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- She WILL regret losing you.. But ONLY if you move on from her and put the focus on improving yourself. She won’t regret a damn thing if you stay the same.
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Shaun my ex dumped me 3 months ago after 8 years she is the love of my life the relationship was toxic at times but we have great memories and a deep rooted connection. I tried everything to get her back in doing so I mad tons of mistakes like begging pleading ect. Is it too late to go radio silence because I don’t know what else to do . She says she’s in love with me but can’t be with me right now. I think she might be seeing someone but I’m not sure . Any advice brother would be helpful
Yo fam you're funny as fuck.. you said that bitch moved on and got fat...lol
@@damientheomentrites6463 it’s more than likely you
@@rebeccablossom9823 bihh STFU yo goofy azzzz...skunk 🦨 t'waffle smelling bihh istgggg y'all internet ho's got it bad just like these internet wannabe 🤦🏾♂️ 🤦🏾♂️ 🤦🏾♂️ gangsters... 🤡 Goofy azzzzz bihh
@@damientheomentrites6463 anyways bro'
I've been there myself bro' I do good for a few days to a week or so butsometimes they do it to radio silence distance...trux they Kno about this tactic...but my advice to u is bro' I know it's hard but u gotta start by asking God to heal uuuu not fix y'all or us but just u because wat God got planned for u it's not for nobody else but u ya' kids parents friends etc etc .... but ask him to heal u and deliver u from it alllllll bro bro .... By mingling getting on dating sites just to heal and giving your mind and time to someone else or just someone different and that can be a listener a good friend if u will or a new entanglement relationship that's gonna last but ask him to bring u someone for u that fits your do's and don'ts or your needs and wants without no hesitation.... I'm stuck in same situation now and have no family where I'm at and living here her state SC in her crib....I wanna kiss and make up but ik God knows and she knows it's probably about that time to call it quits for good every argument get out ...I'm no saint but but where I'm from and being a street dude
Naw' I changed
I'ma stay at home dad cook clean homework (with a child not mines seeing her get off school bus) laundry grass cutting garbage hauling off and her for my one and only biological child
If she dumped you, she did you a favor no matter who she is. Thank her and move on.
It’s hard though
@@popthefoxx9687 True. But did you notice the world didn't end?? I was fortunate to have had the chance to visit the Philippines for two months. Brother; I'm here to tell you; you will get a whole new outlook on life after visiting the Philippines. Try Thailand. give either one a two week vacation. It will change your life.
@@tonyhondo416 it didn’t end…. But man I promise that’s what it’s feeling like…. This shit so hard man…. I can only talk to a stranger about it but this shit hurts
@@popthefoxx9687 wanna talk about it brother, I'm going through same shit
@@popthefoxx9687 I'm going thru it right now..It's NOT Easy!
Don't beg
Don't plead
Don't act weak
Stay strong ,motivated and healthy
Walk with your head high
Respect your self .
I've always been a very tough guy and would never tolerate any kind of a disrespect from a woman, but with this one girl, I completely lost myself. I did everything that you've mentioned above, and I am struggling to forgive myself for that even after so many months.
@@rudraveervashisht5419 You need inner healing my friend accept the truth and move on in life you will find someone till then enjoy the gift called Life
@@simonswamy688 Thank you bro, but I was never a simp. I have let women come and go pretty easily in my life. Yes, this was the first woman I actually opened up with, which of course she used against me, but we were always very serious about each other. Looking back now, I see all the red flags that I kept on ignoring, but I genuinely loved her. I didn't see any of this coming. I am unable to understand why, after several months, am I still riled up in those same thoughts.
@@rudraveervashisht5419 Unconditional love doesn't mean unconditional tolerance always keep this in mind
@@rudraveervashisht5419 You said it yourself bro, the red flags. If she gave you red flags during the time you both were close, then it’ll only be more red flags at any other time
Never chase women. Ever.
Deep down, they know they aren't even worth it
So true !!!! And every new man they sleep with damages their value. Women age faster and even smell differently when they have a high body count.
absolutely true. iv seen it. we are supposed to trust these people to raise our children. Now we know whats wrong.
I feel that my brother deeply down their know they having done ✅ nothing and have nothing going on
Some not all
PREACH!
Being silent is very powerful 💯 and never let them re-enter your life once they leave 💯
well said & taking her back equals a red flag.
Facts 💯💯
Or hit it and kick her out after you bust
I think this is more about helping a decent man to move on. Question to ask yourself,
What role did
Most women, Once she makes her mind up, there is no return. We humans do not appreciate what we had till it is gone. Her Emotion is Qi, once it is gone, it is gone. Guys, look after her emotion and her heart, this is how you keep her, a good woman. If you let go a good woman, there will not be upgrade, only karma wheel spinning. Guys, always give her respect and space, keep your door open, in case your judgment is impaired.
As I get older, I start to realize even more the statement, "you dodged that bullet".
After my soul being ripped apart after 5 years you just put me back into life time to stand up and move on
Best thing that can ever happen to a man is getting his heart broke. It builds an inner strength like nothing else. You’ll become a monster if you put the work in bro
Rs bro gotta leave the girl. Once you ghost her and act like she doesn’t exist. And mean it, don’t ever text her again but always be cool with her if you run into her in person just never give her your time again watch how your vision of life changes 💪
@@ShaunZachary Well, from my perspectice I'd say it depends. Does it make you stronger? Maybe. Or maybe it's just making you harder and more callous, which a lot of people them mistake for strength.
I got my heart broken time and again and not just in things concerning love and romance or only by women; to be fair. Being an Aspergers' and intrinsic nice guy made sure that I was the perfect, perpetually friend zoned, exploited to the hilt victim who has basically made no positive or even happy experiences concerning women and love in all of his life.
Did it make me stronger, especially when also taking into consideration all that other crap that happened in my life? Sure it did. Well, to be correct I can't really tell if I _gained_ this strength or if it was actually there all the time and I just needed reason and time to find it. At some point in my life, I just realised to my amazement that I actually survived a full broadside of events during my life that each on its own already utterly broke people and yet here I am, still standing. I am far from being one of those guys in their 40s that are financially settled, have their own hous and looking forward to an early retirement, but apparently I am quite the, what are they called in english, roly-poly toy?
But this comes with a hefty price, because in a way, I have become a monster. Some people say that the worst cynics are disappointed romantics and I think they have a point. I have gotten my heart broken so profoundly, my world view and beliefs shattered so utterly for so many times, becoming a monster was more or less an imperative. I have reached a point where I just can't be bothered anymore and I am not talking only about women or relationships, but about society in general and about single human beings in particular. And you know what? Being that nice, blue-eyed, naive and likeable moron I once was felt much, much _better._
And this is just another crime I blame feminism and wokism for, if not one of their worst: they actively crush and destroy what little innocence western society still has. They take nice, caring and interested in the well being of society as a whole young men and turn them into calculating, uncaring cynics who just can't be bothered anymore and they take intelligent young women and turn them into stupid, calculating, uncaring, egotistical and super-entitled narcissists who not just not care -if- when they hurt someone, but actually _enjoy_ it. They produce monsters, I am basically exhibit A and I f*ing hate what I have become.
Sorry for that wall of text, in case anyone actually made it this far, thanks for your patience and interest!
@@omarsvn1430 Yes you are right, after she broke up with me i only ask her what going and after i seen how she was, i move on and better myself and now she have no good men
@@freddiejohnson3936 YOU DONT MAKE SENCE
Started hitting the gym, working on self improvement, battling with depression, never felt better! Can’t say I moved on 100%, but I am getting better and happier
God bless you, Supreme leader
Yes ingore everything i delete my facebook an i ingore her out my life
Hope you achieve your goals king!
Are u okay now
Keep grinding keep improving!! Delete all pics text and email. I don't delete numbers, I enjoy seeing the day they need contact and I am a no go!! 💪
I have a disability I take care of myself live on my own paying my own bills and so many women left me but I'm a author now my book will be finished in a few weeks and it feels so awesome fellas don't stop believing 💪🏽💪🏽
Love this- good shit homie
Congratulations on that book
Amen.
What kind of book? Fiction or non-fiction?
That's brilliant brother..... much love from south Africa 🇿🇦
To all my brothers who are going through a break: Don’t run from it, GO THROUGH IT❗️ I had my heart broken the beginning of 2020. I won’t tell you it was easy, cause I’m just now getting over it. But what I WILL SAY is there are SO MANY WOMEN that find you ATTRACTIVE that you don’t even know or have seen YET! I P R O M I S E YOU, The woman that left you IS NOT the best you can do… I PROMISE YOU THIS! Put yourself out there and watch how women notice you💪🏾💯
bet
TAAAAAALK!!!!!!! THAT!!!!! TAAAAAALK!!!!
FACTS,
SUPERDUPER FACTS,
I WISH I WOULDVE KNOWN😍🤩 EARLIER,
🙏🙏🙏 2 months since she dumped me, I'm gonna trust in the process
2 weeks ago she told me she wanted a divorce and we've already signed the papers. Fucking sucks she acts like it's nothing not one emotion 15 years together we were each other's first everything we been together since high-school. Been through so much together but now I'm nothing.
@@Mark24Dieselbrother I needed to read this thank you fam! God bless you.
SHE NEVER WAS YOURS IT WAS JUST YOUR TURN- One of my favorite quotes. Keep your head up my fellow mates. You feel heart broken because your ego has been distorted. Your heart is not broken or shattered or else you would be dead. Your view of yourself is fragile . Not being validated by her created a shift in your ego. You put to much emphasis on her to. Validate yourself first and you will never have this problem again. Now go become great and never look back.
Yes!!! Well said!!!
I was more annoyed with myself for allowing myself to get played! Should have seen it coming
@@ptrichie71 no brother ! Don't get down on yourself. We can never truly see everything. As men we trust and that's a good thing. Remember they broke that trust. Head held high...always.
@@awilliams310 Cheers bud! I do have to say though that I've brushed this one off n taken it a lot quicker than I have in this past! This time it literally has been "oh OK that's how you want to play it" n boom I've dropped her like flicking a switch rather than the mopping about
💯 this
NO MATTER WHAT !!!! NEVER EVER EVER EVER take her back … history ALWAYS repeats itself !!!! Guys YOU are the prize ! You hold the seed … alright know this !! Stop 🛑 just stop 🛑 first of all it’s a want not a need ! Concentrate on you and how you can be the best version of you .. then and only then GOD will bring the RIGHT woman to you because you’re ready and you have proven that to YOURSELF !!!
Facts
Thank brother for uplifting us men. We need to support one another
So true 👍.
Take her back. Beat her back out and give her back to the streets.
Thanks man 👨 🙏
Men, you number one goal should not to be kind. Not to be happy. Not to have hot tail.
Your goal should be to be intellectually, morally, psychologically, and physically strong. Go to that gym. Get that degree. Solve your issues with depression. Go to church/mosque/temple or whatever.
You will be amazed at what an amazing man you will be.
One thing I learn is no one will regret losing you if you don't work on yourself. It's that simple.
I don't want my ex back
One of my mom's favorite quotes in fact was "the best revenge is to live well." Don't even waste any energy on the past and convert that into work at the gym as Andrew Tate points out you cannot destroy energy, it can only be converted. One of the basic laws of nature.
💯💯
I really needed this today bro; 7 year relationship down the drain and I’ve been miserable for months whilst she’s with someone else … no more, no more being invested in something and someone that no longer exists.
If they don’t see your value then that’s their loss. Ive been levelling up and the grind continues
And she will do the other guy the same way .
Talk to god.
Love god
Ask for your wishes
God loves man.
Keep your head up and go through your pain, that’s your healing process, you’ll come out it stronger than ever, and no other woman will ever play with your heart again
Shes his problem now
I was married 7 years; I understand! Level-Up spiritually and financially and watch it all come together. Some people are trapped in their misery and they try to pull you in, but it doesn't work, so they leave!
Stay strong bro, dont give in to the what if emotions.. it hurts but youll be a better and stronger man in the future . Stay busy and motivated 💪 💯
I'm going through it right now, everytime I lose myself and start thinking and stressing over her, I turn your videos on as a reminder. Thank you for this brother 🤜🤛
💯
Bro…
Wen in doubt focus on your pride.
Stay strong
You stay strong brother. You are way more valuable than you think you are.
Went from getting my Ex back to getting myself back. Its a shame they always have to find out too late.
They always too late
13 Months of Walking Away from my Toxic Narc Ex Girlfriend. No Contact Total Silence. Staying that Way. I don't like being disrespected Used and taken for Granted. And Future Faked. She lost me she hasn't even begun to realize it yet but she will. 15 years of dating this girl. Her LOSS. Me banging that $$$$$ Working Out Daily Walks always Dress nice clean cut. Stay Radio Silent. Keep doing herself. Cut them off. If I find out she was RODE hard and put away WET. Stay Gone. I'm old school your Ass is GONE. Good VIDEO. Shaun.
Good shit bro, stay strong. They always regret it. Keep grinding my man and thanks for watching! 🙏🏻
Narcs are the worst man. Glad you put boundaries. Narcs will never and can never change.
@Kyuku yup they only love themselves and see people as objects. They can NOT love. They are UNABLE to
@Kyuku
Yo, Kyuka I felt a lot of anger and hurt when I decided that I had enough of the Toxic situation I was in. I spent a lot time, energy, $$$$ resources. For someone who was just taking and not putting back in.
Trust me she is a Legitimate Toxic Narc. Selfish, Insecure, Jealous, No Empathy and always the Poor Victim. Manipulator. I don't need her Closure. Me walking away from her will have to do. Like RC Blakes Jr. said the one who broke you is not gonna be the one to fix you.
@@ShaunZachary Good Channel Right here.
I've been in two different situations with two different women who treated me like that. They ultimately tried to make their way back to me and they felt the loss just like what was discussed in the video. I "leveled up" and moved on from them. Like what was said in the video I stopped caring about them and a year later in both situations they tried coming back. I treated them like they treated me. They were invisible to me just like I was to them. Once gone forever gone. My motto is "Never give someone a second chance especially when they didn't see fit to give you a chance with them in the first place".
If she didn't appreciate you at your worst, she doesn't deserve to be with you at your best!
@@davidrivas6412 amen to that!
Facts
Tru fact
@@fml5910 she was showing the signs of not wanting to be with you on the level that you were hoping her to be with you. Secondly, her actions are revealing and confirming that her heart isn't with you by what happened. In all honesty and due respect for you, move on with your life......without her. Move on and keep moving on and don't ever go back to her. She wants this other guy and let her have him! Personally, I have never taken back a female who treated me with this kind of disregard, contempt and disrespect. If she ever tries to come back to you in the way that you have hoped for in the past remind her of how she made you feel like just now. I've had to do that before. I'd also remind her that later is simply a term that means much too late with an "R" at the end of it. Believe it or not, people say that once you love someone else you will love them always but that's not true. Always stay focused on why this situation has ended and believe me that your feelings about her will change. I've done it a few times in my life and it's an effective way to cast out the garbage to the curb where it belongs.
You are absolutely right Coach. It's her loss not mine. She will regret everything. She's not the only woman in this world. With all the kindness I had given to her and her family, the love and care. For nonsense reasons she gave up on me. I am always there for her in all her needs. You are right, she will really feel bad of losing me. Thank you so much for your advices.
Hi Coach, I need your advice please and thank you. I had 3 things that she gave me during our relationship. Do you think it's good to return it back to make her feel bad and regret what she have done? Just returning by dropping it without talking and leave. A slap on her face and let her feel the pain as well. What do you think Coach? Thank you
@@believe3402 thk u
This is helping thk u
They do not want to admit when they are wrong and will blame you for the issues. You are 100 percent CORRECT!! Especially being with a avoidant.
I was lied to, gaslighted, mistreated, and disrespected by my soon to be ex wife. This was even after her five month affair. I built up the courage to file for divorce. I don't need judgements. Everyone says what they would do, but different when it happens to you and have to break up a family. But she left me with no choice. I have listened to this many times and has helped me finally make the right decision. Thank you
Blessings to you during a difficult period of your life. Maintain your spirits and keep your head up. You’ve been to the bottom, the only way from here is ⬆️. Keep going bro- I’m glad this video has helped you.
i dont get how dudes think their marriage is the one that aint gunna fck up like all the rest..
It’s a year later how did you get on brother
Hope everything worked out for you
I'm a woman who listened to your video. I'm glad to read comments that men also suffer from breakups too. We've all entertained the wrong people too long. Let's try out best to move on so we can find the loves who really want US!!
Soooo, you didn't know that men too suffer from breakups??? smh...Unreal.
@@thickseed It helps to read these comments especially when in my experience, men were too proud to show these feelings, which I respect.
@@lunallena5594 Got it.
Men suffer more lol prime example of a delusional woman
@@lunallena5594 not too proud just realistic and mature enough to not share feelings with female in order to make them weak like women use to proceed.😅
As soon as you said, women are fantastic at choosing the wrong men and the cats analogy. I knew this vid was going to be a banger💯
Lol..... true stuff!!!!
Ain't that the truth brother !!! Preach !!!!!! 💪💪💪💪💪💪
I've got an ex I dumped 22 years ago still contacting me... she's unmarried and has a bunch of dogs now. I'm still in the gym and dating women 20 years younger than me...
"A bunch of dogs" lol
Maybe don’t be a kunt
And you both are unhappy. Sad.
@@marguskiis7711 just because you'd be unhappy leaving losers behind and improving yourself doesn't mean I am.
@@billyberger2462 dating young kids sounds desperate tho.
I dated this girl who was quite younger than me. I'm 50 and she's 27. We dated for 7 months and it got serious. She said she was ready to take our relationship to the next level. Then 1 month later she wrote this long text about how she needs to start a new chapter in her life and we need to part ways. I simply said " good luck in life. I hope you get what you want ". I haven't talked or texted her since. She's one of a million, not one in a million. Remember that guys.
too young...they usually on meds anf jump from feeling to feeling...at any rate you are fifty..you only supposed to be nutting once a month, ...
She realized you were too old man, ain't nothing wrong with that and it's something you should have considered since the beginning
Everything that you said was true. Was married for 12.5 years and she went out to the streets and got pumped and dumped then ran to me for two weeks and I ended it as I asked her are you still sleeping with that married dude and she said yes and that she loves him. So I grabbed my shit and I bounced. It’s now 7 years later and I own my own home, new job and doubled my wage! I’m still single in which I’m perfectly content because I can do what I want and who I want.
I So needed this!!! My Ex of 7 years broke off our engagement out of no where! We never argued nor even raised our voices at each other. Things went south when she started hanging out with a younger woman who just recently broke up with her dude and Wild n out. My ex found her exciting and began to always have her head wedged up the young girls ass. When she started staying out till 4am not taking my calls text nor calling back and lying about her where bouts, I took my ring back, I later found out they were at some dudes house. Then She broke it off with me.
Thank you Shuan for this video
@@SunsetCliffssurfers yes that's what I. Doing now radio silence.
Thank you
As a man that got done dirty, you dodged the bullet like keanu bro. I went radio silence and it was the best thing I could have done.
No contact for life! Don’t be weak and respond ever again!
Don’t EVER respond again
That's what sluts do.
Let them go,we always win in the end. I own my home🏡,cars and everything inside with money in the bank don't need her
You’re correct !!!! I’m with you
My mistake was putting her on a pedestal and sacrificing what i really wanted for her own benefit. Not ever again! 4 years and almost married, just for her to find a rebound real quick. I went ghost mode and deactivated all of my social media and now just focusing on myself, body, spirituality, and money.
This is exactly what happened to me she broke things off with me. Then after a year no contact she texts me out of nowhere trying to get back together lmao I simply ignored and pressed delete and still to this day she continues to bother me.
YESSSSS!!! Thank you for this! People and especially ex-girlfriends, need to learn how to appreciate what they got before it's gone for good! People treat each-other like they are disposable, but then expects to have a fruitful and fulfilling future life!
Solid work bro. They always come back when you show strength
Lol seriously? What type of things does she say?
That grass wasn't greener over there....Let her be the woman of the land that she is.
@@marcusjones1432 Im definitely going to remember that one
Guys.. only real thing that will make her regret. WHEN YOU DON'T CARE SHE REGRET IT OR NOT. Take charge of your life and be a better and stronger person. Once you throw a garbage in the dustbin it's of no use to you. Don't keep searching in it again! 😉😏👍
I was the one who broke off a relationship after 2 months with a girl I was very infatuated with. With every fiber in my being i tried to be so respectful, patient, understanding, inspiring and comforting. Introduced her to my entire world and I am reserved person. Gave this girl my everything I had to give. I ignored red flag after red flag until eventually I felt so unappreciated that I ended it.
Gentlemen, it's almost impossible for me to feel guilty or regret my decision because I gave all I had to give in that relationship that was appropriate for that short time spent together. I was still able to walk away with my head up high because I did my absolute best and more importantly than that is, I valued my individual happiness.
in other words she was getting her back blown out by Chad , putting wevery fibre of his being in that box
@HolyRollerTV lol nah that was me, she just wanted to be miserable
Listening to this on repeat while forgetting the ex I did everything for only to be brutally disrespected at the end
There was this girl once who I really like but I got rejected again and again even after telling how much I loved her and cared about her, I got dejected and started chasing her with no success, even got depressed, but she kept enjoying her life to the fullest. Then one day I decided to be mentally strong and stopped doing all this like thinking about her and went on with my life and started enjoying things without her, got in best shape of my life with a 6 pack abs and bought a new car and even started flirting with a new girl at the gym. Then she approached me and said she liked me, I snapped instantly and said to her shut the hell up and f**k off. The reaction on her face was priceless, she even cried. I didn't want to make her feel this way but trust me she deserved every bit of it.
😂😂😂
God has already laid out his law in the universe........no matter how, when, why, who, or where, good always overcomes evil. When good guys get played or mistreated, it may be hell right then, but in the long run the player played and mistreated herself. Her realization and awareness is awakened too late. It's just more evident and powerful once the shoe is "on her foot." Blessings to you and all of our other brothers out there. Thanks for this video. I've witnessed this truth a number of times in my life......a couple of them over 16 years later missing me all that time. Thanks for what you do my brother. May God continue to bless you!
you must understand that women are prepared to suffer just so that they dnt have to live out their days with some average loser....they dnt really care about a soft dudes sob story of being hurt and broken hearted ..and why should they..real dudes dnt putthem selves in that predicament where their lives are based around a woman...some dudes have self deleted because they put a woman before everything... women have been leaving men since time immemorial, and still dfudes think that their marriage is going to be the exception of the ages....
TRUTH!!! Funny how after you put that work into yourself you’re embarrassed to admit that you even wanted the women who broke you’re heart!
Facts 💯
She won’t regret. Just move to another chapter
Yeah I agree with you. It's a dumb idea in this community
After I have been treating the girl that I was with like a Queen,being respectful and a gentleman,she kicked me to the curb she had me questioning myself wondering what I have done wrong it’s crazy!
damn bro
This 💯 my ex wife tried to monkey branch to her friends husband our neighbours! He didn't want her serious of cours when I went away and went from Overweight comfortable middle aged husband to hot in shape divorced dad and other females wanted to take her place some of these woman were friends! Guess who was desperate for old loyal husband back and our family back together, we have a ten year old son, no thanks once a woman shows you who she is believe her, keep pushing guys all the best from your British allies from across the pond 🇺🇸🏴🇬🇧
damn, women like this over there too?😭
@@KrishnaChrist11 yes mate you see British towns and cities on a Friday Saturday night they fight more than the men 👊😂
@@carlmarch9591 Hope all is well brother🫡
This man said, Nothing but facts 💯
Man thank you brotha!! I needed to hear this. Subbed!! My wife been cheating for 5 months until I caught her. I almost simped out, but I woke up, said if she cheated on you and you take her back, "what's to say she won't do it again?" So I bounced.
There’s no coming back from that bro. Glad you walked away. She will regret it for sure. You’ll find better just focus on improving
I was just listening to xxxtentacion crying over my ex but your video snapped me back into reality. Thanks man, needed to hear that.
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Yes, try not to listen to, read, or watch anything that gets you down, depressed, or to miss your x. Some pugilistic sport like boxing is fantastic at a time like a post breakup. It will increase your self confidence 200%. I am not joking either. Or, weight lifting is so good too. They are very masculine things to do, and will make you feel good. Plus you get in way better shape. Just ideas Smoker. main thing is, do things that YOU like. Hobbies are a great start, or just reading a book before bed. I am going through it now myself. Try to think of yourself as a warrior Samurai. They were fantastic fighters, yet read books, painted, grew gardens, wrote poetry, and studied to learn. Stay strong. One day at a time, small steps.
You are a Jedi Master. I needed to hear this a year ago. I will NEVER chase another woman ever again!
It been 5 years since me and her broke up.
I done everything wrong trying to get her back.
I should have stayed silent and focused on me but I put her in the forefront and now i look back and regret being that weak person.
It only causes shame , so fellows .. move on and become the best version of you.
Something better is waiting .
Underrated Channel. Keep it up because the value you are giving to us is really going to bring your channel to shine👌🏼
Man I appreciate that, fam! 🙏🏻 and I certainly will
@@ShaunZachary Best wishes Brother 👊🏼
Love this Man
Bro you are so f****** real stay real 100
Needed to hear this bro
If she plays hard to get ignore her.
When she comes back, call her out on her behavior; for instance, if you asked her out for Friday night and she declined without offering another day, ignore her. When she returns tell her you thought she was disinterested (because you did).
If she does not apologize (an excuse is not an apology) tell her you lost romantic interest in her (because you did).
If she does apologize, consider giving her another chance.
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That was just my way of agreeing and that you gotta be tough minded with these chicks bro 💪🏼
@@ShaunZachary yep
Precisely. Men have to understand that it is better to walk away with dignity than chase a woman and look like a fool.
When a person is kind but very strong, nothing can beat them and even if they get treated badly, they will have the last laugh.
100% true. Women always think they can do better. They always reject guys that would make really good boyfriends and husbands because often those guys seem “boring”. Then, once they get a little older, they find themselves single and lonely and wonder what happened. At least as men we have an advantage because we can always date younger as long as we’re successful in life but it doesn’t work the other way around.
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After 25 years and a family my wife at 47 had affair , I was terrified - I did all I could to save our marriage and family for two years and she just became very abusive and left at 50 to be a single mom. I gave her a good life app
Paid for vacations security and it makes no sense what she did this besides saying she wants real love? She said we had ups and downs , what a joke all relationships do. I’m suffering now and hurting but all my fitness and family say it’s the best thing and she’s a narcissistic abuser - she never apologized for anything and blamed me for everything !!!
I won't lie, I've failed initially on radio silence. I realised she'll never see the wrong she did. Been 2 months, investing all that energy in myself. Imma get there. I needed this.
Yeah she changes like the wind ..for sure ...
Good video. The problem a lot of us run into, is when we get to thinking that our situation is "different"... especially if we knew that person in our younger years. Yes, none of our stories are exactly the same, however most of them end the same way. We don't recieve our true blessingz, until we fully let go. Them coming back around usually isn't a good thing... especially when you know for yourself that it was WRONG for them to have left you in the first place.
You hit the nail on the head with what you said man my issue is that we were together for 10 years, married for 5 years and have 2 children together. So it sucks that i cant completely leave her in the dust! Still have to communicate with her so i can be there for my girls.
Nailed it. I just got back into dating a couple weeks ago and immediately ran into two women exactly the way you describe. Let them go, quick. It'll cost a lot less time and money.
People who love you dont leave you. My only comfort was God this is what his word says 1st Corinthians ch 7:15 "But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the believing husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace."
I loved my last ex but once she pushed me too much, I walked away.
@@colbalt95 Yeah relationship are difficult, i feel you
And the lord said amen,well said brother
He’s speaking straight facts fellas!!! Level yourself up!!! New subscriber!!!
Welcome bro 🙏🏻
I did need to hear this...currently in a similar situation. Self improvement.
That is 100% right about the no apology they just turn it around and make out like you never tried and all the things that you did wrong even tho mistakes were made because of how they treated you in the first place
If a version of yourself must die to begin the new you. Then be it, dont be afraid. The pain is a lesson, dont forget it. Ascend and be the universe. Hurt and pain is also part of living. Love yourself before loving others🙏🏻
God saw what ever things we did, He will be the judge in a relationship who will be removed.
Good video. Sound advice. In my own experience it’s true the biggest mistake you can make is to chase them. They only run faster but now having two guys after then only makes her feel flattered she’s so desired and she’s loving your pain. Cut them loose. Go 100% no communication. Never take them back. Keep building yourself. This is the recipe.
Much needed perfect timing I need to re focus on my goals no more chasing losing my respect and power
Dude ain’t lying at all … BIG FACTS !!!!
What happens when you chase a cat? The cat hops in bed with a rat! Lol.
I feel you, bro, respect your channel man.
One love, one heart and one foundation👊🏾
Appreciate you bro 🙏🏻
This video should be a mandatory watch for all men
Agreed
I needed every single second and every single word of this. I’m walking outside with this in my earbuds on repeat today. Thank you bro. It starts with focusing on me. Not chasing a cat today.
Thank you brother 🙏 💙, I really need to hear this and you're absolutely right, modern females do have a hard time with accountability and admitting that they're wrong. I'm gonna move on from the girl i'm talking to because she been playing games and leading me on and then ghosting me for no reason.
Silence Speaks Volumes (Don't even respond if she tries to slither her way back into your life period)
I've been here before. Remember men that you are the prize. Protect you time energy money and attention. Great video
God bless you my good brother! I've been broken by my wife. Kicked to the curb and she's kept everything!
Man…… this dude straight telling the truth!!!
My lady I’ve been with for 8 years just broke up with me.. I’ve been trying to her back.. she told me all kinds of crazy stuff. Blamed everything on me. She held no accountability. She was always in her head.. always breaking up with me.. I’m hurting.. but I’ll be alright.
Hey guys it's ok truth be told in real life a lot of them won't regret losing you. And you'll be just fine without those people.
Yeah most people are scum. Unfortunate reality a lot of us have to learn the hard way
8 year relationship gone. That was 6 months ago. It really made me level up. Better off now than ever.
Keep going bro, it gets better
Got out of a relationship with a girl that most likely has borderline personality disorder. One of the most miserable things I’ve went through. Cheated on multiple times, lied to, manipulated. Things were so amazing and one day it flipped 180, craziest thing ever. And she had the guts to say this is just goodbye for now….
Going through thesame thing right now after 4 years of giving, love and loyalty. Its week 2 now and gutted i cant understand anything of it..
How did it flip? Any signals or tells in hindsight about the cheating and manipulation/lies?
Same brother, got future faked manipulated all that
I made that mistake, I got emotional, begged and cried, i picked my self and got my own car apt and another excellent job (CDL class A)
@Kirk Huggins Jr- the main part is you picked yourself up brother. If men are truly honest, we get emotional, etc when a loved one leaves. Begging and crying to keep someone never works, believe me I know first hand. It hurts, but tomorrow comes, and when that fire ignites, oh brother you're on your way to being the Best version of yourself...
@@Frank1life2live man it was so painful I cried like a baby, almost suicidal bro, but something in me said no no no, don't do it, get up
@@kirkhugginsjr9317 the liar, the deceiver would have truly wanted you to do that, I know this first hand as well. But out of the ashes, when you couldn't do it no more, rises a New Man...Peace to you brother. I'm praying for you Kirk. As I've heard before, chase excellence not women. But I want to add, chase Jesus....
@@Frank1life2live continue to pray for me, I on a journey to greatness
It's F*CKING AMAZING how the Universe works!
I'm going through something RIGHT NOW that this video just hit home on!
Thank you my Friends, greatly appreciated, I needed this!
Same here bro stay up
Yes !! i too find it strange that the universe is working in my favor also , stay blessed 🙏🙏🙏
All I did the last couple of weeks was loathe to myself, blaming myself and missing her so. I love your video, makes me feel that I'm getting my power back.
This dude’s energy be having me crying. 😂 I love this channel.
Thanks bro!
Not laughing anymore, dude. This is solid advice.
“Oh wait I’ll answer that for you, I DID!” 🤣🤣
This dude breaking it down well!🙌🏾
Just put your work in fellas and watch how the tides change. Work hard on being a better you. Guaranteed.
MAKE IT HAPPEN KINGS.
3 year relationship and she ended things because she wasnt "In love with me anymore" did everything for her. Did my best. I doubt she will find someone who treats her like I did.
I had a dark cloud feeling over me from a relationship i am currently in.It was good at first but after a couple of years i notice a change in her behavior. But watching this video made me feel a lot better about myself to move on with my life. I'm glad i came across your video. You dropped some Gems.. Much Respect. Blessings...
“Those sweet nothings” nothing but facts bro,keep up the great work,u gotta sub!!
Yep… unfortunately I said regrettable things in the heat of the moment when she broke it off; and that the first thing she brought up when I attempted to speak to her again and apologize.
I'm a woman and he says nothing but facts
Respect ✊🏼 thanks for watching!
Thanks for your honesty ❤
Spot on 100 %! I wish I could like more than once. I've been RP for a long time; but the information is like scripture, and I can never get enough! keep spreading the gospel brother!
I like how you speak sooo chilled it’s relaxing
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Silence is the key💯 never let her back in your life ever💪 onGod>
Bro u spoke the truth I bin whit her for 15 years had 5 kids whit her gave her everything an moving mountain s an puff just left me whit out any fight or fixing .I started to focus on me an my kids Bc they wanted to b whit me everything I lost I’m regaining back in my life an living stress free
the expression 'what doesnt kill you makes you stronger' helps me sometimes. thanks Bro for the video. i.was sitting here depressed but coming out of it now.
I love the tone of your voice my brother, you can tell that you mean every single word that comes out of your mouth! Keep preaching the good word!
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🙏🏽 thank you cause you nailed it. I have moved on, leveled up and my energy and confidence is coming back, feels good not to cry over her anymore. Thank you bro
Everything you’re saying is right on point. I begged when I shouldn’t have. I did everything I could, even stayed in the state since I have gotten the career I wanted. But since I thought she would appreciate, it would secure the deal. You’re right that sh*t don’t matter. I stopped caring and I forgive still her for what she did. I’m not pointing who was right or wrong because I forgave her anyway. I’m moving on. Thanks for validating things!!!
Thanks for the Upliftment King!
Anytime brodie 🤜🏼 🤛🏼
You just summed up the situation i'm in right now. I have a babyboy of 2 years with my ex. Bought a house and car together. Was settling down with her. Only to realise that she was cheating on me with a guy she met on a online dating site. She broke me like hell, but what you just said, i didn't do it at first. My heart rages of anger. But now after a month, i gave her the radio silence and we'll see what happens. Thank you for this video, my inner self needed this
You have outlined my story to a tee... thanks bro...
Thank you for TELLING these heartbroken men(including myself) what they NEED to be TOLD to feel and get BETTER
Stay up ⬆️ my G