r/AmITheA**hole I Reported My Mom For Stealing $43,000 From Me
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- čas přidán 10. 06. 2021
- r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP discovers that his mother committed identity fraud and secretly took out a massive loan in his name. By the time he found out about it, the loan amount had grown to a massive $43,000! His mother hadn't been making any payments on it, so it just kept accruing interest and fees. Once OP finds out about it, his mom actually expects him to just suck it up and pay off the loan by himself as a favor to her. OP is thinking about reporting his mom to the authorities for effectively stealing from him. Would that make him the butthole?
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as a 17 year old, that’s not a mistake “kids my age” make, she humiliated a child multiple times, and said sorry when it effected her, she’s not sorry for what she did she’s sorry that it had consequences
Yeah. I wouldn't have ever done that at age 17 or any age.
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I also know of plenty of adults who do that
She definitely put that on TikTok or something. I don't believe it was deleted.
Ye, shes not sorry that she did It, shes sorry that she got the consequences of her stupid actions
For the babysitter story. I would tell my husband, “ok, we can hire her back, but you have to go to out daughter, sit her down, and explain to her that you don’t want to jeopardize your friendship so you are going to hire a person who your daughter doesn’t feel safe with. You care more about your friend’s daughters feeling than your own daughters.”
That idiot father/husband is so stupid that I think he would do just that.
Perfect!
Now THATS a response, absolutely perfecr
what a wonderful response! I really want to hear what the guy says
And then check the Dad's phone cause that Dad and that babysitter's relationship is sus as hell.
Diary story:
I legit yelled “WHAT?!?” When I heard that the babysitter recorded themselves reading another persons diary! Like what the fuck! Couldn’t be me and my child. I would’ve woken the whole neighborhood yelling and cursing. Do not invade anyone’s privacy. Especially a diary!
I keep everything bottled up and can't write my own personal thoughts in a journal. We had an exercise to do in the 6th grade where for ten or fifteen minutes we had to do journals and I put stuff very private in there that I thought the teacher wouldn't read (I mean, I'm glad she did because she got me help), but it left a lasting impression on me and I couldn't write in a journal.
However, even my best friend at the time wouldn't ever read my personal journal... Much less record herself doing it. So to hear what happened in that story made me angry. I get wanting to read the personal journals of historical figures like Napoleon Bonaparte or Turenne... But they are dead and they wrote more about their battle strategies or did criticism of past battles and generals. I don't even think that the more personal stuff is even published... If they ever really got sentimental at all. However, you don't read somebody's personal stuff otherwise or in special circumstances where that diary is published (for example, first hand accounts of the Holocaust).
same I'd be so mad!! that's so twisted and wrong, it's more then bullying that is something mage wrong with that nearly adult woman!!
If someone had tried that shit with me my mom would've murdered them and my dad, step dad and step mom would have helped.
Kinda felt like the father wanted to keep the babysitter around to do unmentionable acts like the stereotypical babysitter things in movies y’know? Still can’t believe he would want such a cruel person around his child though
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About the babysitter story:
Yes, she’s a teenager and honestly looked sorry, but she’s old enough to understand that she has to deal with the consequences of her actions. Do better next time. No child should suffer because of bs like that.
Also, if his friend doesn’t understand the situation than he’s an asshole as well.
That was nasty, bullying behaviour by a person with no empathy or respect and is potentially incredibly psychologically damaging. Definitely a mean girl who should be kept well away.
She's not sorry she did it, she's sorry she got caught and was called out on it, and it affected her. You can be sure as shit if OP hadn't arrived home, that recording would've made its way onto social media and got spread around the daughters school.
If you are old enough to have a job you should be mature enough to treat everyone with respect, and also know cause and effect. I think I'll Bully the kids I take care of at my work? GET FIRED.
I mean, let's give her the most charitable interpretation of events, just for fun. Let's assume, despite all evidence to the contrary, that she honestly believes that bullying is the proper way to... force people to just become social? Well, then she needs some time for self reflection, the victim needs time to heal, the father needs to realize that the friend-of-a-friend (or family member in this case) is not always friendly. All in all, if there is a second chance to be given, it needs to be *after* his daughter recovers, and not 'right-now-can't-you-see-I-have-an-important-trip-why-won't-anyone-think-of-ME?!'
Honestly, I picture this babysitter as a skinny blonde, who enjoys he beach, and is crushed on by many boys in her school
The story about the babysitter reading the diary really pissed me off. The daughter is still struggling with the death of her best friend and is still in the healing process. This babysitter does not get to choose when the daughter needs to come out of her quiet place. Her safe place. It was extremely disrespectful and could only cause more damage to the daughter. The dad here is the worst because he values his friendship over his daughter and the pain she’s endured.
Yes! That’s bullying, plain and simple, and I’d have told her I didn’t think it was going to work out then and there.
"What's the BIG deal? I was *ONLY* helping Little Miss Grinch with 'expressing her emotions'! It's not like I DID any emotional and mental damage by reading it in front of the other kids AND recorded a video on it! I was just *MESSING* with her!" Well she got the "Messing" part right, because she's messed up in the mind!
Aww boo hoo! She got fired for breaking trust with a minor and tormenting her! Meanwhile, Dad of the Year DEFENDS Lauren's tormentor because "I have a 14 year friendship with MY friend that *MORE* important than my OWN daughter's mental and emotional well being and trust!"
I think it's absolutely DISGUSTING that the Father chooses his friend and mentally abusive teen child over his OWN child, especially when she was still grieving!
I think OP should rethink about her marriage with her Husband. If he wants to be the delusional heartless prick who chooses "friends" with a mentally and emotionally tormentor, then he should be cut out of the Daughter's life!
Yea, I was on the fence about the grinch stuff because perhaps a little loving teasing can help in certain situations.
But then the journal cemented the fact that the teasing was definitely not coming from the place where it could be considered caring.
I mean when I read the title I thought "wow that is an invasion of privacy. Imagine catching someone reading your journal after you write things from a very dark place".
But it was not even that.
It was reading it out loud.
To other people.
And then videoing it???
I feel like this is a girl who videos herself "teasing" other people a lot because it gets her views on some platform and she likes the attention.
Also the daughter was visibly upset and wasn’t even around the babysitter and kids when OP got home. If the baby sitter really wanted to help she wouldn’t record it to begin with or continue to read it when Lauren left, and I’m sure there was a lot of crying and asking her to stop and give it back which the babysitter just decided to overlook, there’s no room for confusion there. The babysitter was obviously more entertained by all of this than genuinely trying to help and now it’s up to OP to just forgive ??
If somebody read my diary, I would hate them, but I would get over it until adulthood, HOWEVER if my father defended the offender like that without cosequences for their actions, I would resent him for it for life .. I still resent my parents for picking my sister's side just because she was younger, I can't imagine the resentment from parents siding with a stranger who was in the wrong..
The baby sitter was 17, shes basicly ALMOST AN ADULT. Last yr i was 17 and I would never do something that humiliating to some one.
PLUS, she was probably planning on posting the video somewhere, which makes this extra terrible. I would've checked her phone to make sure she deleted it. How cruel can a person get? Like seriously
I’ve had my parents read my journal before (they had good reason, my mom was scared for my safety) but it is one of the worst feelings I’ve ever felt
Yeah, I’m surprised that word never came up in the post or while rslash was commenting. The babysitter was bullying OP’s daughter. Plain and simple. Even before the journal incident.
i’m 16 and i’d never be so stupid to ruin a kid like that. i empathize with the daughter because i’ve had my trust betrayed millions of times, i hope that babysitter doesn’t post that video
Lauren was bullied at home. And imagine a father that does not respect you.
Oh god, that babysitter story just angered me. As a babysitter, and a girl who was called out several times in high school for not smiling. Of course I wasn't smiling. I was constantly being bullied at school and hence, wasn't happy while I was at school. Lauren's friend just died so OF COURSE she's not going to be super cheerful!
Don't people get that people can't be happy ALL the time?
That and well, sometimes you just don’t feel like smiling regardless. You don’t owe the world an eternal fake smile. The world is not entitled to a smile from you.
My parents are the same. They expect me to be happy all the fucking time. I hate people that expect people to be happy and cheerful all the time. Its disrespecting your humanity tbh
Haven't they watch inside out
It's OK to no be happy all the time jesus
@@thestrange2742 toxic positivity is the WORSE
it really blinds you from the source of the problem...
I've learnt that the hard way hanging out with "friends" who kept hammering toxic positivity in to me to the point they kept triggering my anxiety to spike up every day I hanged out with them. whenever I felt concerned about something they just brushed it off like I do nothing but "complain"
@@mira55x-planetnalzena15 same for cynicism as well
I love how upset RSLASH gets over patents mistreating their children ever since he and his wife had a baby, like it’s really endearing to see how becoming a parent has made him so passionate about that stuff
First story full stop: My mom took out a massive loan IN HER OWN NAME to help our family when we almost hit rock bottom. I remember trips down to the pawn shop where she would pawn her stuff just so we could pay bills and then get them back before the due date so she wouldn't lose them. Your mother had SO MANY other options versus using your name and (if you're in the US) ruining your credit, I would have even just started begging or cleaning houses in my spare time to ensure my children got fed.
I’m pretty sure that OP is from Canada because he said “social insurance,” not “social security.” But it’s pretty much the same situation.
@Maroxa 7 the parents have all the info required to do that.
This reminds me of the struggle of growing up watching my mom work to provide for me. Long nights constantly working over time to make ends meet and even taking out loans in her own name. Granted she also had friends that pitched in from time to time. Now that I'm older I help her with things thinking back to when I was a kid. I also help a friend down on his luck and give him money from time to time so his 4 year old son can eat.
This story in the video reminded me of an episode of Judge Joe Brown, where the Son was suing his Mom for identity theft, after taking TWO credit cards out in his name, and even took the $10 from his $20 that his Grandma and Sister gave him.
The irony is that the Entitled Mom stole the money WHILE Son was in the hospital after a car accident. Not ONLY leaving him in a coma, but also with a mental disability after that!
And SHE had the nerve to call her Son out for taking her tv and such and being disrespectful. The man has the dignity and maturity to do what he did.
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This is the video I found. And boy DOES he!
I might've forgotten what else this EM did, but I do apologize if I made a mistake.
But the first Mother in the RSlash video just says "I don't wanna get into TROUBLE, just pay the debt off!", like she expects OP to pay for HER mistakes, then turns the family on OP. What kind of logic is THAT?
The engagement party story, wow, OPs ENTIRE family is toxic AF.
yes, please call the guy's ONLY keepsakes from his dead wife junk. what was the woman expecting?
Yeah
I keep reading it like "family is toxic air force"
I sort of felt this. I have my late grandpa's car manufactured in the year 2000 and even though it's not the newest Toyota I still love "her". "She" has some fun stuff installed like e.g. a bell horn that is more like "pay attention, here I come" than "HONK HONK MOTHERF*CKER" that my grandpa installed. There's also some other small things he put in there to make the car special that I keep in there. "She" has been a piece of work the last few years but I would do anything to preserve this car before scrapping it. I have heard some interesting comments on the car from relatives and friends riding in it but if someone called my very special Toyota junk I'd flip as well :D good on you OP. I like to preserve the stuff my late grandpa did to make this car special.
@@JUMALATION1 that car seems lovely TRY TO PRESERVE IT FOREVER!!!!!!
“Kids of her age” are about to start voting, they should be able to recognize that bullying a GRIEVING child isn’t helping. And the fact she recorded it? That’s not trying to help the daughter that’s her thinking it was funny to upset her. She’s a bully and if the fathers friend is upset by that he should’ve raised his own child better.
"HOW DARE YOU BE DISRESPECTFUL IN RESPONSE TO BEING DISRESPECTED!"
-Every a-hole in this entire video.
For the OP who has the horrible grandparents. Do not ever feel bad for doing what you did. My father passed away when I was 3 and all of my dad's family did the same exact thing. They cut all contact and I haven't seen them sense. I don't think of any of them as family and neither should you. Keep going on with your life and be as successful as you can be
Its also weird that theyre in New York at walmart and not in florida
oof, are you okay?
@@stringless_guitar yea. I'm honestly glad I don't have to deal with them. From what my mother told me about them, they aren't good people
@Chris George I read the edit and here's the thing. Op has an aunt but she lives 1 hour away from them. Also this specific Walmart was only five minutes away from her house.
Also her dad left two saving account for them until they were 18.
I guess u can connect the dots
My only problem with this story is I don't know the full context. Sure the grandparents could just be as horrible as Op makes them out to be no doubt. But what if there was a legal battle were the grandparents were forced to send money to the mom and the mom lied about the grandparents. While they did say those horrible things at the funeral that was like 16 years ago and they could have regretted. Again they could easily be terrible people but the lack of contexts makes it hard to tell in my opinion.
"how dare you make this terrible rift over m&Ms?!" "Why are *you making a terrible rift over an *apology?"
Did MIL let her mother override when dealing with OP's wife as a kid? If no, then MIL needs to ducking apolo-ducking-gize and otherwise STFU and STFD.
Well you see older women have the entitlement to not apologize because of how they were raised
In this case if someone disrespected my wife and kids by saying they weren’t their children as well….. I’d cut them out of my life until there was an apology not just for the situation but for how immature they were about it and I wouldn’t budge
It’s all about how important people treat your spouse and kids
In this particular situation she maliciously attacked these 2 parents and children over candy because she wanted to be an amazing grandmother smh
And it ain't even over the m&ms really. Its about her disrespecting OP's authority as a parent and saying her kids aren't hers just because they don't share genetic material. That's the same as telling adoptive children that the people they see as their parents/guardians, aren't their parents because they aren't related.
Family does not start or end in blood in my opinion. Family is the people who care about you and love you no matter what. Friends can be your family.
That mil is disgusting and she is actively deciding that she doesn't want to see her grandkids. If she would just apologize she would be able to see them again.
@@lukaschrismalikistars930 also what the mil fails to realise is that almost all states recognize the birth parent in theses types of arrangements as the legal parent regardless of genetic makeup, unless otherwise established by lawyers. Which means if there was no contract establishing custody, the birth mom would retain custody and maniac mil would have no claim or rights in any aspect to those children. But I don't think that the birth mom would keep visitation from her partner, although she probably and rightfully so would hold those boundaries to the mil! Mil also needs to understand that not every state recognizes grandparents rights either, so if both parents decided to cut mil out she also has no legal standing depending on what state they live in. No matter what mil screwed herself over.
@@lukaschrismalikistars930 exactly! My sister and I were both adopted (from different families, too) but everyone in my family recognizes that we belong. My grandma sees us as her grandkids, my aunts see us as their nieces, everyone sees us as our parents’ kids, because we are, even though if you took a DNA test, we wouldn’t match anyone in our family.
“He said I need serious help for my anger” yeah, no. That was a completely understandable thing to get that angry about, not even an Uber would put up with that type of behavior. Imagine getting into someone else’s property, disrespecting them while they’re doing you a favor, getting mad when they ask you to leave, and then running to mommy and daddy crying. She literally insulted op’s dead wife’s necklace, how could the mom possibly be on their side when she was literally sitting two feet away from the conflict?
that story got me so mad, I wish was there to yell at her my damn self
What a horribly delusional family LMAO. This shit made me so angry, i wanted to yell at those people. My god. It's hard for me to imagine people being this blatantly disrespectful, idiotic and ridiculous. I guess I'm spoiled with my parents/family but this is just..honestly unfathomable.
(9:10) As a teenage girl myself, the 17 y.o babysitter knew what she was doing. It sounds like she was bullying Lauren behind scenes and obviously not telling Lauren’s mom. NTA. Also, you’ll be a great dad Rslash! Thank you for being the one thing I always look forward to everyday :)
Rslash has three voices
1-narrator voice
2-karen voice
3-his real angry voice leaking sometimes
He also has the cute old grandmother voice and the entitled kid voice
narratoe? OK Dan Schneider
@@arilovesbingus8626 better?
@@SRosenberg203 Let's not forget the entitled man voice.
And the country man voice
people need to learn: If a person doesn't like how you're treating them then STOP TREATING THEM BADLY!!!!
my entitled brother, for obvious reasons, is simply unable to learn this lesson AND I HATE HIM FOR IT!!!!
My sister is older than me by 10 years, and still can't learn this lesson no matter how many times I've talked to her, which she escalated to an argument to trigger a migraine for me every time.
I moved out in April, and have never been so relieved and relaxed in my own home before.
Murder hate or regular hate?
@@robinacosta8815 murder hate, but I'd rather keep my humanity and I hope to supernovarevenge him some day
just use dragon ascent on him
I am older than my brother for 3 years and I am considerably older than him, we do not have a good relationship, he is the favorite and useless son and I am the most intelligent son but the one who receives the least affection, he is totally disrespectful, once He crossed the line when he called a friend of mine who was sexually abused a "whore".
I looked at him and without saying anything I started hitting him, I literally almost killed him because at the moment I did not realize that he had his glasses on and the broken glass left small marks on his face, it almost left him blind because of that and although I understand that it exceeds me, I do not regret
With the dude who kicked his brothers fiancé out, I fell like she deserves more than 3, she kept belittling him and his DEAD WIFE over and over just to be petty and wants to act innocent and turn others against him after he said what he warned her he was gonna go if she kept disrespecting him, deserves at least a 4.5
The m&m's story. That wasn't just a few pieces of candy, that was a power play. OP must win or the MIL will walk all over her. OP must hold out until the MIL apologizes.
3rd story: If the brother marries that witch and stays with her until his and OP's parents die, I bet my ass she'd be like; "Oh, just get over it. They were idiots anyway. So how much money do we get?"
R slash's entitled lady voice just popped in my head while I read about the part of the fiance's comment as her.
@@Goggabee24 same
Why do people think that’s ok? I always find it appalling when people act the way the woman did and the family backs her just bc they just got engaged. You are literally talking sh*t about a deceased persons possessions. Like how could you really side with her on that? These people are crazy asf
@@antoinepitts6403 i bet they didn't tell the rest of the family everything or the worded it in a way that makes her look normal and not a B
It's really appalling. I mean, even if OP wasn't a widower and just had a dingy car and decor, she would still be an asshole. In that case, I'd say OP overreacted a bit, but she was still the bigger asshole. If she didn't know OP was a widower, I'd say OP was completely justified in kicking her out of the car. She would still be an asshole.
But as OP's brother's fiance, she has to know he's a widower. She also probably knew, even as she insulted it, exactly who that necklace belonged to. In that case I would say she's not just an asshole anymore. She's dangerous. I don't know if she's a narcissist or a sociopath or something else entirely, but anyone willing to sink that low over literally nothing is someone OP needs to cut out of his life ASAP.
His brother is going to be miserable, possibly even after they divorce. I wonder if she's deliberately ruining the relationship between the two brothers to isolate her husband. Does she try to sabotage his other friendships? No idea what the mother was thinking.
More people need to report their parents for theft. I have a friend who lost his inheritance because his mom spent it all on herself and he won't listen to his friends saying to report it to the police on his 18th b-day this year. Having or owing money at a young age can absolutely make or break your life for a long time.
16:08 gen 8 competitive be like
can i report them for stealing my life away?
@@blazerjack117 LOL I wish!! but seriously, don't be afraid to block them and move on. You deserve a good life, no matter what those assholes did. And make sure you have cameras on your property to report them if they harass you.
@@blazerjack117 you mean slavery?
A REAL father would have been furious with his friend's daughter for hurting HIS daughter!
"What kind of father chooses his friend over his victimized Daughter?!? "
*counts all the time my own dad did this to me*
OP: *"Call my car a piece of junk again, I DARE YOU."*
Fiancee: *Calls his car a piece of junk anyway, and insulted his dead wife's jewellery on top of that*
OP: *"GET THE HELL OUT OF MY CAR!!"*
Fiancee: *Surprised Pikachu Face*
Yes
OP did warn her not to do that she didn't listen so she suffered the consequences
She played a stupid game and she won a stupid prize.
@@1985toyotacamry If I were her, I would've kept my mouth shut. Instead she has open her foul mouth and insult OP's dead wife's jewelry after that. Like, who the hell hurt you?
It is guite simple, you don't under ANY circumstances insult my dead spouse for ANY reason.
OP did the right thing. Stealing is stealing. It seriously pisses me off when your own family steals from you, especially when they justify it.
Besides, the fact she didn't even consider the fees and interests means that, if OP would have learned about it MUCH later, the cost would have been even worse!
what if she stole to feed/raise you
@@kysfggt There’s a very clear difference between stealing _from_ you, and stealing _for_ you. I think it’s convenient and good natured to exchange cash when the other is having a difficult time, but she was practically destroying her own child’s finances right under his nose to provide for another child. (And most likely other things too . . .) That is just sneaky and wrong on many levels!
@@Theimmure what if she stole from you for you
I should also note that stealing is not this deed that becomes admirable even if you have good reasons for doing so. Parenthood is a lifestyle, and fulfilling your duty by committing crime is a desperate measure, but by doing so you could ruining someone else’s day, or life if it’s extreme.
The babysitter who read out the diary - this was straight out bullying. All her "good intentions" BS was just self-justification. Just bullying - the father in this case wants to pay an outsider to bully his daughter.
He's doing the babysitter. 100%.
I can't believe it isn't just blaringly obvious to everyone...
the last story: It's not over M&Ms, it's over her insulting OP and their kids, completely disregarding them and their wishes, making them look bad, and then making the whole thing about her (grandma's) hurt feelings. Definitely not the A.
Imagine that mother in law spreading the idea that OP and her wife left because of M&M’s and not because of that terrible thing she said. Truly disgusting that some people would do this horrible thing.
Thats the problem with just leaving, all the people at the party only heard mil's side and she very clearly has it out for op. Chances are the rest of the family are harassing them because all they heard was mil sobbing "I just gave the kids a few m&ms and op came storming in yelling at me! I feared for my life!"
How come everyone just turns a blind eye when the buttholes does something, but do the opposite when OP stands up to them? Like in the grandparents one, I’m assuming some people took their side because crying automatically makes you the victim.
Toxic emotional manipulation
Ugh, I understand why people try to side with someone based on first impression in a high intensity situation, but sometimes it isn’t that simple and mob mentality justice often gets innocent people hurt or worse because it shows ignorance and stupidity.
How about before taking sides, you (not you two btw) dumb asses try neutrally assessing the situation and getting both sides to calm down and restrain them? Don’t just assume the woman is innocent because a man is against her. Don’t assume the white guy is innocent because the black guy is against them.
Think before you act, you mob of morons!!
I’m venting about a story where a fathers kid was being kidnapped and a mob of morons took the kidnapping woman’s bait and beat down on the father because “durr hurr woman scream and woman automatically innocent”
@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 I remember that story. It made me physically sick.
@@ramenbomberdeluxe4958 I just told somebody that story, I remember it so well it stuck with me..so haunting that something like that can happen in broad daylight in a park and the "bad guy" almost got away with a baby! What they did to that Man (and his family) is totally unacceptable in every way!
@@eroraf8637 Thank GOD I'm not alone on this, then again I think that story had thousands of likes so that means many have seen it, for the most part.
Hands up to the wife of op in the last story
Having a partner this supportive to you? Everything you can dream of
Sometimes you can just screw your parents or your parents in law
You can't really choose them
But op obviously chose the perfect partner for her!
Babysitter story: What do the babysitter's PARENTS think of what she did and its results? Have they even asked the husband? If they want to lose a friendship over a mistake THEIR DAUGHTER made, that's on them.
OMG, the journal story: I'm freakin seventeen, and I've seen enough of the world to know that a journal is a weighty sympathetic ear to listen to you rant and sob and scream about all your pain and insecurities without consequences, and allow you to look back on it and recognize the pattern you could break to feel better again. I had a diary once, where I could write everything I felt, and by the time I was done, all the anguish and pain was gone, and I was relieved I got it out of my system. The journal is a private way to express yourself, and the fact that the daughter uses it is precisely how she isn't breaking down and thinking how the world is against her because it took away her best friend. Just because the babysitter isn't a legal adult doesn't mean that anything she does can have the excuse that she didn't know it was wrong. I was younger than that when I knew the significance of a journal or a diary. Sometimes, when you can't find a way to express it with your voice, you write, you draw (like I do sometimes), you sing, you even dance! The babysitter way overstepped and utterly insensitive to how your daughter was feeling, and the daughter will feel that she has nowhere safe to express herself. I hope the daughter will be alright. The road to recovery is long and hard, even harder now after what the babysitter did, and the daughter will probably feel worse before she gets better. But at least she has OP, and at least we do know that she is somewhat better, because she knew she had someone to depend on and call for help when she's in the dark.
Believe me, I know about bottling up your emotions, and there were times when those resentments and angry feelings that built up just came out, and I ended up verbally lashing out at my family, which is something I'm not proud of.
19 here, and dude. You nailed it on the head. PERIOD.
Writing a journal is the opposite of bottling up too, it helps you get stuff out your system and process it
Reading someone's journal takes away that safe space to express yourself
The babysitter knew exactly what she was doing and definitely needed to leave and never return. Unforgivable breech of trust to read the journal. To read it to others? And record it?!?!??!! Fuck you! Get out
yeah tell that to my parents. I couldn't keep one because they frequently went through my room looking for stuff and would find the start of a journal and would make me sit on the couch while they read it and made fun of me over it. I learned I had to keep whatever I was going through bottled up inside.
@@genseven4616 I'm sorry, but your parents sound like total assholes. Not only disrespecting their child's privacy, but openly making fun of you to your face? What monsters.
@@owenogletree6374 trust me when I say that was the least they put me through but thank you for your concern :)
Car story...after her saying that she isn't getting in the car, I would have simply told her "Ok then, Uber home." Then asked my brother if he wants the ride from me or to Uber with her...regardless, OP get 0/5, his mother and brother get 1.5/5 for not seeing the the girl was being a bitch, and the fiancee get 5/5 for disrespecting OP's dead wife
Yup, you don't beg someone to accept a favour.
what's even crazier is that the brother and the mother should have understood why it hurt op so much. First she insults his car, which he very clearly tells her not to do again, THEN she insults his dead wife's jewelry. There's literally no way the Mother and Brother didnt know that the wife was dead. and given the fact OP still talked to them at the time, they probably even knew that the necklace belonged to the wife.
Agreed
I have the same type of temper, that I'm calm most of the time but if this was my brother's fiancee I would drag her through hell, leave her there, let satan torture her, and come back and throw her off a cliff. Sorry, this story makes me so pissed I'm shaking.
she basiclty said a weird form of: I dont care if u die i married you for the money I will sell evrything you ever had!
"They aren't even your kids" WHAT? How does MIL not see how hurtful that is?! Also they weren't MIL's kids and by her own logic that means she doesn't get a say either!
That moment of respect where rslash corrected himself over OP's father's parents was so wonderful. Things like that remind me of why i love this channel so much (as if i need a reminder)
Stealing is stealing, no matter who does it.
Idk about history or anything I will get hate comment but I still will say this.
**Communism intensify**
However, its the best when you catch them.
Still, I'd be crying and panicking on what to do if I'm going to be honest. My family is all I got, even if it isn't the best. Doing this would leave me with nothing. If this would happen to me, I'd have nothing left regardless on what happens. This is a mayor loss-loss.
And if she really used it to feed him...
Just thinking
I can tell you were never desperate to feed your family lol
Babysitter….hubs takes the babysitter side after how she treated your daughter? Is he banging the friend? Or the babysitter? This husband is an absolute tool. The babysitter is a straight up bully, disgusting.
Ayo 2x speed?
that would be a crime so stop assuming he is a pedo but he shouldn't be prioritizing his friend's feelings over his child
@@ihopespaceisedible330 its either dad cares more about his friend than his own kid, dad is getting naughty with someone in that family or nah it's one of those two options sooo
Thats exactly what i thought too!!
That's what I thought..
Always remember this: Never lend money to family. It rarelly ends in a good way. As for stealing, that's even less tolerable.
I used to write in my diary. I stopped when I found out my step father was reading it. It's huge breech of trust and I would definitely fire the babysitter
Why do we need to treat people differently “just because it’s their engagement” or a special occasion
If someone is being an asshole, especially taking shots at you, your identity, your loved ones, etc. why does it being a special occasion change how you are allowed to react.
Especially with just how rude this fiancé was. Yeah, if it was just 1 or 2 small comments maybe it would be best to keep a straight face. But this was very aggressive, not even just rude but mean behavior.
The only special treatment you'll get from me is that I'll try not to cough or drop my fork on my plate during your proposal. Not my responsibility to make your day special.
@@Lyndiloo you must be a really fun person to be around!
@@pooydragon5398 More fun to be around than somebody that condescendingly insults a stranger on the internet because they don't really care if it's a random person's "special day" I bet.
I hate the “ but they’re family” , “but they’re older than you, you need to show respect”, “they’re younger than you, be the bigger person”, “ it happened a long time ago, let it go” and “it’s a special occasion, you need to keep your mouth shut” excuses. Actions have consequences, it shouldn’t matter who the person is or where/when it happened. This is where all their rude and entitled attitudes comes from. Did his brother and the fiancée really think that their engagement day gave them the pass to trash the car, they are getting a ride from? From the way OP’s parents were acting, I guess they did. (I know his brother didn’t say anything about his car but he wasn’t calling out his wife either)
@@ajjean2720 yeah, the fiancé was complacent, which is disgusting because you would think he would be aware of the emotional significance of these items
And yeah, I hate all those excuses, they are just BS
10:54 that's not 'messing with someone'. That's straight up bullying and emotional abuse.
I know a bully when I see one/hear what they do/did.
I hope OPs daughter is doing okay & she knows not all people are mean. She deserves happiness. 💙
On some level, I could see how the babysitter could be convinced that she was just trying to do the right thing, but yeah no. Father here is the Butthole, how do you expect the daughter to feel in all this, do you want to have long term trust issues, cuz that's how you get long term trust issues
@@trickyagent127 Maybe, but that still doesn't make her behavior any better. She's 17. She should know better.
I agree about the father. Your daughter should come first here, not some friendship.
I'm willing to give the babysitter the benefit of a doubt. BUT .. if she doesn't know to respect other people's boundaries, she _needs_ to be shown firm boundaries and consequences as a teaching experience, and the mom did the right thing for firing her. The apology just could've meant that the babysitter is only sorry for losing the job, and not actually sorry for overstepping boundaries. And there's only one way to make sure she doesn't do it again: not let her.
Too bad there's another bully much closer. Her own dad.
@@annika5893 true
A word to the brother before his upcoming wedding about his fiance: RUN!
The Last Story, Op's wife sounds like a great person. She should marry her.
What a novel idea, Why didn’t they think of that? ;)
I am the Lorax.
I speak for the trees.
The trees want to see their brethren avenged.
They want Tree Law videos. Please and thank you.
Also I feel the daughter in the third story, I lost my best friend from suicide not to long ago. I hope she is doing better. :)
Pls comment this on every video
*chants softly*
Tree law, tree law, tree law, tree law......
Me too on both things
Sending cyber hugs and support xxx also tree law rules!
@@leannemedhurst9662 aww thanks, friend! Cyber hugs have been received and have been melded into my conscious where they will live in eternal happiness.
First story : NTA. It is NOT up to you to pay that debt that she took under your name. It should be HER who pays it. She stole from you, didn't even tell you, never paid a cent on it and let it accumulate and is telling you to pay it yourself? That's more than just a 5 year set back. It's easily 10 years at nearly $358 per month.
I have family that pulls "I'm the grandparent so I over rule you." When it comes to snacks and such.
I don’t know why but I’m loving these free-style rants after stories, they always make me laugh
The story about the babysitter:
"Now the husband"
GET HIM, RSLASH! GET HIM!
Edit:
17:27 *GET HIM, RSLASH!!!!!!!!!*
*GET HIM*
*GET HIM*
*GET HIM*
I'm the only one that tought "well, it's clear: OP's husband is banging his friend/friend's wife/friend's husband"
Sounds like the husband is prepping to rule 34 the babysitter when she turns 18
The weird thing is he didn’t stand up for the wife or the daughter
It’s quite vile men can do that
When you have a family you protect your family
Your friends can be replaced if they can’t understand how ridiculous they act
When family shuns you for doing the right thing and taking care of yourself in a just way, it’s a good indication that they are toxic and definitely won’t keep the same energy to have your back anyway. They are basically just saying they don’t think it’s wrong and they would do the same.
“How didn’t I saw the signs”
The signs being bigger than the state of Alaska
Car story: Funny thing is, I believe, the mocking of the girl was not even directed at OP, but a at her fiancé. I have the vibe, that she wanted to make clear she thinks, her fiancé is cheap to rely on his brother to drive her and not renting a car for this special occasion. That is why she didn't want to drive with OP in the first place. Doesn't make her less a b*tthole, though.
The only thing to save her some grace: She could not have known OP's sentimental value of the car and the necklace. Therefore she might not have expected to insult OP as strongly as she did.
Not the bhole in the first story. That's awful. My mother has brought my brother and I up to be honest. We know if we stole from her that would be it. She would press charges etc. And she expected the same from us. It kept us honest about each others property
I think calling the cops is a bit extreme. If I stole from my mother she wouldn't call the cops...neva do we as family let outsiders including the law into our problems...now if she Stole from me then fuck it its my mother...she gave birth to me....I just would never talk to her again or go back and take what's mine...I think calling the cops is a butthole move fullstop...be a man and deal with it yourself.
@@pollumG family is overrated. Gender has nothing to do with it so I don't know why "be a man" was necessary either
@@pollumG ok from my perspective. Stealing is stealing, it’s already bad when you steal from someone but stealing from your own child makes it even worse, she basically just took away his future if he didn’t know anything about it, he could’ve spent years trying to pay out his mother loan and she didn’t even have the decency to tell him about it. Absolute bhole in my opinion
@@shankhao2005 I'm surprised that the loan company haven't tried something against him yet like garnishing wages. But not knowing how long ago the loan was, they might have not bothered and it's considered "zombie debt". Plus filing the identity fraud is the only real way to protect yourself in this case. There's also no way to prove that the 10k was even used to pay for food and whatnot, she made no effort to repay the loan and kept the fact hidden. Sounded like she was caught and scrambled for an excuse, wonder how OP's brother would had felt if she did the same with him.
@@pollumG someone doesn’t get how 43000 is a literal life changing amount of money, that can buy someone out of a bad life, and your response is to deal with it?
This was a particularly juicy AITA. Nice commentary, too. Love how much Rslash is turning into a family man, defending his imaginary grandchildren :)
I love how much Rslash drinks his "Respect my wife and kids" juice. It's honestly kind of adorable
About that fiance, OP did warned her and she's still give shit and makes it even worse? Because of that, I even raise that scote with a 0.5 on top of that
Second story : Your reaction to them is perfectly normal and them expecting anything else, is on them. Also, if your names were on the insurance policy, that money goes to you. They cannot legally keep it, even if they are mad. So I would also sue them for that.
They ask about op's financial, they want money
I always find it ironic how the older generation calls millenials and the younger generation disrespectful and entitled when THEY THEMSELVES display the same if not a higher level of disrespect and entitlement.
You know what they say. “Rules for thee, not for me.”
Like they all forget they were -they- the examples of how to act....
That is actually the true meaning behind the saying 'it takes a village to raise a child', it literally was intended to express to everyone the need for ALL to lead by example, not just the solitary family, in order to show them how they are supposed to be acting OUT IN SOCIETY.
What’s funny about this as well, is it’s like “And who the fuck raised the millennials?”. Like, seriously, what the actual hell? Way to admit to being shitty parents. However, millennials and younger Gen X are in no WAY as entitled, bitter, hypocritical or demanding as Boomers and older Gen X. Shit, the post war generation is no where near as huge as assholes as the boomers. Look how fucking cool Betty White, Carol Burnett, Dick van Dyke and people their age are… cool and accepting, and was the generation that set up all the government programs for boomers to succeed after 2 major wars and the depression, and those boomer fuckers that took complete advantage of those programs took them away from us, calling us entitled and lazy? If they hate us so fucking much, and didn’t want to invest in us like their parents did for them, then why the fuck did they bother having us?
@@dieCG you make an excellent point.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings : Bloody fools forget that soon, they are going to be depending on us to take care of them via homing situations… oh! Wait… never mind… we can’t put them into homes, or at least good ones, because we have to work 2 jobs, ESPECIALLY WITH A DEGREE, to make ends meet and pay off college. The college that they use to get either for free or paid pennies for… so I guess it’s shitty government run homes paid off via their seized assets for them!
Am I the only one who loves it when Rslash genuinely gets hyped up in his response 😂 like the energy behind it is immaculate
It's not the children's job to finance raising themselves. If people don't want to spend two decades raising offspring, then they shouldn't be having them.
About the Journal story:
I started working with children when I was 17 and I 100% knew better then to do what that babysitter did because it is litrally just common sense! You never EVER take someone’s private thoughts and share them out loud for everyone to hear UNLESS said person gives you the permission to do so! Also when the mom fired the baby sitter I was like “THIS IS A GOOD MOM!! This is what supporting and protecting your child looks like!!” That dad literally only cares about his public image rather then his own daughters mental well being. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
Or the dad is having a affair (with the mom or the teen)
@@tiffany-up2ii i wouldn't go that far, it was probably cheaper to hire her as she is a friend and with no experience. So, he probably cares more about his money and what's convenient for him
That makes sense
Story 1: So the mom will say that she did what she had to do in order to raise her children. Thing is, she didn't *do* anything to earn that $10k-$20k. She used her child's name like an ATM, screwing up their credit for years to come, and is not really making any effort to pay off the debt she accrued in her child's name. With all that outstanding unpaid debt, guaranteed their credit rating is shot. That will preclude the child from some housing, some jobs, government security clearance if they want to serve their country. It can literally destroy their future, for what... a few groceries? Maybe snuck in a spa day somewhere?
Story 2: It'sabuse to expect a child to imprint upon you and give you love and affection without first giving it to the child. Offspring and your descendants do not owe you affection when they had no choice to be born. If you want a child out of your life, you're making that choice for the child. When they go along with it, you don't get to act shocked or offended. You turned that child into a stranger, you made yourself a stranger... and when was the last time a stranger walked up demanding your love and respect and you took them seriously? Yeah.
Story 3: If she were alone, I would have taken her home, but made it clear that we never need to speak again. But since she was with the brother I wouldn't necessarily mind putting them out. I would explain right there to the brother that I'm not required to put up with disrespect because he's in love. Get married, you have my blessing, if you have kids I'll be polite and help them any way I can. But this person is who you want to marry and that means that if she gets herself in trouble, you're in trouble with her and it's no one else's job but yours to protect her and get her out of trouble. So here you go. She got you stranded in the middle of nowhere because she literally could not stop being disrespectful to the memory of someone's dead wife for ten minutes. That's her fault. She has to own that, and so do you now. Welcome to the first day of the rest of your lives together.
Story 4: The 17 year old is old enough to know right and wrong. Plus it's an established patternof being told to leave the 14 year old alone and she didn't. In fact it was the classic teenage gaslighting of she didn't mean it she was just harmless teasing. The 17 year old isn't the one who gets to decide if it's harmless or not. She disrespected the daughter, the house rules ("don't antagonize my children" is a big one in every house, everywhere) and expects to be given unlimited second chances. No. You're not owed a job in anyone's home. If the husband is more worried about the friendship he can go live with the friend and pay the 17 year old as an administrative assistant or something.
Story 5: Grands have to understand this - you children's children are not your children. You don't get to just waltz up and overrule your kids' parenting. Otherwise your grandkids will never listen to their parents. Now that was probably the intent in this situation with the in-laws. But they were so tone deaf about disrespecting the non-birth mother that they must have forgotten (I doubt that this is the first time they have had to learn this lesson) that their daughter will back up her wife. So definitely don't overplay your hand. And definitely there are hills to die on as a grandparent (drug use, abuse, etc.) but your own microaggressions are not one of those things.
Im two stories in and already remembering my family motto "no one f*cks you faster than family"
This absolute king didn't make a scene, he just shut one down
The babysitter story: op's husband sounds like he's probably having an affair with the seventeen year old. Just a guess.
Yikes and I know what you mean
Thats exactly what I thought
or the babysitter's mom, seeing as that would be illegal
You could seriously be onto something there.
@@KokoLive nah creeps don’t care about that sadly :(
“What do we like?!”
“Rslash parenting advice!”
“When do when want it?!”
“When ever he feels like doing it again!”
And that the 100%, complete,and total truth
Amen
For the grandparents to track you down at a Walmart thousands of miles away and not say hi, we miss you. Just,”GOVE ME YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION “ that screams there was a clause in his insurance payout that is about to bite them in the ass. Get a lawyer and call the cops something tells me they owe you SO MUCH MORE than you think.
“You’re really gonna die over a piece of junk?”
“Someone is”.
rslash he chose his friend over his own daughter. he would rather keep a friendship than his own flesh and bloods happiness and all you give him is 3.5 nah that should have been a 4.5 or at least a 4
Also the babysitter got only 2.5??? She should get AT LEAST 3.5
Well, he did say in a previous video that he saves the 5/5 butthole ratings for the truly horrific cases, because if he handed out 5/5 buttholes to every butthole, then the 5/5 rating wouldn't really mean much
@@kalarowan3331 i never did say he deserved a 5 i said at least a 4
Rslash on ' parents/grandparents being sh*t' stories before having a child - 2 out of 5 buttholes
Rslash on those stories after becoming a father - 4! And I bet a 5 crossed your mind ;)
Lol, happens to us all and I love to see it
father's parents thank you
That fatherly love made him realize the stakes and the importance of being a good parent, so now he realizes just how bad they are.
That last one had me lmao I was thinking were is the evil man in this fairytale you said father inlaw 🤣
Ok. That rain check when OP talked about her fathers parents made it sound like I had accidentally skipped the video 🤣🤣🤣
When ever r/slash uploads, my face literally lights up
Same :D
You should get that looked at...
damn are u a light bulb?
This same thing happened to me. My mom used my SSN to get a 13k loan when I was like 12. I didn't find our until I was an adult, but I never turned her in because she'd used the money to keep our family fed and housed. it's not like she blew it on crap or anything, it was to keep us from being homeless, so I understood. After she died a couple years later, I reported identity theft and got it all dropped from my credit score. I really feel for this guy cos his mom's alive. It's a tough situation to be in for sure. I couldn't buy shit the entire time my mom was alive cos I had a credit score of 500.
I’ve never been in that situation, but I can see how the mom was trying to support her children and herself as much as she could when she was struggling. I feel like maybe when she got back on her feet she could’ve started paying it back but it’s just a really sucky overall and OP has every right to be upset and frustrated
My former stepmom did the same to me but it was found out while I was still a kid. Thankfully it was taken care of then.
But she did it because she had a shopping addiction and just wanted some more credit cards.
Why is it even possible to take out a loan on the SSN of a 12 year old? That's insane. Like, if someone that young was asking for a loan you could be 100% sure it was not that person but rather someone commiting identity theft.
Its sad it happens, but if the only way for a parent to raise a child is to put that child in debt, then ultimately, they are bad parents. Regardless of the reasons why, they are giving that child a massive burden and disadvantage when they reach adulthood that shouldn't be necessary.
It’s neat to see how… angry Rslash gets now when a story involves a kid being wronged because he has a kid. It’s justifies anger, yes, but it’s still nice to see. It’s fascinating to me.
That babysitter was straight-up BULLYING Lauren, plain and simple.
That last story... its also insane that the MIL seems to think the fight is about chocolate. Like, really? No! Its about her blatant disrespect to OP as a parent and the fact that she belittled her by saying that they aren't her kids. What the f?!
Exactly!
It's gaslighting that she's deluded herself into believing, and because that's what she thinks is what all this is about, she doesn't feel like she's wrong.
RSlash in 30 years: *posts public apology begging to see his grandchildren*
Everyone who's been watching him only for Reddit videos: *visible confusion*
OK then sport did you need to talk with someone
What
You give me an idea l will not axcebt
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Edeit:didn't complet the video sorry
For the m&m story, I'd be outta the flipping them off on my way out yelling at them, lmao
I remember being poor as a kid and my Mom needing my money or having to pawn my stuff to pay bills or for food but at the very least she told me why she needed it and asked permission first.
SEE THATS WHAT A FAMILY IS SUPPOSED TO DO
I'm confused by that first story... if the mom used the money to provide for OP and his brother, presumably she stole the money when he was a kid but he only just found out. Did she only steal from his insurance though and not his brother's? If she just stole from OP's to provide for both of them, shady as hell. If she stole from both, why isn't the brother pissed off about it? Would be interesting if the brother found out later on that their mom had done the same to him!
Maybe he doesn't know yet. I would tell Op to tell his brother to check of she stole from him
It doesn't matter she stole from her son she stole over 40k like r slash said thats life changing and life destroying money and op also said that he has nowhere near that money to repay it and if im not mistaken doesn't it mess up your credit in a short-term
@@myersisgolu How did what I say in any way negate that? I wasn't excusing anything, I was just saying the brother might not think OP was such a butthole if he turns out to have been a victim too.
@@ManlyStump or brother could also be blind to mother's a-holery. It happens
@@ManlyStump sorry the way you worded it got me a bit confused I reread and can see my errors my b
In the Babysitter one…your husband has a responsibility to protect his kids. It’s his primary responsibility as the man in the relationship. His first thought should be of the emotional damage this causes to his child. His friend should have done a better job raising their kid. She should have known better. And this lady told her so a few times. That’s NOT ok. The husbands friend is a secondary issue here.
The father was in the right. That story was a textbook example of the emotional response of the mom vs the rational response of the dad. Everyone, from rslash to you, is so hyper-focused on the friend thing that you ignored every other point he made. Sure it was a bad thing to do but by the reaction the girl was genuinely trying to help (The mom said this) and felt really bad. She didn't abuse the kid or do anything life-altering so the mom's response was completely out of line and way too extreme. The dad was right, she apologized, you have to make amends.
You and everyone else is defending the mom but think of the precedent this sets for the girl. Apologies are NEVER accepted. Mistakes can NEVER be forgiven. One strike and you're out. That's absolutely awful. The babysitter messed up but it's not like she did anything malicious or bad. Way too much emotion and way too little rational thinking.
@@War450
If i get a job as a cook and have no idea what im doing in the kitchen, i wont go around doing stupid shiet, i will either quit or ask for help from my fellow co-workers etc. What im trying to say is you can't take matters into your own hands when you have absolutely no idea how things work, she should have at least asked the mother before she did something like that!
also, if you don't like people reading your texts on your phone out loud (which i assume most of us don't like that), then why do you think its a good idea to read a child's text book about her grief out loud??
the father was probably caring more about how much less money she costed as a babysitter (considering she has 0 experience and she was also a friend) which i find it unacceptable for a father.
children at that age are like glass, one wrong move and they break and they will need years of working on themselves to fix something that YOU find "not bad/malicious".
You can't trust that person around your kid, it's not about forgiveness. She can't deal with children with trauma, there for she should not be around them and that's not a bad thing!
if you can't bake don't go for a job at a bakery, if you cant cook don't go for work on a restaurant. I had to quit way more simpler jobs because i couldn't function properly there. I had to quit a job at a coffee shop because even tho i like making coffee, i'm way too shy and anxious to deal with 400 different people every day AND THAT'S OKAY its not for me!
@@serenanocte4769 There is just so much wrong with your post.
"the father was probably caring more about how much less money she costed as a babysitter (considering she has 0 experience and she was also a friend) which i find it unacceptable for a father."
Literal strawman. You just assume the father's bad because it helps your narrative. At no point did he ever even remotely suggest that was his motivation. So you can just screw off with that. "Hurr durr I find this thing he never did unacceptable!" what is wrong with you?
Also no, children are NOT glass that's a patent lie propagated by weak people of modern society. Children are as durable as you make them. I can 100% guarantee that as a kid if my babysitter read my journals I wouldn't have had life-long trauma. That's pure insanity.
The babysitter did wrong, nobody disputes that. But her actions weren't THAT bad, it's not like she abused the child or something. You and the mother both are prime examples of why emotion MUST be tempered by logic. You're just screeching harpies going on about "THINK OF THE CHILDREN!", the kid would be fine and it would do her good to learn to forgive and forget.
Instead of just diving headfirst into the deep end of emotional hysteria, use this moment to teach the daughter that people can do bad things with good intentions and you need to forgive them for their transgressions and move on.
People like you are why modern generations are the softest, weakest, most mentally-disabled generations to ever grace this earth. Accept an apology when it is genuine and move on with your life.
@War450 You make a lovely point here, and I thank you.
I'm a mom, so I am torn so much over all of the points in the story. I agree with mom being upset over the violation of trust, and I agree with dad that the apologies from the babysitter should be the end of it.
What I am struggling with is where, as a parent, do we cease stopping being that momma/papa bear and let the pain of life happen? When do we intervene?
Disappointment and betrayal are unfortunately large parts of life, but perhaps protecting our kiddos in our homes should be paramount..
Conversely, the daughter's learning how to move forward from broken trust on her own is so important...
I hate this story more than I care to admit, and love it more than I can describe.
@@j.weaver3039 I think the line is subjective and based on the real damage done. In the grand scheme of life your babysitter's misguided attempts to help you wont do anything to you. I mean we, as adults, can look back and think about ourselves in such a situation. Sure we'd be mad but right now, today? It wouldn't effect us in any way.
What WOULD effect us is being taught that mistakes can never be forgiven. And that is far more damaging.
If I was in those parents' shoes I'd make the Babysitter sit down and give a deep, heartfelt apology and explain her motives to the girl and then have my daughter accept that apology.
The mom acted as if the babysitter sold the girl to a dealer or something, what the babysitter did was bad, but forgiveable, so you forgive and move on.
You really hit the nail on the head with the brother/fiancee story... Those red flags are crimson.
4:32 when she started to cry worlds smallest violin started playing in my head
Ah, just in time for my fresh-squeezed orange juice breakfast.
Everyday at 8 without fail
The dad is definitely sleeping with the babysitter, and if he’s not why is he putting this unimportant person above his child???
That's what I was thinking.
the babysitter is apparently 17 sooooo
Yeah, ridiculous excuse.. Yeah, kids do make mistakes in their first jobs, and they get FIRED for them. What is up with this guy?
assuming someone did a crime with no proof that's sick but it's his friend's daughter so he might not want to burn any bridges but he should prioritize his child over his friend since that was his main issue in the post.
@Chris G You have reiterated 4 times now that 17 year old children are free real estate. What the f4ck is the matter with you?
That Moment you could tell the stepped away from the mix or just backed up a bit to rant was my favorite part of this vid
rSlash is gonna be a great dad going forward and that makes even my childfree heart happy. It's super cute.
First story: how the h e double hockeysticks are people allowed to take out loans in the names of their children!?
@A But... shouldn't an ssn have some date of birth correlation? Isn't there any checks tht flags the ssn of those under a certain age? Why isn't that a thing in America!?
I love how sience Rslash became a father he is even more defensive obout relationships and kids. Wishing you and your family the best Rslash!
i really like how much more energetic is Rslash lately. He has great vibes
My favorite quote from this one has got to be "Stop being a toxic little turd!" 😂😂😂
Rslash if he can't see his grandchildren: I have made a severe and continuous lapse on my judgement
R/ your daughter is going to have this video saved when she gets older and will hold you to it.
"I'm bad I'm the bad guy!!" Rslash-2021 😂😂
I absolutely love when RSlash goes full dad mode.
I'm watching this on the hospital bed 😂❤ this is how much I appreciate rslash
Get better dude.
@@nodrugshere300 thanks i appreciate it
Get well soon.
@@maieen2665 thanks 😊🙏
Damn, that last story escalated extremely quickly.
Loving the extra long commentary lately! It feels like a true discussion
The father's parents story reminded me of the anti-drug commercials in the 80's, when the dad confronts the kid and asked him "where did you learn to do this?" And the kid says: "from you! I learned from watching you!" You reap what you sow and respect has to be earned; sad that so many refuse to understand that.