Alone Not Lonely | Ep. 56 | What's The Juice?
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- čas přidán 24. 01. 2023
- is there a difference between being alone and being lonely? in today's episode we talked about what each feeling means to us and how we've dealt with it in our own experience. please let us know in the comments section how you've dealt with either being alone or lonely or what you think the difference is. hope you enjoy this episode!
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Lonely is an emotion, and you don’t necessarily have to be alone to feel lonely. Alone is just a description of whether someone is with other people or not. People can feel lonely even if they’re surrounded by friends 😌
I resonated SO MUCH with Alia's take about struggling to spend time with people because you're thinking you'd have more fun alone lol like am I too selfish with my time? I connected with Alia on a spiritual level in this episode
The loneliest I ever felt was when I moved out on my own and just being in a empty apartment with no pet and no one else was very lonely. Until I got my cat it was less lonely but still it’s just being alone and getting used to going grocery shopping alone and doing everything else alone took a while to get used to
honestly guys seeing how comfortable you are just "existing" together is so unique and incredible! it feels so natural and inspiring. you're literally a role model of soulmates. thank you for being so open and sincere about it. you give me that warm healing feeling that true friendship & love exists. it was kinda off the topic but I decided to share my thoughts in the moment. p.s thanks for another episode I enjoyed so damn much! my love to you ❤
I feel lonely all the time because I’m such a analytical and philosophical person that I feel as though nobody thinks as deeply as me. I also get easily excited about things and have a lot of opinions about dilemmas all while being a positive person and I feel like this combination is very hard to find in others, in my city at least. Thanks for speaking about this!
Feeling lonely isn't about having ppl around or not .
I think it's about the connection that we feel with other ppl .so we can have multiple friend.but not feel that connection 🤷
i feel the exact same way with my partner - when i am with him, i am so comfortable and so myself that it feels as though i am alone. people do think that’s weird sometimes, but i think it’s a sign of a really healthy relationship.
I thought Yoni was the first wearing green, i was wrong lol
I think the word you guys missed on this episode was solitude. Being alone and not feeling lonely :)
i'm sure i'm the wrong person to weigh in on this, but i completely feel what alia is saying lol. i'm someone that loves being alone (even before my partner came along), so i totally get when you guys say you'd much rather hang out with your partner or be by yourself most of the time. i think it's because our partner "doesn't count" & it's just such an easy thing to do without feeling like you have to be "social" if that makes sense? but maybe we're not healthy? haha idk .. but also, not to sound harsh .. i don't care that that's how i am because it's not personal so i know that it's not coming from a harsh or malicious place. anyone that doesn't get that isn't someone that i want a friendship with.
trying to find that balance between maintaining friendships & being aware that my social battery is usually pretty low can be challenging sometimes. not to make this a male/female thing, but i feel like that's more of an "issue" when it comes to female friendships. i think the key is finding friends that understand who you are at your core & that can match that or just truly get when you're in your own bubble & not take that personally. i'm a huge introvert & i prefer, for lack of a better term, low maintenance friendships (as in we don't need to constantly be talking or hanging out). my close friends get that about me & they're the same so it's not an issue. i'd like to think that my real true friends trust & know that if they ever need me, i'm there but i'm just not someone that's always out socializing. all that to say ... people just need to find their tribe.
another great pod guys!
So interesting, thanks these episodes they are very cool ! Maybe a subject about self confidence and assume your personality could be good 😊
can you guys do an episode about you coming to America? I relate so much to Alia because I moved to the US from Albania, which is probably similar to Romania. Anyways, you guys are cool and I love how "easy going" the podcast is, it is like we are all virtual friends.
Such great episode. I'm counting the days till the "small talk" one for sure!
This is my favourite episode yet
"i need more time with this" a good idea is to think things through before voicing your thoughts :D
that’s a great idea actually yes :-)
I really resonated with everything Alia said word for word in this episode. You are not alone girl I feel the same exact way!
oh to have a secure attachment style haha! You guys are goals, I just worry I will always feel lonely because I have never felt understood or seen in relationships. I have an anxious attachment style though. Love to see your perspective on this. Loving the podcast!
When Alia said "when I'm with you I don't fel lik hanging out... Feel like just living" that was so heartwarming 😍🥲 cuz now i feel the same with my boyfriend and it's the best feeling ever
Listening to this I'm thinking... "of course Yoni would be able to break through the Seattle Freeze and meet people" 😂
Love you guys thanks for the great work ❤️❤️
This was such an interesting episode, especially as a foreign person living in Seattle and having a hard time connecting with people here and feeling lonely all around. I love listening to your different takes on the matter!
Bruh it’s tough out here making friends. Like my own friends are busy with their life and our schedules don’t match. But I don’t feel lonely like the feeling of loneliness that often because I really enjoy my own company.
I feel like you guys were getting ready separately and then walked into the room 😂😂😂
This hit on another level. As a person whos trying to figure out life in general, being alone or lonely is a huge thing for me. I struggle with the acceptance of being alone is okay and also making friends as an adult living in a new city. Oof thank you for this! 😢❤
I also resonated completely with the way Alia feels. I really enjoy my own company more than being around others. I do struggle trying to find a balance where I don’t feel I’m sacrificing my alone time to spend time with friends/family - or atleast it feels like if I don’t make efforts to give people time they might get the impression that I don’t care about them.
I think Yoni always manages to talk to someone in any situation as well as he doesn’t think too deep about it like he doesn’t take offense easily. Very easy going. 4:25
What an amazing episode! Such good food for thought
Alia def had the green first! Lol sending you love from Chicagoooo. Ty both for being great!
In regards to the “Not talking while you’re out together eating” me and my man have been together for 7 years, so now it’s gotten to that stage where we’re ok to not talk while we eat but sometimes I try to talk because I feel like people are staring at us probably thinking “Oh they’re probably unhappy” or “oh they’re probably mad” when it’s like no, we’re happy but we’re just always together that we’re not talking so much rn and that’s ok!!
I don’t know why I never feel comfortable around people, I’d always choose to hang out by myself than hanging out with someone, I’d say that I’m 100% introvert and 0% extrovert, I’ve always tried to change that because I know it is not healthy but it is just hard to do so, Or perhaps because I don’t have friends who have same passion and habits as mine🚶🏼♀️.
I remember I was so scared of going to the movie theater alone, now it's my favorite thing to do
I'm trying to do more things alone, next step : a museum
Very interesting topic always great podcast guys 🔥💗 making friends as an adult is low key weird 😂 other than sports it ain’t the same as before and you can definitely be alone and not feel loneliness got to have your self time 💯
I thought Yoni put on the green first haha. Exactly for that reason you said: Yoni calls it out more often 😂
Hi guys❤ oh gosh, what a touching topic
Personally, I adore painting and cooking by myself = alone
Even if I’m not, I just kick out everybody from that room/kitchen
But some other activities, nah
I need a company, need this energy exchange
Loneliness is a huge problem of our time. And unfortunately it’s the worst to feel lonely in a group of people
Tbh just felt a bit chaotic (looking for the definitions still) and talking in circles a bit. But I still enjoyed this ep!
This ep i watched+listened more to in a casual way, which was fun for a change.
Normally I'd put it on the tv, get a nice drinky (coffee, tea or something sparkling) and have a nice sit. But today I listened while cooking and cleaning
I luv you guys so much 💗
If you dont have a camera or yoni vibes you GET A DOG!!! Dogs are the best convo starters/icebreakers!!!
I feel like Alia was wearing green first
I love being alone so much I start wondering if there something wrong w me lol 😂
😂😂😂😭
I wish i was like yoni😢
Yoni copied Alia haha
OFC yoni copied aliaaaaa
i mean...you guys are stretching yourself to force into this topic...caz people who are in a good relationship dont feel that at any given time