How To See Past What Drives You Nuts | Janine Marie Driver | TEDxWilmington
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- Before she can tell us how to see past what drives us nuts, Driver tells us about two important things -- that we are all in fact judgmental, and that we often suffer from inattentional blindness. Such circumstances can make us feel crazy. How do we get around it? Movement pattern analysis. Each of us has a fingerprint. Those who understand the system can tell a great deal about people by watching them move. But we can also use it. As Driver tells us, whenever something is driving her nuts, she now wiggles. It is a movement from early childhood, and one CANNOT be angry when one is wiggling. This, she tells us, can save you headaches, and more importantly, friends.
Janine Driver’s mission is to INSPIRE people to look at their world in a different way. Janine is the New York Times Best Selling author of You Say More Than You Think, and more recently You Can’t Lie To Me, award-winning keynote speaker, and body language expert for NBC’s TODAY Show. Janine is the CEO and founder of the Body Language Institute and the elite division called the Decision Profiling Group.
Janine and the Body Language Institute have helped Fortune 500 clients become examples of the total leader, which ultimately led them to win millions of dollars in new business contracts.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
I love watching & listening to her. she's effective, knowledgeable and entertaining.
Yeah she is. She's GOOD
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Jeanne Driver is a powerhouse. She provides people with the tools needed to navigate tough situations. Though I cannot promise you that you will WIN every time. I CAN PROMISE that you will be a better version of yourself. More aware, stronger, faster version of whoever you were before Jeanne blessed you!
Surprised to say I love this lady. Humor and intellect goes a long way. Job well done.
OH MY GAWD
I LOVE this lady
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Everybody has their own style and merit in their own presentation, superfluous yet here we are listening to this woman. The learning curve is all that we go through and boy, Janine has gone through a lot of evolution. One of the best aspects of her presentations I see is the ability to get the audience's attention to whatever the heck she might be trying to say. Truly she is one of the speakers who increases one's attention span unless we may have inattentional blindness or just about a bit judgmental as I sometimes am. Thanks, Janine.
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She's one of the best, if not "the" best speakers I've heard in a long time. How to hold an audience.
I agree
I love this woman, she is so wise!
Her outro brought me to tears. Powerful words. Her talks are amazing.
Wonderful, inspiring talk that could change lives. That wiggle could also be called "pattern interrupt". What a fun way to do it. Thank you, Janine Marie Driver!!!
When you are willing to help yourself, the world will pound down your door to cheer you on...
Yes!
Truth!
Janine is the only speaker i open my notes app for when i'm listening to. She drops gems everytime!
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FANTASTIC TALKS THIS LADY HAS ONLINE!!!! DEEEEEP GRATITUDE from Belgium, Europe 🙏🙏🙏
I live this woman!!😘 She made me cry, laugh and Google new topic ls in 15 minutes!! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
At 12:29 Janine Driver says to face people straight on when shaking hands, 'We face our belly button toward people we like, admire, and trust." (I call this Navel Intelligence). As a cat owner, I know that when a cat has complete trust in the environment, the cat will sleep with its belly exposed upward. Complete trust.
I like the way to give your word across to help people.
You are BEAUTIFUL women of God.
God bless you.
I trust our HEAVENLY FATHER to watch over you and protect and guide you in all your ways, i pray the LORD protection over your children's as you take your time to educate the public about wicked people.
she's gives the best Ted Talks
Wow! That was awesome! This lady is amazing. how mesmerising!!
Janine, you are my current guru. I share your videos, this one and the 5 words to get what you want, video as thank you gifts when potential clients and patients share their valuable time and vulnerability with me. Your NH accent along with your attitude make it fun to share this stuff! Thank you.
Yay! Janine! Thank you so much! On a Zoom I'll tell you how much this 'resonates' with me today. Talking with my mom whose ghosted me for 3 years. Heavy and happy time : ) Thank you so much!!!!
Janine, your voice when talking about your mom and the embezzeler. : ( If it's any consolation, Scott Rouse has a blindsided story that he's shared as well. Thank you so much for sharing then and also for your teaching today with Lena Sisco. Thank you!! : )
Omg Janine.. my mom wiggled too! and she lived with cancer for 15 years.
She has a lot of ted talks I always love when she talks
Your amazing and I can see that you have gotten so healthy since this ❤️ thank you for your wisdom beautiful soul
Janine, I love your speech so much. You remind me of my boss who is always entertaining and teaching at the same time. 😅
Now I know I'll wiggle my way into solutions and happiness. And effectively change my world, our world, is the same world.
Love this woman!
What a great talk! Definitely want to dig deeper into this topic
You are amazing, your talks are so powerful. I love your delivery.
Love this lady/ teaching with stories, humor and really important things to say..,..helpful god bless her
Janine I love you!!!! Thankyou 💗
What an eye opening gift you just shared with those willing to watch and to listen. By the end of this presentation, I instinctively knew what my "wiggle" has always been. I thought I had somehow lost it, but it's still right where I left it. I needed this in more ways at this stage of my life than I can put into words. Perspective is everything. That's justna stone cold fact. Thanks so much Janine for sharing this! The more you know... You're a gem! ❤
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You are wonderful. Who would have ever thought, I will do this from now on because not only is it funny but it makes people wonder.
The remote control. 🤣 Hey guys just wiggle.
So glad I found this! You really need to listen!
So funny - at 11:32 she said ... one of these people who get so mad at you, they come at you at a "diagonal." LOL
This is wonderful. Thank you so much for putting it into words.
That's a beautiful soul
more more more more!!! Janine you're amazing! I want more info on movement pattern analysis !!!
Very uplifting and focused ideas to implement today!
Thank you Janine. I had a great time watching you.
Wow!
Wiggling away all anger ❤️😘
Thank you
Much ❤️
This was great! Loved her energy
Love you, Janine!
Janine, you are awesome!! Your "wiggle" came at the right time in my life. Thanks for a whole new way of looking at things!!
Loved this talk very informative and insightful.
Thank you Janine so much for all you entertaining and helpful tips.
I like this! Never thought about a lot of these things. You are amazing!
Loved this
Great TT Janine thank you!!
Also, watch listen to the video of the song by 2 in a room singing “Wiggle It”😁 This should be the theme song for the Wiggle it movement! My ex use to say a little humor adds some levity when things get too serious and getting angry could ruin things. 😄
Thank you so much!!! I feel like my children have decided to make me “Crazy” yet it’s their way of not having to see what they are doing . I have examined, re-examined also being a parent I have accepted all blame . This has brought a lot of shame as well as being Stuck!!! I am there for them at all times rain or shine . Yet, I do have anxiety so maybe what they are picking up on something I’m not seeing ? Yet I am losing my children to something I wish I knew what it was that I am doing ? I’ve decided to put facts above emotions . Still I am wrong ? “I would love to know better to do better”
My guess would be that they are teens. If so, the loss is temporary. Don't worry, they'll be back.
Respect is a two way street, and kids know when they're not respected. (Do you explain, or do you dictate? Are they 15 and still have the responsibilities and privileges of a 5 year old? Habituate yourself: "Happy Birthday! You're new privileges are ..., your new responsibilities are ..."
Respect is a two way street, and kids know when you don't demand respect for yourself. (Ignore me unless/until I'm yelling, because there are zero consequences to ignoring me, unless/until I'm yelling.)
Listen to them....my sis had 5 an each birthday they had a one one time to get her full attention an discuss anything... Dont beat yourself up an dont stop communicating with them. Prayer also works. GOD BLESS YOU ❤
Kids aren’t that complex. I guarantee it’s not about you. It sounds like they are teens and you need to get some hobbies (edited for typos)
You wrote this four years ago. What is the current status of your relationships with your children? Did you learn something better, and did things get better because you did better? Still a work in progress, perhaps? The variables that our children are exposed to, whether it be the way mom or a teacher or the world at large chose to interact, makes it hard to guarantee a positive outcome. But I hope you found a good way to wiggle out of your fears and crazy emotions to find that you were not losing them afterall. But either way, if you see this comment, I feel you and would benefit to know what four years of life has brought.
This woman is Awesome.
Love her!!
Wow! very powerful, insightful, and motivational speaker! love her and her wiggle;)
Great, great, great! Love the wiggle thought. Going to implement. Thank you.
touche! excellent talk. thanks
Bravo Janine...I loved this...so insightful,and enjoyable...and I learned some new things...and I might just incorporate that wiggle in my life...thank you!!!
Amazing!
This is awesome
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Love it.....I'm down for a little wiggling. I may look silly but my 6 year old will get a laugh.
You are so amazing!🙏
You are Awesome Janine!!!
I love your wiggling miracle!!!
Thank you Janine! Love this wiggle idea! ;)
Fun lady! Great perspective. And, yes, I will try the wiggle.
brilliant
Fantastic! I really needed this today! I hope you feel the love and the hope too : )
YOU GO GIRL!!🥳💖💖👏👏👏😘
Or knowing what produces love to release the area and the impact of the message to the death of feeling angry to the pain only one impact on the addicted theory is that Spirit of the love of God is so good to hear from the time we get together inside and know how believing God in faith and trust in the inner strength in doing the things never did before
Love this gal!
I absolutely love her , funny and smart as well being a good hearted woman, God based , knowing God’s so important, God Bless you @Janine 🦋✝️🦋
LOVE! I so so get this.
Wonderful and I love you and your mommas wiggle♡♡
Amazing
What a concept ...
4:29 YAH me too. I lost my' dignity' in front of oakdale elementary. That's a regret I live with.
I'm quickly becoming a fan
I love her
She's a hoot. Wish I knew about the wiggle when my dad was alive...
:45 dude! I knew when from another video she said "wicked" I KNEW!
I just got up and wiggled a little bit! Janine, you're awesome!
Wiggle 😍 I sooo dearly needed to hear that
wiggle, sister, wiggle!
Thank you.
Your mother's wiggle is beautiful.
“Bra-ER” rescue... lol 😂... I love it
OMG! You are knowledgeable and hilarious.
14:19 I am going to try wriggling when I'm pissed off.
You can't wiggle all the time
@@madsubhash that is why I game (video gamer) better than drug addiction, helps with anger, and nobody dies...except for that one guy...smoking
Ohhhhhh I love dat wiggle!
Janine is so inspiring!
ty i forgave !!!!
Yup. I need to wiggle more.
Absolutely love it! Let me wiggle!!!
I wonder if perhaps we ‘assess’ more than ‘judge’? Im seeing assessment as due diligence, perhaps the word judgement has recently come to mean something like absolute righteous declaration?
So Janine, when someone says they have "decided" to.... it's no definitive; when someone uses an "ly" word push them to get what you want; "because" it the right action to take to improve your life and the life of other.
Checkmate, my friend 😂
😊 Lovely - this made me think of my dear mum who had a similar journey. 'Wiggle on'
Ahhhh ❤️
She’s right about us making judgements all the time, but being judgmental has more of a connotative implication of being condemning.
My girls do the wiggle!!
Isn’t this the FBI body language how to spot a liar TEDtalk lady ?
yes
Pamela Meyer, who wrote Liespotting, has a TedTalk as well
She lost a lot of weight!!
My channel fbi body language
@@erinmarquis6626 I think she was pregnant then or just before and just after with her 2 youngest boys.
36 billion moving pattern behaviors? No way. Impossible to count them in a lifetime, much less examine them all. Luv the wiggle, tho!
Got me at the wiggle, Janine.
Then you pulled out the hammer with that video of your mom.
I will NEVER, EVER forget the WIGGLE.