Fat acceptance TikTok cringe compilation | "All people that have lost weight are insecure!"
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Marissa just refuses to understand that telling people to STFU is the worst way to get people on your side.
she is repelling others from being on her side tbh.
Marissa also has the most annoying shrill voice too ugh
Why is Marissa so bitter? 🤷🤷
@@bcdl7961 on some level, she realizes that she's got nothing else to offer the world except her bloviating nonsense, she's an internet laughing stock who will never recover from the damage she's done to herself in exchange for some fleeting social media "fame," and her life is essentially over while she's still in her early 20s. That would make me bitter, too. That she has only herself to blame just intensifies the bitterness.
@@johnjamele lmao
I'm a pastry chef and the zucchini or sweet potato brownies I've made are literally the most decadent and delicious ones. I find it so strange that the nutritionist considered baked goods with fresh ingredients in them somehow more "gross" than ones with processed sugar
what? How absurd
I actually don’t like regular brownies…but zucchini brownies? Damn. So rich and delicious.
100% this,I lost almost 25 pounds (about 11 kilos) in a few months with changing my diet and exercising daily and my perception of sweets now compared to back then when I used to emotionally eat is insane. Sweets and highly processed foods almost completely lost their addictiveness when my body got a taste of what healthy food or at least healthier food alternatives are like. There has been countless times where even now when I'm feeling especially shitty I physically won't binge because it just doesn't taste like it used to
Beetroot is also good in baked goods
How can you say this and not drop a recipe??
The personal trainer seems to forget that BED is also an eating disorder. Telling a person like me that I should eat the full fat full sugar brownie is just as dangerous as telling an anorexic person to skip on the sweets.
PREACH!!! With my BED, sometimes I still binge on healthy food but it’s way better controlled if I significantly limit the amount of processed food I eat.
thank you !!! they all think that they’re so smart but it comes off as really ignorant 😒
She treats her "recovery" from an ED like other people treat "finding Jesus." It's turned her into a preachy virtue-signaling loon determined to encourage other people to embrace their unhealthy habits.
Exactly. I feel bad that she had an eating disorder, but as a health professional (or whatever she calls herself) she should understand that hers is not the *only* eating disorder.
Yes, i have an food addiction
Its a spectrum everyone else is different
For example i need a lil bit candy once a day so i dont start binging. (Like one cookie)
Telling me its okay to eat more would just cause that i would eat 50 of them and then vomit to eat more
Thats ed Reality and they cant deal with it
As an ex-fat I can say, hating myself never led to weightloss. I lost weight after a healthscare caused in part by my weight. The change was born from self love. I loved myself enough to want to live a better life. I wanted to give myself a better life.
It was surprising too, because it was far more self love than I've ever thought I could possess.
And now as a 'dreaded ex-fat' I feel like I have been freed from Plato's cave, obligated to go back and at least attempt to aid my fellow man.
Yep, exactly this. Throughout my adolescent and college years, I always wanted to lose weight, but I was never in the right emotional state to do so. I was the designated fat friend in my friend group growing up, and I went to a college that took body shaming to the extreme. I never wanted to lose weight in order to please those people. Nor did I want to lose weight to please any potential partners. When I started my weight loss journey in January 2021, it all came from a place of self-love, because all I knew that I was deserving of a healthy, and full life. After my first year in my fitness journey, I have become a lot more secure in my body, because I can now listen to it through movement and exercise, along with nutrition. If I have excessive sugar in one day, like, let’s say a day at Disneyland, I’m going to feel crappy. I’d rather watch what I eat and listen to how my body responds instead of partaking in gluttony and excusing it as “loving your body”
I absolutely love the last sentence.
Same
Same here.
The "nutritionist" should learn that the vegetables and legumes she seem to hate are actually "carbs": they are good healthy carbs, full of fiber, vitamins and minerals that do our body good and actually taste good to those of us who know how to prepare them and are not completely addicted to processed crap.
Honestly, at least if she made the "decadent" brownie from scratch I could understand, but mixing some powder with liquids and claiming it's somehow superior to homemade black bean brownies? Yeah, no.
exactly, i'm vegan and I live for my veggies, and I'm at a point that i crave for real food, because i know how to make it taste good hehehe
You speak from my soul! Thank you!
I also do not get why people think(especially the ones who should know these on a professional level) that healthy foods are not tasty. They are literally the tastiest because they also give you what you need! Also who calls the amazing sweet potato "gross"? Did she even tried it before?
I would take a sweet potato or black bean brownie over a regular one any day!
I know it's 2 years later, and Funtie doesn't even post anymore, but this! I love legumes, and hate ultra-processed food because I moved to Turkey, where they eat a Mediterranean diet by default, and there wasnt much prepackaged stuff. Even canned beans were expensive. But now that I'm back in th states, I can't stand ultra-processed food, it tastes so gross. If they would give their taste buds a break and eat real food for a while, they'd probably start to lose some weight naturally. They would obviously have to exercise as well, but they act like those of us who eat food like that only do it because we are afraid of being fat, and not that we actually like real, whole food, smdh.
I don't get triggered easy but that person saying former fat people hate themselves got me triggered af. As a former fat person who went from 113kg/250lb to 80kg/177lb I did it because of love. Love for myself. Because I knew that I would feel happier and healthier than ever when I lost that weight and that's exactly what happened. Discrediting our genuine effort that we did just because you can't make the same effort? Like I don't care if ur fat or not but my god these people are disguisting only because of their personality.
Good job, i’m glad ur happier now!
Exactly like it takes so much hard work and self control. These people just downplay other people’s successes cuz deep down they know they’re ruining their body but they love comfort of food more than health
Yes! As a former fat person too I completely agree and feel your frustration. Went from 170lbs to 110lbs
120 to 80kg is a lot of hard work, well done
Same story here. I was 300+ lbs and looked and felt like shit. Lost 125 pounds and quality of life is beyond words better
why is that last chick SO pissed off qbout people enjoying substituted ingredient recipes?? the anger she holds towards lettuce wraps is mind boggling ... they're delicious and refreshing
No kidding. She probably was this judgy about other people's food before her ED recovery, just in the opposite direction.
Lettuce wraps are my favorite healthy thing to eat🤤
Lol
I love how you added “they’re delicious and refreshing” yeah sometimes on a hot day you just want a salad. You don’t have to be dang angry about it! 😂
It’s the implication that there’s JUST NO WAY anyone actually *enjoys* healthy food. If you’re eating a salad you’re ~suffering to be thin~. Y’all, I just like vegetables. 😂
Thin sliced smoked Turkey wrapped in spinach leaf with a bit of horseradish is freaking AMAZING.
The person complaining about their pants was honestly just funny to me. I’m at a healthy weight and I have this exact problem. You know why? I have an hourglass figure and I need a tight belt to make sure my pants don’t fall off my waist. It’s annoying, sure, but it’s not a fat people problem.
i have the same issue with trousers that have double the amount of belt loops than her jeans did.
Have you tried curvy fit jeans? They have about a 13in difference between waist and hip vs the standard 10in difference iirc. The only ones I’ve seen were pretty expensive though sadly
PZI jeans are pretty good, you can find them cheaper on ebay, but not cheap. I found these belts on Amazon that help, elastic and buttons around the first belt loops. Holds up without a bulky belt buckle.
Same with my pants. Without a good belt, they slide. Potentially off, which could be embarrassing. They're a pair of 34 pants, so this is not a fat person's problem.
Funny thing is, I have the opposite problem. My waist is big compared to my hips and legs which are very thin. Lol, what does this lady want? For people like me to not have access to clothes?
The girl in the belt video, knows that normal people have the same problem with jeans right?
I was about to say that! I am a size small/medium and i always need a belt! I have too big difference between my hips and my waist. My booty is also kinda big so i have to get the bigger size, which will be too wide for my waist.
Jeans are hard for everyone to find 💀
I have to deal with terrible gapping at the back and things fitting one part of my body but not another
The thing is these women are so rude when women deal with these things
I saw a video of a woman using that shoelace trick to fix the gapping on her jeans and someone commented "imagine being thin enough a shoelace could fit around your waist"
Like??
They act to disrespectful to women and their everyday problems just because "they're oppressed"
No, just no
@@arbitrary_raspberry Same. for a period of time I just switched to mens jeans and just had a belt. I would have worn a belt with woman's jeans and the pockets are incredible. I still wear them when I want jean pants.
Apparently they don’t understand that anyone whose body isn’t, like, completely straight up and down can encounter that problem.
I'm thin ok? Like thin thin, and i have a pair of jeans that doesn't fit me because my legs are muscled. They are really tight on me. So let me guess, if a person with thinner legs than me can wear my jeans perfectly, he's privileged..
So in other words it's not MY problem that I cannot wear MY jeans, it's someone else's..
Or I don't know.. it's not like that I'm working out and somehow it's my choice to have bigger legs? No that can't be it.. it's too simple!
They seem to think we *have* to care about their problems, we don't. We have our own lives and our own struggles
Exactly. Here's how a conversation between me and Marissa would go:
Marissa: "If you really CARE about fatphobia and the problems of fat oppression..."
Me: "I don't, though."
@@johnjamele exactly smh
The funny part they say "body positivity" and shame the shit out of people who are skinner than them.
Literal hypocrisy.
This. I worry about my stuff first. Then, in society, the plight of the homeless. Healthcare in the US. Worrying about that petty self-inflicted crap is so far down my list it's not even scheduled for alternate Thursdays during a blue moon's eclipse.
“They have killed themselves to look like a certain ideal” it’s literally so weird to use these words to describe someone who lost weight to better their health. You can clearly tell how mad they are at the people who abandon their community and their ideology
yeah thats really fucking weird how they act like being thin automatically means they're starving.
Some of these people are weirdly under the impression that to lose weight you need to be eating 900 cal, exercising every day, and obsessing over fitness. They refused to acknowledge that there are simple small things you can change about your life that contribute to very healthy and consistent weight loss
it's ironic.
@@BubbleMousey It's because they want to believe losing weight is impossible and trying to = eating disorder.
And not everyone is striving for an ideal. I'm midway in my own weightloss and there isn't an ideal body at the end. I just want to hit a healthy weight. I started at 270 (220 now) and between that and 3 pregnancies that caused some skin problems I'm not getting a 'beach body' at the end. But that's not the point.
Guess what Marissa, and every other person featured in this video? I don't care about fat peoples experiences! I live in a country where children beg for food on the streets, where women are more likely to be raped than learn to read, where half our population lives in poverty. I really couldn't care less. There are people actually suffering from real oppression and you expect us to worry about you because your life is difficult? No, you're totally right. We need to focus on your issues in society.
A middle class White Women in a first world country with rights and proper education. It hurts, I know. Obeseity is the result of poor lifestyle choices. If they made better choices, they wouldn't be obese. 'Systematic oppression' of something that is changable If you take care of your body. Most people aren't saying to starve yourself or go on extreme diets. Just eat proper foods, be active, and take care of yourself so you can live longer and better.
Imagine that? Oh, the horror!😱
Are you from india?
@@ettodhar6996 i was thinking of India too, and it’s really sad that such a beautiful country with a rich history has such a bad reputation especially with how it treats its female population…
Are you from south Africa
Imagine having the privilege to live in a modeen western country, chose to consume so many food to the point of being obese and then cry about being oppressed.. these women need a reality check.
i hate when they say that weight doesn’t determine health. i have a genetic heart condition and last year i was in the ER every night because my resting heart rate was 115 and i was having palpitations. they couldn’t figure out what was happening! i decided to lose weight and while i obviously still have the condition, now that i’m no longer obese/overweight i haven’t been affected by it. my cardiologist literally told me last month that she believes my weight was contributing to my condition being amplified. now that i’m a healthy weight i’m no longer feeling bad and my resting heart rate is now 60. being obese was leading me to have a heart attack at 16.
Great that you’re doing better! ❤️
That sounds scary, I’m so glad you’re doing better! ❤️❤️
damn, great you did that!! And you´re right, while obviously not all illnesses are triggered by being overweight, the vast majority is worsened by it
wow what a fantastic gift you gave yourself ❤ I cannot imagine being you in your doctor's office and hearing that your love and dedication to yourself actually reduced the effect your genetic condition was having on your life so drastically 👏💝 wonderful job 😀
“Weight does not equal health! Skinny people can be unhealthy too!”
Weight is a measurement of health. Just because society automatically assumes skinny people are healthy doesnt mean all of a sudden weight has nothing to do with health
I say skinny people are unhealthy look at egina coonie or however spell her name skin and bones and gray skin and has annorexia so very unhealthy
It's a house on fire vs a house with foundational issues. The foundational issues could be pretty serious, but it still wouldn't make the fire good or normal for the other house.
@@MelB868 eugenia is a extreme case, most skinny people arent like her so that's not really a good example 😅
"i dont care what people do with their body"
*proceeds to care about what people do to their body*
I’m not trying to sound rude but what do they benefit from being fat? I’m sorry but I just can’t find the purpose of it.
I feel that deep down they don't want to be fat but they have no clue about how to lose weight, instead of trying to change their habits so that they can live a better life, they have given up.
The popular ones like Tess Holliday, vergie tovar and sonalee whatever her last name is get money out of being fat and spewing this BS.
The rest get to feel less crappy because "it's not my fault" and "everyone is to blame for my problems but me", when in reality, they'd give anything to not be fat, as long as it's easy and fast and doesn't require any kind of effort.
@@mrslucininiz ikr if you'd offer them something that'd make them thin in a day they'd probably want it 💀💀💀💀💀
Because eating in proper portions is starvation to them. The idea of sacrificing some food while your stomach adjusts and shrinks to the proper amount of food you actually need is just too hard for them. 1200-1500 calories a day sounds small when all you eat is processed junk and fast foods. If you eat real food it's actually hard to get 1500 calories eating the right portions. For example I eat protein Greek yogurt and 2 eggs for breakfast. It's very filling 220 calories and a load of protein. I'm far from starving or having an eating disorder. The 1,000 calorie donuts for breakfast is just easier and so they eat it and then claim they don't eat that much you're just fatphobic. I am fatphobic lol. I've seen my mom struggle to walk in her 40's because of her weight. She had a walker, oxygen tank she carried around, and a ton of health issues. I am scared of becoming like that so I always watched my diet and took losing weight after my pregnancies seriously. There's nothing empowering about being house bound.
they get to distance themselves from their white privilege and claim to be oppressed like actual marginalized groups. which is baffling to me bc most of these ppl are white WOMEN like... they act like they don't have more pressing matters to advocate for as if the supreme court didn't just roll back women rights several decades mere months ago.
Marissa is a real charmer.
I highly doubt your heart (or any other organ in your body) cares about WHY you’re fat. Do they really think that the human body says, “Oh, this is genetic fat! Better not put them in an early grave!”?
right?? Like, some people are genetically predisposed to heart disease or alcoholism. Doesn’t mean they should just accept it and not try to take measures to prevent it fro happening to them. In fact, it’s the opposite; if you know you’re genetically predisposed to certain unhealthy conditions, you should be TWICE as vigilant in taking measures to avoid developing it!!
@@clared5812 I was. I see the doctor regularly and monitor my cholesterol, which, unsurprisingly, went sky-high in my twenties. Twenties. I started on a cholesterol drug just out of college.
@@BronzeDragon133 exactly. You’re doing something about it, even though it’s hard. Don’t just accept “genetics” as a reason to settle for an unhealthy life. I don’t understand these fat activists’ internal logic.
I don't believe it's genetic. If your whole family is fat and you are too it's probably because they taught you those bad eating habits. It's nature vs nurture.
That personal trainer scares me as someone who is looking into going into exercise and nutrition science. The food industry is killing us and laughing at us while they take our money and she's supporting it in the name of fat acceptance. I know she does anti restrictive eating disorder and posts to help that but she panders to fat acceptance
She isn't a trainer at all. She looks fit enough so she poses as one on the internet.
Honestly I think it’s to keep people who want to lose weight from getting healthy so she’ll always have more clients that continue to bust their asses working out but are being told to eat whatever they want so they never see results and continue to be in this weird cycle
@@MOET02 Thank you... I definitely got that from her.
@@Raya-ir4tm I'm not. I know it's the buyers responsibility. It is a fact that they're making food to be addictive which can add to that need to buy.
Does the girl in the pink top not understand that her pants are the wrong size and that's her problem 🤣
Also she acts as if only fat people have that problem, omg if I would make a tik tok everytime my pants don't fit me ... 🤦♀️
Also pants are straight out of hell 🤡 I swear pants shopping is the most stressful thing no matter what size someone is. Height, leg length, body shape, fat distribution, waist to hip ratio etc can influence how pants fit.
Exactly. The only reason her pants are not staying on her is because the pants are too small for her😹
She looks horrible lol I don’t even see how she’s comfortable like that
i guess if a diabetic person wants to eat that lettuce wrapped burger/taco/etc they're just ~afraid of carbs lmao
ngl that sounds good
Or maybe you just want it because white bread and crappy tortillas aren't good and lettuce at least has texture.
or gluten free people... i feel like these people dont ever realize that some of us HAVE to restrict some foods
@@sagemorgan7457 like the Demi froyo situation
@@The_Chef2511 lol yeah people can eat whatever they want. i think the boPo community is hypocritical for ignoring ppl w actual medical issues
“I refuse to hate myself into better health”.
That’s 300 level of accountability right there folks!
maybe people would listen to marissa if she wasn't so condescending when she speaks 🤷🏼♀
I think she tried that once and realized she didn't have an argument. The condescension started to cover the fact that, deep down, she realizes she makes absolutely no sense, no even to herself.
One about brownies forgot to mention that it's usually not the problem of what you eat, but how much you eat. I bet the piece shown in the video was the only one she actually ate, but for overweight people, it's impossible to have a small bit of a "real brownie" and leave the rest for the next few days. That's why low cal low carb recipes exist, for people who didn't learn self-control yet and will eat the whole pan in one sitting.
You're right, if I make a box of brownies I'll definitely eat half the batch in one day. With a healthier sugar free recipe I can eat more for less calories/sugar etc. Once I can control myself ill eat the real thing.
(Yea, Ghirardelli tastes delicious)
And recognizing binging as a problem???? NEVER!!!
It's against fat positivism rules to say eating too much is bad for you. And the only ED that exists is an*rexia. Don't you dare to mention BED.
NEVER EVER even imply that overeating is unhealthy or they'll send the fatphobia patrol to get your opressive and thin privileged butt.
But for real. She profits from keeping this people fat an unhealthy. She's capturing a demographic that'd normally stay away from trainers, nutritionists and the likes. They'll become either clients or at least followers. In any case, she makes money out of them.
it is what you eat too though. the science behind why processed foods are addictive is interesting. food companies literally pump millions of dollars into making their products as addicting as possible. that's why ppl say that when they cut all that crap food out of their diet, it becomes much less appetizing and even sickening to eat. its also why america specifically has such an obesity problem.
If you have to mourn the weight loss of some celeb you got a looooot more problems girl
When I was over 200 pounds I started to have health issues and a lot of pain. My cholesterol panel was out of control. When I got down to 150 I no longer needed to take medication to control it.
Being obese is a lifestyle choice because you can change your eating lifestyle by eating the foods that fuel the body and keep you satisfied longer.
Edit: Did you know that it is really hard to do chest compressions on a morbidly obese person compare to one who is not?
I'm trying to get down to that goal! 40 lbs down, 30 more to go. Even if I don't lose that much though, still much happier here.
@@lisahannah3175 That's Great!
I love myself which is why I lost weight. I lose weight, bc I don't want to suffer early stroke I'm in higher danger of bc of my weight. I lose weight, bc I don't want to be in pain anymore and I want to feel better about myself. Idk how these people exist in real life thinking everything is about them. If u want to stay obese, then please do
“I refuse to hate myself into better health” What?
Dude I can’t. You feel like you have to mourn someone you don’t even fucking no who didn’t even die? Omg, what?!?! Wtf do people like this do when bad things actually happen? How could they possibly handle actual life events if they’re this upset and freaked out by a celebrity they’ve never met who loses weight and is happy about it.
The "make better pants" girl is hilarious. You're seriously complaining that clothes aren't tailored specifically to *your* shape? How personalized do you expect a large clothing company to be?
If they tried to accommodate everyone, they would end up with 10 different variations at each size. And people like her probably *still* wouldn't be satisfied because the price would reflect that level of personalization.
Pants are hard to make in the first place and the bigger you are, the harder your shape is to predict. She's equating one of the physical realities of being -fat- a human in a mass-production culture with a personal attack. Seriously, what planet is she living on?
Right! Everyone has a hard time with pants! Every womans body is shaped differently even if just slightly and thats women at average weights..once you start adding additional fat it gets even more varried as stated in the video fat distribution is different for everyone. How the hell are off the rack/ready made clothing manufacturers supposed to produce your exact measurments? If anyone wants perfect fitting clothes they can make them themselves or get them tailored.
That is exactly why sometimes I get my clothes altered. Can't blame the company, but it is also not a lost cause either... lol
Go get your pants fitted by a tailor lol
The personal trainer reminds me of the bopo mom at my little sister's friend's birthday party that whisper yelled at me because I wouldn't accept her cake, but wouldn't listen when I tried to explain that I'm allergic to chocolate
That's ridiculous. On a personal note, my heart hurts for you. I think "allergic to chocolate" is a more inherently disadvantaged group 😆
some of these people remind me of when I was deep into my eating disorder, very underweight and deflected any kind of concern about my health and KNOWING i was slowly killing myself by malnutrition. it is easy to convince yourself you are healthy when you are mentally ill.
I haven't seen anyone say this so I wanted to mention that you have a really nice voice!
Thank you for providing this transformative content for us and I hope your 2022 is going well so far :)
9:12 the fat acceptance people don’t understand that some people have actual food restrictions that aren’t calorie based, like allergies, sugar related illnesses, etc. and it really makes them look worse
"it's a struggle finding cute clothes..." #firstworldprobs. How unaware can a person be to claim to be "oppressed" and post something like that?
I love that Marissa described confirmation bias in her Google Scholar searches.
I'm sick of people saying, "You can't tell someone's health by looking at them." If someone is morbidly obese, I can definitely tell just by looking, and I have to common sense to know that it's a health problem.
LOL to the brownie lady: sometimes people make substitutions when baking because it makes life easier. My go-to recipe is flourless avocado brownies because it’s homemade (not a fan of box brownies) and I can dump all the ingredients into one pot and mix.
I want that recipe 😄
Babe wake up, funtie time posted
How can people actually look at being healthy as 'self harm?' That is rude, disrespectful, and insensetive to those with actual self harm issues.
The "former fat people" one pissed me off , I obviously still struggle with body issues and insecurities but let's not bullshit. I feel so much fucking better since I lost the weight , I can move around more and not get winded - I just all around feel better in my body physically
Seriously. The most charitable interpretation I can imagine is that they've never lost weight so they don't know that it *really does* feel so much better.
Not emotionally or socially better (although those are both true) but much more physically comfortable. I think most of them suspect this though, and are just bitter.
The third girl is essentially using a purse strap as a belt, that thing around her waist is absurd lol.
The reason she has to do that with her belt is because those pants are pulled up so high
The fat acceptance/positivity people seem to not know what moderation means.. its always the two extremes with them. A very restrictive diet to eat whatever the hell you want as much as you want.. there is a middle ground y'know...
Of course they don't know. Most of them, if not all of them, have eating disorders. They overeat and the only way to "repent" that is a starving time. So they associate losing weight to starving. They talk like they never learned to eat healthy and from their beliefs and their taste in food (greasy, sweet, processed, salty) you can tell how their idea of nutrition looks like. If you weren't taught at home to eat a healthy breakfast, to drink water, to snack on fruit instead of crisps, you are not accustomed to the taste of fresh veggies, bread, dairy without added sugar and such. It would appeal untasty to you and a "diet culture" thought construct, not a way that real people eat! I don't live in the US and in a lot of countries processed food is plain expensive, people usually eat at home. And not fried chips and burgers, because cooking fats and meat is costy too. People in Eastern Europe eat mostly dark bread. People in India live mainly on veggies and dairy. It's hard to notice morbidly obese people in such communities. Overweight ok, but not 300 kgs
I hate when they say it’s about how much money you have and honestly you don’t need money to lose weight. I’m 21 and I work as a server at literally a dying restaurant and I don’t make that much but I still managed to lose weight. How? Why? Because I manage how much I eat like you can buy a bag of chips but count the calories and only eat the serving size it’s not hard. Plus there are plenty of apps out there to help you count calories. Like it’s easy you just have to put in the effort. But people like this don’t want to do that so 🤦♀️
People with money still have to limit food intake on their own. You can’t buy willpower
yeah, and walking outside is free. all of these people have phones... they can find any fitness videos that they want on youtube.
Broke af… lost 81lbs.
When you really want something, you go for it.
I agree that women as a whole have a trickier time in general with regards to clothing sizes. Once we start talking about those entering the obese range the wild differences between hourglass "thiccc" and "apple" shapes gets thrown off by an order of magnitude. I suppose we could argue for their being more size data available, but that's a slow process at best. We already know that there is a huge range variability between what one brand considers "medium" vs another so the naming doesn't seem to help, but imagine how "stigmatizing" they'd claim it would be to see numbers instead for those who can't deal with the scale going up and realizing the number on their clothes does in a more proportional parallel. GEOMETRY IS FATPHOBIC! Just like in the movie "War Games" the only way to win ... is not to play.
Yep, I’m 6’1 with a smaller waist and proportionate legs. So finding proper fitting jeans is a bit of a hassle but definitely a first world problem…
Bruh I have such wide hips and finding clothes that properly fit is the bane of my existence
The lady who says "People don't get my point". Well she didn't understand the critics of it. Rebel Wilson never "betrayed" the obese community since her whole speech is there is no age limit to improve yourself or be a better version of you. Weight loss is not only the numbers on a scale, it is a journey where you have to get rid of half your weight, half of you. You are learning about how your body works, what it hates, what it loves. You live in a different way, you eat different and not less in terms of amount. Rebel dealed with binge eating which is an eating disorder. You start working out and seeing it as a moment you give to yourself to cope with anxiety, anger, sadness, past demons, etc. When it is done properly, it is a therapy. In fact, you have to see a doctor then perhaps a psychiatrist if you are eating to kill yourself.
Then, she stated that weight loss wasn't the only way to be a better self. That could be knowledge for instance. For her it was her weight that prevented her at 40 to do things. But for a skinny person that could be his/her phobia. Rebel is not hating fat people, she tries to be supportive. And swimsuit pictures of herself : "My body my choice", right ?
The "nutritionist" is pissing me off. Does she not realize how varied diets plans can be? I eat sandwiches ALL THE TIME (mushroom sandwiches, chicken sandwiches, ham sandwiches, and most delightful, SALMON sandwiches, all of which have some sort of cheese on them too) and I am losing weight because I calorie count. I don't mind eating a lunch of smaller volume in exchange for eating the foods that are high in calories. Half of my daily calorie budget is fucking bread. Because I LOVE sandwiches.
On the other hand, I WILL eat baked fruit and different low calorie desserts instead of full fat rich chocolate fudge brownies, because I don't LIKE brownies as much as I love sandwiches, and I can't have both. So I pick the one high calorie option I want to keep, and I compromise on the other. (Which isn't even that much of a compromise, much like the person that made the video rich chocolate desserts tend to make me feel bad physically).
I still have chocolate and lemon candies on my restricted calorie diet. I just don't have MUCH chocolate or MANY lemon candies on my diet. It's a matter of choosing what you will eat.
7:46 Uhhhh speaking from personal experience, once you start eating less sugar, full-sugar sweets become WAY too sweet. If I eat a black bean brownie with avocado-based chocolate mousse topping, it’s because that genuinely sounds better to me 🤷🏻 Getting some major Virgie Tovar vibes from this one..
I’m allergic to avocados
My biggest beef with Virgie Tovar is that in her "eat cake" video she features a store bought, margarine instead of butter, water instead of milk, sugar bar instead of chocolate, cake. It looked like shit and sugar water and she was like "it's so rich" rich in your bullshit maybe.
@@MelB868 Lol ok...? I was talking about what I like to eat. You get to eat what _you_ like to eat.
@@stefanmakara373 HAH you're spot on. It really did look like one of those cakes you regret 3 seconds later, because it wasn't worth the eating ;P
I think I have Marissa-phobia. 😭
what's more BODY POSITIVE then doing everything you can to keep your body in working order? these chicks are insane. :/
Lettuce wraps are banging 🤬 lol okay I’m done now
Like, I understand most of the health arguments because it can be true (since all bodies are different), but what about your joints? Do they really think all that weight won't affect their knees? My dad busted his knee and had to lose weight so that he could walk without feeling pain.
That was the trigger for me. My left knee was already borked, it hurt. Constantly. Losing fifty pounds got rid of 95% of the pain. And the pain in my left ankle, which was trying to compensate, and couldn't.
I went from potentially needing a knee replacement in my fifties to...not needing a knee replacement in my fifites. At least not right now. I'd call that a win.
Marissa is INSUFFERABLE. the way she co-opts language from things like the racial justice moment makes me want to pull my hair out. I’m gay, I’m Black, and I’ve been fat. NOTHING nothing I experienced when I was at a weight where people treated me differently because of it could ever compare to the genuine discrimination I’ve experienced in my life. Yes, this is an anecdote, but I know what reality and my reality are.
I am disabled and I would sacrifice a LOT to have my 100% healthy body back again. And it cannot happen. I compensate the issues, I do what I can and still, Gosh, most of these tiktokers are young and seemingly middle class people who have cash and possibilities to lose weight. They can get thinner. I can't get healthier. People of color can't become white. LGBT people cannot become straight. You can live happily with all that, but let's be honest, the inconveniences caused by being fat is not systematic oppression and not a condition you have to bear till the end of your days.
As someone that used to weight 78kg and has been losing weight for 4-5 months, I have been losing weight because I LOVE MYSELF. I loved myself enough to see that gaining 2-3kg each year is unhealthy and that I should change, that I needed to move more (because I never over-ate, I just didn’t move enough). Saying I lost weight because I hated myself is truly hurtful. Cause if I truly hated myself, I would’ve let myself go from overweight to obese.
I have to also tuck my pants back into my belt and I’m a size 8 with a bigger butt than my waist lol. It’s not about making better jeans. There are TOO MANY body shapes to make and produce that many different types of pants. The solution is to buy a size up and either learn the skill of tailoring or pay to have them tailored so that they fit you perfectly. Shopping for shit clothing at fast fashion slave shops and then complaining that they don’t fit is so gross. The children and pregnant women who are making next to no money and working in factories with barely any light do not and should not give any fucks about your body size, the way pants look on you or you gluttony. Being over weight, shopping for the perfect jeans, and ranting about it on the internet is probably the most first world problem crap that you can do. So bizarre the way these people think. Like just beyond selfish
The Queen is back and she has spoken Ladies and Gentleman!!!! Love the video, as always and your clapbacks are on point!!!
I have such a big problem with them wanting more access to things because the way they want access is by taking away access from actual disabled people
I hate how these fat acceptance people act as if losing weight is torture. Thinking it was too hard because of diet culture and these type of people was what kept me from losing weight. Luckily I found out losing weight was pretty easy with callorie counting. I never felt like I was punishing myself when I was losing weight. I was actually enjoying myself trying different types of food and sports. Some health problems have definitely improved with weightloss. I was obese but still much smaller than most of these ladies. You can't tell me they have no problems at all. Most likely they are either in denial or they don't notice. I knew certain pains weren't normal because I could compare myself to when I was a healthy size. If you've always been fat it's harder to notice what's normal. I'm so much happier now that I'm a healthy size and I don't have these health problems anymore.
same i am losing weight the same way. its so much easier.
9:30 - um… some people don’t eat the bread because of allergies! I don’t even eat gluten free bread because I’m also allergic to ingredients typically added to gluten-free products. Some people just don’t enjoy being super bloated from a single sandwich. 🤷🏼♀️
Exactly I have celiac so eating bread for a sandwich isn't an option especially bc gluten free bread is crappy and expensive so lettuce is cheaper and a good option
I, too, have difficulty finding pants that fit correctly. Gave up being bitter about it and instead busted out my sewing machine.
Whoever said s lettuce wrap was a sandwich? It's always been a type of wrap 🤷♀️.
it's literally in the name too.. lettuce W R A P
That lady telling my fat ass to eat a regular brownie clearly has no respect for the people who legitimately want to cut ties with foods like that, weight focus or no. Like... how am I hurting anyone by wanting healthier alternatives to my fave desserts? It's not like I'm shoving my chickpea peanut butter cookies down her throat and yelling at her when she says she prefers regular lol. I just want to have my guilty pleasure foods not spiral me so hard into thinking I'm a terrible person when I eat anything other than veggies, fruits, or pure proteins. Jesus Lord.
It's amazing how much time some of these people spend on TikTok screaming about how happy and well-adjusted they are, and how pleased with their lives they are. It doesn't seem like the sort of behaviour one normally assonates with happy people.
Love watching these after school. Makes me want to pick up a book
i have watched all of your videos in the span of 24 hours,, 😭 i love them
Letteuce wraps are actually so good. With some lean meat, vegetables of your choice, and etc. It's a good meal to eat all at once. Healthy too.
I feel like some people just don't understand that thinks taste different to different people
that lettuce sandwich looked so tasty. why waste my energy eating bread when i could just eat the ingredients? tasty and healthy.
Because bread is delicious
@@MelB868 yeah i can agree with that
Not so hot take: lose weight and u wont be "oppressed"
How dare you!
don't tell em noah XD
lettuce wraps can be made deliciously, even more so than a sandwich. maybe they need to learn some cooking skills.
Losing weight feels good.
I have to admit these people are my motivation.
A sweet potato brownie sounds delicious. Might just look up a recipe.
I love this chanel. Very calm and on point responses
I lost 20 pounds since October and honestly I feel so amazing
And sweet potato sound really good in brownies honestly
lets go the queen has posted again!
i love these please keep these vids coming
Thanks for putting in that the brownie advice was good advice for restrictive EDs. Many people look at that content and think it is good for no one.
I am absolutely digging your content!
I genuinely like the lettuce wrapped sandwiches,tacos, and burgers more than the bread topped one. Sometimes bread isn’t preferred but other times it is. I don’t understand why it’s always seen as tricking yourself into eating less carb/ healthier.
8:45 thankyou for bringing this up omg when i was in my early teens i was surrounded by rED recovery media and developed BED because of how "normalized" and glorified eating excessive nutrient dense food was.
"im oppressed because im fat" no you arent.
Yessss about the black bean brownie point. I love lettuce wrapped burgers because then I taste burger not bun and honestly that much bread leaves me a bit bloaty feeling. It’s not about calories or fat; it’s about what I like, but asking for a lettuce wrap or making one and people are all like “are you on a diet? Are you gluten free?”
im back for yet another minute by minute rebuttal to people who will never see it:
0:00 the worst way to get people on your side is to start with p!ssy venomous lectures. if you treat others like decent human beings, you will get like treatment. youre not oppressed, you just refuse to take responsibility for what you CAN change.
0:28 i used to be fat, so i know how it is, but you have to take responsibility for your actions. i didnt have to educate myself on fAt pH0BiA, as i was not insecure about my weight. instead i educated myself on diet, nutrition, calories, and metabolism, and fixed my problems. good mindset, concern for my future, and wanting to improve my poor aesthetic enabled the change.
1:31 we can tell you have an eating disorder, its called "overeating"
1:56 no one said fat makes you bad. your character; how you treat others, how you handle conflict, your conduct, your disciplinary habits, your strength, are traits that define how people receive you.
1:59 yes it will make your life easier. you will spend less money as you cut calories, and you will move faster, be lighter, be fitter, be stronger, and feel very, very good. you might even attract a date; you dont have long until your eggs dry up, so get serious now or lose your chances forever. life will be a lot harder as a single elderly woman with severely aching joints without grandchildren, if you live that long. your attitude is most unattractive, all said.
2:06 yeah you will definitely stay on SELF love tiktok, cause no one will want you in the future. being fat with a bad attitude is doubly unattractive, a horrible, self-disrespecting way to be.
girl at 3:00 i agree. im all for creative solutions. we all need comfortable clothes that fit.
4:20 its cheaper to lose weight than it is to keep eating your current volume. you don't need gym access or trainers. you just need to look up cardio videos on YT and do that lol. nobody is turning on the fat community, if anything they are acting as role models, inspiring others to burn fat. you are an ideologue.
6:10 you get trolled because your wimpy, unattractive attitude attracts it, but not everyone commenting is a troll. some are people who used to be fat know what it takes to get fit and they recognize their former weakness in you and have overcome it. nobody is suggesting to hate yourself, they are saying to RESPECT yourself by getting to a healthier weight, but your emotions are so out of whack that you misinterpret everyone as mean bullies.
i lost weight because i saw i was on the road to a heart attack, stroke, or a crippled future if i didnt get my act together now while i was still relatively healthy. early death motivated me to be better. i love myself too much to die young and in a miserable way.
7:44 i have real brownies all the time. i just have them within a calorie budget. a whole brownie pan within one day wont cause weight gain if within that budget, granted it will be the only thing consumed if not accompanied by exercise. i agree that if youre going to have a brownie, have the real thing lol. (not saying this is healthy, just my personal preference)
.3:08 my mama always needed to add elastic to my jeand cuz there was not pear shape bottoms, and when i got new ones i would use one belt until mama was able to put elastic. Being bottom heavy but upper body small is a struggle, but nowadays I only use leggings and man sweatpants. lol
My least favorite thing in these videos, which is truly an award, is when those people say stuff like, "stop kidding yourself, "healthy" food is nasty and you'd way rather be having a cookie or two right now" cause even though I know what they say has no effect on me, it feels so demanding and rude. If you want me to listen to fat bodies and fatphobia, then please stop telling me that me wanting to eat a salad is lying to myself. Whether or not I've got deep seeded issues, please stop pretending that you are the only one who matters. It give me real presidential debate vibes. they'd definitely interrupt you about their latest fight against fatphobia while you're trying to say something like getting in Harvard
Well they could never get into Harvard themselves because of fatphobia.
Healthy food tastes not good to some ppl because all they eat is junk. Junk food is addictive. If they eat healthy food for long time they won't really crave junk anymore and actually like the taste of healthy real foods😘
That supposed fitness trainer saying how that wasn’t a sandwich and “just eat the carbs”…lady, I wish I could! I love bread and carbs but they make me feel horrible. They mess up my stomach so bad and I bloat like a balloon that I much rather eat the lettuce wraps. It’s not fat-phobia or calorie phobia…it’s necessary for some of us. 🙄
That British/Indian trainer woman is the WORST.
The more and more I see Marissa, the more I think she is an angry woman.
She's so smug and self righteous. Ugh.
I more think angry young teen in a 20 something body.
Agreed. I think that by the time Marissa is 40 (if she lives that long), she’s going to be looking back at her young self and doing a majestic facepalm.
@@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
That or she'll become the next Chantal Marie.
She's clearly very unhappy within herself. No happy, content person acts like her
Hi, new sub here🤗 Once a month my husband and I go to the city to grocery shop and I get a large Arby's curly fries. They do make me feel a bit ill afterwards but they're effing DELICIOUS, so once a month is quite enough. I can't imagine eating that way daily. Also, that Marissa person is very off-putting. Thanks for the video and I hope you're having a lovely day❤️❤️❤️
Ok, let's say that weight doesn't equate healthy... but that's only really applicable to people that have more muscle mass than fat mass. But even then, and I'm pretty sure this has been pointed out already, don't muscular people still have to consider the weight on their joints??? Weight is still a factor to health. Am I trippin'????
Still waiting to see a video that's actually body positive or positive at all.
The problem is that THEYRE NOT STOPPING AT ONE BROWNIE. One brownie is a perfectly “not so nutritious” but oh so delicious treat. Unfortunately, most people don’t stop at ONE brownie.
I also have issues with pants that fit my waist and my butt, my hips are wide for my frame they always have been even when I was a size 0 I still had frhe same issue. Curvy fit jeans have made this better but I still have issues with this and I'm a size 8-10 now , I grew muscle and gained weight on purpose because previously I did under eat and over exercise and i was unhealthy and I realized that and changed but the same issues with jeans still persist lol.
Lol, the girl complaining about how her jeans and belt don’t fit her perfectly. I’m short and a size range of 00-2 and learned to sew because nothing EVER fits right. No matter what size you are, it’s extremely rare to find clothes that fit you perfectly right out the gate. And especially if you’re on the size range extremes, like being extremely small like me, or extremely big like her, it is a massive benefit to learn/have some very basic sewing skills so you can make minor alterations to clothes that are *almost* perfect. Sewing is not as hard as it seems, you just have to be willing to try. It would be an incredibly easy fix for her to just add some more belt loops. She could probably even do it by hand, no sewing machine required. Just rip up an old pair of jeans or jean jacket or something that doesn’t fit anymore, cut some strips, and sew them on where you need some extra support. If these people spent even a fraction of the time they do complaining and victimizing themselves, working to find solutions to their problems, they wouldn’t have so much to be so angry about all the time! Why choose to be miserable when there are quick and simple solutions to these things?
I love videos like this, nothing motivates me to hit the gym more 😂💪
Anyone else watch these videos while working out? Literally the best motivation.
I get my steps in while watching these videos.
"thats just a hand held salad" wowie, got me where. its the same vein as "no matter what you call it, its still a diet", the statement has no effect if you don't care about dieting
they dont want people to comment on thier food and lifestyle, but feel open to talk down to others. yes its good for people who have restrictive eating pasts, but dont attack the people who just dont want a 1300 cal burger with a side of fries for a meal. i cant eat much sugar and live a peascatarian diet for medical and religious reasons respectively, i dont eat super greasy oily foods because i feel terrible during and after. i need those "diet" foods and alternatives, so many people eat this way without intending to loose weight
i love when groups try and claim celebrities into their community despite said celeb never indicating they wanted to be a part of it. the lgbt community does this a lot too. guy who dresses a certain way...must be bi. like adele and rebel wilson never claimed to be some fat activist, so why did you think they were "on your side". just let them live. much like you want people to do to you
And here I was just t looking for something to watch as a mental break at work~