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  • čas přidán 4. 02. 2020
  • My entire transition from the beginning to the end, testosterone, top surgery, bottom surgery, new birth certificate, everything.
    Follow me on Insta: / jammi.dodger

Komentáře • 16K

  • @RuthCuadrado
    @RuthCuadrado Před 4 lety +3986

    A few things... and i hope none are offensive:
    - he looks so much happier as a man
    - he also got super handsome.
    - love the gf!

    • @bepisguy6963
      @bepisguy6963 Před 4 lety +191

      None of them are offensive at all

    • @CassyBug
      @CassyBug Před 4 lety +164

      I honestly think the happiness he feels being male now adds to his handsomeness

    • @RuthCuadrado
      @RuthCuadrado Před 4 lety +42

      The Number One Myme You never know. While I love equality and gender identity gaining ground, it does scare me to death that there’s a minority really looking for any excuse to feel offended, or to use you lack of understanding of a topic to accuse you of anti trans, anti gay pr anti whatever.

    • @missKryssie93
      @missKryssie93 Před 4 lety +13

      Agree with all points!!

    • @queenfan45
      @queenfan45 Před 4 lety +43

      You can see his smile get wider and wider in each video, he now seems to have a permanent grin.

  • @krell.1415
    @krell.1415 Před 4 lety +6041

    It's so weird seeing him pre-transition, because my brain is wondering where the beard is.

    • @justeundonut-moi.7979
      @justeundonut-moi.7979 Před 4 lety +64

      Same 😂

    • @scofieldvictoria
      @scofieldvictoria Před 4 lety +109

      I kept wondering when the beard would come

    • @OffSatan
      @OffSatan Před 4 lety +27

      Your profile pic looks familiar somehow, can't quite put my finger on it though. Is it from some weeb game or something?

    • @sarafernandezfuente5168
      @sarafernandezfuente5168 Před 4 lety +29

      he wouldn't have beard anyway, he was just a boyy hahaha

    • @efeyzee
      @efeyzee Před 4 lety +15

      Yeah and like what are those two bumps on Jamie's chest?

  • @lottawisdom50
    @lottawisdom50 Před 7 měsíci +120

    I’m 60 yo, happily married for 30 years to the man of my life but this video made me smile and feel so happy. May your life continue to be blissful.

  • @soup331emd5
    @soup331emd5 Před rokem +243

    The way your whole demeanor changes as soon the facial hair comes in is insane. Like your skin finally fits.

  • @guy_onfire
    @guy_onfire Před 3 lety +4142

    “Hey my name is Jamie and this is my girlfriend.”
    Captions:
    “Hey my name is Jamie and this is my government.”

    • @goldegreen
      @goldegreen Před 3 lety +189

      Mayor Jamie

    • @renmei.
      @renmei. Před 3 lety +151

      @@goldegreen or even better, president jamie :D

    • @harlow8979
      @harlow8979 Před 3 lety +99

      Jamie owns the government. He lost it due to a secret ploy undisclosed in media. So he lost grasp but is slowly regaining his power behind the scenes.

    • @lavender9844
      @lavender9844 Před 3 lety +25

      Jamieland!

    • @ballpointpen7728
      @ballpointpen7728 Před 3 lety +13

      @abby mckenzie He's a trans man, Jamie and Shabba are a happy couple.*

  • @user-rd8nc8gx5p
    @user-rd8nc8gx5p Před 4 lety +16591

    Dude his girlfriend (wife) had been with him all his way, that’s amazing

    • @trude8073
      @trude8073 Před 4 lety +747

      Indy WHY ARE YOU HERE? Fekking troll, do you search up channels just to be a douche? Do something productive with your life. Read a book or something.

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz Před 4 lety +791

      @@Indipuk lmao what the fuck does that mean? she's his GIRLFRIEND not his LESBIAN, please learn basic english if you want to act like a smartass

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz Před 4 lety +630

      @@Indipuk you can't just assume her sexuality and thoughts:
      1. she could be pansexual
      2. some people date transexuals AND still identify as heterosexuals, for them if their partner looks/acts as their preferred gender then they actually are that gender, they don't necessarily need to be born that way

    • @ayxtoz
      @ayxtoz Před 4 lety +288

      @@Indipuk yeah sure just go ahead and do the thinking for the whole world as you do for yourself cause that always works lmao

    • @Maya-ht9tm
      @Maya-ht9tm Před 4 lety +449

      @@Indipuk He literally had bottom surgery but go off I guess. Also don't speak for his girlfriend. You don't have the right to do that.

  • @tinyluv
    @tinyluv Před rokem +444

    started crying when he kneeled down, hoping every trans person can find the love that we deserve ❤

    • @MasculineGuruu
      @MasculineGuruu Před 7 měsíci

      You’re a comedian
      Is this really that overwhelming or did getting away from god made your gay mind function at this level of stupidity?

    • @amanuelkassahun893
      @amanuelkassahun893 Před 6 měsíci +5

      the love that you looking for is found in Jesus

    • @coda6797
      @coda6797 Před 6 měsíci

      ​@@amanuelkassahun893stop it. If people want to be preached to they can go to church. Comment sections are not the place for that

    • @slavishentity6705
      @slavishentity6705 Před 6 měsíci +19

      ​​@@amanuelkassahun893*in the Flying Spaghetti Monster

    • @aidensudeyko183
      @aidensudeyko183 Před 6 měsíci +9

      It was beautiful ❤ and same everyone in the community and everyone else deserves to find the love of their life.

  • @willsolacemahsaamini8681
    @willsolacemahsaamini8681 Před rokem +350

    Many people have already said this but anyway, I can’t even think how people can ever be against this. You can see how happier and confident Jamie gets as the video progresses. His reaction to the gender recognition birth certificate was too wholesome. And the proposal 😭
    I smiled the entire video. And Shaaba stayed all the while. THIS IS TOO SWEET.

    • @Helena-ox7cr
      @Helena-ox7cr Před 10 měsíci +3

      Well he is lucky because he is tall with wide body structure. Who knows perhaps he is chimera having both sexes in various places.
      But it is clear not everybody can pass even with hormone therapy. For some reason Jamie's shoulders are wider. I thought hormones can not affect the skeleton with. Hmmm.

    • @ph.level__1.486
      @ph.level__1.486 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@Helena-ox7crMate, working out can widen your shoulders, just like it can alter other aspects of your body. Not to mention, testosterone changes the fat distribution and allows for muscle mass to be gained easier, which would make his shoulders wider even easier.
      Don't know if you're trying to make some kind of conspiracy, but there is none, just biology.

    • @cukka99
      @cukka99 Před 9 měsíci

      Why is anything you said relevant? What matters is that practically all trans people who desire transition are happier with transition. The fact that some are luckier than others doesn't change this. The fact that they are happier after (versus before) is all that matters (to us as outsiders). @@Helena-ox7cr

    • @ArDeeMee
      @ArDeeMee Před 7 měsíci +1

      Oh, the sexism towards short men and tall women is real…
      Not you, op, you‘re cool.

    • @josiewagner8631
      @josiewagner8631 Před 3 měsíci +4

      @@Helena-ox7cryou don’t have to pass a test; (especially from a cisgender person), in order to stay out of the storm of hate under the Transgender umbrella. People like to think they are “better “ than most other animals; with rights and privileges, but for Transgender people we often are treated worse than a rabid dog.
      We don’t resort to hate or violence in general, when describing a dog.
      You never hear most people get on the floor of the Capital Building and say that we need to legislate against Poodles because they aren’t real dogs. A German Shepherd is a dog but not a Chihuahua. No we just consider them a different kind of dog. And most people give their dogs and cats the same types of surgeries that are similar to the type that are some of the first surgical treatments that we as consenting Transgender adults have done if we are considering transitioning in this binary obsessed world. We don’t perform trans surgery on children, and you don’t have to have surgery to be standing under the Trans umbrella. My only wish is that one day the storm will pass and the rainbow 🌈 is bigger and brighter than ever……

  • @concept5631
    @concept5631 Před 3 lety +4560

    Jamie: **comes out as Trans**
    Jamie's Dad: *I fail to see how this is a fucking problem.*

    • @kendallope
      @kendallope Před 3 lety +231

      Sobbing...very jealous. Those are gosh darn great parents, I’m so happy he has them. 😭😭😭this is beautiful

    • @fillipetheclown2343
      @fillipetheclown2343 Před 3 lety +40

      damn I wish

    • @Lucy-lg4so
      @Lucy-lg4so Před 3 lety +35

      @shawkat zaman but Jamie doesn’t menstruate

    • @seymonmerit7309
      @seymonmerit7309 Před 3 lety +29

      @shawkat zaman Calm down, TERF bot

    • @CainXVII
      @CainXVII Před 3 lety +86

      My mom told my dad I wanted to be a boy. He responded "having to shave is a bother."

  • @svd8187
    @svd8187 Před 4 lety +23662

    Maybe this is odd to say - but this video to me doesn't look like a ftm transition but rather the journey of a teenage boy growing up.

    • @findingagain
      @findingagain Před 4 lety +1537

      I can understand that. He was quite young when he started T. :) I'm always glad to be reminded that his parents were supportive!

    • @jesstv3029
      @jesstv3029 Před 4 lety +319

      I totally agree with this.

    • @talbrami
      @talbrami Před 4 lety +514

      It's kind of both

    • @themousethatroared3371
      @themousethatroared3371 Před 4 lety +469

      I agree. Its like watching a grandson growing up. (I'm that old. lol)
      Love that his family was so supportive!

    • @lucaswolf8117
      @lucaswolf8117 Před 4 lety +373

      I also think from the very beginning he looked more like a guy than a girl, despite the female clothing

  • @macatacwarrior7204
    @macatacwarrior7204 Před rokem +137

    i broke out into a huge grin when you started talking at the 3 month update because i started to hear your iconic voice
    i’m proud of you, man

    • @markpetrov9476
      @markpetrov9476 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Same. I'm yet to start T but this makes me really hope that my voice would start changing soon enough after I do start. Coz I feel like it's one of the biggest parts of my own dysphoria

    • @nikumotosama4075
      @nikumotosama4075 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@markpetrov9476Well, I hope your transition goes well bro 😊 rootin for ya!

    • @cvVampria
      @cvVampria Před měsícem

      @@markpetrov9476 Hey, how has it been for you? Did you start T already? And if so, how'd your voice evolving? ^^

    • @markpetrov9476
      @markpetrov9476 Před měsícem

      @@cvVampria I didn't because of the messed up laws making it even harder to get. frankly illegal for a trans diagnosis, but I had my gender marker changed so to acces it I can get a prescription as if I'm cis but have an imbalance. But I don't want to risk going on t and then having my doc suddenly backpedal. Coz y'know it's not too safe for allies. But I got hope. A bit of it at least. Got to move in with a couple trans gals and that helped with coping.

    • @jasonnicholasschwarz7788
      @jasonnicholasschwarz7788 Před měsícem +1

      The voice is really amazing, he's so lucky it turned out that way, also a real Adam's apple, I don't know how he pulled that off :)) He never looked like a girl/woman to begin with, so his chances to turn out to look that great were very high from the start. And finding your soulmate on top of all that...he sure is one lucky bastard!:) When I look at the early pictures of your relationship I am getting past-life connections here. She might have been your mother in a previous life, honestly, the way she looks after you and everything. LIfe's such a miracle.

  • @bunny6820
    @bunny6820 Před rokem +906

    Mtf trans here, this gives me hope, and gives me realistic expectations of how long it's gonna take and of being awkward early on, thank you so much

    • @FoxofNothing
      @FoxofNothing Před rokem +53

      Still you should know that sadly your way as trans woman will be a bid harder :/
      Even more when you started to hit puberty already
      I still wish you the best and hope you can go your way to happiness has fast as possible

    • @goddesssabrina1405
      @goddesssabrina1405 Před rokem +15

      Hi there! I’m also MTF trans and this video is so helpful for a realistic timeline and I love Jamie’s content. We’ll get through this together sis!

    • @shakinglikemilk6222
      @shakinglikemilk6222 Před rokem +18

      Remember, puberty in general is awkward! Plenty of cis people have an awkward phase once they go through puberty, even figuring out their style and what type of person they want to be and how they want to look like. Don't put too much on pressure on yourself

    • @thesnek7036
      @thesnek7036 Před rokem +16

      Before I knew what mtf trans was I just read it as mother frickin trans

    • @recklessstaghomestead
      @recklessstaghomestead Před rokem +7

      Don't get bogged down with timelines and expectations. You are doing it and that is exciting. This is the beginning of the rest of your life and everything else will fall into place.

  • @kaitlyn3920
    @kaitlyn3920 Před 4 lety +771

    "Hey guys."
    *"I have two balls now."*

    • @Lu4455
      @Lu4455 Před 4 lety +66

      “He’s two plums heavier!”

  • @katerineella274
    @katerineella274 Před 3 lety +4830

    I am a 67 yr old woman, I'd like to thank you for sharing your experience as it has been helpful in helping me to understand. You are a lovely person. I wish you a long happy life.

    • @alexanderengh3128
      @alexanderengh3128 Před 3 lety +150

      Awe this is so cute

    • @prometeusz614
      @prometeusz614 Před 3 lety +4

      @abby mckenzie No they aren't lmao

    • @wpcgg7786
      @wpcgg7786 Před 3 lety +72

      Live long and prosper, good woman!

    • @viktor2434
      @viktor2434 Před 3 lety +52

      We wish a good long life too Katerine

    • @ines22LR
      @ines22LR Před 3 lety +11

      @@prometeusz614 abby’s comment got deleted i think, what did she say?

  • @mattbosley3531
    @mattbosley3531 Před 2 lety +124

    I don't know exactly how a trans person feels, but as a gay male who hid behind a mask until my twenties because my parents were ultra religious and considered being gay a sin that would send you straight to hell - I think I can imagine, just a little. Being something you're not every day is difficult and painful.

    • @passionate_possum_pal
      @passionate_possum_pal Před rokem +33

      @@ahahuehafook4207 he is a man, what's a man, and will always be a man. The difference from him in the past and him now, is that he is happy living is who he truly is. He's happy in his body and he's happy in his life.

    • @jamsistired
      @jamsistired Před rokem +17

      @@ahahuehafook4207 I think you should maybe stop raining on the parade

    • @eddieworkman5855
      @eddieworkman5855 Před rokem

      some people only get sex changes if there gay as they want to be straight

    • @dragosrandomstuff9261
      @dragosrandomstuff9261 Před rokem

      @@ahahuehafook4207 how does he look like a woman
      Tell me

    • @itsjustme4848
      @itsjustme4848 Před 10 měsíci +6

      @@ahahuehafook4207 if you check chromosomes you’re correct. In pretty much every other way, you’re wrong.

  • @lilybliblablubb5023
    @lilybliblablubb5023 Před rokem +291

    It's so weird seeing him in his female body, but as the video progresses, he becomes more and more himself, the one he wants to be, the one we know, and that's pretty awesome

    • @kiedisboughen5318
      @kiedisboughen5318 Před 8 měsíci +10

      He still looks kinda masculine in his before pics

    • @basilishot336
      @basilishot336 Před 8 měsíci +8

      @@kiedisboughen5318it just looks like him with long hair and no beard to me

    • @PostalFerretWithRum
      @PostalFerretWithRum Před 6 měsíci

      "her" "she"

    • @catbunny4785
      @catbunny4785 Před 5 měsíci +13

      @@PostalFerretWithRumhow many people in your life actually love you?

    • @theblackscreen38744
      @theblackscreen38744 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@PostalFerretWithRum Get that stick out your butt or leave

  • @armita1501
    @armita1501 Před 4 lety +2828

    That girl is a KEEPER. she was there for him from start to finish. honestly goals

    • @jhowardsupporter
      @jhowardsupporter Před 4 lety +5

      Thats a HE. They are men trapped in womens bodies so prefer to be referred to as men.
      EDIT: I've never gotten this many likes before. Thank you so much.

    • @armita1501
      @armita1501 Před 4 lety +183

      @@jhowardsupporter I was talking about his girlfriend lol

    • @sophiedallariva5006
      @sophiedallariva5006 Před 4 lety +59

      GasoLINA INK! They were talking about the girlfriend

    • @HypnoticPsychic87
      @HypnoticPsychic87 Před 4 lety +4

      @@jhowardsupporter The girlfriend wants to be a he as well?

    • @rajab4187
      @rajab4187 Před 4 lety +1

      Him or her

  • @laurelcook9078
    @laurelcook9078 Před 3 lety +4088

    The way your girlfriend became a kangaroo when you proposed was magical 😂

  • @lemongreed7916
    @lemongreed7916 Před 2 lety +988

    I'm a hetero cis woman and I never understood trans people feelings and always wondered, did they really need transitioning? Seeing this video I know now - yes. It is beautiful. I'm so glad for you. I literally started crying when you started crying over your birth certificate. Just seeing a man become what he was always meant to be. I'm also amazed that you have such a supportive family and girlfriend. Aand I must note - I think you are lucky to be naturally tall :)

    • @patriotkoblensky9478
      @patriotkoblensky9478 Před rokem +8

      SILLY that is so silly

    • @CharityApple07
      @CharityApple07 Před rokem +62

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 Yes, expression of emotion and empathy that is used to answer a question with nothing but emotion is silly! So so so silly. How could this person see the story of emotional parts in media play out behind their tears if they're crying! Truly a Bateman Moment!

    • @CharityApple07
      @CharityApple07 Před rokem +34

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 But Jamie doesn't seem sick in the beginning, and he doesn't seem very sick while crying happily (a very deserved emotion) opening his new birth certificate legally stating him as male over eight years later. How would it make you nauseous-levels of sick?

    • @VeraEdelman
      @VeraEdelman Před rokem

      @@patriotkoblensky9478 I legitimately have no idea what the fuck you’re trying to say

    • @patriotkoblensky9478
      @patriotkoblensky9478 Před rokem +1

      @@VeraEdelman and i the same about you

  • @inkycreeper250
    @inkycreeper250 Před rokem +53

    Im a transmasc, and since I’m still dependent on my parents and living in a *rather* not lgbtq friendly environment, sometimes somethings in life really discourages me. There’s even times where im actually feeling pretty hopeless. This video really inspired me, really. It’s always these types of videos and stuff that gives me hope and encourages me to keep going and fighting for a brighter future. Thank you, Jamie.

  • @anewbeginningquinn
    @anewbeginningquinn Před 4 lety +10473

    Nobody mentionned his girlfriend? She was there from beginning to end, this is amazing. Such a loving person

    • @sweeneyteng6658
      @sweeneyteng6658 Před 4 lety +330

      I'm waiting for the wedding video 😁

    • @ingridarros5377
      @ingridarros5377 Před 4 lety +93

      True love

    • @pteroglosis
      @pteroglosis Před 4 lety +250

      I'm still crying when he proposed her marriage...

    • @MelJennette
      @MelJennette Před 4 lety +156

      Yeah. He’s so fortunate to have such an amazing partner standing by him through the process.

    • @skadi6750
      @skadi6750 Před 4 lety +272

      @WingsOfTruth Every time you are in a mood to be an asshole, you can just...choose not to be an asshole, you know?

  • @espen990
    @espen990 Před 4 lety +5844

    I'm a cis guy and I can't relate to your experience, but watching your journey and seeing how much it means to you makes me so grateful that we live in a world where this is possible, and I wish every trans person can one day become their true selves. When you got your new birth certificate I couldn't help but cry together with you.

    • @saragarofano9727
      @saragarofano9727 Před 4 lety +149

      Precious comment

    • @espen990
      @espen990 Před 4 lety +194

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss I'm a cis guy since I identify as male and was assigned male at birth. Jamie is a trans guy since he identifies as male but was assigned female at birth.

    • @espen990
      @espen990 Před 4 lety +86

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss Being virtuous takes some effort, Jizz Boss.

    • @jakethereaper8899
      @jakethereaper8899 Před 4 lety +58

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss cisgender is an actual gender, look it up

    • @tarshil2020
      @tarshil2020 Před 4 lety +80

      @WaVy Crockett #JizzBoss nothing more boring than an uninformed ignorant fool and his worthless unproductive thoughts. In short, you.

  • @kathryn939
    @kathryn939 Před rokem +26

    The tears of opening the new birth certificate were immediately contagious, and then the outro mirroring the style of the intro?? No hope, I am a puddle of tears

  • @KatCrunch13
    @KatCrunch13 Před 6 měsíci +35

    Its so cool to hear his voice become more and more like yhe one we hear now. So happy for him!

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop Před 6 měsíci +3

      @user-vw1yz3cb3l "the trans agenda" I'm not even gonna read that shit just by those three words alone

  • @simoneroets4382
    @simoneroets4382 Před 3 lety +6587

    I'm in tears. Literally. My 7 year old wanted to know why, so I showed her. She said, and I quote, "he's getting happier and happier!" I wiped my tears and said, "exactly."

  • @RolandReaves
    @RolandReaves Před 3 lety +1123

    The fact that I'm not seeing as many hate comments really makes me happy, I'm glad society is more accepting now.

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves Před 3 lety +14

      @Zara Gupta I feel so bad for you.

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves Před 3 lety +12

      Nice copy-paste by the way

    • @PilkScientist
      @PilkScientist Před 3 lety +21

      @@RolandReaves I like how this fuck also mentions him having functioning breasts and ovaries. Like this isn't a video that specifically shows the surgeries in which those were removed. Hopefully he gets banned or whatever, so we can go back to good vibes

    • @RolandReaves
      @RolandReaves Před 3 lety +1

      @@bienemats Ikr

    • @amelieweatherill9615
      @amelieweatherill9615 Před 3 lety +2

      @Zara Gupta shut he doesn't even have those things

  • @m68lanc
    @m68lanc Před rokem +31

    I’m a foster carer and we need to be prepared to support our young people as they go through so many stages of self discovery, your story has helped me get a better understanding of something I honestly found difficult to connect with. I know your transition story will help me better support a young person who is dealing with the same thing, thank you for opening my mind and hopefully making me a better foster carer.

  • @wikihowtobreathe
    @wikihowtobreathe Před rokem +31

    "Feeling complete". Jamie, this is such a wonderful thing to hear, it literally brought tears to my eyes. It's so complicated to feel complete, just in general, but you feel complete, you're confident in your identity, you can move on. I can't explain how touching this is for me to hear. I discovered your channel today and ended up scrolling through your videos, until I stopped by this one. How I wish everyone in the world could understand how mesmerizing this is. Thank you for sharing your story. Much love from your new subscriber 🤍

  • @shiruki8974
    @shiruki8974 Před 3 lety +4849

    I think it's safe to say we all cried at the certificate part

  • @cupofbees9413
    @cupofbees9413 Před 4 lety +1917

    Everyone in the comments is talking about crying once he got the birth certificate and i thought i wouldn’t cry. Guess who’s sobbing

  • @NeroAlexander28
    @NeroAlexander28 Před rokem +37

    I am a Cis gay man that had no fucking idea what it is to be Trans, so what am going with this is I want to thank you and Shaaba from the bottom of my heart for sharing this journey. I personally have learned so much, still have ways to go I feel very ignorant in a lot of stuff when it comes to my own community (Queer) But watching this video made me cry from joy and I am so truly happy for you both. Wish you two all the best and thank you!

  • @danikati4u2
    @danikati4u2 Před 6 měsíci +21

    I am a trans woman. And this had me intears. I love your videos and seeing your journey in the pursuit of happiness brough upon such trans joy.
    Thank you for being you. 🩷

  • @mademoisellemorte6066
    @mademoisellemorte6066 Před 3 lety +3045

    Im so dumb i forgot jamie was trans and i was like woah he has a really pretty sister

  • @sammiemicheals474
    @sammiemicheals474 Před 3 lety +1943

    My boyfriend just took his first dose of T today. I am overwhelmed with gratitude to be alive, loving him, with all these resources and all these amazing people by our side. We've been crying all day, he is bright and perfect

    • @Acetronomy
      @Acetronomy Před 3 lety +89

      I know this comment was 3 weeks ago, but I gotta say I'm so proud of him, and you for being so supportive. I can imagine that first day is probably one of the happiest days of a trans persons life!

    • @sammiemicheals474
      @sammiemicheals474 Před 3 lety +55

      @@Acetronomy Thank you so much for your comment!! ❤️ One month on T, yesterday! Every little change is beautiful and watching him become more comfortable as the days pass are a true blessing!!

    • @VixAnathem
      @VixAnathem Před 3 lety +32

      I had just managed to stop crying from the video and your comment reopened the floodgates! Damn you wholesome stranger! Congratulations

    • @ceceliakittyface5301
      @ceceliakittyface5301 Před 3 lety +20

      I felt the exact same way when my ex/best friend got his first dose. Sent me a pic and I was so happy for him ❤️

    • @lmaolini
      @lmaolini Před 3 lety +5

      I wish you all the best♥️

  • @AnAbsurdistFemaphrodyke
    @AnAbsurdistFemaphrodyke Před rokem +45

    I am so happy that you have been allowed to be who you are. I wish you happiness, health, wealth and safety for life!

  • @luciefhirr7421
    @luciefhirr7421 Před rokem +28

    I love how even when you were a “girl” you had a handsome boyish face you hit the genetic lottery for an FTM

  • @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED
    @gaminggoldyhasABANDONED Před 3 lety +3091

    I will find it hard to believe someone can still be transphobic after watching this

    • @KatherineSinahon
      @KatherineSinahon Před 3 lety +202

      i knowww like why do some people actively choose to deny other people their happiness?? :(

    • @RBelmont007
      @RBelmont007 Před 3 lety +71

      @@seaofgeese they're definitely doing it wrong. I'm not entirely happy with my own life, but it's so uplifting and delightful seeing someone in such a state of overwhelming joy. There's enough we have to deal with in our personal lives, we shouldn't be trying to bring others down with us. Hopefully they learn that, and overcome their hate.

    • @izzebreezy1554
      @izzebreezy1554 Před 3 lety +38

      I love that he also found a love so quickly made me so happy

    • @cozmicfreak
      @cozmicfreak Před 3 lety +7

      IKKK

    • @pungetello
      @pungetello Před 3 lety +13

      Heres how: after watching this, even after Jamie's tears of joy and such, i still have the feeling that there is something so 'wrong' about this.. sorry i can't give more detail. It just seems so messed up to me still, no matter how much its painted like an inspirational journey of self actualization.

  • @idkwhattoputhere5578
    @idkwhattoputhere5578 Před 4 lety +1256

    When he proposed, everyone liked that

    • @jordanjoy9040
      @jordanjoy9040 Před 3 lety +1

      she..not he...

    • @idkwhattoputhere5578
      @idkwhattoputhere5578 Před 3 lety +48

      @@jordanjoy9040 let’s play would you rather! :D would you rather educate yourself or keep your goddamn mouth shut?

    • @amywonderland9297
      @amywonderland9297 Před 3 lety +31

      @@jordanjoy9040 Why are you here if you're just going to do shit like this? That's just cruel! You've actively searched for this kind of video just to use the wrong pronouns? What? Nothing good on telly, so you thought being a dick on someone's very inspiring, brave and wonderful journey was a better use of your time? On behalf of everyone here, Fuck off.

    • @idkwhattoputhere5578
      @idkwhattoputhere5578 Před 3 lety +4

      @@bmw_m4255 lol

    • @ja97417
      @ja97417 Před 3 lety

      Not me

  • @therabiesfairy
    @therabiesfairy Před 7 měsíci +11

    i just ordered my first binder and my friend sent me this. gonna cry now. so happy for you Jamie. i wanna be like you.

    • @comic--sans
      @comic--sans Před 6 měsíci +4

      @user-dz9eg4bx8q This is really disturbing. Please go away.

  • @justarandomguy3109
    @justarandomguy3109 Před 6 měsíci +14

    as a trans guy who is really considering getting hrt when i can afford it, yet a little apprehensive about its effects- this video means a whole lot to me. actually teared up when you got your new birth certificate as well. it was a rather bittersweet feeling seeing your parents being so supportive, but i feel only joy seeing you finally becoming the you of today. amazing video, man, i wish you the best life there is.
    also as someone who always has SO MUCH envy towards the male singers i like, that voice drop is heavenly lolol

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop Před 6 měsíci +3

      @@user-vw1yz3cb3l your mom

    • @toolio5268
      @toolio5268 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@user-vw1yz3cb3lDoctors monitor dosage smart guy. All medications have side effects and if it’s a substantial risk then they either adjust the dosage or take you off them if it’s bad enough.

    • @justarandomguy3109
      @justarandomguy3109 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@user-vw1yz3cb3l why kind stranger, thank you for taking the time to care about my health! i definitely consider the benefits to outweight the risks, so i will still consider it a choice without regrets. bye!

  • @nonymouswisp8176
    @nonymouswisp8176 Před 2 lety +3335

    This is just a montage of a man becoming happier and happier
    Edit: I see all of you transphobes in the replies and yes this is partially bait

  • @EloLeChan
    @EloLeChan Před 3 lety +1634

    God, when he looks up from his certificate, all teary-eyed, and then he smiles and quietly goes "...male"
    That hit me so damn hard-
    Jammi my feeling aaaa

    • @user-hp9is2el7r
      @user-hp9is2el7r Před 3 lety +6

      @Zara Gupta shut up

    • @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292
      @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 Před 3 lety +29

      @Zara Gupta The fact is that you are not a woman because you have female chromosomes and / or female genitalia. The difference between gender and sex is not very clear to you. Gender is not physical, he is a boy, despite not having been born with male genitalia. If you don't agree, shut up, he went through a big fight, don't be disrespectful.

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph Před 3 lety +6

      @Zara Gupta murder on my mind

    • @Lena-xl3ph
      @Lena-xl3ph Před 3 lety +15

      @@naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 well said.
      Zara Gupta is making me want to end my existence being transphobic in every single sub-comment. How much time does she have on her hands 😭💀

    • @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292
      @naiaraparedesdelarosa2292 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Lena-xl3ph Thanks, and yeah, I don't understand why people keep thinking like that... Also, hope u are okay 💖

  • @elainebelzDetroit
    @elainebelzDetroit Před 9 měsíci +13

    You're amazing - not a lot of people would put themselves out there like this (wrt many personal or vulnerable things, not just transitioning). I'm so, so happy for you (even though this is an older video). It's such an incredible gift that you're able to share this - a lot of people will benefit - have benefitted, I'm sure. As an ally, thank you!

  • @jaygordon7613
    @jaygordon7613 Před 3 lety +884

    I'm so happy for Jammidodger. From the time I was a child, I knew that I didn't 'feel like a girl', though born with female genitalia. Having been born in 1956, nothing was really known about being transgender, and most adults believed it was 'just a phase' for a girl 'being a tomboy'. As a very young child, my mother insisted on dressing me in frilly dresses and patent leather shoes. I was told to sit quietly while my brother and cousins were outdoors being rambunctious during family holiday visits, and I loathed it. As soon as focus was redirected, I was off sneaking some of my brother's jeans and a tee and tennis shoes, dressing in them, putting my head under the faucet to straighten out the curls, and outside playing, and it always brought me a world of hurt when the relatives went home.
    Dress code at school was dresses or skirts and blouses for girls, with no exception. I was thrilled when preparing to start high school because the dress codes loosened, and I could finally wear jeans or cords to school. I still had to wear a dress or skirt on Sundays, because the Mormon church requires it for girls and women. How I envied my brothers their suits and ties, or even slacks, white button down shirts and ties. And the Mormons are extremely non supportive of LGBTQ or non binary people. I did what I was pretty much forced to do, under the circumstances of when and how I was raised, and I married a man when I was 24 years old, and gave birth to a son. I've remained married, and my husband and son both know who I am, and how I am. I've lived a lie for decades, but I do love them both and would never leave them. And so I've never been able to live my authentic life.
    I'm filled with pride and happiness for every Trans person who moved heaven and earth to achieve their dream, to be who they were. Whoever you are out there, I love you and support you, and rejoice in your happiness and successes, and weep when so many people are cruel, vindictive, and dismissive.

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 Před 3 lety +25

      @abby mckenzie Jamie is bi and so is shaaba and Jamie is a man

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 Před 3 lety +40

      @shawkat zaman Nope. Menstruation isnt exclusive to women. And not all women menstruate

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 Před 3 lety +28

      @Antonio Aight? And plenty of AFAB people cannot menstruate. Idk what your point is

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 Před 3 lety +11

      @Antonio Fertile female*. Are you a doctor?

    • @alibolink0719
      @alibolink0719 Před 3 lety +18

      @Antonio Neither of them are lesbians

  • @normalhuman1368
    @normalhuman1368 Před 4 lety +3166

    You can literally see how he gets happier and happier over the years and it's freaking amazing to watch.

  • @kris_dreemurr8264
    @kris_dreemurr8264 Před 2 lety +13

    as a trans person (ftm), watching this made me so hopeful that I could also be able to feel comfortable in my body. The moment the birth certificate was pulled out I started crying so hard and i cant tell you how happy it makes me to see the journey as a whole. Thank you so much Jamie, this has made my day so much better

  • @marklothrop
    @marklothrop Před 6 měsíci +12

    Hey, as a gay man (I'm now 44) I am struggling with my identity.
    I want to express that I'm grateful to have been a part of your journey, at least in a video.
    You know, I have an immense amount of fears: 1) Coming out. 2) Who am I? 3) How do I want to be addressed? 4) Will I find a fitting community?"
    I know I need to take my time, and this is a process of self-discovery.
    Thank you for encouraging me, to stay strong.

    • @DustyKeyboardahh
      @DustyKeyboardahh Před 6 měsíci +4

      You can ask the opinion of the people you wanna come out to and decide if you wanna come out of not, and if you are having gender related identity problems you can try going under different pronouns and gender labels. Hope this helps!

    • @samhein321
      @samhein321 Před 6 měsíci +2

      1. Coming out doesn't change who you were before
      2. You are the same as before
      3. addressed as? like as mr. gay? what you on about...
      4. fitting community? join any community you like, model trains or art, doesnt need to be lqbt community, some gays dont even like those ones

    • @TheLuckyCop
      @TheLuckyCop Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@samhein321 your mom

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd Před 3 lety +1858

    My son is trans and even just registering him as his proper gender in high school made such an enormous impact. He is a different kid. I am so happy that you are finally where you want to be 100% including the birth certificate. Bravo to you sir. As E.E. Cummings wrote - it takes a lot of courage to grow up and become who you really are.

    • @slushu_6865
      @slushu_6865 Před 3 lety +83

      Your son is so lucky to have a parent like you!

    • @SandiByrd
      @SandiByrd Před 3 lety +66

      @@slushu_6865 Thank you very much for that. I can also say I am so lucky to have a teen like my son

    • @moth6966
      @moth6966 Před 3 lety +7

      @Zara Gupta she never said her son was into women though

    • @moth6966
      @moth6966 Před 3 lety +21

      @Zara Gupta also from what I understand ur transphobic, so no hate, you do you, but I was just wondering why do you have a problem with people being happy and how does it affect u in any way?

    • @dasharooisthebest4162
      @dasharooisthebest4162 Před 3 lety +28

      Can you please be my parent 🥺? My mom's super transphobic 😔

  • @18937charlotte
    @18937charlotte Před 4 lety +1231

    This honestly had me in tears. As a cisgender woman, I can only imagine how horrible it must be to feel like you were born or straight up being born in the wrong gender, especially in this society. The journey taking so long and entailing so many difficult procedures must have filled you with despair on the way from time to time, and I am baffled at your strength! And that makes it all the more beautiful and amazing how well your transition has turned out! You look amazing, brother!

    • @yusufgazi7
      @yusufgazi7 Před 3 lety +5

      Can cis men take testosterone?

    • @felix121984
      @felix121984 Před 3 lety +2

      You are not female ! You are male period !

    • @PavementRyan
      @PavementRyan Před 3 lety +16

      Especially if your parents are religious and are extremely transphobic and you’re in deep gender dysphoria

    • @annaquattlebaum3415
      @annaquattlebaum3415 Před 3 lety +27

      felix121984 who are u talking to bruh

    • @mr_sugas_fire3015
      @mr_sugas_fire3015 Před 3 lety +25

      Anna Quattlebaum
      Lmao i dont think they know what cisgender means 😂😂😂

  • @violetmiraidon
    @violetmiraidon Před rokem +28

    Me, scrolling through new, knowing damn well I’m gonna see transphobic comments: 👁👄👁

    • @ericcarvalhoferreira512
      @ericcarvalhoferreira512 Před rokem +5

      I do it just to get mad /srs

    • @HeyImRowen
      @HeyImRowen Před 11 měsíci +2

      I just do it because I know how ridiculous they will be and they make me laugh

  • @fa3ry_du5t
    @fa3ry_du5t Před 8 měsíci +13

    As a mtf teen whose currently going through my first puberty, the things with the hair being everywhere is normal for amab people as well. I'm only 14 and I already have hair everywhere on my body and I know it's gonna be a lot more by the time I'm 18.
    This video has inspired me to make my own trans intro and outro.
    I hope mine is as beautiful as yours.
    Your photo a day timelapse inspired my ftm friends to start his own from 2-3 years before testosterone (he started on Sept 14th, his 16th birthday)
    Congrats on 11 years on T, cheers to another 11

    • @how_about_naw
      @how_about_naw Před 7 měsíci

    • @nitzanshu4695
      @nitzanshu4695 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Im a bit late so I'll just ask how's it going currently?

    • @fa3ry_du5t
      @fa3ry_du5t Před 7 měsíci

      @@nitzanshu4695 well he's still taking photos and I'm making monthly videos
      Planning on coming out to my parents and starting hrt at 19

  • @fairy5668
    @fairy5668 Před 3 lety +1004

    AHHH SOMEONE MUST HAVE CUT ONIONS WHEN JAMIE OPENED THE ENVELOPE BC I CANNOT CONTROL MY TEARS

  • @sillystringeater
    @sillystringeater Před 3 lety +358

    I never never cry but.. when he started crying and said "male.." in the birth certificate bro I started tearing up

  • @0ldAcc0unt
    @0ldAcc0unt Před rokem +45

    I am a 12 year old trans boy, and, this makes me have hope. I have gotten a haircut, and only a haircut, but that haircut is the beginning for me.

    • @0ldAcc0unt
      @0ldAcc0unt Před rokem +2

      @𝕹𝖎𝖓𝖏𝖆 𝕲𝖆𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖌 Thank you!

    • @noooodianoodles
      @noooodianoodles Před rokem +4

      good luck! Happy for you!!

    • @almostTOTALLYvix
      @almostTOTALLYvix Před rokem +1

      omg same, although im 14 here lmao. I think im actually getting my haircut today!

    • @bareq99
      @bareq99 Před rokem +3

      Just make sure you actually figured it out mate! You're still young so don't rush things so fast!! Take it slow
      Other than that.. Good luck!

    • @DanielShortKing
      @DanielShortKing Před rokem +1

      Omg same but I’m 11 and I got my haircut 2 days ago. It’s alright buddy one day we will be free

  • @grean566
    @grean566 Před rokem +18

    I'm ftm and haven't gotten testosterone or any surgeries yet and this made me sob. I can't wait to finally be who I am. Thank you for sharing. You have no idea what what this means to me

    • @juliuspearson9390
      @juliuspearson9390 Před rokem +3

      hey good luck :) i remember being u years ago and now im here, ull get there one day too

  • @DJDNDK
    @DJDNDK Před 4 lety +876

    After creeping thru the comments, i have concluded that the haters manifest themselves in the replies more than in the actual comments.

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 Před 4 lety +160

      because they're too much of wusses to have their shitty opinions that easy to find.

    • @mollytovxx4181
      @mollytovxx4181 Před 4 lety +160

      @@Tendo641 Nah I think they are hijacking popular comments because their terrible opinions don't get boosted by enough likes to be seen on their own.

    • @Tendo641
      @Tendo641 Před 4 lety +77

      @@mollytovxx4181 that does sound more plausible, actually.

    • @olive7195
      @olive7195 Před 4 lety +20

      SCREW YOU... just kidding :))

    • @olive7195
      @olive7195 Před 4 lety +21

      I definitely agree though.

  • @sammichbread
    @sammichbread Před 4 lety +1495

    "my name is... jamie"
    the hesitation... i felt that... for me it's like "t..this is my name but am i allowed to call myself that"

    • @nicholasrobertson4200
      @nicholasrobertson4200 Před 4 lety +62

      I feel that. I only just came out to the world on Wednesday, and yesterday I introduced myself as Nick for the first time, and while it felt amazing, it also felt like I shouldn't call myself that yet. I don't know. It was weird.

    • @lucamorgi8064
      @lucamorgi8064 Před 4 lety +24

      I felt that. The first time introducing myself as Luca I was so excited

    • @zApple769
      @zApple769 Před 4 lety +6

      @@nicholasrobertson4200 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @zApple769
      @zApple769 Před 4 lety +6

      @@lucamorgi8064 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @sammichbread
      @sammichbread Před 4 lety +12

      congratulations luca & nick!!! :D
      i came out to my mom last year but it kind of feels like she's just shoved me back into the closet tbh ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

  • @2dots3dote26
    @2dots3dote26 Před 2 lety +20

    Nothing can compare to that RAW emotion of finally being recognised. I teared up when you got your birth cert I wish you all the best Jamie

  • @BlackFlagHeathen
    @BlackFlagHeathen Před 2 lety +55

    Shaaba stuck by him this WHOLE time. That is true love. These two are clearly soulmates/twin flames. ❤️🔥🔥❤️
    As a currently single hopeless romantic, I’m very jealous of Jamie, he is SO lucky to have Shaaba. I’m not even trans, but this made me so happy to watch. Congrats on your transition going so well, Jamie! 🥳❤️🏳️‍⚧️

    • @cottencandykitten
      @cottencandykitten Před rokem +4

      Shaaba is just amazing. They both have gone through such an epic journey.

  • @Mezzy..
    @Mezzy.. Před 3 lety +312

    "He's two plums heavier" 😂😂 She's amazing

  • @roy_theruler8132
    @roy_theruler8132 Před 3 lety +758

    Bro, this isn’t just a transition video, this is a damn glow up vid too!! So happy for you!

    • @rhodoraescalona6441
      @rhodoraescalona6441 Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah

    • @nageen.
      @nageen. Před 3 lety +8

      @no name no name *he, and he is a bro. get your transphobia outta here

    • @selma7452
      @selma7452 Před 3 lety +9

      @no name no name He is a man and if you don’t respect that than get your transphobic ass out of here :)

    • @lilithic6337
      @lilithic6337 Před 3 lety +4

      @no name no name do you have a kink or smt for embarrassing yourself like that

    • @roy_theruler8132
      @roy_theruler8132 Před 3 lety

      @@rameenmujtaba9752 Yes yes it is, because she is a queen

  • @alexhehim7783
    @alexhehim7783 Před rokem +11

    I'm gonna download this vid so anytime I feel down or depressed, I will keep on living to have my real person to come out and live a happy life, your an example for me, a teenager ftm who is full of dysphoria
    when I saw the parts where your family comes in, I started crying because my relationship with my parents is really complicated, but seeing your journey made me feel so happy for you
    thank you for standing up for who you are and encouraging us to keep our heads up and be ourselves with proud.
    I can't wait to experience this happiness, congratulations for who you are and for this beautiful family 💖

  • @mackayladavis4021
    @mackayladavis4021 Před 10 měsíci +12

    Such a handsome young man. Sending lots of love. May you live a life of happiness and fulfilment that you deserve.

  • @sobennison7344
    @sobennison7344 Před 4 lety +5702

    No one:
    Jammie: I am going to make everyone cry their eyes out.

    • @youdonthavetoknow5265
      @youdonthavetoknow5265 Před 4 lety +21

      yep... literally cried my eyes out... thanks Jammi...

    • @burreal9916
      @burreal9916 Před 4 lety +12

      Why am I cryin in the club rn

    • @Livikyu
      @Livikyu Před 4 lety +27

      *passes tissues around*

    • @IPONJ
      @IPONJ Před 4 lety +6

      Mission accomplished.

    • @sloan_kooshan
      @sloan_kooshan Před 4 lety +5

      Needless Pictures I KNOW RIGHT 😭😭😭😭

  • @Mark-oz7vp
    @Mark-oz7vp Před 3 lety +809

    Who else started to cry, when he opened the letter? I have to say: I'm a Transman to and I haven't started transition yet and I hope it will all go well.

    • @mightbeavampire
      @mightbeavampire Před 3 lety +25

      good luck on your personal transition
      i don't cry but i was showing my brother(trans man) and he was crying and i couldn't make sentences (my version of crying)

    • @Mark-oz7vp
      @Mark-oz7vp Před 3 lety +10

      @@mightbeavampire thank you, I think I can need all the luck I can get.

    • @aligershon
      @aligershon Před 3 lety +6

      @M End I wish you the best of luck.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 Před 3 lety +7

      Good luck! ❤️🙏🌈

    • @oibruv3889
      @oibruv3889 Před 3 lety +1

      Good luck

  • @C.O._Jones
    @C.O._Jones Před rokem +28

    You seem so much more comfortable in your own skin since transitioning, and you’re a very handsome man.

  • @theeviljames
    @theeviljames Před rokem +7

    This video has become a go-to for the "happies"; a little drunk wanting the niceness. The vicarious happiness/pride that I feel seeing someone become who they always were really brings me some healing deep in my soul. Thanks

  • @allissondiego1989
    @allissondiego1989 Před 4 lety +7470

    I know nothing about gender transition, I Just want to see people happy. This video brings me joy.
    Edit: Guys, it's been many years since I posted this comment. Today I know a thing or two about gender transition and I don't support any irreversible procedure like puberty blockers or surgergy. Especially in minors. I still want people to be happy like before.

    • @AvitalShtap
      @AvitalShtap Před 4 lety +34

      Allisson Diego Awww ILY allisson!!

    • @vixymix101
      @vixymix101 Před 4 lety +111

      If you wanna know more I can give insight.
      You see, trans people suffer from gender dysphoria, the only way to calm it is to transition to their prefered gender. So basically, transitions cure their dysphoria (not fully but so much of it) so in short, they become much more happier when they transition

    • @user-js6yx2fw1c
      @user-js6yx2fw1c Před 4 lety +14

      @@vixymix101 dysphoria must be treated psychologically/psychiatrically at first, but under the pressure of lobbyists and pharmaceutical companies, who having billions of dollars for selling meds & operations the process of getting those ridiculously simplified. Why nobody cures people with suicidal thoughts by just letting them commit one? Because it won't solve the main problem . Gender is enormously fluid concept and building anything on it, especially in society, where gender roles, sexism, misogyny are still everywhere is literally dangerous and destructive, especially when definition of gender changes by the needs of those, who have profit

    • @vixymix101
      @vixymix101 Před 4 lety +115

      @@user-js6yx2fw1c if you'd actually bother to know the only way to properly fix the issue is to work to get a body you are comfortable in.

    • @linanicolia1363
      @linanicolia1363 Před 4 lety +4

      The suicide rate is over the top. Often, the changes are not working well and complications prevail. They do it because it is available and actually now, it is also " fashionable ". Years ago, girls who thought they wanted to be guys, were labeled "tomboys" ; they got over it, when their natural hormones kicked in. We had one cute little lesbian girl who decided she was going through the change. She did the testosterone, cut her breasts and had an hysterectomy. Nothing below. She/He became unreliable, as he could not show up for work, on time but made excuses about some personal issues. By then he was visibly a guy, with lots of tattoos , whiskers and a deep voice. He got hooked on hard drugs and died, crossing a busy street. We do not know if it was suicide or just confusion. He was a mess ! Why did he not stay a girl with the homosexual tendencies ? We did not care, as we loved him either way. It is OK to be gay ! I see a phobia with transgenders who would prefer to be seen as " normal ", so they may actually be homophobes, we enable to make such radical changes. The surgeons make money......Hospitals make money. So, we go full speed ahead. Destroy functioning body parts for dubious results and see how far we can go with this, when people are dying of starvation, somewhere on the planet, not having enough food to survive. Here, we worry about complying with the issue of expandable sexual identity. Is that off the chart ? Priorities in the wrong places.

  • @wonderwharf
    @wonderwharf Před 4 lety +759

    I'll never forget that line from B99 when Captain Holt goes: "Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place." I've never seen your videos before but this made me tear up!! MASSIVE love from Portland, OR :)

  • @Summer-isnotcool
    @Summer-isnotcool Před rokem +7

    This is such a feel-good video for me. Like, literally, I sometimes re-watch this when I'm having a bad day. It makes me so happy to watch Jamie become more and more confident and happy at every step. He's such a great guy and I'm so happy for him and I'm so grateful to be living in a world where we can make this happen. ❤

  • @noxhamilton704
    @noxhamilton704 Před rokem +18

    I'm almost 31 and just recently come to the conclusion that I'm nonbinary. Watching the videos about your journey has me smiling and helping me come to terms about whether or not to get top surgery. This video montage was very eye-opening in a good way and I wish I could come to the UK just so I could give you a hug!

  • @user-xu4kp3dc2x
    @user-xu4kp3dc2x Před 4 lety +1096

    The ninjas are cutting onions again.

  • @thekathrynwest
    @thekathrynwest Před 4 lety +2454

    I’m totally not crying when he starts crying about his birth certificate

    • @dariennewilson9982
      @dariennewilson9982 Před 4 lety +19

      I had to pause to compose myself

    • @javiaib9791
      @javiaib9791 Před 4 lety +5

      @R A He*

    • @thekathrynwest
      @thekathrynwest Před 4 lety +15

      R A the whole point of this is transitioning from female to male hence male pronouns. If you’re here to start a fight over something as petty as pronouns, I’ll go ahead and call you out and tell you to stop trolling people videos looking for something

    • @turtlepenguinXkizuna
      @turtlepenguinXkizuna Před 4 lety +4

      I cried in the original video and thought I was cool and prepared and stuff this time but nope

    • @Yaeka
      @Yaeka Před 4 lety

      100% I'm crying at work, dammit.

  • @ValDCX
    @ValDCX Před 2 lety +12

    I'm 2.5 years into my transition (MtF) and too often I feel like I'm stagnating and not going fast enough. This video reminded me that this is still the beginning and that I need to be patient, because in the end, 2.5 years is nothing. That was a very emotional watch

  • @angela_eric
    @angela_eric Před rokem +17

    I found you lately from one topic, and I enjoy watching your videos cause they feel so genuine. Your videos have helped my get over my irrational hatred of the lgbt+ community, and I have been so much happier after that realization. If anyone finds this from my past, I'm sorry if I hurt you, I now believe everyone genuinely has the right to live their life as long as it doesn't harm others, and Trans people don't harm others by being Trans.

    • @christopherjohnson3464
      @christopherjohnson3464 Před rokem +8

      Your first instinct which determines what you’ve been taught. Your second instinct is who you are truly.

    • @nobody.of.importance
      @nobody.of.importance Před rokem +6

      Love me some One Topic and The Click. Good goofy fellas.

  • @focuseagle6874
    @focuseagle6874 Před 4 lety +2389

    When he asked his girlfriend to marry him it looked so much like a Sims 3 proposal 😅😂

    • @chitram6926
      @chitram6926 Před 4 lety +9

      LMAO you're right 😂😂

    • @teddy6488
      @teddy6488 Před 4 lety +8

      LMAOOOOOOOOO

    • @nassimbaaziz
      @nassimbaaziz Před 4 lety +4

      *When she asked her girlfriend

    • @lorenaa_h
      @lorenaa_h Před 4 lety +116

      nassim baaziz the first comment didn’t need any corrections. if you’re going to be transphobic and bring hate to such a wholesome and important video, leave

    • @Marijuanies
      @Marijuanies Před 4 lety +41

      nassim baaziz let me guess, you’re lonely and single

  • @soumiu.8264
    @soumiu.8264 Před 3 lety +592

    Bro can we just agree how damn handsome he is????

  • @Him_He_Me
    @Him_He_Me Před 4 měsíci +4

    I knew by the way you sat down that the next words out of your mouth was "hi Ive had bottom surgery"
    What a magnificent journey Jamie. So happy I got to (kind of) witness it. Its been a joy to watch and to nod approvingly along with you to all the changes 😁😁

  • @waterdragon2224
    @waterdragon2224 Před rokem +27

    I’m continually learning about the trans community. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with us. It really helps a cisgender like myself understand things a lot more. Getting your certificate was very emotional to watch. I’m so very happy that you’ve been given your true identity and feel confident and comfortable in your own skin. That’s a beautiful thing. ❤
    I have enjoyed the videos I’ve seen so far. You’re a lovely man. ❤

  • @owenjames877
    @owenjames877 Před 4 lety +515

    My pre T ass sitting here crying over this- one day all I'll have left to change is my birth certificate. Knowing that is somehow crushing and exciting simultaneously, because it feels so far away but will be so sweet. At 6:50 he says "male" with such emotion, its like a triumph, a relief. So touching.

    • @maddiedraws5777
      @maddiedraws5777 Před 4 lety +12

      Good luck! I'm rooting for you :D

    • @owenjames877
      @owenjames877 Před 4 lety +6

      @@maddiedraws5777 Thank you!!!

    • @maddiedraws5777
      @maddiedraws5777 Před 4 lety +7

      @@owenjames877 You deserve it!!!

    • @linanicolia1363
      @linanicolia1363 Před 4 lety +12

      The sex is in your DNA, not on a piece of paper after some possibly botched surgical procedures. Who you are is not defined by your sex but by your mind !

    • @MrGameManIsCool
      @MrGameManIsCool Před 4 lety +5

      lina nicolia it’s to help with things like gender dysphasia and stuff

  • @anastasia.00
    @anastasia.00 Před 4 lety +995

    When he started crying because of the birth certificate 😭😭 I'm so so happy for you!

    • @kellyriddell5014
      @kellyriddell5014 Před 4 lety +34

      He seems so sweet. I'm so glad he's happy. Also he and his girlfriend (or wife, not actually sure if they've gotten married yet) seem wonderful for each other.

  • @glitchedScene
    @glitchedScene Před 6 měsíci +8

    after he opened the birth certificate and cried, it made me cry

    • @wacawaka1802
      @wacawaka1802 Před 6 měsíci

      Laws have changed without any actual process because someone decided a word has a new meaning. That’s like changing what black means then saying people who hate me are racist.

  • @MatthewDonovanAU
    @MatthewDonovanAU Před rokem +154

    This is so beautiful.
    You are beautiful.
    Thanks for your openness and bravery you gorgeous person.
    I know you’ve made a difference ❤

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 Před rokem +1

      no

    • @sangitaraj7666
      @sangitaraj7666 Před rokem +12

      @@shanen28 😐

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 Před rokem +1

      @@sangitaraj7666 she wasted her beauty nothing good about that.

    • @Izzy-wl7gl
      @Izzy-wl7gl Před rokem +20

      @@shanen28 I don't think he cares what you think about his appearance, he's happily married and many people disagree with you

    • @shanen28
      @shanen28 Před rokem +2

      @@Izzy-wl7gl she’s a woman woman woman ✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @carsoogie
    @carsoogie Před 3 lety +1110

    i lost it at "i now have two balls. i have balls."
    but seriously, congrats man. wishing you love and all the best!!

  • @chaosnoelle
    @chaosnoelle Před 4 lety +701

    My brother is trans. I feel so sad for him when I see all these transitions on CZcams. His psychologist ruined everything for him, and now he is unable to get testosterone and so there's no hope for surgery. He is an adult now and still looks so young. I know how much it tears on his self esteem that he has no facial hair and still has to deal with his feminine features. I will never lose hope he will one day get approved for testosterone..

    • @majcios-zt5ci
      @majcios-zt5ci Před 3 lety +82

      I hope that he will stay strong and get better one day

    • @plestrange511
      @plestrange511 Před 3 lety +65

      Wishing him the best & he's lucky to have such a supportive sibling!

    • @vanessawestbrook9846
      @vanessawestbrook9846 Před 3 lety +45

      I know this might be overstepping boundaries but I was wondering how did his psychologist mess it up for him

    • @chaosnoelle
      @chaosnoelle Před 3 lety +122

      @@vanessawestbrook9846 It's alright :) Going to a psychologist is the first step to your transition (at least where I live) because they have to judge wether you are 'actually trans' or not. If they decide you cannot transition, that's the end of your journey for then. Without the 'Go' from a psychologist, you can't get access to hormone therapy.
      My brothers psychologist didn't understand that he needed time to open up, so she instead decided that he was not cooperative and judged him based on the fact he didn't talk much in the first sessions. She was a dick to him and denied him access to testosterone.
      Now, my brother is so discouraged he hasn't tried again... And it's harder to get approval for Testosterone after you already got a 'no'.

    • @vanessawestbrook9846
      @vanessawestbrook9846 Před 3 lety +64

      @@chaosnoelle I hope he doesn't get discouraged and that he finds a better psychologist hopefully one day he'll get testosterone wishing him the best

  • @fallforever8967
    @fallforever8967 Před rokem +14

    Holy shit this was amazing. I just started crying at the end, completely unexpectedly! Congratulations Jamie, I'm so happy for you and your incredible journey towards your true self.

  • @alexnicholson3060
    @alexnicholson3060 Před 4 lety +2364

    It’s actually so weird seeing him without a beard

    • @kystrickland9450
      @kystrickland9450 Před 4 lety +35

      Very noice beard

    • @user-rn3mq5tl8y
      @user-rn3mq5tl8y Před 4 lety +33

      His beard is good beard

    • @nefelikyvel9777
      @nefelikyvel9777 Před 4 lety +86

      @Alexandria Alexa The door is over there. Get outta here.

    • @nefelikyvel9777
      @nefelikyvel9777 Před 4 lety +64

      @Alexandria Alexa Just leave this channel alone, smartass.

    • @nefelikyvel9777
      @nefelikyvel9777 Před 4 lety +52

      @Alexandria Alexa As if, cocky is the word you're looking for, and a stupid attitude.

  • @mjcoteco7781
    @mjcoteco7781 Před 4 lety +366

    Imagine not knowing a person but still crying over their joy because you've been watching them so long. The internet is weird.

    • @heroofpots4428
      @heroofpots4428 Před 4 lety +9

      Marina Coteco that’s what jamie’s video’s’ll do to ya lol. He’s such a compassionate person the empathy just wears off on everyone

  • @JustALittleBored3
    @JustALittleBored3 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I could see his confidence growning after every stage of his journey

  • @chickenpants
    @chickenpants Před rokem +5

    The honesty here is beautiful. The joy that shone out from you when you said,'This is my T Day.', was amazing. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @KANGAXRUU
    @KANGAXRUU Před 4 lety +656

    i keep saying “aww” every 2 seconds

    • @KANGAXRUU
      @KANGAXRUU Před 4 lety +28

      now im crying

    • @mrdedenne9714
      @mrdedenne9714 Před 3 lety +11

      I thought you wrote "eww" and i was prepared to throw hands

  • @eeeezypeezy
    @eeeezypeezy Před 4 lety +918

    I'm a cis gay man and I absolutely adored this compilation. It made me so emotional to see how much LIGHTER you looked after your transition was well underway. Even setting aside the more obvious and dramatic physical changes, the difference in the look in your eyes drives it home better than any words could just how fucking important it is that trans and gender nonconforming people be seen and recognized and celebrated for who they *really* are. You're a great communicator of your experience, and we're lucky to have you putting it out on the internet like this.

    • @cappnawshumxderp3661
      @cappnawshumxderp3661 Před 4 lety +12

      eeeezypeezy THIS COMMENT. Is everything

    • @tullius2222
      @tullius2222 Před 4 lety +1

      i love this comment.

    • @patrickv.3979
      @patrickv.3979 Před 4 lety +3

      I second this on every detail! This is so interesting for me, as a cis gay man, and I'm happy I found him a few weeks ago.

    • @seanmartin1212
      @seanmartin1212 Před 4 lety +1

      eeeezypeezy
      , I love your comment. It is so spot on.

    • @Transpenguincy
      @Transpenguincy Před 4 lety +1

      eeeezypeezy bless you sir

  • @Apus_Gaming69
    @Apus_Gaming69 Před 2 lety +15

    I'm not crying. You are. This video is a wonderful story about a boy becoming a man.

  • @MissEarthling
    @MissEarthling Před rokem +11

    Jamie you're gonna make me cry stop it 🥲

  • @boredweegie553
    @boredweegie553 Před 3 lety +1286

    My son is FTM and has same boyfriend for 7 years now..From way before...So proud of him ♥️well done you too 👌♥️

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 Před 3 lety +119

      Elaine, your son is lucky. That kind of support doesn't come along too often.

    • @jm7804
      @jm7804 Před 3 lety +45

      @Zara Gupta you're an idiot...thanks for sharing

    • @user-en2hu6wp7p
      @user-en2hu6wp7p Před 3 lety +39

      @Zara Gupta fuck you, *he* is not elaines daughter *he* is elaines son.

    • @twentyeight602
      @twentyeight602 Před 3 lety +20

      @Zara Gupta Jeez what's your problem?

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 Před 3 lety +2

      You look good Btw

  • @juicecarton5076
    @juicecarton5076 Před 4 lety +302

    This made me cry, I feel like a proud dad even though I’m only 14

  • @pfefferfilm
    @pfefferfilm Před rokem +26

    That was beautiful man. Especially hearing the voice dropping. Starting from handsome and excited young man to a very handsome and very happy man. The proposal was beautiful

    • @nobody.of.importance
      @nobody.of.importance Před rokem +4

      The voice cracking always makes me laugh so hard. We had a trans guy roomy for a while and it was fucking hilarious listening to him sing along to the radio.

  • @kai368
    @kai368 Před rokem +8

    When the video was close to the end i audibly said "am i really gonna be able to look like that" im literally crying right now

    • @libidoishigh0420
      @libidoishigh0420 Před rokem +3

      maybe one day, you gotta trust the process though. you're already a guy on the inside, if that helps. i believe in you kid.

  • @Cameron_is.kinda_gay
    @Cameron_is.kinda_gay Před 3 měsíci +3

    Omg when Jamie started crying I immediately started balling my eyes out. maybe it's just the testosterone and all the new hormones in me rn but either way I am so beyond happy for him and I can't wait to get there one day.

  • @arielpintar8146
    @arielpintar8146 Před 4 lety +339

    6:45 I started crying, and I don't cry often, but this got into my heart