The Cooperation Paradigm: How to Get People to Listen & Cooperate | Janine Driver | TEDxWilmington

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  • čas přidán 4. 10. 2017
  • In this talk Janine discusses strategies to gain agreement and cooperation with others - even in difficult situations. JANINE DRIVER is the CEO of the Body Language Institute,
    the NY Times Best-Selling author of YOU SAY MORE THAN
    YOU THINK, an international trainer, an award-winning
    keynote speaker, and a retired ATF Investigator.
    Janine attained rank #1 in the «Inspiration» category in the
    World’s Top 30 Body Language Professionals for 2017. In
    2015, Janine was named one of the top twenty educational
    trendsetters in the meetings industry by Meetings Today
    Magazine. Janine is a popular media guest on NBC’s
    TODAY, Harry Connick Jr›s show called HARRY, Steve Harvey
    Show, CNN Morning Show,and more. She has been quoted
    in publications, such as the New York Times, the Washington
    Post, and Cosmopolitan.
    Janine›s corporate clients include companies such as
    Proctor & Gamble, Lockheed Martin, ADP, KRONOS,
    Charles Schwab, Prudential, Remax, and YPO. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 143

  • @thinkoutsidetherock
    @thinkoutsidetherock Před 4 lety +57

    you are an amazing speaker. I can't believe I never heard you before - April 5, 2020 is the day I discovered Janine Driver. This is the fifth of your videos I have watched and you leave me in tears, cheers, and YES! I love your passion and your sensitivity.

    • @MindsetMom
      @MindsetMom Před 3 lety

      Same here. First time seeing her. I'm addicted. Watching Dec 2020.

    • @denasellsKC
      @denasellsKC Před 3 lety

      Ikr I just found her an hour ago. This is my 3rd video that I've found of hers. She is an excellent teacher and speaker.

    • @annaayoub551
      @annaayoub551 Před rokem

      Found her yesterday. Made me cry in every video. What an amazing woman!

  • @alabamajenny8751
    @alabamajenny8751 Před 4 lety +16

    I wish I had a TED talk with Janine every single day. I am just in awe of her relatability. She was created to lead. Thank you Janine. You are the real MVP!

  • @suneelewitzky6797
    @suneelewitzky6797 Před 13 dny

    A mama in tears over here. Thank you for this and for sharing your stories. I am going to try this with my kiddos.

  • @dbroenen
    @dbroenen Před 4 lety +104

    Janine, the Like button is not good enough for this talk. I wish there was a LOVE button to click for you!

  • @RudeBwoyKaban
    @RudeBwoyKaban Před 3 lety +5

    your passion is captivating
    ✓ I'm cooperative 100%
    Love & Gratitude
    Thank you 🕉️

  • @jocelynstewart1186
    @jocelynstewart1186 Před 3 lety +4

    thank you for being my teacher. a blessing to us all.......

  • @nourhanahhamdy1425
    @nourhanahhamdy1425 Před 4 lety +43

    i have just seen the body language video in 2019 n now i am tracing the rest of ur series without even noticing their topics !! Janine Driver is my new incredible name on my idols list !

    • @leah387
      @leah387 Před 11 měsíci

      Same. We just want MORE, Janine!!!

    • @leah387
      @leah387 Před 11 měsíci

      Even in 2022

  • @QCDoggies
    @QCDoggies Před 4 lety +21

    Janine's techniques are incredible, I'm watching all of them! Now I want to check out her books.

  • @alabamajenny8751
    @alabamajenny8751 Před 4 lety +2

    Ive actually spoken on phone with Jim Kavanaugh when I worked at our local police dept in Hoover AL. He is a superhero. But then, so are you Janine!

  • @babybloo1818
    @babybloo1818 Před 4 lety +40

    Janine is incredible! She's one of the best speakers I've ever seen! Thank you so much for this video!

  • @debfebruary
    @debfebruary Před 3 lety +5

    Janine, you have a wonderful gift. You've taught us so much and I'm so grateful to you. Your emotion is your truth about what is most important. Thank you.

  • @leslibonanni6124
    @leslibonanni6124 Před 3 lety +4

    Janine, I am obsessed with your videos! You deliver messages that are truly life changing, wise, authentic, and with just the right amount of humor to make it all fun to learn! What a gift to the world you are. Thank you immensely.

  • @miachevaisav2285
    @miachevaisav2285 Před 4 lety +4

    One of, if not the best, talks I've ever heard.

  • @lisafeck1537
    @lisafeck1537 Před 4 lety +6

    I really like Janine Driver. I've watched 3 of her Ted talks, all good.

  • @kellybarnes9434
    @kellybarnes9434 Před 4 lety +15

    BEAUTIFUL! Thank you, Ms. Driver! I've only just "found" you today and am already A HUGE fan! Thanks so much!

  • @drummermomcjs
    @drummermomcjs Před 3 lety +12

    Thank you Janine for sharing this. Having watched several Ted talks featuring you, I must say that I appreciate this one the most. All of your talks are great, and useful, but as a mother I appreciate this one the most. I want to speak words that bring life to people, not fear, anger and sadness. I am eager to put the wisdom that you shared in this video to use with the people around me and no longer assign traits that I abhor but rather assign traits that build them up. Once again thank you for sharing.

  • @nspector
    @nspector Před 5 lety +6

    Holy cow, Janine. I don't know if you look at these comments, since this isn't on your channel, but, damn, I'm glad I found you. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

  • @latinkeys1
    @latinkeys1 Před 3 lety +2

    Incredibly awesome

  • @chybrennafitch-minton7291

    Very good lesson!

  • @digitalheartistry8018
    @digitalheartistry8018 Před 3 lety +1

    Janine is Brilliant.

  • @digitalheartistry8018
    @digitalheartistry8018 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you.

  • @chcamerica22
    @chcamerica22 Před 4 lety +7

    Beautiful presentation, Janine, you are a smart intuitive woman and I thank you for sharing your wisdom. The answer to your unasked question is YES, you prevented many of us from going down a destructive path by showing us how to make intelligent choices. Job well done.

  • @rememberyj
    @rememberyj Před 5 lety +8

    so i have of course watched this again because its so awesome and i need repetition to integrate...and i had a thought. Angus didnt think you were mean on thanksgiving. which is beautiful. it also makes me think about how when we talk negatively to our kids they absorb it so easily they dont even remember it as trauma or abuse. omg big ah ha. we teach out kids what negative comments about them to accept as normal and believe.. :-( yikes thats huge. thanks SOOOO much for shifting my paradygm.

  • @florakoutouzakis9615
    @florakoutouzakis9615 Před 4 lety +2

    I LOVE hearing you!

  • @emiliana1767
    @emiliana1767 Před 5 lety +14

    How can you grip me emotionally within a second janine?! I instantly cried when you did, i felt your regret so much. And learned A LOT! thank you so much dear 🙏

    • @miachevaisav2285
      @miachevaisav2285 Před 4 lety +1

      Ditto

    • @dudelmicha
      @dudelmicha Před 3 lety +2

      Yes, me too. It just triggered me instantly, burst in tears, made me searching in the comments for likewise people. I believe in you as a great mom!

  • @barbievallot9146
    @barbievallot9146 Před 4 lety +7

    Best Ted Talk Ever! Thank You!

  • @yavrum22
    @yavrum22 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you 🙏

  • @gnuman1841
    @gnuman1841 Před 3 lety +3

    This talk, and Janine herself, is an amazing lesson/speaker and an amazing paradigm/communicator to learn from.

  • @michelleglowala2360
    @michelleglowala2360 Před 4 lety +2

    Janine. You are a phenomenal leader and teacher. I just discovered your talks and I will look to purchase your books. Amazing.

  • @cintremblay9795
    @cintremblay9795 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you, you have no idea what you just unlocked for me. xxx

  • @CrystalNibarger
    @CrystalNibarger Před 2 lety

    Someone in my life needs to watch this.

  • @rememberyj
    @rememberyj Před 5 lety +22

    holy shite!! this is incredible. i cant thank you enought for sharing this. this should be taught to all new parents. should be a requirement. thanks you so much.

  • @asabove_sobelow_333
    @asabove_sobelow_333 Před 4 lety +3

    What a Great talk. Thank you for your transparency & love.

  • @hydro58
    @hydro58 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you! This is a great life lesson. Thanks for your time and effort.

  • @jenniferhizzy6591
    @jenniferhizzy6591 Před 4 lety +3

    I love this lady

  • @scootydub
    @scootydub Před 4 lety +3

    This was fantastic!

  • @musicfanmic
    @musicfanmic Před 5 lety +17

    Beautiful Brilliant Bold. Thank you Janine! Thank you so much!

  • @ItsaShortLyfe
    @ItsaShortLyfe Před rokem

    Jeanne Driver is a powerhouse. She provides people with the tools needed to navigate tough situations. Though I cannot promise you that you will WIN every time. I CAN PROMISE that you will be a better version of yourself. More aware, stronger, faster version of whoever you were before Jeanne blessed you!

  • @kathleenreyes4345
    @kathleenreyes4345 Před 4 lety +8

    Just beautiful Janine! Thank you for this talk!!

  • @leahdamron2176
    @leahdamron2176 Před 4 lety +3

    Damn it, I'm sick of this lady making me cry. The best ted talk EVER!

    • @annajeanblackburn240
      @annajeanblackburn240 Před 3 lety

      I just found this yesterday and again right now...and am already awed. Do you happen to know What the T.E.D. stands for ?

  • @sherikennedy4117
    @sherikennedy4117 Před 3 lety +1

    you are fabulous.

  • @DrSantiagoHolyday
    @DrSantiagoHolyday Před 3 lety +2

    unbelievable! Amazing talk! I teared up and I never cry!

  • @prepperjonpnw6482
    @prepperjonpnw6482 Před 4 lety +3

    Another awesome video!
    This is the third video of yours I’ve watched all in a row lol
    Yes I’m about to search for more of your videos lol
    Cheers

  • @greatape2522
    @greatape2522 Před 3 lety +3

    Incredible! That really opened my eyes, thank you so much.

  • @staciwalters2065
    @staciwalters2065 Před 6 lety +7

    I was in the audience that day and Janine is amazing! You will laugh, cry and learn so much from her talks!

  • @jenina247
    @jenina247 Před 4 lety +3

    This is phenomenal!

  • @vickydittfield9822
    @vickydittfield9822 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for inspiring me ! Phenomenal is the way to describe your gifts. I want to view everything you have written and spoken !I have a Solike Angus, too! He is my favorite of the gifts of life !

  • @user-bo7wc8jo8x
    @user-bo7wc8jo8x Před měsícem

    ❤❤ amazing speaker- useful for business or home ❤

  • @JacquelynnFaye
    @JacquelynnFaye Před 10 měsíci

    I needed this. 😭❤❤❤❤

  • @mike-yp1uk
    @mike-yp1uk Před 10 měsíci

    I'm a big fan of Janine and she detects lies but she definitely speaks the truth. This content is so true

  • @adefay7813
    @adefay7813 Před 3 lety +3

    TED talks has made a significant impact in my life. I can't express my gratitude for the things I've learnt . Thank you so much.

  • @sabinewk625
    @sabinewk625 Před 4 měsíci

    🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼thank you !!

  • @dorothybailey1789
    @dorothybailey1789 Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for your talks Janine. You are a very inspiring speaker

  • @FuckingGodess
    @FuckingGodess Před 3 lety +1

    Janine I love you I get what you're doing you need to get our attention and all I understand you know how to create pathos bur srsly some of us are very sensitive and it's just too much. and again, love you.

  • @pieterlast4864
    @pieterlast4864 Před 4 lety +3

    Wow Wow. You brought tears to my eyes. LOVE you. AWESOME job.

  • @jenniferrumsey9887
    @jenniferrumsey9887 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish this was taught to DCS workers.

  • @theblackroe8832
    @theblackroe8832 Před 3 lety +2

    I love you jeanine

  • @theresagarcia6699
    @theresagarcia6699 Před 10 měsíci

    God bless you Janine I appreciate all you share with us 💕

  • @beyourselfbekind4371
    @beyourselfbekind4371 Před 3 lety +1

    How and what!! Only questions to ask. Forget the why!

  • @sunflower-mr5nj
    @sunflower-mr5nj Před 5 lety +7

    amazing!

  • @ClearlyHinze
    @ClearlyHinze Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! You are an amazing speaker. I was moved and gained so much wisdom at the same time. Thank you so much for sharing yourself and what you know. It's helping me so much.

  • @kathywinkler9802
    @kathywinkler9802 Před 5 lety +2

    Well done!! ........... I will remember this.......

  • @toniques7
    @toniques7 Před 4 lety +1

    She’s awesome! What she says is very practical and easy to use.

  • @carolinepuno8788
    @carolinepuno8788 Před 2 lety

    You're darn good, Janine! Your mundane exchanges with your son are loaded with lessons to learn from a mom like me. Thank you.

  • @wondafaith8621
    @wondafaith8621 Před 4 lety +1

    Love your realness! Thank you.

  • @ozdigg9254
    @ozdigg9254 Před 11 měsíci

    Brilliant, thank you. Allow What and How, Say Bye to Why. Assign a positive trait to them. The real life situations you illustrate your talk with are very helpful. Thank you for your emotional honesty, Janine. All peace and strength to you. ❤ 🌹🌹🌹

  • @danareed2729
    @danareed2729 Před 5 lety +5

    I absolutely loved your talk.

  • @MRS.SammeK
    @MRS.SammeK Před 3 lety

    Beyond wisdom. Parents are not perfect and love always matters. You are doing amazing. Doing it through anxiety. I did it the sand way. Thank you for pointing it out. These boys are amazing! They aren’t the norm! Sounds like my boy!

  • @shaniroga
    @shaniroga Před 4 lety +1

    I Love, Love, Listening to this Lovely Woman!

  • @barbierimando8133
    @barbierimando8133 Před 5 lety +2

    thank you for sharing this video...i needed this...i just said things to my son this morning that I totally regret right now..i have to make it up to him when I will pick him up from school this afternoon keeping in mind what Janine said...

  • @2muchtalk173
    @2muchtalk173 Před 2 lety

    Great Talk !! Love you Janine !!

  • @araratqarachatani3806
    @araratqarachatani3806 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you

  • @innerpeaceproject
    @innerpeaceproject Před 5 lety +3

    Wow! Awesome presentation and valuable information.

  • @writerinfact1768
    @writerinfact1768 Před 6 lety +8

    Just wow! Thank you.

  • @samantharimmer6270
    @samantharimmer6270 Před 3 lety +1

    good video

  • @StasherDragon
    @StasherDragon Před 4 lety

    Didn't expect the feels!

  • @spbtch
    @spbtch Před 3 lety

    I LOVE this woman!!!

  • @pattymackey5467
    @pattymackey5467 Před 2 lety

    Wow this is so good, thank you Janine!

  • @yeame1033
    @yeame1033 Před 3 lety

    so relatable and easy to understand, you make us live your moments. Thank you for sharing,you are truly inspirational!

  • @christineh4782
    @christineh4782 Před 3 lety +1

    💗💝💖💓💕👍 Janine Driver is fantastic! Wish I could her a question.

    • @TheRealJanineDriver
      @TheRealJanineDriver Před 3 lety +1

      Janine here, what's your question?

    • @christineh4782
      @christineh4782 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TheRealJanineDriver I don't remember. You may have already answered it. I watched this video again. You are excellent at your job. Glad I found you. Lots to learn from you.

  • @ouafieddinenaciri3783
    @ouafieddinenaciri3783 Před 5 lety +1

    Nice and Great Talk .. Thank you so much Janine

  • @pattyoreilly1097
    @pattyoreilly1097 Před 6 lety +4

    Amazing ... wish I heard this presentation years ago!

  • @kyleneeley9200
    @kyleneeley9200 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you so much

  • @mittenkitten89
    @mittenkitten89 Před 2 lety

    Amazing

  • @Marked992
    @Marked992 Před 2 lety

    Just brilliant

  • @alexisbarlow5148
    @alexisbarlow5148 Před 3 lety

    I love this!!

  • @magma9138
    @magma9138 Před 4 lety

    EXCEPTIONAL!

  • @moniquemurphy4851
    @moniquemurphy4851 Před 4 lety

    You are awesome!

  • @AragonaAlessandro
    @AragonaAlessandro Před rokem

    Gosh ..she made me crazy again 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😘

  • @transformationaltalkshub

    credible talk.

  • @joycereese6731
    @joycereese6731 Před 2 lety

    Tears

  • @transamsteve1
    @transamsteve1 Před 4 lety

    Great points. Will definitely keep in mind in the future. Don’t think the emotion was authentic.

  • @chrisjones2625
    @chrisjones2625 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow

  • @jameslipke354
    @jameslipke354 Před rokem

    Wow. Just Wow! That's all I've got.🤯 ❤
    ~ APRIL LIPKE

  • @cecilsingh970
    @cecilsingh970 Před 3 lety

    you are the rebirth of god. thanks. I have a 4 yrss old autism son and I get too uptight

  • @brendashenda4249
    @brendashenda4249 Před 4 lety +1

    holy. wow.

  • @exposingunconditionalselfl8731

    Is that what the basis to hypnosis to get control over a person or does it work the same?

  • @carlin5409
    @carlin5409 Před rokem

    Wonder Woman!

  • @coenclunis721
    @coenclunis721 Před 6 lety

    Can anyone tell me how she made that powerpoint? What program was that from?

  • @Steve-uw4un
    @Steve-uw4un Před 4 měsíci

    Great job. Call next time in town. I'll show you some chicken houses and Little Debbie cakes being made. lol