"Being obese is HEALTHY!" | Fat acceptance Tik Tok cringe
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00:00 Intro
00:27 Splotchmaker hates skinny women
7:12 Misinformation about health
19:17 Her definition of fatphobia
37:25 Dating preferences
45:02 Cult Indoctrination into fat activism
55:49 Outro
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edit: that video of her putting makeup on where she looks orange was color-corrected. I put a blanket filter on all the clips, and that one happened to turn really orange.
I have to agree that drop dead gorgeous thin people kind of don't belong in the body positivity movement. Of course they love their body, how can they not?
Are you saying that it's impossible for thin people to not love their bodies?
@@funtietimes it's not impossible but there is a difference between not liking the shape of your boobs or having acne and being mistreated all your life because you are fat.
@@tabbyreed8925 That's an assumption, a really unfair one. Just because others find you "drop dead gorgeous" doesn't mean you do. A lot of the people in this movement are very attractive and if not for their terrible personalities, many would be able to recognize it. That doesn't change how they see themselves or the grueling work they may have to go through to accept themselves and love themselves.
Thinner people having similar struggles don't get disqualified from being body positive WITH the community just because a faction of that community is jealous of them or feels insecure because of their existence and proximity. That's not right.
28:05 you didn't finish this thought, but I'm going to assume you were going to say some people who were shamed for just being who they were try to regain their power and control by being like Splotch and aggressively contouring facts to fit their new self-worth/importance narrative or something like that. You'd have said it better but that was the vibe I was getting.
Putting this here too in case you don't see it and wanna finish the thought 💚
She has the privilege to go to college and eat copious amounts of food, yet she has the audacity to call herself oppressed...
I'm glad someone said it.
and she trashes the family that pays for all of it while she slouches around bitching about her life.
That's obese privilege, friend.
Yeah and does she have a job? I never seen her mention one..
@@hoppybird6_ have you ever watched my 600 pound life? So many have no jobs but eat all day and I can’t imagine how they afford it
The funny thing is, even though she keeps saying 'thin people' she actually means thin women. Im 99% sure if some tall athletic guy for some reason wanted to date her, she would not say a word about him being a ' diet culture slave' XD
She doesn't even mean thin. It is never even really thin people. It is always a woman that can fit in a medium size in a store. No athletic women with odd shapes. Just the ones with a BMI of 22-25, with an average height. It is never about borderline underweight women that can't find clothes or comfy chairs either.
@@MissMoontree And honestly it is thin attractive women. Not thin plain women, not thin women who are ugly. Just a very specific type of femininity that IN MEDIA is presented as having certain privileges. But it honestly doesn't work the way they think it does.
Why do women hate each other so much?
youre hitting the nail right on the head. Leah reeks of insecurity and has to convince herself and everyone around her that its not her own fault, but SUHCIETEEE comandeered by thin people.
One of her videos says "Could I pull my high school crush at 23?" And it's Robert Pattinson 🤣 nah girl batman ain't trying to break the struts on the batmobile
Leah will never hate skinny women as much as she hates herself.
💥FACT💥
And may I just say to you all, thank you for calling her Leah and not Splotchmaker. Every time I hear the name Splotchmaker, it makes me think that she’s describing her feces. And I don’t want to think about Leah’s feces. Or anybody’s really…
@@BeckBeckGo I always considered a sign that she hated her own complexion. She is, after all, constantly applying pancake makeup to it.
@@BeckBeckGo I never realized that until now
@@BeckBeckGo Eeeewww...yuck🤮😂
I use to struggle a lot with being gay as a kid which (long story short) lead to many self harm scars, particularly on my thighs. During my early twenties I tried to join a body positivity movement to help me overcome my fear of shorts/showing off my scars. I took one photo of my thighs and was asked to remove the photo because I was "showing off" how thin my thighs were and making people feel uncomfortable. Almost 30 now and the embarrassment of having the balls to take a photo of my scars just to be shut down in the body positive movement will still pop into my head in the middle of the night. Them be a mean group I tell you what.
I'm so sorry for that experience.
Sorry that happened to you :(
Jeez, I'm sorry. That's not body positivity at all. Really shows how horrible these people can be.
Wow I’m not surprised that they did that how rude and disrespectful is that! Sorry it still affects u but just know they are fat and they are dumb and rude so their opinion doesn’t really matter at all.. also I have self harm scars and I ended up getting tattoos over the really bad ones and it helped so much to cover them up.
That's what the body positivity movement was supposed to be for but they overtook it and now anybody who isnt obese doesn't deserve confidence according to them it's fucking disgusting.
Highest weight: 307 lbs
Current weight: 185 lbs
I have never felt better. All my pain is gone, I sleep better, and don't get out of breath going up 4 steps. The "fat positive" movement is literally killing people.
Congrats!! That's incredible
5'6" 140lb 19 year old male here and I still get out of breath, I seriously need to build up some endurance strength. It's sad haha
Incredibly impressive, hearing stories like yours keeps me inspired!
Thank you everyone 💓
@@dallyh.2960 5'6" 18y/o girl at 113 lbs and i get out of breath too lmao i need to eat better
She's going to HATE it when she's in her 30s & 40s and every part of her body hurts.
Even sooner-- the pain of being overweight had already got me in my late 20s. It was awful.
Yeah, one side of my family is obese and they were all active and living normal lives in their 20s and even 30s. Once their 40s hit, every single one developed some type of chronic illness as well as mobility problems. Then it becomes a downward spiral where it's hard to lose weight even if you wanted to because you're too immobile to exercise or even shop for healthy foods on your own, it becomes a lot more appealing to rely on takeout. Also, most of them died in their 60's while the thin side of my family died in their 80's or 90's. It's really sad. Wanting the people you love to avoid this fate is the opposite of hateful.
@@katiemueller4978 I’m 21 and I got pretty fat my first year at college. I was in so much pain and my knees were constantly swollen and aching, they felt like they were getting shredded internally. I lost the weight that summer and poof, felt so much better. I still have chronic pain in my legs but I’ve always had that. My base pain is so much better when I’m not fat
Much sooner than that. Hopefully she realizes her health and well being matter more than owning the patriarchy
Oh no honey she's going to love it when her body has irreparable damage, because now she can claim the disabled oppression card 🤣🤣
How much yall wanna bet her family’s “violently fat-phobic” comments consists of “please lose weight we dont want to lose you” or “we don’t think you are healthy, this isnt okay.”
At least 80%...
Where can I bet this?
She does say she deleted comments about dying and health problems from obesity so yea probably.
She also has blamed white people men white men Republicans amd fat phobics as well as others for her issues. So yea all she does is blame others
100% guaranteed, she already admitted that stating basic facts is "fatphobic" to her so that's for sure.
@@fordshojoe8080 Victim complexes in a nutshell...
@AspireGMD they want to be so bad so they make up new ways for them to ve victims
"thin ppl are taking up too much space" I spat my tea out at that, the irony of an overweight person claiming that... dear lord...
Lol same, I was wondering if she is even capable of realizing the irony of that statement. If she was self aware she could be a great comedian.
fr I laughed so hard
Off topic but I thought body positivity was made to normalize insecurities and things that people are afraid to talk about?
@@Haya0_0 - The movement was originally for people who were born disabled or deformed or are crippled, disfigured or scarred due to illness, war, accidents or violence. Like injured war veterans, this black model with the skin condition, people born blind, with defects or down syndrom, survivers of cancer etc.
The movement was NOT about weight at all unless someone has a special medical condition which deforms the body. In other words: the movement was for those who have NO control over what is going on with their body and who shouldnot feel bad about themselves. And that is not what ED is about but the body positivity movement highjacked it.
@@Haya0_0- Edit: the body positivity movement got highjacked by the fat acceptance movement.
When she went on a rant about how she's "radical" and "leftist" while using makeup to try to make her face look slimmer, I busted out laughing.
@@rosiebobo9196 there is a belief that using cosmetics indicates you have bought into the beauty standards of the ruling class, or bourgeoisie. Socialists feel a woman’s beauty comes from the inside
@@rosiebobo9196 I guess it’s that it’s an expensive product that she doesn’t need, and is therefore a bourgeois thing to do? And she said she didn’t like capitalism.
@@rosiebobo9196 I think it’s because she’s claiming to be anti capitalist? Idk
And buying and consuming too much food is capitalist
@@Panda-cute I wasn't even commenting on that. It's that she's trying to make herself look THINNER than she is. How is that fat acceptance???
I work in vet med and this shit is actually starting to effect animals. People really think that telling the owner of a fat/morbidly obese pet is fat shaming and that an obese pet is cute, healthy, and more loved than a healthy weight pet. It’s ridiculous
People who really care about their pets would not let their animals suffer for their ideal image.
This is so so true. Overweight pet has ton more health problems then a person plus most owner won't pay the extra for those problems.
Poor pet has to suffer when it's totally owners fault. Just as abusive as straving your pet or forcing a dog or cat to go vegan. Total BS
I didn’t even think of this! But I absolutely understand! Like those crazies who try to make their dogs and cats vegan! This isn’t a huge reach! Wow wow wow!
@@sarahxb5051 dogs are fine vegan, cats are not. Two different species with different nutritional needs.
I work a guide dog and the joy my vet showed when I was the one to bring up that he'd gained 5 pounds during quarantine so we could work on it was disheartening. Even a little extra weight on an xl breed is enough to cause issues that affect their quality of life.
P.s. thank you for your work ❤️
Her whole explanation on how she became okay with being fat is the actual definition of confirmation bias and falling into an echo chamber.
My sister is very big into the fat acceptance movement. My entire family is overweight or obese, and growing up we were told that it was just genetics. After I moved over I started to think about what I was eating and limited calories and empty carbs to a healthy amount. Do you know what happened? I lost weight. I started exercising regularly, and I lost more. I've maintained a healthy 125 for the past five years and haven't gained the weight back at all. I feel better than I ever did and my sister constantly tells me that I'm too thin, that I'm not eating enough, and mocks me for "being anorexic." As if eating healthy is an eating disorder.
👍😁👌
My abusive egg donor did the same to me. I've been no contact with her for well over ten years but it wouldn't surprise me if she has since jumped all over this movement 🙄
first, huge grats, it's not easy to escape a toxic family that indoctrinated you with, basically, an eating disorder. You nailed it on the head, they act as if A) not eating anything you want when you want it in the amount you want it or more is a restrictive ED and B) act like overconsumptive EDs utterly do not exist and that binging is normal human behavior.
Obviously these are totally insane.
In my opinion body positivity is for anyone with a body. Just because someone is fit or thin doesn’t mean they don’t have insecurities. And saying that someone’s personal insecurities about their own bodies are invalid because of their size is just mean and makes the problem worst
this!! i've always been tiny and relatively attractive, but i'm insecure about some of my features, i'm insecure about how much i eat (i forget to eat, likely due to my mental conditions), and i'm also hyper sensitive to all touch. my body may be "desirable" but living in it isn't a painless or perfect experience just because i'm skinny or pretty or whatever. it's disheartening & sickening when i see people tell folks like me that they shouldn't be allowed to feel bad for their struggles just because they look a certain way on the outside. i hope ppl like the girl talked about in the video learn to be better... and that body size isn't a competition
I have a body 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽 can I join?
Yes! And she talks about other people "taking up too much space" in the movement. Yet they spend all their time complaining about spaces being too small. How big is the body positivity space supposed to be?
In my book, it should be big enough for everyone on the planet.
"on the planet"
Oh yes, and any aliens who want to join, too.
that's really what it should be.
so clearly she is just jealous of skinny women..
Yup, that’s the crux of the matter. It’s just jealousy disguised as a “movement”
@Isabella J then claims oppression when nobody will date her but fetish people lol
She absolutely wants everyone to be fat so she doesn't feel like she's competing for attention lool
I’m jealous of skinny people and I’m not even all that fat. Maybe 15 lbs overweight. I’m jealous of super fit people, I’m jealous of super attractive people, smart people, . It’s normal. Should I start a channel saying fat, ugly, stupid people are oppressed ?
100%
As someone who recently lost 50 lbs. Yes, I am fatphobic, I absolutely fear becoming fat again. My pain levels were so high and energy levels were so low. Really didn't even realize it until I lost weight.
any tips? 😭 im trying to from 160 to 110 (im kinda short so 110 is normal for my height) but sometimes i feel like going on a binge.
@@Dymino honestly I tried several times this time what has been the most success and feels easiest to maintain is eat less. I still eat anything. Just less of it. I also do a lot of cardio but the diet has definitely been the bigger part of it.
@@Dyminoget rid of sugar completely, sugar is the leading factor in obesity, eat twice a day then switch to once and drink tons and tons of water you won’t feel hungry more than twice a day at all.
It's not a phobia if it's rational
"Not having access to 'cute' clothes isn't oppression" I'm sorry but I fuckin lost it there lmfaoooo
I think someone needs to tell her “thin” and “average/healthy size” are not interchangeable
this is a problem that seems to be very common in FA spaces… they don’t seem to grasp the differences between the women they simply generalize as “thin”. to them, anyone who isn’t 40+ lbs overweight is thin.
Well statistically “average” is overweight now.
it's because to them anyone without present risk of heart failure is skinny
For real. To this woman even class 1 obesity would probably be "thin".
I'm 5'2 110 ibs. I'm "thin" qnd I hate it. I spend my life sick and feeling weak on my feet. I can barely hold myself up and my body is degrading. what privilege does she think I have? the privilege to go to a doctor and a specialist and all sorts of shit every month or so because I'm basically dying? or am I privileged because doctors tell me I need to gain weight or die instead of lose weight or die?
I’ve said it before I’ll say it again. The fat acceptance community shares many traits with the manosphere and incels. Especially resentment, insecurity and delusional behavior
and also lots and lots of entitlement!! especially in the dating scene. ex: "no woman wants to date me because they're all sluts" "no one wants to date me because they're fatphobic" (when in both cases even if they were super conventionally attractive or whatever, with a personality and mindset like that they still wouldn't be able to find a partner..)
They mirror each other perfectly and it is scary
Right
the people who take advice from guys like fresh and fit. Have never been laid
And just want am excuse for being a incel
The intel’s and the fatcels should date each other. It’s who they deserve.😂
Todays socictey works as such: Feelings>Facts
As a redhead, I felt a lot of hostility behind that "or they could be a redhead.. ew." 😂 I love it
i love redhead 😊
We should really start a new body positivity movement that's for everyone, for people with scars, acne, disabilities, hair loss, fat and thin and very thin people. I needed body positivity the most when my BMI was 13.
Thats what body positivity should be! but unfortunately its practically just fat acceptance now.
I’m at the point I’m just going to force my skinny, scarred ass into those spaces
Fun fact for anyone saying it's "fatphobic" not to date obese people like the woman in this video: during my first rounds of clinicals, nurses were advised to use peppermint on the inside of our masks while dealing with the hygiene of obese patients due to most having fungal and bacterial overgrowth within fat folds.
Want to know how it smells? A mix of feet and unwashed genitals. Like overwhelming smegma that made the whole room stink. Don't feel bad for not wanting that anywhere near you. The closest thing I can compare it to is the odor of absesses with that "bread like" consistancy when they're opened. But it's ALL THE TIME and in every fold EVERY SINGLE day.
Oh my God that sounds absolutely awful D: For the obese person and those around them. How do they not notice their own smell?
And just like that, I stopped eating my dinner 😫
@@tenebraequeene Habituation effect. The brain finally gets used to it. The brain of the fat person that is not those surrounding her/him. I know this cuz I had this problem too. Yeast infection is no fun.
Omggg there’s a girl in my class that kind of smells like that but dusty? I’ve literally i’ve only met homeless people smell like that its really sad.
i cannot even imagine the discomfort those infections cause… any kind of overgrowth of candida is incredibly itchy, and i know it’s common for the morbidly obese to develop yeast infections in their folds, and other hard-to-wash areas… good lord i could never be a nurse
The irony of them repeatedly saying that skinny people are “taking up space” 😭😭💀
Yeah I cracked up laughing at that line.
Splotch: ‘people don’t die from obesity’
Me, being traumatized by loosing my grandpa at 18 because he was morbidly obese and didn’t care for himself: 😳😳
Me: remembers how my grandpa had diabetes and remembered feeling awful for the dialysis and that he couldn’t move much because of his weight as well and didn’t get to spend too much time upstairs with us because of his mobility
Yeah if someone is morbidly obese they are going to die quick. My bmi is obese but not morbidly obese I want to lose some weight but I will probably live a long life like into my 80's.
Honestly, as someone who’s
dealt with eating disorders, seeing people who are on the thinner side who use body positivity to show how they don’t always look perfect and that they have rolls too when they slouch over has honestly been really helpful with accepting myself. Hell, just going through r/instagram vs real life has really helped me develop a more healthy view of myself. Seeing how having xyz things perceived as flaws is totally normal and not automatically ugly is great, idk why people get so upset about it.
Yeah, that’s similar to why I can’t stand seeing extremely overweight people talking about ED recovery. Like they’re allowed to talk about their struggles and they could be referring to like BED but every time I see it my brain’s just like “yep, that’s what happens when you recover/give it up.”
The issue with the university desks really bugged me. I am not even close to a size 26 (I’m a size 10), but I am left handed. VIRTUALLY NO UNIVERSITY DESK IS DESIGNED FOR A LEFT-HANDER. That means that taking notes on one of those awful right-handed desks is very challenging for me. I guess, by Leah’s logic, that universities just don’t want left-handed people to learn or to be included in the wider society. I guess I’ll have to whinge about it on TikTok and become an obnoxious activist for left-handed justice.
I’m with you. Justice for lefties lmao 😂
Actually, maybe that IS a reasonable social Justice movement…Liberation for the Left-Handed.
Haha spitting truth here though. I was a left handed child (became ambidextrous after breaking my left wrist as a kid) dexterity was a bit of a challenge in general when I was little. Scissors are the thing I remember sucking at. The kid scissors are all right handed, or all the ones I had anyway. But I learned some other things faster, because I could literally mirror people I was watching 🤑
Yes! I write left handed (I also bat/putt left and use a fork or spoon left; there are also a lot of things I do right handed such as using scissors and knives, throwing/dribbling, and playing instruments). As a kid, many of my teachers thought that since I write left-handed, that I must do everything left-handed.
My seminary had an inordinate number of left handed desks so I ended up having to use them. It made me realize how most of the world was set up for the dominate people. Which I figured was the point, to make us think of the underdog since Jesus was always reaching to the margins... or maybe they got them cheap lol. Either way I learned a little bit of your pain.
being mad about thigh gaps and skinny girls gaining popularity screams jealousy and I doubt she listened to a word the doctor said after she didn't give her lexapro
I got this really fat ex she has literally gained weight every year for 10 years. She was obsessed with having a thigh gap and she had massive hips so last time I saw her she was showing off her thigh gap. I didn't comment...
She also insisted men and women were the same literally. I actually had to explain that she was bigger than me but I'm much stronger... she proceeds to deny being bigger than me until I have to say I'm 180 and she was shocked. Like she actually thought I was bigger some how when I'm fit and she's massive
@@ld7207 How does she have a thigh gap if she’s that big?
@@kbiviano8390 she had massive hips and long legs she's like 5'9 so by touching her knees together in front of a window so a single beam of light can escape
@@kbiviano8390
Operation?
@@kbiviano8390 constantly spreading her legs duh
Omg I am underweight and couldn’t have surgery until I maintained 111lbs. It’s not only over weight people it’s any Unhealthy weight 🤦♀️
absolutely!! im currently recovering from an ED and basic things like moving and even sitting down cause me constant pain
@@maizym7549I wish you both the best on your recovery! You can do this!!
THIS
@@maizym7549thank you!!! Everything they talk about is exactly the same for underweight people but because we are thin we are privileged immediately
@@maizym7549yes. I have to sit down carefully bc if I'm careless I slam my tailbone into chairs and it hurts like hell.
This woman is trying to gaslight all of us. She's clearly miserable but telling us she's joyful
You never see anyone over 40 really supporting FA. These young obese people have the luxury of youth to thank for their lack of truly debilitating symptoms. You feel healthy now because you’re young. You don’t realize how fleeting that really is.
It's also because it seems like 75% of gen z want the world to revolve around them
Thats a great point. I had a over 500lb roommate that caught a cold and was dead in 3 days. It was shocking how fast her body gave up on her. She was 24 years old.
Oh yes. At age 54 I reached my highest weight 195lb ( 13st 13lbs for us in old Blighty) and my knees hurt,my nice clothes didn't fit and as I have a small frame it looked bad, really bad. Now down to 167 lbs and it took 7 YEARS. When I was in my thirties, losing 8 - 10 lbs was easy and the skin just went back to its former shape.......I now have a spare bicycle tyre around my hips/waist and that ain't never gonna disappear.....moral of this message, get the weight off while you're young. It's easier and you spring back to your normal shape.
@@iandennis7836 You got that right! I know we all see women that take care to moisturize their face while neglecting the neck.. Skin is unforgiving of age!!
righty!!!
She talks about being leftist is anti-capitalist (which I'm about as leftist as you can get) and says that diet culture and obesity epidemic is being pro capitalist. Yet she conveniently leaves out the fast food industry and how much money they bring in, how they use advertising and saturate our culture with the allure of fast food. Being obese, you overconsume and buy into the CAPITALIST mindset. I agree, the diet industry is bad and capitalistic but so is being obese, and eating from fast food chains and stores.
@@Raya-ir4tm this is so false and full of wrong information. We don't love capitalism 😂 that's the point. We are forced to live in capitalism because that's how the world is run, and it's destroying not only our planet but our mental well being and lives. People love to work, and it is blatantly untrue to say that "leftist don't like to work". I'm leftist and I enjoy working but for things other than monetary gain. To say or insinuate that that is the only motivation to work says ALLOT about the kind of person you are 😂😂😂
@@mushroomsandsidhe wdym you're "forced to live in capitalism" tho? I'm genuinely curious. Did steve jobs' ghost put a gun to your head for you to buy an apple product? Because that definitely feels like smth Marx would believe in (commodity fetishism, u know? lol). So, I suggest you pack your shit and move to Cuba, Venezuela, China... You're FREE to choose... unlike the Cubans. :(
I'm not even on the scale (could be because I'm not American, nor do i live somewhere with a democracy) but I could tell that was the case from a mile away
Facts. They always forget that the fast food industry dwarfs the diet industry by so much it's sickening
Yeah that whole bit was very "no true Scotsman"
It’s the hatred towards thin people for me. It’s rooted in jealousy. Let’s be real. I’ve been obese, I am currently thin. Losing weight is hard, it is not impossible! There is no shame in taking care of your body. If you’re happy being overweight, great, I’m happy for you. What I hold issues with is the health at every size movement. It’s dangerous. JUST as dangerous as the pro ana communities.
It's impossible when you've gotten a certain size and the damage becomes irreversible like that beautician who lost 400lbs yet still died from heart failure at 37.
I love the attitude of "most people gain the weight back so lets not even try to change ourselves but lets try to make everyone else bend to our will"
They're so confused about the concept of "If after weight loss, you go back to eating the way you did prior to weight loss, you'll gain the weight back...because that's why you were overweight in the first place" like...the lack of critical thinking skils is worrying.
You know, the first time I heard about body positivity, it was a story about a woman with chemical burns covering her body and most of her face (a result of a horrible relationship) She was speaking on how she finally decided that she would wear shorts and a short sleeved shirt outside and stop hiding herself. She learned to feel beautiful in her skin again even though it was scarred. THAT'S what the term used to be. Fat vs Skinny is some other drama...it's just literally got nothing to do with being body positive. It's sad that women like her in that story no longer have a 'hashtag' to feel part of ...really sad.
are you talking about katie piper??? bc if so, she is a horribly judgemental person, she hates alternative people and had a whole tv show trying to convince them not to have tattoos done because they'll 100% regret it. She is so self hating and its so obvious when you actually listen to things she says...
Thanks for covering misinfo… the “set point weight” and “everyone will gain back the weight” scare me. I don’t think they realise how damaging that could be to say, especially to those with restrictive eating disorders…
What kills me is they think calling thin people fat phobic is some kind of awful insult. It doesn’t bother me in the least. I’m so happy I’m fit and healthy and still look good in my 70s.
You are old
@@MelB868 Okay?
@@MelB868 And despite that she still looks better than you.
What I find funny is that guy who reacted to her and agreed with her was her boyfriend like she literally had her boyfriend react to her video just so she looked like she wasn't alone in her opinion when in reality it just proves the opposite and how stuck in her head she really is
Yessssss I came here to say this!!!
wait, really?! I hadn't looked that deep into that dude yet omg!
@@funtietimes oh yeah. It’s an added layer of needing validation for some BS and faking it
That makes the whole situation way more sad...
Yeah one other CZcamsr I watched made a video about the same person and more people looked into it and yeah that's what they found it
Just wanna put this out there:
When I was fat, nobody said a word about my body. But when I lost weight and got to the middle of the BMI scale for my height, almost all the fat women in the world seemed to decide it was open season on my body, my new eating habits, and my joy at really living life for the first time. I was criticized and given sniping comments constantly. And I swear I wasn't mean or ostentatious about anything. Like a group I was in was at a restaurant once, and one of the fat women in it gave me a side glare after I ordered my food. She sneered that *she* was going to have a club sandwich and fries... because she just couldn't LIVE without carbs, DON'T ya know. (I lost weight initially through Atkins, about 75 pounds, and I've kept it off for over 20 years now, and back then low-carb restaurant orders looked very out-of-the-ordinary. It was painfully obvious when someone in a restaurant was doing low-carb.) It was like that constantly.
Eventually, I figured out why all these fat women suddenly decided I was their worst enemy. But at the time, it really hurt my feelings. Without me saying a word or doing anything to these women I'd once called friends, just literally changing my diet and losing a shitload of weight without them involved at all, they acted like I'd attacked every self-belief that they held dear. In a lot of ways, I guess I had.
The same thing happened to me when I lost weight, I didn’t initially try to loose weight but when I realized how much better I felt I started purposely loosing weight. The only people who spoke about my weight negatively were my obese family members after I started loosing weight. They always comment on how fast I eat, how much I eat, how often I eat, how small my clothes are, how I dress, just everything about my life that’s changed due to my weight loss. Nobody ever said a word when I was inhaling three huge plates of food. Nobody said I word when I ate so much when I ate so much I couldn’t move and had to lay down for a few hours. I now feel uncomfortable to eat around people bc I’m scared they’re going to comment negatively on it. I’m working towards moving and getting away from them but yeah it sucks so much
@@sleepygrle6738 yea my grandma who's...overweight kept bringing me down about being too "skinny" but i didn't even felt skinny or looked skinny and made me feel worse into an ED. She does has insecurities..like she takes diet pills everyday.
@@sleepygrle6738 also it sucks for me to ever wanna get up and work out cuz i feel drained everyday and feel lazy due to having ADHD
@@midnxghtxx6390 same with me, I haven’t been diagnosed with adhd but I do have depression and my therapist thinks I might have adhd so I know how hard it is to even get out of bed
I'm Christian and I analyzed the situation simply as this: They willfully live in the sin of Gluttony, and like all other willful sinners, they want others to join in.
They don't want to feel guilty for anything they do or have done, so in turn, they put all of the feeling of guilt on YOU
Average weight of women in Africa: 133lbs. Average weight of women in Latin America: 149lbs. Average weight of women in North America: 177lbs.
I truly hate when they regurgitate stuff discussed by marginalized groups and swap it with the word fat. Literally, these are conversations, things that Black people have been discussing for years as it truly affects us and they want to equate it to something they can change. It's just a slap in the face.
Hey, just wanted to say I lost ten pounds this year! Went from 165 to 153! It may not seem like much to you, but it means a lot to me. I’ve never seen the scale go down or even be in the technically healthy weight. I’m just really proud of myself. I’m still working on being healthy, and I wish you all luck on being healthy
Congrats on the loss!
dude good job
That's a very healthy rate of weight-loss :)
Hell yea, congrats!!
Great job, proud of you!! I was over the recommended weight for my height and I ended up losing around 20 pounds and I’m still on that journey. Being healthy and wanting to be healthy is a great thing. (148-126 lbs)
This woman is so mad at the people who either work hard or naturally have a slim body. She's allowed to have preference but everyone HAS to think she's beautiful, desirable, etc. She has a warped way of thinking.
THISSSS.......
Yep 👏 toxic narcissism at its best
I actually got her to reply to me on TikTok and it was....special
@@jennythedancer So what did she say?
@@MeMyselfandI953 I need to know also!!!
As someone who is disabled, why would I be mad at someone who doesn't want to be disabled? It sucks.
I think fat activism all boils down to a denial of how bad their health currently is or will be if they continue to stay overweight.
My worst fear is having mobility issues later because of my back, which has a curve in it. Kinda hard to fix that. But if my problem was weight, I would be so motivated to not have problems with my joints later on.
This girl leaching off her parents and then insulting them and calling them fatphobic (presumably for encouraging their daughter to adopt healthy lifestyles) demonstrates how spoiled and narcissistic these brats are.
this woman is a legal adult. She needs to stop complaining and be out on her own. Her parents owe her NOTHING. Neither does society. Time to head out into the big bad world and make your own way, Splotchy. I give you five minutes before you realize that nobody is going to buy you a free ticket through life and collapse into a quivering bowl of jello.
damn john 😳
@@_6abyblue ye but he ain’t wrong 🤷🏻♀️
And hopefully she learn cico is real when she doesn't have money for food
And I have no idea what she meant by "violently fatphobic". Do her parents hit her if she doesn't lose weight??
Her parents need to sit her ass down at the threat of getting her ass tossed and watch some Tammy and have a come to meeting talk- "We will not wipe your ass or take your shit, you are on your own." I hope they have a friend that shows them her TikToks. They deserve to know.
I fucking HATE how this community reacted to that song. It was a thin (BLACK, which I emphasize because these people make such a point of equating fatphobia to racism, AND YET) woman who was literally just trying to be an ally out of the goodness of her heart, and they viciously attacked her for it because her wording wasn't to their liking (despite it OBVIOUSLY being well-intentioned and not meant to make fatness out to be a bad thing at all). Then she went back and APOLOGIZED and made new lyrics. I don't know what happened from there, but I feel really bad for the singer. That's what you get for trying to be a 'fat ally', I guess.
Plus, the 'worse' here was OBVIOUSLY intended to be a sarcastic dig on how society treats fat people badly- but like you said, absolutely NO comprehension of nuance here.
Lol you mean they didn’t listen to a Black woman?? In THIS movement?
Yeah this irritates me too because it's clearly using the word "worse" in that flippant/playful way people do sometimes. Like "You could do worse than (insert something obviously very good here)!"
@@TheZchristina97 Yep. Surprising, right? 🙄
@@AuralayKristine It just goes to show how few people engage in critical thinking or have the ability to recognize nuance these days. And this song wasn't even subtle about it. Maybe it's just being raised by two English majors, but this trend REALLY irks me. Like, everything longer/more complex than a 15 second TikTok video goes RIGHT the fuck over their heads.
I mean, I guess my humor IS pretty dry and like, 99% sarcasm, lol, so maybe I'm just more in tune to it than some people...? But I mean...come on.
You’re right, but then compare it to how many of the FA girls do TikToks to the Regina Spector song talking about how she has a perfect body because her eyelashes catch her sweat, considering Regina is an evil Thin. These girls are all over the place!
As a neurobiologist in the making I want to give people who need certain medications a few suggestions:
1. Most of medications for mental issues cause metabolism changes, most times they slow the metabolism. So you NEED a true doctor specialized in dieting and an endocrinologist;
2. You don’t necessarily need going to the gym to build a healthy lifestyle. You can find your own way to balance movement and your mental space (I hate gyms as well, I prefer working out alone);
3. Food regulations need to be stricter and updated;
4. If you’ve developed any ED or addiction to food bc of your parents’ issues or ignorance, you’re not lost and condemned to develop health issues: you can ask your physicians to be educated and guided.
Don’t lose hope for your future. None deserves to be bullied but you don’t own ANYONE your body and your way to take care of yourself. If you feel you have to change your lifestyle to get better, it’s your choice: don’t let some online movements brainwash you. Surround yourself with people you can relate to! We can change the food industry if we collaborate
FAT ! My kids, honest as they are, called me FAT ! I didn’t lecture them on why I’m healthy, attractive, . I listened to them, I lost 40lbs. Being FAT is a choice.
I am glad you listened to your kids and set a good example for them. And hopefully, you’ll be able to spend more time with them later in life this way 👍🏻
@@mikuhatsune184 things are going great, I lost a total of 53lbs. I’m at my ideal weight now. Feels nice.
That's really mean for them to make fun of you and fat shame you
@@MelB868 the truth isn’t shameful or mean. A fact is a fact and nothing else. I was 253 lbs. I’m down to 197 lbs. That’s a fact.
A big problem I have with most fat activists like this, the ones that are PAINFULLY transparent in their jealousy of thin people and their insecurities surrounding their bodies, is that they aren’t self aware. I was fat my entire life up until a few months ago. When I really started noticing my jealousy of thin people, I thought “hey, since I’ve been fat most of my life I was bullied a lot and my weight was a topic of conversation in my family. This has caused me to develop body image issues and jealously towards thin people who I believe have it easier then me. This is bad so I’m going to go talk to a therapist/professional to work through these issues instead of thinking all skinny people are out to get me.” These people who get sucked into the fat acceptance space, who start feeling these things instead think “all thin people are fatphobic and cannot understand the ~systemic fatphobia~ that exists. I’m discriminated against constantly by the THINS!”
I was a chubby preteen and teen with man boobs until I had my growth spurt in high school. Even then I was wearing pants that were my dad's size. Some years after I graduated from college, he mentioned that the first summer I came home from school, it was a big change and that I was really fit. I told him that I had no idea, asked why he didn't say something because I still thought I was fat. He being thin all his life and having to work hard to gain weight was shocked and thought I already knew.
It really pisses me off when the fat activists discount the work of formerly fat folks because it shines a light back on them that their situation isn't hopeless if they put in the work. It's been 6 years and counting since I was at my heaviest at almost 30% bodyfat. It wasn't fatphobia or medical bias that was making me feel lightheaded if I stood up too fast and feel way older than my biological age. It was my leaning into eating crappy food(part convenience, part coping) and not exercising. My doctor told me straight up, these stats are not good and given your family history, GET IT TOGETHER.
It wasn't the message I wanted at the time but it was the message I NEEDED.
@@Santiago-in1xf Saaaaame, but I'm a woman. I was painfully thin till my teens, when I developed emotional eating habits and blew up like a balloon in college. For years, though, nobody even said a word to me about obesity or its potential harmfulness. My doctor at the time literally saved my life, and every day I'm thankful he laid the hammer down on me like he did. I'm at a healthy weight now and thankful that I've kept that weight off for more than 20 years -- now that I'm older, I've developed very bad arthritis (probably from those obese years, yay), and I can't even imagine how much worse it'd be right now for me if I were still fat. Obesity makes everything so much worse.
@@astarryeyedgirl and if he said to lose weight to you today he’d get people trying to dox him 😒
I know so many people like this…… one time I got linked an article on how anyone wanting to lose weight is bc society is pressuring them to and not concepts of health or moving or feeling better like….. I just straight up said me losing a bunch of weight had shit all to do with others. Gotta stop making your personal progress about others opinions for ot to matter. I hope these people get out of this self loathing mindset because they just slather it in a fake body love butter lmao
That's how adults handle things. They look at the common denominator and get professional help if they need it. The woman in this vid is desperate to change anyone and everything but herself.
I remember when the body positivity movement started and the _entire premise_ was "we're happy in our own skin _despite the things we can't change_ " and now it's completely taken over by people who _can_ change (their weight) but refuse.
Somehow a very genuine movement got hijacked by insecure fatties and now gets used by them to make themselves feel better whilst putting others down :/ sad
so true danger days fan 💯💯
I had a bad heroin problem and i also have mental health issues, so with her logic i could've just kept at it, using her excuse. Unbelievable.
This girl looks like and strongly reminds me of the insanely narcissistic girl who bullied me for years. Same demeanour, same defaulting to a victim mindset whenever she faces criticism, same blaming other people for your problems. Crazy how that works out.
I hope, thin people will not stop making videos where they show their rolls because it honestly helps me soo much to feel better in my body. Also being reminded about that frequently is ,at least for me, quite important!
Same here and this women is such a miserable excuse. She's tryna make her body beauty standard ATP with way she's going.
Me too especially after having kids. All you see in the media is celebrities bouncing back immediately after a kid with no stretch marks and cellulite.
Body positivity is becoming so toxic. It's about showing things that are considered "unnatural" by society (stretch marks, cellulite, belly rolls, body hair, etc.) not about being obese. Also, not only women can join, men can too.
Also hate how these fat acceptance people are saying that thin people are "colonizing" this trend by making it about self-love. The entire point if the trend is self-love.
I know right? Girls and women want to see women of all body types. Not just perfectly thin or morbidly obese. We want to see also medium size women, women with stretch marks, or with freckles, or with small boobs but big butt,...
Nobody is perfect and we all are trying to live our lives the best way we can. But it feels good when we know that we are not the only one with some specific imperfection. I remember how much I complained about my arms and that they are not skinny. And then I watched The Big Bang Theory and noticed that Penny (who also works out) has arms just like me and I felt more self-confident.
Sameee like I’m well within a healthy weight range with over 10 lbs before I become overweight but I see myself have a larger stomach and thighs than I did before I started taking testosterone and think I’m getting fat. Being able to see that even if it looks like that to me it’s not the reality because I can see how others who look well within a healthy weight also have the same things I do like a stomach that sticks out when you eat, and the stomach hanging over a bit when you sit.
As someone with cancer, I did have an awkward interaction with someone who told me I didn’t belong in the body positivity movement because I was too thin for it, and consequently ignored my chronic illness. I was there in the space because I’ve been trying to learn more about how to love my new body, the limitations I now have, my scars, my daily medications, and the way I’ve been changing as a result of treatments. It’s hurtful to be left out, because of something like just „being thin“…it completely eradicated the other aspects of existing in my body that I face on a daily basis. Bodies are more than either „thin“ or „fat“. There’s lots of ways a body can be, and I thought that was the point of the BPM…embracing all the experiences we have in our unique bodies.
These people need to be shamed for their behaviour for what they’re doing to the BP movement. The body positivity movement was originally created for people like you (though it can help anyone as the movement teaches a holistic approach that’s beneficial to everyone). It’s about accepting your current body, stop feeling shame in what you can’t do or how you look, learn to adapt to your limitations so that you can do healthy living that’s sustainable with your life, recognize any negative behaviour or thinking you engage in, seek therapy, and find healthy coping mechanisms.
The fat acceptance movement spits in the face of all this. They aren’t seeking therapy to address their eating disorders, they aren’t seeking treatment to find ways to cope with food addiction or whatever reason is causing them to overeat (depression? Anxiety? Childhood trauma?). They aren’t seeking exercise regimes tailored for obese individuals who’ve been sedentary for a long time and need special exercises that go easy on the knees and ankles. Work with your limitations and all that.
The took I’ve body positivity. They should say they are the “health at every size group” and leave body positivity alone if they don’t want to include everyone.
I was never shamed by any bopo people while i was posting about my lupus treatment, i was on cyclophosphamide (a disgusting chemo drug) but i was shamed by a man who told me not to post about my very real experience with aggressive lupus and even more aggressive treatment because it was triggering him because his dad had cancer. I almost developed lupus psychosis and was very ill, i had every right to express myself during that very real, very scary time. I was so ill during my treatment, i was vomiting for 12 hours a day for at least 5 days after each infusion, i literally couldn't move out of my bed for being sick. Id never been shamed like that for my illness before, basically being told my illness and treatment weren't as valid because i didn't have cancer like this guys dad... so that was super fun
Ugh this happened to my friend (she has burns covering 70% of her body) and she was told she was too thin. It’s so messed up
Good luck with your recovery Hun
My argument to people who think you can be healthy at 300lb... How many obese seniors do you see?
I see plenty. They're never doing well though.
@@maddymooothose are only ppl who WERE thin and BECAME overweight when they hit, like.....60-65. And sometimes they arent actually fat. Women especially. They could be slightly chubby and things like menopause and/or illness have changed the shapes of their bodies completely. They may appear bigger than they really are bc of how they're shaped.
I live in the American south, I see plenty actually.
@@stobie9063 oh yeah? When I say senior I mean like… 70 and up.
Rewatching this video & being reminded of how this woman's diet is not just affecting the size of her body. She also appears to be suffering from deep, possibly cystic, acne; lots of dark spots & scarring from likely popping or forcibly removing breakouts. I wonder how Fat Acceptance works in term of dermatology. Poor eating habits affect the look & feel of *your skin,* too, not just what it's holding inside of it.
That explains why her and the other FA's have such rough looking skin. not to mention also the red cheeks too.
Covering her face in makeup doesn't help either. It blocks pores and is filled with stuff bad for your skin. It's pretty genius in a cruel way; women who cover their faces in foundation dsily get bad skin and poor confidence and thus feel the need to buy more foundation to cover up their skin.
She watches influencers bigger than her cuz it MAKES HER FEEL SKINNY.
My starting weight was 400 pounds.
Current weight is 160 pounds.
I have been treated worse by fat people since I lost weight than I ever was as a fat person by skinny people. Fat people take shaming to a whole new level when you’re trying to lose weight.
When I started to lose weight for my health because of all the issues I had all the fat people that i was around started saying that losing weight was bad and that I was just doing it to get a man and because society demanded it. Etc, etc XD
My health issues are NOW 95% gone and I can move easily. Jokes on them I guess?
As a former fat person, I want to say congrats and welcome to the recovery club. I'm proud of all of us who fled from an unhealthy lifestyle. I'm also more proud that we knew that the way we were living was a problem, other than these "Fat activists" who just accept, lie, downplay and cover-up the suffering so many of us have been through we opted to change for the better. They do people who suffer from this a great injustice and neglect. They didn't speak for us when we were fat and they don't speak for those who are fat but want to change. We've dealt with a lot. Again congrats to you. It was a long journey. And also remember, misery loves company. As to why they criticize you for losing weight.
I weighed 191 in 2009. Today my weight is 146. #justanotherunicorn?
That's amazing!!! 🎉🎉
WOOHOO! Great job! My start was 285 lbs and I'm 247 right now. My big goal is around 150.
@@anablackwood6141 you can do it🫶🏻
The woman in the "large" shirt is Elise Meyers and is one of the kindest humans on the internet. 🤦♀️ yes let's shame her for showing the reality of clothing shopping for ANY woman 🙄
People like her are seriously an incentive for me to keep my diet and my exercise routine. I look and think to myself: you don't want to be like that. I'm on my weight loss journey and so proud and happy of how far I've come
I'm a black woman, left handed, ( a)cup chest and I have asthma..I'm going to use whatever I want and I am 119 lbs..#bodypositive ...now go cry
@ayse us lefties are a minority 🤪🤪
8:30 "There's tons of reasons a person can gain weight without excess calories" *lists no examples of these alleged reasons*
Genetics is BS. There was no overweight people in the US before 1940s with very few expectations. I’m sure her great grandparents were skinny
@@EarlyBirdCraft Genetics matter, but not significantly.
@@sugaree71 stfu it doesn’t. It matters to your BS excuses tho. Keep at it
If you’re gaining weight, you have excess calories for what your body’s metabolism is. I gained a bit of weight on seroquel from night eating (which horrified me and I lost it very quickly once I found out my weight. Been back to my normal weight for over a year and it feels good. Anyways. Seroquel made me hungrier at night, but I still had excess calories due to it. Not the med’s fault. Still mine. I still have some night eating episodes, but it’s usually if I haven’t had much to eat the rest of the day (I rarely get hunger cues and will literally forget to eat until I’m shaking or getting a headache because it’s been so long). So I’m working to balance things out because the night eating isn’t very good.
Water retention... but that is not really a cool way to gain weight.
that study about regaining the weight after 5 years also included every single fad diet; of course the data is going to skew that way when you stick healthy lifestyle changes like eating nutritious food and exercising regularly in with things like liquid diets, fasting, etc. people gained weight back because they returned to old habits instead of making lifestyle changes that would've maintained a healthy weight in the long run
Gone from 218 lbs to 131, partly from calorie counting in 2003, last 34 pounds this year on a prescribed keto diet for epilepsy. 5'5", a 48-year-old woman. When I talk about my weight loss with random men at work, it astonishes me how many of them have lost 50, 60, 90, lbs. Just talked to a guy who lost 130 lbs with gastric bypass. None of them went on difficult calorie-counting diets. One went back to running after too much fast food and beer in college. One decided to stop eating after 8 PM. One went off medication, lost about 40 lbs, lost another 60 lbs by just deciding to become a little bit healthier. One lost about 80 lbs by restricting sodium. One lost plenty of weight in high school and didn't even know why, and he's at the same weight 60 years later. I haven't met any women who've had major weight loss, but maybe I simply talk much more to men. Anyone else have the experience of finding so many people who lost weight and kept it off?
She says she's not insecure about herself while applying HEAVY AMOUNTS OF MAKEUP.
Doesn't necessarily mean something but it's VERY ironic.
It’s honestly so refreshing to see someone cover fat acceptance AND actually know about leftist spaces and terminology. It’s really frustrating to see leftists default to fat acceptance and promoting obesity because they only see conservatives disagreeing with FAs. They never get to see people who actually know the difference between liberal and leftist take down FA arguments without shitting on true social justice movements. I think that’s why you’re one of my favorite CZcams channels in this area.
Oh same. I’ve fallen out with a lot of groups just bc my opinions have become nuanced like this, accept I’m still very much leftist. Like…. I have fiscal conservative opinions but extremely leftist social opinions. It doesn’t make me evil to not be leftist and socialist entirely!!! It doesn’t make me a conservative to see what good bits capitalism has done lol. It’s getting to a point where you almost have to call yourself a commie tbh. One friend I had said some shit like “I think I’d be okay with communism I don’t know about it much but it’s better than capitalism bc it’s evil” like……..
I know it’s not exactly the topic but I feel like it’s the same realm. You have to all or nothing your opinions and ideology and it’s just NOT helpful. Critical thinking and having your OWN opinion is a lot more important. As well as fact checking and research. Like researching communism before you say you’re a commie and researching calories before u say calories have no impact on weight…..
Well I am liberals and most of do not agree with supporting someone addictions. Just because these people use these world does not mean they are liberals. My guess most of these people are too lazy to vote. But I am sick of people think just because someone want this country to be more fair to the poor and middle class does not make liberals bad people. These people are nothing but addicts and not into accepting unless it just about them. The fact that you want to blame liberals instead of understanding a addiction is a mental illness says a lot about you.
“ *I* dont have a problem with food *you* have a problem with food!”
*continues to conflate eating with happiness and “living your best life”*
I am a fat guy and i can't stand these people. I know exactly why I'm fat, i love eating and i do it too much. I admitted as much to my doctor and he looked genuinely relieved that i wasnt going to argue or dismiss him on the fact that i can trace a whole hell of a lot of my health problems back to my obesity.
The DENIAL that’s she’s happy while making angry and upset videos every time she posts
The university I went to was built in the 1400's - gorgeous campus, one of the first universities in the UK, a site of historical importance, etc & all I'm thinking is how this chick would be absolutely raging, because the monks who built it were fatphobic for putting in too many narrow staircases
you're jumping too far ahead, stairs are probably fatphobic, full stop.
It sounds like a beautiful & historically significant learning environment 🥰 how cool
that’s what i was thinking the whole time, you can’t just alter these things that have been around for centuries, especially when they fit 99% of people
Lmao I love this ! I had a similar thought but my uni was built in the 1800s, narrow staircases everywhere, tiny iron spiraling staircases in the library, and most classrooms (especially for lectures) has wooden benches attached to the desks that you had to slid into. She'd hate it lol.
I've seen so many FA's, even in wheelchairs, praising their fatness. It's ok to be ok with it. But they also once stated that once you're in a wheelchair, you'll be fat no matter what and you should just accept that.
I got wheelchair bound 3 years ago and was in the state of mind where I thought ''its impossible to lose weight because everyone says so''.
Untill I realised this was a big ass lie, started working out however possible, and guess what? Bisj, I lost weight. I might not be able to use my legs normally, but I CAN EXCERCISE!
Then they called me fatphobic and accused me of having an ED because there wouldn't be any other way to lose weight besides having an ED while in a wheelchair.
They have never heard of exercise with different body parts? Can't use your legs? try to lift weights and gradually climb up from 2 kg to heavier weights.
Try to spin with your hands on those handbikes instead of a 'normal' spinningbike in the gym.
Try to work with your chest muscles, and abs if possible.
All, literally ALL FA's swear to God that exercise and calorie counting is impossible. Now, apparently, I'm not ''legitimately disabled'' because I refuse to let the muscles that I still can use to waist away. lost 28 kg's and never watched any other fat positivity content ever again. The toxicity is unreal.
Edit: I must say that I still have the privilege of being able to use other body parts besides my legs, not everyone in a wheelchair has this privilege. I'm well aware of that!
@UCGnlKHml9JtOVzXcM9mvUiA Completely agreed!
The small difference was that I got into a wheelchair by nerve/muscle damage due to unregulated T1 diabetes, and got fat after that since I got stuck in emotional eating behaviour.
Those who are obese to the point of needing a wheelchair because of it, need to make huge changes and indeed listen to their doctors and dieticians instead of screaming ''phatphobia!!!" at them.
My cousin who's in a wheelchair is skinny though. But she lives in Poland.
@@Raya-ir4tm Thank you! I hate how people have to qualify and give disclaimers with everything... I am working on it myself...
You are smart for working out the parts of your body that you can; not only are you now healthier and more fit and strong, you still have that relationship with your body that a lot of other people in wheelchairs unfortunately lose - that knowledge that your body is still your instrument, still yours to use to benefit yourself. That can bring you happiness and satisfaction. Good on you.
These FAs need to watch the Paralympics
If your not attracted to fat people... Then your not attracted to fat people. You can't change who your attracted to. In the same way I can't change that I'm not attracted to men. But that doesn't mean I hate all men.
Listening to this while I’m working out and losing weight. 🤷♀️ I guess I’m ok with being called fat phobic, because it’s so much better to me than all the problems that I had when I was 90lbs heavier.
I'm definitely fatphobic. I was 235Lbs, now I'm 145Lbs (5'9). Ever being fat again truly does invoke a mixture of terror and rage that's better left alone. Besides, being fit is AMAZING. I never wanna feel that way again. 👍
@@patientlywatching7775 congratulations on your weight loss! That is amazing and am proud of you. You are right, having good health and being fit is so much better than not. I don’t miss feeling horrible all the time or having no energy from all the junk I would eat and lack of movement
Most people can’t even afford higher education in America, and she’s upset the desk doesn’t fit…
I don't think those desks fit anybody.... They need to retrofit them with some hinged full desktop at least so it doesn't matter which hand you use and you can fit a laptop on it. They still were hard for me to get in and out of at 110 lbs. I don't know what they were built for, but they are not scaled for normal humans....
My question to this fat liberation group: “if you’re so secure and love yourself being fat…WHY DOES IT BOTHER YOH SO MUCH THAT EVERYONE ELSE IS LOSING WEIGHT?” Like seriously, everyone is so happy and “loves themselves” being fat until someone in the group tries to become healthy, loses their weight and counts calories now all of a sudden they’re fat phobic and they never loved themselves if they didn’t stay fat.
23:39 I forget about this line but every time I hear "that's just a republican talking point" I'm taken out. It has never once failed all the times I've seen this tik tok. It just encapsulates everything about the movement. The buzzwords, the stealing of language from actual civil rights groups, the confidence. Good stuff man
Anytime I see splotchmaker, she looks absolutely miserable and appears to be on the verge of tears. Jesus Christ, what a loathsome human being.
it’s that time again. 2am and a new funtie video has dropped. sacrifices must be made
Couldn't be me, it's 6 p.m in my time 😌😌😌 (Ignore the fact that I was re-watching her videos at 3 am last night 🙃😭)
Crazy fat activist: Skinny people have no right to be in the body positivity movement
Me an anorexic: um🧍♀️
same😭
It’s crazy cause I always thought the movement was for everyone but what do I know 🤷♀️
It’s crazy cause I always thought the movement was for everyone but what do I know 🤷♀️
Annorexia is bad Lique faith died from that
You can tell when her parents are not home; she speaks at a normal volume...no whispering.
This was so spot on! I've struggled to maintain a healthy weight all of my life (example; I'm 52 and I weigh 97 pounds right now!) Yet if I say ANYTHING about it being a constant struggle, I get eye rolls or open hostility or derision! It's perfectly acceptable to "skinny shame" or be nothing even CLOSE to supportive as long as it's only thin people your bashing! Just an observation...😒
"food is meant to be enjoyed"
Food is MEANT to sustain us and keep us healthy. If it is also enjoyable that is a happy accident and should not be priority
I feel bad for this girl honestly. She talks so much about how she sees it as a huge triumph that she overcame her own fat phobia against herself, and then what? She still struggles with her anxiety so badly that it becomes a disability. She’s still living in her parents house and yet still has a bad relationship with her family that hasn’t changed. She’s still so reactionary that she has scold anyone who seems happy in a healthier (yes I said it, healthier) condition. What has accepting herself as obese done to improve her life?
nothing, it seems.
I don't. These fatphobia people are raging, ignorant narcissists.
I had a similar life like her I was living with my parents and I had debilitating anxiety , plus I had a rather bad relationship with them . I know how it sucks but she needs to do something instead of just whining lol
This is… wow. I’ve been 450+lbs and am now 120lbs and the thoughts and opinions this person expresses in their videos and portray as actually facts is sickening and soooo dangerous for young viewers. Thank you for trying to help educate and respectfully dispute the “facts” she is spouting 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
You went from morbidly obese to way too skinny 120 is way too skinny couldn't you find a healthy balance
Calories in, Calories out is literally science. 🙄
Hold on... She lives with her parents but says she's struggling paying bills.... How??
I mean, there are other bills than just what parents pay for (food, water, electricity) ... for example school, drivers license lessons etc. etc.
Grifter
Food is expensive, especially if your daily intake is enough to feed half the Russian invading forces
i live w/ my dad & i still have to pay for food/car insurance/gas/phone bill/medical insurance/medication/vet appointments/cat necessities etc etc :,) she’s in college so likely student loans which is insanely too much
@@eleanornelson4883 but (I assume) you don't make money on the side from social media. I have no idea how much she's pulling in, but I'm sure she has some ad revenue or affiliate link hussle going on. If she doesn't, she's an ever bigger fool than I thought.
Interestingly I had the exact same realization as this woman. In the beginning of 1999, I had been through years and years of yo-yo dieting and weight fluctuations. I had an epiphany one evening that I had a choice I needed to make once and for all: I could just accept my body as it was (not morbidly obese … my BMI just veered from the overweight to obese category), give up dieting, and learn to be happy looking like I did. Or I could start eating (and later exercising) in a way that I could sustain for a lifetime. No “dieting”, no “bad foods”, no “cheat days” … just eating the way I knew my normal-weight friends did. I chose the latter. I lost 60 pounds and never regained them. Sure, I’ve fluctuated a bit, just as many normal-weight people do, but I no longer binge eat, eat excessive amounts of food, or eat fast food or highly processed food except on rare occasions. 20 plus years later, I am sooo happy with my life. I love my size 2 clothes. I love not worrying about chub rub in my thighs. I love not worrying about being seen in a bathing suit. I love hiking, and climbing stairs, and exerting myself. I like food and I look forward to eating, but it no longer rules my life. I am proudly fatphobic … for myself - I never ever want to regain that weight. It made me miserable.
Inspiring
Congrats!
Seriously, fitness is like the #2 most empowering thing to possess, right after money.
And good for you, you sound like an absolute boss. Respect to you.👊
Inspiring!
Hell yeah, Hilary)) Respect ✌️☺️✌️
I'm absolutely fat phobic (in a very real sense). I used to be very fat, now I am very fit. The thought of ever feeling that way again, yes, it terrifies me and I will do whatever I have to to make sure that I stay the way I am now and not turn back into that miserable, lazy slob that I was in years past. *Edit: I would rather be any of the things that that girl sang about (and then some) rather than be fat again. I never thought I would say this, but I agree with Hassan Piker on something (for the first time ever and probably the last).
Congrats! Keep it up brother!
👍😁👌💪👑
I just want to complement your writing. Omg!❤❤❤
It so honest and clear. You make writing look so easy. Keep writing it's your gift.
Not even 1 minute in, and I'm already annoyed at that girls voice.
ikr, its so grating
Omg yes
Imagine being a mother and realizing that you raised _her._ For me, that would be traumatizing. I would be wondering where the hell I went wrong.
It sounds terrible, but I've been trying to get my whole family to eat healthier with me. My husband followed suit like a champ but my toddler is going through that picky eating stage where she lives off of crackers (or would if I let her do that). She hates this new diet with a fiery flaming passion. When she rejected like the 4th or 5th healthy meat-and-veggies meal that I cooked, I almost started crying. Not because she didn't like the food or wouldn't taste it, but because I don't want her to have the issues I have as a very obese woman myself. I can't make her understand now, but I'm hoping she will when she sees what a mess this movement is.
I'd just say, it's very hard for _any_ size clothes to look "cute" on an obese body.
Super late, but Funtie, the response you gave to the second clip of the cult indoctrination segment is one of the best written responses I've ever seen. And your commentary truly did an outstanding job at emphasizing the horror of those types of indoctrination videos. Great job.
You know for a group of people who "don't care what skinny people say." and "are confident in their bodies and don't need skinny people's approval." They sure do act like jealous children when skinny people say literally anything about weight loss.
She's way bigger than a 26, guaranteed. She said it herself, "because I'm too fat." Right there. All the problems she attributes to her weight are HER fault.
But it's everyone else's fault she keeps eating garbage!
She made a video trying to explain the fat scale and accidentally mentioned her biggest size, a 6xl, which falls into their "infinifat" category before claiming she's a "superfat" at size 26. Girlie is humongous.
A 26w is a 4x you can't get bigger than that in a store
My clothes size is all over the place I mean all over the place I'm getting some pants for Christmas that's athletic works xl I usually don't wear clothes that are not in the plus size but I can when they make them what xxl use to be last year they are making them bigger they are from Walmart and I got clothes from xl to like 2x its according to how they are made
i pray this woman gets healthy pushback in academia and not blind praise out of fear
I'm afraid that it's too late. She is so dellusional and out of touch that it can't be changed easily. Also, by the way she talks and thinks, she probably won't even get to 40.
“Nobody’s best life involves eating 200 burritos.”
*I did not click on this video to hear LIES.*
My ex who was obese r*ped me and now I can’t touch fat or fat people without having flashbacks. Even on myself, I began working out excessively (and still do) because feeling too much fat on my own body caused me pain. I can’t hug, touch, or be too close to obese people due to trauma. I would never date or be intimate with an obese person because of my r*pe. Does that make me fatphobic? It’s interesting I’ve never heard my situation brought up by fat activists when they talk about dating preferences.
im so sorry that happened to you, no you aren’t fatphobic for that. you can’t control your triggers
Damn...
haha r@pe lol
Sounds like you need some serious therapy.
oh same, i think that might explain my aversion to fat. i hope you’re doing well
Does she have a sore throat or is talking in a normal voice fatphobic?
I read a few times that people (or maybe only women) who were abused as children tend to speak in a higher pitched voice.
@@laughingseagull000 Ive heard of Gypsy Rose Blanchard...she still has that high pitched voice and she was abused by her mother. I think she was either forced to idk
Lmao
It’s funny how these people assume that everybody goes to a doctor every week or so.. I’m 30. I don’t even know how my doctor looks like because I didn’t have to go to see her in 15 years…
I go like several times a year to different doctors.
She has money and doesn't realize that even with insurance, it can cost $100 just to say hello to a doctor. So in the US, many people don't see doctors unless they are practically dying.
She may even still be on her parents' insurance.
LOL you freezing on her doing that stupid eyeroll never fails to make me laugh. Keep doing what you're doing, Funtie. Bless your content~