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Heavy topic but you guys did it very well 💕 We are all our biggest critics so totally get it Alia I feel like the older you get the better you are about your body because at the end of the day there are some things we can control somethings we definitely can’t like height

I turned 30 a couple weeks ago, I'm a dancer and I KNOW the feeling. I think the only thing I can say it's that it gets better with age. I still train and dance but now I focus on my health and to be good to my body, and specially if I'm not working as a dancer, but I wanna keep doing it bc I love it. It's normal that our bodys change with time and as I get older I feel happier with my desitions bc they are mine and no dance teacher can make me feel bad anymore. My relationship with who I am and with movement has changed so much with time, and I hope that one day it happens to you Alia xx.

hi alia l’m a big fan of your channel l’m a majoring ballet,l’m a just a one of the ballet student in South Korea l both love your own channel and this podcast l love to listen your podcast when l warmup before l start the ballet class l so surprised today because l didn’t know you were a ballet dancer before Although l don’t know why you quit the ballet but l hope your ballet period was good experience for your lifetime l didn’t see you dance but in my opinion your dance would have been wonderful As ballet student l have a lot of worry about my body l think maintaining my weight is very difficult btw alia your vides are very motivation to me l always respectful your hard exercise routine and l always support you

Does Yoni do that phone checking in a restaurant just because he wanna show he is an alpha male?

This episode was a perfect example of why I love both of you and this podcast and your dynamic/interactions with each other!

I think it's important to remember that the grass is always greener. I'm 5' 11" and it's impossible to find pants that are long enough, especially now that baggier/oversized styles are more trendy. At least you can get things hemmed! You can't add fabric when things are too short

I see photos are like those paintings in Super Mario 64. But instead of jumping into them, just looking at them can take you back to that exact moment. I get both sides though!

I think the perspective changes as you get older too. I think about the quote: There is no audience to perform for-there is just you.

Alia was going through literal hell, i know exactly what she is talking about😢 and Alia wait until you are preganant😂 this bodydymorphia is like a drug. Im 29 after one pregancy and still fighting everyday with my Body. But now im at a Point to just accept it in my natural shape and Not in my best looking shape. ❤❤

Siblings? I only know of her sister. There's more Alia's??? 😍😍😍

Hi I’m from Japan, and I’m listening your guys podcast from Japan. And I’m small so I totally agree with Alia, I really wanna get “my size” of bottoms😂 and when I went to in America, all clothes are big cuz I think Japanese people are little bit too skinny. Todays podcast I was like “yeahhhhh” haha

I think you both spoke in a very sensitive way not to offend anyone and it gave me more insight into Alia.

I'm one year younger than Alia, and I agree with how you feel about comparing yourself now to how you were before. I had a really bad eating disorder growing up, and I still struggle with it every single day. I have gained over 75 pounds over the past couple of years, and right now, I can't even look at myself. It's hard, but I know that one day I'll love myself and my body! This was a good episode, and I love these vulnerable moments. I was watching Alia before I moved to Seattle and still watch her now that I've moved to NYC for work. I love seeing this other side of her, where everyone isn't perfect and everything is not what it seems. It makes you guys feel more like real people, which I love. Keep it up!

My husband does this exact thing and also uses the sink as a trash storage spot 😂

“Te amo, me amo Yoni” 😂✨

Don’t have an Instagram or any social media hihi and I love it :)

I am learning English, and your podcast is really good. I love it!

I will gladly volunteer to follow y’all around and take candids lol

Yoni needs a vlog!

Very random question but I was wondering since Yoni speaks so many languages and lived in différent countries, in which language do you think??

I also love capturing random moments and things I find aesthetic in some way or another. Sharing them on social media is a way of romanticizing my life even though I only have 300 followers lol

Alia, taking one or a few photos is not going to "take you out of the moment" - it's more us finding something that is interesting or artistic and sharing that with our peers/followers to show our personalities or views of what we see of OUR world. It definitely does not mean that we're not present nor does it take us away from that moment. and also, the whole point of a taking pictures is having a somewhat TANGIBLE memory of what we've seen and done in our lives. And trust me, WE DO go back and look on those pictures, you're gonna regret not taking more.

Totally get Yoni!!! The part you said “taking pictures do make me feel so much in the present”, so much that it would literally make me PULL OUT my phone/camera to capture something/someone/somewhere nice, just so i can live up more to the present time you know? 😂😂 And also taking pictures of stuff is such a nice way to see life, like, finding beauty in things that surround us, like you said “a bag of ice in the street” is such a cool thing to do! Also, shout out from Brazil tho! Love you guys! ❤❤

Alia, where are your pants from!

Omg, I relate so much with Yoni, I’m always the one taking the pictures and sharing 😍 also my mom would tell me what the hell are u even taking a photo of ? And then when she actually sees the picture she loves it and nowadays she doesn’t even have an opinion , she just tells me to send her the pictures 😂😂😂

WTJ Wednesday 🌟🤩🤩🔥

Alia sounding super hypocritical about capturing moments when she purposely CHOSE to be an influencer and justifying that what she does is because it’s her job, but on the other hand Yoni’s passion/career is also being a photographer so he’s very much entitled to share as much as she does. 😂 I CANNOT

Yoni, you should to read Atomic Habits book, in Spanish to practice too, I'm reading this book in English because first of all It's an insane book and it's help me with my bad habits by the way. And I've been acquiring the language abour a year and a half so it's great to build a good habit and throw the phone away for a moment.

Yoni would do great with Spanish 👍🏽

Yonie, please, there’s nothing noothing wrong with capturing a moment quickly. or even trying to take a great photo of the moment. there’re so many different types of people and different approaches to life. i’m not a social media person but i do post on instagram too and sometimes i go on my archive on instagram and scrolling my memories and it gives me so much joy, what life and emotions i lived in that moment. sometimes i can’t believe i was in those places or was friends with those people. just think about it, working on yourself to make less beautiful memories? there’s definitely balance obviously and i just wanted to relate to the part about making photos thank you for another awesome episode Alia & Yonie 🫶🏻 hope you having a good time!

my weekly novela 🥰💌

It’s like I’m hanging out with my buddies 💜

I enjoyed. Thanks

Awwwwh this meal is about to hit🔥🔥🔥🔥

best company!!! always <333

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Romanticizing the mundane/simple things is really a key to unlock a deeper sense of joy in life. We all have to do it, why not make it enjoyable? Great podcast!

Love the episode and I should say, I’m with you Alia 🥹 Yoni has so many similar habits with my boyfriend and it was hilarious to listen this podcast. Let me just suggest a mini garbage closer to sink, it changes the game lol. Definitely I’m, changing into home clothes right away kinda gal who loves her quite space in the morning 🥰 + picking up plates after dinner for the one who cook is really means thank you in our culture too❤ Love the episode, always a masterpiece 🎉

Hi! Thanks for this podcast! In my mind responsibility = opportunities / power / freedom. As for chores understanding that I have nice apartment, good furniture and beautiful dishes - helps to clean them) ...as well as listening your podcast while doing something

Legit listening to a podcast does make everything better!!

23 here, bout to turn 24 - we all trynna figure out this adulthood stuff! I am pretty damm fortunate to have managed to get myself in a job that I love and make good money too, but social media can be so goddamm depressing sometimes!

Love you guys!! FROM WISCONSIN ❤

Would love to hear more about where you guys were born and your perpectives about moving as a child/teen vs. an adult ♥ And I always listen to podcasts while cooking, doing the dishes and even when I'm working

Thank you Yonnie for sharing the story! hah

Watching during my llunch break in office ❤ Love it

I love when alia talks about her childhood in Romania, so much of it sounds like my childhood in Turkey - even some of the words are the same! ciorba is the same, çorba 🤤

🫶🏿🫶🏿 I think being adult is definitely changing for all lol 😂 but yeah there some upside and with everything if you’re more negative it will be negative 💯

Hi! Coming from one of your older subs (41)… you guys are already preparing yourselves for a successful adult path… you both are in touch with each others needs while focusing on yourselves individually in all aspects 🤎

I don’t have insta 🎉

I think this episode was very interesting. While I was listening to it, I recognized myself in Alia’s words. I mean, for a long time, I used to blame myself for the way I expressed myself and the things I said to others, even though these things were just my own opinion! I have always considered myself a good listener, but I didn’t feel that others treated me the same way. Because of this, I sometimes thought the problem was me and my intense personality. After a long process in therapy, I understood that my way could be softer and calmer, hahaha. I also learned that I don’t need to express my opinions all the time. Sometimes, the listener doesn’t care about different opinions, and it can be very stressful and exhausting, so it’s better not to share. Furthermore, I’m on a journey to accept that most of the time, people don’t care too much. Your friends aren’t analyzing every word and behavior; they are just letting it flow. The feeling of being wrong or the fear of their opinions about your opinions is often just in your head, trying to be accepted and to control the situations. So, it’s an exercise not to care too much, too <3