The language of lying - Noah Zandan

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 2. 11. 2014
  • View full lesson: ed.ted.com/lessons/the-languag...
    We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day. And although we’ve spent much of our history coming up with ways to detect these lies by tracking physiological changes in their tellers, these methods have proved unreliable. Is there a more direct approach? Noah Zandan uses some famous examples of lying to illustrate how we might use communications science to analyze the lies themselves.
    Lesson by Noah Zandan, animation by The Moving Company Animation Studio.

Komentáře • 12K

  • @DonPeyote420
    @DonPeyote420 Před 8 lety +21854

    Pay close attention to person's trousers. If they are in fact on fire - then you got yourself a liar.

    • @jamz3243
      @jamz3243 Před 8 lety +432

      +PufferBluntman but wait their pants are frozen? What does this mean? sh-should I call a scientist?

    • @NK-xd4fu
      @NK-xd4fu Před 8 lety +607

      Pro Tip: Don't wear pants.
      I never do anyways :D

    • @jamz3243
      @jamz3243 Před 8 lety +185

      Oh I see. The answer is no pants. :O

    • @kvega30
      @kvega30 Před 8 lety +41

      lmfao

    • @firepaw5678
      @firepaw5678 Před 8 lety +101

      +PufferBluntman Liar, Liar plants for hire!

  • @tbhidc6645
    @tbhidc6645 Před 4 lety +14725

    I do this weird thing where I smile when I tell the truth (and the other person thinks I'm lying). Only because I find it funny how they think I'm lying. It's really annoying when they say "You're smiling, which means you're lying"

    • @notyepdranel961
      @notyepdranel961 Před 4 lety +1378

      They always do that, and they always think they are right. But when the actual answer comes along, I was telling the truth. But they never learn

    • @v3dreamz
      @v3dreamz Před 4 lety +598

      Me haha tbh its funny when they dont believe you . i thought i was the only one with this

    • @nopity3057
      @nopity3057 Před 4 lety +457

      For me it was: "You're smiling while asleep so you aren't actually sleeping."

    • @nopity3057
      @nopity3057 Před 4 lety +24

      @Rena Linton thx

    • @fellowcommentscroller.8748
      @fellowcommentscroller.8748 Před 4 lety +32

      Yesssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Goastyy
    @Goastyy Před 2 lety +579

    Biggest lie that we have told to ourselves once:
    *"I'll just watch one more video then sleep"*

  • @JupiMeow
    @JupiMeow Před rokem +491

    Excellent video. When we suspect a lie, I suggest we don't call it out directly, but instead call attention to the person's own role/self in the story, and ask for more details to see if they trip up. Assume good intent, but also trust your gut.

    • @ayaelbatouldib1645
      @ayaelbatouldib1645 Před 11 měsíci

      I always do the same

    • @serenesoul2042
      @serenesoul2042 Před 3 měsíci

      Can you give any example?

    • @thebestteacher7466
      @thebestteacher7466 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@serenesoul2042if you a drink and I drank it and I asked you if this is your which doesn't look like it any more and you say no so I drink it. But later you realise...

    • @rosbly
      @rosbly Před 11 dny

      @@thebestteacher7466 You might want to call an ambulance my man

  • @AbhishekKumar-ei7mu
    @AbhishekKumar-ei7mu Před 5 lety +21628

    Actual title: How to lie better.

  • @raz0229
    @raz0229 Před 4 lety +71559

    Biggest lie in the universe:
    _I have read and accept the terms and conditions_

  • @urbanpretzel
    @urbanpretzel Před rokem +437

    As a professional liar, this is extremely accurate. I'm learning more about myself while watching this video, and I will use the information shown here to improve my lying game.

    • @theobamaprism
      @theobamaprism Před rokem +38

      How do I know that everything here is the truth?

    • @clintonted2458
      @clintonted2458 Před rokem +2

      😂 😂 😂 😂 😂

    • @CristinaNunezTV
      @CristinaNunezTV Před 10 měsíci

      Why the f*ck you lying? Why you always lying? Oh my God! Stop f*cking lying!

    • @unknowing203
      @unknowing203 Před 9 měsíci +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @cjbrenner13
      @cjbrenner13 Před 8 měsíci

      Youre a politician, a lawyer, or whatever….but your def the problem and a parasite 😂

  • @lyovmyshkin7561
    @lyovmyshkin7561 Před 2 lety +312

    "Above all do not lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lies comes to a point that he will not distinguish the truth within him or around him, so he will lose all respect to himself and to the others, as a result he ceases to love"
    Fyodor Dostoyevsky

    • @ihategooglesomuch
      @ihategooglesomuch Před 11 měsíci +3

      that sounds like a lie, given the lack of first-person pronouns and convoluted expression of a simple idea.

    • @lyovmyshkin7561
      @lyovmyshkin7561 Před 11 měsíci +7

      @@ihategooglesomuch Dostoevsky was a novelist, and in this quote, he was speaking about a character in his novel, a man. If you think that the idea of lying to oneself is simple and if you consider analyzing this profound topic a 'convoluted expression,' then, in my opinion, you have a serious lack of understanding in this matter.

    • @ihategooglesomuch
      @ihategooglesomuch Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@lyovmyshkin7561 /whoosh!/

    • @lyovmyshkin7561
      @lyovmyshkin7561 Před 11 měsíci +2

      @@ihategooglesomuch I mean to squeeze out negative takes out of that quote is an ability that only a person with a very hard life can possess. I feel sorry for you.

    • @thats_odd
      @thats_odd Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@lyovmyshkin7561 he was joking lol

  • @anneliselim602
    @anneliselim602 Před 3 lety +16806

    The most dangerous lie is when the liars don't realise they're lying to themselves.

    • @icemike1
      @icemike1 Před 3 lety +379

      If you earnestly believe it then it's true

    • @rizzi6209
      @rizzi6209 Před 3 lety +18

      Ikr

    • @littlebodybigheart888
      @littlebodybigheart888 Před 3 lety +78

      hurts different

    • @DJ-zt2ml
      @DJ-zt2ml Před 3 lety +158

      I think the most dangerous lie is the one that hurts people. I read, " lying lips hates those that it hurts." Therefore, if a person tells a lie that hurts an individual, the person is basically saying, he/she hates you.

    • @aggelosnt6081
      @aggelosnt6081 Před 3 lety +26

      They're called psychological liers

  • @rohanakrishna7582
    @rohanakrishna7582 Před 4 lety +5227

    Biggest lie during online school:
    Message in the chat box: Hi, my mic does not work and my camera is broken.

  • @delusionaldonut1326
    @delusionaldonut1326 Před rokem +32

    Okay, ‘I love you’ as an example for casual lies really hit home

  • @moonbeaststudiosgaming
    @moonbeaststudiosgaming Před rokem +50

    My favorite way to learn a lie is to ask someone else to ask the liar the same question, like for example I had a coworker who lied time to time, and she told me she was in the hospital so couldn't come in, but when someone else asked why she didn't come in, she told a completely different story to them because her comfort level was different with them

  • @arcade_matt
    @arcade_matt Před 7 lety +23742

    Plot twist: the video is a lie.

    • @Gatinbr
      @Gatinbr Před 7 lety +216

      noice plot twist mate

    • @bebe7C9
      @bebe7C9 Před 7 lety +146

      its actually a lie because politicians reacted differently and the speaker picked those that demonstrate its point

    • @claraladuelliste5769
      @claraladuelliste5769 Před 7 lety +166

      plot twist: the video is a cake

    • @hamzaaall
      @hamzaaall Před 7 lety +45

      pot twist I unsubscribed to your channel matt

    • @mymyrrah
      @mymyrrah Před 7 lety +39

      Matt3756 - Arcade Plot twist: Your comment is a lie.

  • @wilinnsu7770
    @wilinnsu7770 Před 3 lety +5036

    *turns on mic* to say: sorry teacher my mic is broken
    teacher: ???

    • @edgysphere
      @edgysphere Před 3 lety +146

      You have chat box for that

    • @ananyamatale3965
      @ananyamatale3965 Před 3 lety +100

      Awww an innocent lie...

    • @AFAanimations
      @AFAanimations Před 3 lety +74

      Teacher : hol'Up

    • @mich497
      @mich497 Před 3 lety +51

      @@edgysphere you missed the joke

    • @alibongo281
      @alibongo281 Před 3 lety +73

      The other day someone in my class put in the chat they couldn’t hear the teacher, the teacher then proceeded to scream into the mic “CaN YOU HEAR ME” I-

  • @callyral
    @callyral Před rokem +20

    this taught me to be better at knowing when others are lying, how to be better at lying and how to be better at making obvious lies for comedic purposes

  • @empirity2855
    @empirity2855 Před rokem +56

    Everyone: uses these for social relationships
    Me: AMONG US TACTICS

  • @elirayburn647
    @elirayburn647 Před 6 lety +4189

    10-200 lies a day is a very wide margin

    • @pleadingblowfish957
      @pleadingblowfish957 Před 6 lety +107

      Especially for no-lifers like me

    • @cherrydragon3120
      @cherrydragon3120 Před 6 lety +60

      Does depend on the people you're with

    • @thepacificwart8777
      @thepacificwart8777 Před 6 lety +2

      Bob Bobbington what if the person is mute? And also that person can't learn sign language (because he/she doesn't have any hands)?

    • @kakokapolei123
      @kakokapolei123 Před 6 lety +16

      You don't have to listen to lies if you don't talk to people in the first place

    • @shlokthen
      @shlokthen Před 6 lety

      I recently started playing a game that is all about lying.....

  • @tobyhendricks9951
    @tobyhendricks9951 Před 7 lety +2589

    You think people watch this to spot lies, lol. watching it to make lies unspottable.

    • @Omgleandruh
      @Omgleandruh Před 7 lety +7

      me

    • @brechtxt8096
      @brechtxt8096 Před 7 lety +2

      hahhaha same thing bruh

    • @ritalate
      @ritalate Před 7 lety +36

      This video would never make a person a better liar and to suppose that someone would use it to empower their own lying capabilities is not only an egregious error but is a particular offense to a personal sense of moral responsibility.

    • @tobyhendricks9951
      @tobyhendricks9951 Před 7 lety +13

      It was a joke.

    • @niklashansen5432
      @niklashansen5432 Před 7 lety +1

      +william carroll
      :D

  • @Name-tn1zg
    @Name-tn1zg Před 2 lety +15

    This is not only helpful for me to spot a liar but also better for me to make my lies more believable

  • @user-vx8nf1em8v
    @user-vx8nf1em8v Před 2 měsíci +2

    lying has become the norm everywhere (as a couple, in family, at work, with friends, etc.). Simply telling the truth as it is is an act of humility

  • @pleasedontlookforme8036
    @pleasedontlookforme8036 Před 4 lety +3738

    We've all told this lie:
    "Sorry miss, I did my homework, but left it at home"

    • @dragonsoul5368
      @dragonsoul5368 Před 4 lety +139

      and if the teacher wants it tommorow, u just do it that day and u are good, plus u put last day's data

    • @ISpillFishy
      @ISpillFishy Před 4 lety +46

      I love how we're explaining the process of us lying to our teacher

    • @evetheeevee2977
      @evetheeevee2977 Před 4 lety +7

      Not me

    • @vishnuanand1583
      @vishnuanand1583 Před 4 lety +138

      But it is frustrating that you actually do your homework and left it at home but the teacher doesn't believe you lol

    • @zacheysflip859
      @zacheysflip859 Před 4 lety +1

      DragonSoul龍 you mean wasting hours of your life

  • @subzeroelectronics3022
    @subzeroelectronics3022 Před 3 lety +10803

    I can say with confidence that this did not just teach me how to lie more effectively.

    • @WhiteFox508
      @WhiteFox508 Před 2 lety +568

      not really self reference
      complicated message
      has negative words such as "not"
      i conclude that this is a lie
      XD

    • @DastardlyDingleberry
      @DastardlyDingleberry Před 2 lety +166

      You're lying lol

    • @BQQB5
      @BQQB5 Před 2 lety +320

      Ah yes a honest statement right here, I do not sense anything deceiving about it.

    • @That_One_Guy...
      @That_One_Guy... Před 2 lety +52

      This video definitely taught me how to catch a liar

    • @miguelbaltazar7606
      @miguelbaltazar7606 Před 2 lety +44

      I smell lies. Or wait, that’s my lies.

  • @LegendoftheGalacticHero
    @LegendoftheGalacticHero Před 2 lety +13

    I, person in the spectrum, have been so many times accused of lying while , in my head, I’ve been doing things I think are meant to be done (masking). Makes me wonder if I’ve been lied so much that’s the behaviour I’ve picked up as neurotypical.

  • @OmegaGummybear
    @OmegaGummybear Před rokem +29

    I'm impressed, not only did they teach us how to more likely spot a lie, but they didn't give anyone any way to lie better

  • @osce429
    @osce429 Před 3 lety +8056

    Among us players: "Write that down, write that down!"

  • @marisleong8725
    @marisleong8725 Před 4 lety +1635

    "how was school today?"
    "it was fine."

    • @a.westenholz4032
      @a.westenholz4032 Před 3 lety +39

      Nah- that comes under the can't be bothered to explain "It was fine" reply, since almost every kid probably answers like that whether or not there was any issues.

    • @Asmaa_311
      @Asmaa_311 Před 3 lety +15

      Yeah... i hate my school

    • @user-us5kq2yv3e
      @user-us5kq2yv3e Před 3 lety +17

      @@Asmaa_311
      Who doesn't?

    • @Asmaa_311
      @Asmaa_311 Před 3 lety +10

      @@user-us5kq2yv3e you're right..

    • @A_Random_Rat
      @A_Random_Rat Před 3 lety +9

      Unless you get bullied, it was fine. Even if you failed a test, it was fine.

  • @davisrhodesjr.8871
    @davisrhodesjr.8871 Před rokem +5

    This seems very accurate to my experience of American culture, as one who was born and raised in the U.S.A. After living and working in Northern Tanzania for 4 years, I would also argue that these 4 signs do not help with detecting lies in Tanzania.

  • @SierNotsruht
    @SierNotsruht Před rokem +1

    This has helped me get better at lying, thank you.

  • @nexii1479
    @nexii1479 Před 4 lety +4403

    "10-200 lies a day" I can't imagine that much human interaction as a shut in lol

    • @theemirofjaffa2266
      @theemirofjaffa2266 Před 4 lety +105

      You must be living the good life then. Keep away from people.

    • @mannybear4691
      @mannybear4691 Před 4 lety +92

      Internet is full of lies

    • @roach931
      @roach931 Před 4 lety +30

      Lol neither. It's CoronaTime.

    • @Ugh718
      @Ugh718 Před 4 lety +29

      I think internet lies count too:)

    • @LossztYT
      @LossztYT Před 4 lety +7

      This aged well

  • @adilzade3022
    @adilzade3022 Před 2 lety +9930

    New title: how to be a successful politician.

  • @wyattskinner697
    @wyattskinner697 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I really enjoyed watching this 5 and half minute video, it really helped!

  • @nervofficial4091
    @nervofficial4091 Před 2 lety

    Thanks, I will now use this knowledge to improve my lying when playing deceit!

  • @Keurlock
    @Keurlock Před 5 lety +2991

    So if I had took in all this information correctly, liars...
    1. Decrease their use of personal pronouns
    2. Expresses a simple idea yet makes the explanation sound more complex and long.
    3. Acts more negative

    • @thatmobiledude2679
      @thatmobiledude2679 Před 5 lety +145

      Keurlock pretty much on spot now do the opposite of those things and no one will catch you.

    • @Keurlock
      @Keurlock Před 5 lety +74

      @@thatmobiledude2679 Oh I'm not here to lie...
      I'm here to catch them 😎

    • @TheSast
      @TheSast Před 4 lety +60

      @@Keurlock LIE DETECTED: SIMPLE EXPLANATION

    • @HuslWusl
      @HuslWusl Před 4 lety +38

      I don't know about the first thing but I'm so introverted and rational that I don't form longer sentences when I'm lying and I'm acting negative or positive depending on my mood and how interesting the topic is. I don't like lying and I try my best to not tell any lies whatsoever, but I'd say I'm still pretty good at it. (Examples for long sentences of me just displaying my thoughts; so no lying)

    • @TheSast
      @TheSast Před 4 lety +7

      @@HuslWusl thats the same for me but apparently now everyone belives thar "im fine" or "sorry i fell down the stairs and so i missed the bus" are lies >:(

  • @Peridox69420
    @Peridox69420 Před 4 lety +7000

    Don’t trust people with anime profile pictures.

  • @facts_by_Godfather
    @facts_by_Godfather Před 8 měsíci +3

    Meanwhile me : trying to learn how to lie 💀

  • @alenmandal2341
    @alenmandal2341 Před 2 lety

    This video is great for other people to detect lies tells by others and their double side. many people will try to not to show these quality while lying but i will never do such things as they do.

  • @jamesjason8471
    @jamesjason8471 Před 7 lety +3747

    This video was made to make to spot a liar, on the other hand, this video also tells you on how to become a better liar.

    • @animegurl2403
      @animegurl2403 Před 7 lety +12

      james jason ikr

    • @noobnoobyify
      @noobnoobyify Před 7 lety +102

      james jason On a third hand, this video was made to make you a bad lier. On a fourth hand, this video gives you false positives of a lier.
      The video may be a lie.

    • @kennykuper2422
      @kennykuper2422 Před 6 lety +1

      james jason SOO your lie in some parts

    • @hanifrashid5927
      @hanifrashid5927 Před 6 lety +63

      And on the 8th hand you're an octopus

    • @xmoreminutes
      @xmoreminutes Před 6 lety +3

      james jason that's why I am watching it

  • @sussynanibaka69
    @sussynanibaka69 Před 3 lety +9466

    “Liars tend to be negative because they feel guilty about lying”
    Psychopaths and sociopaths: 👀

    • @icannotcomeupwithanything4609
      @icannotcomeupwithanything4609 Před 3 lety +37

      @@samaahmed4053 Your more likey to be Sociopath/Psychopath than you are to born with blue eyes.

    • @samaahmed4053
      @samaahmed4053 Před 3 lety +143

      @@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 Blue eyes are about 8% of the population while phycos and socios are total 6% so idrk i don't think so

    • @DragoX7
      @DragoX7 Před 3 lety +174

      Anxiety and depression can make someone quite negative, a negative opinion doesn't mean they are lying lol

    • @DragoX7
      @DragoX7 Před 3 lety +8

      @@icannotcomeupwithanything4609 😳 I have blue eyes

    • @sussynanibaka69
      @sussynanibaka69 Před 3 lety +6

      @Kokichi Oma👀

  • @pinkchaos.
    @pinkchaos. Před 11 měsíci +3

    The biggest flag I’ve seen when catching a liar, is if you bring something up to the person, and they deny it, and you act like you believe them and let it go, and then they act unnaturally upbeat and kinder than they usually are, that’s a big sign they were lying, and think they got away with the lie, and now they’re being overly nice because a: they’re happy they got away with their lie, and B: they’re still trying to trick you into believing their lie.
    Example: a cheater is being questioned by their spouse. The cheater isn’t usually over affectionate or romantic, but you accused them of cheating, and they came up with an excuse like “I had to work overtime” or “I was out with my buddies” and the girl is like “you’re right, I’m just over reacting”
    And then suddenly they’re like “it’s ok babe, I understand, you don’t need to worry, let’s cuddle xoxo”
    And they’re uncharacteristically being romantic and attentive. It may seem sweet, but in reality, if someone who wasn’t cheating were suddenly accused of it, they’d instinctively get mad or at least irritated. To the younger people here, look out for this ✋🏻

  • @mahsumcakmak1796
    @mahsumcakmak1796 Před 2 lety

    Thanks for the tip, now we are gonna be considering these facts as well before lying.

  • @herrapan95
    @herrapan95 Před 7 lety +2312

    this means that I talk like a lier even when I am telling the truth

    • @bribriblitz3460
      @bribriblitz3460 Před 7 lety +27

      herrapan95 same!

    • @ericz.6584
      @ericz.6584 Před 7 lety +1

      Me as well.

    • @User-xw6kd
      @User-xw6kd Před 7 lety +53

      herrapan95 I can relate. This is why even this video fails to do what it says, it doesnt help you confirm someone is lying rather helps you detect probable lies.

    • @rpresident98
      @rpresident98 Před 7 lety +22

      You mean you always speak negatively, avoid linking yourself to the situation you are discussing?

    • @o.t.d_ody_the_dreamer
      @o.t.d_ody_the_dreamer Před 7 lety +32

      herrapan95 Which is a good thing, people can't tell when I lie.

  • @miftahulrespati
    @miftahulrespati Před 2 lety +4159

    Here's a pro tip: when you tell the truth, tell it like that's a lie. When people realise that you tell the truth, they will assume that it's just how you speak. So, when you tell a lie, people still assume that you speak the truth.

    • @dareemmanuel6079
      @dareemmanuel6079 Před 2 lety +623

      Until one day you wake up and don't know which is the truth and which is the lie.

    • @philliprobinson7724
      @philliprobinson7724 Před 2 lety +215

      That's very clever deception. Have you been doing it long?

    • @_caith
      @_caith Před 2 lety +255

      my youth was spent telling occasional really obvious and bad lies - which resulted in everyone thinking I can't lie. So when I seriously messed up, and casually feigned ignorance, everyone even mentioned how I can't lie, and I laughed about that with them. XD

    • @BQQB5
      @BQQB5 Před 2 lety +28

      That is one of my most favorite things to do, I see you are a person of culture as well

    • @philliprobinson7724
      @philliprobinson7724 Před 2 lety +46

      @Talaveras Hi Talaveras. If you isolate yourself you'll be seen as distant, aloof, and untrustworthy. If you want real friends, you'll have to reject tactics that make you an unknown quantity to others. Cheers, P.R.

  • @L1GHTofc
    @L1GHTofc Před 2 lety

    I used to watch so many of your videos at school, ur amazing

  • @simonfrancis9009
    @simonfrancis9009 Před 2 lety

    This is really helpful... Thanks for the vid... Still relevant 7 years later

  • @elmer4042
    @elmer4042 Před 7 lety +1776

    Now I know how to lie better

    • @frinky
      @frinky Před 7 lety +13

      haha so true

    • @muhammadadeel5747
      @muhammadadeel5747 Před 7 lety

      Тhe Real ЕD Curе is oоvеr 300 Yеаrs Оld! twitter.com/385c9d4a1ae33a7b8/status/804602507225808896 Тhе lаnguagе of lying â Nооah Zаndan

    • @johnnoecker8471
      @johnnoecker8471 Před 7 lety +37

      Yeah, but now we know how to know you're lying, better. Gotcha

    • @lawrencesmith4960
      @lawrencesmith4960 Před 7 lety

      John Noecker
      Still, when you know what they're looking for, it allows you to streamline the process. . no zombie staring... anything more than 5 seconds between words, not good and searching for a telaprompter when there is none also not good ... i would not.....................lie.

    • @catnium
      @catnium Před 7 lety +3

      just like everyone else

  • @jenAp9040
    @jenAp9040 Před 4 lety +3433

    Mom: I don't lie, so you shouldn't either, okay?
    Restaurant: Free meals for kids 12 and under!
    Mom: SAY THAT YOU'RE UNDER 12
    Me: But I thought...
    Mom: NOW

    • @julissaholt1894
      @julissaholt1894 Před 4 lety +76

      that's how my mom be lowkey

    • @shrutis
      @shrutis Před 4 lety +147

      Being short and having a baby face, I got free dinner till I was 12... It was only for kids under 8. Thanks mom

    • @nanamacapagal8342
      @nanamacapagal8342 Před 4 lety +66

      Exactly my dad
      Me at 14: minding my own business
      My dad registering at the hotel: he's 11. *RAISE YOUR VOICE SO THAT YOU SOUND 11*

    • @halcyon.89
      @halcyon.89 Před 4 lety +8

      Jena Park
      OR GET SPANKED

    • @adilshah6664
      @adilshah6664 Před 3 lety +25

      Yh. My mum always says to me "Never lie because it is a big sin"... When I was 14, my mum told me to say to the bus driver I'm 8 if he ever asked wheres my bus pass

  • @trdrudedude6099
    @trdrudedude6099 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I can confidently proclaim that the above informative material provided by the Creator would and could never be used to improve lie quality by anyone

  • @willam9421
    @willam9421 Před 2 lety +7

    When I was younger ( 6 - 18 years old ) I would lie a LOT. Now that I'm much older ( 36 years old ) I realize that my memory isn't what it used to be and I'm too lazy to lie. I just speak the truth.... Which tends to be more harmful than lying most of the time. 🤔 Well, I am who I am. 🙂

  • @kelamulenga9164
    @kelamulenga9164 Před 2 lety +2901

    This is the most watched TED-ed video.
    Says a whole lot about us humans.

    • @petervagvolgyi9084
      @petervagvolgyi9084 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/FYV9Adtn2pI/video.html

    • @______7224
      @______7224 Před 2 lety +48

      Also seems like the least useful/interesting one. Especially those politicians' qutoes. There are plenty of similar sentences that were truthful but sound similar to the lies used in this video, it's just how politicans talk.

    • @Sammy-ls9jk
      @Sammy-ls9jk Před 2 lety +8

      says a lot about society

    • @mrsclee7494
      @mrsclee7494 Před 2 lety +8

      we dont want liars but we are liars

    • @juanli4153
      @juanli4153 Před 2 lety +2

      Oh wait y--

  • @crystoon
    @crystoon Před 3 lety +894

    "Sorry my phone died"
    me, who has said that many times and wasnt lying: O-O

    • @walliem.3319
      @walliem.3319 Před 3 lety +14

      rightttt like I have an iphone, and I love apple but their battery life suckssss

    • @magk2524
      @magk2524 Před 3 lety +13

      @@walliem.3319 apple fans are weird. why.. They're not worth it. they're made to work for a bit and break. just get something else

    • @mrwickcat4895
      @mrwickcat4895 Před 3 lety

      Exactly

    • @walliem.3319
      @walliem.3319 Před 3 lety +2

      @@magk2524 ok but imessage gc's and the software design-

    • @arck4453
      @arck4453 Před 3 lety

      Yeah

  • @AP_Creation738
    @AP_Creation738 Před 2 lety

    Thanks, this really helped me improve my lying skills👍

  • @Rogerda7
    @Rogerda7 Před rokem +6

    Let me break it up to you: there is no consensus of when a person is lying. You either assume people don’t lie or assume people are always lying. You just never really know a stranger. It may be easier with friends/family because of patterns but even then you can never really be sure. Good book to read about lying is “talking to strangers”

  • @zahungrysloth
    @zahungrysloth Před 3 lety +2537

    "sorry i can't come, i'm busy"
    the struggles of being an introvert...

    • @muchachitachinita
      @muchachitachinita Před 3 lety +19

      Righttttt

    • @applicableapple3991
      @applicableapple3991 Před 3 lety +107

      I'm actually busy doing nothing, and that takes a lot of time

    • @prinshiahirwar5698
      @prinshiahirwar5698 Před 3 lety +24

      I feel so bad now. I, once, had to refuse my best friend when she came to invite me to her birthday party just because of this.

    • @chemicallycalm5878
      @chemicallycalm5878 Před 2 lety +28

      ah yes, my biggest enemy, my own personality

    • @mehlanie13
      @mehlanie13 Před 2 lety +6

      That's exactly me...

  • @milesmaxine5740
    @milesmaxine5740 Před 3 lety +4161

    *Biggest lie*
    teacher: have u understand the lesson class?
    students: *yes maam* !

  • @jodizellmer994
    @jodizellmer994 Před rokem +14

    Over explaining yourself or being defensive, especially when nobody actually accused you of anything is a sign a person is a liar. Also, when you tell the truth your story stays the same because you don't have to remember anything.

  • @joshb2093
    @joshb2093 Před rokem +2

    “We hear anywhere from 10 to 200 lies a day”
    that was the first lie I heard today..

  • @qstro.
    @qstro. Před 3 lety +7831

    Biggest lie we ever told ourselves:
    "I'm gonna go to bed early, and wake up early in the morning"
    EVeryone: Exactly, does the opposite

    • @simantinidebnath
      @simantinidebnath Před 3 lety +41

      The most relatable lie😅

    • @theavenger5749
      @theavenger5749 Před 3 lety +7

      True 😫

    • @adityapandey4059
      @adityapandey4059 Před 3 lety +3

      So true...like heck yes but after reading this repenting over it

    • @parvathy3302
      @parvathy3302 Před 3 lety +4

      relatable

    • @Alexis-bg5rf
      @Alexis-bg5rf Před 3 lety +2

      But when my friends come over for a sleepover:
      Go to sleep at time period of midnight to 3 AM.
      Try to wake up at 6 to 7 AM.
      Sometimes actually wakes up at 6 to 7 AM.
      Most of time:
      Wakes up at 7:30

  • @dragonsoul5368
    @dragonsoul5368 Před 4 lety +3209

    my dad was always telling me that he who understands lies, understands how to lie too
    edit: this comment is by far the most liked i ever had
    ... well i dont know.. i guess thank you xd

    • @decidueyefan3844
      @decidueyefan3844 Před 4 lety +75

      No wonder how I can see straight through any of my friends’ lies

    • @dragonsoul5368
      @dragonsoul5368 Před 4 lety +63

      @@decidueyefan3844 ikr, i could easily tell when they are lying, telling an extreme story or sth, and this is that many times i got them busted and i had proof for their lies but i never did that, well i rly think that the skill to identifie lies is more about protecting urself from those lies than identifying and reporting publicly the liars, well it satisfies me that there is another person out there identifying his friends' lies xD

    • @dragonsoul5368
      @dragonsoul5368 Před 4 lety +3

      @Technical ASHD 😂😂😂fun facr, its the first time i reach so many likes at a comment

    • @awlns725
      @awlns725 Před 4 lety +2

      So that's why people always catch me off guard with their "interesting stories".

    • @buttered_cheeto_mix8483
      @buttered_cheeto_mix8483 Před 4 lety +1

      Yeah about you being adopted (sorry)

  • @MARIA-px2di
    @MARIA-px2di Před 11 měsíci

    that´s such a helpful video. I´m really thankful. thanks

  • @D1xedi
    @D1xedi Před rokem

    This was really good, I have learned lie detecting and i wanted to learn more and nothing said in this video was in the other stuff that i have learned whitch made this super useful

  • @zilvoxidgod
    @zilvoxidgod Před 7 lety +712

    Man, some people really suck at lying.

    • @theqisha9518
      @theqisha9518 Před 7 lety

      Sorry,I guess you are absolutely dandly good at knowing some stereotype.Afterall it is soo true and correct and really custom.

    • @professorhal8098
      @professorhal8098 Před 7 lety +3

      *famous people

    • @octo349
      @octo349 Před 7 lety

      Artyom Metro a

    • @hemantdubey313
      @hemantdubey313 Před 7 lety +2

      me😣

    • @openthedoor759
      @openthedoor759 Před 7 lety +2

      Nudedragon They Improvise a lot.

  • @EricMwizerwa
    @EricMwizerwa Před 7 lety +2699

    Easiest way to tell a lie is to believe it yourself

    • @blazetail3605
      @blazetail3605 Před 6 lety +67

      Eric Mwizerwa But would it be a lie if you believed it??

    • @khaosklub
      @khaosklub Před 6 lety +119

      yes, it is still a lie

    • @safirouhi1651
      @safirouhi1651 Před 6 lety +33

      I also am a practitioner of cognitive dissonance

    • @krismine99
      @krismine99 Před 6 lety +21

      It does make it much easier if you question a potential unknown motive being the reason behind your lies.
      Example: I am limping because my leg hurts, but what if I have some unconscious desire for attention that is causing me to limp and feel pain. Therefore my leg mustn’t really hurt for I am only limping because of an unconscious motivation.

    • @girlactic1743
      @girlactic1743 Před 6 lety +14

      someone could say donald trump is a good president and believe it but its still a lie

  • @risingunity6446
    @risingunity6446 Před rokem +1

    thanks to this channel, i have achieved _DECEPTION_ 100

  • @user-dd2nr2pt8l
    @user-dd2nr2pt8l Před 2 lety +5

    Not me watching this before Amber’s testimony lol

  • @YHLGguitargeek
    @YHLGguitargeek Před 8 lety +1866

    Is it terrible of me that I watched this to learn how to lie better? :o

  • @Intradiction
    @Intradiction Před 6 lety +1808

    The problem is that when someone tells a difficult truth, or one that seems unlikely, it will sound exactly as if they are lying according to this video. Stuff like using complicated language or not directly referencing yourself can indicate that whoever is saying it is nervous, and they would be nervous if they were telling a lie or telling a difficult truth.

    • @lynding2873
      @lynding2873 Před 6 lety +8

      |Innovation| if it's difficult, we will know that.

    • @gavriloking5637
      @gavriloking5637 Před 6 lety +73

      the video is pseudo-science, if there were ways to tell lies beyond actually discovering the truth we would surely all do that because learning of the truth through investigation can be quite difficult at times.

    • @ThePyromania13
      @ThePyromania13 Před 6 lety +55

      We also use complicated language, like the statements described in this video, in order to reduce uncertainty and prevent misunderstandings or misconstruction.

    • @onobi8940
      @onobi8940 Před 6 lety +8

      |Innovation| my brain hurts

    • @Hngtr68
      @Hngtr68 Před 5 lety +1

      ThePyromania13 Agree

  • @hemant4339
    @hemant4339 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for upgrading my lying skills 😁

  • @lauraa009
    @lauraa009 Před rokem +3

    lifehack: be awkward all the time and people won't be able to tell the difference between you lying and telling the truth.

  • @deathscore1548
    @deathscore1548 Před 5 lety +3798

    Who else said "oof" when reading "I love you" at the beginning of the video?

  • @Radagast-
    @Radagast- Před 3 lety +1322

    If you keep a liar talking for long enough, then they will contradict themselves, sooner or later. Sooner, probably.

    • @tanishasakthivel7974
      @tanishasakthivel7974 Před 3 lety +18

      Facts

    • @genthefrog18
      @genthefrog18 Před 3 lety +80

      hah, that's where you're wrong, I use a method where I check possible combinations of words that won't trip me and psychologically makes sense in their head to the point where I need 5 seconds to process the next line of words(random facts, this is why my name is gen because I tend to use how other people think and use it against them hehe >:)
      simplified:
      overthinking things without anxiety

    • @yespapa8102
      @yespapa8102 Před 3 lety +24

      @@genthefrog18 I am very smart

    • @yespapa8102
      @yespapa8102 Před 3 lety +33

      If they are skilled enough they might be able to avoid that, or they can just say your asking to much questions and make you look bad

    • @Radagast-
      @Radagast- Před 3 lety +21

      @@yespapa8102 The object isn't to interrogate. Besides, you might not know you're talking to a liar, so bombarding them with questions isn't what you'd be doing.
      The fact remains that nobody's capable of sustaining a lie for any length of time... they will say something completely contradictory to an earlier statement, because it's impossible to construct a wholly fictitious universe on the spur of the moment.
      That's why liars keep their relationships superficial.

  • @CelticVampireQueen
    @CelticVampireQueen Před 2 měsíci

    Thank you for making my lies more believable!

  • @stevensavoie856
    @stevensavoie856 Před 8 měsíci

    On the last denial example, there was also a non-contraction, "I have not" rather than the usual "I haven't".

  • @silvergrace8702
    @silvergrace8702 Před 2 lety +1343

    in other words you can make a lie look more believable by:
    - using first person pronouns
    - simple phrasing
    - positive language

    • @shivambhanushali3086
      @shivambhanushali3086 Před rokem +89

      So... building a complex, realistic narrative, but in simple words, using first person pronouns, and without negative words. Got it.

    • @ws8080
      @ws8080 Před rokem +30

      And the irony is that every politician says such things every election, and after they are in office the lie becomes obvious. And yet everyone keeps voting them in.

    • @kkimes
      @kkimes Před rokem +8

      Yep, and Trump has it down to a science. That's what years of practice will do for you.

    • @jodizellmer994
      @jodizellmer994 Před rokem +6

      Or by making sure your emotions fit the lie your trying to make people believe.

    • @khalbrogos
      @khalbrogos Před rokem +1

      When you speak, speak clearly, concisely, and confidently. No matter the content of what you're saying, it's an effective rule of thumb.

  • @lindsey7544
    @lindsey7544 Před 5 lety +3209

    My teacher is bad at spotting liars
    Me: Lies to teacher
    Teacher: Okay! :D You can go.
    Me: Doesn't lie
    Teacher: Johanna, we all know you're lying.
    I forgot I even commented this

    • @skylovermc2146
      @skylovermc2146 Před 4 lety +26

      Johanna's Stuff 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @4th4nm.32
      @4th4nm.32 Před 4 lety +20

      Johanna's Stuff
      My teacher, right there.

    • @vvv____
      @vvv____ Před 4 lety +4

      Lmao

    • @nishthedr
      @nishthedr Před 4 lety +3

      Ye

    • @shrutis
      @shrutis Před 4 lety +22

      my real life is so messed up, people always think i'm lying

  • @AcediaIX
    @AcediaIX Před 2 lety +1

    I dunno why but I have this weird skill to be horrible at lying and at the same time, I can immediately notice if someone is lying

  • @YourArtistNeighbour
    @YourArtistNeighbour Před 8 měsíci +1

    People with trust issues : I take this as an absolute win.

  • @MidnightBloomDev
    @MidnightBloomDev Před 4 lety +1263

    This video is simple but uses words extensively. Doesn't use "I" and is quite negative.
    TLDR: this video is a lie

    • @fellowcommentscroller.8748
      @fellowcommentscroller.8748 Před 4 lety +11

      😂😂facts.

    • @wellfolks9096
      @wellfolks9096 Před 4 lety +91

      But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie. But if the video is a lie, does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are not signs of a lie? Thus, this video is not a lie. But if the video is not a lie. does that mean beeing negative and using "I" a lot are signs of a lie? Thus, this video is a lie.

    • @fellowcommentscroller.8748
      @fellowcommentscroller.8748 Před 4 lety +41

      @@wellfolks9096 💀you just messed up my brain functions ,but somehow I know what you mean

    • @multikioske8044
      @multikioske8044 Před 4 lety +14

      Great now im retarted

    • @TheEckoEcho
      @TheEckoEcho Před 4 lety +13

      I phone is dead

  • @leofera1137
    @leofera1137 Před 7 lety +1812

    just watching this to become a better liar

  • @jimmyhackers8980
    @jimmyhackers8980 Před 2 lety

    this talk simplified, look out for all children, women and men.

  • @christiaancoetzee1696

    Thanks man this really helped a lot…

  • @fuzzypineapple5118
    @fuzzypineapple5118 Před 4 lety +675

    2:36
    So that man, woke up late, ran to work, but it was raining, he slipped, lightning struck and fire started, he had to avoid the fire, was physically abused, had a concussion, bit by a dog, train derailed, and a U.F.O. came down to Earth.
    Employees:....

    • @ltuyettrinh2
      @ltuyettrinh2 Před 4 lety +36

      I’m not sure if he even made it to his workplace

    • @zeroxxwrld
      @zeroxxwrld Před 4 lety +19

      🤣🤣🤣this comment deserves more attention

    • @Habira03
      @Habira03 Před 4 lety +5

      Dead Zer0 , ur right!!!
      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏

    • @fluffyfelix539
      @fluffyfelix539 Před 4 lety +2

      Lmao

    • @annamartin1369
      @annamartin1369 Před 4 lety +2

      FuzzyPineapple seems legit

  • @getpriyanka
    @getpriyanka Před 3 lety +322

    Mom : I don't lie
    Also mom when someone's call comes : Tell them I am not at home

    • @Hamza-vm9oj
      @Hamza-vm9oj Před 3 lety +38

      She's not lying since it was an order not a statement, and only statements can be true or false. But u r lying when u say mum's not home.
      YOU LIAR

    • @oracle372
      @oracle372 Před 3 lety +1

      Priyanka Shukla
      Inspired from Diary Of A Wimpy Kid

    • @Vxhruta
      @Vxhruta Před 3 lety +4

      Mote like she asked u to lie lmao

    • @Vxhruta
      @Vxhruta Před 3 lety +1

      More**

    • @jscythe
      @jscythe Před 3 lety +2

      @@Hamza-vm9oj LMAOOO NICE

  • @pratisthamukherjee4641

    Your contents are very fascinating, and also the narrator's voice kinda sounds like dream

  • @guineapigs3050
    @guineapigs3050 Před rokem +4

    Never let the truth get in the way with a good story

  • @tatsukani
    @tatsukani Před 4 lety +398

    When liars see this, they'll get better at lying.

    • @amarisrosalette3694
      @amarisrosalette3694 Před 3 lety +21

      I guess I'll get better (˵ ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°˵)

    • @zetrian_3679
      @zetrian_3679 Před 3 lety +7

      @@amarisrosalette3694 same

    • @godfather-gh2vq
      @godfather-gh2vq Před 3 lety +11

      everyone is liar.

    • @amarisrosalette3694
      @amarisrosalette3694 Před 3 lety +4

      @@godfather-gh2vq *l i e s*

    • @thichinhphan4010
      @thichinhphan4010 Před 3 lety +10

      The ones that are good liars don't see themselves lying. They twist the truths in their favor, not just simply lying like a child making an excuse.

  • @gasterfire6256
    @gasterfire6256 Před 4 lety +1564

    Tip: If you feel like somebody is lying with a story tell them to repeat the story with the same details but Backwards
    It is suppressingly very difficult for them to get the story right

    • @mcfreezyyaboi8389
      @mcfreezyyaboi8389 Před 4 lety +397

      That's like cops trying to get me to say the ABC backwards.. I cant even do that sober

    • @cautarepvp2079
      @cautarepvp2079 Před 4 lety +67

      lol you cant say anything like that backwards.
      No way hahah

    • @R-BURQUENO
      @R-BURQUENO Před 4 lety +283

      It would be just as difficult for me even if I WAS telling the Truth!🤷

    • @lindsey7544
      @lindsey7544 Před 4 lety +21

      @@R-BURQUENO IKR!

    • @hy2707
      @hy2707 Před 4 lety +1

      hahaha very funny lol hahaha

  • @bellareid3488
    @bellareid3488 Před 2 lety +1

    In fairness, I sometimes over-explain or talk too much due to anxiety, not be because I'm lying. Worth considering.

  • @theqisha9518
    @theqisha9518 Před 7 lety +2008

    I got no time to subscribe because I have a meeting.

    • @MikeSerota
      @MikeSerota Před 7 lety +21

      Was that a lie?

    • @theqisha9518
      @theqisha9518 Před 7 lety +53

      Mike Serota Umm,I was actually IS meeting with my CEO company in africa---I mean at afghanistan.

    • @KamiliumAMVs
      @KamiliumAMVs Před 7 lety +115

      But you got time to comment xD

    • @placido593
      @placido593 Před 7 lety +55

      +Free Cats another lie

    • @MikeSerota
      @MikeSerota Před 7 lety +34

      It doesn't really matter to me. I just thought you were being funny I guess. (free cats)

  • @kayaelangel
    @kayaelangel Před 3 lety +202

    That moment when you say that you've forgotten your homework at home,
    and being a forgetful yet diligent student, you DID forget it, but the teacher doesn't believe you since your classmates have used that as a lie a lot of times before.

    • @aramisortsbottcher8201
      @aramisortsbottcher8201 Před 3 lety +18

      As soon as I was at home I shot a Photo and send it to the teacher.
      After making it quick, hehe :)

    • @delinaamanuel9211
      @delinaamanuel9211 Před rokem +4

      @@aramisortsbottcher8201 Lol smart

  • @billyandrew
    @billyandrew Před rokem

    Posted seven years ago and it has not stood the test of time, as recent studies, conducted under scientific conditions, have blown it out of the water.
    Interrogators and body language 'experts' have been wrong all along.
    I always found the subject amusing.
    Now I find it hilarious. 😂😂😂

  • @darklugia8161
    @darklugia8161 Před 2 lety

    So to make your lies sound more truthful:
    1. Self reference more
    2. No negative language
    3. Complex explanations
    4. Simple phrasing

  • @sho3003
    @sho3003 Před 3 lety +454

    Me, who shows those signs WHILE TELLING THE TRUTH: **CONFUSED SCREAMING*

    • @saishriya8244
      @saishriya8244 Před 2 lety +8

      You're not the only one who does this-

    • @alyomaly5213
      @alyomaly5213 Před 2 lety +17

      Yes..this is me. If lying I'm convincing. I'm honest then no one believes

    • @cozyflurry
      @cozyflurry Před 2 lety

      xD

    • @nathangravitt5982
      @nathangravitt5982 Před 2 lety +9

      Same. I give as many details as I can to prove that my story is accurate. When I’ve lied, I tried to keep it as short and simple as possible to avoid messing up. I thought everyone knew that. 🤔

    • @videopiratemahir
      @videopiratemahir Před 2 lety

      Yupp

  • @yumiko1065
    @yumiko1065 Před 3 lety +743

    "I forgot my assignment at home."
    I'll never forget this line.

    • @harsh9558
      @harsh9558 Před 3 lety +20

      U know because of people like this I had suffered once. I had forgotten my note book at home and it was first month of school and the thought I was lieing.(it was around 3rd month then she would have understood iam a good student and iam saying truth).

    • @yumiko1065
      @yumiko1065 Před 3 lety +3

      Yeah man, felt that too. People should also be considerate especially if you have good records.

    • @alanmaclaren4118
      @alanmaclaren4118 Před 3 lety +1

      @CREATIVE BROs r/Ihadastroke

    • @danim8501
      @danim8501 Před 3 lety +18

      I once said that excuse to my teacher
      While i was doing online school from home- yeah, the i realised it makes no sense LMAO

    • @yumiko1065
      @yumiko1065 Před 3 lety

      Ella, you're done. Hahaha

  • @abbadox315
    @abbadox315 Před 2 lety +5

    I love when someone thinks im lying even though I am telling the truth

  • @KaelyWaely
    @KaelyWaely Před rokem +1

    I hate it when I’m telling the truth but I’m smiling and laughing. Like I’m just smiling because you think I’m lying 😭

  • @elenaillustrates3231
    @elenaillustrates3231 Před 5 lety +326

    "i love you."
    damn that one hurts

    • @dtarmizi4967
      @dtarmizi4967 Před 4 lety +22

      Translation: I love you because i can use you for my own gain.

    • @SirEriol
      @SirEriol Před 4 lety +1

      I'm definetly not cheating on you.

    • @federica1930
      @federica1930 Před 4 lety +3

      "I lie saying I love you because if I say the truth you would suffer and I would lose you"

    • @MoarteaLunii
      @MoarteaLunii Před 4 lety

      Cringe

  • @skym821
    @skym821 Před 3 lety +850

    "Hey! How are you?"
    "Good! And you?*
    "Good! Thanks!"
    *Most common lie*

    • @mtb1015
      @mtb1015 Před 2 lety +16

      Underrated comment.

    • @unarmedguy
      @unarmedguy Před 2 lety +5

      True lol

    • @XiaLater
      @XiaLater Před 2 lety +10

      and then we get all used at saying that that you forgot youre actually not. how bizarre

    • @muskafaiz3813
      @muskafaiz3813 Před 2 lety +4

      YYAAAAASS QUUEEEENNN!! couldn't of been more truer

    • @breakfast2715
      @breakfast2715 Před 2 lety

      lol

  • @skyrotechnics3245
    @skyrotechnics3245 Před 2 lety

    I feel like it just taught me how to lie:
    from "that laptop wasn't played on last night"
    to "I did not play on my laptop, I just felt really hot in my mattress and rolled around a lot"

  • @umildmintz3169
    @umildmintz3169 Před rokem

    I have this weird reaction that when i told someone a story my body react like i actually experience that story, if i tell them a tragic lie i ended up imagining it actually happen and my heart beat become faster and i actually ended up crying and worse i cant stop it

  • @ManWithThreeDollars
    @ManWithThreeDollars Před 3 lety +742

    Ted Ed: “how to spot a liar”
    Among Us crew mates when I’m the impostor: *”I’m four parallel universes ahead of you”*