Her Options Don't Matter
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- čas přidán 13. 06. 2023
- Her other options don't matter. Become her best option.
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If a woman leaves you just continue to self improve & chase after your purpose. If that woman circles around & tries to get back with you after you've put in the work on building your life up you just decline & keep it moving. A woman who leaves you doesn't deserve a second chance.
My man out here saving lives. Im 43 but man i could have used you all when i was 19,20. I clicked on Kevin Samuels 2 years ago and i get this type of content all the time. Here it is with these women, they will play on you being vulnerable and insecure if you are. They will tell you they last boyfriend rich as Michael Jordan, built like the Rock, looks like Shemar Moore, fun,outgoing, clouted up. Blah,blah,blah,blah. If thats the case, why was she available in the first place? She got so many options why is her baby daddy ( if you deal with women with kids) a loser who plays in a local jazz band? In reality her ex more closer to looking like Seal or Biggie Smalls and is underproductive and just get high, drink and kick it. The same dude at her job or in her inbox is also approaching 100 other women, she not special. 350 pound women get approached that look like Precious, so is getting " hollered at" that impressive? If you work on you the positive effects are 2 fold. You raise your value and self worth and in the process eliminate gold diggers and women who need validation and attention from social media. They want it all right now and unless you hit the lottery, everything is a process. You see Lebron and Diddy luxurious homes, cars and lifestyle. What we dont see is the 430am wakeups,the hours of work and practice. Be the best you. If you gonna be the next Jayz or superstar athlete, or the best truck driver or security guard, be that and maximize your time. Let me leave you guys with this: Less than 15 percent of the population make $75k a year. Less than 10 percent in America make $100k. That includes males and females of ALL races. So how many guys are you " competing" with that really have that life? Not as many as you think. And if they do, they probably dont want nothing from her but some😼. And why would that stress you? She wasnt a virgin when you met her. You worried about something that was never yours. Thanks for the video and great content!
Real talk bro 👊🏾❤️
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The music adds extra impact I zoned in more
Glad you enjoyed fam
That's why a man should focus on his purpose in life .. and not chase period, womens come and go how I see it ... Another great video 💪🏿👐🏿 📸
Man’s got that guitar type beat in the background 😂love the soothing music in the back
I agree just by the title alone. Listen, as an old head I been down this road. When you right, it never matters what her options are because it's really not your concern anymore. All you need to know is what you need, and want to do. Focus and never look back. Do not let them get to you.
The irony is that many people here are already somebody's best option, and the rest will also be, if they just cut down on their simping 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He's right. Never underestimate the power of the energy you put out to the universe.
The more that time goes on, the more indifference I feel towards my ex. The best use of time is as you expressed in this video. To work on yourself. Do it for YOU and nobody else.
Women are gonna have options, that’s how the game works. What matters is how WE as individuals act. If she wants to mess around and leave then she isn’t the one for you anyway.
This came at the right time for me. I have this attractive girl always mentioning guys that are interested in her. At first i was effected by it spending all my free time. Then one day i woke up and said wtf am i doing . I did no contact for a week. She contacted me and we were good and i am changed now whenever she might try to play that little game i say i know who i am if you want someone else theres the door its amazing how when u show a attractive girl you dont give a damn if they stay or leave you change the game and gain all the power . Good Video Brother Liked and Subbed .
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I agree with what your saying. However, if a person is TRUELY in lovenwith you, she won't HAVE the urge to entertain her "options". She'll be fully vested in you. Period.
Agree Bullfrog. If a broad throws up other males in your face, then she is for the streets. First off, it is beyond rude to put that in your face. Second, it shows that she is playing games with you, and is not serious. If she throws up her options, then in the back of her mind she has it in her mind that if someone else came along she really liked, or the opportunity arise, she would monkey branch to that person, or have an affair with them. 99% of these broads just want to ride the C carousel.
And if you put out the energy that you're too into what her options are she will pick up on that scarcity mindset and insecurity and immediately become uninterested.
Facts bro
Unbreakable determination 💪🏾
Probably your best video here Shaun. Spot on as usual. I needed to hear this today to remind me who the f*** I am. Thank you brother.
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This can be hard fellas
Most times logic cant help feelings. But please, hang in there. Its water under the bridge
Let's goooo
Bro that background music 🎶 is 🔥🔥🔥
I went on a date and this girl was steady on her phone. I excused myself and I think she thought I went to bathroom but I left. 10 min later she text me with “ did you leave in the middle of our date” I said I wasn’t on a date. She said oh no well what do you call it. I said “ you were on a date with your phone and I was just a bystander” she said “ all u had to do is say something” I said “ I am not hear to teach you things your parents should have, good luck “. This woman would not leave me alone after that.
"You say hah" bro I like simple concepts that rattle around in my brain at the right times. Thanks for this
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This video is diamond worth...
Man Shaun, you're so right...but it is a bit difficult to develop this mentality, specially if you don't have good private areas in your life and you already know that (im talking about a good house, enough money, never had "physical contact" with a girl...). Some lifes aren't very easy and dealing with some girls it is a challenge, but i think that if she doesn't want you and she proved with her actions, when you stop caring and she does the same...you realize how she never valued anything about you. It's easy to learn the theory, but apply the things, it's different. But hey, that's helpful to keep growing, at least, you know how does it feel to be a man who doesn't care and is moving on to improve his life. Thank you again Shaun, bless you.
keep leveling up bro
@@AlphaJulietGolf i will
My guy!! You keep me going.
Superb message!!!👏
Yessir keep preaching.🫡💪🏾
Shaun keep the heat coming 🔥
Total truth....... Keep up the excellent work.
You legit helping people out💯🙏
thanks G for another video. good morning shaun and good morning kings.
Have a good day bro ✊🏼
Thank you shaun. My life is better because of your videos. Greetings from Somalia.
Blessings bro
Thank you Shaun, you are helping many men out there.
I was showing her to much,before I really got to know her
i remember years ago being mentally trauma bonded by a narcissist. Always makin me feel less than. Insecure all of the above. Def use to be stressin about her cheatin so on so forth. Till one day i just got tired of that shit broke up with her cut communicacion did exactly what you talkin bout got my money up got in shape….. guess who hittin me up now. Through experience you spittin facts…. Fellas stop and realize she is slowing you down from greatness
That was a hard core good move to dump her. Way to go.
@@williamconrad6561 yea man if you really were a good dude. They will always remember… it just takes time
100% facts brother. Thank you for the video 👊🏾
You bet
you know shaun every word u said i told myself that before lovinng yourself is the key like loving yourself first thats the priority ,,
Thank you
Another fire video dropping facts as usual. Appreciate this post bro
My guy appreciate you
Excellent
Great channel bro
i been thru the same shit, good to meet someone who i can relate to
Thank you 🙏🏼
Dude you're the goat. Thanks.
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God bless Sean. Love this channel brodie. Peace ✌🏽
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Strong positive advice , thanks bro.
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A brilliant video Shaun. I find your content inspiring and I am finding my breakup a few months back is a huge motivation to improve myself.
Keep grinding 💪🏼
Background music is A1
Shaun your channel is the best I've seen Bro. I've watched a lot of them too. You have a way about getting the info to us viewers like nobody else. Plus when you do SIMP BOB it's just hilarious! BHAHALOL! L&R Bro. GO HAWKS & GO BULLS!
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Thank you Shaun for this. I hear my old man whilst hearing you talk. Self improvement is essential.
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#1. Número uno fellas
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Great subject thank you 👍
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very good message.
The only thing I would change about the video is the music. Too soft for such a powerful message.
Music in backgrounsd is sleepy but message is on point
Keep coaching, a lot of men need to hear this level of education
I’m Michael Vick running an option…
“IM THE BEST OPTION” 😂
Keep up the great content !
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I think that if a broad is rubbing her other options on your face then she is playing games tryng to play with your emotions. If she truly reapected you, and was serious about you then she would not be doing that. It would be a good idea to not take her as seruous GF material. Just use her for recreational purposes only, or dump her ass. These hos know exactly what they are doing Boys.
It's mess up how women play mind,games instead of being true,that's how you know she haves options,and she,s greedy
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Great content as always, Shaun !! Though bro, I do have a quick question.. If a man is working on himself, mind body and soul. I'm hitting the gym 5- 6 days a week. I'm studying my ass off for security + certification to further my IT career. At my age I should definitely know this, But I'd like to get your perspective because you've been right about everything since I started watching you last June when she left me. When I look back under that she did me a favor.
But my question is is while i'm working on my self-improvement and better in myself and my life and my career, is it okay to dabble into dating with no expectations to get out a little ?
Thank you again for all that you do for us guys, You've been a voice ... A wake-up call to a lot of us.
Absolutely bro- I say date with no expectations as long as you aren’t falling in love in two weeks and getting off course. Let them know upfront what season of life you are in. Use this time as “practice” to work on everything you’ve been learning.
@@ShaunZachary Exactly, that's what I'm doing thus far... dating with no expectations and having fun wild not giving a care. But also making sure I stay focused on the big picture "Me". Building the best version of myself, being a terminator and going for it and not allowing any obstacles to veer me from my mission/goal. Thank you again bro for your consistency and dedication. Excited for the next video!!
Side note…is there a link to the intro song?
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Perfect, except for the sadass background music
More people complaining about classic guitar and probably never tried to play one. Let her go and move on. They always come back, every time. If I wasn't the best option why do they come back? Because I am the prize.
Some would say second best .. i guess it's matter of perspective
Sometimes they might come back because they ran out of options or something went wrong in their old relationship. Either way, I would never go back.
i’m young early 20s and i actually really liked this girl, she’s around my age, i know we’re young for anything serious but yea.. but now she with a 30 year old who left his pregnant girl who he was always cheating on to be with her, she moved in with him after like 2 weeks of dating and told me she’s getting married in a few months .. wonder what’s in store for her lmao i was actually gonna look after her like a dumbass (it’s more common in my culture to get together young)
Yo next track, do the beat, from suga-free and DJ quik, do I love it do I need her.. have that in the background, do I love or do I need her, or the beat I'd rather give you my bitch! Buy suga-free... I mean dude has a whole album called smell my finger... Yo I'm telling you.. I'd rather give you my bitch! Or do I love her do I need her, I'm telling you about those are the ones dude that would fit really really really really good with what you have to say about everything bro I'm telling you my friend! Always circle back to this channel cuz it's the best one.. ty x worldwide is okay but this one's the best..
Good vid
if a woman leave u it might just be a lesson,u were never suppose to be so move on stop guessing,some say the grass is greener on the other side,she told me peace✌️i said bye bye🫡sometimes u have to dig though the mud to get to the worm,its really no ones fault but ended on her terms,keep yr head up do better in life,take care of u maybe one day youll have a beautiful wife,learn about yrself work on yr wealth .stay mentally sound improve yr health
Focus on yourself. Let women come to you. Very simple.
If you were a real one (big if) and she leaves, say good luck to her. Today’s dating climate for 20-35 year old women is laughable. Let em go and see if the grass is truly greener. She might find a diamond in the rough. But, very unlikely. And WHEN she comes back, she’ll learn actions have consequences 🤌🏼
Never be too emotionally invested in females bro
Fantastic video my dude, I'm just going to keep you when Hundo as you do with us🥇🫡 fuck that music bro, that Melody in the background is just gobbledygook! With all due respect my friend that music is literally angrying me I'm literally getting angry😂
I feel u bro thanks for watching tho 🙏🏼
I like the music. It’s peaceful
@@ShaunZachary I'll try to keep the swearing down, my bad bro I'm just a passionate human being. How to respect of course 🤝🏽
I AM the BEST OPTION 😎 if she wants to leave hasta la vista baby 🫡
If u even think about her options then ur not Top G