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  • @malonee
    @malonee Před 2 lety +7718

    I'm not saying that how you look after transitioning makes you more or less valid, but to misgender Marcus blows my mind

    • @ryanland979
      @ryanland979 Před 2 lety +46

      @ me if you're racist

    • @monicaliz.
      @monicaliz. Před 2 lety +620

      @@ryanland979 you do ryan

    • @j-hope_realwife
      @j-hope_realwife Před 2 lety +405

      @@ryanland979 you obviously do if you commented 💀

    • @teratoma.
      @teratoma. Před 2 lety +128

      yeah i cant even imagine that scene happening irl 😂

    • @wwxx23
      @wwxx23 Před 2 lety +177

      I thought the same thing 😂 he has a great beard and all

  • @lynxlynx3054
    @lynxlynx3054 Před 2 lety +215

    “It was hard to be in that body, it was hard to know I was in there but no-one could see me” brooo that is IT! That was exactly the state of pre-T existence

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před rokem +1

      Makes no sense 💀

    • @dapo3538
      @dapo3538 Před rokem

      They took drugs so people could see them?

    • @andiewfs_XIII
      @andiewfs_XIII Před rokem +23

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 you’re lucky that how you look in your brain is the same way you look on the outside. Other people aren’t so lucky.

  • @dylana2776
    @dylana2776 Před 2 lety +1275

    it's interesting how they fear death now, whereas before they were constantly suicidal, just shows how transitioning and hormones save lives and mean a lot to these people wow

    • @surrealmadrid7971
      @surrealmadrid7971 Před 2 lety +124

      Also very sad.....that you go through all the hell of wanting to die and being desperately unhappy....and then finally feel happy as yourself after going through all that pain and medical intervention just to still have the danger of death in your life .....going from being hidden to having to hide ..... Humans are cruel

    • @strapdemon
      @strapdemon Před 2 lety +42

      as someone who is suicidal i still don't want to be hatecrimed. being hatecrimed is my biggest fear despite how i feel about myself

    • @gypsy-nr9zd
      @gypsy-nr9zd Před 2 lety +14

      No disrespect but I understand why they fear death *now* (after having transitioned)

    • @smokesparkles777
      @smokesparkles777 Před 2 lety +8

      theyre fearing discrimation

    • @slayerc3355
      @slayerc3355 Před 2 lety

      @@strapdemon ...the media really got you controlled...

  • @AuroraaZaph
    @AuroraaZaph Před 2 lety +1180

    Luckie is a GRANDPA?! how?! he's only 41 and looks even younger

  • @stefaniamarchese4177
    @stefaniamarchese4177 Před 2 lety +4553

    "My masculinity is eating gummy bears in the middle of the living room, while coloring in a coloring book". I loved it!

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles Před 2 lety +104

      How is six year old behavior considered masculine?

    • @wooyoungisbaby
      @wooyoungisbaby Před 2 lety +279

      @@FerretCuddles because he's a guy doing it. hope this helps

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles Před 2 lety +73

      @@wooyoungisbaby Your lack of understanding masculinity is understandable, thing with pink hair.

    • @TheFifthBanana01
      @TheFifthBanana01 Před 2 lety +234

      @@FerretCuddles Masculinity is subjective. And as long as someone is happy living their life without hurting anyone, it’s just fine.

    • @xXjoelXx
      @xXjoelXx Před 2 lety +41

      @@wooyoungisbaby thats a woman taking T nothing more

  • @Noritheballoonhuman
    @Noritheballoonhuman Před 2 lety +501

    I used to think I was trans but later realized that I was not. I was on T a month. If someone uses me as a reason why these guys shouldn't transition SHAME ON THEM THEY DON'T KNOW ME. Everyone's experience is very different.

    • @x-x2060
      @x-x2060 Před 2 lety +95

      True, hope you got yourself figured out thank you for not blaming the trans community ❤

    • @Baalur
      @Baalur Před 2 lety +18

      Dodged a bullet there...
      Instead of attacking those that look at cases like yours and warn others maybe think for a second. What happens to the young girls that keep getting influenced into the path you wisely did not take? Considering the enormous increase in people with trans gender identity noone can believe that transitioning is the best for all these people whereas before it was very rare. Medical transitioning means a lot of irreversible and damaging changes. What if you had taken T for longer? What if you now had to deal with bottom growth and a changed voice? There are many girls that make big mistakes right now. The total affirmation of everything that is going on at the moment will damage a lot of people. Trans and cis people will be harmed if noone speaks up against certain trends.

    • @sponetot
      @sponetot Před 2 lety +71

      @@Baalur what??

    • @Baalur
      @Baalur Před 2 lety +6

      @@sponetot You know very well what I was saying with that conment.

    • @noahfletcher3019
      @noahfletcher3019 Před 2 lety +5

      You're literally a perfect example for why you shouldn't transition dude. You can't tell people how to feel about your case.

  • @InterstellarNoa
    @InterstellarNoa Před 2 lety +2005

    Okay. My name is Noa, and although I am not yet in T the moment Noah said "I'm so proud of you for staying alive" I broke down crying. I hope to some day get to the same point these men are at.

    • @wwxx23
      @wwxx23 Před 2 lety +41

      It’s a sign!! Hahahaha it’s all gonna be okay you’ll see♥️

    • @noah-cp7sm
      @noah-cp7sm Před 2 lety +19

      you will, i believe in you :)

    • @InterstellarNoa
      @InterstellarNoa Před 2 lety +10

      @@issac9642 So you'd allow all of them to get into the girls' bathroom?

    • @MrsRen
      @MrsRen Před 2 lety +4

      Noa is a traditional Jewish girl's name.

    • @mac9733
      @mac9733 Před 2 lety +5

      @@issac9642 And if some of them have reconstructive surgery?

  • @daisyinthelife
    @daisyinthelife Před 2 lety +3589

    I love when jubilee makes videos like this. This is such a humanising way to learn about trans men from trans men. Ig was a very emotional watch

    • @TedIsHere2
      @TedIsHere2 Před 2 lety +95

      Yes more videos like this and less middle ground/ spectrum videos that try to make bigots seems reasonable!

    • @Meccarox
      @Meccarox Před 2 lety +19

      @@TedIsHere2 Yeah exactly, I'm tired of that.

    • @King-Nova
      @King-Nova Před 2 lety +4

      @@TedIsHere2 no thanks

    • @starobviously4956
      @starobviously4956 Před 2 lety +3

      @@TedIsHere2 no, bothhh

    • @bones1026
      @bones1026 Před 2 lety +4

      @@TedIsHere2 EXACTLY

  • @Acid0Dreamz
    @Acid0Dreamz Před 2 lety +1458

    I appreciate hearing from older trans guys, Luckie especially. I'm maybe 9 years on T. I was told daily that I would regret it. The only thing I regret is not being able to do it sooner. I didn't think I would make it to 21, it's amazing that I did frankly. If I hadn't transitioned I'd be dead. It's really that simple.

    • @lilttiger
      @lilttiger Před 2 lety +52

      I'm so proud of you and happy for you that you transioned, and that you're still here :)

    • @bustedbud6673
      @bustedbud6673 Před 2 lety +13

      How long until you had an adequate beard growing in? And did your voice ever deepen past the 5 year mark? Thanks!

    • @Acid0Dreamz
      @Acid0Dreamz Před 2 lety +52

      @@bustedbud6673 I mean my voice is still deepening and my beard is still growing in. That profile picture is a couple years old. It's probably 2x that length now and much fuller. Like I can braid it easily if I wanted.

    • @bustedbud6673
      @bustedbud6673 Před 2 lety +31

      @@Acid0Dreamz that’s awesome, thanks! And definitely ignore the ignorant. Glad you’re powering on 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @acousthicc5198
      @acousthicc5198 Před 2 lety +9

      I strive to be as awesome as you, I'm so happy to hear you're doing this well. I'm so proud of what you've achieved.

  • @rayikes6231
    @rayikes6231 Před 2 lety +1244

    how can anyone dislike this- these guys were literally talking about how they felt suicidal before transitioning. im so happy for them

    • @NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb
      @NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb Před 2 lety +40

      Most of them still feel suicidal and just end up killing themselves

    • @Face1essAsh
      @Face1essAsh Před 2 lety +94

      @@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb Did the guys in the video say they were still suicidal?

    • @NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb
      @NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb Před 2 lety +20

      @@Face1essAsh talking about transgenders in general. Wasn’t talking about these guys. I meant statistically speaking

    • @Face1essAsh
      @Face1essAsh Před 2 lety +113

      @@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb Hmm, so why do you think the suicide rate is so high?

    • @rayikes6231
      @rayikes6231 Před 2 lety +152

      @@NarutoUzumaki-hj2hb thats even more reason to support people through their transition, it could save lives

  • @hotdawgsgood
    @hotdawgsgood Před 2 lety +2716

    I didn’t know gender was this impactful in someone’s life, cool vid

    • @eyeballjellyforbreakfast
      @eyeballjellyforbreakfast Před 2 lety +44

      It's not

    • @abiann2058
      @abiann2058 Před 2 lety +577

      @@eyeballjellyforbreakfast it is, especially for those who struggle with gender dysphoria.

    • @willarroz6703
      @willarroz6703 Před 2 lety +269

      @@eyeballjellyforbreakfast excuse me ma’am as a young woman you shouldn’t be so cruel and ignorant

    • @ScreamYoko
      @ScreamYoko Před 2 lety +230

      @@eyeballjellyforbreakfast ma’am, imma need you to raise your hand before you speak.

    • @needleinthehayy
      @needleinthehayy Před 2 lety +184

      @@eyeballjellyforbreakfast girl did you watch the video? like, ma’am, what do you not understand?

  • @NOAHFINNCE
    @NOAHFINNCE Před 2 lety +3137

    cool idea omg

  • @Flwerchild.
    @Flwerchild. Před 2 lety +694

    Very inspiring, also very telling that everyone’s biggest fear was related to be discriminated against or killed. That should put so much into perspective for people who don’t live in marginalized communities.

    • @jaidenthekid6051
      @jaidenthekid6051 Před 2 lety +9

      And people don't seem to get that it's because of this fear of discrimination that suicide is still rampant after HRT.

    • @megsley
      @megsley Před 8 měsíci

      I guarantee nothing will happen to any of these transmen. yall love to pretend like you're soooo oppressed in Western countries 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @cheyechamney
    @cheyechamney Před 2 lety +611

    I'm a mother to 3 beautiful girls (5, 3 & 4 month) and it scares me to think that if they feel like they're living in the wrong body and feel like they should have been born different that they'll be too scared to tell me. If any of them feel like they should have been born male I will love my son(s) and daughter(s) regardless. I can't say I truly understand it because without going through something like that myself I wouldn't ever truly know but I do know that trans people are still people and thus deserve to have equal human rights.

    • @waekaweh4708
      @waekaweh4708 Před 2 lety +86

      You're such a great mom , your daughters are so lucky to have you

    • @cheyechamney
      @cheyechamney Před 2 lety +30

      @@waekaweh4708 Oh my goodness, thank you!! ❤💕

    • @teratoma.
      @teratoma. Před 2 lety +43

      great mother moment

    • @Okeymari
      @Okeymari Před 2 lety +39

      Great mom♡✧・゚: *✧・゚:* that's all your children can ask of you is that you try to understand and be there to support them

    • @AS-rr9km
      @AS-rr9km Před 2 lety +15

      Omg glad to see your comment here and love your overall support. You are great and keep it up!!! Stay safe with love !

  • @needleinthehayy
    @needleinthehayy Před 2 lety +684

    as a trans guy, this means so much and really gives me hope. it’s so inspiring to hear all of their different input and stories

  • @misatosbeercans
    @misatosbeercans Před 2 měsíci +10

    When he said that he felt “stagnant” is exactly how I feel pre everything

  • @Bebe-rn2fh
    @Bebe-rn2fh Před 2 lety +447

    it's sad that so many parents don't accept their children for who they are. families should not be an obstacle for people who are coming out. if you want to get a child and expect them to be "straight" or "normal" or whatever, don't even get a child.

    • @iamjoy888
      @iamjoy888 Před 2 lety +33

      Gosh, I agree. It's so obvious, yet some cannot get it and give birth to please themselves, in their frame of programing. And as soon as something goes out of that frame, they reject it immediately.

    • @MasterOfInfinity
      @MasterOfInfinity Před 2 lety +30

      The people who are the least tolerant often have the most offsprings, unfortunately

    • @jocabdh1986
      @jocabdh1986 Před 2 lety +5

      Or just raise your kid normal

    • @acousthicc5198
      @acousthicc5198 Před 2 lety +14

      @Ruby By transitioning they are accepting themselves. If they didn't accept themselves they would keep pretending to be the gender they were imposed.

    • @JamesThePokemonHunter
      @JamesThePokemonHunter Před 2 lety +5

      @@jocabdh1986 wdym raise your kid normal?

  • @hex_xx_vex__3337
    @hex_xx_vex__3337 Před 2 lety +1041

    This was really inspiring to see as a trans guy who can’t afford to transition yet. It gives me hope that I’ll be able to transition this much in the future
    Edit: thank you for the kind messages it means more than you know

    • @cleigh3796
      @cleigh3796 Před 2 lety +13

      How can you transition to something you already are?

    • @maya-qe8vc
      @maya-qe8vc Před 2 lety +4

      goodluck!!💗

    • @hex_xx_vex__3337
      @hex_xx_vex__3337 Před 2 lety +44

      @@cleigh3796 as in physically transitioning through hormones and surgery

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před 2 lety +12

      Your born one way, what happened to people saying embrace what you got and stuff. Now your trying to change SMH 🤦‍♂️

    • @jean_etcetera
      @jean_etcetera Před 2 lety +69

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 You cannot embrace dysphoria... that is literally the etymology of the word, "unbearable, hard to carry" xd

  • @DiaryOfaCell
    @DiaryOfaCell Před 2 lety +1490

    I’m glad to see them happy and thriving.

  • @kristinekim9275
    @kristinekim9275 Před 2 lety +266

    No one should have to fear for their lives, PERIOD. It makes me sad that these men didn't feel like they belonged anywhere, and even today they still feel like that. I hope people can be more loving and inclusive of everyone, regardless of if they're trans or not. Everyone needs to watch this video so they can understand at least a little bit of what trans people have to go through every day

    • @SaeSaeyoungyoung
      @SaeSaeyoungyoung Před 2 lety +31

      Ruby, you should really investigate more about trans people.

    • @kristinekim9275
      @kristinekim9275 Před 2 lety +20

      @Ruby You should try looking at things not just from your schema or viewpoint. The fact is regardless of even if you believe they're male or not, they are suffering from other people's judgement and lack of understanding, and they are in danger every single day. Imagine living a life like that and people hating on you just because you want to express how you feel and how you view yourself. It's horrible and I really hope people will become more accepting to trans people out there who are getting attacked every day.

    • @kristinekim9275
      @kristinekim9275 Před 2 lety +4

      @@SaeSaeyoungyoung Amen.

    • @tuff8582
      @tuff8582 Před 2 lety +1

      Confused individuals

    • @SaeSaeyoungyoung
      @SaeSaeyoungyoung Před 2 lety +9

      @@tuff8582 i am very confused about how many people can be so ignorant and not investigate about this subject :/

  • @Peatingtune
    @Peatingtune Před 2 lety +199

    As a 37-year-old father I am disappointed by parents who can't love their children for who they really are. I get that society isn't quite ready for transpeople, but still - show some support for your kids.

    • @bishopharris1265
      @bishopharris1265 Před 2 lety +17

      Couldnt have said this better myself. Exactly. If you can't love your child because of who they are, you are a failure of a parent.

    • @almostTOTALLYvix
      @almostTOTALLYvix Před rokem

      THANK U

    • @theblackhand1
      @theblackhand1 Před rokem +3

      but they aren’t who they are and I really hope you dont sign your kids to get their body parts cut off because of a social contagion

    • @Peatingtune
      @Peatingtune Před rokem +8

      @@theblackhand1 Read a book.

    • @Lulu-xl5cm
      @Lulu-xl5cm Před 7 měsíci +1

      A parent should also SHIELD their child from harm! You wouldn't support your child if they wanted to pet a lion. Let kids be kids and let them worry about gender stuff when they reach adulthood!

  • @TheInspirationalMind
    @TheInspirationalMind Před 2 lety +1551

    We are all trying to find our way in this world that's why it is important to never judge anyone because we never know what they have been through. Even if we disagree with someone's religion, gender, or race we should love them unconditionally because at the end of the day all we have is each other. Great content as always Jubilee.

    • @user-es6ww3qj9r
      @user-es6ww3qj9r Před 2 lety +34

      of course, we should treat women with respect, these women are no exception.

    • @nuitNo.6
      @nuitNo.6 Před 2 lety +7

      Unconditional love doesn't exist. And it's very unhealthy to think it does. It's a selfish kind of love that will hurt your children in the end.

    • @froggobonano
      @froggobonano Před 2 lety +163

      @@user-es6ww3qj9r these are men but okay

    • @dracarysgirl2048
      @dracarysgirl2048 Před 2 lety +19

      I think you should use "gender" instead of sex.

    • @sackeshi
      @sackeshi Před 2 lety +18

      @@nuitNo.6 Unconditional love exists between parents and children, there is nothing a child should be able to do to make the parent stop loving them. Love with conditions isn't love.

  • @yasminechaouch3883
    @yasminechaouch3883 Před 2 lety +138

    It broke my heart when they all said they feared death/getting killed just for bein trans men. Transphobia is real and these men are so brave for going through this process and living their truth, I am so happy for them and hope they are always safe

  • @C.V.Q
    @C.V.Q Před 2 lety +289

    Loving that these are trans men of colour as well. Thanks for this video. I'm trans masc myself, 2 years on T. Besides my mom, everyone in my life is accepting luckily. Anyway, I enjoy educating people on trans things so feel free to ask questions if you're curious/wish to learn 👍

    • @Viviele1290
      @Viviele1290 Před 2 lety +1

      Hey, can I ask a personal question?? (the question is mostly for me really, and I know you said feel free to ask but I just want to make sure again)

    • @C.V.Q
      @C.V.Q Před 2 lety

      @@Viviele1290 Yep, ask away

    • @milk4625
      @milk4625 Před 2 lety

      @@Viviele1290 he said yeah

    • @polarblaze9188
      @polarblaze9188 Před 2 lety +4

      @@C.V.Q Ayo question did you feel rage when you got the T or angry because as a male ive never noticed or been angry really from it just wondering if it made you somewhat angrier in the beginning.

    • @C.V.Q
      @C.V.Q Před 2 lety +6

      @@polarblaze9188 I wouldn't say I'm angrier per se but it's more like anger is my go-to emotion now when something is upsetting. Before when I'd get upset, I might have cried and it would have ruined my day. But now I just feel frustration/anger but it's short lived so it doesn't ruin my day. On the outside, I'm sure it looks like I'm angrier though lol

  • @yourobsessedhoe
    @yourobsessedhoe Před rokem +22

    Why are there so many transphobes in the comments 💀💀💀

    • @sullivanbiddle9979
      @sullivanbiddle9979 Před rokem +2

      transphobic definition: the willingness to openly acknowledge objective biological realities, why are you such a fascist?

    • @theevilmasterVD
      @theevilmasterVD Před rokem +4

      Because these people have nothing better to do.

    • @taurushere6380
      @taurushere6380 Před 11 měsíci +2

      They’re coping hard

  • @hevalemin6520
    @hevalemin6520 Před 2 lety +92

    As a gay trans guy sometimes I feel like I don't belong anywhere but I always feel better when I remember moments I got to spend with other trans people especially other trans men. When it's hard for me to love myself I look at the trans guys who have been there for me and the community.
    I relate to the kid who said he felt stuck and stagnant prior to transition. For most of my life I simply wasn't able to picture a future for myself because I didn't relate to my own body and existence enough to imagine a future version of me. Then I started transition and I met trans guys I could look up to and now I feel connected to the future.

    • @liminaljay3311
      @liminaljay3311 Před rokem +3

      I’m a gay trans guy and wanna say I feel like that sometimes too. I still struggle a bit as a lot of the trans men and trans masc people I’m connected to are more masc and often partner with women. I also dated another trans guy early on and he would question or criticize me a lot for doing things like painting my nails or even owning a pink pen 🙄🙄 That messed me up for sure. However I’ve been trying to more intentionally connect with other gay trans guys. Even just reading your comment here was nourishing for me. Thank you for that, and sending lots of love your way ♥️💖💖♥️💖♥️💖♥️♥️♥️✨

    • @NKanchevful
      @NKanchevful Před 8 měsíci

      were you always gay or only after transition?

    • @ian-online
      @ian-online Před 5 měsíci

      you're definitely not alone, i hope you're doing better today ❤
      we'll get through this!

  • @julianm4176
    @julianm4176 Před 2 lety +64

    It's interesting that some of them said they got more irritable on T, because that's like the opposite of what happened to me. I was a lot angrier pre T and got calmer once I started. Everyone's experience is different though

  • @abbababba8186
    @abbababba8186 Před 2 lety +107

    It’s tragic that every one of them have struggled with mental health and receiving that support they deserve, as so many trans people do. Proud of all of them for making it this far ❤️

  • @convival
    @convival Před 2 lety +422

    I love how informative jubilee is getting with these topics. It's important to engage and inform the society to things that are outside of the conservative box.

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles Před 2 lety +2

      Participation Trophy Syndrome. Many such cases.

    • @LatajaceStadoKotow
      @LatajaceStadoKotow Před 2 lety +6

      Define diverse

    • @pinatacolada4876
      @pinatacolada4876 Před 2 lety +2

      Virtue Signalling.

    • @lolmmmol
      @lolmmmol Před 2 lety +10

      diverse? This channel is 100% liberal as it gets

    • @jemwithouttheholograms8806
      @jemwithouttheholograms8806 Před 2 lety +33

      The people under this comment are just throwing around buzz words to try to seem smart but they clearly don't know what they mean lmao

  • @s4mk52
    @s4mk52 Před 2 lety +288

    Definitely felt it when he said he disliked the stereotypical femme compliments people give such as beautiful or pretty to him. I've found the best way to compliment someone is to mirror the language they refer to themselves with back to them!

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles Před 2 lety +1

      Found the ledditor. Sip some more soylent, drone.

    • @Meccarox
      @Meccarox Před 2 lety +24

      @@FerretCuddles lmao please get a grip

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles Před 2 lety +1

      @@Meccarox Sounds like I hit too close to home. Cry some more, dependent.

    • @Meccarox
      @Meccarox Před 2 lety +9

      @@FerretCuddles You need help.

    • @FerretCuddles
      @FerretCuddles Před 2 lety +1

      @@Meccarox Just out of curiosity, what was it that hit too close to home? The dig at ledditors being low tes memes? The dig at you being a zoomer? What was it?

  • @Felix-qt2ql
    @Felix-qt2ql Před 3 měsíci +6

    Im now 5 years on T and couldnt be happier with the way my body grew. Im a child of divorce, and i stayed with my mom full time from the age of 11. I owe everything to my mother for opening her heart and her arms no matter who i told her i was. If it was up to my father, I wouldnt be here today to comment. Please, support your children. ❤

  • @TLW369
    @TLW369 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I’m a trans-girl and I just want to say that trans-dudes are hott.
    …And in many cases, sexier and more empathetic than straight, cis-men are.
    ♥️🏳️‍⚧️♥️

  • @mishitathapar9111
    @mishitathapar9111 Před 2 lety +28

    I just can't. These people have suffered so much and they've persisted through feelings I cannot even imagine. I mean, I struggle with mental health too, but dysphoria is something else. It just feels different when people talk about it and how they've persevered through the lowest of lows.
    I cried a little bit, and I know that I am not the person who has been impacted most by these stories. I wish them the best of luck and I hope that they keep going and keep living because they are what makes this world as unique as it is. We are a collective community and we all matter. I wish that they will always remember that.

  • @saathvikparupudi321
    @saathvikparupudi321 Před 2 lety +158

    Please do a trans female version too

    • @daryeusford9696
      @daryeusford9696 Před 2 lety +21

      They definitely should

    • @user-es6ww3qj9r
      @user-es6ww3qj9r Před 2 lety +22

      And also a video on Non-Binary Pansexual Dragonkins

    • @pinatacolada4876
      @pinatacolada4876 Před 2 lety +13

      @@user-es6ww3qj9r And don’t forget the agendered apachi helicopters!

    • @SillyNep
      @SillyNep Před 2 lety +86

      @@user-es6ww3qj9r Incredible, you guys really do have only 1 joke, lmao

    • @beastcarleeto707
      @beastcarleeto707 Před 2 lety +56

      @@SillyNep it's been years and they havent come up with anything creative, just the same helicopter joke its getting boring

  • @karlaximenatorresnava
    @karlaximenatorresnava Před 2 lety +143

    When they said they fear death I broke down in tears. This got me so emotional, it's amazing to see people living their truths and being proud of who they are.

    • @prayforcere
      @prayforcere Před 2 lety +8

      Soft

    • @LordDomielOfElysium
      @LordDomielOfElysium Před 2 lety +6

      Yea, I’m suicidal and all but I’m also really scared of death. Even I don’t quite understand it-

    • @hydraxon6940
      @hydraxon6940 Před 2 lety +3

      You only have to fear death if you have no legacy to leave behind.
      If you have kids that have kids who have kids, then your name is carried on and you're immortal after death.
      Fearing death is natural but it makes no sense.
      Without death there would be no room for new life. Life and death have been dancing with eachother since forever.
      The dance is your lifetime, and every dance comes to an end sometime.

    • @LordDomielOfElysium
      @LordDomielOfElysium Před 2 lety +3

      @@hydraxon6940 dance myself to death lmao, sounds pretty accurate. But it feels like everyone is just stepping on my feet and tripping me.

    • @hydraxon6940
      @hydraxon6940 Před 2 lety +2

      @@LordDomielOfElysium I don't know your situation, but if that happens we have either the choice to stay down or to get up again. Try to dance away from the people that trip you.
      There's always someone who wants to see you fall, in my case it was all the people my age. So I simply stopped hanging out with them, and befriended adults- they always thought I am weird for not liking people my age, but I got my reasons.

  • @senekiss
    @senekiss Před 2 lety +230

    I loved this, thanks Jubilee. I started T two weeks ago and I relate a lot to them. We trans men are also very invisible, so I also appreciate this video a lot.

  • @noone4302
    @noone4302 Před 2 lety +10

    as someone who started T a little over a month ago, watching this genuinely gave me a sense of hope for my future. Although since starting I've definitely felt better about myself, but to hear about other trans men's experiences (some similar to my own) is just awesome and really motivating

  • @soulgazer11
    @soulgazer11 Před 2 lety +56

    I'll be 1 year on T on November 4th. I've lost 2 different jobs because I'm trans. October 12th 2020, I almost kms. I've had bosses dox my deadname to coworkers, and one of them shame me in front of customers until I cried in front of everyone. I'm so glad I didn't end my life last year because I finally found out what happiness feels like. I had never been happy before this year. I have friends, a great job and I'm in a healthy mental space.
    Thank you to the ones who paved the path before me. Thank you to these men who use their voice to spread awareness. You mean everything, you mean *life* 💙

  • @selenehernandez8279
    @selenehernandez8279 Před 2 lety +299

    I almost cried at this video, I'm happy for you guys

    • @ooga_booga399
      @ooga_booga399 Před 2 lety +12

      Girls*

    • @ilsanking4334
      @ilsanking4334 Před 2 lety +46

      @@ooga_booga399 men if you like it or not

    • @ecxstasy347
      @ecxstasy347 Před 2 lety +4

      @@ooga_booga399 😂

    • @slimetotingz3172
      @slimetotingz3172 Před 2 lety +8

      @@ilsanking4334 girls*

    • @compa6251
      @compa6251 Před 2 lety +29

      @@ooga_booga399 you saying that those guys are girls makes me think you have never seen a woman before

  • @eliduran902
    @eliduran902 Před 2 lety +10

    Thank you for making these videos. I’m struggling so bad and there’s almost no where I can go to listen to, to really hear and see other trans men and I didn’t realize how much I was needing it or craving it but I’m just watching this and crying.

    • @fruityhouaylorstan9685
      @fruityhouaylorstan9685 Před 2 lety

      it’s been a few months since you commented this, i hope you’re well❤️

  • @jxwlxnx
    @jxwlxnx Před 2 lety +261

    I love this, because everyone is gonna have different experiences & it is a great way to be educated as well.

    • @Arthur-fs5vl
      @Arthur-fs5vl Před 2 lety +5

      Since when is immorality considered education?

    • @Marilynnx
      @Marilynnx Před 2 lety +20

      @@Arthur-fs5vl if u don’t like wats being said why click on the vid

    • @dracarysgirl2048
      @dracarysgirl2048 Před 2 lety +2

      Can I ask something? Are all of them used to be women who are now looking like this??????

    • @loremipsum2237
      @loremipsum2237 Před 2 lety +24

      @@dracarysgirl2048 they have actually always been men. They were born with female bodies, but modern medicine allows for that to be corrected.
      Think of it like having your mind swapped with someone from the other sex. You'd still be your current gender, just with a different body. (If you think the body swap would make you the other gender, you may be trans or nonbinary)

    • @alam5055
      @alam5055 Před 2 lety +26

      ​@@Arthur-fs5vl since when are you the one to dictate what's moral and immoral? If you paid attention, you'd notice that before transition they all were suicidal. Transitioning literally saves lives. I don't think there's any ethical system that would consider something that saves a life without bringing any harm to anyone else - immoral.

  • @oldschoolpoet91
    @oldschoolpoet91 Před 2 lety +23

    PROTECT TRANS MEN/MASCS

  • @JL-is9rg
    @JL-is9rg Před rokem +12

    To all potential parents, if you don't think or you know that you could only love a child that conforms to your concept of gender and sexuality, if you are not capable of unconditional love and accepting, do not have children.

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před rokem

      Bro that’s crazy imagine wanting to be a grandparent to find out that your son just wants Vienna sausages slobbering in his face like 🤦‍♂️

  • @nickydinino5651
    @nickydinino5651 Před 2 lety +86

    grandpa at 41? who cares about his coming out story, I want to hear THAT story.

    • @AS-rr9km
      @AS-rr9km Před 2 lety +22

      Huh? He may have a 20 year old who just had a kid..that isn’t hard to believe lol do some simple math. Sorry not trying to be mean but I know people that became a grandparent at 38 because they had a kid pretty young

    • @gaminglegend
      @gaminglegend Před 2 lety +2

      His mom's probably 60 and already a great-grandma

    • @Nobody-rf3bm
      @Nobody-rf3bm Před 2 lety +3

      It might not even be that much of a story. My parents became grandparents at 38 because my mom got pregnant at 18, and her oldest daughter also got pregnant at 18.

    • @minim6981
      @minim6981 Před 2 lety +2

      Mexicans be grandparents at 28. Nbd

    • @JamesThePokemonHunter
      @JamesThePokemonHunter Před 2 lety +3

      @@AS-rr9km I think he ment about the story of him becoming a grandpa. Think about it, he would of had a kid before transitioning. So it would be an interesting story for a kid to have their parent change genders and so on. Idk if they talk about that I haven't watched the video yet but thats my guess

  • @marie-lynnissa656
    @marie-lynnissa656 Před 2 lety +17

    i love listening to luckie, he's so wise and mature

  • @wwxx23
    @wwxx23 Před 2 lety +45

    I really hope in the near future these questions have more happy and natural answers like “yea i told my parents i wanted to get on T and so i did and i got all the surgeries and um yea it’s all going well idk”

    • @justahugenerd1278
      @justahugenerd1278 Před 2 lety +5

      that's more or less my story!

    • @wwxx23
      @wwxx23 Před 2 lety +4

      @@justahugenerd1278 I’m happy to hear that !!

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před 2 lety +1

      I heard the cure is almost done do we can live normally again ayyyyyy

    • @megsley
      @megsley Před 8 měsíci

      ...just yikes. everything about this comment is yikes.

  • @willthewiise
    @willthewiise Před 2 lety +89

    7:05 that genuinely was so affirming for me

  • @PenCapChewlive
    @PenCapChewlive Před 2 lety +6

    Bro I swear to got you can’t tell me thinking the thumbnail was the white dude turning into a mega black dude after 11 years

  • @englishlady8863
    @englishlady8863 Před 2 lety +9

    So disrespectful that his family still call him by his dead name.

  • @samantharoa6638
    @samantharoa6638 Před 2 lety +8

    Marcel!!!! I’m so happy for you! I’m so glad I was able to see you grow!

  • @CardboardTriangle2
    @CardboardTriangle2 Před 2 lety +74

    Just remember: testosterone/estrogen/hrt/surgeries are not the goal for every trans person

    • @unwashedtowel
      @unwashedtowel Před 2 lety +4

      what is the goal then?

    • @CardboardTriangle2
      @CardboardTriangle2 Před 2 lety +16

      @@unwashedtowel its different for everyone, no one is the same. Usually the goal is to love yourself

    • @EC-jd9ej
      @EC-jd9ej Před 2 lety +5

      @@unwashedtowel I have a naturally flat chest so I don't need top surgery
      I mean, I could get it but it would be $10,000 I don't have, for example

    • @basketman2517
      @basketman2517 Před 2 lety +4

      Can’t you live yourself without being transgender? Why are you transgender if you don’t even want to transition?
      (Genuine question not trying to attack)

    • @CardboardTriangle2
      @CardboardTriangle2 Před 2 lety +13

      @@basketman2517 transgender people are transgender regardless of whether or not the medically transition. Some people can't, or choose not to for many different reasons. All trans people have different levels of dysphoria and require different treatments.

  • @ian-online
    @ian-online Před 5 měsíci +6

    It's nice being to see myself on other trans men
    I just wanna say, I love being seen. It makes me feel safe and welcome,, even if it's just strangers out there. But seeing moslty older brown/black men gives me hope and strength to keep pushing
    I cried watching this

    • @Lulu-xl5cm
      @Lulu-xl5cm Před 4 měsíci

      May I ask what makes you different from a tomboy?

    • @aftonstan5494
      @aftonstan5494 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@Lulu-xl5cm No you may not. Please go on the wikipedia page for transgender men, and you will learn the difference.

  • @emerson23946
    @emerson23946 Před 2 měsíci +4

    I feel like the way that this makes me cry answers my gender question

    • @JoanneNjeri-ef6sz
      @JoanneNjeri-ef6sz Před 24 dny

      Be led by logic, not just emotion. You’re a human being, not an animal.

  • @BasilAlvaret
    @BasilAlvaret Před 7 měsíci +4

    I cried through the whole video. Sometimes I wonder if anyone who knows me would ever even take the time to warch a single video to try to understand. Things like this are so important. It's incredibly lonely when you can't find people who understand, or that you can relate to. It suffocates you.

  • @niverahamed8920
    @niverahamed8920 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Please can you do the same for Transwomen?

  • @blackrose2625
    @blackrose2625 Před 2 lety +43

    I wish I could know people like them irl to give them a hug. I always hear stories like theirs and wish they could have a support system and not feel alone or left out while undergoing such and important process. I'm not personally in the community, but when it comes to hearing their stories and getting to see how happy they are when they are able to be their real self, brings me so much joy

    • @marcellusleon2240
      @marcellusleon2240 Před 2 lety +6

      Aww thank you! I would very much love a hug! My friends whom I consider family are supportive.

  • @Pvf-OG
    @Pvf-OG Před 2 lety +35

    i completely support trans people, but i couldn't help but laugh at the name gibby, because icarly has ruined that for me XD

    • @sophiaarmijo935
      @sophiaarmijo935 Před 2 lety

      haha thats my brother i laugh too at the name😭

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před 2 lety +2

      Bruh veterans get one day and lgblosers get 1 month Jesus what’s up with the world these days

    • @nickmiller4890
      @nickmiller4890 Před 2 lety +20

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 “May, marked officially as Military Appreciation Month, is a special month for both those in and out of the military. ... Congress designated May as National Military Appreciation Month in 1999 to ensure the nation was given the chance to publicly show their appreciation for troops past and present.”
      Nice try 😂😂 if you’re gonna complain at least be correct, ok?

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před 2 lety +1

      @@nickmiller4890 bruh you had to search that up meaning you didn’t know as well. But still who in the right mind would support lgbt. This is exactly what the women did in the video, they took one L and added gbtq

    • @spider_wlt
      @spider_wlt Před 2 lety +10

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 if you are so against LGBTQ+ people, why even click. You knew it would offend you. This should be a safe space for all people, especially since it covers such a sensitive topic that so many people go through. It is okay to nit agree with certain things, but do not go around degrading and making fun of others.

  • @Maddie-rv6sp
    @Maddie-rv6sp Před 2 lety +7

    sooo creative and shines a light on a underrepresented and often misunderstood population!

  • @rulasmania
    @rulasmania Před rokem +1

    This was the most informative video about trans people I’ve ever watched it’s really touching

  • @zekethegeek97
    @zekethegeek97 Před 2 lety +6

    This was the WRONG VIDEO TO WATCH ON THE BUS NOW IM CRYING IN PUBLIC

  • @treckieeee5707
    @treckieeee5707 Před 2 lety +6

    I'm 22, and I'm still on confused stage.

  • @bluishblow
    @bluishblow Před 2 lety +4

    i love that the respective time on t showed up everytime they speak

  • @420blazinOG
    @420blazinOG Před 2 lety +134

    I really love this spot light on these men. They have a lot of grit to be able to go out in the world and be just themselves. Most people cannot do that. Congratulations on all your successes and future successes!

    • @Marilynnx
      @Marilynnx Před 2 lety +8

      @@lesterchestersylvestermolester no men, u clicked on this vid for wat reason lol

    • @Yhhhhhhh
      @Yhhhhhhh Před 2 lety +20

      @@lesterchestersylvestermolester nobody who is being questioned in that video is a woman, get ur brain and ur eyes checked^^

    • @ClownScript
      @ClownScript Před 2 lety +2

      They have xx* chromosomes though that'll never change

    • @hahayes1220
      @hahayes1220 Před 2 lety +8

      @@ClownScript yeah, men have xy chromosomes, so you’re right

    • @pinatacolada4876
      @pinatacolada4876 Před 2 lety +4

      I didn’t see any men in the video… did you watch the wrong video?

  • @JF-me4vi
    @JF-me4vi Před 2 lety +72

    I love that they are all trans men of color. So important, and a detail we shouldn’t skim pass.

    • @RextheRebel
      @RextheRebel Před 2 lety +18

      It is a detail you should skim past because it should not fking matter.

    • @Hilfiata
      @Hilfiata Před 2 lety +36

      @@RextheRebel Representation matters. The reality is that most visible trans rep is white, it's ignorant to ignore that. Voicing appreciation and encouragement at poc trans rep isn't bad.

    • @rianogrady1763
      @rianogrady1763 Před 2 lety +6

      @@RextheRebel It matters because most trans masc representation in media is skinny white boys, and it leaves a lot of people and their experiences out. Being a transmasc person of colour is different to being transmasc and white, so yes while it would be nice if it weren't relevant it is and therefore can't be skimmed over.

    • @NorthStarCinema
      @NorthStarCinema Před 2 lety +2

      @@RextheRebel Boo hoo.

  • @__s0el
    @__s0el Před 2 lety +65

    I'm a trans guy too. 2 years on T. This made me cry

    • @yxungm0e514
      @yxungm0e514 Před 2 lety +16

      Wish you well on your journey

    • @NatureLover-pj2qe
      @NatureLover-pj2qe Před 2 lety +8

      I’m a trans guy who is one month on T and I enjoyed watching this.

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před 2 lety +5

      Women*

    • @lyndonleedalee1738
      @lyndonleedalee1738 Před 2 lety +7

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 they're AFAB. trans women are AMAB. Therefore, Sumu is a trans guy.

    • @__s0el
      @__s0el Před 2 lety +20

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 Say something more original so it might actually hurt.

  • @nickclarkuk
    @nickclarkuk Před 2 lety +29

    I have a trans son who’s 15. This helped a lot . Thank you

    • @veggiechip
      @veggiechip Před 2 lety +11

      happy new year to you and your son!

    • @nickclarkuk
      @nickclarkuk Před 2 lety +7

      @@veggiechip thank you , happy new year to you too ! :)

    • @mochadrella457
      @mochadrella457 Před 2 lety +3

      Bad parent

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před rokem

      15??

    • @nickclarkuk
      @nickclarkuk Před rokem +1

      @@cool_pumpkin8659 16 now. Still very much suffering with gender dysphoria and having psychological support for that .

  • @pengin402
    @pengin402 Před 2 lety +36

    THEY SHOULD DO 6 TEACHERS VS 1 SECRET (insert name, they can do whatever they want)

  • @taylorstep8135
    @taylorstep8135 Před 2 lety +3

    Gibby has a beautiful soul, I hope nothing but the best for him on his journey.

  • @merlumili
    @merlumili Před 2 lety +14

    This was a really cool video!! Wishing all of them the absolute best in life.

  • @brightoff
    @brightoff Před 2 lety +22

    Just to let y’all at Jubilee know, in the description and the chapters section of this video the time stamp for 2:10 uses the word “dysmorphia” instead of “dysphoria”. I’m assuming it’s just a typo because in the video you used “dysphoria”. Just thought I’d bring it to your attention cause it’s important to use the right one.

  • @eeviegarcia4389
    @eeviegarcia4389 Před 2 lety +11

    This is so beautiful please do one for trans women too!

  • @ccdman4909
    @ccdman4909 Před 2 lety +1

    I gained some interesting perspectives that I had not had before watching this. Cool video.

  • @blainecock
    @blainecock Před 2 lety +5

    Super late to this vid but I started T yesterday and it’s making me so happy looking forward :,)

    • @sheena_backup4483
      @sheena_backup4483 Před rokem +1

      congrats on destroying your own body, and also it is pretty obvious that everyone on T was a women to start with.

    • @felixt808
      @felixt808 Před 2 měsíci +1

      a year later, hows the journey dude?? hope youve been well

  • @lucygg4040
    @lucygg4040 Před 2 lety +10

    we need a video with trans women and non-binary folk

  • @ozeramo
    @ozeramo Před 2 lety +2

    Wow I loved this video so much, thank you Jubilee and to the men that appear on the video

  • @kayforever6740
    @kayforever6740 Před 2 lety +2

    An nice video, truly bringing different topics.

  • @Sviani8
    @Sviani8 Před 2 lety +6

    @Jubilee I love your videos! I just discovered y’all. I love how inclusive you are. I wish you could do an episode with people who are Deaf & Hard of Hearing. I am a deaf individual who is severely hard of hearing with hearing aids. The episode interviewing people who are blind with the question topics y’all prompted hit me so hard especially when I asked myself in terms of my deafness. I am also physically disabled so a lot of the discussions had hit me so hard on a physical level. I would love to participate if you ever chose to interview Deaf and Hard of Hearing. I am an advocate for people with disabilities and my favorite part about it is participating in any form of community education and the networking.

  • @dramonmaster222
    @dramonmaster222 Před 2 lety +4

    An excellent video and very eye opening.

  • @williamgarcia2799
    @williamgarcia2799 Před 2 lety +2

    It’s so inspiring to hear all their different stories

  • @aidenmoro7583
    @aidenmoro7583 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I have my first appointment to start T tomorrow. I’m equally excited and terrified. my family is completely against my transition, so I feel really lost. I’ve been out for more than 2 years and I have the ability to start it so I’m doing it, I think about who I am and who I want to be all the time. And I really resonate with them, ive had sooo many attempts and hospitalizations.

  • @alimohammad1934
    @alimohammad1934 Před rokem +6

    the 2.5 to 11 years i will never in a million years think they were born a girl

  • @G1sxlle
    @G1sxlle Před 2 lety +10

    Im so happy for Noah :’)

  • @traviwonder
    @traviwonder Před rokem +1

    This really helped. I’ve been on T for almost 3yrs. I just got told I ended an era cause I transitioned. I understand that my birthday marked a first for a elder member. But you can still take a girls pic with my mom and sister.

  • @TheMusicPinkLover91
    @TheMusicPinkLover91 Před 2 lety +29

    Today Noah started T. I wish him all the best

    • @noah-cp7sm
      @noah-cp7sm Před 2 lety +12

      i’m now 2 months on T & the journey has been amazing so far :,)
      thank u so much

    • @user-sk4wz
      @user-sk4wz Před 2 lety +1

      She*

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před 2 lety +1

      Still a girl jeez so I think you meant her*

    • @okaymaniac
      @okaymaniac Před rokem

      @@noah-cp7sm noah what's ur ig ive been wanting tofollow u

  • @moonflowers333
    @moonflowers333 Před 2 lety +15

    This was absolutely beautiful. One of my favorite episodes of 2021

  • @agayman9880
    @agayman9880 Před 2 lety +5

    As a trans person still figuring out their gender it really sucks for me right now. I don’t know if I want to go by they/them or they/him but I’m not sure if I’m just saying that to maybe get misgendered less or at least get misgendered the opposite way. But idk cause when someone accidentally thinks I’m a guy or calls me sir it makes me so happy. Like the other week my waiter called me sir and I literally cried. But idk what my parents would say if I tried to medically transition. They say they try to use the right pronouns but if they were I would’ve heard them say they or them at least once.

    • @PokemonDude880
      @PokemonDude880 Před 2 lety

      You cried because the waiter said sir?🤣🤣

    • @mollymolly2667
      @mollymolly2667 Před 2 lety +7

      @@PokemonDude880 Yeah, they did. It might not be much of a big deal to you, but it was for them.

    • @agayman9880
      @agayman9880 Před 2 lety +4

      @@mollymolly2667 thanks mate

  • @av-ic3ts
    @av-ic3ts Před 2 lety +8

    this > jubilee's dating games

  • @tomyhearts
    @tomyhearts Před 2 lety +8

    i get misgendered too, even after 2 years (3 months) on T. i'm definitely not as hairy in my face as marcus but is that even necessary for anyone to not misgender me? in public it's also not easy...

    • @_Error__
      @_Error__ Před 2 lety +1

      It's not easy for you because you are a female and not a male. The sooner you acknowledge that, the better your life will be.

    • @nathanmccoy9188
      @nathanmccoy9188 Před 2 lety

      @@_Error__ do you actually think you're helping

    • @_Error__
      @_Error__ Před 2 lety +1

      @@nathanmccoy9188 it depends how they take my advice, they could either take this as an attack on them and the lgbtq+ community or a genuine advice in which I'm trying to help by giving them another perspective. It's up to them to entirely ignore my comment, it's simply a comment and won't affect them or their life in anyway if they choose to ignore it. If they take my advice then I think I've helped them, and if not then I also think I've helped them affirm their position of being a male and not a female.

    • @nathanmccoy9188
      @nathanmccoy9188 Před 2 lety

      @@_Error__ this is not advice. It's not helping anybody. The only point it served is whatever feeling you got while hitting send.

    • @_Error__
      @_Error__ Před 2 lety +1

      @@nathanmccoy9188 why do you think that it's not helping anyone?

  • @thebutterfly8262
    @thebutterfly8262 Před 2 lety +5

    Do we get one for trans women as well? Please I’m begging you

  • @that__girl_from
    @that__girl_from Před 2 lety +6

    Y'all are amazing an inspiration.

  • @Mi.love.gheeee
    @Mi.love.gheeee Před 2 lety +10

    Thank you, can you do one on estrogen?

  • @longlivejahsehd.onfroy2982

    Thank you for making this video ❤️

  • @dayrayy
    @dayrayy Před 2 lety +93

    it’s really interesting how much easier trans males have transitioning. in regards to voice, facial hair, etc.

    • @unwashedtowel
      @unwashedtowel Před 2 lety +41

      definitely for trans women especially with surgeries it is way more difficult. as a trans male I also find that it is easier for me to pass compared to trans women

    • @wwxx23
      @wwxx23 Před 2 lety +25

      Also the younger they start the more impressive the results are

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Před 2 lety +5

      They’re also moving up in status. Unfortunately, that’s how it is still.

    • @justahugenerd1278
      @justahugenerd1278 Před 2 lety +37

      Testosterone has more permanent effects on the body than estrogen. This is why trans men on T pass better and why trans women have such a harder time passing after the effects of puberty

    • @euphedine3140
      @euphedine3140 Před 2 lety +11

      Masculine secondary sex characteristics are harder to reverse than feminine. That and there are less procedres to look masculine. Outside of bottom surgery FTM transition is way simpler

  • @evanpadilla6840
    @evanpadilla6840 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you so much I needed this

  • @maxwellokay
    @maxwellokay Před 2 lety +31

    I'd really love a transfem one of these :) This was so interesting!

  • @SamuelSamuelSamuel1
    @SamuelSamuelSamuel1 Před 2 lety +16

    What a bunch of kind dudes. ❤️

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před rokem

      Wow typos really do suck, I hate it when that happens. Women*

    • @loudpengu8991
      @loudpengu8991 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@cool_pumpkin8659you look at luckie and tell me that's a woman?

  • @ecaterinadonscaia4611
    @ecaterinadonscaia4611 Před 2 lety +23

    You're all so beautiful! Keep going! You're bringing love, acceptance and tremendous value to this world by being brave and despite many challenges, being who you truly are 💜

  • @tuanoful
    @tuanoful Před 2 lety +5

    The dude at 11 years, wowe

  • @prttyflwr
    @prttyflwr Před 2 lety +14

    TW// self harm
    i kinda relate to noah
    when i first told my parents that i’m trans they didn’t accept me at all and told me a lot of horrible things and that made me fall into depression again and made me start self harming, again.
    when they found out that i started cutting they immediately like
    accepted me and started using the pronouns he/him for me
    which is sad because if you think about it
    noah’s parents wouldn’t accept him and stuff if he didn’t go to psych ward and my parents would also not accept me if i didn’t start cutting.

    • @noah-cp7sm
      @noah-cp7sm Před 2 lety +5

      hi this is noah from the video ^^
      it really does suck & im so sorry you were also put in this situation, but i’m glad they’re supporting you now. it sucks that it took that much for them to truly understand, but now you can be yourself. i wish nothing but the best for you & thank you for being vulnerable :)!
      i’m glad i’m not alone hehe

    • @prttyflwr
      @prttyflwr Před 2 lety +2

      @@noah-cp7sm yea :( and thank you! also how are you feeling after being two months on T now ^^

    • @cool_pumpkin8659
      @cool_pumpkin8659 Před rokem

      It is sad but also sad for the parents. Gotta stop thinking onesided and think from their perspective

    • @megsley
      @megsley Před 8 měsíci

      you'll grow out of it. 98% of gender nonconforming kids grow up to be normal adults who aren't trans.

  • @raymax_1071
    @raymax_1071 Před 2 lety +49

    These comments are going to be full of transphobia so I highly recommend anyone reading this to avoid reading them if you are sensitive about these topics. Be safe. ❤