Top 10 Relationship Tips & Lessons I've Learned - Terri Cole

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  • čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
  • These are the 10 most important love lessons I've learned in my 60 years of life (along with my 25 years as a psychotherapist + being with my husband!).
    This is also part 2 of my top 60 lessons learned in celebration of turning 60! You can catch part 1 (friendship lessons) here: • 10 Most Important Less...
    Let me know, which tip resonated with you? What would you add?
    You can check out the video with all 20 relationship tips here: • 20 Tips For A Healthy ...
    For the shared couple's vision, go here: • Epic Relationship Infr... the description has the link to the guide on how to create one
    Time Stamps
    0:00 - Introduction
    0:22 - 1: Mutual respect
    0:31 - 2: Honest communication
    0:50 - 3: Like your person
    2:03 - 4: Create a couple's vision
    2:51 - 5: No unsolicited advice
    3:41 - 6: Value what the other person wants
    4:39 - 7: Avoid punishing
    4:53 - 8: Take responsibility for your health
    5:54 - 9: Be intimate
    7:00 - 10: Try not to interrupt
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    About Terri Cole
    Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free.
    For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.
    She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over 450,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see www.terricole.com/
    Connect With Me
    Instagram: terricole.com/ig
    Community: terricole.com/fbg
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    Newsletter: terricole.com/newsletter
    Resources
    Boundary Boss Book: amzn.to/44DZID9
    The Boundary Boss Workbook: amzn.to/3Ra7CRU
    Insight Timer: insig.ht/cpKnbJB4KDb (I have a bunch of free meditations on here and love this app!)
    BetterHelp: betterhelp.com/terricole
    I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelp's resources.
    www.terricole.com/gethelp/ -- If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help.
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    #relationshipadvice101 #lessonsoflife #lessonslearned #relationshipexpert

Komentáře • 23

  • @simonar6492
    @simonar6492 Před měsícem +3

    Your voice is so calming but also you are the perfect example that communication can be firm but respectful. You have helped me so much, I looked up to you, my role model 🙏

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much ❤️❤️

  • @sherryluxedreamtravels7966
    @sherryluxedreamtravels7966 Před měsícem +4

    Wishing you a very Happy Birthday Terri. 🎉 So happy I found you!
    A 40 pg love letter... awwwemazing that it worked out well for you & hubby! ❤

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thank you so much! I'm happy you found my channel, too ❤️

  • @Shiftrealities360
    @Shiftrealities360 Před měsícem +3

    Happy Birthday Terri and thank you for the tips. No.8 really resonates with me, my partner does not participate in his health. After years of watching the decline and not being able to do anything about it...I got to a place where I was exhausted and spent with worry...and now, I DON'T CARE...mostly because I have nothing else to give. If you are a person in a relationship not prioritizing your own health then START. Your loved ones may start to move away from you because you want more than they can give.

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem +2

      I am witnessing you with compassion ❤️

  • @dallassallad
    @dallassallad Před měsícem +2

    I could never be in a relationship without frequent sex. It's highkey important!

  • @jamieb2176
    @jamieb2176 Před měsícem +3

    Happy Birthday 🎊 🎉 and thank you for all that you do for everyday people like me may God bless you with many more enjoy your day 🎉🥳🎂

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thank you, thank you, thank you! ❤️

  • @sybilizzard4926
    @sybilizzard4926 Před měsícem +3

    Thankyou for these tips. They really insightful and so interesting.
    I really believe it important to understand toxic people and tips like these makes you realise what a toxic partner can deny you in your life. And what you said makes that even more profound.
    Thankyou Terri Cole for guiding so many of us out here in the world!😊

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem +1

      "Tips like these make you realise what a toxic partner can deny you in your life" YES- that's exactly why I want to share these things ❤️ Because so many of us don't even know what's available. Thanks for sharing that takeaway!

    • @sybilizzard4926
      @sybilizzard4926 Před měsícem +2

      @terri_cole And Happy Birthday! Thankyou so much.😊

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      💕

  • @jan854
    @jan854 Před měsícem +2

    Thank you for all your amazing content you produce that pours into us ❤❤❤. SO deeply grateful to share another year with you. Happy Birthday 🎉💖🎂

    • @terri_cole
      @terri_cole  Před měsícem

      Thank you, thank you, Jan! ❤️❤️

  • @lorievanson
    @lorievanson Před měsícem +2

    Happy birthday, Terri!!🎉🎉🎉 and thanks for this fantastic video! This information is most appreciated. 🙏❤️

  • @24cammo98
    @24cammo98 Před měsícem +3

    🎉 ⭐️☀️ happy birthday starlight 🎉☀️⭐️

  • @jamieb2176
    @jamieb2176 Před měsícem +3

    Wow you are 60 you look amazing no disrespect to your husband

  • @Maliilse75
    @Maliilse75 Před měsícem +1

    "I'd rather eat People magazine"..Ha ha ha! You can be so hilarious.

  • @BUY_YOUTUB_VIEWS_d0dd115
    @BUY_YOUTUB_VIEWS_d0dd115 Před měsícem +2

    AMAZING!!! 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘