Mastering the art of everyday diplomacy | Alisher Faizullaev | TEDxMustaqillikSquare

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  • čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
  • The world is full of differences. Every day we can face a variety of individuals, groups, opinions, intentions, interests and values, and that may catalyze confrontations and conflicts. How can we maintain peaceful and balanced relations with others? Professor Alisher Faizullaev, D.Sc., Ph.D., scholar, writer and Ambassador, calls on us to master the fine art of everyday diplomacy. He argues that it is normal to be different. The important thing is to learn how to discuss and negotiate those differences rather than fight them.
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    Мир полон различий. Ежедневно мы можем сталкиваться с разнообразными людьми и группами, несхожими мнениями и намерениями, противоположными интересами и ценностями, и это может стать почвой для столкновений и конфликтов. Как поддерживать мирные и сбалансированные отношения с окружающими? Алишер Файзуллаев, профессор, доктор наук, посол и писатель, рассуждает об искусстве повседневной дипломатии. Он считает, что быть разными - это нормально. Важно научиться обсуждать различия, а не бороться с ними.
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    Diplomat, yozuvchi Alisher Fayzullayev bu dunyoda yorqinroq, osonroq va mazmunliroq yashashga yordam beruvchi qator omillarni sanab o‘tadi. Ruhiy farog‘at, insoniylik, o‘zaro iliq munosabat, samimiyat, shukronalik, komillik sari mudom harakatda bo‘lish atrofdagilarga mehr va yaxshilik ulashishda namoyon bo‘ladi. Axir o‘zingdan rozi bo‘lib umrguzaronlik qilishga nima yetsin?!
    There is a special group of people who are professionally involved in international relations: diplomats. And, then there are ordinary people who use diplomacy in their everyday life, and they possess a special art- the art of everyday diplomacy.
    This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 114

  • @kreeastichattopadhyay2965
    @kreeastichattopadhyay2965 Před 3 lety +148

    1.Mindset(Inner peace,stability,tollerence,patience)
    2.Strategy (Balance,routine of love,our values,moderateness with others in ourselves)
    3.Skills(Social interaction skills like understanding others,tactfullness like understanding body languages,negotiation,listening all r very important skill,self regulation to calm with discussion with difficult people,know clutural codes because every culture is different.)
    It is not a sign of weakness,practice to develop ourselves,to develop our peace,practice smile,look ur partner mindfully say good every person is different.

  • @suhailal-kahtani6208
    @suhailal-kahtani6208 Před 3 lety +33

    Love it when he again asked the audience at the end to raise their hands if they feel like they are diplomats.

  • @jzdxdx
    @jzdxdx Před 6 lety +46

    Great job! World would be a better place because of people like you. Thanks

  • @gulshoda3486
    @gulshoda3486 Před 11 měsíci +3

    Thank you a lot ALISHER FAYZULLAYEV. I really appreciate your speach and take so many advantages. I am proud of my country Uzbekistan for its population's politeness ,respect to each other❤

  • @nhix_MLBB
    @nhix_MLBB Před 6 lety +49

    Thank you professor and former ambassador for this wonderful and substantive speech. I am going to share this with my students in "Understanding Culture,Society and Politics"class. Your intellectual sharing is also helpful in contributing about diversity, inclusion and equality particularly you're talk about leadership and diplomacy is filled with love and kindness. Hope to have more people like you that will help create a better world. More power to you, Uzbekistan and TedTalks. - appreciation from the Philippines. Mabuhay!

  • @alishaxamry2056
    @alishaxamry2056 Před 2 lety +7

    Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!

  • @iesaia
    @iesaia Před 4 lety +23

    Here we can see the reflection of our society. Even though decent and good things are being spread, there are a group of people who still choose to reject knowledge by the number of dislikes.

    • @WristBench
      @WristBench Před 3 lety +1

      There always is, emotional intelligence helps accept the fact it will also always exist and not waste energy on it.

    • @batman-xj8qb
      @batman-xj8qb Před 2 lety +1

      it is individual difference.

  • @bekzodistamov8386
    @bekzodistamov8386 Před 6 lety +7

    thank you professor !! this is very important information. you used great words (odob, muloqot, muomila) in your presentation

  • @dilfarovasafarova15
    @dilfarovasafarova15 Před 2 lety +3

    The best literate person that i've ever encountered! The great speech which really inspired and motivated me innerly,thank you for that USTOZ PROFESSOR ALISHER FAYZULLAEV!

  • @axel575
    @axel575 Před 4 lety +2

    This is just excellent and so important. Thank you

  • @nemat86
    @nemat86 Před rokem +1

    Ока рахмат каттакон. Жудаем фойдали булди спич.
    Умриз узок булсин брат 🤲🇺🇿

  • @ABHISHEKSHARMA-kl4vv
    @ABHISHEKSHARMA-kl4vv Před 5 lety

    Changed my life..
    Thank u sir..
    Good give u good health

  • @ruwini7wijesinghe
    @ruwini7wijesinghe Před 4 lety +2

    I felt like a everyday diplomat and thanks this video made me feel good. :)

  • @shahnawazahmad5995
    @shahnawazahmad5995 Před 5 lety +8

    Thanks sir. It's really very important to learn every day diplomacy and it could be very helpful in our whole life. Diplomacy teaches us how to deal with others to make a good relation. It also teachs us how to resolve conflicts. If we learn every day diplomacy we can live a better life in a easy way.😊😊

  • @luizaugustosoaresmoura5426

    Great speech!

  • @shinnysmilever7581
    @shinnysmilever7581 Před 5 lety +6

    Very powerfull speech :) simms that this mister is good Ambasodor :)

  • @MrFalcon517
    @MrFalcon517 Před 5 lety +4

    Great talk, he is a wise man.

  • @kumarbasant4722
    @kumarbasant4722 Před rokem +1

    Really awesome tricks, techniques.
    Thank you sir..

  • @mehulgoel7325
    @mehulgoel7325 Před 5 lety +2

    saying "many more" in the end is quite a diplomat move, nice.

  • @mathopedia8100
    @mathopedia8100 Před 2 lety +1

    He answers this video so diplomatically..

  • @shredwarfare5446
    @shredwarfare5446 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, got great halfway through. Learned a lot and clarified much of why I feel drawn to the art. I supervise a Security team at a great mall, my gosh it is large, I use negotiation to stay alive.

  • @mehulgoel7325
    @mehulgoel7325 Před 5 lety +4

    Wow he remembers to mention where we can practice diplomacy, this is a well thought out speech. I will have to listen again, because in sound it was making me sleepy.

  • @timnuritdinov1874
    @timnuritdinov1874 Před 6 lety +5

    Great diplomat and person

  • @mizoumaranvarzoda122
    @mizoumaranvarzoda122 Před 5 lety +2

    Great speech. Thank you mr. Fayzulloev

  • @aminechtioui3106
    @aminechtioui3106 Před 5 lety

    What an awesole speech Dr.

  • @widiah3431
    @widiah3431 Před rokem

    Thank you!

  • @rakasubawa9336
    @rakasubawa9336 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank You Sir...very nice Sharing

  • @BilalKhan-xu3kt
    @BilalKhan-xu3kt Před 5 lety

    quite fascinating speech

  • @ziyodanabiyeva6075
    @ziyodanabiyeva6075 Před 6 lety +1

    You are great professional

  • @kamilyakubov86
    @kamilyakubov86 Před 7 lety +3

    GREAT JOB GUYS!!!! I AM LOST FOR WORDS!

  • @methaqrashad6362
    @methaqrashad6362 Před 4 lety +1

    Great sir.

  • @federationofbrgydevtcounci4929

    Thanks! Great content

  • @nagatalks8570
    @nagatalks8570 Před 5 lety +3

    In one word we need Wisdom!

  • @stephanebelizaire3627
    @stephanebelizaire3627 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Very Instructive, Bravo !

  • @phindilesihlongonyane3532
    @phindilesihlongonyane3532 Před 2 měsíci

    Thanks so,the presentation is informative and captions are not very fast which makes it easier for grasping every word you say.

  • @soularwave
    @soularwave Před 2 lety +7

    Love to see self-regulation recognized as part of global political endeavors.

  • @avics11
    @avics11 Před rokem

    Very nice, appreciate the elaboration. How do we make our consciousness to believe that some lies are worthy in diplomacy while it may hurt other emotions! 🐦

  • @Dr.physioAli
    @Dr.physioAli Před 5 lety +4

    Yayy I'm a diplomat too.
    Never knew that before this talk😃

  • @adanahassan4452
    @adanahassan4452 Před 3 lety

    This speech changed fully my day day diplomacy, ma ths to the mislnister

  • @aanchalchaudhry3772
    @aanchalchaudhry3772 Před 2 lety

    Thankyou for sharing

  • @lepord833
    @lepord833 Před 4 lety

    thank you

  • @caribaez5711
    @caribaez5711 Před 5 lety +39

    I should’ve learn this earlier but never too late to learn about diplomacy. Thanks.
    😬
    I’m 22.

  • @SardorMutalov
    @SardorMutalov Před 5 lety +1

    When the next TEDxMustaqillikSquare will be organized? I would like to attend it. It would be wonderful!

  • @shukurillozaylobidinov1684

    That's a great job. I started watching all of your videos after I met you in our "Ishonch" company.

  • @prudentialpropertiesl.l.c2778

    Super Excellent Briefing

  • @francismausley7239
    @francismausley7239 Před 5 lety

    "Human utterance is an essence which aspireth to exert its influence and needeth moderation… as to its moderation, this hath to be combined with tact and wisdom..." ~ The Writings of Baha’u’llah

  • @naqibullahkakar310
    @naqibullahkakar310 Před 6 lety +4

    Great speech mr diplomat

    • @ImranKhan-dt1id
      @ImranKhan-dt1id Před 4 lety

      يور ليګوېنج از ناټ دېپلومېټک😜

  • @julivillalta
    @julivillalta Před 2 lety

    Good stuff!

  • @yasirbajkani3373
    @yasirbajkani3373 Před rokem

    Thankyou sir

  • @basirukaddy
    @basirukaddy Před 2 lety

    Thanks

  • @jyotivyas9286
    @jyotivyas9286 Před rokem +1

    Thank you Dear Respectfull Ambassador 👌💐😊Pranaam. NAmaste From Bharat from a Great Hindu 💐😊👍

  • @safanas1856
    @safanas1856 Před 4 lety

    Thnku

  • @javohirganibayev9023
    @javohirganibayev9023 Před 3 lety +1

    I felt honorofic to see uzbek in tedtalks3😀

  • @mcdonelldouglas2492
    @mcdonelldouglas2492 Před 4 lety +1

    I hoped for a guide to develop tact, negotiations and human interactions. Instead i found a listing here...

  • @nataliad.9464
    @nataliad.9464 Před 3 lety

    👏🏼

  • @hamed389
    @hamed389 Před 4 lety

    Wow

  • @talalsalem3028
    @talalsalem3028 Před 3 lety

    👍👍👍

  • @yasirbajkani3373
    @yasirbajkani3373 Před rokem

    💟

  • @mitomorjia6729
    @mitomorjia6729 Před rokem

    And diplomats . They knows what they need to say.

  • @nraj399
    @nraj399 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Any book recommendation on the subject of diplomacy

    • @CharlesMcKinneyIV
      @CharlesMcKinneyIV Před 12 dny

      I'm reading "Inside a US Embassy: Diplomacy in Action" currently. It's eye-opening and spellbinding literature!

  • @Ayush-vu4nf
    @Ayush-vu4nf Před 4 lety

    Did i only notice that "piece of mind" at 7:30?

  • @AfnanHossen
    @AfnanHossen Před rokem

    wow

  • @deathstrikeman0918
    @deathstrikeman0918 Před 4 lety

    🤚🏻

  • @mitomorjia6729
    @mitomorjia6729 Před rokem

    Diplomatic. Means a smart girl 👧 she is so smart about her job and she is too smart

  • @robinhood1969phonykingssuck

    Love your neighbors!!! lol And do not presume to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father.’ For I tell you that out of these stones God can raise up children for Abraham.

  • @nitesh5706
    @nitesh5706 Před rokem

    10:32 Everyday Skills

  • @akil2512
    @akil2512 Před 3 lety +1

    Finding a book for same. Help will be appreciated

  • @kennethverana5885
    @kennethverana5885 Před 5 lety +2

    his from uzbekistan?

  • @mohamedelhag7778
    @mohamedelhag7778 Před 5 lety +1

    his looks reminded me of Ardogan

  • @opirbrain9225
    @opirbrain9225 Před 5 lety +11

    I feel about diplomacy as hypocrisy

    • @estrellassoliloquies
      @estrellassoliloquies Před 4 lety +6

      It's kind of I think but for a greater good.

    • @robotok5405
      @robotok5405 Před 3 lety +4

      I do agree. But again our planet is likely going to be worser without diplomacy.....

    • @vedantjoshi4698
      @vedantjoshi4698 Před rokem

      Diplomacy is not at all hipocracy . It's being really real and use intelligence , intellect , articulation while speaking or commenting on CZcams or any social media.

  • @JohnDoe-cq1ph
    @JohnDoe-cq1ph Před 5 lety +1

    Key 🔑🔑🔑 cope

  • @raindropsofsky
    @raindropsofsky Před rokem

    It is not most difficult to write diplomatic notes. Diplomacy is the subject which is not most difficult to understand.

  • @mitiperme4024
    @mitiperme4024 Před 4 lety +4

    Only if CZcams had 😂reactor with like I would have done that to many comments here 😂😂

  • @peoplespeace
    @peoplespeace Před 3 lety +1

    Im only continuing to watch to see if he can go all 16 min without saying anything interesting. All the comments seem like they were bought from one of those companies who do that.

  • @nathanporter4980
    @nathanporter4980 Před 2 lety

    Comment 70

  • @gamerpage7077
    @gamerpage7077 Před 3 lety

    AZERBAİJAN

  • @ibrohimovzuhriddin631
    @ibrohimovzuhriddin631 Před 3 lety +2

    uzbek ekanla bu kishi

  • @jasminerosee677
    @jasminerosee677 Před 4 lety +25

    He’s talking common sense. Everything is so logic. Not too helpful

  • @veranebrezhneva1360
    @veranebrezhneva1360 Před 3 lety +2

    He doesn’t give any practical advice here 🧐

  • @topltw
    @topltw Před 2 lety

    東歐口音?

  • @leeyenhazarika
    @leeyenhazarika Před 5 lety

    Za = the

  • @rishmamahajan2447
    @rishmamahajan2447 Před rokem

    Lobby insurance
    reiki sessions angel therapy sessions

  • @xm377Moyocoyatzin
    @xm377Moyocoyatzin Před 5 lety +3

    _"internayshonal diplomacy"_

  • @this-is-bioman
    @this-is-bioman Před 5 lety +7

    He might be a good diplomat but he definitely cannot explain how to be one. This presentation is very chaotic and instead of talking about being a diplomat and giving advice, he talks about completely uninteresting anegdotes. Not helpful.

  • @captainalpha4853
    @captainalpha4853 Před rokem

    This is probably the worst TEDx conference.

  • @adrielathome
    @adrielathome Před 2 lety

    This TED talk is literally so basic, I learned nothing. It's all full of obvious generalisms.

  • @RaferJeffersonIII
    @RaferJeffersonIII Před rokem

    Amazing a representative of a country who follow a religion which claims it’s the final word and must be imposed on the rest of the world under threat of violence and taxation has words on diplomacy. What’s the diplomatic term for “kaffir infidel”? How would you diplomatically explain the jizya?