How to Be Sure If You're INFJ
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 27. 01. 2020
- How to know if you're INFJ (or another type), one of the most asked questions on my channel.
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Frank James Yea Frank but what if we respond positively to other types that have similar aspects to INFJ. I had another INFJ SAY I MIGHT BE INFP OR ENFP. Frank please do typology when we go grocery shopping. Iâve been told by somebody she will never go grocery shopping with me bc I have to read every label and find as much as I can that is non gmo and organic. Like I care anyway , lol.. Love doing research at the grocery store. I even punch in on my phone a particular item to see which is the better option. Thanks for hopefully reading this. You better. Ha ha. I wear something black everyday. It goes with anything.
Frank, still waiting for you to do an INFJ lightworker vid
Type meeeeee.
Hi frank
As an infj,what is your typical day like as far as thinking and doing.
Thanks buddy.
I wear Black saraong on color... itâs a skillset, lol...
Maybe the reason there are so many INFJs here is that INFJs are the type of people who watch these videos
makes sense
damn that's... accurate
Actually the ppl of mbti tests studies made a book,saying that INFJs are the most probable type to purchase their book....and It was trueee
You're totally true đ
TouchĂš
I'm in camp I-took-several-different-tests-and-always-got-INFJ-but-they-are-so-rare-and-I-don't-want-people-to-think-I'm-just-trying-to-make-myself-interesting.
DarkLordGanondorf190 literally đ
We should all get jackets âđ»
How INFJ of you...
That's how an infj would feel about being infj lol
Not just me then haha
How to know youâre an infj?:
Youâre too rational among feelers
And too emotional among rationals
We mirror everyone
This!
we don't quite fit the either group *^^* (but just constantly trying to)
Iâm going to remember this one.
Omg so true! Due to my feeling side, i feel everything a little too much, but i try to intellectualize my feelings and give logic to everything i feel. XD
"Do you wear black often?"
Yes, actually.
"I'm just kidding."
... Oh.
I clicked đđœ immediately after hearing thisđđ€
Lol same as here
i looked down and noticed i am currently wearing black.
As I am wearing all black...
Been wearing black only since 1984
If you're extrovert and Introvert
If you're complex yet so simple
If you're too wise yet you make goofy moments
If you're so brave but too shy at the same time
If you're so firm yet so easy going
If you're so organized yet too messy
If you made yourself a walking contradiction and you know what you're doing then you're an INFJ
I love this :)
@@margiebok441 â€ïž
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Exactly đđ»
Yup. A walking contradiction.
the best and shortest sentence to describe us would be 'We have a happy personality with a sad soul.'
BRILLIANT đ
Yep pretty much lmao
Yes!
Omg yes...
Seems like a limiting belief đ€
Me as an INFJ:
- making jokes all the time, yet being so serious in public
- hating phone calls
- always worrying about people's opinion
- trying my best all the time, always perfectionist
- nobody ever understands me đ as I tend to talk about existential nonsense to finally talk about peanut butter
I agree with all those except for me I kinda just give up after a while trying too much or Iâm too lazy too
Yes true but I usually go on calls muted myself when talking to others but I talked a lot in calls with my friends the most :)
The last one got me. Can we chat anout nonsense and peanut butter? âïžđ
I AM BEING CALLED FINALLY ?!
@James K I like speaking in metaphors and sometimes double or triple meanings... Open to interpretation
WHY?
Guy didn't realise that most of the infjs stopped listening after two sentences.
Bro Iâm relating to every comment about being an infj but I didnât get it in the tests so Iâm kinda confused
I got -ENTJ,INTJ,INFP but I tried different personalities of mine each time and now i realized thatâs an infj thing so anyways how does anyone gets infj if they have different personalities?? đđđ lmao
@Cristina Llaguno
I donât 100% relate to you and tbh I donât care much about being a specific type now cause it looks like Iâm a mixture of some types and I kinda believe weâre all like this cause thereâs no way that thereâs only 16 personalities in the world
BYE this is me, I zoned out and then became busy reading the comments đđ€Ł
this is why i'm at the comment sections
@@meghnaelizabeth8293 damn thanks dude but yea the personality tests were really fun but I donât really care about them now tho it was a nice experience :)
Imagine a club of INFJs it would be the most beautiful awkward complex group of people ever.
Genius idea
Its called a library đ
i would love to be a part of that..
someone on twitter make a group chat for INFJs and im telling you it's awkward in there. i don't even understand why people made that group. nobody even talked after a week đ
Hitler was also an INFJ so letâs not get too high on ourselves. đ
"How can I be sure I'm an INFJ?"
Top 10 questions INFJs frequently ask.
I feel called out... Lol
yeah same, im so confused if im an infj or not. its annoying to keep trying to figure it out
me every single day doing ominous research on INFJs just to make extra sure.
Because taking the test several times on different days when you're in different moods and different situation and then you think maybe it's the format of the test so you find another and test again and you're still an INFJ.
So am I an INFJ? lol AHAHAHAHA coz I also get INFP. This is such a hard process. I just wanna be understood. I didn't get to sleep because of researching hahahaha
Life as an Infj:
- compete with yourself at school/work to achieve perfect results
- gut feeling is always right
- always leave workspace clean
- doesn't like personal advice from others
- always open to give advice and care about others
- zoning out from nowhere to start deepthinking
The first one hits me hard... a few students in my class are basically everything I can't be. I've been in a vicious cycle of doing and procrastinating... and my classmates make me feel so dumb. I lose the motivation to do anything when I am near them.
Stop all these comments need to stop describing me and reminding me of things that bring me into another over thinking spiral đ
Yes đđ
Bingo!
Can you explain what gut feeling is always right means?
Hi I'm an INFJ, just gonna ask if someone here, often talks to themselves when they're alone or even when they're with someone.. In my case, I talk a lot to myself whenever I go I percieve a lot of things happening in my life day by day, I make a scene in my head, and the only person I talk to, is myself.. it feels like I am just daydreaming and on that side of dream, I talk to myself and I talk a lot of different things that doesn't even happening in real life just an imagination. Its a really great feeling spending time alone by yourself just recieving a lot of things.. its kinda lonely but its fun
OMG, yess, I do this too! 'o' I always thought I was getting crazy. lol
I definitely do that a lot âșïž
OMG same here. I DO THAT ALL THE TIME! :D
this is too relatable that makes me feel uncomfortable
Yesđ€Ż
for me the distinctive infj things i relate to most are
- knowing how a person thinks and feels
- the constant hunger for purpose
- unknowingly changing the way you behave depending on who you're with so you get along with them best/have least conflict
- being contradictory to previous point and striving for authenticity/hating acts and small talk
- infj shut down
Yes, I hate small talk to the point that if it's not deep I'm out of here. My husband brought me to a prayer meeting and it was so boring I never went back. The leader asked my husband why I never came back after 2x,, so my wonderful husband told him what I said oh, that it was boring! But I don't care that's how I feel. Get on the stick come on people liven and up this is so monotone this is so surface go deep go deep dive dive. But you know the leader took it to heart and so did my husband so you could say I am a catalyst for change because I am honest at times when I don't give a crap! When you're almost 70 you get that way. look, I have one foot in the grave I don't have time for this The meeting is changing can I might go check it out if it stays that way.
Wow look at that, I finally got confirmation for myself too. đ
This!!!!
Well put! đ
Yup.
Being infj....We edit our comments
Fursteve ferret Im INFP...I edit, delete, Type it up again and then decide that no one will care about it, what I have to say doesnât matter, and delete it again. And after all that, or even during, I feel completely drained.
@@louiseavannorden4710 I feel your pain.. It must be a shared infj infp struggle.. I've spent a good hour maybe more in an evening writing out a comment. Only to delete the next morning before I've even brushed my teeth. What are we like Lol..
Fursteve ferret I know! Itâs crazy!
._.
..
Whoâs in the âwhat if I only think Iâm an infj because Iâm insecure and want to feel special but also I feel like it really does explain my personality but maybe Iâm reading into itâ category?
Because sameđ
Edit: I think Iâm an intp guysđ
Yeeeeees
hi there im in this category
same and i love your pfp so much btw
@@barasedivcova7954 thanksâșïž
Dude this is so true
Me as an INFJ:
- Taking the test and second-guessing my type
- Identity crisis 24/7
- Emotionally-driven by past memories
- Writing is my lifeline and my only weapon in life though I overthink if I'm good enough to be a writer
- Perfectionism at its finest
- Wanting to be alone but wanting to be with someone
- Wanting to say something but keeping shut because I view my thoughts as less compared to others
- The serious trouble of not finding a side in the argument leading to becoming neutral
- But when sensing conflict and knowing who is the conflicted person, I take a mental note and see it myself that my gut was right
- Always thinking I'm not good at anything because all I know is probably superficial intelligence
WHERE WERE YOU ALL MY LIFE ?!
WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I HAD MY FIRST IDENTITY CRISIS ?!
( i thought i was the only one i can sleep knowing damn well what i am )
- very low self esteem
- value ourselves and our opinions as less than othersâ
- Took âFake it till I make it â too far until I donât even know which version of me is real
Sounds like Impoter syndrome with Anxiety and some PTSD đ
I can relate to this. Second guessing is super legit. All in all, I guess I'm not so sure huhu.
FJ:Do you wear black often?
Me: đđ
FJ:jk
Me: đđ
flying orb I did the same lmao
Black isnât sad, itâs poetic đ€
Love black...oh, that doesnât tell type. đ
because INFJ is the emo-est personality
I'm an INFJ lightworker, so I just like to wear white often
I'm an INFJ. I tried watching this video to maybe gain more insight into myself, but I got too wrapped up in my own thoughts and forgot to actually listen. I'm over halfway through and I've barely heard two full sentences. đđ©đ€ This is my THIRD rewatch now. Dang it...
I want to listen but I can't listen too đđ
dang i thought it was only me who did that lol. this is my second listen now but i kept zoning out so now im just reading comments whilst the video plays in the background ahah
đđđ Same!!
Lol I actually did the same.. Now. I have paused the video to peacefully reply to your comment!
SAME i was paying attention but then i got lost and didnt hear a single thing, still watched it tho lol
What i learned from being INFJ and meeting many other INFJ is that there are various types of INFJ but one thing in common is that we think a lot.
too much maybe
Found life boring/funny/ironic in my 20s other people seem on a conveyor belt reading a script of what to do
@@Simon-ww7qp is that true ?? im an INFJ in highschool and tend to see life just like you said ....
10 ways to know if your an INFJ (simplified somewhat version)
1. Love of learning and realizing that there is not enough time to learn everything you want to know
2. Observations in the details
Do you find yourself listening to a conversation with someone and bookmarking certain details only to surprise them much later on with something helpful based on your prior interaction
3. Creative or love of all types of creative expression.
4 Often quiet and reserved until you are relaxed around those individuals and than you get comments about how talkative of a person you are.
5. High moral standards especial when injustice is involved.
6 You give more of yourself than other will ever be able to give back to you( although you appreciate their effort)because while most people work with surface presentation of an individual you are able to understand them deeply with just a little interaction
7. Eating alone, seeing a movie alone or any other activities by yourself doesn't make you feel like a loser but rather energizs and keeps you happy because you enjoy the alone time.
8. People will tell you so many personal details about themselves even if you are strangers and they are just meeting you.
9 Being able to sense and feel emotions is a real issue INFJ deal with
10. An INFJ will know if they are truly one because of the love of learning will research this subject to death, feel like someone finally get me after listening to all infj description and be able to self improve because they finally understand that their odd nature is a gift.
Number 4 is how I am exactly. I am pretty reserved and quiet in public but once I get in my comfort zone and I get to know people I get real talkative. A lot of my friends think of me as an extrovert because they are used to how I am with them in private it is so pronounced. They don't get it until they see me out in a crowd or in a large public setting, when I get real quiet and I become unreadable and reserved. It is a night and day difference and if they knew what I felt inside they would see things very different. đđđ
I can relate to all of the things you wrote but that one is literally me. I am definitely a ambivert or extroverted introvert too. I have only known one person who was like that in such an extreme way and he was worse than I was about it. Now I think he was likely an INFJ and that is why we hit it off and made such good friends.
I can relate to all here, kudos! The point about learning hits me hard - it often makes me feel discouraged in life as I always feel that I'm not healthy/smart/sharp enough to learn as much as I need to. I guess this is the perfectionism speaking to a certain degree, and fear of missing out/not being prepared enought/not reaching full potential/etc.
Curse
"We like to hide things from ourselves so we can live with ourselves." Thank you for this insight.
This is tempting, I mean our subconscious is so strong that we can actually hop into any type by intense observation and manipulating thoughts of any other type .
This is so true
Yeah I did that for years until I finally opened my eyes I was mentally unokay in some ways đ
yup
I can notice when one is hiding something from themselves too
To me finding out that I'm an INFJ was a relief. I had thought that there was something wrong with me, but it was just the way my mind works. But I don't primaly or secondarely identify myself through my type, like I don't do through my diagnoses. They just help explain some aspects of me, not define me as a whole. INFJs (and other types) as a group are quite diverse punch of people, despite having interesting things in common.
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I feel you, I went from like "Woah that's cool there are some other people like me, I'm not an alien, I'm just different" to "... Still feel super lonely though."
I cried when I read the Infj type profile đ
Yes so true
Same except INTP
I am sure about being INFJ after reading tons of articles, watching lots of videos, and taking many tests. It's just that I am still hesitant and doubtful coz what if I'm really not an INFJ and just trying hard to be one haha (but why would I do that wkwkwk I'm confused by my own thoughts) đđđ
same i feel like im floating between infj and isfj, the infj traits are more visible to me but im still not sure
@@metheus9851 me except im between infj and infp :/
@@lilleilei169 me too. But we can be both, we have plenty of time to figure it out. Hang in there :))
@@someome1789 aww :' ) yea you're right
@@lilleilei169 The skepticism proves you guys are INFJs...cause they don't just try to be one ..they analyse everything and seek the truth!!
oh well...
-I'm too indecisive person.
-every time that there are a fight going on, i just try to calm down everyone. Because for me that's unnecessary thing.
-i like too much to be alone , it's very necessary for me.
-i want to much to socialize, but in the same time I get a little bit stuck.
-i like to do the situations get better than they are.
-when I do something that it's unusual for me, i get in shock đČ
-when I'm falling in love with someone, i try to put the good things and the bad things in a balance, to try to find a fair answer
- i would probably like to say a lot a things, but I don't have the words, so I say simple words, but for me it's enough.
Wtf, how did you manage to make me feel exposed, i relate to all of these, except for being alone, if I stay alone for a long time, I get lonely, idk I just like to be around people sometimes, not all the time tho, does that make sense?
I dont think you are infj, infj know what they want
And injs sre unpredictable
@@friskyjilli i don't think I am an infj too, i was just writing what I realized bout myself, to have a background and trying to understand who I am. I'm just trying to find the right answer about me. I'm in doubt about my personality, i don't know if I am isfj, infj, or infp. But it's okay, i know I will find it someday. okay it was a big text, but I just needed to unburden lol
@@hiromis3623 oh I'm sorry for doing you feel this way. I don't even know if I'm infj. I did the test a lot of times and the results varies from isfj, infp and infj. they are very similar and I know it's hard to found your personality only based in your test results. so we have to keep attention and analyse ourselves everyday, to find our personality. we have also to study and learn about all the personalities and trying to understand who we are. This is a long process that for some people can be more easy, for others more complicated. but we'll get there!!
âWeird flex but okâ was first said to an INFJ
I have no idea what that phrase actually means.
nah it means âthatâs a strange thing to brag about but.. ok lolâ an example of what itâs an response is maybe someone saying âi can fit my whole fist in my mouthâ.
@@meganw9380 Peculiar muscular contraction albeit acceptable.
Haha yeah, Iâve only flexed on my weird characteristics. Like eating a whole watermelon at once or four pizzas at once. And no Iâm not overweight, Iâm just hungry
Yessss lmao
You know you are an infj when you go to the gorcery extremely early or late so theres less people. Even still when you go to the line and you make sure all your stuff is in order. The boxed stuff together, the vegetables, the breakables etc. All just to be able to bag everything as quickly as possible to get the fuck out of the grocery as soon as possible.
I will play out what I am going to do in my head before going anywhere and I tell myself this is how it's going to go down. It usually goes just the way I plan and the minute am out the door I feel so relieved and happy
I'll tell you what changed my life was delivered groceries. You mean I never have to step foot into a grocery store again?!?!?!
It's funny because my INFJ friend doesn't do that. But I, not an INFJ, do it all the time
I dont like CZcams omg this is great lol. đŻ
That's not an INFJ-esque thing. That's just seems like social anxiety. That's a little too far fetched.
The best thing an INFJ can do is to know himself, that saves you a lot of suffering, understand the mechanisms that your mind uses and observe them before reacting. It helped me a lot to study psychology, I thought I was crazy or there was something wrong with me but it is only my mind that works like that and I like it, it has its advantages although we are very difficult to understand for others. We are contradictory, artistic, profound, spiritual but rational.
i dont know how to do it, i trying but still there is something wrong with me, I feel like I think in a way that people wouldn't welcome
Are u INFJ
@@merve.a6454 Start by accepting yourself, take some time to get to know yourself and see how you react to situations, don't worry so much about what others think or it will consume you.
@@abdisamadadam288 Yes I'm
@@yariannifamilia4994 am also INFJ
I love being an INFJ. Like there are disadvantages of it...quite a LOT. But its fun you know, being different. The world needs every type of personality. Nature has given the INFJ personality to a very few population, because it believes in us...that we can handle our responsibilities very efficiently even when we are an obvious minority. Trust me, we can handle the feeling of being misunderstood, the constant storm of thoughts and the (sometimes uncontrollable) worry and anxiety.
So all of the INFJs out there, we got this! â€ïžâșïž
Edit : Dude, did I even make sense??
Yes, as a fellow infj you made sense. đ
So iâm gonna state some facts about myself i learned being an INFJ
-if someone needs comfort or has a problem, i tend to try to solve their problem and comfort them at the same time. does that make any sense? i tend to try to solve their problem more though
-iâm really critical about myself and perfectionistic. if i ask other for their opinion and they say itâs great, iâm still like âyeah it is... butâ and i seek for conformation for my skills and things i do
-i always feel like an outcast, when iâm with my friends lately, as we are not on the same level, as they could not understand me
-i really like animals more than humans
-i judge people too early. Like i see a person and i donât like him/her even though we never met before or we never talked with each other and she done nothing wrong
-i hate it if itâs messy. But if i under great stress or being creative i tend to make my workplace messy and later on i get a collapse because everything is bothering me
-if i hate someone, i hate him so much. I always need to have so much self control, or iâm gonna commit murder
-i donât forgive. never. ever. i cover it up and try to act friendly, but on the inside iâm âwhat if she/he does if again and hurt me againâ
edit: hey guys, thanks for you replyâs! by not forgiving i mean that i forgive that person for the most part but i donât forget it! and btw guys even if you relate to all of this, i doesnât mean you an infj, please look into the functions ^^
Thank you for describing me (except the last bit
The first one is 100% spot on. a lot of people tell me off for trying to analyze and solve their problems versus just being there for them. i just donât know how to just âbe thereâ, i have to have a purpose in the situation sometimes
@@erinvinson7801 exactly same
completely me
honestly, i understand you. i hope nobody thinks im trying to "act like an INFJ" but I really understand how you feel. there's constant thoughts coming to your mind when you're doing things and its so frustrating. you act friendly and can never try and act rude, even when you're mad (unless you're hella mad). i feel like we're complicated, yet so simple.
its just weird, I relate to everything you listed but idk how to feel about it.
Getting to Know and being a friend to yourself is a lifelong process
Being a friend is essential
I think we have been friends with ourselves for a long time becoz we have spent a lot of time with ourselves even tho we love close friendships. We are ok with not being social. That's what I have felt most of the time. But yes being a friend to yourself is must :)
"We like to hide things from ourselves so that we can live with ourselves." Oouuuuch
2:43
I feel like I'm on the brink to insanity. I always thought that there was something wrong with me, like one minute I would be loud and charismatic and then the next I would be tired and drained. I still have these mood swings which makes me distance myself from others and act cold. I'm still trying to figure myself out but it's just so tiring, like an endless cycle.
I know this situation
Do you guys have depression?
@@stevethea5250 I've never been to a therapist but yeah, I think I have it. I've got all the symptoms
Me tooo huhu
There is nothing wrong with you đ probably you tend to absorb others emotions, so you get tired easily, it happens to me too
I know this is random but itâs so interesting how everyoneâs brain works so differently and how everyone u see and walk by on the streets have their own story.
Crazy right?
i literally had this same exact thought several times in my life lol
I always think about this , especially when I'm watching people from the car window
I think about this all the time, i see someone and cant help to wonder what they are/went through
@@jerocadenazzi6245 Cant we all just meet up and be friends and create our own weird INFJ village??
I knew that I was an INFJ because of this channel's comment section. A lot of relatable things. :)
The comment sections of INFJ videos are the best! âșïž
Yes, I agree, if you see so much of yourself in the comments and replies, thats the most accurate measure I would say.
How a friend of mine said: "Agreed!"
Most of them talk what an introverts would typically do.
Yeah me too đ€
Glad to know I am not as weird as I thought.
im the group "i took a test it said im infj and now i don't wanna look like im tryna be âšquirkyâš or âšdifferentâš and also the more i look at myself the more i realize im just so ordinary there is no way in the hell im this rare personality"
Well some people express personality types differently
Is that a group on Facebook or where? Lol
When I first read what an INFJ personal type is I was like: âoh wow! Thatâs me!â And I decided to check it and did some online tests. And (Iâm not even exaggerating) EVERY test showed a different result every time. Jees, several of them showed Iâm an extrovert. We laughed so much with an imaginary friend of mine. I guess the most important thing to believe in is your own feeling about yourself. Donât let others (especially random online tests) define you if you donât feel like their definition is true at all. The thing is it is really all about self improvement and being aware of your weakest points and sides and working on them to become a better version of yourself.
The same happened to me. I took another test and it showed ISFJ which is the most common whereas INFJ is the rarest. Got really confused and I've started my journey to find the true personality type of mine, hoping it'll be INFJ đ
@@vallabhpushti5988 don't hope you will be lying yourself bro
2 things we humans still don't and probably will never fully understand, black holes and the human mind. that being said, no online test is perfect or even in the vicinity, but it is a decent start, just don't read too much into it.
Exactly, the main purpose is to understand ourselves so we can focus on our strengths, work on our weaknesses and eventually find our place in the world, i.e. the role that is most fitting according to our personality.
And the very ultimate goal is to be happy.
Using MBTI just to feed one's ego is not exactly the best way to find happiness imo.
Then you brought another good point, it's easy for Fe-users to be influenced by others' opinions. Actually, I sort of relate with the descriptions of all IN types. I mostly get TP but I realize I'm more of a very introverted FJ.
I have just come across something I wrote months ago that made me sure I am INFJ..
"I donât know how to describe what I am feeling. It is like, there is so much to do but not much time. Yet, somebody has to tell me where to start before I lose my mind. All I do is to float in the space of unknown and anxiety. It feels like I am procrastinating but in fact I have nothing to do."
Right?
or it is my major depression. lol.
I donât think itâs depression because I definitely feel the same way!
I feel that way too but I'm not like I'm depressed either
You are anxious of the outcome. what if you don't get it done....but at the same time u make an excuse to itself saying that there is not much time and then it starts feeling like there is actually nothing you can do about it....u wanna do ur thing with perfection but you start procrastinating.....even if u want to do that particular thing u procrastinate....there is something dropping u to do it...I know it's confusing but u have an organised mind if you believe in urself....u will be able to do what you want.......
It's not depression it's me all the the time......
it's hard to understand, even now
I'm going to copy and paste that and maybe add it to a story I;m writing lol XD
We're the most indecisive people
how many infjs are libras....? đ€Ł
Yes we are, and it makes me go insane sometimes!
@@evvieelmore I am a Libra and injf-t
@@evvieelmore hello
@@evvieelmore omg međ
Here is how to know if you are INFG:
-You need your friends but want to be alone, you also need communication.
-You find a few people, like one or two, who you like and who understand you. And you guys are like a cult who do not seperate.
-When you find a few really good friends you don't want anymore friends
-You are more interested in the 'why'
-you like the unknown
Oh damn..
As an INFJ: oh this person is this personality type, I should figure out more how I fit with their personality type.
Also as an INFJ: Iâm probably reading too much into this, why am I doing all this again?
We are always trying to figure other people out and ourselves because typically we never felt understood in our early life.
"Those people need to calm down"
I died, honestly lol đ€Łđ€Łđ€ŁđđŸâ
just an ENFP passing through saying all u INFJs are my favorite. i get along with INFJs better than other ENFPs most of the time !! THANKS FOR KEEPING ME BALANCED U GUYS :)
This is so late but you're welcome
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I read on an article that ENFPs and us, INFJs really go along well in any type of relationships.
Happy to help.
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Quite the usual type from my perspective. I'm married to an INFJ and personally know three other INFJ's. Much like all other types, there are always some variance since it is impossible to exactly replicate the life experiences exactly of each individual, but there are two common factors that I have discovered amongst all four: the ability to mediate between logic and emotion effectively and knowing exactly how to push or guide someone in a direction without directly providing the answers. Great upload, FJ.
We feel misunderstood all too often, we need to make sure weâre valuing our rarity, because being different is what this world actually NEEDS. This world needs us to be ourselves. Embrace yourself, INFJ, do not erase! We were not born to fit in!
What the world needs, but not what the world deserves. đ
Jokes aside, this reminds me of John 15:19, then even Jesus himself is usually typed as INFJ.
Three seconds in: "Do you wear black often?"
Me: ... Yes
It must be demon Se. I can't stand the idea of making another choice that involves something as concrete as fabric. Please let me get back to living in my brain!
Yeah, I happen to be wearing a black sweater... X'D
@@marthaimmer5675 sameee, it is also the most easy. usually makes me look good too :P
@@purplepartytigerd1598 I'm wearing from top to bottom. đ But I do have my colorful days, I do like 70s style that are light and airy
@Karina Carvajal
I tend to gravitate towards the older styles, too. But I have no sense of fashion X'D. Went to a family party once wearing a pink and white striped tank, light blue plaid shorts, and my green, purple and blue sneakers. Received one or two compliments on my "80's" style, which was really just a mishmash of hastily selected comfy things.
INFJ's feel the need to put on a facade and appear a certain way in front of others. (E.g I look up to types who look like they're always having fun all the time and I do my best to replicate that and show that I am that to the public) INFP's value their own personal values and preserving their identity matters a lot to them. That's why they love to invest in anything that could help express their inner self (e.g acting, art, literature)
Alex Ippy hmmm I donât agree :-) INFJs are extremely into quality and love ART, culture and invest a ton in literature (we love books) and learning (we LIVE to learn! )
We also love to be authentic- it may take us a bit to get there (depending on our childhood/relationships but we can smell BS a mile away and usually tell the fakers from ârealâ individuals- we crave being vulnerable with others but know it will mostly get bulldozed...our good intentions are never good enough for some people. If we are healthy we take extreme ownership - if we donât we can become dark and absorbed into our inner world..we have to be careful we exist in two worlds...always!
Yep Iâm an infj. My facade is fluid
@@carieyoung1111 I'm an INFJ as well and while art, theater, literature can be an authentic interest for any type (though yeah, I'd say maybe there's more of a predisposition for xNFxs) I think it ws just an example chosen to emphasize the difference between INFPs' Fi and INFJ's Fe.
That difference is very real. All types can be honest or put on a façade, all types can really act in any certain way if it's necessary, but MBTI is about preference and instinct, at its core, what functions (Ni/e, Fi/e, Ti/e, Si/e) people prioritize in using. Nothing holds up or is untrue 100% of the time for any one type, in other words.
This being said, however, I've found cognitive functions and function stacks (which ones your type uses) to be one of the most consistent and clear things about MBTI in terms of differences between types.
Fi-doms like INFP value preserving, defining, expressing their own identity far more than any type. Being authentic is important to them, but it's also more personal since it's introverted. The façade an INFP might put on would be more protective than an INFJ's.
An INFJ may be reserved too, but it doesn't often stem so strongly from concern over vulnerability. Personally, I'd say it's more strategic and comfortable. I want to understand someone well first. I want to adapt and often mirror people's emotions not to be inauthentic, but because it helps me understand them better, and it helps put everyone (including myself) more at ease. I don't like disagreeing with a group or someone I care about, but if I have to, I'll try to do it tactfully. Sometimes I'm prone to sugarcoating things because of this, but my friends know. The point is, if not the behaviors themselves, at least the motivations for these behaviors, are not very Fi.
Fe is more "How can I situate myself in regards to how everyone's feeling, how they are? This will help me understand my own feelings and where I stand better. "
vs.
Fi's "I know how I'm feeling and who I am. What's the best way I can express this to everyone else, who can support my authentic self the best?"
@@carieyoung1111 Oh I'm actually an animator myself haha! I wasn't trying to say that INFJ's aren't into art and literature like INFPs are I was just trying to list examples of careers that are particularly common for an INFP to pursue
Having deep thoughts is kinda like breathing for me. Also always calm and collected
Let's jump right in shall we? đ„đ
Watching all these vids and reading all these comments really makes me feel like I'm not alone in this world and have people struggling with issues similar to mine. It's good to know there's someone out there that truly understands you so to FJ and all the INFJs in the comments, thank you for existing! :D
THANK YOU fro existing I feel the same that many other people are strugling with issues similar to mine
Recap: You might be an INFJ if...
-You need to calm down
-You are uptight on X,Y, and Z
-You think âone does not simply learn something...â
-You see patterns
-You talk or write for long periods of time
-You are more prouder when you do things you donât normally do (may follow up with bragging about it)
-You are a CZcamsr that wants to help others with knowledge (or wisdom) and humor
Disclaimer: Its 3:30 AM for me right now, not an INFJ, and youâre welcome.
Honestly, the same things could be said for INTJ's. ;p
Hahaha thank youuu :3
You also may be an INFJ if your wife looses her shit every time she misplaces her keys! Lol
I brag when I actually get out of the house and do something physical. Lol
@@melissaphillis7247 Real accomplishments đ
There should be a way I can meet other INFJs bc finding friends is really difficult, I try to match the personalities of the people I'm around but I still never feel like I fit in anywhere
Marla Nicole ikr, it's hard. It's like I want to socialise but at the same time I don't. Most students in my class have this...sort of circle of friends...groups but I'm that one kid who just stands on the corner of the room while everyone is having their chitchats. I have friends, relationship but only on a...'shallow' level. It feels weird not having someone to relate with and to talk to. I try my best to be as outgoing as I could but it feels like I'm trying to be someone else I'm not just to be close with people.
I relate!
Two INFJ's won't be compatible, I've tried it... You just feel so overpowered and so unwilling to be friends... Its horrible
@@ishroom5466 as friends or romantically? I'm curious.. can you tell me more about why you felt it didn't work?
I gave up on that a long time ago. Somehow, all my close friends ended up being extroverts, I love them to bits don't get me wrong, but they just keep inviting me to go out way too much.
I have discovered that i'm INFJ-T today. And learn more about it. From past years, i feel like i can't connect with my close friends. Even though its been 4-5 years of being friends. They thinks i'm their *best friends*. But sometimes i wanna find a new friend 'till i can connect. And at the same time, i thought i can't connect with them because i'm bad at socialize. The only people i can connect the most, is my mom. But when she's tired/don't really wanna have a convo, i felt soo lonely- and now, i know what i am and i'm so happy yet a bit sad- but i'm going to accept the fact that making ''best friend'' is difficult for me. And have a connection with animals when i felt alone, or have mind talk with my self LOL-đ„â
If my friends see this, i'm sorry but that's the truthđđ
The good thing about INFJ:s and INTJ is that we have the high ability to self reflect and critically look at our actions because we are constantly in our minds, thinking about generally learning new things and or developing new skills/ traits once we get into @want to change things modeâ, but sometimes someone needs to hold the mirror in front of us. What motivates us, is to want to do things better, but sometimes that can seem like an overwhelming and arrogant trait because we come across as demanding and and overbearing sometimes. But being able to reflect and take in criticism helps an INFJ to learn from their weaknesses, just need the right ppl on our side to make us want look into ourselves closer
Can you make a video about INFJ's being social chameleons?
That describes my friend so accurately.
...makes me feel so false sometimes.
This is kind of what made me realize I was an INFJ because I was mistyped as a INTJ
â@@ChantelStays I just find it so draining playing their damn games. I just avoid it and them when at all possible.
I was telling a therapist about how I change my attitude, mood, demeanor, etc... depending on who I'm with ..like a chameleon.. and she said it reminded her of a movie called Zelig ..as soon as I got home I watched it.. lol.. you should check it out.. it's hilarious
All that aside, how do I know I'm a human?
We INFJ's don't ever feel like we're human lol :) That's what makes us special...lol.
Asking the real question there
@@heraclea9368 I answered honestly too.
In all seriousness, we just feel like others don't understand us. We are super complicated, most of our ideas don't even exist "in the box" as they say. Some things that we talk about are so far out there, that sometimes we question ourselves.
Our top 2 functions are why we don't feel human. Our iN is very strong and we can just see without knowing how or why. But like he said, You have to know yourself first.
@Eddyfiu Allwiz Some days I don't. LOL ;)
And I am Okay with that. Helps with the creativity.
I love this comment section. It makes me sure Iâm an INFJ. Although, I really feel for you INFJs who are struggling with identity and feel you are spiraling. Idk if this is helpful at all, but to you who is struggling. Your identity doesnât have to be put into a box. You are all that you think you are, everything all at once. It is also ok to feel like some traits are contradictory to each other; thatâs kind of the nature of who we are actually. So embrace yourself as one big beautiful mess. Again, u donât need to be put into a box.
you don't need a label to feel happy, labels after all are just for other people to have a place to start understanding you, the rest is up to that person, and that......is what we all fear DAMNIT!!!
but i digress. just be yourself and fine those whom you can be yourself around. There are billions on this planet, it is impossible that there are not people around you somewhere that you can get along with and maybe even share a deep relationship or love with. One thing is for certain though, you won't find anyone if you stop looking. and you can take that to the bank (though you probably shouldn't because out of context it might be strange) also i doubt they would give you a single cent for my advice.
I really appreciate the fact that you announce the commercials. They aren't so annoying when they don't come out of the blue. I must confess I watch them with more patience. I wish everybody on CZcams did the same thing. I feel your respect towards your viewers. Thank you ;) Greetings from Poland.
3:26 - "but when my wife loses her keys, i don't have a wife"
I was half listening to the video and half reading comments and when he said that i thought he said "when my wife has herpes, i dont have a wife." I was very confused thanks for clearing this upđ
@@Webs.x Same. Read the comment like a second after he said it. LOL
I remember bursting in tears 7 years ago when I took the test for the first time and the result was infj it was a relief that I'm not weird, it's just me.. But I keep having theses thoughts that personality is just an illusion we use to survive..
Wowww..sameee..
Saaaame. đđ
I'm glad I'm not alone đđđ
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Hind sags
Enneagram might interest you- It helps you see & step out of the box. (While also helping you feel seen & known).
When you said often wear black I was like... he's a psychic
i love the fact that iâm not the only one. iâm just as messed up as any infj. makes me worried, but relieved at the same time
Getting to know myself is one of the hardest things I've ever done. Sometimes people can describe me better than I do. :/
Fiorella Lescano itâs been both confrontational and enlightening for me, I am so grateful there are people in CZcams land such as FJ. I love his content but I also love the comment section - there are actually other people like me!
yep that's true, but the same people only see what you show them.
@@kilo7041 The comment section shows us that we're not alone. :)
I can't believe I've met another INFJ who loves The Strokes *-*
Being an INFJ is like saying I am a Gemini in astrology. You may have certain characteristic traits but we are all unique. Instead of getting hung up on a type or putting yourself in a box, get to know yourself and what makes you you and continue to become an improved version of yourself.
IMA GEMMIN AND INFJ đđđđ
@@xiao-slimp7865 me too
In astrology is also because you are not just one sign haha, the natal chart is literally immense, that's the reason because many people say, for example, I'm a Pisces but I don't have many traits of Pisces" hehe
If you're infj you'll know before anyone else, infj can relate to all personalities or maybe that's just me.
Mee too i can relate to many....
feels like it for sure... but maybe it's because we are so empathic and feel how others feel?
Anyone else not particularly sad but listens to 'sad but calm" songs bc I do and a lot of INFJs do?
Clear sign you're an INFJ: you not only LOVE typing other people (while sharing with others every little detail of how and why I'm typing them that way), but you find it extraordinarily easy to do so after only a few minutes of observing someone.
I definitely do this! Now I can even think of people as their types...and it makes more sense as I observe their behavior. For example, that's my enfp friend...no wonder she wants to go on spontaneous trips at the drop of a hat! Or he's an entp, see how he can debate both sides of an argument!
a friend me and my husband have in common invited us to get some beers. I didn't want to go, there would be a lot of people and I don't like it. when we got there, they started talking but after some time, the conversation wasn't flowing anymore. that's when I started talking and ended up telling a lot of funny stories, or remembering things for them to talk about (it wears me off... I didn't really want to be there) BUT everybody was laughing again although that was just exausting for me. I was happy everyone was fine, but when I got home I just wanted to sleep forever. I guess you all infjs can relate to that.
Yes
Has happened to me a lot
Always.
Sometimes I feel like the responsibility is on me to keep the conversation going.. Even if it drains me
I can relate so much!
I like the fact that you say let's stop for this commercial. You realize how all of a sudden ads are annoying, when your learning something. So you take that knowledge, and add it to your videos to tell your viewers "hey, there's an ad coming up, I know they're annoying, but i'm going to tell you, so you can prepare for it, so it's not as annoying" Thank you for that!
Until now, I have always been ashamed of the way I think and act. I knew I was a different person somewhere in me but I judged that different person badly I've always tried to mold myself, but it turns out that there are many people like me.Your pride in yourself encouraged me.
When I found out that I'm an INFJ I was so happy and relieved đ felt like I finally belonged somewhere.
Welcome home, brethren đ€
Me too. Its been bittersweet, but the relief I feel knowing that this is the kind of personality I've got is immense. Just to try and finally understand after many years of confusion and anguish is wonderful.
I have been confused between INFJ and INFP ever since I learnt about MBTI. I took the test for Fun a couple of years ago and I got INFP. Learning about INFP personality type, I found it so similar to my personality and continued to believe that I am an INFP till the end of last year when I decided to take the test again. This time it was INFJ and I was confused but realised that quite a lot of it is true for me, I was never as emotional as INFPs are described to be.
Since that time, I decided to study more about this typology and that freaking confused me even more as both INFP and INFJ describe me, take half the characteristics of an INFP and half of INFJ and its me, lol. Whenever I retake tests its always 45-55 between the P and J.
They say one can't be an INFJ and an INFP at the same time so I hope this video helps.
I also usually test as infp. But I am different from my infp friends in particular in traits that are ascribed to infj. I make use of Fe a lot. I generally see myself as infj because of that...
Sometimes(all the time), when you take a test, you have, in your mind, how the answer would be perceived by others. This will skew the result. This, imo, is why INFJ is less rare than everyone thinks.
@@lijuowl EXACTLY! My bestie is a true INFP in every sense and I am different than her in many aspects. We both often have the same feelings towards something as well as opinions but while I can see things from different perspectives and other people's eyes, she can't as much. She is really emotional and sensitive, it doesn't take much to make her cry while I have never cried in public. That's why I can't accept that I might be an INFP.
@@w13rdguy yeah, that's right. I often find myself seeking the most morally and socially correct option while taking such tests and hence, I try to think what I REALLY would've done but that just leaves me blank, I can't think of anything else. I am lazy, disorganized, careless, intuitive and more ears than mouth and I try to answer on the basis of that but nothing changes.
Mihi Yoon INFP is literally the cutest personality there is and they live in this dream world of where everything is wonderful and everyone is wonderful. INFJ on the other hand are very real and know when someone is acting just wrong. We also mirror other personalities so you may feel that you are an INFP but you are actually an INFJ. Also INFJ are always in our heads analyzing to the point where it gives us anxiety.
All I know is that the "INFJ" personality type describes my personality so accurately that I was stunned so I have ZERO doubt of my "type". I found it blatantly obvious so in my mind if it isn't clear than you probably are not this "type" but perhaps something relatively close in some regards.
Lol I think the uncertainty is more about choosing between two types than being in doubt because the description on some website wasn't totally accurate. But I did feel like you when I read about Introverted Intuition, it was like they could read my mind. đ
this really helped something just click into place for me. iâm an INFJ and i can be very analytical and logical like what i associate with thinking types, but itâs not my default, and i get very proud of myself when iâm able to have a flowing intellectual conversation- it sticks out to me so much. And same goes with spontaneity, i get very proud of myself when i notice that iâve let myself do something without lots of planning and forethought (though thatâs very rare because i dream up most situations and rehearse for many things that could possibly happen so i can prepare and appear more spontaneous). but when something catches me off guard, and i donât close myself off to it itâs like âwow iâm just such a go with the flow person, iâm so chillđâ. the things that arenât the default are the things that stand out! thatâs why we canât just ask people what kind of person they think they are, well, we can, but also observing separately from that is super important!
âINFJ here!â
âOmg the INFJ is so accurate!â
â so Iâm an INFJ..â
âINFJ here-â
âRarest Type here!...â
âINFJ hereâ
âINFJ here-â
âThe INFJ one is on point wtfâ
âINFJ here!â
Trust me people who say this and are not ..don't have a clue I'm infj struggled with depression and severe anxiety all my life I'm 41 and never had proper relationship ..even tho I'm good looking and a nice guy..I'm just happier alone but wish I wasnt ...so it's nothing you should wish to be because it's rare. Wtf
Benny Boy sorry to hear that about you, but I donât necessarily think the personality type is attached to your circumstances- I donât think itâs inherited necessarily. I would wanna know if the majority of INFJs struggle with what you struggle with to determine if what youâre saying is accurate. Iâm sure what youâre unfortunately struggling with applies to other personality types too
@@rayanalfadel5911 ...your probably right...and did have a strange upbringing to be honest..but it's the only type of personality that I can identify with ...even as a kid I told
my freinds I wasnt aload out, even though I was ..so I could sit in my room on my own đ always felt I was in my own bubble , it would explain alot and i would love to know for sure ... but don't want to sound like I'm trying to be different ya know đ€đ
â@@bennyboy2079 Hey, mate, this personality thingy just shows preference, does not show proficiency. You can prefer to read people, and be bad at it, or good.. You can be awesomely picky about choosing a partner, and be lucky enough that circumstances allow you to marry at your 20s, or be 40 and still looking.
Also, you can be mostly a type and still manage to develop other abilities... So it's not always straightforward...
The loneliness thing for one, isn't necessarily an INFJ thing. It's just that you don't yet seem to have developed an efficient system to integrate yourself socially enough not to feel lonely and still have the time alone that you need to not feel exhausted. Also, there are types of people that INFJs would be delighted to spend a large amount of time with, and maybe you simply haven't come across one of those.
Lastly, I wish you do find someone you can spend life with though. But having a "proper" relationship is an investment of time, energy, resources... the list is infinite. And sometimes, we're just not willing to give up so much, or change ourselves enough to enable one to happen. Like, I don't know what happened with your past relationships, but no relationship should ever be seen it as something you "prefer" (in the context of what is easiest and comes more naturally to a person), because no matter your type, it will always be something that, ideally, will make you get out of your comfort zone, and go through pains, and open yourself up to the possibility of hurt.
At any rate, best of luck on your journey man!
P.S.: If you still, somehow, got to this end of the internet, is in that age and gender group, and don't know who Jordan B. Peterson is... gee look him up, specially his 12 Rules for Life book. If you have, like, c'mon man, that stuff is textbook "lobster" 101... lol
Algorithms.. (possibly)
"Your type is not going to solve all your problems."
đđđđđđ Well said!
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honestly, this video made so much sense and helped me reframe how i thought about personality typing. I *LIKE* how its a complex, cant-quite-pin down, people have different takes on it kind of a thing. That makes it real, and weirdly relatable because ... well, i see it as a mashup of facts/categories and er..the fluidity of humanity, which can feel like a contradiction, or like that shouldn't exist. But I feel full of contradictions too ! Honestly, anything that sparks a conversation and insight into how we all feel and understand deeper levels of ourselves is Bueno
Im honestly stuck between INTJ ,INFJ and INTP but after seeing those comments I can relate to INFJ the most.
Well here are some facts about myself that INFJ personality have.
-I sometimes keep my opinions to my self so others won't feel bad or to avoid arguments or conflicts.
-Academic perfection
-hates messy things/keeps workspace clean
-Can be clingy sometimes
-Have to keep up with other people or just have to act nice so they won't feel bad or I try to avoid them if they're toxic
-I don't forget things (the things you have done to me)
-I'm warm and friendly and I'll happily give you good advice.
-I hate when people tend to use me for favours, one or two time is alright but all the times đ. Plus i hate when my help for other goes unappreciated.
-I honestly had an identity crisis but I learned Im an INFJ and still dont believe it
From one INFJ to another, I am so glad I found you. Your wisdom has been so enlightening and you've helped me so much x
reading the negative traits of the INFJ confirmed for me that i am most likely an INFJ. being constantly stressed out at the time, i saw myself not in the usual descriptions of the healthy INFJ, but in the ones about what it looks like when they're stressed.
INFJs act like ESTPs when really stressed, usually
TO be INFJ is to be stressed. I don't think there is an alternative.
@@PiNkSpRinkLe1 there's always an alternative, not every person is the same, even within the same typology. I've experienced acting more like and ESTP under prolonged stress, but that doesn't mean every INFJ will. Just giving my two cents
@@PiNkSpRinkLe1 Only internally
as you et older and more able to handle it, it gets better, and easier. Our internal dialogue and our internal life will always be more in
interesting than any other human being ever. Get older and you'll be able to share better. What's lovely is how amy share their secrets with us, so easily, and we keep them, thus gaining a reputation as somebody who can be trusted with secrets. INFJ's can always be trusted with even dreadful secrets. They will never tell - ever!
Found your channel a few days ago. Binging EVERYthing, because I'm interested in understanding people behaviour and inner, deeper motivations more, and I'm glad I finally found a video among your videos where you explain a little how to better use typology as a tool, because that will go a long way in my recently started journey in learning more, one I'm going to be going at... probably for the rest of my life now, honestly lol (I'm an INFJ... likely!)
Thanks again for all your videos.
I looooov how your sooo real and genuine, authentic in other words!!
Thank YOU đđ€
When you Gain more Self-Confidence when choosing to walk alone VS blending-in with peers
"Do you wear black often?"
*looks down...all black outfit including underwear and socks*
"I'm just kidding."
(INFJ)
Sammmmeeeee
same I'm literally wearing all black rn-
Iâm happy to learned Iâm an INFJ now that explains everything about the way I feel and how I am as a person
Thanks for putting up these videos. It has been fascinating. I have so often felt misunderstood and watching your videos has made me understand a little more about myself.
FJ: Do you wear black often?
Me: not really ... *looks down at black pajamas* I guess I do without even realizing it.
Also, I always have to rewatch your videos cuz I realize I donât actually âlistenâ to it because Iâm too busy looking at your comments or analyzing and relating to myself while youâre talking
Lol same I had to go back like 5 times and still gathered absolutely nothing đ€Šââïž
FJ: Do you wear black often?
Me: YES.
FJ: I'm just kidding.
Me: Oh. I was not.
I've been described as "a rainbow with black outlines" by a friend, and that resonated so deeply with me. I feel that this could describe a lot of INFJs.
This is so calming - thanks for this great video. Nice to just listen to.
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I'm really happy about the information you gave in this video. We can only tell for ourselves and the best part about it Is The calm observance of ourselves and others. If we can observe ourselves without guilt or toxic shame, It would expediate the process of knowing.
I see it as a rediscovery; a journey to self-awareness. I should definitely get back into journaling more. Also, I didn't mind the click-bait. It was worth it. :) Thank you, FJ!
I'm really enjoying my hypothetical relationships at the moment âš
Discovering Iâm an INFJ just answered a lot of questions and made me wish I was someone else.
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@@skyhiker9669 same
I find all your videos on the INFJ personality type very insightful. I love them đ
Wonderful description of typologies: "just calm down", "a longer process", "just a tool", "it is like developing an art". I totally agree. It took me one and half a year to realize, understand and accept that I have the 9 personality fixation of the enneagramm. Hence, the Myers-Briggs is just a new tool and help broadening to understand myself. â„ïž
"Your type is not gonna solve all your problems"
Me : oh well...đ
Did anyone else inwardly shudder at the idea of having to record themselves in some format? I always cringe at myself when I look back at what I was like đ
YES, if i see a video of me talking i wanna delete myself from existence
@@jerocadenazzi6245 i grew to be pretty much immune to listening to my voice. Due to covid, instead of orals, we had to do vids. ya can be picky when editing your voice XD
I learned about topology yesterday and I havenât stopped watching you tube videos about it .I retook the 16 personalities test 3 times and the cloverleaf 2 times and I am definitely an INFJ. I spent so much time wondering about this topic