely stopped shaving my underarms and ladygarden - those are the most popular things for my viewers. What I’m saying is, don’t make permanent physical changes unless you.are.certain it’s for *you*. We are always our harshest critics. Be kinder to you bestie, always!
    Love to the younger queens coming thru 😚

  • @beckyyccarter
    @beckyyccarter Před rokem +43

    Blair you’re doing great I’m so proud of you 💙

  • @elenaalexandrova634
    @elenaalexandrova634 Před rokem

    Definitely would love a follow up video on your tips on how to be more put together. Love these videos and your perspective is so refreshing!!

  • @lychee1165
    @lychee1165 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for talking about this Blair, love you queen 🤍

  • @rosealmaleki9221
    @rosealmaleki9221 Před rokem

    Love this message, thank you Blair

  • @jennifertoth221
    @jennifertoth221 Před rokem +2

    I love you Blair!! Your brains and wisdom enhance your natural beauty. You are the voice of reason this world needs!

  • @missaMARYca
    @missaMARYca Před rokem +2

    Love your continued transparency! And you ❤

  • @QueenAlienRocker
    @QueenAlienRocker Před rokem +5

    " Bleaching your hair doesn't fix your life," Looooook, don't burst my bubble since 14, Blaire. 😆

  • @winspress
    @winspress Před rokem

    Thanks for always being so honest! Honestly you give off such great energy

  • @tiffanyroseangeles34
    @tiffanyroseangeles34 Před rokem

    GIRL YOU SPEAK YOUR TRUTH BUT IT IS SO SO REAL I WISH THESE YOUNG KIDS WOULD LISTEN TO YOU! I’ve always seen you have
    A beautiful soul….gorgeous smile I appreciate your honesty and natch great sarcasm & sense of humour! Cheers & carry on doing YOU BECAUSE ITS WORKING FOR YOU.

  • @wendy_lynn
    @wendy_lynn Před rokem

    Such a great video! I can absolutely agree that being skinny doesn’t make you happy. I’ve been large and I’ve been tiny. I was no happier at either size.

  • @ruthancheta
    @ruthancheta Před rokem +3

    Best video yet Blair!! Love the aesthetic so cute and fun!!!

  • @joycen4403
    @joycen4403 Před rokem

    I adore you! Thanks for being super funny, super kind, and such a hoot!

  • @carlichristina
    @carlichristina Před rokem +2

    Love all of your videos Blair. I love your honesty and transparency. 💜 you’re a kween

  • @alexmenjivar4057
    @alexmenjivar4057 Před rokem +1

    "How can a body be in or out?!" Best statement/question ever! 🩶

  • @lelanilynch8257
    @lelanilynch8257 Před rokem

    Loving the raw footage Blair

  • @larasuzanne
    @larasuzanne Před rokem +1

    I love you Blair in all your forms, you’re the releast and so relatable. I will say- natural 2018 Blair era (Blaira?) is the most beautiful to me. But that’s just my opinion, I am all for doing whatever you want to make yourself happy and confident! 💕

  • @samnieto6463
    @samnieto6463 Před rokem +1

    Three cheers for Blair rants that hype me the eff up 👏 🔥 ❤

  • @Roset2011
    @Roset2011 Před rokem +1

    Congrats on 1 million!! Loved this video!

  • @biancasbirciog1099
    @biancasbirciog1099 Před rokem +12

    Thanks Blair, this video made me feel 10 times better today, I was having such a negative outlook on myself and it gave me a lot of perspective on the reality of beautiful women on social media :)

  • @powerliftinggirl9950
    @powerliftinggirl9950 Před rokem +4

    Love this. Haha when I looked closer to these beauty standards, men were nicer to me but women were meaner to me. And you're right it doesn't make u happier or solve other problems. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @JessKaplan
    @JessKaplan Před rokem +26

    Congrats on 1M! 🎉 I def would love a video on how to look expensive, that would be so fun!

  • @skiemareexx8916
    @skiemareexx8916 Před rokem

    Your personality is the reason I love you sm 💗 like no one is like you literally 💖

  • @emarteliz
    @emarteliz Před rokem

    Well said Honey, so proud to watch you grow. 😊 ❤ I appreciate you being there for us all.

  • @ThatDamnChann
    @ThatDamnChann Před rokem +1

    I needed this so bad. Thanks Queen 😭😩🤗💓

  • @liz_suh
    @liz_suh Před rokem +1

    You’re beautiful! Everyone is beautiful 💚

  • @mdora869
    @mdora869 Před rokem +1

    Blair you have overdone yourself with this video such a talented girl😻

  • @ahlem2505
    @ahlem2505 Před rokem

    Such a wise woman , completly agree on your vision of beauty love that you share that

  • @alexiavla.3707
    @alexiavla.3707 Před rokem

    My heart goes out to you when it comes to having scary boob situations, health comes first i hope you are keeping track of it girly❤talking to friends about it is always good i hope you have people to reach out too

  • @softservestrawberry
    @softservestrawberry Před rokem

    Ahh I loved listening to this, saving it for sure 💖

  • @c0urt_jest3r
    @c0urt_jest3r Před rokem +4

    “bleaching your hair doesn’t make you happier” me who is bleaching my hair rn 👀

  • @emm5918
    @emm5918 Před rokem

    Love this Blair! Keep being an honest queen!

  • @user-ry6jj6kx2s
    @user-ry6jj6kx2s Před rokem +1

    This video made me feel a lot better thanks (:

  • @rozroz00125
    @rozroz00125 Před rokem

    I love this type of content from you!

  • @lilianamedina3485
    @lilianamedina3485 Před rokem

    B, you’re the best friend we all need 😭💜 love u sm.

  • @myunaestheticlife6399
    @myunaestheticlife6399 Před rokem +6

    Congrats on 1 mill babe ❤ I loved all of these outfits sooo much .

  • @anarchyneverdies3567
    @anarchyneverdies3567 Před rokem +3

    You ARE a super genius Blair ❤😂❤

  • @amandas.4540
    @amandas.4540 Před rokem

    Love you, Blairy!! 🫶🏼💕 please make this a series! It’s such a good topic to break down and be realistic and candid about, especially for younger girls. Xoxo

  • @kimberlybruno6751
    @kimberlybruno6751 Před rokem +1

    You always speak facts 😮‍💨 we love you!!!

  • @hayleyjade6294
    @hayleyjade6294 Před rokem +4

    We love an un edited queen

  • @eternalwizard776
    @eternalwizard776 Před rokem

    Old you and current you are definitely both goals ❤️ I know I’ll never look like you which is fine but dang are you freaking gorgeous girl!

  • @casey4685
    @casey4685 Před rokem +13

    It’s okay Blair. I had a guy pop up and tell me he wants me in his life, just to ghost three days later.

    • @mlekosojowe7312
      @mlekosojowe7312 Před rokem

      Its called love bombing and its a form of manipulation.

    • @rewdskwid
      @rewdskwid Před rokem

      He was bored, sorry he did you like that. You deserve so much better than that ❤️

  • @dwightyouignorantslut6453

    BLAIRE! i love that shirt so much🥹🫶 i NEED

  • @estherrose4576
    @estherrose4576 Před rokem +3

    Blair your so bomb don’t stress ❤️✨

  • @LoveBugDvm
    @LoveBugDvm Před rokem

    I needed this, Thankyou!

  • @majab73
    @majab73 Před rokem

    I love your approach on the matter. Keep going honey! ❤

  • @helenejoseph7089
    @helenejoseph7089 Před rokem

    Love the video! Congrats on 1 mill!

  • @brooklynnleslie984
    @brooklynnleslie984 Před rokem +1

    Best video I’ve been seen. I bet this took forever for her to edit this

  • @melissajones2009
    @melissajones2009 Před rokem

    Congratulations on 1 million subs Blair!

  • @annasch.7256
    @annasch.7256 Před rokem

    loved the outfits so much

  • @erinoharte
    @erinoharte Před rokem +3

    “Blair walnuts” with 1m beside it looks so good

  • @AdeolaAsh
    @AdeolaAsh Před 8 měsíci

    Lani Good had a deformity which is why she got her tatas done, watching her video about it might help you feel less anxious about your past issue

  • @eloahnon4952
    @eloahnon4952 Před rokem +1

    Blair, the realist of the real♡

  • @lavenderixi
    @lavenderixi Před rokem

    congrats on 1mil!

  • @whitneylivingston4171
    @whitneylivingston4171 Před rokem +1

    Pretty sure this is Blair’s masterclass 😂❤

  • @shoorooloo
    @shoorooloo Před rokem +2

    I so agree about there being no ugly people. Idk if it's some kind of facial blindness or something lol but even though I can recognize that someone might be considered more or less conventionally attractive, I get such a stronger reaction to the way a person behaves or treats others. Also the colour of that bikini/cover up 2 piece is so pretty on you. But don't promote Shein Blair!! Love you

  • @lindahanshew4271
    @lindahanshew4271 Před rokem

    What a beautiful person you are inside and out… much love ❤️💯

  • @AerialBella
    @AerialBella Před rokem +2

    This topic is popular but never talked abt enough!! Love your take, and we love your honestyyyy and realnessss 💕💕💕

  • @6FootKatie
    @6FootKatie Před rokem +1

    This video made me feel like 100x better about myself

  • @DefiantDesignCo
    @DefiantDesignCo Před rokem

    Congratulations on 1mil!!!

  • @NoudlePipW
    @NoudlePipW Před rokem +1

    9:05 SUCH Destiny's Child in their prime vibes love haha.
    Also, thanks for being so transparent and kind about all this! Im *fairly* knowledgeable when it comes to surgery and medicine but im pretty gnorant when it comes to plastic surgery. Never even heard of 'gummy bear tear drop' implants. Really interesting!
    You're a lovely lass x Have a good one

  • @kd4340
    @kd4340 Před rokem

    thanks for the wisdom love you

  • @HoneyHarmon
    @HoneyHarmon Před rokem

    love ur vids , i hope u get better and ur fever goes down !!!

  • @samjudy345
    @samjudy345 Před rokem

    This video just proves why you are the best. love that the refrigerator agrees too😅 thanks Blair for the kind words 💖

  • @Quantumsomething
    @Quantumsomething Před rokem

    Thanks for being so real ❤️

  • @Bambixx3
    @Bambixx3 Před rokem

    Great Video Blair, love it

  • @alyssasasaa73
    @alyssasasaa73 Před rokem

    Omg love this video queen

  • @delaneyexpressionalart

    1 Mil queen we love you!!

  • @Dreamcatt212
    @Dreamcatt212 Před rokem +1

    People should definitely work on themselves from inside out. It's more important what kind of person you are inside than looks. Because looks will come and go, trends will change and styles will change. But your personality will stay and make you happier in long term. ✨️

  • @brookeantonio9972
    @brookeantonio9972 Před rokem

    loved this!

  • @skarletcharity
    @skarletcharity Před rokem

    OMG!!!! YOU HIT A MILLION!!!

  • @veronicakaur23
    @veronicakaur23 Před rokem +1

    That leaf looks like a witches hat.. and the music is similar to what they play on the ride nemesis at thorpe park..

  • @monivy
    @monivy Před rokem +2

    ily relatable honest queeeen

  • @pinkhydrangea444
    @pinkhydrangea444 Před rokem

    Amazing Blair 💕

  • @carlotamartin9030
    @carlotamartin9030 Před rokem +1

    Loved this

  • @queenmolmolly7962
    @queenmolmolly7962 Před rokem

    Blair 😭 nothing gets through to me but you did. You're a sweet girl ❤️

  • @cdtv92
    @cdtv92 Před rokem

    I love this video. You’re so genuine. Straight forward and don’t give a F*** 💝🙌🏼💕 you’re beautiful & smart & funny & silly. My idol 💕

  • @vivianwilson6884
    @vivianwilson6884 Před rokem +6

    nooo not shein

  • @AmbercoolPhotography
    @AmbercoolPhotography Před rokem

    Bathroom is better than my studio lighting...

  • @cameronmclainbhhsflpg

    love this video!!!!!!

  • @sugarplum96
    @sugarplum96 Před rokem

    This is really great ❤

  • @SwtT-MeMe
    @SwtT-MeMe Před rokem

    No lies told…great video❣️