If She Cheated On You

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024

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  • @ShaunZachary
    @ShaunZachary  Před 11 měsíci +1

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  • @nagel1968
    @nagel1968 Před 11 měsíci +51

    It still sting ...my partner of 5 years went out and cheated while I was hustling for us ....never again will I trust a woman..why would someone do that...

    • @RedTabletTalk
      @RedTabletTalk Před 11 měsíci +2

      Yeah females are finicky. I was stung last night when a female that I let hang out with me and treated to a birthday dinner celebrating my birthday and an adult arcade wouldn’t stay the night in a hotel with me. Even though I know female nature from my past experience and listening to red pill content on CZcams, it still stung that she wouldn’t sleep with me on my birthday night.

    • @AndI0td763
      @AndI0td763 Před 11 měsíci +7

      It’s the worst feeling when your former lady steps out on you. Stay strong man, this is their loss.

    • @ricardoge96
      @ricardoge96 Před 11 měsíci +1

      ​@@RedTabletTalkif you were brad pit, you would have access too all 3 holes 1st night, this is a lesson man, be better

    • @jonathangrenier4498
      @jonathangrenier4498 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Im right there with you brother, the exact same fucking situation. This created a fucking mess in my head.

    • @DB-sd3cw
      @DB-sd3cw Před 11 měsíci +6

      ​@@RedTabletTalktf? You're not entitled to be slept with because it's your birthday lmao

  • @Knighthomas.
    @Knighthomas. Před 3 měsíci +10

    Block and move on, they shown their true colours

  • @Xereane
    @Xereane Před 3 měsíci +5

    Gf of 4 years cheated on me too recently. Even tho I wasn't perfect I was always trying to do my best for her, working extra hard for money, working to buy a house.
    It just sucks, but being surrounded by comrades with similar problems is the only thing giving me strength to keep pushing myself

  • @daryusi9347
    @daryusi9347 Před 9 měsíci +8

    i dated a woman with a masters degree and she was trying to cheat on me with multiple street dudes.
    we broke up, but ever since then, i've been binge watching your videos and they're really helping.

  • @NabilxAiden
    @NabilxAiden Před 11 měsíci +28

    She says it’s not cheating she dumped me on text, before getting with a guy… I think she was monkey branched.. her loss I’m at the gym rn with the anger

    • @AndI0td763
      @AndI0td763 Před 11 měsíci +11

      Yeah they line up the next guy before the break. Saw it firsthand my last go around. Sorry to hear it happened to you too. I’ll be hitting the gym hard like you.

    • @JTM3xx
      @JTM3xx Před 11 měsíci +1

      Just move on and talk to another women they always line someone up before they break up with u this jus happened to me with my trade school sweetheart loved her a lot but sht happens

    • @daryusi9347
      @daryusi9347 Před 6 měsíci +1

      "her loss"
      EXACTLTY

  • @jacknorton3771
    @jacknorton3771 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I'm going through this now with my ex. She wants to come back into my life and I keep saying no. I've blocked her and am at the point of changing my phone number. I would rather be alone than with a cheater. She won't change, hasn't changed but I have. Changed because of your channel Shaun. Thanks for the help.

    • @AndI0td763
      @AndI0td763 Před 11 měsíci +2

      You have your honor and you value yourself, I respect that. Seems like many guys would forgive and take a woman back. She gets one chance with me, once she steps out that’s it for me, it can’t go back to the way it was. A woman who is a real one will be with you and make that clear. Many lessons have been learned and guys like us will set the standard.

  • @AndI0td763
    @AndI0td763 Před 11 měsíci +8

    You’re damn right Shaun, enough with this naive la la land BS. I was in a two year relationship and my ex stepped out on me, it was very unexpected. But looking back I should’ve seen what was going on and prepared myself accordingly. As men we have a natural tendency to place women above ourselves but enough is enough. Men first. Ourselves first. We need to have strength and honor. We need to wake up to reality and stop walking through life with this weak dependent mindset.

    • @Richard-hx6mi
      @Richard-hx6mi Před 7 měsíci +1

      Unfortunately you're right. The worst thing you can do is ask yourself what could I have done better? or what did I do wrong? She is who she is and she will do whatever she's going to do. It's not in your control. Walk away!

  • @stevenmorganofficial5696
    @stevenmorganofficial5696 Před 11 měsíci +7

    I value my self respect before anything else. No wonder why women having a hard time dealing with me and that's sweet 💯

  • @joelhernandez41
    @joelhernandez41 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Your very first video on CZcams was a hardcore message on this topic. Team walk away on this side

  • @JTM3xx
    @JTM3xx Před 11 měsíci +10

    These videos always remind me to stay on the grind and focus despite how women has treated me thank you bro love from the westside chicago

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před 11 měsíci +1

      Big up bro 🤜🏼🤛🏼

    • @Wahinies
      @Wahinies Před 11 měsíci

      It is the only way to go

  • @Richard-hx6mi
    @Richard-hx6mi Před 7 měsíci +3

    My situation is tough because I'm walking away, but I don't have 100 proof that she is cheating.
    However, her sleeping at her son's father's place, her dressing up for unusual work meetings that includes alcohol and goes to midnight, to storing her phone that's always turned off and tucked away whenever I'm around, was enough for me to man up and walk away. It's tough to do, but my "intuition" trumps my "what if?"

  • @NabilxAiden
    @NabilxAiden Před 11 měsíci +10

    I walked away

  • @Wahinies
    @Wahinies Před 11 měsíci +3

    There are basically two ways to look at it like you said, one is to ask what you could have done differently and start down that rabbit hole that does nothing but consume valuable time and the other is that you just freed up a bunch of time to work on physical and mental health. Thanks for the wisdom drop.

  • @terrenceturner68
    @terrenceturner68 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Automatic subscribe. I fought for minutes until clearity hit me. I’m no simp and she let another man violate her. I’m away handling all the bills and raising ya daughter. The betray is deep, I accept her apology and love her enough to let her know the truth. I’m gone shawty ✊🏾

  • @JoshJeem
    @JoshJeem Před 11 měsíci +1

    Lol ... "Go solo dolo for 2 to 3 years!" Nice words, Shaun!

  • @vasumalaviya3866
    @vasumalaviya3866 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Thanks Shaun for posting this. You’re my fav life advisor. Keep going bro, you’re making change. Wishing you best luck.

  • @nivea878
    @nivea878 Před 11 měsíci +3

    i would kick her to jupiter, while staying calm😂 get out of here lady

  • @GeoffGroves
    @GeoffGroves Před 8 měsíci +1

    Dont know how i wound up here but damn, this is AWESOME advice Shaun.

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 Před 10 měsíci +2

    It’s best to focus on yourself and do u

  • @Drich8447
    @Drich8447 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yep, don't do it. I've taken her back, happened again. Low integrity women do not change.

    • @moshiesty9882
      @moshiesty9882 Před měsícem

      you took her back? damn

    • @golf1diesel
      @golf1diesel Před 16 dny

      Did you apply Dan Bacon's advice?

    • @Drich8447
      @Drich8447 Před 16 dny

      Negative. Didn't seek advice​. It was a situation where I didn't have proof at the time, in spite of the evidence staring me in the face. @@golf1diesel

  • @justinmay2295
    @justinmay2295 Před 3 měsíci +1

    It hurts so mich

  • @nativeexecutive1150
    @nativeexecutive1150 Před 11 měsíci +1

    She told me she was pregnant with another man's child and it was a rap. She tells me that this happened before we met, but her behavior during the time we've been dating has not convinced me of that, meaning her loyalty was always in question, so when this shit happened part of me was not surprised. ''It's one and done''

  • @SleepyBoaSnake-ik7bx
    @SleepyBoaSnake-ik7bx Před 2 měsíci

    It's harder when kids involved she cheated on me before before last Christmas she still on the couch

  • @mjsocks5929
    @mjsocks5929 Před 6 měsíci

    Level up Time. Thanks.

  • @KOSerg-vo2qb
    @KOSerg-vo2qb Před 5 měsíci

    Sean did Magic Mike from Chicago do your smp? He did mine as well ,jw bro

  • @mattacer1
    @mattacer1 Před 11 měsíci

    hi shaun, can you please make a vid on how you can talk about feelings with your girl..

  • @kareemsheby4473
    @kareemsheby4473 Před 4 měsíci

    From Tanzania

  • @oscarsaucedo1310
    @oscarsaucedo1310 Před 2 měsíci +1

    back when my current exgirlfriend & I were apart from each other she dated 2 men at the same time that did not bother me I say to myself every time oscar stay single for the rest of your life the hell with the woman you dated me I am alway's going to be intrested in women fuck what people say 😊

  • @csillagszr
    @csillagszr Před 7 měsíci

    I'm 33, she is 54, but we live 200 km from each other, I think she cheats me, there are signs 😢

    • @alldaybd9672
      @alldaybd9672 Před 4 měsíci

      Grandma can't look that good man. She must be your only option or she is wealthy.

    • @csabafamin2277
      @csabafamin2277 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@alldaybd9672she looked like a 36 but she has not so much money...

  • @napha1979
    @napha1979 Před 11 měsíci

    My girlfriend cheated on me last week feeling sad depressed

  • @dillo5881
    @dillo5881 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Just curious brotha, how old are you? I’m 26 and I really struggle with letting this shit go even though I know I have to. Fought so hard for the same result multiple times, no longer respected, or loved by her. & I could see why. Appreciate the videos bro. This time next year I’ll be reinvented.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před 9 měsíci +2

      I’m 38. You got this brother 💪🏼

    • @dillo5881
      @dillo5881 Před 9 měsíci

      @@ShaunZachary Appreciate the reply man. Gotta be better, and I gotta work my ass off for it. Let’s get it 💪🏽

    • @andersspencer
      @andersspencer Před 4 měsíci

      Man she cheated because I cheated on her
      She's begging for me now
      What do I do?

    • @dillo5881
      @dillo5881 Před 4 měsíci

      @@andersspencer DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT TAKE HER BACK

    • @andersspencer
      @andersspencer Před 4 měsíci

      @@dillo5881
      Can I talk to you?
      It's complicated she cheated on me 1 week after she knew I cheated on her 4 months back
      It's my fault at the start but then she took me back and then cheated on me 4 days after she took me back
      She's apologizing and crying saying she was hurt from my actions and what she did is purely emotional and anger channeled.
      She's asking me give her time to prove herself
      My question is she took me back when I cheated but she cheated right after.
      So honestly it's toxic
      I'm so hurt and distressed
      I really love this girl.
      But should I give her a chance cause she gave me one.
      And the reason she did it was because of my action in the past
      She was loyal before that

  • @kareemsheby4473
    @kareemsheby4473 Před 4 měsíci

    Tanzania 🇹🇿 🇹🇿 🇹🇿 🇹🇿

  • @RedTabletTalk
    @RedTabletTalk Před 11 měsíci

    A female that I let hang out with me and treated to a birthday dinner celebrating my birthday wouldn’t stay the night in a hotel with me. Even though I know female nature from my past experience and listening to red pill content on CZcams, it still stung that she wouldn’t sleep with me on my birthday night.

    • @EmbraceTheHustle
      @EmbraceTheHustle Před 11 měsíci +5

      She’s not required to sleep with you on your birthday. You sound desperate… this situation depends if you guys slept together before or it’s your first date. Let’s say it’s a first day. Women will usually sleep with you on a second or third date to not appear like a slut, if you played your cards right. So you sitting there crying and probably messing up your chance. Or you messed up on the date and turned her off. You sound immature so that probably rubs off into other aspects of your life.

    • @RedTabletTalk
      @RedTabletTalk Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@EmbraceTheHustle you’re acting like an immature punk trying to attack me like it’s personal to you as if it’s your mother I was trying to have sex with.