Why So Negative? | Ep.73 | What's The Juice? Podcast
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- čas přidán 23. 05. 2023
- why does negativity travel so much faster than positivity? it's something we've always wondered about and we know we're definitely not the only ones. it's so interesting! in today's episode we talked about our own experiences with being negative and how we deal with it. we also touched on gossip, when is gossiping bad vs when it's not so bad lol we all know that everybody gossips! we hope you enjoy this episode and as always please let us know your thoughts in the comment section! :-)
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I started crying when Alia talked about body image. I hate that society makes us feel insecure for how we were created 😢
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As a female I can attest for how differently women are viewed in the society and in the media compared to men. I can fully understand how a girl can view herself through that lens, and it makes it that much harder to just accept herself and "love herself" unconditionally, though that would have been nice in an ideal world.
😂❤😂 loved when Yoni said " you're likeable too...I like you ❤❤❤ it would be so great if we all could be kinder, less judgemental and more encouraging to others...we never know what someone is dealing with or has gone through ....ty for sharing...it's like sitting in your living room with you ❤❤
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Whilst you guys are over fifteen years younger than me (I guess) I enjoy your conversations, which I think are clever, deep and lighthearted at the same time. I did buy new Adidas Sambas although you think that they’re too hyped. 🤣
But I have been wearing them since 2007 and never stopped. Thanks for making me think and keeping me young! Greetings from Germany! x
i think its part of our evolution and survival to focus on the negative compared to the positive. looking for danger, warning signs etc. and wow i'd love to be like yoni, totally accepting of himself! its harder for women and if you grow up around people who critique your appearance. it definitely helps to speak to ones self (especially inner monologue) with compassion though and like a friend. love this episode, greetings from Malaysia!!
Just remembered when she started her youtube and always said she wanted to have her own podcast . She's achieving all those dreams❤️u go gurl😌
positivity!!! also I am the opposite of Alia - I love silence when cooking and gardening etc. I also cant walk or run with earpods in. I need to be fully aware of my surroundings hahaha. Sometimes I listen to your pods when cooking though :P
Positivity // If you don't want to use the word "gossip" you could say: Chismecito 🌝 that's how we say it around here in Tijuana, México jiji!
Also I just wanted to say thank you so much for such a warm and chill conversation between the both of you! It help me to enjoy my morning 💕
Saludos✨
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positivity!!! + loved this episode and this podcast in general !! been listening to an episode every other day or so
There’s a difference between gossip and observation. You can talk about an observation whether it’s someones character or style or whatever but on a healthy level, that should only last in the moment. But once you keep taking about it in current and future conversations and your intentions on why you’re talking about it becomes a projection of your own insecurities, that becomes gossiping. There’s no good gossip.
Very true!
Dude, I agree with Yoni on Body Image 💯
I’ve NEVER wanted to be anyone else- I am me! One-of-a-kind and HAPPY!!!
…if I could chose being anyone else on the planet I would choose exactly me EVERY SINGLE DAY. I’ve always felt that way about myself, I know a lot of girls find flaws in themselves, like Alia was saying…sure I know I have flaws, I’ve had 4 kids now, so even when I work out and get ripped my skin is still soft and my bodies not the same. But not for one single second do I think that’s a bad thing, or do I stand in the mirror and look at myself and wish I could change something. I know girls don’t often think that way about themselves and it’s so rare, lots of girls don’t find me relatable and I struggle with making friends that way because they think I’m “better then them” when maybe I’m just at peace with my life’s experiences and confident in my own skin😅
That being said my husband rarely believes that I had such self-love and acceptance for myself all while growing up because he has been feed media of edited pictures online and thinks I wish I looked like someone else…I just laugh, but to be honest his perspective has put more pressure on me as a married woman then I ever had as a teenager. I’ve gained and lost over 80lbs, 35lbs, 40lbs, and 60lbs with each pregnancy! My children are 7, 4, 3 & 1!
That’s a lot of pressure and alot of hard work! I’m happy and healthy and that’s what counts! When I see an edited pic online I know there’s a real woman behind there maybe wishing she had a bigger 🍑 or something but we all have our struggles and I’m not gonna let someone else insecurities give me some😊
P.S. Alia you are freaking gorge😘😘😘
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Wow as a new CZcamsr, i can relate to so much about sharing what you do with certain people. Like the body language and all that, Alia, omg i can totally understand because i feel the same way. Thank you for sharing that because it’s totally projection from the other person 🩵
I just wanted to take a moment to say, Alia, I think you are extremely beautiful. I definitely agree with the fact on how the "appearance pressure" is way harder on women than on men, and I could relate a lot to what you said. Nonetheless, I was surprised you mentioned that cause when I first found your CZcams channel one of the first thoughts I had was how beautiful you are !
Same first thoughts when I first found Alia on youtube! Not to make everything about looks but I literally told my boyfriend that she is the prettiest person I watch! 🥲💓
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you know guys this gonna be my first comment ever on youtube for all 10 years
thank you for the pod you often help me keep my mental state in a positive way
ily!
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i love this poddd
Can u talk on the topic like maturity level where someone feels doing your own thing is the best …but heads off to you guys for the great impacting topic of the reality …cheers to that
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Alia, I do the same thing while getting ready or doing my make up I turn on Netflix and I always watch a show that I already have seen, so I don't need to pay too much attention lol but then I just hear their voices (like a podcast) haha glad I am not the only one 😂
Omg I relate to Alia on almost everything but aspire to think like Yoni♥️♥️♥️✨
Started this episode on the Podcasts app, but finished on the CZcamss 😅 per your recommendation. 👏🏻 have a great week, and thx for being you🍰🥰
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Natiruts is my fav band ever! They are amazing
They've both grown so muchh❤️
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Oh I just so get Alia, I'm sooo similar to her
And also, I so get the part about women in society, It's really hard to understand the emotional part of it all if you are not a woman, and It's not helping at all when men try and tell us how we should be/feel, its so hard, and we need time, sorry Yoni haha nothing personal, it's just is what it is
Love from Serbia 😊😊😊
Alia is so true about the way of women’s thinking… even if you are objectively beautiful still there are moment you feel every girl around you prettier😢 it’s good to communicate that 🫶🏻🥹
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I liked the way Yoni said ' hold on a second' 9:52
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positivity :)) "oooh" hahha
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Always positivity and 💙
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14:20 read the book: On Women - Susan Sontag please!
This episode felt way too short🫠😭
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This is so random but Yoni kinda resembles Rauw Alejandro (Rosalia’s fiancé) 🤣 didn’t notice till now! Loved this episode!!
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uuuuf gossip
@13:25 - yo I *really* wanna hear y’all’s perspective on alternating your body image (plastic surgery, fillers, etc)
I can also relate strongly with the comparison thing, Alia. It’s an ongoing journey but it’s a mindset shift. Your mind wasn’t always in a constant state of comparison. I literally taught my algorithm to stop showing me these girls with “perfect”/photoshopped bodies because I knew these unrealistic standards weren’t doing anything for me. I empathize with you girl. I agree with Yoni; you’re perfect the way you are - as we all are!
also women are judged different you don’t see words like “bossy” and “opinionated” being used to describe men
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This is my fav episode. I lost interest in all other podcasts.
first 😋🤍
This episode really highlights how Yoni is an amazing friend and a wonderful partner to Alia. I resonate a lot with Ali with her inner struggles but it truly makes a difference when you have a partner like Yoni who listens and acknowledges her struggles and checks in even when she doesn't know she needs it. 🥹