you can thrive as a loner in the right environment

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  • čas přidán 25. 07. 2024
  • I don't see myself settling in any city I've lived in quite yet - so as I adventure around the world as an introvert/"loner", here's some things I will definitely be looking for in a new environment. Would love to hear your own experiences or any other advice you can share with the community.
    TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 intro/being a loner
    02:26 being alone in the wrong city
    03:59 why I don’t actually feel lonely
    05:37 spending time outside
    07:31 becoming more confident
    08:37 friends and community
    10:01 community IS important
    11:45 wrapping up
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Komentáře • 15

  • @SolH2OYachts
    @SolH2OYachts Před 2 měsíci +4

    I am someone who is good on her own like you solo self dating but also enjoy a good weekly or bi-weekly hangout. Having things on my calendar gives me something to look forward to and just decompress at times. You look good girl!!

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  Před 2 měsíci +1

      agreed! my biweekly hangouts are enough to last me for a bit lol but always appreciate them

  • @eboniesimone
    @eboniesimone Před 2 měsíci

    totally binging all of your videos now after seeing your dallas video! I really love your honesty and being so open! I found this video to be so motivating, especially as a loner girlie considering moving cross country where she doesn't know anyone. building is community is important, but lately I've found that most of my self growth and work has come at times/places where I am not interacting or having a community. but sometimes when it's time to celebrate it can feel lonely.

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  Před 2 měsíci

      thank you for being here! agreed - I think the goal is to eventually find a good balance of solo time but also building a community. I'm also convinced that sometimes we need to go out of our comfort zone to truly find our people. Good luck with your move if you decide to do that! :)

  • @AshtonsMind
    @AshtonsMind Před 2 měsíci

    I love your content it’s so refreshing

  • @Moonlitchick
    @Moonlitchick Před 2 měsíci

    Stunning queen! Thank you for sharing your experience and advice from what you have gone through. Missing nature as we speak. Definitely need to ground and reconnect. Love you and miss you a TON!

  • @A_HEROS_JOURNEY
    @A_HEROS_JOURNEY Před 2 měsíci

    You motivate me 🤟

  • @bewitchedbylena
    @bewitchedbylena Před 2 měsíci

    8:22 I feel like this sometimes and I was born here LOL

  • @gordopeso2159
    @gordopeso2159 Před 2 měsíci

  • @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
    @juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Girl you are beautiful

  • @ZOJSimpson
    @ZOJSimpson Před 2 měsíci

    I’m also a loner

  • @nesrinethr1639
    @nesrinethr1639 Před 2 měsíci

    i feel so lonely after my breakup..feels like im stuck and alone

    • @anaisdottavio
      @anaisdottavio  Před 2 měsíci

      Hey there - sending you love through this process. Breakups are not easy for anyone, and I think you should take all the time you need to grieve. Overtime it’ll hurt less and you’ll realize that there’s plenty of life left to live (and lots more people to love!) Hope you can lean on friends/family/hobbies during this time ❣️