Signs You Should Quit Your Job Immediately - 5 Signs You Need to Leave Your Company Now!
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- Signs you should quit your job immediately - here are 5 signs you need to leave your company now. If you're wondering if you should leave your job, look for warning signs. 1. Stress or Anxiety 2. Bad Boss 3. Toxic Culture 4. Illegal Activity 5. Safety Concerns.
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As a special needs man, it is best for me working with a Toronto Ontario company protecting all special needs men and women, including sexually harassed women as that option I explain as an example and reason. The truth is no employer in any multi-million dollar company shall ever criticize, objectify, including harass, belittle, intimidate, infringe, and transgress any special needs man or woman in anyway shape and form, including me. This is because I rather work in a unionized, truthful, loyal, honest, and reasonable multi-million dollar Toronto Ontario company even as a special needs man.
I got a question : are you hitting hard on our faces or welcoming and kind?!
How about being unjustly being called out in front of other co-workers by a higher ranking executive?
Yes, this is how I feel I've been working for the county for 20 years and it's so abusive I don't give a s*** about my benefits or seniority anymore I worry about my health and I don't give a s*** if I lose money
Iâd love some feedbackâŠtaught for over 20 years then left when Covid beganâŠonly returned because couldnât find a job that paid enough for me to find an apartment (long story, had to find housing after an accident). Car died 4 weeks ago and I tried every mode of transport to get me there for the last month of school. Bus puts me 4 miles from destination and walking wouldnât get me to work on time, biking is dangerous because I wonât have access to any sidewalks, scooters are a no go for same reason and poor terrain. Tried asking coworkers but none live near me and Iâm just not that person to reach out to everyone because people can be quite flaky. Literally asking myself if I should resign at end of year because car sharing will end up eating up my check long term 5 days a week to and from and I donât know when Iâll get another car. Is this a deal breaker or am I missing something that might work. Thanks!
Sign #6: youâre watching CZcams videos everyday on why to quit your job. đ
đđđ I'm on my way to my job now watching this...I hate this job....my energy just goes down knowing I have to go in.
Welp. Ya got me lol
I hate my job sooooo much!
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I already got a new job, just trying to find out how to try to get out of wrongful quitting
You know it was a toxic job when you quit and you know you're about to go through serious financial upheaval and yet.....you have no regrets.
Start your own business...start with what you are good at...
*no regerts!*
True but I think one can just sabotage themselves to get fired and get unemployment to at least have some income till one can find something better.
Heard that!
@@tamjeanell then I'm fucked, I'm not good at anything. I don't even know what I want to do, even though I'm almost 30...
Iâve never had a problem leaving a bad job. People need to learn their worth. If you got hired once, you can get hired again.
True, for me, too.
True.
hell yeah and i do NOT give notice
â@@richardhead3211 how do you keep up with bills tho lol
@@ozzayyyy get another job
When Sunday evenings are a source of dread and existential contemplation.
When looking back, I've never regretted leaving a job, but I have regretted staying too long.
Wiser words have never been spoken.
100%!
So true
Can I quit a job in 2 months?
@@unnatigupta8141 What is your overall situation? Yes, but you can also quit today. From my personal experience there is never really going to be a good time to quit. The longer you stay there, the harder it may become to quit. When things are super bad at a particular job, and you are filled with anxiety. Can't sleep or eat properly etc.. It is best to just leave. I recently quit a toxic job, with no backup or another job lines up. I have zero regrets.
''People don't quit jobs, they quit bosses''- Simon Sinek
Exactly why I quit my last job.
Me too. I liked my security job at Parliament, but I was crying on my way home every day because of my boss.
Agreed!
Amen!
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Yep
Respect is non-negotiable. Basic human respect is part of professionalism.
However, respect is earned, not arbitrarily granted because someone âdemandsâ it. Most people are NOT respectable.
@@shawngibson7514 I don't know what t-shirt you read that on, but I was taught that professionals show respect, even if you don't like each other. That's the only way business places can ever function, considering the odd mix of people working 40+ hours together. You don't have to earn respect to be treated with respect. Strangers respect each other. Customer reps respect customers, even rude ones. Of course that respect is doled out in the domain of self-respect. Respect doesn't mean being a doormat or ignoring disrespect. You don't return hate for hate, or disprespect for disrepect, otherwise you contribute to the cycle.
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@@betsybarnicle8016 Ideally, yes. But most workplaces don't abide by this.
@@betsybarnicle8016 This is the dumbest combination of words I have read in several days. Strangers don't respect each other. Nobody respects an unruly/rude customer. You don't need to have respect for a person to be their coworker and do your job as well as anyone else. My best guess is you don't know what respect is and that is likely due to you not being a person deserving of receiving it due to your thinking respect is automatic and mandatory.
In my opinion, if you're thinking about resigning without another job offer, it's already enough
When you need to console yourself everyday in the morning right after waking up
I agree. It is soul destroying so you try to make up for that.
Yes!! Every morning asking the Lord for strength to get through the day!!! I literally wakeup 30 minutes earlier than schedule just to do this. Thinking of my toxic manager and how to avoid him. đ
Yep lots of rotten attitudes in the work place it can be so toxic. Sometimes you just have to make a change and get out of there and find non rotten people to work with and for.
i cannot count the days that i wished that the office will accidentally collapse overnight so that we can't go inside
boy have *I* been there!
HR protects the company not the employee...I learned that when I was 15 years old
Exactly. And the company protects their bottomline while expecting more for less from employees!
You are so right!!! HR protects the company and not employees. HR protect the company from lawsuits when you your read between the lines.
Yep!
They were destroying the company. It hurt to watch. Stupid ppl ;(
Exactly, which is why I don't even waste time dealing with HR.
I quit a toxic job recently. There was someone who had a seizure and he came back a few weeks later. Fast forward he ended up in hospice and passing away about a month after that. The company replaced him almost immediatly and they even ended up SELLING company. Moral of the story, Do what you love. Life is too short.
Iâve always said the job doesnât care if you live or die so long as the work gets done, if not by you then by someone else. While your family is making funeral arrangements, your job posting will be accepting applications. Your boss doesnât care that youâre gone.
đąThat could be me. That could be any of us really. You are just a number to them, a set of hands. They care not one iota about any of us and we're all absolutely replaceable.
The abovementioned story is the essence of capitalism. The old âno hard feeling, itâs just businessâ cynical saying. Sick system
Back in August of 2023, a coworker I was working with was having stomach issues and they found out later on that she had masses in her stomach and then she went into organ failure a month after going on medical leave. I was one of the last people to find out that she passed away and my boss called my dad telling him and my dad ended up telling me that she passed away. I was upset because because everybody else knew before me and my boss couldn't even tell me himself. Soon we had a memorial service at our job while customers were still there. My manager was going on about how "we are a family". In one shift my manager was saying about how my coworker would have wanted for us to go on and to keep improving our sales goal. When your boss says that you guys are family, that is translation of you're only as useful to was until you're not! Your boss is not your friend and most the time your co-workers are sheeps in wolves clothing looking for a chance to get you fired so they can have your position! Not long afterwards, I noticed that things were not the same and afterwards, I would say maybe 2 weeks to a month later we started seeing more new employees. November 2023 I got injured and had no other choice but to go on medical leave because my injury that was unrelated to work and it was so bad I was having excruciating numbness and tingling and then I started getting crippling anxiety from the pain and I was also thinking about how I let my boss and my coworkers down. My mom basically ended up being my caregiver until recently now that I am recovering. My mom went to my boss to hand them a doctor's note and said to him that if I do go back then I can't be climbing ladders for the next couple months and he told her that if I can't climb ladders and not 100% better than I shouldn't come back. I realize from that point on, I started questioning if I really wanted to work there anymore because it's not like I was asking for much other than not climbing ladders because it is a retail shop. Also corporate has gotten more greedy and before I got injured I started getting increasingly bad anxiety and depressive episodes. It's so strange that basically three or four of the five years I was working there, bad things with randomly happened with my health where I would either end up in the hospital or in a mental institution.... I'm pretty certain that even if I do decide to go back then I need to start putting my physical and mental health first and I'll probably be job hunting. I don't care if it pays less at this point because my job put so much stress on us to sell unrealistic sale goals and when we don't meet them, a lot of my co-workers end up losing hours. When my boss is not here, we have to fight in order for the managers to get us $5 bills and then we get yelled at by customers when things are out of our control. Then we have to take a monthly course about stealing when their rules literally say that there is nothing we can do about customers stealing even not even calling the police despite seeing evidence that they are stealing. Why should we have to suffer for something we can't control? We even have to wear clear purses or bags and be patted down. I work in a retail store not a security place! They are also the type of business that believes the customer is always right no matter what!
@ttx3 What? That is not capitalism. Capitalism is where the individual owns the means of production.
How is the original story in line with capitalism? Go work at the DMV (government job) and see if you get treated any better.
You are complaining about human nature, and somehow attributing it to capitalism. It makes no sense.
6. When the managers never call out the lazy workers and instead make the good workers do extra work in order to compensate for the lazy workers.
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100% agree.
Healthcare
I simply tired of it
I actually got *chewed out* for doing good things! I told management that "Raymond," an obese and chronically constipated man who lived in one of the group homes, had made a beeline for the produce section and picked out asparagus and bok choi, saying he wanted to have them again, and chose a head of napa cabbage, asking if we could try it. This got me scolded for "forcing" Raymond to eat foods I liked! What part of "He picked out the vegetables and asked if we could buy them" were they missing?
Working during this virus.. had a coworker that had it and my other co workers almost caught it, we were/still overworked, got chewed out, have 1/2 rude coworker and still no hazard pay or Atleast a Christmas bonus my one coworker quit on the spot after she witness some things, and after that cut my hours down due to â lost of moneyâ which is a lie we have been getting more money since the virus and still, so Iâll be handing in my 2 weeks notice in 2 weeks
I quit my job this morning. No prospects. I can go a few months without a pay check. That's the beauty of saving. I feel so liberated. When I breathe I can actually feel the pressure released from my body.
Don't you just love it? I did the same thing - this past Friday was my last day. I realized I had enough saved up to equal a year at my current rate of pay (and then when I compared it to my take home it was even longer), by which time I can cash out my pension savings. If I am smart with my money I can last until May 2023, which gives me plenty of time to look for a good job without having to settle for the first thing that comes along.
I'm thinking about doing this, or at least taking an unpaid sabbatical. Fed up of my very line of work and don't even want the same role at another employer.
I want a complete change but at 34 years old it's too late. You will be competing with 21-22 year olds fresh off the boat as it were.
@@mxbx307 I made a complete change at 48. I had never worked in banking before and before I was 50 I had a position I really loved - until new leadership let accountability slip and toxic personalities have their way.
Believe me, 34 isn't too late by far. One thing you've got that no 22 year old kid does, is years of experience in the work force. Even if it's not directly related to whatever you do next, kids that age are green and while they might be very well educated they're yet to learn how to apply work skills in the real world.
Facts. âđŸđđŻ
Same situation. Presented my letter as "health reasons" , which is not entirely a lie, I was suffering from chronic back pain that wasn't letting me sleep at night, but truly, I just didn't want to be there another second, all boxes above checked. Hope you find something better.
Another problem is that you really can't talk about a toxic job you just left because potential employers will think you're just a whiner and won't want to hire you. There seems to be no way to expose these companies and their bad management practices.
But they do get their karma, my former US parent company ripped off $$$$$ by AL-Quaeda, feds came a knocking, lots illegalities got exposed by lowlife boss, she got caught stealing lots $$$$$$...she lost EVERYTHING house, all $ accounts, investment license, -shes a felon !! đđđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Just say you left because their values didn't match your own. Vague enough to send the message but not specific enough it can come back to you. I tend to take the high ground on it
I know what you mean, but I left a really toxic company and I have a hard time NOT talking about it. I suffered a lot of abuse at my former employer and I watched it take its toll on many others. I tried to help some of them but they turned on me after a time and I began to realize that I was experiencing the same symptoms as they were. I even quit and got hired by another employer who was just as bad! I finally got hired by a company who seems to care about their employees and it's having a positive effect on my well being.
@@TheFixer1965I need to vent to. I just canât help it. Itâs just a way of ridding yourself of toxicity.
@@licksnkicks1166vent here. weâll listen.
Most jobs are losing value daily with massive layoffs, Last year I was working full time budgeting groceries, unable to afford date nights, and missing time with my kids just to make extra money. These days I learn how to make money online, Using my job to finance my goals, You can't be an employee forever everyone should know by now, making extra cashflow interest everyday or weekly should be the goal now.
ensure you add value to your life first not always to your employer, everyone is replaceable. I am always making sure of this to ensure my own sanity and future security.
Big ups to everyone working effortlessly trying to earn a living while building wealth even after the massive layoffs. My wife and I we are both retired with over $2 million in net worth and all paid off debts. living smart and frugal with our money, made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn passively with our asset coach.
Adapt to a lifestyle, be thrifty, set a budget, save money and build more streams.
Fine steps! you could also take advantage of some growth stocks at the moment, every pro is currently bagging some digital dips. For me, my coach Deron Cirillo my advisor has been using every opportunity to ensure I benefit, well positioned as Iâm also privy to improve.
Protect yourself against your job, Run a side business or contribute to an open earning project streamline that is unrelated to your day job, that way you develop an independent skill against layoffs.
I am not living paycheck to paycheck kellen but am feeling the squeeze from higher food, utilities & gasoline. I looked at my budget constantly & finally realized that I was paying too much for cable, internet & cell phones. It is a pain to have to renegotiate yearly but really saves money. There are places in the budget to cut & pay yourself first, really works.
High turnover is a sign that you're in a bad situation.
Facts!
Oh yeah!
Also watch out for miserable people
I went through that, it is also the sign of a narcissistic employer.
I forgot to mention above that two people had quit the job I talked about just before I got hired. One was there for two years, the other a matter of months. I didn't see the red flag at the time.
Quitting is beautiful when THEY are not expecting it.
I love that!....It's the best feeling in the world! THEY think they are running a person's life and career....NOT!
The sweetest thing
Iâm in the middle of a 2day board meeting and I am going to quit at the conclusion of the meeting. For the past 2 months Iâve lived through a toxic queen bee office set up and a totally unapproachable crappy boss. My health has been completely affected. I donât know how anyone could be successful in my position.
@@ginnyrust6874 Don't do it. The best thing you can do is this: For the next two weeks, wake up very early, be the first one there, and DO ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING that they require you to do. Go "above and beyond", even be respectful and passive with your enemies. Be what THEY WANT YOU TO BE, then "SUDDENLY" QUIT. It's the best revenge. (****Because if they see you angry and not performing, you're actually doing them a favor by quitting.)
@@eldesgraciado6690 this is exactly what I'm going to do. It's going to be sweet !!
The real problem is the simple fact that most jobs out there are toxic and not as humane as they should be. Thatâs why more people are becoming independent more than ever.
But then you have to also deal with toxic clients. One thing I learned was try to always be in the position you can fire a bad client.
Exactly
Sometimes itâs not only your job you need to walk away fromâŠ.itâs your entire profession! After 19yrs of nursing, Iâm done. I went into it to help others, not to become a patient myself before 45yrs old! We only have one short life, donât waste it being unhappy & unhealthy. Take care of yourself 1st & foremost.
Radiation therapy field has been a nightmare for me. Hours dropped, insane.
Or, teaching. Gah. The "service" professions are truly the biggest drain.
I plan on going into psych nursing myself but I'm a bit scared đ
I so agree. Iâm so done with nursing that Iâm considering taking a lesser job for variety. Good luck!
From someone who died on operating table and came back. Don't waste your life on toxic environments that bring you down physically and emotionally. You are here for a purpose and will not be able to fulfill your purpose if your physical and mental states are depleted.
Mental health is far more valuable than ANY job I learned that the hard way.
Thanks, I needed to hear this.
Exactly
Too bad it doesnât pay the bills thoughâŠ
I needed to hear this today. Thank you
I also learned it the hard way. đ I worked in a dead-end job right in half years... I left that job and end up getting a commercial driver's license
People often feel guilty about leaving a job because they don't want to disappoint their boss or co-workers, or they feel like they are screwing the company over or what if they can't find someone to fill my spot etc. but here is the thing, if the tables were turned, and getting rid of you helped their bottom line, they would do it in a heart beat. Your employer is not your friend. Your employer is not a charity. They don't pay you out of the kindness of their hearts. They pay you because you work for them. Your relationship is transactional. You owe them nothing other than the hours you work and that's it. Most companies will even throw loyal and seasoned employees under the bus to save their bottom line. It happens all the time. So NEVER feel guilty about leaving a job.
I realized this at 32, changed the whole way I started looking at things. They really view you as an interchangeable cog.
Or disappoint family
Exactly, I sell my labour to them. They do not own me.
I feel bad about losing my pay check.
Thank you! I needed to see this
I have had several toxic jobs since college but one really broke me. It was a major fortune 500 organization. I have never seen such dysfunction in a workplace. I started going to therapy on my lunch break. My therapist was like the fact you are seeing me on your lunch break is basically the universe screaming at you to get out. I quit eating, developed stomach issues and had a splitting headache constantly. I was turning to alcohol to cope in the evenings and that was when I knew it was time. That was all I needed to hear but I decided to "stick it out" for a few months. This was a mistake. I was humiliated in a meeting one day and accused of a mistake on a report I did not do. I was done...I got out and it saved my sanity honestly. No job is worth your mental or physical health.
I left my last job because of co-workers always trying to micromanage the most useless things just rude people. Power trips and bad attitudes
99.9% of HR departments/staff are there to protect the company, not help the employee in any way. They'll help you out the door. That's it.
I agree.
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Exactly! Just a part of the company that knows how to use the law to smash even more the work force
Agreed
Amazon HR for sure
When ur driving to your job and u start praying to get into a car accident and either die or go into a long coma that is when u know its time to leave ur job.
I pray that I break a leg so I can't go in the field lol. Give myself a time to catch up on writing
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đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł..i'm laughing but it's so true!
I had this feeling driving home every day. I would always try to start the day on a good note and have a good attitude, but the job sucked the life from me. Glad I'm out now
I do this often....
I was depressed, anxious, gained a lot of weight, and lived only for the weekend. Then I got laid off and I honestly feel like I'm on a surprise vacation. Depression is gone and I've already started losing weight (and it's only been 2 weeks!!)! I'm super happy đ
Only got half of my bonus though and still waiting on the severance package. Still could be worse!
I have always been teased by people in my life as a "job hopper" but pretty early on in getting into my career, I realised that if I was not happy and I was in a toxic environment where I was feeling stressed, unable to eat properly, or sleep properly, it wasn't worth it to me. My mental health got so bad once I almost unalived myself - so I refuse to allow that to continue happening. The problem is, is that so many of us are still conditioned that you just have to stfu and do your job. i have definitely struggled in advancing in my career, but I would rather stay at a low level, than destroy myself getting to the top -- not to mention, everyone at the top got up there by either who they know, or cheating their way. Hard work doesn't really get rewarded much, except for more work.
When you go home, it takes so long to relax from the stress of your day that it ruins your night too & you know the next day will start the stress all over again
This is a good description of a get-out-immediately job.
Spot on.
Muttering and chuntering yourself to sleep leads to waking up in the middle of the night. You go to work tired and then repeat
Then you think about it at bed time and dread the next day. It's a never ending cycle of doom.
@@Martin-88 yes,. I am one person that will do something about, too. I am very patient and try to stay calm, with humor, or handling things, with out blowing up. But, sometimes, things get out of hand.
Don't stay in a toxic environment. It gets you physically ill. Happened to me.
Agreed! I developed IBS and my knees gave out from all the pent up stress and anxiety at my old job. I got laid off and both those things went away or got immediately better.
@@yosy19 i am glad you got better! I developed an auto-immune disease. When i was in that hell i quit before finding a new job. I eventually found a good job where i am treated like a human being. But i still have to live with the disease. Oh well. At least i am in a nice place now. Take care!
Did you work at Walmart?
@@FireAnt376 No. I worked at a corporation famous for printing equipment and lap tops. The one with a blue logo. Or "How Pathetic". They really treat employees bad, despite their good reputation.
@@annaconsta funny, Walmart has a blue theme too, maybe we're onto something...
I have had about 12 Toxic bosses in my work history. The reason I didn't quit all of them is because I was at some time a Divorced father of two paying Child support and paying off Credit Cards. It wasn't fun, but I put my nose to the Grindstone. By December 2021 I was completely debt free and praise myself for pressing through.
bravo !
That's good you took care of your children
Kudos to you.
Love this keep it up đ€stay positive you really helped me with this comment ty
Take time now to repair any relationships that you were not able to develop during this stressful time.
I have been unemployed for 9 months. I don't know if it was the best decision but I will say I eat and I sleep better. And I'm running again and I can walk.
Those bad bosses are usually narcissists. They don't treat everyone badly. They pick and choose their victims. I think that must be why most people do not see it. Only the victims of their abuse.
Woah! Thank you for this! I just dealt with this scenario and quit.
Iâve had that happen to me.. they thought because I was quiet and kept to myself that I was considered weak. Little did she know you donât mess with a Sagittarius! And funny enough, I know how to argue back with a calm voice and demeanor so I donât get myself in trouble.
So true đ
I totally agree. I was a victim.
100% They're bullies and bullies don't pick on everyone, only the people who are too soft to fight back.
Reason #6: A revolving door of constantly new employees. No one wants to stay.
Jeff bezos!!! He loves that
thats really a symptom of a shit company and/or shit jobs...but yes I agree
Yep hence why my small town is âalways hiringâ because they have a ton of shit jobs available that employers desperately want people to take up on despite their crap management skills and low pay rates and then they wonder why âpeople donât want to workâ because people know they literally are better off selling drugs in this wasteland of a state. Damn I hate Alabama.
@@hailervin Corporate propaganda is that some Americans "lost interest" in working because of laziness. In reality, stable and decent paying jobs are very difficult to come by in many areas. Adjusted for inflation, most low to middle class occupations paid better in the 1970's than they do now, and that's not even taking into account cost of living which was much lower 40-50 years ago.
Omg yes. This. Especially telling during a bloody pandemic.
As someone who use to refuse to tell bosses and supervisors when my workload is too much, I understand. I remember a supervisor who constantly let my co-workers leave early, telling me to stay late because "You're not like them", as if its a sort of consolation. For about four years I worked in the mindset that, the man who does everyone's work alongside his own is the best worker. I've grown since then. Now, I know when to tell my boss "Thats enough."
I know what you mean, and after years and months the injustice gets to you.
Sounds like a lot of fraternizing. If you're so much better, and doing more work, then he should be paying you more. If he won't, then look around.
Typical manipulative manager.
Another thing I don't like about certain companies is that they tell you to join a potluck event and if not, it will hurt your yearly review. You can't coerce your employees like that if they are not interested. Some people go to work to work and follow procedures. It is stressful as it is in general. Some people are not interested making friends nor dating due to gossiping in a workplace environment.
Three weeks after I walked away from a very toxic job environment. An F5 tornado destroyed the building.
DAAAAYUUUUM. dodging a 300mph bullet
As my apartment complex contract say if there is" an act of God "
Sorry about their bad luck...hope nobody was hurt.
Covid will take care of the rest of the bad employers.
Wooowwwwww
My job has a high turn over and I made it 19 years. I had chest pains from anxiety attacks, one day I walked in and cried uncontroablly. I really hated it. I recently quit, lost weight and feel HAPPY. I rather scrub bathrooms with a toothbrush than go back.
19 years wow, thatâs what Iâm going through now. Iâm coming up on 20 years and get so nervous to leave.
@@michelleleake7688 My parents are old school stay work pension all that and even she sees the change and is so happy I quit. I hope you figure it out because you will feel soooo much better.
After 19 years lol
I was driving NYCT bus⊠I walked away left the pension n medical wasnât worth it!!! My health is much more valuable!
I'd rather just save and retire though. Quitting just makes retirement come later.
On point.. Just about every job and boss I've had has been as you described.. The toxic, narcissistic, sociopaths always seem to call the shots in the workplace.. And the few good bosses I've had literally died on the job or were worked out the organisation.. Ubiquitous career culture in Babylon âŁïžâąïž
This is increasingly true. A healthy workplace is the exception and not the rule. I'm so physically tired from the hours and stressed about the next shift that I find it hard to search for a new job.
Every situation discussed is what I was going through at work. Add ageism, filthy bathrooms, filthy break areas, vulgarity, fights, the shredding of people...
I quit yesterday morning at 6:18. I took my power back in under 30 seconds.
Hello. Im not coming back.
Thank you for the opportunity but the environment is just too harsh and more than I am willing to tolerate.
By 8am I had a plan...to just breath. â€đ
As someone who had to be HOSPITALIZED due to work stress..it isnât worth it. Life is too short.
Yes, that does happen. I know a few people, that were in that situation
@@utube72 very happy for you, Also it was getting that way with me.
That's why I quit my health is more important I am now staying home hopefully I'll find something someday
For me, it have not gone that far but I took one week vacation and unfortunately I couldn't get up the whole week during exhaustion.
After several breakdowns my boss promised to change something, and he did: redirected me to other tasks which suites my competences way better.
That happened to me as well. I view life much differently now.
I quit my job today been with the company for 6 years. I was dealing with depression and feeling sucidal over a damn job. I knew it was time to leave when I was hoping to get into a accident on my way to work . Please don't ever let a job destroy your mental health .
As a mental health professional, I say sorry for your experience. No one should have to go through such an experience
Thank God you did.
Noted and understood! Hope youâre feeling better these days đ«¶
Hope you're in a happier environment now.
It's people's issues that's the problem. I work in the military industrial complex.....my co worker died of od in the bathroom. They left him in there 7 hours with rigimortis set in. So disguistjng, they care not about employees.
As an addendum to these points, in my working life I've noticed a real 'type' of middle to upper manager. They talk the jargon about looking after staff, but it's actually all about control and micro-management, and making sure their name is all over everything. They have their inner clique, and know what to say to trustees/directors. They set bad culture, or don't bother to correct their 'favourites'. They will HR-jargon talk their way out of having to actually make meaningful change.
There are far too many managers, and tragically few actual leaders in the workplace.
Oh hey, that describes my boss perfectly
Forgot the condescending and overly critical nature towards those they don't like, though
@@scawydemon ah yes, the 'I think we can all agree... " language in meetings!
I started having a mental breakdown at one job - at night I had hallucinations that I was at work and during the day I had hallucinations that I was asleep - I wasn't actually sleeping. After a couple days of that, I called a psychologist who told me to take whatever job I could to get out of there. She said I was in the early stages of a mental breakdown and if it continued I could suffer frontal lobe damage and become disabled. Heed the warning signs.
When you canât sleep at night, have anxiety or canât take a day off without getting an attitude from the boss.
Me rn canât wait to turn in my badge and walk out for good đ
My boss told my coworker that being sick was no excuse for her to not come in to work, not only is covid very much a risk, we work 8hr shifts either up at 5:00am or there till 10:30pm, lift heavy objects and run in and out of a freezing cooler which makes us so cold out fingers get numb, the fact that she has the nerve to tell us that we have no right to take the day off when we are sick just grinds my gears so bad
@@AR-ip6jb find somewhere else fam itâs hard I know but being somewhere where they only care about the money is soul crushing
Im still stuck here just to pay bills
Me right now (minus the day off situation)
You say go to your HR department, but most HR departments are in alignment with your boss. If your boss is the problem , theyâll just figure on a way to get rid of you.
Yup happened to me
@@erk44 Never go to HR.
I didnt some fat ugly girl did. Got me fired. God she was ugly. Her name was brandy
FACTS!
Yes never ever go to HR they are not there to protect you only to protect the company and usually solving the problem means firing you! Be wary of management and HR that is very friendly that is how they play with their food!
Before my mum died from cancer, she told me that stress brought her cancer on, and if I was ever in a situation of living or working in stress, I should walk away. Well, life is crazy a couple of years ago. I died on the operating table and was brought back. When I was on the other side, I was very angry that I had wasted my life worrying, toxic people and toxic environments. Fast forward to today. I ended relationships with all toxic people and environments. Live your life so you do not waste it. Ps I am so greatfull that I have the opportunity to let people know this.
good for you .
I wish you all the best
I resigned as soon as I realized a couple of things, I was no longer learning anything new that would help my career goals. I was stuck at a low salary range, and I no longer saw opportunity in the company to grow beyond what I was capable of.
As a RN ,I have had three co workers commit suicide. I have had to deal with things that are beyond any ones imagination. Just last week a co worker broke down and sat crying in the hallway because the work load an environment is unrealistic and unacceptable. Working non stop for 8 - 12 hours. No lunch, breaks and mandatory double and triple shifts. The conditions nurses work under are illegal but no one cares !
Thatâs awful and Iâm praying for you John! It shouldnât be this way.
What country are you in John? Can the employees join a work union?
What country? What part? I would run as fast as you could from that job.
Ppl asking what country! It's the U.S. part of the problem is nursing and hospital culture accepting 12 hour shifts as norm.
Maria Briley I somewhat disagree. Itâs patient ratios and short staffing causing the problems. Washington State Nurses Association fought back against the Wash St Govt when the Govt wanted to change to 8 hr shifts bc nurses werenât getting their breaks. Sure, some Inpatient nurses want 8 hour shifts but the majority want 12. I will agree that 12s is more likely to cause burnout with short staffing, staying late, and not getting breaks. On the contrary it provides a better continuity for patients and more days off during the week. There is a deeper rooted issue in the profession that is burning nurses out and causing them to quit or leave their career path altogether. What I have learned in my time is it is a country (ie England, never going back) or regional issue (ie Pittsburgh). If John is willing to pack up and move he can find a job that will pay him well, treat him with respect, and provide an environment for a fulfilling career. A good way to go is travel nursing. Find areas of the country you would be willing to live and take contracts there. See how you are treated, ask about benefits and the lifestyle of the areas and then when you find a hospital that fits you apply and settle there. It will be an eye opening experience.
Never trust the HR Dept...big mistake.
@@nia6849 depends on the issue and the company. If the HR department is told an issue that may lead to hurting the company, they usually will put the company first. I say use them, but watch what you say and keep dated detailed notes of the conversations.
TRUTH. THIS NEEDS MORE LIKES
Amen
@@rssand6840 They will ALWAYS put the company first, because the company is who gives them their salary and that is the reason why they are hired. HR is not your friend, no matter what.
Hr is misnamed they only care about covering the employers ass
I started a new job 3 weeks ago. It was the worst 3 weeks of my life. My manager basically forced me to rush thru my module training, and threw me out to the wolves to handle customer issues. The worst part? Sometimes he would show up 3-4 hours late, or not at all. Iâd have to blow up his phone and FaceTime him in front of customers to walk me thru my job. He always answered the phone so irritated, rude, bitchy, and snarky. There was never any time to take a break and eat. I even started drinking again. My memory was terrible, Iâd wake up in the middle of the night, dreams about my job. I was off this weekend and due to go back today. And Iâm simply just not going back. I called my old job back that didnât pay enough, but at least I was trained and happy.
At work I feel like an outcast. Not to mention they are mad that I wonât work over time because I want to spend my weekend with my girlfriend and other activities outside of work.
#1 sign for me: I was blocked for promotion, then told to train my new boss
Yeah that's a pretty dick move. If your boss can't do their own job without you teaching them how, then they're less suitable for the position than you are. Tell them "good luck finding someone to teach you how to do the job" and head for the door.
Thatâs when you say Fuck You and walk out the door and burn that bridge
This happens WAY more than people realize, especially to people over 40. Experience talking...
If someone did that too me I would laugh in their face and give in my letter of resignation.
Almost had to do that! The new boss was 1 yr older than me. I immediately quit when I accidentally found out that sheâs joining as my boss! đ€
The sleepless nights from anxiety is spot on for me. I'm watching this at 2 am btw...đ
Same here i totally understand. If you ever need someone to talk to and if I.can help I will gladly đ
Take advise from me please đ no job is worth taking the joy out of your life. NO JOB ! I have got a new job out of my situation now because my current workplace is unfixable. There are workplace environments that are fixable and others that you just have to walk away from and run đââïž from fast!
Mine is different. I wake too much early in the morning having an anxiety attack and overthinking about my decision in taking this new job of mine. It is a 9-6 desk job and I always feel like a machine more than a human being everytime I work.
When the job is in my dreams I got to go
I would love to talk with you!!
Accepted a position as a director of nursing. Very competitive salary. I was over the moon until I recognized the company: nepotism, unethical, no regard for safety or standards. I tried my best to stick it out because I am rather resilient. When I realized they did not have any plans, no budget, no care for patient or staff safety, I left within two months. I am now back on the drawing board.
Ugh, sounds like an awful experience!
I was in the same boat as you and had to quit months after accepting a great job that I love. What was funny about the position, I was told the person I was replacing left on maternity leave and decided not to come back, what I learned⊠I was the 4th person within 2 yrs that had the position and quit just like rest because of the boss that HR knows about but still keeps.
A terrible job situation that I still think about 13 years later. One sign of a problem I recognized was the employees were all required to enter the building from the back door, not the front. I was hired by an office manager and not the owner (tip - don't take the job without meeting the person in charge). My first day when I met him, the owner of the place took me into a conference room and grilled me on what I did for my former employer in a hostile tone. To this day, I cannot figure out why I did not walk out right after that and stayed another two weeks before they fired me.
I just quit my job 3 days ago...although i knew it wont be easy bcos I'm struggling financially, BUT....I'm so happy and relieved I quit. My mental health was almost thrown into the gutters
Good for you sista
You are so brave. I need to walk away from my job too but I'm scaredđ
@@cynthia6771 dont worry ill take care of you ;)
@@dacoldest3896 thanks. Nice to know I'm not aloneâ„ïž
Very brave but i'm still stuck. Good for you
When every morning you have to actually have to list pros and cons of reasons why I need to show up
It's so f ing hard I'm doing shift so it makes it harder for me
Same, Iâm sitting over here wanting to cry because I have to go to work in 3 days and Iâve only been there for 3 months and Iâm already ready to quit because itâs sooo toxic.
@@cairacaldwell9121 it's so hard caira no one understands only people that suffer it
At my job all the nurses who wouldn't last a day in a real hospital, are so hateful to everyone, the boss don't care about well being or others issues with them, so I call them glorified CNAs
Pro- bills get paid
Con- soul gets destroyed.
Left my last job after running into pretty much all of this lol...worst part is i tolerated this for so long i didn't realize how miserable i was until after i left and got a new job with supportive employees and a great environment
I suffered migraines, bouts of depression, anxiety, issues with sleep, itchy skin which I knew was from nerves, and I dreaded even opening my laptop much less the days I had to go to the office (hybrid). I was too mentally exhausted from the toxic office environment, the ongoing criticism and the unreasonable expectations. I gained weight from stress snacking. My manager wasn't qualified to lead a team, and I see this a lot where people are put into those positions based on seniority rather than capabilities or relevant experience. Longevity on the job does not automatically make you an effective supervisor. I've never wanted to supervise people and don't claim to have the best skills for it (or tolerance), but I know a bad manager when I experience one.
At first I felt horrible about leaving my most recent job but the stress and bullying was so bad there that I was throwing up everyday before going to work and lost a lot of weight. Moral of the story; please take care of and look out for yourself because no one else will.
Edit: tbh i didnt expect anyone else to relate to this. I hope everyone under this can find a better working situation. Keep your chin up and don't let disgustingly petty people ruin your life.
I hear you. I worked with a mob mentality job. Doing the right thing is looked down on!
I paid off all my debts first, then quit.
Sorry about your experience
No one wants to work anymore, or are "quiet quitting", work is TOXIC. Then, they complain they cannot find skilled labor. LOL! Fuck them!
true
I regularly used to wake up in a cold sweat, thinking about my next working day.
I feel like everyone who preaches the "Dont quit your job before you have another one lined up" has never truly experienced how terrible jobs can be. Some jobs are flat out dangerous where another day/night can literally get you killed and your boss doesn't care. I've tried hanging in there waiting for another job and I always regretted it. I've been assaulted on the job, and I've wanted to assault my boss before and knew I would if I didn't quit, and if it comes down to you going to jail or losing your job go ahead and quit your job instead of sticking around until something really bad happens. Jobs are replaceable but your life is not
I had a horrible job I didn't quit because I didn't have another job. Instead I lost my temper and got fired.
Like being told the business is letting you go and your first thought is, "Okay. So what's the bad news?"
Not even physical. People are just as much in danger with a job that doesn't assault you, as they are with a job that won't even let you piss. Worked for a job 9 hours a day, couldn't even leave my seat. We couldn't drink water in the screening booths. Most days, I was lucky if I was given a 30 minute break. So 9 hours a day, 6 days a week, no water or going to the bathroom. I was having chronic uti's. I developed a serious issue with my bladder thanks to this job. So before anyone says "oh you just have to deal with it",, go fuck yourself. This happens to everyone in most jobs these days. You're stupid as shit for putting up with it
I have dealt with racism and people still tell me to wait and think positive..
Got that right Ive been to jail over (non workplace) conflict, been homeless, and I will sit in a comfy library, soup kitchen, bus, shelter and play videogames before I take shit for "money". The older I get the more I realize I choose to work, I never have to. If only some employers realized it they would never act like assholes. Like really it doesnt get anyone ANYWHERE.
I ticked 3 out of 5 definitely, I realised I need to quit when I started shaking uncontrollably after my managers indirect insult, have never experienced such thing in my life when I couldnt even move, I became so steve and shaking, scared the shit out of me. I am very happy for my choice even if I dont have a job right now. I value me, my time and my efforts and if you dont see it then there is no point of me wasting my precious time here. My provider and successor is my Creator The Almighty. Ameen
Iâm a combat veteran and battle with PTSD and TBI. My manager asked me on multiple occasions if I âk*lled peopleâ and or if I have violent episodes. My mental health suffered tremendously while at that job. The stress trickled into my personal life, aggregated my conditions, and impacted my family. I expressed this to my management team and they did nothing to support me. Needless to say, I left.
Thank you for working with us (me) back in the day đđŹđ§
So glad you left. Thatâs awful. My husband is also a Vet. and Iâve suggested he leave jobs when heâs been treated inappropriately.
that's messed up man I hope you're in a good place now.
@@jasonrossetta5203 thank you, Iâm very fortunate to be in a much better place now. It is like night and day compared to where I was when I wrote this post.
Remember folks, toxic workplaces count on economic desperation to hold employees. I worked for one like that and stayed far too long.
Crapitalism
TRUTH!
Definitely sounds like my current job.
I once had an employer tell me "You need this job". I replied "I need _a_ job, it doesn't have to be _this_ job". And actually all you really need is an income - and in the digital age there are lots of ways to do that without a traditional "job".
Companies especially try to indoctrinate young employees to be fearful of their job security. I like to remind them "you had a job before this one, you'll have a job after this one".
My last job gave me a depression that after two years Iâm still bouncing back from. Standing next to the car in the morning and just wanting to drive to the beach (or anywhere!) instead of work and then spending time in the work parking lot trying to pull myself together to go in... yeah that was a sign
Yeah, If you feel that way don't go. Just start looking for another job with better people.
Same... i am altered person
I feel you. But beaches here in my country are far so I visit some place else LMFAO.
totally get it. Everyday is a struggle to get to work... I have to talk myself out of heading into the wild... The biggest obstacle is lack of decent paying jobs, having to start at the bottom of the totem pole and having to take the schedule they give you. Most of the jobs I see listed are only looking for PT at less pay.
I was the same. I one time shocked the hell out of myself by sitting in my workplace parking lot for a while before leaving to go to a movie. Still had time left, but no money, so I drove and sat in a Walmart parking lot because I didn't want my family to know I'd skipped work. It was winter time but I sat in my cold car just to avoid dealing with work. That's when I knew it'd gotten bad.
Bullying theeeeeeee biggest problem in the workplace
I just put my two weeks in yesterday....the director is extremely condescending, gives you work to do and refuses to train you, then they went to hr straight up said a bunch of lies about me and hr never once asked to speak to me to hear my side.....I cant sleep, my hair is falling out, I am spending so much time crying at my desk and in the work bathroom.....I feel so free when I give them my resignation yesterday...so relieved...and I wasn't planning on doing that yesterday...when I got to work and I was in the parking garage that's when it hit me...I need to quit, my family has been seeing how it has taken a toll on my health...they've actually been begging me to quit...I am so happy I made the decision to do it.....I no longer have to submit myself to mistreatment....right now I don't have anything lined up but my family already said they will support me and help me find something better....I feel very grateful for my the support system I have.....I wish everyone good luck in finding a better job đ
I had a job where I started having stomach pains and digestive issues. When I left the job, I was miraculously healed!
I think I'm in the same spot. My gut health is horrible right now as well as migraines. I think it's my job, I dread going in and I'm losing sleep. I cussed at my boss today and it felt really good, didn't get fired either lol.
@@tedk.6420 Time to go. Your health is most important.
Same!! I thought I had ibs but in e I left, I felt worlds better!
@@thebrowniesempire Yes. The job that was giving me stomach issues was over 15 years
For me, it was prostatic pain. Bactrim & medical treatments did nothing. Once I left, the symptoms miraculously disappeared.
CAVEAT: Do not use this line to diagnose yourself! If you have prostatic pain, see a urologist!
For all the people that are scared leaving their job because of financial situation. I was in a job that was ticking some of the above. I just bought a house so I had a mortgage. Finally they let go of me. I was worried but one week later I got a job offer in another country. I made my way up in that company. They have an awesome work culture. One week in the new country i met my future husband... I rent my house and live with him. It was tough to juggle everything the first 2 years. But You don't know what life has in store for you. Take the leap of faith
Wow, this is amazing!
I believe that's what scares everyone, going broke. So they put up with a miserable job, and they end up shortening their lifespan because of it.
Yup.....I remember having to put money aside to make my mortgage payment years ago, I now rent that house out for 3x the mortgage payment and own 3 more... (in the s.f. Bay area)...I' néed to cash them out and move from this shit hole state 42 years here is far enough for me.....
......funny how things work....I was basically retired at 36
Just put in my two week notice today...this was very much needed thank you
@@YimstaNation good luck in your future endeavors! It will work out
Quit without notice last week after over 15 years with a company (toxic work environment is an understatement of what I have endured). Had outstanding performance and showed consistent career growth and new knowledge acquisition until the new CEO got hired. When you have a rogue CEO who goes against the interests of the company in an attempt to bankrupt it - it is time to go. There has been an exodus of all senior staff and the company will be insolvent in less than 6 months.
People don't generally quit jobs nor LEADERS, they quit managers.
Yep. Agreed. I recently quit my job that I actually liked but could no longer stand my coworker who turned out to be bipolar who incessantly threw angry outbursts at me.
When I was a young engineer 35 years ago, I had a little Hitler for a boss who was a total sociopathic POS. One of the very few people I've ever truly and deeply hated. It actually worked out in the long run. Later in my career when I was managing and having issues with staff, I would ask myself "What would Nick do?" I would then do the opposite, and it always worked out for the better. Sometimes it's not a bad idea to stick it out in a bad situation. Could make you stronger in the long run.
"Quit your job if the company is doing something illegal."
Next day: All of Wall Street employees resign from their jobs.
After I left my job, I was having lunch by myself at my new position and I realized that I had been depressed for over two years.
As a call center agent myself, it made me depressed too
A long time. I just left my job where I was only 6 weeks. The bully manageresses didn't waste time to start bullying me and started their hate campaign cos jealous of my skills.
I'm a fresh graduate and now I'm currently 4 months in my first full time job. There were a few red flags that I noticed during the interview stage, but I ignored it and accept the job just because I want to get a job right after graduation. Turns out I should have trusted my gut because this place is so toxic! Managements doesn't respect my personal life, sometime even called me in the middle of the night! Plus my coworkers are also toxic, with how they are always gossiping about others. I also did not get any proper training to the job and they expect me to get it done without mistakes. I want to quit ASAP but I'm worried it would look bad on my resumes because I've been here for only 4 months, plus I'm also afraid of no financial source. I'm in a mess right now.
I wish you a really successfull life,dont give up,keep moving forward
The stress of my last job made me lose my hair to where my family started thinking i was sick. In a way I was the stress was daunting, its a highly technical field and i came in once the older workers started to retire and they took vital knowledge with them. The issues stacked up quickly, a few things were solved however it seemed a lot of people werent pleased i didnt solve them all. I did my best i truly did, and I ended up working overtime at least 90% of the time there to handle the sheer amount. But after i got yelled at by a supervisor and scolded by an operator, I felt like I was damaging the company. Ironically after i left i was told my performance was good, I dont really know what to make of that. However after losing my hair and dropping 15 lbs in a month... man honestly that was the closest to suicide I've ever been. Like I had the note written. Glad i didnt go through with it.
I have been in a similar situation. Lost 15kgs and hair. Terrible sleep cycle, no off days for 2 months straight. I then quit, didn't feel bad for qutting.
Rule # 7, if you feel like taking your own life, quit immediately if not sooner â€
When you spend more time trying to think how to respond to your boss' constant stream of micromanaging emails than actually doing work.
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Sigh. Do I ever hear you! Like, honestly! I would be able to get the work done if he wasnât constantly in the way, and then waiting until Iâve completed previous instructions before giving me the new ones for the fourth time! And I am not even exaggerating! I might be able to hit the mark if the target would stop getting moved.
Or when the manager complains that you're slow to get work done, but you have to waste at least a half an hour to 45 minutes each day tracking them down to get your next instructions from them because they only give you an hour or two of work at a time instead of telling you everything that will need done in the job and trusting you to get done what needs done.
When you see rules selectively applied and some employees allowed to get away with things you would be severely penalized for.
Over and over and overâŠ
100%!!
There the butt lickers
Brown tongues
This comment!!!!!!đŻ
I was having horrible stomach issues and acid reflux when working my last job . Since finding out that Iâm leaving for a much better job , I havenât had one stomach issue
Yup, I was in a situation when I had 'quiet quit' and put a 90 day timer on myself to put-off quitting for financial reasons. Then it happened. I was already stressed out and overwhelmed, that I wanted to quit. Then all this stress affected my performance, and got chewed out. That was the last straw and I quit that same day, but it was already past my 90 days count-down, so I had no regrets, even though I had no financial safety net.
I can relate to this. I was preparing to quit months in advance with a designated time frame, but in my case they pulled the plug about a month before my "due date." Even though I was planning to leave I was bothered by the fact that they let me go instead. Then I noticed how my stress level decreased almost immediately. They did me a favor even though my ego was bruised. It was so toxic that it was affecting my overall performance too, but no one takes that into consideration. They don't care about the reasons you're not thriving and not having anyone in the company to confide in made it worse. Who is there for employees? No one!
omg i did the same but I didnt make it to the 90 days. i am now unemployed with only five months savings left
@@travelvideoz my advice to you is to actively look for ways to make money ASAP, whether it's odd jobs or a new job or a consulting / freelance gig, do it right away. Money was a big worry for me at the time and I did run out of it after 3 months.
After a certain age, the opportunities dry up. You can't even get an interview. Age discrimination is real!
In some European countries its even worse, than in the USA. Especially towards women. The perfect candidate for them would be a 30 year old energetic person with no family, kids or aspirations to have some (because to their logic -you are going to need more time off and maternity leave), have experience in industry for at least 15 years, willing to literally live in the company and get paid as a teenager.
Sadly, at 54, that's my one real concern looking for a new job. It wasn't reason enough to keep me at the miserable job I currently had, though.
@@HeadHunterSix I'm 33 and just finishing my degree in programming this year. I am super worried about this, despite not being 'old'. I just worried b ecause they'res 14 year olds who can do what I do. I feel so forgotten and doomed to only work the minimum wage jobs I've had since i was 17.
@@HolyDemonRune Don't short sell yourself. If there's one thing someone younger will never have over you, it's _experience_ . Keep your skills current, keep learning and developing yourself, and the only thing you'll ever have to worry about is employers paying you too much. :D
I was told by a higher level boss that, "Because you are an over 50 white male, you might as well expect to get discriminated here."
Losing sleep and chest pains from stress at work is a sign that I need to leave.
I quit my job in September 2023. I quit because of the toxic work environment. I moved on and I am now moving towards private practice.
Another sign is that you've watched this video more than once. Thank you for this video.
When your boss says "it is what it is" to every gripe you report due to being overworked and understaffed .
THIS! every time i brought up a concern it was dismissed or minimized... 'at least you get overtime' or 'i've experienced worse, this is normal'
Those five words are exactly what you say to your boss when you quit, and he/she asks why.
"Just try your best."
My (former) boss does that - he's not actively a bad boss, just indifferent.
@@Seattle-2017
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I like that.
When your employer tells you to call their therapy hotline instead of improving their company culture...
I got told, at one position, that its perfectly normal to cry through the first 2 years.
I just left a place like that.
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Typical! I said exactly the same to my company. Why the hell do I need free psyquiatrics to treat something created by your work conditions?! Wouldn't it be easier and more human to contract more staff and relieve workers pressure? Of course not, that doesn't help the profit and it easier to say the company treats the workers very well because it offers a health plan....
Big big big big one or if they offer counseling services
My job has caused me so much stress and mental issues that I'm actually in therapy now. Mostly my terrible boss. Gained alot of weight, i stress about work when I'm not there. Even on weekends. Always wondering what im gonna get yelled at for the next day or what ive messed up cause im never ever told if im doing anything good. I dont enjoy anything anymore. I work and come home to sleep and comfort eat. I wanna just walk out and quit so bad but i worry financially what the consequences will be. But one of these days im gonna be pushed to the edge where i just go.
I just now sent my boss an email from my phone, informing that I'll be quitting. I feel great already! Can't wait to NEVER see that job again.
You should've done it in person; nothing more gratifying than seeing a tyrant boss crumble when you give notice.
He wasn't really a tyrant, he was an okay dude. But I hated the job itself, because sitting on my ass for five hours talking to angry people drove me insane.
The reason I sent an email and didn't quit in person is because we have a legally required notice period in my country. From the date of notice, you have to stay employed for a month period, starting at the 1st of next month. So if you send a notice in May, you'll have to work until the end of June. I gave notice right at the end of May, and if I had waited until the next time I saw him, I'd have to work for all of July.
I worked a job where everyone I worked with was divorced and an alcoholic. One night I was having a fight with my wife about my drinking. The next day I put in my notice. Best. Decision. Ever.
WOW! good for you ! not worth your marriage
Comforting to read these stories, thank-you guys. I had two jobs last year, had to quit one with a dayâs notice. Never done that before. It was because my employer shouted at me in front of her elderly mother because I didnât take the seeds out of her mumâ banana. I was devastated, being a carer is everything to me. Kind of sent me into a nervous breakdown lolđ took me six months but I have a new job and a lovely boss now.
Glad things worked out for you. Thanks for being a care giver, there are those of us who know from personal experience the tremendous contributions you make caring for the elderly and sick.
@@finn3102 thankyou so much.
I had to take a leave of absence for 4 months because of my job. I lost so much weight, always sick to my stomach and stressed out. My boss is the worst boss ever. Manipulative, liar, creates drama. My other coworker just threw me under the bus. I have 7 months left because I need my benefits for my husbands medication but honestly donât know if I can do another 7 months. My job has put thoughts of suicidal ideology in my head. And remember HR is never in your side. I learned this the hard way.
Iâm so sorry honey đą I wish I could hug you â€â€â€â€
@@BEWISHMINT your kind words are very helpful. Thank you so much for your compassion.
Stay strong!!! I'm also dealing with a terrible boss and trying to find a way out!
Omgosh I am still with this damned company. I am caught in the new hires dramarama! Not doing it. I did something slightly wrong at work and I am sure I will get cannedđ. I canât care anymore. I hope I get let go of.
Ya at my wits end. I have been treated like garbage. Itâs time to leave and I donât care about the $ even though I need it. My health and me are away more important.
UPDATE: I quit last Monday. I phoned in with a horrible serious migraine and my boss swore at me and I have a witness. I am now going to take some serious action. I also wrote up a letter stating all the abuses with work. All the other ppl who have recently left I got them to sign and date my letter saying that everyone stated was the absolute truth to the best of their knowledge. I am doing this for myself and my coworkers who canât afford a lawyer. Karma is my friend here!
Dropped my job when i started to dread coming in on Monday. That dread would set in at Friday evening.
Yâall get days off? Lol no hate just pickin on ya haha
Core Values are such a joke. Every company I've ever worked in, had leadership which did not embody the company's Core Values.
I swear they're literally there for PR pointscoring. Company values and culture should be about making employees feel valued and at home. They'll look after what they have if they love it, and do the best they can for the company
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expressed brand values are merely to attract media cover. true values are experienced when the honeymoon period fades.
You mean core values like "honestly, loyalty, respect for others, devotion, giving 100% to the job & going the extra mile" ? Have you ever noticed what a one way street "core values" are? You are encouraged and expected to manifest these values toward your job & employer. But somehow they are never reciprocated. It's almost like that's just a way employers manipulate the employees. Naw, couldn't be.
Yep. Agreed.
â@@jackreisewitz7219 Impossible!... and yet somehow true *puzzled*
Being fired from a terrible job I had 2 years ago was still a relief over continuing to work there. I had a boss exactly like the one described in this video who always looked over my shoulder, shot down our ideas publicly and reprimanded us in group emails and conferences.
I was fired from my last job after being bullied by my manager and supervisor. Iâve never been bullied so hard in my life and I was doing my job well. My manager would yell at me and I even had my supervisor talking about my personal life and I didnt even know him. I was fired for apparently bullying my co workers when they were all gossiping and bullying me. I even talked to a lawyer and they said it was illegal. Absolute nightmare and total bullying.
Document, document, document everything. Then you might have a leg to stand on. Without documentation, you have no legs.
@@rosaliepaul9169 way ahead of you. I made the mistake of telling HR about all they did. They did nothing but call me crazy and accuse me of lying. Corruption at its finest.
I took emergency leave and never returned.. The best thing I ever did in my life.
People donât sign up on a job they hate but usually actually they like. However, the incompetent managers can turn the work situations into a toxic place.
The name your looking for is AMAZON!!!!!!!!!!!
I work at ZAXBYS and this manager James sent me home today just because he doesnât like me and so I wrote a letter to my boss and Iâm going to quit if they donât do anything
Absolutely agree with you.
Yep. I love my job, but the children took over the company and they are nothing but full of egos and greed. Instead of hiring an actual engineer, they give bad shit to me to fix and I sure as hell am not getting compensated for it.
@@bellawinchester7691 When I am confronted with underling what a bees attitude I have pre paid legal lawyer call them then it's oh Mr. Hamilton how can I help You didn't have call your attorney. Yeah right.
I am pretty sure a) waking up in the middle of the night worrying about work from time to time and b) sometimes feeling absolutely no motivation is not out of the ordinary. Only if it happens a LOT.
My first job and after months and months I'm checking all these boxes. You've been describing my situation from end to finish. Thanksfully I've already noticed the red flags and I should hear back for a second interview at another company that actually shows decency and respect towards their employees.
Remember that nothing is more important than your mental and physical health, and that you can always find another job (it's hard, it's uncomfortable, but if you build yourself up you can make it)
Make a plan and stand up for yourself to all the injustices and narcissism weighing you down, by making a classy exit