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  • @devotion_daily
    @devotion_daily Před 27 dny +37768

    In summary, Gooby, a former neurosurgeon with 20 years of training and experience, left his career due to dissatisfaction and ethical concerns about the effectiveness of his work.
    He discovered that lifestyle factors like diet, exercise, and stress management were more crucial for patients' recovery than surgeries, which often did not address underlying issues.
    Gooby struggled with the realization that the medical system was not set up to promote true healing, which led to ethical conflicts and a sense of being stuck in a job he no longer believed in.
    With his wife's support, he decided to quit his job, despite having no clear plan for the future, to avoid continuing a life that was making him unhappy.
    He started a CZcams channel to document his hikes and time spent with his dog, finding solace in nature and aiming to cherish the moments with his pet while exploring new possibilities for his life.

    • @awabaskri1875
      @awabaskri1875 Před 27 dny +453

      Thanks

    • @-_lilith_-
      @-_lilith_- Před 26 dny +468

      Thank you, I was looking for something like this

    • @watchesvideosonline
      @watchesvideosonline Před 26 dny +511

      Thanks. Your comment is extremely helpful. You saved me a lot of time.

    • @GaryMarkowski
      @GaryMarkowski Před 26 dny +176

      I was skeptical, because he said he was educated at MIT, which does not have a medical school. 🤔 After reflecting on his story and watching a few more of his vides, I think he is on the up and up, and now am a believer. 🐶

    • @NoName-zm1ks
      @NoName-zm1ks Před 26 dny +68

      Wait a minute, MIT has a medical school?

  • @maryfarwell-uragallo2373
    @maryfarwell-uragallo2373 Před 29 dny +80759

    At 70 yrs old, I can confidently affirm this is not a midlife crisis. This is your awakening. There is so much more ahead of you. Embrace it.

    • @dalor4906
      @dalor4906 Před 29 dny +714

      Amen

    • @fuelthebeastNutrition1111
      @fuelthebeastNutrition1111 Před 29 dny +380

      Love this❤❤❤

    • @piterbzymas6462
      @piterbzymas6462 Před 29 dny +419

      Tell us more. What can we learn and where to find that knowledge.

    • @virtuaguyverify
      @virtuaguyverify Před 29 dny

      ​@@piterbzymas6462 comes with age, or something life changing, like near death experiences

    • @Justfor2day10
      @Justfor2day10 Před 29 dny

      @@piterbzymas6462Buddha, Evkart Tolle, Jeff Foster to name a few. You’re already awake but it’s covered up with years of conditioning. Good luck and I wish you well. 🙏🏼

  • @powerbeard5653
    @powerbeard5653 Před 4 dny +701

    10m+ views?
    Bro helped more people heal by making this video than he ever could have helped doing surgery

  • @kathielittlefield1795
    @kathielittlefield1795 Před 2 dny +84

    I faced stage 4 throat cancer twice and I hit nature hard, got a puppy 8 years ago and she has not left my side.. I can’t speak, she’s raised on hand signals.. best ever relationship.

    • @BasicBeachCommunity1
      @BasicBeachCommunity1 Před 15 hodinami +1

      Oh my goodness I hope you have a blessed day😊

    • @YAYYayey
      @YAYYayey Před 13 hodinami +2

      I know its easy for me to say but try to keep going i am cheering for you.

  • @SarcasticLampr4y
    @SarcasticLampr4y Před 27 dny +27484

    A man has two lives. The first one starts when he is born, the second life starts - when he realises he has only 1.

    • @brianmaher5886
      @brianmaher5886 Před 27 dny +119

      Cool

    • @juanrufinodacumos7749
      @juanrufinodacumos7749 Před 27 dny +136

      Love this comment❤

    • @daphnegulling1673
      @daphnegulling1673 Před 27 dny +480

      at age 70 still working i realize what I need is not money or work but human connection and love

    • @dyvette29
      @dyvette29 Před 27 dny +27

      Amen!

    • @SurviveGR8
      @SurviveGR8 Před 27 dny +221

      “Every man has two lives, and the second starts when he realizes he has just one” - Confucius

  • @SasukeUchiha-qr8hp
    @SasukeUchiha-qr8hp Před 28 dny +59155

    sitting in nature, mountains in the background, minimal editing, just a man talking about life for 40 mins. This is what CZcams is for

  • @tuw2528
    @tuw2528 Před 3 dny +56

    Just left my commercial banking job after realizing I have been missing out on my children’s lives. Just took a business analyst role working no more than 40’s per week, no more evening work, no more weekends.

  • @d.dimitrov8972
    @d.dimitrov8972 Před 5 dny +135

    The world needs more people that talk about morals and ethics. May your kind soul be blessed

  • @chrishkumar1250
    @chrishkumar1250 Před 27 dny +8935

    those who got this video out of no where on their CZcams, we are blessed.

    • @jerimkang2999
      @jerimkang2999 Před 27 dny +140

      Yup, out of nowhere but glad I came across it.

    • @DiamondCrushIvory
      @DiamondCrushIvory Před 27 dny +103

      Definitely blessed, this video is from another realm and dimension and I’m glad it found us😂😂😂

    • @hajarjaouhar6608
      @hajarjaouhar6608 Před 27 dny +8

      Its too long tho

    • @tshepisopower
      @tshepisopower Před 27 dny +31

      Absolutely blessed!

    • @Jeff-ny1mz
      @Jeff-ny1mz Před 27 dny +43

      Is this the sign? Cause I'm thinking of the same. But in a different way 😂

  • @orcanimal
    @orcanimal Před 29 dny +42696

    You did something 99.9999% of people would never be able to do (become a neurosurgeon) and now you're doing something 99.9999999999% of people would never be able to do - living a fulfilling life.

    • @TDubya811
      @TDubya811 Před 29 dny +569

      WRONG you are an order of magnitude out. Roughly one in 100,000 becomes a neurosurgeon in thr US which means 99.999% either cannot do, or don't do for whatever reason.

    • @Concorde1059
      @Concorde1059 Před 29 dny +2872

      @@TDubya811 for something that was clearly just a number used for effect, it's pretty dang impressive they were only off by one order

    • @GrimReaping
      @GrimReaping Před 29 dny +293

      ​@@Concorde1059
      "Source?"
      "It was revealed to me from the aether while writing an encouraging youtube comment."

    • @drained1177
      @drained1177 Před 29 dny +269

      ​@@TDubya811Its interesting how you ignored the other exaggeration which is many magnitudes off.

    • @abcdeshole
      @abcdeshole Před 29 dny +127

      One in a trillion people can live a fulfilling life? A trillion human beings haven’t even been born.

  • @lizzyswanson
    @lizzyswanson Před 5 dny +18

    Hi Dr G! I am an RN who worked in hospitals for 15 years, mostly Labor & Delivery. I also quit my job in 2017. Our medical system is broken. YOU did the right thing. I am extremely disappointed in the physicians of America as a whole. If more would do the right thing, they could make healthcare much better, but they have not. I am hopeful for a better future of healthcare; I believe new and better treatments are coming soon. These new innovations are purposefully suppressed right now.

    • @emils-j.3586
      @emils-j.3586 Před 18 hodinami

      There are many approaches available which are not offered, because there’s more money and glory in complex procedures and fancy gimmicks.

  • @skeptickhan4239
    @skeptickhan4239 Před 4 dny +54

    "If you want to fly, you have to give up the things that weigh you down."

    • @voicije
      @voicije Před 11 hodinami

      wow... well said... make me thinking...

  • @bonbons0220
    @bonbons0220 Před 23 dny +5954

    I have a PhD from MIT, 1998 geophysics. I was working at Hopkins in a big data group. I started feeling like this about science, like it isn't healing the world, it's just chasing government grants. I got chronic fatigue syndrome. Doctors said I was "just depressed." So I quit my job, stopped sitting at a desk, sold my house, figured out how to heal myself, stopped stressing, started believing in something greater than myself, got better, moved west. Now I'm a lifeguard and a swim instructor. Just got backyard chickens. Life is more meaningful. Feeling better all the time. I understand.

    • @MD.orion1
      @MD.orion1 Před 23 dny +130

      Wow, how beautiful a testimony to there is life after a big change. Inspirational!

    • @incognito595
      @incognito595 Před 23 dny

      @@bonbons0220 Yah! As the Brits say, "Good on you!" Much happiness. I believe CFS is a malfunction of The HPA Axis, due to Stress! I had(have) CFS, Too. They should have figured that out many decades ago..I don't trust "research," either. THEY BLAME EVERYTHING ON "DEPRESSION." ALWAYS BLAME CFS ON IT! CFS IS VERY REAL AND VERY SERIOUS. IT IS NOT DEPRESSION.

    • @The2jewls
      @The2jewls Před 23 dny +39

      That is beautiful

    • @marialindaestropia106
      @marialindaestropia106 Před 23 dny +46

      Thanks for being so honest & humble, May you continue to have joy & peace with whatever you’re doing now, blessings always.🙏🙏🙏❤️

    • @sandgroper-ig9nk
      @sandgroper-ig9nk Před 23 dny +40

      Oh wow that's just magic. It's difficult to step off and go into freefall and hope the landing is good I admire the courage of people that can do it 👍

  • @0xggbrnr
    @0xggbrnr Před měsícem +32192

    This is a man who saw through all the bullshit and decided to live. Good for him. The system destroys brilliance.

    • @KeillaSellay
      @KeillaSellay Před měsícem +1170

      Not just brilliance.
      Most of the times it destroys simple people but who have a conscience.

    • @Dionysos_____Alters
      @Dionysos_____Alters Před měsícem +304

      We need a better system

    • @sleepyjoe5251
      @sleepyjoe5251 Před měsícem +114

      Unfathomably based comment.

    • @KeillaSellay
      @KeillaSellay Před měsícem +238

      @@Dionysos_____Alters
      All systems are corruptible.
      We need humans with faith in God and humbleness and conscience.
      That's what's lacking

    • @eggymens
      @eggymens Před měsícem +344

      @@KeillaSellay idk faith in god has been manipulated all throughout history by the rich and powerful. i think what we need is people who think for themselves. faith in a higher power or not should be irrelevant and personal when it comes to social discourse. whether or not you believe in god clearly has no correlation to your ability to be rational as there are irrational atheists who make bizarre claims about all religion and rational theists, who acknowledge the harm religion has done on a mass-scale throughout history, but still see the value in the religion itself, perhaps from the perspective of how religion has played a necessary role in educating people in times before public education even existed. rather than the system or empire of religion responsible throughout history for causing harm in the name of God.

  • @user-lz2wx2xu1w
    @user-lz2wx2xu1w Před 3 dny +15

    I’ve never been helped this much by a doctor in my entire life. Ironic that I just canceled my health insurance because it’s worthless. Thank you for making this video.

  • @RkunsawGarage
    @RkunsawGarage Před 3 dny +22

    As an IT clinic analyst, I'm so burned out and ready for a life change. I totally understand where you're coming from and if I wasn't married I would sell everything and just live off the land. May God be with you and your journey. Thanks for the video.

    • @billpo
      @billpo Před dnem +3

      I understand bud…also worked as an IT specialist…I’m pretty sure I was burnt out also…retired at 55…decided to leave before the job killed me…because it was killing me slowly…

  • @NickatLateNite
    @NickatLateNite Před 27 dny +15975

    My grandfather taught me, at 15, " learn two jobs, one with your mind, one with your hands... At 35, I walked away from corporate & became a carpenter. Retired & very happy.

    • @drwifi2320
      @drwifi2320 Před 27 dny +370

      very deep teaching

    • @Intentionaltia
      @Intentionaltia Před 27 dny +369

      I have a similar experience! I left the medical field and became a nuclear welder! Happiest I’ve been also!

    • @jonn40853
      @jonn40853 Před 27 dny +93

      So you quit one job and got another one? Lol

    • @puppytrish
      @puppytrish Před 27 dny +268

      and that's how i got a job using my hands under a freeway for $20 a pop

    • @Zoomezz
      @Zoomezz Před 27 dny +91

      ​@puppytrish this is crazy 💀

  • @jonskaleidoscopeescape
    @jonskaleidoscopeescape Před 27 dny +5100

    Medical professional here... walked away after 40 years of high stress 24/7... sold everything and lived off the grid. Immediate happiness and content... I'm still here.

    • @disaj7460
      @disaj7460 Před 27 dny +74

      You must've been dancing freely...arms up, head up, smiling ear-to-ear. Congrats!

    • @doubleslit9513
      @doubleslit9513 Před 27 dny +394

      Isn’t “walking away after 40 years “ called “retirement”? 😂

    • @creamofthecrop2789
      @creamofthecrop2789 Před 27 dny +26

      @@doubleslit9513😂

    • @HRHDMKYT
      @HRHDMKYT Před 27 dny +83

      40 years is a full career you can retire from. Good that you found what you like in your retirement.

    • @joannadiele
      @joannadiele Před 27 dny +69

      A medical professional doesn’t retire after 40 years. This took guts.

  • @aztecruler11
    @aztecruler11 Před 4 dny +84

    The shift is happening & the Giants are waking up!!! A man with morals & principles is real Gold!!
    Thank you, Universe

    • @windowshoppa09
      @windowshoppa09 Před 21 hodinou +2

      😊thank Jesus Christ. He is preparing many of us for difficukt things ahead. He is waking people up, many of us are praying for the awakening

    • @deborahjoy5727
      @deborahjoy5727 Před 11 hodinami +1

      Thank you Jesus!
      “And it shall come to pass in the last days, says God, that I will pour out of My Spirit on all flesh; your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, your young men shall see visions, your old men shall dream dreams.”
      - Acts 2:17
      “The Holy Spirit is God Himself, sharing with us His own life, pouring out His love in our hearts, and giving us the power to overcome.”
      - John Wesley

  • @GeoAlaska
    @GeoAlaska Před 3 dny +70

    You have more courage than 99.9% of any person in the world. Every single person wants to do exactly what you have done (including me) but nobody has the guts to do it! Americans and Canadians have been sold on the lie that the only way to succeed is to work that 9-5 everyday until you're in your 60s. Sometimes the only way to succeed in your heart is to break the rules and live how you want to live. Money CANNOT buy happiness. I would rather live my entire life being dead broke and happy than to live rich and sad. Congratulations on your mental success!

    • @traderhines76
      @traderhines76 Před 19 hodinami +2

      No one has the guts to do this because not many people are fortunate enough to be a MIT graduated neurosurgeon. This guy has been a neurosurgeon for ten years making close to a million a year? He can absolutely afford to make moves like this. The majority cannot.

    • @fortissimoX
      @fortissimoX Před 18 hodinami +2

      @@traderhines76 True, but it's also true that there are a lot of people who can afford to quit, and would like to, but are afraid.

    • @jenbhikes
      @jenbhikes Před 18 hodinami

      ​@@traderhines76 I don't have any of that and I did it! It's a lot harder without cash but anyone *can* do it. It's so worth it. People need to stop ignoring their gut when it's telling them 'this life is killing me.' Don't let it! Be brave!

    • @traderhines76
      @traderhines76 Před 13 hodinami +1

      @@jenbhikes No. not anyone can do it. Anecdotal evidence is the exception and not the rule. Just because you and the millionaire MIT doctor without children can do it doesn’t mean the majority of society can do it.

    • @traderhines76
      @traderhines76 Před 13 hodinami +1

      @@fortissimoX Who can afford to quit but are afraid to? Do you know the average salary in the United States? The majority of people are living check to check. I’m clueless as to how you arrive at the notion that the majority of people can afford to quit. That’s truly perplexing.

  • @summrflowers7253
    @summrflowers7253 Před 26 dny +12520

    Just because you're unemployed doesn't mean you're not still an MIT educated Neurosurgeon.

    • @IgorMironov-rq4ye
      @IgorMironov-rq4ye Před 26 dny +39

      Your right, summrflowers. 😂🎉

    • @IgorMironov-rq4ye
      @IgorMironov-rq4ye Před 26 dny +211

      The moral of the story is, quitting is ok sometimes, and to not beat yourself up due to some of lifes hardships and failures. I need to remind myself of that.

    • @cynthiadudal9301
      @cynthiadudal9301 Před 26 dny +67

      Enjoy your special journey. I am glad i got out of my job too not the way i planned. I was gtg tired. Life is great 🎉. Money and material things equal zero . Happiness peace and my time is all for me.

    • @TheElokim
      @TheElokim Před 26 dny +12

      ​@@ArtFlowersBeeze8815That's exactly what I did!!!

    • @TheElokim
      @TheElokim Před 26 dny

      ​@@Goodfellow1234567That
      Is a fabulous, great idea.That is, the journey that I took is to become educated in alternative medicine.And fortunately, I've had the opportunity to help some others and help myself in that area.Thank you for posting that.

  • @bayubudiman5375
    @bayubudiman5375 Před 25 dny +2598

    "if it costs you peace of mind, its too expensive to keep"

    • @Allguitarinfo
      @Allguitarinfo Před 25 dny +11

      So true

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 Před 23 dny +19

      God will give you the right direction to go because only He can see ahead of you! I urge you to follow Christ; He is the only way, truth, and life! Jesus IS the answer you've been looking for; ask Him to show you the way and reveal Himself to you! A happy life is possible, you just have to allow Jesus into your heart and let Him take control. It's not the easiest thing to do, but it does work! This works for me and it works for so many others. Truly seek and ask God and He will show you the truth. God bless and I will pray for all who see this!

    • @kuhfusskatsadventures
      @kuhfusskatsadventures Před 23 dny

      @@anayaj7163Nonsense

    • @victorortiz8789
      @victorortiz8789 Před 23 dny

      Dr. Dre said that, I think

    • @4homemail
      @4homemail Před 23 dny

      Only when you have reached a certain level. For the rest of us it is irrelevant. It will cost you more than a piece of mind when you have a family and unable to support them.

  • @kelliko70
    @kelliko70 Před 4 dny +99

    I am a chronic pain sufferer from degenerative disc disease, spinal stenosis, ankylosing spondylitis, bone spurs, fractures from neck to tailbone. Pain is my life and I will die in some degree of pain. Surgeons have straight up refused to do surgery because I was considered too severe for any surgical intervention. I have been in nursing homes twice re-learning how to use my arms and walk. Its a hard pill to swallow to know you have no hope to get better. It just won't happen. It's a dark night of the soul. But, I have kept going through sheer stubbornness and a kind of quiet rage against the dying of the light. I try to write. I do my best to understand people. I am small but I am free. Thank you for sharing your story. Just know that I, for one, do appreciate your story and I am happy for you as well. If you are looking for a new career, how about writing. Might be worth it. Or teach. Share the experience. Thank you. Much love!

    • @azwildcat4345
      @azwildcat4345 Před 3 dny +5

      Wow! Your life story is a testimony in itself and more encouraging than the neurosurgeon who has his health and his healthy spine. He needed to mention his words of gratitude and positive gain out of what he was blessed to do to come full circle. You spoke about both sides and how overcoming day and night is an ongoing process yet you choose to write and excel with what you can work with and always enduring. God bless you!! Keep being a light in a world of darkness.

    • @ZoeGamer101
      @ZoeGamer101 Před 2 dny +3

      Start eating organs especialy liver. Only grass fedd. Alao eat a lot of grass fedd meat and eat raw butter a nd drink raw milk of raw kefir.

    • @mrhoagie
      @mrhoagie Před 2 dny +2

      I agree with @ZoeGamer101 - I'm a 32 year Chiropractor with 29 straight years of debilitating degenerative disc recurring countless times. Long story short I looked into the published research of the microbiome (gut bacteria) and degenerative disc. Microbiome connects with many physical and mental conditions. Along with eating beef, fermented dairy and many eggs daily. I began nightly walking. A short walk transpired into longer distances up to 2 miles. Began using resistant (elastic) bands for push and pull exercises. Then increased walking to AM as well as PM for 4 miles daily. Each month I improved. I have been pain free for over 16 months and can basically do anything and still working without disc pain. There is more to add, but this is the nutshell story. Countless people with numerous neurological, physical, mental conditions improve with exercise and a carnivore (no carbohydrate diet) diet. Write back if you desire.

    • @ZoeGamer101
      @ZoeGamer101 Před 2 dny +1

      @@mrhoagie especialy the egg yolk :) i make a shake every morning, 3 raw eggs , raw butter and raw honey with a banana. Best start of the day

    • @ZoeGamer101
      @ZoeGamer101 Před 2 dny

      @@mrhoagie good for you , you foundation a solution 😀

  • @user-vg8rv2mb4y
    @user-vg8rv2mb4y Před 2 dny +16

    Hi I am a family doctor in Australia. It does not carry the same prestige as a specialty, or pay the same salary, however, I feel I can help my patients with preventative health advice similar to what you mentioned, no smoking, exercise, get outside to help relieve stress, diet etc. I have seen patients who have had surgery for various issues, some successful, some made the patient worse. I recommend surgery as a last resort.
    I feel a little sad that someone with your talent and knowledge got to a stage where you felt you had to leave the profession for your own sanity. However I do admire you for making the brave choice to walk away, and hopefully you can find something to make you feel happy and satisfied in the future.

  • @Jonathan-ru9zl
    @Jonathan-ru9zl Před 20 dny +1078

    The best of CZcams. No clickbait, no edited content and no special effects and stupied ai.
    Just a guy telling his authentic story.

  • @TheRealMovieNerds
    @TheRealMovieNerds Před 27 dny +9338

    I've never before sat through a 45-minute video, completely mesmerized, with just a man talking to the camera. No music. No text. No graphics. This was all about your story and trust me, I wanted to hear every single word.

    • @debisday1110
      @debisday1110 Před 27 dny +128

      Lol went in to settings on the video, top right of screen click on the wheel, sped up the video 1.75x. Great story and I was able to get all of the important info in about half the time. ❤

    • @juinorgaming3417
      @juinorgaming3417 Před 27 dny

      @@debisday1110tf

    • @AXharoth
      @AXharoth Před 27 dny +15

      word

    • @user-er3ri6sc3j
      @user-er3ri6sc3j Před 27 dny +81

      I'm using free wifi at the public library at Lake Morton and it's closing soon. Sunday July 14th 2024.

    • @2003Kamber
      @2003Kamber Před 27 dny +16

      Same here too.

  • @FlaCKoElRey
    @FlaCKoElRey Před 6 dny +72

    This guy is a REAL ONE ! He was able to escape the matrix ! This goes to show that, people do have hearts, but some ignore it whilst others like this man, keep it real, listen to it and make sure they do what’s right. Love ya, brotha !

  • @brynmcghee4814
    @brynmcghee4814 Před 4 dny +40

    Hospitalist here, 8+ years into being an attending and beyond miserable. I have been struggling with the urge to walk away from Medicine for some time, and then CZcams brought me to your video. Thank you for sharing your story. Though I am a complete stranger, I'm proud of you and hope that I can be brave enough to make the same decision.

  • @GlenKowalchuk
    @GlenKowalchuk Před 27 dny +7327

    After 20 years as a government I.T. network engineer working long stressful hours I remembered what my first boss said 20 years earlier. Suddenly one day he tossed me his keys and said "One day you will wake up, look in the mirror and not like what you see! Don't wait as long as I did." He walked out and never looked back. I packed up, walk out, moved on and became a Flight instructor then 15 years flying for WildFire Air Attack in Canada. Instead of sitting infront of Microsoft Windows I flew in Cessna Windows. The best decision I ever made. Healthy & Happy at 66 👍😎

    • @itsroskull6327
      @itsroskull6327 Před 27 dny +168

      I’m a young 23 year old guy who just got an offer letter to a well known very large corporation as a network engineer. Do you have any recommendations as to how to balance work and life early on to build good habits to prevent losing myself along the way? Luckily in this day and age, the civilian sector has a lot more opportunity for a hybrid work from home schedule, so having more time to focus on self and home life is probably better now than it has been the past 20 years, but I’d like to absorb any knowledge you might have to help better set me up for success in the long run.

    • @rickybobby2789
      @rickybobby2789 Před 27 dny +46

      Congrats to you and your sanity

    • @kentarouokumura8748
      @kentarouokumura8748 Před 27 dny

      ​@@itsroskull6327here a data analist at a big corporate company. Try to minimize your screentime. Small effort big output

    • @lisahall1989
      @lisahall1989 Před 27 dny +18

      So happyfor you. ❤

    • @RougeMaster
      @RougeMaster Před 27 dny +106

      ​@@itsroskull6327 hey man I'm in it myself I started at 19 as an intern I'm 38 now. I look , yes the job helped me obtain my home and all that other stuff but I honestly am burned out. As humans we can only do the grind for so long before it takes mental stress.maybe someday down the road you'll change your mind and want to become something else but you won't know until "you know' by then hopefully your set off with the basic necessities. Until then learn as much as you can , enjoy the work you do. Good luck

  • @johnf6146
    @johnf6146 Před 29 dny +8021

    This doesn't sound like a mid life crisis. Sounds like a mid life awakening. Good for you putting yourself first.

    • @anamariasoriano5880
      @anamariasoriano5880 Před 29 dny +32

      Exactly

    • @theabacus30
      @theabacus30 Před 29 dny +62

      Yes, it’s happening to many now

    • @anavarzau4984
      @anavarzau4984 Před 29 dny +57

      @@theabacus30I’m from Australia almost 38 years old. Over the past 3 weeks feeling so different. Think I’m going through a awakening also

    • @DeniSoars
      @DeniSoars Před 29 dny +12

      Best comment

    • @Basilias_Leonidas
      @Basilias_Leonidas Před 29 dny +2

      Putting got in the way😂

  • @fallinggalaxies4102
    @fallinggalaxies4102 Před 3 dny +22

    This is a video the world needs right now.

  • @Cad1900
    @Cad1900 Před 2 dny +20

    I just told my brother that our healthcare system is broken. It cannot function as a business and properly help people. I usually don’t watch long videos but I couldn’t stop watching this one. You’re a good man with the proper heart to help people. Why not start your own non surgical practice where you can still help people. Just listening to you share your experiences was good for me. To know there is someone left that truly cares and wants to help others. I believe most doctors don’t really care about much past their pay. You’re not that guy. God bless you Goobie.

  • @jenniferrau8293
    @jenniferrau8293 Před 26 dny +2008

    5,000,000 people have watched this. We are all some version of burned out seeking solace. You inspire us.

    • @drumraider
      @drumraider Před 26 dny +51

      Hear, hear.
      Been unemployed several months after losing a dream job and been reeling, lost ever since. Was planning and getting my gear together to take a lengthy camping trip soon with my dog but felt guilty for not using that time getting another job. Think this guy just helped me choose.

    • @msgrubbgrubb8347
      @msgrubbgrubb8347 Před 26 dny +7

      That’s not what this video is about. Please listen, he is warning us.

    • @chickenfishhybrid44
      @chickenfishhybrid44 Před 26 dny +4

      ​@@drumraiderjust head out

    • @user-xg9ej2jb6l
      @user-xg9ej2jb6l Před 25 dny +1

      I think you are right. He is having a burnout.

    • @glendapeglau4694
      @glendapeglau4694 Před 25 dny

      Up to nearly 7 million the next day 🎉🎉

  • @ravikrishnapillai
    @ravikrishnapillai Před 29 dny +3759

    I’m a Neurosurgeon.
    The industry is corrupt. I never caved in. People may say I don’t operate enough but I don’t care. I continue to strive to serve my patients. I educate them about preventive medicine and non surgical treatments.
    Patients with chronic pain should check out Dr.Sarno’s work. Check out the movie “This may hurt”.
    Much pain is in the brain.
    The emotional brain is real. I encourage
    Breath work, Emotional release, Meditation,Diet,Sleep etc.
    My patients get better.
    God bless.

  • @jockojohn3294
    @jockojohn3294 Před 4 dny +26

    You are 1000% correct. I kept going to multiple docs trying to find out why no one was trying to find and fix the root cause of my problems. My last appointment 15 years ago with a dermatologist, I got my answer.....she said, we don't do research to find root causes, we don't seek to find root causes, we manage the problem (s) with pharma and surgery when appropriate. If you want to find root causes, find a study somewhere in the world and get involved with it.
    Then she said we can no longer help you - she yelled at her 2 assistants and said are the next 3 patients installed in the back waiting rooms? And she just left. I ended up fixing myself with low back/sciatica issues and skin issues with diet changes, more cardio, weight lifting/resistance exercises & stretches and lifestyle changes. My whole body/mind has changed. 100% what you said in video. CZcams allowed me to find the best holistic/functional docs and weight training coaches. For me, YT is the best technology the world has to offer if you do the work reqd. to find the true gems who can help you. :)

    • @caitlunsford2440
      @caitlunsford2440 Před dnem

      yes yes yes!!!! just starting my own similar journey now. may i ask what other lifestyle changes you made??

  • @IKNFLY666
    @IKNFLY666 Před dnem +8

    I went to see two spine surgeons for my lower back problem, the younger surgeon who just graduated straight up ask me when do I want the surgery? I kind of felt that he just viewed me as cash cow. The older surgeon told me that my condition is very common and the best option is modify my life style, eat healthy diet, exercise everyday and no bending back lifting, he told me surgery is the very last option that doesn’t come risk free. Few months later I was so much better, and 6 years later although I have occasional sore back but manageable, I still live a very normal active life. I’m so thankful for the older surgeon’s advice, I think you can continue to be a surgeon, but teach patients to opt for more conservative treatment than surgery.

    • @boonsiengbenjauthrit2393
      @boonsiengbenjauthrit2393 Před dnem

      I don't think he should feel bad about what he has done already. He should be happy that he decided to quit to allow time for him to get a new prospect of life and work. After awhile he can go back to continue his work in a new way. He can open his own clinic to offer his neuro patient s new options in fixing their neurological problems. This way they can save a lot of money while he still make good money and feel good.

  • @ADS-cg1sp
    @ADS-cg1sp Před 26 dny +1283

    This is the new American dream we need. More exercise outside, healthier foods, less stress, being in good company. We've lost the simplicity of existence. Kudos to him for reminding us!

    • @TayRich93
      @TayRich93 Před 26 dny +4

      Ikr

    • @GOSS_3
      @GOSS_3 Před 26 dny +1

      It’s not how progress is made tho, sad but true

    • @user-on3ij9wj7w
      @user-on3ij9wj7w Před 26 dny +18

      Couldn't said it better. "We've lost the simplicity of existence". I was just talking to my wife yesterday about simplifying our lives.

    • @Slavesforsale1
      @Slavesforsale1 Před 26 dny +20

      ​@@GOSS_3 Nothing we're "progressing" towards is worth living in the way the modern world expects of people.

    • @weiyuan5007
      @weiyuan5007 Před 26 dny +7

      @@GOSS_3how do you define progress? And how does progress relate to the conventional dream of “pursuit of happiness”?

  • @BrandonChen-sdef123
    @BrandonChen-sdef123 Před 26 dny +4234

    Respect to the first Asian guy to walk away from the typical Asian dream when he realized it was a nightmare

    • @Sfgang4l
      @Sfgang4l Před 26 dny +106

      I was gonna say this is a unnecessary comment but I figured u resonate and I hope this video helped u

    • @user-qs8cn6gw2w
      @user-qs8cn6gw2w Před 26 dny +27

      @@Sfgang4l isn't basically every comment that isn't advice or an awnser to a question unnecessary then? why comment at all

    • @fourpuma138
      @fourpuma138 Před 26 dny

      @@user-qs8cn6gw2wtrue

    • @xdLaserwolf
      @xdLaserwolf Před 26 dny +22

      Asian dream 😂

    • @ChickenKormagarlicnan
      @ChickenKormagarlicnan Před 26 dny +118

      Not the first Asian bro don’t generalize us like that in 2024

  • @categurl3967
    @categurl3967 Před 5 dny +33

    You are a very wise man. I’m a retired RN and the medical field has changed dramatically. I see a lot of unhappy medical professionals.

  • @hennavanopstal1979
    @hennavanopstal1979 Před 3 dny +5

    Beautiful soul, know what life is about. We need simplicity.
    Thanks, God bless you ♥️

  • @thaiswise5237
    @thaiswise5237 Před měsícem +4919

    Thank you for sharing this. Our medical system is a ‘sick care’ model, not a ‘well care’ model. Once you saw that, it was very hard to unsee. You have strong integrity. You’re a beautiful person.

    • @starduck8014
      @starduck8014 Před měsícem +55

      yep exactly!!

    • @DaveE99
      @DaveE99 Před měsícem +97

      I think to have a wellness care model we would need socialism or something like that because more due to the fact it’s about different incentives than just maximize shareholder profits where even ceos are afraid of hostile takeovers for not maximizing enough so even they are forced into this otherwise the billionaires buy a large shares and vote them out and cause this chaos for all the people in the US

    • @maiaheiss2991
      @maiaheiss2991 Před měsícem +92

      @@DaveE99no. We need people who are willing to walk the road of health.

    • @endlessbubblebath
      @endlessbubblebath Před měsícem

      @@maiaheiss2991will having a double major in public health and public policy get me there I want to help this concern!

    • @jac1161
      @jac1161 Před měsícem

      old, overused term, but y es. As a nurse and patient.....it's 100% true. I'd hardly call it 'care' though even when with "sick"before it. It's symptom and NUMBERS (labs) appeasing.....NOT curative, not root cause analysis by ANY means. Mafia that waits for you to have urgencies and surgerie$.

  • @PrivateOnly007
    @PrivateOnly007 Před 20 dny +1263

    8.8 million views in 12 days? It's great to see CZcams spreading love to this man.

    • @bicyclist2
      @bicyclist2 Před 19 dny +15

      It's 8.9 million now.

    • @Nature_Consciousness
      @Nature_Consciousness Před 19 dny +12

      Society is really waking up!

    • @atandretavares
      @atandretavares Před 19 dny +8

      i am sharing him on afew platforms, it is a important message. i believe several are sharng that raised the count exponencaly, share from share from share....

    • @CanadianStargazer
      @CanadianStargazer Před 19 dny +7

      Because enlightenment is not limited to holy people, philosophers or great thinkers etc. Everbody can experience it. It just takes time. It can happens at any age and once you know who you are and what really life is all about, it will set you free.

    • @PrivateOnly007
      @PrivateOnly007 Před 19 dny +2

      ​@@atandretavares Yes, It is an essential message, and Props to you.

  • @bronze971
    @bronze971 Před 5 dny +20

    It is refreshing to see a doctor that is actually concerned about the patient and not see them at dollar signs. I hope you will consider teaching and add Naturopathic medicine to your teaching. You are the kind doctor we all need. Thank God you found the right wife, she seems to be wise.😊😊

  • @mmartin5457
    @mmartin5457 Před 21 hodinou +4

    YT algorithm knew I needed to “hear” you. I was diagnosed with degenerative disc disease in 1998. I can honestly testify that only within the past 4-5 years and doing/changing 86% of what you just discussed, has helped me live a more pain free and higher quality of life. I have 4 dogs of my own who help to keep me sweaty and active at age 60🙂😉. All the best 💛.
    btw…..those mosquitos are HUGE 🦟🦟🦟😳🦟🦟🦟

  • @eggplnt
    @eggplnt Před měsícem +18261

    I was a professor at a major university... Now I live in my car and travel full time while making very little money. Best choice ever!

    • @dr.mohamedaitnouh4501
      @dr.mohamedaitnouh4501 Před měsícem +712

      Can you make a video on this please tell us why you quit academia. Perelman left academia and 1 million usd because of the academic corruption!

    • @mommy6671
      @mommy6671 Před měsícem +435

      A slightly different perspective. A big thank you to you and to all brain surgeons. Without you some of us wouldn't be here . We wouldn't have even got a chance to see our first or second birthdays. Or would have been given an opportunity to have children of our own,
      ....I understand the dilemma you were faced with, but thank you along the way you did good, you tried, you inspired. Now it is your time to recharge and regroup, reimagine. I'm here, but would not have been, without talented, smart, brave people like you.
      Thank you 😊

    • @spx730
      @spx730 Před měsícem +39

      Damn 😮 nice

    • @williamwinstrop3918
      @williamwinstrop3918 Před měsícem

      So you went from a loser to a cooler loser?
      Don’t brag about being a college prof.
      Mcds employees are more impressive.

    • @FirdausIsmail1
      @FirdausIsmail1 Před měsícem

      academia is so broken nowadays, people who publish papers are falsifying data in order to get published

  • @NicholasRioux
    @NicholasRioux Před 29 dny +2113

    Finally a real person. A real true human being, no edits, no bs just a kind, simple guy being himself.

    • @orufam
      @orufam Před 29 dny +25

      A real person would kill those mosquitos.😐

    • @MrParlam
      @MrParlam Před 29 dny +7

      No, he's not. Were he a graduate of the IDK university, nobody would listen to him

    • @silvrfpp
      @silvrfpp Před 29 dny +19

      @@orufam he understands mosquiotos must live to balance the ecosystem

    • @rexharrisen5387
      @rexharrisen5387 Před 29 dny +1

      Thank you. Congratulatons. Maybe too read John Muir. No crises here. Walden Pond. Have a farm grow flowers trees..Down size. Cout mire what is beautiful. You are discovering your more true self. Be thankful. Be a naturalist or interpretative park ranger 😮 now is a true path!🎉 i was hung up in real estate. Like your neurosurgery. I let go too. I like to backpack in the Sierra's more. Snow capped peaks peaceful. i go into a Buddhist or Christian meditative awakening stance

    • @UserName23567
      @UserName23567 Před 29 dny +1

      what? 🤦😐​@@orufam

  • @amfanaa1
    @amfanaa1 Před 5 dny +17

    Thank you so much for this video! It resonated deeply with me and articulated what I've been feeling for quite some time.
    I've been working for the NHS in the UK for five years, and from the very beginning, I realised that the healthcare system is not there to truly help people get better but to live off their reoccurring health problems. Right now, I'm at a 'crisis' point in my life and often feel like a fraud at work. Like you, I've decided that moving away from my current lifestyle and embracing a slower pace in a remote area is the only way to save myself from burning out. Unfortunately, I can't afford to quit just yet. I'm gradually working toward a better future, and in the meantime, your words reassure me that my thoughts are valid and give me hope for the coming years. Thank you, and I wish you all the best in your own endeavours. ❤

  • @joannegordon5367
    @joannegordon5367 Před 2 dny +4

    Your job now is learning how to live a happy, authentic life. You are still an MIT graduated Neurosurgeon but now you also have a unique and valuable take on life which I am very greatful to you for sharing. In this way you are relieving a great deal of silent sufferering taking place right now in the lives of so many disillusioned people. Thankyou for sharing your new reality and helping so many others begin a journey into theirs 😊❤

  • @LC-bb6jd
    @LC-bb6jd Před měsícem +7455

    Those of us who have worked in the medical field understand. Greed does not leave room for anything human.

    • @graceandangels
      @graceandangels Před měsícem +203

      My skin clinic tells me “if you cut the tag off a new cloth, you don’t get returns.. it’s the same thing! If the treatment didn’t work.. too bad! Consider you cutting off the tag” i said I’m not a cloth! I’m a human
      Now that’s a new level of greed and inhumanity

    • @cyberninjasworld
      @cyberninjasworld Před měsícem +14

      Well said.

    • @user-ub1dz8js7s
      @user-ub1dz8js7s Před měsícem +138

      I did exactly the same with I.T. in investment banks. I just absolutely had enough. The commute, the people in the office, the politics, the blame culture, the lack of job security, looming ageism, the office, the lack of care.

    • @MrSeriouslynot
      @MrSeriouslynot Před měsícem +102

      The real problem is you have a conscience or common sense

    • @sleepyjoe5251
      @sleepyjoe5251 Před měsícem

      Remember these are the "people" who promoted the "vaxx".

  • @godgetti
    @godgetti Před 22 dny +620

    From the bottom of my heart: Thank you for performing the Life Saving Brain Surgery on me 8 years ago. Perhaps some surgeries are not necessary, but mine was. I had a damaged area of my brain that caused seizures, and now I have a repaired area of my brain (and screws in my skull) and have been seizure free ever since you removed the bad tissue. Thank you! I owe you my life!

  • @fballboy
    @fballboy Před 5 dny +18

    Hi Goobie. I am a classically trained psychotherapist and practiced for almost 20 years in both acute care hospitals and in private practice. What you have said in the video resonates with me more than words can express. I walked away from the medical field twice. First when I relocated from Florida to Maine and then again from the trauma service at a large level 1 trauma CTR here in New England. The medical field changed so much int he years of practice. I totally agree that the change from patient centered care to a more dollar model did happen. The enablement of medical systems to allow patients to direct care and the hospitals allowing to make more money. I have not practiced now for about four years and presently lost in the system. I cant find something that challenges me to want to work. Again I am very lost at the moment but I know that the medical field is not for me. All the training and money I spent. Again your story resonates within me. Thank you

    • @jenbhikes
      @jenbhikes Před 17 hodinami

      I can relate! I had a career in the nonprofit child and family services world and things changed over that time. I changed too! I looked back over my career and suddenly saw that the system had 'inexplicably' failed to solve any of the problems I'd been focusing on for twenty years! And there was lots of wisdom in some practitioners but they were hog tied by regulations to *not do* what works best. I have hope! I see a wave of like minded professionals who have left their fields, who are healing themselves and fueling up for new approaches to helping people. ❤

  • @stridewithkj
    @stridewithkj Před 4 dny +13

    I’m so happy I watched this video in my 20s. It made me think deeply about my life circumstance. Thank you for sharing your experience, I’m sure it’s changing the trajectory of people’s lives.

  • @emmaseay2162
    @emmaseay2162 Před 25 dny +972

    “People don’t have 40 minutes to listen to why I quit…”
    We do, we’re here, your story is important and we are all listening.

    • @Sanne-nw8hn
      @Sanne-nw8hn Před 25 dny +7

      We're learning and listening. A gr8 👍 friend of our family retired after being a Neurosurgeon, his wife a pediatrician. He'd visit after a rough day in surgery and come play his guitar. We exchanged many a food.

    • @heatherhicks1463
      @heatherhicks1463 Před 25 dny +2

      Yes, thank you ❤

    • @AlfredoTheDestroyer
      @AlfredoTheDestroyer Před 25 dny

      Blowing bubbles on it

    • @rhiannonblakeman7010
      @rhiannonblakeman7010 Před 25 dny +1

      ​@AlfredoTheDestroyer
      Huh??

    • @sakuraayurveda5559
      @sakuraayurveda5559 Před 25 dny +1

      YES!!!! ❤

  • @GS-kj5pc
    @GS-kj5pc Před 26 dny +1014

    This man just proved Hustle Culture is a lie. CZcams had become corrupted by ads and corporate interests. This is a real video and people are loving it. Thanks for telling the truth.

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 Před 25 dny +36

      I mean, kinda proved the opposite.
      Because he hustled, he was able to make money and now not work...

    • @ninifire4282
      @ninifire4282 Před 25 dny +6

      @@Freakazoid12345true

    • @DigitalHalos
      @DigitalHalos Před 25 dny +7

      It brings me so much joy and something else... connectedness I think; to realize that so many others are enjoying this video and that its spreading so virally. It makes me feel like everyone else is much more like me and seeing things for what they are, albeit with hope and not so much doom and gloom. We can do this ALL of us together and reject the division rhetoric & the programming---and instead usher in a new renaissance for humankind much closer to serving the people and not greed based... Healing not Treating. Flourishing not surviving. Love & LIght!

    • @GS-kj5pc
      @GS-kj5pc Před 25 dny

      @@Freakazoid12345 if thats your take away then you missed the entire point of the video. Ask yourself why hustle culture exists? It never existed in the past. In the very beginning man lived in tribes where each member had a job and the tribe would thrive. Then during the height of the egyption empire agriculture was created. It allowed people to harvest large amounts of food so that they could spend more time developing society and technology. Then look at the industrialization era in western history. We were able to use oil and other fuel to power large factories to create mass produced goods/food/resources. What happened during these times? Civilization thrived and grew and people were able to work one job for the most part. We even had something called pensions where a person could work 20+ years and get paid a retirement salary. Fast forward to today... you have to work 2 jobs in many cases to just afford rent and a car payment. Why? We are more productive then ever arent we? Why should we have to work MORE? It is because you have been lied to. There is more then enough money to go around. However, executives have become so greedy they are stealing money from the workers through the pracitce of wage theft. Yes... you can look it up. The working class has lost over 1 trillion in salary due to stock options for executives over the past 50 years. You are being told your lazy and you have to have to "hustle" to survive. This is in fact a lie designed to get you to produce "content" for these big companies. Not to mention provide cheap services for people with money. Why not just go drive them around and buy their groceries. Anyways you will relaize it some day. I wish you the best.

    • @cloroc
      @cloroc Před 25 dny +1

      Lol you totally missed the point

  • @etchediniron4249
    @etchediniron4249 Před 2 dny +7

    When wisdom surpasses education right here!
    Wisdom cannot be taught but only discovered.

  • @Kallax420
    @Kallax420 Před 5 dny +1

    Out of all the thousands of clips that I've ever watched on CZcams, this is the one clip that has had the biggest impact on me. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @Yeags
    @Yeags Před 23 dny +1155

    “It’s only after we’ve lost everything that we’re free to do anything.”
    Thank you so much for making this

    • @GoobieAndDoobie
      @GoobieAndDoobie Před 23 dny +27

      Thank you sharing that quote ❤️

    • @AS-ic4sr
      @AS-ic4sr Před 23 dny +1

      ✨❤✨

    • @anayaj7163
      @anayaj7163 Před 23 dny +6

      Jesus is the only way truth and life. True peace will be achieved when you commit and be serious about your walk with Him. Jesus IS the answer you've been looking for; ask Him to show you the way and reveal Himself to you! A happy life is possible, you just have to allow Jesus into your heart and let Him take control. It's not the easiest thing to do, but it does work! This works for me and it works for so many others. Truly seek and ask God and He will show you the truth. God bless and I will pray for all who see this!

    • @Alioops73
      @Alioops73 Před 23 dny +1

      @@GoobieAndDoobieYou are spirited HUMAN FIRST. ALL BLESSING to you for following your core principles.
      It is very difficult to obtain access to optimal and eastern medicine as the insurance machine we pay thousands and thousands will not cover natural remedies. Then, no one around believes any of what you are feeling inside. It’s lonely.

    • @gabrielgranados6832
      @gabrielgranados6832 Před 23 dny +6

      Thank you, Mr. Durden 🧼

  • @Tone2K
    @Tone2K Před 26 dny +986

    The level of focus in the midst of a bug and mosquito frenzy earns my most utmost respect. This is the level of focus I would want in a surgeon, ironically.

    • @lovelady753
      @lovelady753 Před 26 dny +24

      Yep 👍 to your comment as soon as I saw the flies & bug, & he wasn’t distracted I said this is a real surgeon 👨‍⚕️ with precision at sight & mind

    • @LargeMargeSentMe30
      @LargeMargeSentMe30 Před 26 dny +5

      Lmfaaooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 my goodness!

    • @Tone2K
      @Tone2K Před 26 dny +7

      @@lovelady753my video wouldn’t have been long enough even for a CZcams short if one of them landed on my face.

    • @Tone2K
      @Tone2K Před 26 dny +3

      @@LargeMargeSentMe30I had to minimize the browser and just listen to the video. It was distracting me watching from home.

    • @LargeMargeSentMe30
      @LargeMargeSentMe30 Před 26 dny +8

      @@Tone2K lmao bro you are so funny! You took the words out of my mouth. The way he’s calmly talking not bothered by the mosquito! Me on the other hand if I see one in the room I’m freaking out, opening all the lights in the room!

  • @RowanWillow1
    @RowanWillow1 Před dnem +1

    Blessings and thank YOU! Just what the DR ordered! Appreciate you sharing and inspiring and healing others!

  • @VI-rv9dj
    @VI-rv9dj Před 2 dny +1

    Your bravery has inspired me and so many others! Thank you for sharing your story. I know you will thrive even more now that you are following your heart. So glad for you! I don't feel so alone for following my heart.

  • @beanguyen3965
    @beanguyen3965 Před 27 dny +813

    Tears came to my eyes when you said "now that I've left, I haven't been this happy in my whole life" - I'm so happy for you.

    • @JimLifeWorthLiving-u2i
      @JimLifeWorthLiving-u2i Před 27 dny +3

      Same here

    • @clray123
      @clray123 Před 26 dny

      Next thing he knows he will be out of the mountains and begging on the street of some big city. Well, at least there's going to be fewer mosquitoes then.

    • @gaynzz6841
      @gaynzz6841 Před 15 dny +2

      @@clray123 Nah, a big paycheck from youtube is on the way.

  • @victoriafuller4148
    @victoriafuller4148 Před 26 dny +1772

    Whoa! My story. Was getting ready for back surgery, but before they operated, one doc told me lose weight , and walk! I did, got well, no surgery! 30 years later….no surgery, I thank that doc every day!

    • @bambam6231973
      @bambam6231973 Před 26 dny +26

      Yeah I agree its weight I hadd the same issue esp as u age

    • @johnnier.o.d4746
      @johnnier.o.d4746 Před 26 dny +56

      & drink a lot of water too .... i always tell anyone whom i've had a conversation with,to drink a lot of water as my much as possible ..... bcuz most of the food that you eat daily are either salty or sweet , if you drink tons of H2O then it'll help minimize the salt & sugar that you put in your body that day ...... that's why,if i order a venti caramel frap or mocha frap @ starbucks,i always ask H2O same size ..... good day !!!!!!

    • @briansnedden3989
      @briansnedden3989 Před 26 dny +11

      That’s beautiful.

    • @dawnreneegmail
      @dawnreneegmail Před 26 dny

      @@johnnier.o.d4746 also 2 oz of water per pill! Folks taking supplements or meds just take with a swallow is my experience in the medical public. Very sorry that our clinical lab industry doesn't talk up the value of good hydration (and sleep!) So many other liquids on the market taste better or 'my water isn't tasty'. Whelp plain however you like it, chilled, iced, warm or my fave room temp with a straw is how I tackle the 3 liters a day just for starts this 70 is to have. Can you hurt yourself on too much good water? Know where the nearest rest-stop is and generally you'd have to drown yourself to die vie water. Former sleep tech as well and who's more neurotic? Us BRPSGTehcnologists up all night gathering your data or you with possible sleep difficulties???! My opinion, it's a tie. peace out

    • @ko.ala.b
      @ko.ala.b Před 26 dny +4

  • @friedrice7727
    @friedrice7727 Před dnem +3

    I have watched thousands of videos. And this is by far the best 45 minute video I have ever watched. This video needs to be in every elementary school, every high school, every college. What our parents did...isn't working! I'm 54, I'm sick as hell, I'm burned out, after 28 years I got laid off, my husband was terrible but I wanted to "keep the family together" except we're not together bc everyone is burned out and depressed. There are millions of us who can't afford to head to the mountains. So something needs to change as a society. I had the happiest childhood and then the 90s hit and HGTV told us our houses weren't enough and our lives weren't enough and we needed to work more more more and then we all...just burned out. That run on sentence felt so good, take that Sr. Dorothy and my college professors and anyone else who thinks run on sentences are what's important. I just did the dishes I hadn't done in two weeks while I watched this and now if you'll excuse me I'm going to walk my very depressed dogs. My kids barely speak to me anymore since my surgery and depression and I need to get endorphins back into my body to change that. I hope your future plan turns out to be life coach. But for now enjoy the mountains=) happy healing. Your 45 minite video just saved another person's suffering.

  • @theovertyrant2620
    @theovertyrant2620 Před 26 dny +2363

    I think the fact this video went so viral speaks to the need that people collectively feel to lose the need for a plan, to just wander into the woods and to belong to the land instead of the idea that land belongs to you.

    • @darylfoster6133
      @darylfoster6133 Před 26 dny +23

      Wandering in the woods doesn't pay bills.

    • @xaidanx64
      @xaidanx64 Před 26 dny +67

      @@darylfoster6133 silly little Daryl

    • @YeTism
      @YeTism Před 26 dny

      @@darylfoster6133yes, but people fantasise about doing more than paying bills until they die

    • @darylfoster6133
      @darylfoster6133 Před 26 dny +65

      @@xaidanx64 Silly little you. This guy can afford to wander in the woods because he made a gazillion dollars.

    • @kiwioffgrid2437
      @kiwioffgrid2437 Před 26 dny

      ​@@darylfoster6133say all those with a wage enslaved mentality hopeless enslaved by a handful of globalist psychopaths via their corrupt and manipulated monetary system?

  • @RedOctober2011
    @RedOctober2011 Před měsícem +10262

    Imagine a society so healthy that "being a surgeon" is only a "side gig".

    • @teksimian
      @teksimian Před měsícem +378

      we need ubersurgeon

    • @TheKivifreak
      @TheKivifreak Před měsícem +161

      @@teksimianuberneurosurgeon

    • @RedOctober2011
      @RedOctober2011 Před měsícem +33

      @@teksimian I'd be ok with it.

    • @lifegoeson788
      @lifegoeson788 Před měsícem +293

      Not possible until we do something about the capitalisation of healthcare. What is particularly healthy about a mega corp sending out a "surgery" service...that will lead to so many more issues than those that exist

    • @infamousincubus2888
      @infamousincubus2888 Před měsícem

      Lol I'm sure you all already know but a surgeon cannot do the surgery alone. There needs to be a whole system to even pick the right equipments, sterilize them, set up the room, anesthetize the pt and that's just listing the things you can see. There is a whole slew of things working behind the scenes to make even one surgery happen, not to mention the postop care

  • @XplorinWithPaul
    @XplorinWithPaul Před 2 dny +3

    This is a video every single person needs to watch. All 48 minutes. So true and helps everyone in general. Not only related to a job you don't like😊

  • @cdizzle4248
    @cdizzle4248 Před 6 dny +1

    Thanks for being just a genuine dude and doing what is right for you and your family. It will all come together whether there is a plan or not. Great video, wish you lots of courage in your new ventures. Keep them coming!

  • @helenasarubbi9887
    @helenasarubbi9887 Před 20 dny +1261

    1. Good diet
    2. Good sleep
    3. Exercise
    4. Social support
    5. Stress Management

    • @sergiograslopez986
      @sergiograslopez986 Před 20 dny +7

      top

    • @stephatherley5317
      @stephatherley5317 Před 20 dny +2

      I agree

    • @user-sc4eb7vr9g
      @user-sc4eb7vr9g Před 20 dny +25

      Incorrect, it's more like, have a: 1. Mostly Plant based diet. 2. Meditate or have a way to reduce stress in spite of work conditions. 3. Be with nature and exercise, like hiking. 4. Low sodium diet. 5. Have community, by having friends, interacting with family or other forms of being social. 6. Sleep enough 😎

    • @akoeliassi6887
      @akoeliassi6887 Před 20 dny +37

      @@user-sc4eb7vr9gSorry man. But you need meat to heal.
      Meat, eggs, milk, unpasturized cheeses and vegetables/fruits.
      Also salt is good for you. It’s only when you don’t drink enough water where it’s not good for you. Also too much water without salt is also not good. You need a balance simply. Salt without water will dehydrate you. Water without salt wont bind into the cells.
      Cheers brother

    • @paopao-22
      @paopao-22 Před 20 dny

      @@user-sc4eb7vr9g i agree with you🤓

  • @dannyramirez425
    @dannyramirez425 Před 27 dny +2667

    Wow!! It hit home for me. I spent 30 years as a fire medic. Saw a lot of human misery. Saw and treated every kind of trauma, suicide, cardiac issues, strokes and many things you can't think of. The new kids hiring on had no work ethic, no brotherhood, entitlement. The hospital ER staff was becoming more angry and arrogant. I was very unhappy. Gain weight. Acquired 3 herniated discs. Saw a spine surgeon regularly. Had 2 knee surgeries.
    I walked away from the career. Lost 30 lbs. Sleep all night, every night. Changed my diet. No stress. Do what I want, when I want with no set schedule. After 2 years. No more back issues. No more knee issues. No need for knee replacement now.

    • @thepcal9654
      @thepcal9654 Před 27 dny +93

      Yes! It seemed like we went from being the patient’s advocate, to an environment of the patient being the enemy, and it seemed like it happened overnight! New nurses thought they were too important to handle anything but “trauma”, and everything else “should have gone to the primary doctor’s office”. Oh, and everyone in pain was “faking it”.

    • @annelbeab8124
      @annelbeab8124 Před 27 dny +53

      So good to hear! Stay on that path.
      A health or social support system is neither healthy nor social if it wrecks the people working in it.
      We commercialised two areas that never should be commercial: health and law.
      Both result in back breaking hours and stress - no money can compensate for that once the adrenaline stops giving you the highs.

    • @isiscastillo2036
      @isiscastillo2036 Před 27 dny +60

      @@thepcal9654 I retired after 38 years as a RN, new nurses are different we lost advocating for pts and compassion.

    • @EternalGalaxies
      @EternalGalaxies Před 27 dny +41

      ​@@isiscastillo2036 I've also noticed hospitals recently changing for the worse 😭💔
      As bedridden patient, it's extremely scary. Where are all the good nurses going and will some of them ever come back? 😞😢

    • @rahulashok9653
      @rahulashok9653 Před 27 dny +15

      @dannyramirez425
      Good to hear! What do you do now?

  • @rachaelm.9516
    @rachaelm.9516 Před 4 dny +6

    I enjoyed your story. Your wife is awesome, and I have a lot of respect for you. Thank you for caring about humanity over a paycheck.

  • @kadenanderson1091
    @kadenanderson1091 Před 2 dny +6

    This was very eye opening. I just turned 20, and have been doing flooring for 5 years already. I don’t always love it, I’m usually in pain because of it. And as a result, I’ve allowed myself to get somewhat lazy and waste the early stages of my youth. Hopefully I aswell can turn my life around, for the better. Thank you goobie, for showing me there is light in a world so dark

  • @indee105
    @indee105 Před měsícem +5631

    Saying, "I don't know" might be one of the healthiest things you can do. I'm only 38 and have found that no one on this rock has a clue. Day by day man.

    • @danielm3670
      @danielm3670 Před měsícem +46

      The earth seems to be a flat plane.

    • @jonathanchampagne7683
      @jonathanchampagne7683 Před měsícem +67

      You're incorrect. Some of us are geniuses and are able to see things that never occur to you. Give me $12K and I will open Pandora's box for you.

    • @SantoryuKauboi
      @SantoryuKauboi Před měsícem +38

      @@Lavir391 Turning 32 in 2 months.
      Make a decent amount of money ($8.5K after taxes a month) and I still yearn for more.
      I dont like where I live, not happy, and all that jazz.
      But im going to push through to save so I can stop working in like 18 years.

    • @nikitachirich7985
      @nikitachirich7985 Před měsícem +16

      Your comment about one one having a clue, is proof in the comment section by either antisocial clown scammers or just plain idiots, which make up 99% of the characters on this great rock, I commend you for pointing that out.
      I say live life in wild shots, take on challenges that come up, more so than setting up some kind of bullshit plan. A: the plan you setup (college, career track etc) will be obsolete by the time you're done ( AKA why most tech workers keep loosing their jobs) or B:you will die unexpectedly ( falling on a hike, getting stabbed in an uber, unknown blood clot) .
      Peace

    • @MrAncientAstronaut
      @MrAncientAstronaut Před měsícem +13

      Not knowing is the most intimate

  • @raffle3002
    @raffle3002 Před 27 dny +1395

    I'm a lawyer, spent 10years of my life training to be one. I quit being a lawyer 14yrs ago and now work as a community worker. I get more satisfaction working with the vulnerable members of the community than the years I spent as a lawyer.

    • @greenstitches4080
      @greenstitches4080 Před 27 dny +53

      Me too. 6 years studying in the uk. 12 years in private practice lining their pockets not mine
      I quit. Emigrated and past 11 years working for myself in textiles. Never happier.

    • @agiesafitri
      @agiesafitri Před 27 dny +5

      how do u support yourself after quitting?

    • @anainesgonzalez8868
      @anainesgonzalez8868 Před 27 dny +1

      What is a community worker? Being a lawyer does not help in your new job?

    • @prisha1050
      @prisha1050 Před 27 dny +1

      @@agiesafitri Probably by donations? Or maybe joining a group..

    • @mercyk2672
      @mercyk2672 Před 27 dny +7

      ​@@anainesgonzalez8868it's a social worker. In the U.K they use a different terminology

  • @lauribeckham1223
    @lauribeckham1223 Před 2 dny +1

    Goobie, you are so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with the world. I hope that you continue to find happiness, peace and contentment on your new journey! 😊

  • @cynthealacroix9069
    @cynthealacroix9069 Před dnem

    A huge and scary step ! I'm so glad you are now happy, contented and truly living your life with your dog and wife. Much love!

  • @carolynw2747
    @carolynw2747 Před 24 dny +1400

    I’m a 73 year old woman who started my nursing career at age 20. I have been an RN for 53 years and have recently retired. Medication and surgery, are the tools used for the sick. But what are the tools of wellness? A natural, simply prepared food, exercise, sleep, friendships, a relationship with nature, helping others. You are living your best life now. Congratulations on sharing and keep supporting a better way to health.

    • @philnyc
      @philnyc Před 23 dny

      Woman, there is no "natural food" anylonger, you should know that all too well by now.

    • @xx-dw1gp
      @xx-dw1gp Před 23 dny +11

      hi do you have an advice for someone who don't have the motivation to prepare simple food for themselves, always going for junk food, and skipping brusing teeth, and can't clean the room? I wasn't like this before but now I find it so difficult to do these simple things

    • @anight8661
      @anight8661 Před 23 dny

      Start with 1 thing you can do different each day. Make the bed each morning, then add a second thing, and keep going.​@@xx-dw1gp

    • @danusiatrevino
      @danusiatrevino Před 23 dny +6

      From what I undesrand he is saying in this video is that medication and surgery are not necessary even for the sick. Dr.John E Sarno has written about it many years ago in his book "Mind over back pain"

    • @emyyyxx
      @emyyyxx Před 23 dny +4

      @@xx-dw1gp ou may actually just be like me and have some variation of ADD. my advice is to work on methods of organization, write things out step by step if you need to, make lists, anything to help you with these things. small tasks can seem so big sometimes and it just kinda pushes you into not doing them or procrastination. i totally get what you mean and i hope you find peace, or maybe even get medicated 😂❤ im not i just had to rewire my brain a bit to help myself out!

  • @stephchristine3717
    @stephchristine3717 Před 28 dny +2511

    Surgeon here. Preach my brother, lead the way. Medicine and surgery are due for a serious overhaul. thank you for opening up this important conversation

    • @lavineatieno8361
      @lavineatieno8361 Před 28 dny +16

      ❤❤

    • @RuFi0000000
      @RuFi0000000 Před 28 dny

      I hope you're one of the 0.1% of (American) surgeons that's actually a good person and treats their patients and colleagues with respect. Every surgeon I've ever known was either an absolutely insufferable arrogant prick that treated others like they were disgusting creatures lower than them, or a psychopath devoid of all emotion, empathy, and care. I get the worst anxiety when I know I have to interact with one.

    • @8oclocktomatotalk
      @8oclocktomatotalk Před 28 dny +27

      Amen to that!
      From the “outside” the medical system looks in bad shape to me.

    • @margaretschwartzentruber3154
      @margaretschwartzentruber3154 Před 28 dny +28

      We need old fashioned family physicians who do surgery as well.

    • @loremipsum8321
      @loremipsum8321 Před 28 dny +6

      Is bro gon convert to dr. Strange?

  • @KirkPadgett
    @KirkPadgett Před 4 dny +5

    Gooby did something that nobody else would do and is standing up for what is right. I'm praying for you Gooby. I'm praying that you find a way of life with compassion, joy, and lastly fulfillment. I have found my fulfillment of life through the sharing of the Gospel. Your story really inspired me to do something that you are passionate about, but also something that has fulfillment. Thank you, and God Bless.

  • @user-mu5zt6rw6y
    @user-mu5zt6rw6y Před 4 dny +1

    Thank you. You succeeding in making another person feel better. Your
    Ho’oponopono prayer video was a nice follow up. I look forward to watching.

  • @MrNickallday
    @MrNickallday Před 24 dny +942

    Lab scientist here. Currently 1am just woke up from a nightmare and hopped on CZcams and found this video. Thank you for making it

    • @contrastmedia1
      @contrastmedia1 Před 24 dny +41

      Also a lab scientist. I am leaving. Enough is enough

    • @MsRandaOK
      @MsRandaOK Před 24 dny +10

      @@contrastmedia1 I hope you start considering to share your story.

    • @MsRandaOK
      @MsRandaOK Před 24 dny +3

      I hope you consider to start sharing your story.

    • @RS-pn9wu
      @RS-pn9wu Před 24 dny +12

      Massage therapist here, i completely agree with this message. Massage is the same like fixing the drywall, but not roof. People won't listen and are lazy or in bad life situation, so they can't fix the pain

    • @yznuwu3268
      @yznuwu3268 Před 23 dny +3

      @@contrastmedia1also considering it further down the line.

  • @arturbabajev7936
    @arturbabajev7936 Před 16 dny +524

    "Nobody has 40 minutes to listen to me explain why I quit my job"
    10 million people came here to listen.
    I just wnated to show my gratitude for this video, it in itself was veey healing.
    I wish you happiness, great health and success in anything and everything you decide to take on.

  • @ericwallen
    @ericwallen Před 2 dny +2

    I subscribed, not because I am going to particularly like this type of content, but because it takes a brave person to give up that lifestyle he already did the hard work for, for something he believes in.

  • @ckh7719
    @ckh7719 Před 4 dny +1

    What a thought-provoking video! I truly enjoyed listening to you as you transition. You're on your way... be as patient with yourself as you would with a loved one. Be kind to you. May the force be with you.

  • @zurkio210
    @zurkio210 Před 28 dny +5208

    My uncle was a neurosurgeon, he took his own life during covid. I'll never know what was going on in his mind. rest easy

    • @peaceandlove544
      @peaceandlove544 Před 28 dny +323

      Oh Lord, stress can make You crazy

    • @donnadiesburg7451
      @donnadiesburg7451 Před 28 dny +292

      I'm sorry. I'm my opinion the powers that be, hurt our doctors so much that it's unreal.
      Thus hurting us.

    • @rubikquitous8482
      @rubikquitous8482 Před 28 dny +486

      i would inagine he saw the corruption in the medical and health industry and was so disgusted he was unable to deal with the emotions surrounding it. very sad im sorry to hear. rip.

    • @HelloimEmilyQ
      @HelloimEmilyQ Před 28 dny +44

      maybe it is because he made a few mistakes and then his patients wanted to sue him… they face a lot of pressure to do the right move but it isn’t always the casr

    • @Candlelightbrill
      @Candlelightbrill Před 28 dny +136

      he most likely couldn’t live with what Really goes on in the western medical field. may he have peace.

  • @afghzr7729
    @afghzr7729 Před 15 dny +508

    He thought he saved 100s but now he saved millions. Thank you doctor goobie

    • @Snackwhore213
      @Snackwhore213 Před 13 dny

      Amen

    • @josephmueller3752
      @josephmueller3752 Před 13 dny +1

      What about the ones saved by surgeons who operate on patients with cancer, or those who had car accidents or got attacked. Or pregnant women who are having problems with the baby or during birth. Or do you really think they should just eat healthier?

    • @LUYOLO16
      @LUYOLO16 Před 13 dny

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @venkatachengalvala4289
      @venkatachengalvala4289 Před 12 dny +2

      @@josephmueller3752 That's different; cancer surgeries are often effective. Spinal surgeries usually aren't long-term effective.

    • @Captaintrippz
      @Captaintrippz Před 12 dny +1

      As I've always said, anyone who wants to save the most lives possible, work at a water treatment plant.
      An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of treatment.

  • @user-cn8dg7px6c
    @user-cn8dg7px6c Před 4 dny +3

    Absolutely an Amazing story & journey! Thanks for sharing!

  • @joseluissantivanezrojas7781

    May God bless you and protect you. You're a good man and hope more people are like you

  • @cato451
    @cato451 Před 27 dny +3146

    For me sleep was a game changer. I didn’t sleep well for 35 years. I quit my job and now I sleep 8 hours straight every night. No more health issues. Sleep is incredibly important for overall health. Good luck Dr.

    • @Hakuuna_Matatah
      @Hakuuna_Matatah Před 27 dny +101

      💯 Facts.. Something I had to learn! I am a much better person with 8 hours sleep. It’s amazing. So, now when my bedtime comes, I just drop what I’m doing and go to sleep.

    • @TheMsabak
      @TheMsabak Před 27 dny +95

      I’m ER physician and still have the same problem. I can’t do that like him. Cuz need to take care of my family. But I totally agree with you 👍🏻

    • @jc6087
      @jc6087 Před 27 dny +60

      Insomnia is slowly killing me...

    • @MRH549
      @MRH549 Před 27 dny +11

      Absolutely correct sir

    • @TheWolfalpino
      @TheWolfalpino Před 27 dny +9

  • @coolguyanddad
    @coolguyanddad Před 24 dny +841

    The fact that this video got to everybody reflects how sick we all are.

    • @glaciarrecords
      @glaciarrecords Před 24 dny +26

      It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society. Jiddu Krishnamurti

    • @SEJ3333
      @SEJ3333 Před 24 dny +1

      ​@@glaciarrecordsTo the contrary. It's actually a priceless skill...

    • @contrastmedia1
      @contrastmedia1 Před 24 dny +14

      We needed this video so much 😭watching from South Africa and I’m leaving my job in healthcare. I’ve had enough

    • @randalthur8304
      @randalthur8304 Před 20 dny

      I'm here depressed and burned out from long long stressful toxic work environment.

  • @incognito595
    @incognito595 Před 2 dny +1

    I come back to this, your first video, Dr.Goobie, to watch frequently, because you Inspire me, and I really treasure you.

  • @Jade-Pacific7777
    @Jade-Pacific7777 Před dnem

    Thank you very much for your blunt honesty and helping many of us to understand what is going on. Best wishes to you and yours. Congratulations on your awakening; I'm really glad you took the plunge because I also have friends who are not happy being in the same field of work!

  • @samauyeung1119
    @samauyeung1119 Před 25 dny +878

    A seemingly rich life is so poor, yet a seemingly poor life is actually rich. Thank you for reminding us money cannot buy happiness. True happiness lies in purpose and simplicity.

    • @DannyBrooks1
      @DannyBrooks1 Před 25 dny +31

      Money buys freedom to do whatever you want whenever you want. That can be a huge stress relief.

    • @redlight3932
      @redlight3932 Před 25 dny +25

      @@DannyBrooks1 theres a middle ground because working hard is worth it when the payout is aswell but, sometimes people grind away and have nothing to show for it simply due to the punches life throws ones way

    • @goldwhitedragon
      @goldwhitedragon Před 25 dny +13

      Money buys freedom to tbe point you are enslaved by freedom​@DannyBrooks1

    • @arianadonis4099
      @arianadonis4099 Před 25 dny +4

      ​@DannyBrooks1 long as there are ppl around you who aren't just there for the money

    • @Typhoon0112
      @Typhoon0112 Před 25 dny

      Let me help you, give me your money

  • @dvdvdivya
    @dvdvdivya Před 15 dny +491

    Welcome to the club of doctors who quit! Very well articulated! I could not have said it better. It's not a mid-life crisis, it is called integrity!

    • @fabioppires1
      @fabioppires1 Před 14 dny +7

      👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

    • @lexqbeanable
      @lexqbeanable Před 14 dny +13

      Thank you Doc! I feel for you guys because it's the system that failed you. I hope you are content in whatever career you have chosen now!

    • @raphaq9192
      @raphaq9192 Před 13 dny +2

      nice. where do your income currently comes from

    • @lexqbeanable
      @lexqbeanable Před 13 dny

      @@raphaq9192 he said they have savings and he is currently looking for a job.

    • @Jujubean9795
      @Jujubean9795 Před 13 dny

      @@raphaq9192they’re living off all the money they made while working. lol. Their expenses went from $10k a month to $2k a month. Some may also have spouses that work. A lot of physicians have at least one parent that is wealthy, so again, they have sources of income, inheritance, familiar loans etc. They are fine financially.

  • @ErenYeager-to8hr
    @ErenYeager-to8hr Před 2 dny

    i love how calm this video is no edit no fast cuts thanks for this video

  • @iowajojo
    @iowajojo Před 27 dny +827

    I’m a pain physician in Los Angeles. Very rare to see a spine surgeon like you, someone who cared about the patients not just their income and status… Wish there were more like you!

  • @JoonYSeo-pn4ts
    @JoonYSeo-pn4ts Před 26 dny +825

    Dear colleague. I am a German thoraxic surgeon who decided to quit working endless hours after about 15 years in hospital. I was burnt out and mentally and physically very vulnerable. My wife also told me that I should quit and do something else. Since then I became a general practitioner and I am a very happy doctor and family man. I listened to every word you said and I had tears in my eyes because I went through what you went through. I know the system makes you sick and you become disillusioned if you really care for your patients. I wish you all the best and hope that your heart continues to guide your way. You have made the right choice and you are a very lucky man. Hugs from Germany.

    • @borodel619
      @borodel619 Před 26 dny +7

      A German? What about a german colleague dr Ryke geert Hamer? I actually healed a severe appendicitis last year by its teachings, weird........

    • @remembertheblacksabbath
      @remembertheblacksabbath Před 26 dny

      The whole system is designed to make us sick.

    • @AllNamesAreTaken12
      @AllNamesAreTaken12 Před 26 dny +22

      Your comment actually made me tear up. My father used to be a Neurosurgeon, later on he decided to quit being a surgeon and start working in neurology and psychotherapy. The reason for this change was because he was so burned out after being in the field for so long that he just couldn’t endure it any longer. The current situation in German hospitals (and probably Hospitals all around the world) is horrible for everyone who works there and actually cares about his/her patients.

    • @user-ml8ud6qd2u
      @user-ml8ud6qd2u Před 26 dny +19

      Goobie you need to do what makes you happy 😊. But it's never that simple. Need to think 🤔 about where you are at. Plan and finances before you make important life decisions. I got my masters in social work at 26. I too wanted to help people. And I did for many years. Was a medical social worker in a hospital for 10 years. Very stressful. Was unhappy 😒. Worked every day except weekends. Called in sick 1day in 10 years. Because I lived in boston the city. In winter I had to cover other people's jobs. Before I became 40 I planned to change my life career and city. Moved to California eventually went back to school and became an activity therapist for the city of San Francisco. Stayed 10 😊years and 😍 loved my job and able to use my creativity. Goobie makes sense. You need to figure things out and plan. Do not make rash decisions. And life is not worth living being unhappy 😒. Your choice. 😊

    • @RussiaIsARiddle778
      @RussiaIsARiddle778 Před 26 dny +15

      Very kind of you to affirm a colleague’s feelings. 😊

  • @AimeeSimpson61
    @AimeeSimpson61 Před 3 dny +4

    I was “relieved” of my job at 63. It took a while but I finally figured out they did me a favor. No more toxic corporate bull 💩!

  • @TG-ip2kb
    @TG-ip2kb Před 10 hodinami

    Thank you, Goobie - watching and listening to you share your story has really been an inspiration and has enormously helped me reorient my perspective - thank you so much, and I pray and hope for your continued peace and happiness- God bless you sir 😊

  • @sg639
    @sg639 Před 28 dny +1738

    This man has (re)discovered Thoreau's truth: "The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation." It takes great courage to forge an independent path.

    • @deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
      @deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Před 28 dny +11

    • @shirleybroady
      @shirleybroady Před 28 dny +17

      Wow. Excellent comment. So well spoken.

    • @konnyknees
      @konnyknees Před 28 dny +24

      my fav bit of Thoreau is that he also had his wife bring him treats and food when he stayed isolated in the forest

    • @smellslikethinice1107
      @smellslikethinice1107 Před 28 dny +15

      "quiet desperation is the English way" straight out of Pink Floyd ...mind you I think they were talking particularly about brits, lol.

    • @corinaelenaradulescu6450
      @corinaelenaradulescu6450 Před 28 dny +3

      ❤🌻🫂🍀🍀🍀🫂🌻❤️

  • @daniellechoi6983
    @daniellechoi6983 Před 26 dny +550

    I teared up when you said that your wife encouraged you to quit rather than to stay part time after seeing what you went through. You’re blessed to have someone who loves you right by your side! It is so tragic and sickening that the American healthcare system has become a for-profit-business, making money off of sick people. I am sorry that you’ve become a victim of the system in a way. I hope you discover your new passion in life soon!

    • @ellenabagan8038
      @ellenabagan8038 Před 26 dny +3

      I love your honesty regarding the real life in medical field. May we all humans realize this truth , that we're made to live properly as nature designed it. May my people also do the natural eating, exercise, and socialize with people

    • @lashawnablanton4649
      @lashawnablanton4649 Před 26 dny +1

      So true❤

    • @Leonarducray
      @Leonarducray Před 26 dny +1

      Amen 🙏