Female Bodybuilder Fights Off Gym Weirdo & BARELY ESCAPES.
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Don’t open up the doors for men when you’re a woman on your own. That’s just stupid
No its not. She knows he lives in the building and she has seen him around as well as at the gym before. If you live in those buildings, youd be weird not to open the door for people youve seen living in that building.
Its not stupid, its being a good neighbor.
@@AbaNPreach I thought he was some random dude, not a resident?
@@notoriousj_ Hes a resident.
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Ah lord. Not another one.
I get your point, but the dude lives the same building as her and she knows that. It would be different if he was a total random shes never seen. In her mind, she’s opening the door for her neighbor
This isn't a creep, this is an attempted grapist.
It's the difference between "creep" and "scary" that a pinned comment talked about on their last "gym creep" video. This dude was a creep when he first started walking close to her while she was alone. He was SCARY once he tried to grab her.
He's still a creep... You can be attempting crimes and it wont make you any less of a freak.
Still wondering why she wasn't picking heat. Women can and should blow these dudes dome caps back
@@Main-Villain because you shouldn't attempt fighting. Your priority is to get space between the assailant and run. No matter how strong you think you are.
He’s talking about a gun
When my sister’s ex broke into her apartment, through the sliding glass door, she immediately ran into the bedroom. She said she felt so stupid for not running out of the apartment or locking herself in the bathroom. Her doctor said, “you ran to the place you felt the safest” our mind and bodies are weird
I never knew that… hmm, it was late night so typically being inside is safer than being out on the streets, so her brain made her stay inside because it was perceived as safer. I wonder how you can force yourself to combat that instinct when in flight or fight🤔.
I’m glad your sister made it out of that situation🫶🏾
@@RelaxingUnderYourSkin I’m not sure to be honest, but I think if it happens frequently you know what to do to keep the damage to a minimum. She’s also 4’11, weighs 100 lbs. in that situation there was no way she could fight off a body builder. So I think her brain was just looking for safety. She just used her words to defuse the situation, until he calmed down enough to give her the chance to escape. Thankfully she’s okay now. He got away with a slap on the wrist though 😒
@@camcam794I don’t think running to her bedroom was the worst idea here. If her Ex’s objective was her then he could’ve easily chased her down. She would’ve had to gamble if someone would help or if she could get to her car fast enough. At least in her room she buys her self some time to call the authorities and can barricade herself if more time is needed. Worst case scenario she goes out the window which I don’t think would be too difficult considering you said the ex broke in through the sliding door
Interesting the psychology of what your doctor says and how men and women think differently in stressful situations.
@@emancules Are you kidding me!?! Locking yourself in your own bedroom is the WORST possible idea here... You're literally cornering yourself in a dead-end with nowhere else to run, while gambling on the off-chance the cops will get to you in time before you become another victim on some local headline news anchor... At least when you're outside, you can freely escape and scream for help without having to deadlock yourself into a corner with the only unreliable measure of protection being a door/wall between you and whatever potential menace you're up against.
FYI, they cut out a lot of the fighting in this (edit - news) clip. The full unaired video is more violent. He even got her pinned to the ground. So she had to wrestle him off. That’s why she’s proud of herself. If you saw the full video, you’d see how bad it really was. It definitely helps that she was strong because she had to overpower him a couple of times.
Not seeing your point. It’s clearly mentioned she was wrestled to the floor. Yes she fought but he also just gave up and clearly didn’t care that much. That’s the point. If the assaulter really wanted it regardless of her fight, it’d have turned out differently. So yes, she was lucky. That’s th point.
If he wanted to knock her out it wouldnt take more than 1 or 2 punches.
She never overpowered him at all, I seen the full attack and no, she slipped out of his grip through sheer luck and after using her phone to hit his face. You go for eyes and bale which is what she did, she should be happy to escape but she is giving bad advice, run first fight if you must and don't blindly trust strangers no matter how many times you see them at the gym. I'm never safe, I'm always aware, the only time I relax is when my man is there to protect me in a public space because you do not know when or where something could happen. Just because something didn't happen once does not mean it will never happen. Just like playing around in alligator infested ponds, you got away with doing something one time, but that will not happen every time. Absolutely see this in the same perspective as an alligator attack in Florida. Just because one lucky person made it out in one piece does not mean you should tell everyone that it's going to be okay if you do it again or if everyone does it.
I saw full video as well and I'm very happy that she was able to survive this encounter, but it seems you've missed the key aspect here. She was whaling punches in his face, she did not overpowered him at any point, the main reason she was able to wriggle out when on the floor was because he was more interested in touching and grabbing her that using physical force. It's difficult to understand what was going on in the mind of this creep, if he was reliving some porn movie scenario, where she will throw herself at him when he makes a move, I don't know, but it's fair to say that her punches didn't do shit and he didn't seem to punch her. If he punched her few times, I think we would have a tragedy unfolding here.
@@konradrozenkiewicz9201 Facts! If he had intention to hammer her then nothing was gonna stop him, she did great and did the right thing BUT she only got success because she got lucky.
Damn, someone is actually calling this woman wrong for opening the door? The dude literally lived in the building, how could she know? Jeez....hey shout out to her for surviving that. But yeah Aba is right, she did luck out by fighting a guy who didn't know any shit.
@@amandak.4246 Look I've worked in a secured facility so I know about not letting in personnel that don't have a need to be there. But there's a difference between that and an apartment complex where BOTH of them live. He was a resident there, she couldn't have known he was a psychopath. I get safety but this one isn't on her.
@@adrianchatman5734 READ YOUR OWN COMMENT. She had no idea what his intentions were!!! She was ALONE AT NIGHT. NO FEMALE SHOULD OPEN A DOOR FOR A MALE IN THAT SITUATION!! She shouldn’t be blamed. No. But to deny that her opening that door didn’t increase her possibility of becoming a victim to a crime would be an absolute lie. You don’t know someone’s intentions. When you’re alone at night and especially as a female, and another man is asking to be let in…yeah that needs to be a hard pass!
@@potluck712 I think you need to reread my comment. He was a resident where BOTH of them live. And she'd seen him before. The situation is a little more nuanced than you're making it out to be. In any other situation I'd agree, don't open the door. But this is a little different.
well, her life didnt seem in danger so SURVIVING that is a bs statement.
She did the correct thing, she didnt try to overpower him. But that comment of hers, "I am a bodybuilder, I know I'm stronger than him", could lead to a massive mistake.
She's still weaker than a 14 year old boy lmao
The video showed she really wasn't, dude didn't want to fight for it.
Are bodybuilder girls actually stronger than an average man who just works out? I don't think so.
@@1in10million Exactly. She wasn’t stronger; she was better conditioned. She beat him because he got tired.
That s what make doubt the event. With the guy clothes
She panicked and walked passed the door. You can see she realized she fucked up when she looked back
That was her logical mind working in her favor. If she had run for the door, she would have to stop and try to unlock it, giving him time to come up behind her.
@@lawrenceking4144 No. She opened the door for him at the beginning from the inside by just opening it. He left at the end by just opening it. There was no “trying to unlock” at any point. The door opens perfectly fine from the inside.
@@lawrenceking4144 not really logical to avoid the door and run into a dead end bro
When he got tired and exhausted, would have been cool to just block the door and wait for the cops 😂
Maybe behind the door was another confined hallway or something... I wouldn't want to go out that door and have to wait for an elevator for instance.
My brother taught me the basics of of Muay Thai. I trained for 3 months. I felt strong hitting that bag and the pads. The moment we started to spar, I could not land a punch. Him tapping me felt like rocks. That taught me to respect men’s strength and gave me true understanding of why you need to consistently train.
Train hard
Train smarter
Learn some grappling throws sweeps chokes from BJJ and judo
You might level the playing field slightly
Plus bro is a good training dummy
No pun intended
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Muay Thai is ok as a sport, but for self defense as a woman get a gun or knife. 10x more efficient against ANY man.
Damn!!!!
It should’ve taught you why you should run, not fight. Don’t put yourself in a dangerous situation.
I remember the last time my brother and I rough housed and wrestled. I was about 14 at the time and he was 10 or 11. I was a strong girl and had some muscle on me, so I didn't feel all that worried. My brother slammed me on the ground and pinned me for several minutes. Mind you, we were just playing around and he was not being serious. It all happened so fast and hurt so bad, we never wrestled again. I never picked fights with him after that because I knew I'd probably lose.
Needless to say, I have a concealed carry license now and regularly carry some kind of self defense weapon with me. I know I cannot overpower a man so, like y'all said in the video, I level the playing field.
I took a women's self defense class and the first rule they taught us was to RUN. You only fight when you can't get away, and then you try to hurt them only to give you enough time to get to safety. The moves we were taught was to inflict localized, disarming pain & also focused on blocking to avoid getting overpowered as much as possible & youre yelling and screaming the whole time. Wish this story was covered a bit differently by the news but happy she is okay!!
If you actually watch the full video, he actually has her pinned on the ground and it’s a lot more violent. So her advice is 100% valid.
Yup as a woman if I ever find myself to be in such a dangerous and volatile situation, my first instinct would be to run away as fast as possible. You really shouldn't try to be a hero when you clearly aren't capable of being one
@@thezu9250 No, actually she's wrong, and women will get hurt/killed listening to her. If you can run, you run, which is in the end what she did, ran to her car and locked the doors, ran home locked the doors. It's a lie to tell women that they can win a fight against a man. Her advice will get women killed. There was an Olympic weight lifter, she was fit as hell, she thought she could take on a man and got her face smashed in. If you can run, you run. First of all, never be some after midnight dummy lifting weights in spandex... secondly get away and secure yourself if you can. Fighting is ONLY when you have no where to run and nothing else you can do. Calling the police is dumb, phones are flimsy, get something more sturdy like those empty weight bars. You swing one of them he's either got to catch it or get clocked... then you revert back to run.
Obviously I agree that everyone in this sort of situation, man or woman should run. But i don't necessarily agree with those lessons.
I was in real life situations with a man. I'm not big, I'm not a body builder and I nearly ended the man. Not because of some self defence moves but because I'm resourceful, not scared and violent. That's the reality. Self defence teaching you, will not teach you how to use your surrounding resources. I picked piece of heavy old fencing. Pure heavy iron, if I swing it at your head full force, you can be a strong man and you will go down.
@@joannawinters6592 I'd close the distance making that "piece of iron" completely useless and punch your head in ..stop being delusional 😂
I've been told by a sexual abuse cop that there are 3 places you should never be alone. Gym, condo laundry room and overnight cleaning/restocking working. The most sexual assaults happen there.
Damn I’ve been alone in the laundry room
I have violated 2 of these
Thanx❤❤❤ I’ll remember
Can't really do anything. I work at a coffee place that only closes with 1 person at night. It's gotten even worse because management fucked up the way schedules work. Now the 2nd person who helps you close leaves at 5. So when I close I'm left to deal with customers alone from 5 to 8. Gotta take their order and make their dumbass peanut butter drinks cause that's what everyone wants at a fuckin COFFEE SHOP but whatever. Shit sucks we ever get a rush. Nobody should be allowed to be there that long by themselves.
I mean I get it's just a tiny drive through. There's no place for customers to come in. But other stores of ours that I don't work at do have the full coffee shop and they do the exact same thing.
I'm glad I don't work there and don't have to deal with customers outside of a drive through windows. I mean like what the fuck do they do if someone decides they don't want to leave when the shop is closing. Some girl (or even guy) closing a whole as coffee place by themselves ain't gonna feel comfortable trying to get someone to fuck off.
@@midnightfire9277 Please, please be careful. I know it's annoying but maybe carry pepper spray when you have to work alone. Let's say nothing happens, cool, nothing happens. But, if something does happen to you, you have something that gives you time to run. Like my grandpa always said "Best be prepared for something than get caught up with nothing".
As a Martial artist I'm really impressed with how she handled it. She showed us the perfect way of dealing with this. The moment he start encroaching on her personal space she shoved him back and was ready. I can't stress enough how important that is. Don't let people in your space like that. The majority of people will probably give up once you stand up for yourself like that, but this was one of those examples where it didn't work, and her first instinct was to get the police on the phone. That's the best thing she could've done because even if she's highly trained odds are she isn't winning that fight. Can't put into words how impressive her actions under such a stressful situation were.
"The best fight is the one you avoid". She did everything wrong except for fighting and running, at the end, after she got herself in the position in which she didn't have any more options.
@@JC-dc5iv can you explain to me what she could have done better?
@@JC-dc5iv what did she did wrong then? after watching he entire footage I would say she handled it perfectly, she was trying to escape from the get go but he was blocking her, so she tried to call the police while trying to keep her distance to him, she was trying to stall and fought back after he forced himself on her effectively tiring him out so she was able to escape to the exit.
@@JC-dc5iv no she did everything right. Just like aba and preach Said though, she was lucky. Based on the footage it didn't even look like he was really trying to overpower her either. I've been overpowered even though I was very athletic and I still remember how scary it was. The moment most men decide to actual over power someone , it's sometimes gameover I you don't have weapons. So what she did was right, but she was lucky. I would never tell women that they could fight of a man with bare hands, I would always advise them to carry a weapon and play dirty.
Yeah but what worries me is she felt so confident in fighting him off. Thats not wise at all. Even as a man you should always exercise caution. If this happens to her again the chances of her being able to fight off another man is slim to say the least.
"When fighting a gorilla, you don't stop when you get tired, you stop when the gorilla gets tired." Props to this lady.
THIS is what true gym assault looks like. Not 98% of these viral videos of men simply looking and women claiming harassment. I applaud her for standing her ground 🙌🏽
This isn't harassment, this is assault.
This is the actual cases of creepy dudes attacking/following girls at the gym.
That ain't harassment, that's attempted rape. Dude was a lunatic. This is an extreme example and the odds of it happening to a woman at a gym are minuscule. Especially in a situation that isn't exactly like this(empty apartment gym late at night with zero other people around). But those gym girls want us to believe that they act like how they do because of guys like this.
@@lerga14 how he barely touched her but yall remind me of the guy in the video yall tey to bother these women working out
@@darnellwilliams8783 you're still making comments here? go outside chubs
Thank god she’s okay. Nobody should feel unsafe or be unsafe in the gym.
I know what you are trying to say,but you are completely wrong. Nobody should "just feel safe" regardless of where they are. If feeling safe is your goal,then you will always be disappointed. Reality is what it is,not what it "should" be. No one should rape or murder,yet the idea that you should never be prepared for either because "people just shouldn't do that" is the mentality that raises your chances of falling victim to either. Stop thinking you can mold the world in a manner that makes you feel safe,and instead realize that you are never going to be unless you take steps to be ready for a dangerous world. No kids should die of cancer,yet we need to fund cancer treatments and cures because regardless,some do. The mentality you are sharing is,we shouldn't have to worry about funding cancer research and treatments for children,because they just shouldn't have to worry about dying from cancer.
I feel a little unsafe on my last rep of bench press lol.
Nobody should FEEL or BE unsafe anywhere, for that matter.
If churches, schools, movie theaters aren't safe... a gym is definitely not safe too
@@normalhuman9260 lol
Being a bodybuilder and strong is not enough to ensure that you can win a fight. You need to be mean enough to be capable of really hurting the attacker, and you also need skills. There were plenty of tools there that could be weapons, she didn't use none. In my opinion she wasn't aggressive enough. Never underestimate your enemy.
“Martial arts classes, you take those classes and you realize you cannot fight”
This is so true. I took martial arts for four years and it taught me just how difficult it is to get strong and fight as a woman.
I learned alot, but I probably would’ve had to stick with it for well over ten years before standing a chance against a grown man who’s really trying. And even then
This is who ladies need to worry about In the gym. Not a man who glanced their way one time.
Exactly, too many "attention seekers" make stories like this hard to believe. Thankfully there was cameras.....sick world 😔
Hopefully next time she grabs a heavy weight or pole and starts swinging before the phone.
Yea. It’s like boy who cried wolf. So many falsely accuse men that when it really happens we turn a blind eye smh
@@ericapaquette9624 nah ladies need to be worried of guys like yall smh yall are the same as the incel In the video
Yeah but the fact is there are dudes who behave like this sure women shouldn’t be blasting every dude that’s doing nothing but the fact that women have to be weary of this everyday shows the fact of why they are on high alert because dudes are weird.
This is why it’s dangerous for women to falsely accuse men of being creepy. It takes away from real situations where women are in danger. THIS is what a creeper looks and acts like.
Exactly! Women that make false statements have no idea the danger they put women like her in when it comes to actual assault.
Yeah but the fact is these dudes exist so I’m kind of not upset because they have to deal with this bs randomly.
Creeper, AWW MAN!
@@imanigordon6803 That is why everyone should carry a firearm.
Pls be real, this is A LOT more than just a creep 😂
I know this is different but I’m a 5’4, extremely skinny teen who dated this guy who was scrawny looking as well but he was super strong especially against me despite how he looked looked. Things got physical one day and I could’ve died if it wasn’t for neighbors stepping in and threatening to call the cops. I had realized that I was weak and there was no way I could’ve stood a chance, I had nothing around me and I couldn’t get him off he had me on a chokehold and threw me down. There difference is so insane and scary I had always walked around like I couldn’t ever be hurt although I knew I could’ve but after going through that, It really all comes down to luck.
I have been attacked and I think I only survived based on the sheer will I didn't want to die. He stood over me looking through me with this dead eye stare and I fealt overwhelming fear. I had the mind to put my leg up to prevent him from kneeling down ontop of me. I was able to throw him across the room with my legs but it took all my might. And, yes I did fight him off where he eventually left, but it could of easily gone the other way. Aba and Preach almost said it perfectly. The thing about martial arts and disciplines is they are useful but it will be very hard in practice when you didn't see the violence towards you coming. And for guns I am working on getting my conceal carry.I realized a while ago that some of the trails I walk on are very isolated so I should arm myself.
Any dangerous animals besides humans also on these trails you walk?
@@MusMasi the common ones near my house, no. Unless you count unleashed dogs as a possibility. The ones I have to make time for are preserves, county and state trails. Those I will encounter varieties of wildlife.
It’s scary how things can go from being normal & safe, then suddenly becomes a fight for your life.
Always be aware folks.
Especially because it wasn't some weirdo from the streets, he had his gym gear on and apparently she recognized him from living there. There's really no precautions she could've taken.
This could have happened and an even less weird/special situation like a gym. If you stand in an elevator and a dude comes in and the door closes, he hits a button that stops the elevator but also keeps the doors shut, then its showtime and its a super small space to fight in. Now I am not out here saying we need seperated elevators or anything, I dont like fearmongering and I also dont see most men as a threat at all, since I am also lucky to live outside the US in a very safe place (except certain men who came through mass migration made it much harder) but I have an issue with this woman saying "if you just keep fighting, you can do it"...damn girl, it really DEPENDS. He was drugged and slow. She was lucky.
Its as easy as ABC
Always Be Carrying
Shes lucky that the guy has 0 gastank, he might even be weaker than average.
I agree with them I mean props to the female bodybuilder but yes she was lucky that guy that try to harass her was a dumbass.
The whole time watching, I was saying "hit him with the weights!" As someone who likes to grapple and wrestle with my man, I can tell you that just because a man is skinny and has no muscle tone, doesn't mean you're stronger. I would always lose with my ex and I had him by 140lbs.
1. Women are generally not used to using all of our strength so our level of aggression is lower than men's.
2. Biologically speaking they are 33% stronger, are faster, have more muscle mass, and have a longer reach.
Don't try to overpower them. Run first, fight later, and fight dirty. Aim to maim and scream until your voice gives out.
Yes. Good advice. 😸
I mean you're right about size, some women seriously believe that if they weigh more than a guy that means they would have a chance, fact is it's two different animals as a whole, a 150lbs man is ALOT stronger than a 160lbs woman etc..
@@gromswowguide7927 Yeah my fiancé would flatten me in a heartbeat if he wanted to. He'd not taller or heavier than me and it would never matter. This OP had the best advice over the foolish bravado the young lady in the video gave. You get away, or you fight and fight dirty. Best thing to do though... don't put yourself in vulnerable places and positions.
That's actually pretty good advice
That’s a huge bitch!
Situational awareness is pretty important when you are out and about. If you keep a head on a swivel, you can avoid most situations, but sometimes you can't avoid them. What most people fail to realize is that you have to train yourself for these encounters to some degree, if you don't, your actions will fall to the lowest level of your training. Stress under dangerous situations can make you do irrational things.
Staying in the gym was a smart move. It is a familiar environment to her and has surveillance. Getting her outside was the goal and for all we know, and what she may have thought as well, there could had been a get away car waiting out there.
It looked like he didn’t have the stamina to continue but he deffo was out powering her at certain moments and the fact that she’s a body builder shows how much strength a man can have compared to a strong woman
Not to come off like im making excuses for him but he seems like he's on drugs..
yeaaaaahhh this is what I'm saying. Even a weak ass unfit dude has more base strength than a woman that is working out on the regular. It's crazy and super unfair. See how easy he did manage to lift her up and wrestle her to the ground but she's lucky he was not using all his strength, then she would have been real fucked I imagine. Maybe she managed to kick him in the nads off camera or something so he would let her go, or just putting up enough a fight that he thought the effort wasn't worth it and just kinda gave up who knows?? All I know is that if this happened to me I would not win vs any dude cuz I'm unfit af. Only if I kick him in the nuts and then run away but in a battle of strength I'm so screwed.
The way he "let her go" basically at the end, I don't think it was about stamina like an average man even less than average wldn't get that tired after a couple minutes of struggling with someone. He on drugs or he didn't eat that day or smtg, he just became battery at 1% so fast.
@@zebnemma always go for the nuts, kick as hard as you can and keep on kicking while their down. Dont stop kicking your assailant in the genitals, it's a massive weakpoint which you should exploid to help defending yourself.
You use your legs more during the day then you use your arms so your leg strenght is usually stronger then your arm-strenght and you girls usually have longer legs so you got slightly more reach.
In a fight you gotta use anything to your advantage.
Or buy some pepperspray, you can pepperspray at the hardware store but i dont think your assailant would wait until you finished searching your bag so go for the nuts
Yeah, he started off stronger than her but because she’s in shape, her muscles just keep its peak strength longer. He burned out.
This would've gone completely differently if he was throwing punches. I'm happy she was able to escape with no injuries
Or maybe he was thinking of going with the punches, but her way of fighting back changed his mind. Who knows what a batshit idiot could ever do.
Yea I'm wondering what his plan was...
@@wiredvibe1678 he was prolly drunk or high af
@@wiredvibe1678 He seemingly assumed that she would just submit.
yeah exactly. big difference between being a woman and fighting off a man who isn't willing to hurt you compared with being a woman and fighting off a man who'll slam your head against the floor/walls or hammerfist you if you resist. I hope this video doesn't give women false confidence
I stuck with martial arts as a woman because of HOW much I realized I couldn’t do ANYTHING but lose over and over and over. It became a sport I LOVE as well as a way for me to learn not only how to lose but how to win despite being smaller. You gotta know how to fight dirty and efficiently to not get hurt. I don’t care how much experience I have I’m not risking my face and body to get broken over some pride because I think I can fight. NUH uh. Be smart.
this is why i’m always armed in some way when i’m out in public and taking bjj lessons always prepare for a fight never actively look for one i’m preparing myself for the worst
The following day the man walked into a different woman's apartment. He had been watching her while she was on her balcony. Problem is he didn't know her boyfriend was home. He admitted to the cops that he intended to SA her and the lady from the gym. He's a watcher/stalker or whatever you want to call him. Not all staring men are this guy, but some actually are. Women need to get licensed to carry to protect themselves from those watchers who get froggy enough to jump.
I agree with that statement and am a huge 2A supporter but who actually brings their firearm into the gym with them? And has it on them when they're working out?
@@Semaj2326 In this instance unfortunately not. Perhaps it will become the new normal. Again unfortunately. I just saw a video of a Waffle House cook who was strapped while making waffles for goodness sake. It's a sad world when a man can't make a darn waffle in peace.
This is why I had a huge problem with that tacky woman months ago releasing that phony viral video accusing an innocent man of victimizing her. Meanwhile you have an event like this one where a stranger chases a woman all over the gym asking for trouble. I agree with Aba he seemed to not even make as much effort to hurt this woman like he potentially could, it doesn’t distract that there are real psychos out there and you got bs stories watering down real situations just so it plays into certain people’s rhetoric. This woman was lucky he withheld back on top of her being fit enough to have the energy to fight him back. Appreciate that you guys see the situation as it is and are calling it out to actually look after others, tired of these lies being excused, both directions.
Really sad because it goes back when the MeToo movement was at its peak. Where women make false claims to get men into prison, making things harder for actual victims of abuse and sex crimes. Literally goes against what the Women's Rights movement stand for.
It's funny because people went after Joey Swoll for that "phony viral video" and called him misogynist, etc. Then they claimed that he didn't care about videos like these, turns out he called the woman personally and made sure she was safe.
Yeah originally when I clicked on this video, I had seen the phony gym creeps one, so when clicking this one my first thought was 'Please don't be one of those phony ones' but upon actually watching it, I was extremely shocked to say the least. Glad the girl got lucky and made it out in one piece.
@@sandevastated1 it more than likely is fake, do you see how happy she is? Weird.
@@jimmythecrow Most likely a coping mechanism for what could've been a traumatic experience. I seriously doubt it's fake as their is video evidence that says otherwise.
What you said near the end reminded me of a conversation I had with my former best friend. She said that more women needed to teach their sons not to grape women. I told her I felt that more women needed to take self defense or martial arts classes, and carry a weapon. She said she didn't feel the need to learn self defense or carry weapons because it's the "man's responsibility" to not grape women. It was a back-and-forth without an end. She didn't see my point as all, and while I saw hers, I really couldn't agree. My dad was in MMA and he taught me a lot, but the most important things he taught me on repeat so I wouldn't forget were how to stay calm and level-headed in a fight, quick ways to catch someone off guard, and how some small things I could do would easily k!ll a man both with and without a weapon. When I was 12 he taught me how to shoot and we'd go hunting together. I feel like these are absolutely important things for women to know because it could mean the difference between life and death.
Teaching your sons not to rap[e, that's teach your kids not to rob a bank. As if children childrren are idiots. Crazy people do crazy things.
Why not both?
@@PickyVickyVindictive Example: Parents teach their sons not to do that, and to respect being told no, but they decide not to listen to that and do it anyway. No matter what you teach your children, if they want to do something when they are adults then they'll go ahead and do it anyway. But teach a woman to defend herself and to carry pepper spray and a weapon, the man who was taught not to and went for it anyway will learn the hard way of why he should have listened to his parents.
@@thatmeanpersononlineoffend9376 Boys who are raised right do NOT turn out to be r*pists. Most men are literally good men. And by that logic then women wouldn't do what they're told either. You really shouldn't have children. You'd be a bad parent.
@@PickyVickyVindictive You're a judgemental Karen, Icky Vicky. You didn't even bother to understand my point. I understand yours, and agree with it. (Except the bad parent part, you can go pluck yourself after spouting that nonsense)
WHAT I AM SAYING is that even if you raise your kids right, you never know what choices they'll make as adults, and they can still make mistakes by making the wrong choices despite how they were raised. Not ALL of them, SOME of them. 🙄
Her fighting him off was impressive, glad she’s ok.
I don't think he was going full throttle
He’s not even trying 😂. Watch the video. Man looks like he’s on drugs
She should have grabbed a pole instead of her phone.
He’s not trying lmao lucky her
😂
Thanks for being realistic on this. Some women need to hear it. The grip strength alone of the average man hurts and can be literally crippling if they get a grip somewhere delicate like wrist or fingers. Always run and scream if you can as a first option. Still, good for the girl, she did the right thing in that specific case
A throat punch or a dumbell to the knee or head will do just fine, you guys are not greek gods, the most of you. Sure, the guy was weak, but she is a tiny woman. The truth is she got away on her own. Bla bla, if he was serious she would have lost. If she was serios she could have dumb belled him in the head and it was over just the same.
Its not just limited to women, even men should run if they get the chance
The right thing is not letting the unwashed dude in sandals and a jersey into the gym.
No Aba, bring your keys if you want in the gym, why is he walking around in the building without keys? How will he get back into his unit? Or the rest of the building?
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@@animeuniverse5586 yep, other dude might have a weapon, and because you are a man even if you win and the other guy gets injured you could still catch a case, even if he attacks you first, especially if there are no witnesses or cameras, even then if there are and it shows him attacking you and you get the upper hand and pound him a bit, some might try to say you used *disproportional* force bs.
as a petite woman, that has been SA in my youth, i had PTSD. i realized to feel safe in public by myself... I carry and train now.
And my girl couldn’t understand why I asked her to stop going to apartment gyms by herself especially at night… til something creepy happened to her then she started going to public gyms like suggested. Some woman don’t understand the lvls of danger don’t apply to us like it do to them.
That dude was on something clearly. If he had been sober and clear headed she wouldn't have stood a chance.
I was thinking that too. His movements looked sluggish.
Maybe E or a stim binge? Cause that would make any man or woman into a slut who thinks its a good idea to talk to randos on the street.
Well he got caught after trying to SA another women in the complex by breaking into her balcony. So he had the strength to do that.
@@WarmSun_MGM So he went straight from this attack to attacking? Damn people are slow to respond, that woman could of been saved if people were faster.
Right the fact he did this in the apartment complex where he lives make no sense like did he not see the camera and did he not think she would not identify him make no sense what so ever
Glad shes ok. And I agree with you 100%, that dude looked kind of drugged up / drunk and still tossed her around a few times. Had that guy been sober with the same intentions it would've been a completely different story. She got lucky, hopefully it doesn't go to her or the head (or any other women watching) thinking that they can fight off any dude.
i imagine dude was trying it out, like his first assault, but couldnt do it sober, like how Jessie in breaking bad couldnt shoot gale sober, needed meth to do it, maybe he was on drugs, too much and couldnt complete his "mission" but if he was sober and had iron will to do what he wanted he would have bodied her easily
If not recorded, almost no one would of believed her; This is one of the real dangers of all the bs accusations. They think they're helping, but are doing so much more damage than they think all for some attention and likes.
Actually false accusations regarding SA only represents 1% of the total SA accusations and 95% of rapist get away with it and don’t get anything. The real problem here is that the justice doesn’t believe women.
I 100% agree. My friend who traveled to Texas said she felt very safe cuz most of the ppl she was around had a gun. So she knew shit was less likely to happen and if it did at least one of those citizens with a gun would be a good person and try to stop it
I really love that Aba clarified that a lot of women fight. The woman in the video def did what she needed to protect herself but something about her advice wasn’t sitting right…very often it’s not as simple as “just keep fighting”
this is true, a LOT of women fight, and they are overpowered, so don't just fight, go for that fuckers EYES blind him for life
Yes, most women fight in situations like this, they're just not strong enough. Even her got overpowered for several seconds, when the dude got over her. We women are really at the disatvantage when it comes to physical altercations and there is not much we can do. Even the fittest of us need a bunch of luck and a very unfit foe to have a chance 😑
This advice is a self defence class scam. Get a gun, or pepper spray ( strong one) takes course on situational awareness and how to use your weapons & the laws in your state regarding self defence use of said weapon. Telling a 130 pound woman to get in boxing fight with a man is terrible advice. It may work 3 women but how many fail? Those numbers they will not tell you.
@@houseofhas9355 but if you fail then the result is the same as not doing anything at all, why not at least try to fight?
Yea, I mean this guy was not punching her…..he seems drunk or high….did you see the 270 lb kid beat on his teacher…..I mean, maybe try to kick them in the balls…..but the likelihood of beating a stronger, bigger man….is rare.
I actually went to one of the self-defence classes and it was insightful somewhat but the only thing that really stuck with me was the teacher saying "Ladies, if you have to kill him, kill him. If that's the only thing that's going to get him to stop then you break through that mental barrier and you kill him hard. The law is in your favour. Hesitation will end you or worse." The hairs on my arms raise every time I remember how deadly serious this guy was.
Edit: all the people going "buy gun", I'm English. XD. And my dad always said never carry any weapon because you might as well just hand it to your attacker. Essentially I'm more likely to get stabbed with my own knife.
Edit edit: my lovely American brethrens, I'm English. My chance of buying a gun is zero. I've known some shady, shady people in my time (I worked in a youth rehab center for a bit). Nobody I ever met in that place could have got me a gun. In the UK you have to be deeeep in gangland for that. But I appreciate your concern, I feel like I'm learning a lot from all these replies.
I learned the same in class. Also, being prepared to maim was stressed as well; popping out eyes, fingers shoved up the nose, breaking fingers, and so on.
hope that there are video cameras or other evidence of an attack though. otherwise it'll just be 'you murdered a guy'
It's true, it always boils down to its either me or you; fight like he'll to make sure it's not you.
True. I was raised by my parents to be okay with the idea of dropping anyone trying to lay their hands on me. It's also why I couldn't live anywhere outside the U.S., because the idea of dropping someone to protect yourself is "unfair" to the criminal according to other countries. Criminals choose to do terrible things, getting dropped is a potential consequence, just like going to prison, there is nothing unfair about it. If you choose to lay your hands on someone, don't be surprised if you are dropped in an instant.
Other than grabbing my nuts... nothing would stop me 😃.... you just cant hit a adult male hard enough
1:40 it's like how in horror movies, instead of running out the door they run up the stairs.
Kept it 💯 that’s why I love Aba man, dude just be on point more often than not.
I really hated the strong woman narrative they spun into this story about attempted SA and thank you for pointing out how lucky she was. Because her interview came across that she did a lot more fighting than we see on camera. On camera, she goes down pretty easily. The heroic super woman feminist gloss on this story is a bit of a slap in the face to the women who don’t fight back because they’re afraid and want to live, or the women who do fight back and lose. The honest truth is not many women would keep a weapon on them during the work out. It would be in their bag in a cubby to the side so the right predator in this specific circumstance could have easily caused harm to her and this should be more of a story of remaining aware of the dangers in this setting as well instead of look at this strong woman fight off a grapist.
Facts
Lol give her credit
@@shootermcgavin214 I give her credit for being lucky. If she wasn't, and this fool actually tried, it would be curtains for her.
your right, in this situation unless u keep a paper spray in ur pockets u don't carry weapons in the gym. It is just not a nice world we live in, lets just say that.
@@shootermcgavin214 bruh look at the video. Dude is moving like a sloth prolly drugged out of his mind and still manages to get on top of her. I don’t think he even threw a single punch.
Her thinking that she can just fight her way out of these situations is an extremely dangerous mindset.
This is some scary shit. On one hand, we have some women thinking every guy that glances their way is a super creep, but on the other hand we still have stuff like this happening. At least it was in a recorded area, because there's no "he said/she said" scenario that they can get off with.
Can people just act normal please? Like WTF.
"Can people just act normal please? Like WTF."
Oh ok, thank you, without this we would all be lost.
@@RBLXDignitysHQ Why are you being so hostile/rude?
Can men stop harming women please?
@@EternalEngine24 lmao bro “can people act normal” is just pretty dumb. This world is f*cked up snd there’s so many people who will steal, murder, ect thats just life.
@@messyangel1169 generalization like this is why serious stuff like what happened to her aren’t taken seriously, good job🙄
Good for her. Good on you for highlighting this.
In Germany you're not even allowed to have pepper spray on u in an urban area. Because you could potentially harm another person. I got really angry when I heard that honestly because it takes women a lot of room of self defense
“If you think *STRONG* men are scary, just wait until you find out what *WEAK* men are capable of.”
Also if you tell men to open and not control their emotions. Criminals are very open with their emotions and have no self control. Jail is filled with men who are open with their emotions and are very expressive.
Guys like this are scary AF, which is why I think grape & child abuse should be a death penalty crime.
@@houseofhas9355 No one is telling men not to control their emotions wtf
@@houseofhas9355 I think you dangerously misunderstand the difference between "expressing and coping with emotions" (what feminists want men to do) and "letting your emotions dictate your actions".
The first time I saw this and heard her say “I’m a body builder, I KNOW I’m stronger than him”, I immediately thought that she was lucky he seemed to be out of it.
As you guys said, had he wanted to end this quickly, he could have and no matter the amount of body building she’s done… it wouldn’t of mattered.
I’m happy she’s safe and she got away, but this could of been a very sad, different story.
One way it probably helped was conditioning, really if you have elite conditioning and the other person has little 99% of time you're walking out of there relatively unscathed. Especially once they have their adrenaline dump.
Wouldn't HAVE* not "of", and not "wouldn't've"
@@DrtyTreeHuggr what are you taking about? Wouldn’t is “would not” so would not of mattered is perfectly fine.
The fuck?
The dude was on drugs or something, he clearly hadn't planned what he was doing.
Eh this is not necessarily true. There's so many weak men in the world.
Hell yea! Great to see someone talking about the equalizer that a firearm can be. And talking about being responsible amd getting training? Amazing!
I've been doing kenpo and judo most my life, moved on to BJJ when my dojo closed some 6 years ago.
I will always have the stance that women especially should be taught the basics of self-defense at an early age.
Hell, implement some elements into a basic gym-class at schools.
I was happy af to hear that Joey Swoll reached out to her and made sure she was alright. Apparently she is crowdfunding to start a ladies gym with some focus on self defense.
On a sidenote, dude looked dusty AF.
Dude was probably high AF.
@@jonharper4478 He’s clearly on drugs
The fact there is a crowdfunding operation going on makes me a bit suspicious of the whole thing.
It would be wild if it were "staged" a la "Jussie smolett".
Someone criticized him for not reach out to the victim. He showed proof that he reach out to her when the news went viral.
But some of the media aren't going to try to bring that up and paint him as a misogynist. Shout out Joey Swoll.
Yes, she fought for her life 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
But yes, it’s super weird how he was super passive, like and not punching her or anything. I know a lady who got her nose broken when she was being sexually assaulted 💔
She is BLESSED !
It was almost like she was being attacked by a zombie lol, minus the biting ofc.
He might have been on something or just out of his mind. Who knows but he was just fuckin weird
It could be that he didn’t find the fight forth it. A lot of these guys don’t expect women to fight back and give them ACTUAL pushback. She’s a body builder so she’s more than likely stronger than most women
almost like it was staged. hmm
@@PrincessZaire100 lol. body builder? dude she barely has any muscle.
Hell yeah I carry and everytime that thing gets me out of a situation I’m like “how did I go so long without one?”
I’ve been waiting for y’all to see this video
I have been in her situation I was not as lucky as she was and I fought him as hard as I could. The only thing that saved me was screaming and someone saved me.
Do you think because of your experience you would not have opened that door? I was chased on campus and had to run for my life and I'm so hypervigilent now. Everyone is a potential threat in my eyes. I was just curious if your more careful now since your experience or if it's just me.
She ultimately tired him out. Sometimes fighting back isn't to over power the attacker, but to tire them out. She is certainly lucky.
They cut out some of it from the video. He actually had her pinned on the ground and she had to wrestle out of that. That’s why she’s saying to fight back. They cut all the bad parts out.
The moment i understand that man is always going to be stronger than you. Is when i was a child i win all the fights, but as soon as puberty hits, this guy grabbed my arm so hard. I literally was like woah, I didn't know they can get THIS STRONG.
Definitely have to agree here. If not for him just giving up you may not have been able to get away. Keep in mind he didn’t throw any strikes all he did was grapple with her and overpowered her. Glad she was able to get away but this could’ve gone so much worse.
I went to self defense classes. They said that your main goal should be to escape. Sure they taught us moves that might help you get out of holds but they said your best weapons are your voice and your feet. Being aware of your surroundings and getting loud and confident when something doesn't feel right can often stop situations before they get dangerous.
Self Defence classes are Bullshit. Go to a Muy Thai, Boxing, or Jui Jistu gym train with legitimate coaches and get pressure tested with sparing or technique practices. That’s how you learn how to fight
lol, you didnt take self defense class. You got scammed.
If a man holds onto you and he's crazed, you won't get away, best odds is be with a man if you're in a sketchy place, or have a whistle on you to scare him away.
@@jimmythecrow They did not say that was all they taught. You got scammed in reading comprehension. You absolutely are told as a woman to run to safety. Any attempts should be made to distract, break free, cause injury enough to be released. Women are weaker bodies, even if I tried to punch someone in the nose, it probably wouldn't even bleed. I always tell anyone acting aggressive to me in a cornered space that you better know, I'll take an eye before I take bullshit. My stance is, you may get away with doing what you're trying... but you wont be walking away with one or both eyes. People generally like being able to see. I don't bluff about it either, I know any woman is strong enough to poke out an eye. Outrun a man? Maybe not, but you got hands, nails, if it's best you got then it's the best you got. Women seem to be under the misguided impression that they are just a strong as a man and it's dangerous. When he had her down, yeah fight, but running away is always the best option if it can happen. Women should not be alone like this in the dark, just basically begging for trouble.
@Darkshizumaru how small are to not be able to make a nose bleed? I did that on accident while rough housing. I'm not even a big girl either...
as a dude, i think it's important to keep things like this in mind when woman say that they're scared of men. instinctively it might come off as hateful, but you have to keep in mind shit like this happens daily to women globally, and the woman in your life likely had at least one unpleasant experience with a man before.
EDIT: my mom told me at her old waitress job, it was common for dudes to just touch her breast/buttocks without consent, and it sounded like she and all the other woman just got used to it.
Growing up with women taught me there's a lot of generalizations when they talk but they absolutely understand nuance. "All men are trash" in their mind is "all men like *this* are trash." But men take it at face value and get offended. They definitely understand that there is plenty more good men out there but in a conversation about bad men there will be sweeping generalizations and we just have to remind ourselves they're not talking about us sane guys.
Agreed 100% but at the same time, those women have a responsibility to deal with their trauma and not leave it to fester, then expect the men in their lives to walk on eggshells 24/7..
That's understandable.
And no one tells women how to feel that regard, especially if they have certain experiences in this stuff.
Nevertheless should these women also be held accountable for their actions.
No matter what their experiences, shaming or vilifying men for maybe looking at you once or twice is still not right (As a hint to these viral tiktoo clips)...
That's true. Even more reason to leave them alone.
@@panjabipandit then maybe they should say what they mean instead of everyone else having to be mind-readers.
I did martial arts in high school. Most useful one I learned was krav maga. It was all about self defense and hitting attackers where it hurt. We didn't learn fancy kicks or punches, we just learned how to stop an attacker and disable them through pain an injury. In terms of self defense, I will always recommend krav maga.
I hope this dude gets what's coming to him sooner rather than later.
Was playing with the kids & a 8 year old boy pinned me down laughing. Damn he hadn't even gone through puberty but it was eye opening. I carry!
I feel like a lot of men, myself included, don't have a realistic idea of what women potentially face on a daily basis, it doesn't matter who you are, if someone who has 6 inches and 50 pounds on you randomly decides they want to try and assault you, there's very little you can do... I read a post suggesting that a more analogous situation for men would be, if we lived in a society where half the population were lions or tigers or silverback gorillas, and you knew at any time you could be assaulted by one of them, and there would be almost nothing you could do about it...
Yup, you get it. That's why women can be suspicious and act "rude" or jumpy when they meet new men. It's nothing personal. There's just this general threat we feel like we are constantly under. (Even a little bit, at the back of our heads)
@@celseac8107 that's why they are always rude at me. The disadvantages of being unfortunate lookswise...
@@ata864 It's true than when the guy is handsome and looking "put together" women relax a bit. But that's why they fall victims to them afterwards. Now, I don't know you as a person but "bad" looks is not a final sentence. You can turn the situation around with genuine kindness and active understanding. (Aka don't pretend to be the good guy, actually listen what the other person needs). Maybe this will improve how women perceive you. Also, this advice is coming from me, an "ugly" woman who is almost invisible in the eyes of most men, especially when other women are around. So I am not giving advice from a much different position. (Edit: I am assuming this was about beauty standards. If you mean something else, sorry to have misunderstood)
@@celseac8107 well, exactly, you don't know me. I understand why you don't think it's that bad but the main difference is that you are an ugly woman while I'm an ugly man. While you're invisible, I'm a target. I've learnt that the best course of action is running away from women who start being rude at me. It's better to run away than being assaulted by their orbiters.
@@ata864 If they are that rude to you it's best you leave, I agree. You deserve better people around you
I would say it like this...if you know there is potential danger, try to do everything you can to protect yourself. However, if you end up being assaulted anyway it is not your fault, and it will never be your fault. Telling people to take necessary precautions should never be a gateway to victim blaming, because the assaulter is always the one (and only one) in the wrong.
Telling ppl to take precaution isn’t victim blaming. It’s warning ppl to not become easy targets.
This is why a lot of places tell you not to open the door or let people in if they don't have a key. If you forgot yours, too bad.
This almost happened to me -except i DIDNT open the door. I used to always workout after work late at my apt complex and one time this guy walked up to the door and indicated he wanted let in.
I walked over and ALMOST opened it-but then my security training kicked in and i just stood and watched to see if he used his code to get in. After a bit he just left.
I know she said that she's a bodybuilder, but she's not stronger than a man, she just isn't. We mustn't put ourselves into a dangerous situations, because we just aren't stronger than men.
Also ignoring the fact that she still almost got picked up. She isn’t that strong nor heavy.
Let’s focus on the fact she got away. Everyone strength is different
I wouldn't consider her a body builder I'd just consider her "fit"
@@yessalady5003 I think we can focus on the fact she got away while still acknowledging that theres a another danger of minimizing how easily she could've been taken down by this guy had he had a little caffeine or even just greater enthusiasm to follow through. She did everything she could which is more than many women, but it was far more than just her efforts that got her out of that situation.
Well, to be fair, she got lucky because he looks skinny and small. They looked about the same size, plus she seemed fitter than him. She was ready to fight, that was her only advantage. A typical woman will get bodied by the typical man.
my friend that was a former wrestler informed me that you can’t tell how strong someone is just by how they look….. stay strapped
Ever since I noticed the floor creaking I can’t stop hearing it lol
You guys give such good advice.
I truly believe she's just lucky that this dude seems to be under the influence and didn't try to be too aggressive. I just watched a video of a huge high school student who hit his female teacher and he literally launched her few feets away and fell unconscious. Please ladies, we're not trying to be disrespectful or anything but know your limits. That girl did the right thing by running when she had the chance.
Did you see the same video as me? "Didn't try to be too aggressive"? HUH??
@@mysteriousmusik yes and yes
@@mysteriousmusik he pretty much just walked at her grabbing, he wasn't even throwing punches. So yes he's right, he wasn't that agressive or she was screwed. Once she showed she would fight back it looked like he didn't even want to put the effort, put his sandal on and then walked away.
That video was brutal.
Yeah, real fights are brutal and fast. If he was really aggressive it would have been punches, running, throwing things, and general chaos. I thought the guy must have been on some drug. She's very lucky but she also used her smarts in the situation. I'm grateful he was as chill as he was. The panic would have been totally different if he was running and barging through equipment. Calling the cops would have been difficult.
2:35 I didn't know that Childish Gambino had fallen on hard times like this.
2:32 when this came up i was like wait a minute, ain't that childish Gambino!???!
The dude never even threw a single punch. Ladies, please just run next time. I don't know what this dude's goal was, but I can tell he wasn't trying. Get strapped.
NOW THIS! Is creepy and unacceptable. Not the tiktok bullshit, but an actual situation where the woman IS in danger. Props to the woman for being able to get out of that situation.
And props too the man for being so drunk, high, or not really into it that he couldn't fight seriously. Cuz ive seen first hand when a man is fully trying against a woman....
And it ain't pretty.
@@christopherlewis6915 true. Hope he gets blasted soon
@@christopherlewis6915 Wtf are you giving props to him at all for? I'm seeing so many comments with you males being so weird and bragging about how much physically superior you guys are. You're so frigging weird
You're equating assault with being creepy? You think THIS is "creepy"?
Yeah you went down the rabbit hole of TikTok videos and now won't stfu about it like a lot of people, we get it. But some guys DO STARE.
Women's self defense I learned in the 90s:
Kick the man in the nuts and yell "that's my purse!"
BOBBY!
That actually seems like a good tip. Kicking in the nuts is effective
As a man getting hit in the nuts will have me on the ground for a couple of minutes lol
@@yesi5554 I'm glad you got the KotH reference!
Thats my purse, I dont know you!
-Bobby Hill
this is why i like you guys, you can talk about the girls grifting saying that a look is SA but then also talk about the real issues women face, makes you guys real, also thank god this girl was a beast
I'm happy that she is ok. I just hope she doesn't get the wrong message for this situation, and think she "beat him" or can beat another one
Thankfully she is a bodybuilder. This definitely could have gone so wrong for her 😳.
Am I tripping? Because she does even look heavy, nor did it look like he was trying.
Unthankfully he’s alive but oh well.
I hope this doesn’t bother her for too long.
@@andrewrogers3067 Rapist and Women beaters don't make it very far in the U.S prison system
Amanda nobody bbn cars if she's a bodybuilder she needs to find a husband because women aren't stronger than men period
It's not because she lifts weights, the guy just didn't go 100%. A 14 year old boy could overwhelm her
Damn. Donald Glover is looking rough lately
this is exactly what I thought too! 🤣🤣🤣
LOL he really does look like a homeless version of him
😂😂😂
@@prod.kidmizu dude lives in the building but still manages to look homeless.
Good video, excellent point. Doesn't matter who it is, keep an equalizer of some form or fashion with you where legal (or any item any where if you don't care about legality I suppose)
The amount of people I've seen get knocked out by getting slammed to the ground was and still is shocking to me. Just snoring sound asleep. She strong but also lucky.
I’m happy she’s confident about her strength but one thing I learned is never underestimate a man’s strength lol its easier for them to squeeze your neck than for you to squeeze toothpaste out of a tube. She’s strong but not everyone would have gotten out “fighting back” is not always the best thing to do.
It's scary that a lot of women don't realize how strong men can actually be, even the weakest of men, in comparison to women. That's why I always tell women to be strapped or have something to protect themselves with or perhaps people to be with them
I remember hearing a comedian who a big dude talk about how his girlfriend actually thinks she can take him in a fight.
The joke was about the media portrays women as much stronger than they actually are and that gives them a very skewed version of reality and one time he's going to snap and pummel her to teach her a lesson. It's much funnier when he says it compared to when I type it out lol
My neck bro?
I mean they cut this part out of the video, but he literally had her pinned on the ground. So she had to wrestle him off of her. That’s why she’s so proud of herself. It was a lot more violent
In the uncut video, she "fought back" quite a lot. Idk why all the actual action was cut out of this video but he had her pinned down and she had to overpower him to get out from under him. In this cut version, you see him walk towards her and it cuts over and suddenly he's totally out of breath lol. A lot happened between the cut
Am I the only person who was expecting her to hit dude with a dumbbell? Lol I just KNEW it was going to happen. Missed opportunity, but glad she's okay.
I thought so too but I think she was focused on escaping and fending him off not actively harming him. Could have helped maybe
@faynuus2967 Yeah definitely gotta attack and execute quickly...anything can happen. A little 5 pounder wouldn't do too much damage.
If she connected and didn’t seriously injure him it’s possible he would have become angrier.
@@kikibrown9548 I didn’t even think of it like that, you’re right. And she’s not as strong so she probably couldn’t pick up one heavy enough
@@stoopidfrsh1 5 pounds to lift? Not much but 5 pounds as weapon is killer
This is why I always have hairspray handy in my bag
One of the main rules of security at any corporation is that you do not open badge locked doors for others. That badge door scan is your security.
3:15 lol so true, that was me after a session of kickboxing, i was decent with technic, but the cardio was out real quick.
5:54 so I should start carrying a sword? Got it !
(It is legal to open carry swords in Texas)
As someone who just finished watching Weak Hero Class 1, I was like hit him with the weights just like Si Eun did but then in that situation I knew I would've tried to runaway and only have that in mind.
This lady was suuuuuper lucky.
Crowder proposed it best. Peaceful negotiation generally comes when one side has greater force. Utilize your lawful ability to have means of protection.
ahhh watching her defend herself made me happy, good for her
Is it too far to say. Crime like this should get the death penalty.
Grape & child abuse crimes should be death penalty crimes in the town square to send the message. What do you think of a law like that?
@@houseofhas9355 Psychopath take
@@houseofhas9355 I don't work in the law forces and have no studied/am not informed enough to formulate an opinion on that :) Obviously I think crimes shouldn't go unpunished but I don't have the knowledge necessary to tell how said crimes should be punished .
Glad she ended up ok. I'd advise any ladies to really think twice about working out alone in a situation like this in the middle of the night, just see if you can bring a gym partner with you as sucky as it sounds, but better be safe then sorry since there are indeed weirdo's like this about, granted not all guys should fall into this category.
I agree, but at the same time- most people who SA women are people who know/seen them unfortunately. So you could be inviting someone to do that very same thing. Best advice is to do your absolute best to avoid it all together. Thank god I have a husband.
For real, there is a 24h gym where I live, and one day I decided to go there when it was already dark outside. Early in the morning the place is always packed with people, so I was expecting the same thing. But nope, nobody was there. I turned around and went home. I felt so frustrated because I just knew that if I were a guy I probably wouldnt think twice about getting a workout in, but I felt it would just be too risky to go in there by myself. Better safe than sorry.
If y'all are ever in that exact situation, pick up a dumbell. Swing that shiz. Use the gym to your advantage.
"The only equaliser in those types of situations..." 7:50 😂
100% agree with Aba and Preach on this one. I'm soooo happy she is safe. This is scary and a situation I hope I never find myself in.
It's a good thing she didn't grab a weight to fend him off. I might would have, but then that's a risk because the person could mirror your actions then it's just become a more fatal situation. Good on her really, that is terrifying!
I was attacked over 20 yrs ago giving an old HS "friend"a ride home. We rode the bus together for 3 years and I thought I was safe. I outlasted his dusty butt because I was in shape. He literally gave up. Being in shape matters. She can't beat him straight up but she outlasted him & he was tired.