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This life as whole is enjoyment and the best of enjoyment is righteous wife
@@Zumerjud Having a righteous wife as an enjoyment is good.
@Auran CrashHe quoted a hadith
Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The world is enjoyment and the best enjoyment in the world is a righteous wife.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1467
@@Zumerjud brother i quoted a Hadith of prophet if you have a problem with that then is u problem not mine
@@abbamusaabdullahi8013 I didn't know it was a hadith
@@Zumerjud sorry bro with my approach its a hadith of prophet Muhammad peace and blessing be upon him emphasising on having a righteous wife may Allah bless us with righteous wives and children ameen
It always amazes me how Brother Gabriel can focus on driving and still deliver top class content!🙌
I appreciate that!
@@alromaani
As salamu alikum.
As far as I can remember, I little bit wronged you two times in the past in your comment section because of some sort of jealousy. I beg your pardon for those comments. I hope you will accept this apology from me as your Muslim brother for the sake of Allah.
He can't really be focussing on both TBH.😏He should park up & record. That is what Shariah would stipulate.🤷🏿♀️😇
What amazes me even more is that the Brother seems to value his time so much that he records while he‘s driving to not waste time while riding 😎
@@alromaani Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakattu Usthad. Hope you are in the best state of imaan and afiyah.
Unrelated to your video, But I have a question. I am a young muslimah. I have had and am still suffering from lot of trauma because obviously, this is the dunya. But it has all got my temperament to be more masculine in nature. Am not sure if am making sense? Let's just say am not a "girly" girl. I don't like drama, I stay away from gossip, chit-chat small talk kinda things. I am introverted, but I'd happily be around those whom I love and am comfortable with. The struggles of the dunya has made me more mature, assertive, help me contain my emotions. I don't talk or even smile unnecessarily. Most of the time am silent. I may seem to be a boring to some even, haha. I workout because I wanna be a qawi Amatullah. My mindset is impregnable.
But I am sure I'll make a loving, caring, emphatic, emotionally intelligent and mentally mature wife and mother. Am not very feminine in nature. But I totally believe in the roles of a man and a woman in a household and a society in the broader perspective. I won't work if my husband has enough to provide for the family. I loathe the leftist ideologies and find am absolutely disgusted by feminism and anything related to it.
I try my best to remain inculcate haya in my life, be a person of taqwa and fulfill as much sunnah as possible.
Do these traits make me repulsive or intimidating to men? Or do men only like the typical emotional, vulnerable, feminine kinda women?
Kindly reply and increase my understanding, because the whole red-pill movement has got me confused whether or not if strong women are appreciated in a conservative community.
Jazakallah khair.
You know already it’s a good one when brother shows up in his car
He activated the concentration mode, always good videos in the car
Please brother Gabriel
Please give one video on brothers being KIND to the women of the house,
Our beautiful Prophet peace be upon him told to the men be Kind to women,
Women by their fitra will go above and beyond to do mire for him if he's the minimum request kind and treats the women well.
Brother pkease do at least one video just on this point
@Moonlight Stop slandering your brother in Islam, he said reject her in bed, not beat her.
@Moonlight No, you did lie. You explicitly stated that Gabriel SAID you should beat your wives in his videos. Go seek therapy, you've clearly been hurt by a man and have unresolved trauma.
@Moonlight stop misinterpreting, slandering...
@Moonlight May Allah save you from toxic feminazism...
Show me one video where he advocates Beating wife (actual beating)...
Now someone might argue that there's verse in Quran which advocates beating....
Read this article you'll get uts interpretation from prophet Muhammad ﷺ and his companions رضي الله عنهم and other scholars.
@Moonlight To summarize all the restrictions placed on ‘striking’ by the scholars: it is with a light object like a toothbrush, handkerchief, or palm, not a club or whip, it must not cause pain, injury, harm, or disgrace, it must not leave any bruise or mark, and it must not be on sensitive areas like the face. A man who violates any of these restrictions is held legally responsible and his wife may divorce him for it, all of which amounts to a prohibition of domestic violence.
Taken altogether, this ‘striking’ is nothing more than a teaching mechanism intended to convey to his wife the gravity of her unwarranted behavior, because the final step afterwards is divorce. The Prophet (ṣ) would use such a symbolic ‘striking’ with his male companions as a means of catching their attention.
Abu Dharr reported:
فَضَرَبَ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ بِيَدِهِ عَلَى مَنْكِبِي ثُمَّ قَالَ
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, struck my chest with his hand and he said…
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1825, Grade: Sahih
In this instance, the Prophet (ṣ) ‘struck’ Abu Dharr on the chest before giving him an important lesson about leadership. It was not intended to hurt him or disgrace him, but rather he wanted to get his attention.
In fact, some of the early Muslims understood the ‘striking’ to be metaphorical and not physical at all.
Ata’ said:
لَا يَضْرِبُهَا وَإِنْ أَمَرَهَا وَنَهَاهَا فَلَمْ تُطِعْهُ وَلَكِنْ يَغْضَبُ عَلَيْهَا
A man should not strike his wife if he commands her and prohibits her and she does not obey him, but rather he should show her his anger.
Source: Aḥkām al-Qur’ān li-Ibn al-‘Arabī 4:34
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Your videos are awesome and helpful! MashaAllah
Bro, You always hit on the dot. Barakallahu feekum.
May Allah bless you Gabriel Al Romani for your efforts
Great advice
What a legend for recording such a nice video while driving🤣
جزاك الله خير يا أخي
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Brother Jibreel
Jazakallahu khayr.
Your Disclaimer came a bit too late brother Gabriel 🤣😂🤣. May Allah bless you
😂😂😂😂
Work hard brothers.
May Allah reward you Ameen 🤲🏻
Jazak Allah ghair
Khair (good/reward) not ghair (not)
Sobhanallah may Allah bless you allways Aameen ❤️ 🙏 💖
informative
السلام عليكم
Brother do you have a Romanion translation of Qur’an? My Romanion friend became Muslim
JazakaAllah Khair
You should have started by asking him what is she nagging about?
The guy would probably say everything, my existence is her nagging
it doesn't matter what she's nagging about. nagging is an unattractive quality in a woman. do it often and you're signalling a lack of interest in the man
Saw my sister nagging around while she on her phone while my mom was cooking and doing something in kitchen after i went home from work on my business it's really irritated me to the bone seeing her like that, i always helped mom to cleaning the floor and set the carpet before food come on it,,but alhamdulillah my mom always force my sister to di housechores and things get better now she used to it.. I can't imagine if this nagging behaviour happened to my future wife.
No logic, that's why divorce is there. Divorce and move on if you can't put up with your spouses flaws. Why commit a major sin...when you can leave a marriage in halal??
Don't get married if you can't handle the heat. Women aren't a superstore.
@@mufasahm8238I'm a sister, I didn't say women are superstores. I was just saying that it's important to know that divorce if there for those who can't handle a terrible situation. Instead of committing major sins or oppressing the other, just walk away. It's better for your akhirah. Yes, try to have great patience, but not when it risks your afterlife
@@mufasahm8238 if a woman is being a disobedient and nagging wife she should expect divorce. may students of knowledge say the same. some recommend to get another wife. women need to get a grip and become real women. this is not a way how a wife should behave with her husband.
@@shadowstorm5261 💯
@@shadowstorm5261 Yes lets just change Wifeys 🤦♀️. My Husband would never let me go. Most Mature Men would never change the Wife as they are very jelaous and cant handle the thought of the Wife finding love somewhere else
The most beautiful words full of reward💐💐💐
Al-Qur’an is the greatest form of dhikr 🌹❤️🥰
Subhan’Allah🌹
Alhamdu lillah🌹
Laa ilaaha illaa Allah🌹
Allahu Akbar🌹
Laa hawla wa laa quwwata illaa billah🌹
Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🌹
Subhan’Allahi wa bihamdihi Subhan’Allahil Azweem🌹
May peace and blessings of Allah be upon our beloved prophet his companions and entire household🥰❤️
What happens when women get "disrespected"? And what is a justified outcome?
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Dislaimer after 5:17 🫣
Is this in Dubai?
Ya
How about you think about Why she’s nagging..? I’m sure if we listened to her about this guy it would be different.
because all women are know is for nagging. This is very common. she likely is being ungrateful towards him. women that are ungrateful to their husbands are in hellfire
@@shadowstorm5261 ignorant comment.
@@Geebee67 no, your comment is ignorance. she's signalling everything wrong. the reasons are not important
My wife pushed me to sin WILL NOT be acceptable to save you from jahannam the day of judgement.
@exposejews that will not save you either
@Rabbi Shmuel Shekelbaum indeed.
Tell her to bring you another woman to marry. Hopefully one that won't nag.
Looks like this video triggered a whole batch of feminists lol. Men don't like women who nag, if you nag, be prepared for your husband to do things behind your back. You're supposed to be a wife, not a mother.
Accurate until the last sentence
Last sentence is saying the wife should be a wife to a husband, not a second mother to the husband. Of course if Allah blesses her she can be a mother to their children
Here we go another one who can't find any other excuse than women being feminist , all the immature ones who have nothing to offer and too ugly to be considered only have this word in their mouth : feminist . What does it make of you ? You are gaslighting and mansplaining
@@AbaAslam he can tho, he can get a secret wife
My wife pushed me to sin WILL NOT be acceptable to save you from jahannam the day of judgement.
Sometimes a man ,a muslim won't find better women ,better than his wife,she is what he needs,even though f his wife is not liked by him.
Read and contemplate over Sura 4, Ayah 19.
Delusion must taste good. May Allah help you to free yourself from the chains of lack of accountability.
Not really, that's a woman's problem, not a man's problem. If she has a good man and she annoys him such that he leaves her, she's going to have a much harder time finding a man of equal or higher value. For men as we age our value increases and our options open up. A man becomes wealthier, more experienced and more mature as he ages.
women that are ungrateful to their husbands are in hellfire
@@shadowstorm5261 Im sure Men who beat up Women are also in Hellfire
@@susanneal6063 this isn't about men, is it though.
Marriage is a high risk, low rewarding investment for men and high rewarding, low risk investment for women -RICHARD COOPER (ENTREPRENEURS IN CARS)
@jshsywhsksoaj in the current modern world, it doesn't matter the country
@jshsywhsksoaj that's the Islamic way but what's happening in Muslim countries is different
stop listening to these kuffar, when they speak about women
@jshsywhsksoaj stay single, invest in yourself, stay fit etc
@@liby254 they speak facts about men and women and society in general
Brothers who are fed up with wives nagging should be courageous enough to get another wife before talking to their wives about their issues.
Rather than staring and looking at other women as an excuse and ultimately falling into the zina,
It's not a scarstic comment , but advice based on life changing experiences, men & women's psychological actions, and reactions.
That's how Islam has all the answers .
Be men , be the head of the house .Take Islamic responsibilities of husband and father. Then, if your wife still mistreats you, go for the Islamic step by step options.
Most of the women with some intellect will improve their behaviour at the early stages of reprimand, and the thought of the second wife will fix lots of problems.
Taking 2nd wife is not as disastrous in real life as it seems in fantasy marriage from a woman's point of view .
Even the stubborn , most sensitive ,and macho type women compromise and accept it. And with time, adjust their lives ..
It's another topic itself.
It's far, far better than having an adulterous relationship and destruction of your family life, children, and akhira.
You're a jokerrr. Don't talk about problems and find another wife? Sort your brain, you don't know what a marriage is. You're treating it like a girlfriend you can leave. Did you even watch the brother's video in his advising?
They can't even take care of the first , never mind the second, lol 😆 😂 🤣
@@user-ux8pj3rf4w That's why Islam has boundaries and rights and responsibilities towards others and liability towards your actions.
@@user-ux8pj3rf4w more like the first is a terrible wife. who are you to judge if a man is capable to take another. that is the mans decision and he will be judged by Allah.
@Sahra Mao it's not a generalisation .
It's from a very neutral, psychological point of view ,how men and women behave .
2nd marriage advice is from women's point of view , who had found out their husbands' adulterous relationships after very long years of marriages.
And on confrontation, they would hear that they were nagging wives , they have to blame themselves for their husband’s mistakes.
Of course, there are very few marriages that could be saved after those heart aches 💔.
Men didn't like their wives for whatever reason. Instead of communicating it with them , they would make excuses for Affairs.
These are the real-life tests that come in people's lives, and to be honest, men and women both can go through these tests.
For women who are unappreciative , manipulative , greedy, and want full control over husbands, only for their service, 2nd marriage fix lots of issues.
In our times media , Hollywood and bollywood have made marriages into a fantasy .
Life is tough. People are hard hearted. You need to learn the negotiations, compromises, patience, and the "Way Out" if everything fails .
We do not need to follow the culture or family, but Qur’ān and Sunnah give you the best solutions.
And 2nd marriage is definitely not as dreadful as it sounds .
Children who are raised in broken homes could have saved from depression and drugs and could have a big loving supportive family , lots of siblings if their Fathers were strong "men" enough as the head of the house.
So are you blaming the woman if her husband is weak and needs to turn to porn? That porn is an addiction and was more than likely a "PRE-EXISTING condition before he met her & the fact that he is married doesn't mean it automatically goes away. It's an ADDICTION. Your guy sounds like he's grasping at ANY excuse to feed his addiction, when in fact, it's just a REASON for the listener to say, "Oh well, if wife isn't doing so-&-so, then I see why he feels that way. No we will NOT be blaming the wife for THIS one, too! Impressive how you can drive safely & stay on topic.
@@maryammohammed9558 Why did you feel the need to say that? I was not addressing you.
Yeah she willingly didn't listen to anything he said, Crazy Women scare me
The brother’s video was very balanced for both the husband and the wife. You should watch it again as you clearly didn’t get it. And porn is not always an addiction. In many cases it is just an escape, a stress reliever-especially when husband and wife are fighting and not going at it themselves.
if your husband is turning to porn it means he's not getting it from you. you need to actually see what is it you're not doing
Brother, driving your wife's car? That seat belt is set very low. The only reason why I think your not adjusting it is because someone will not be happy if they find it moved.
Or maybe because he has a microphone on his collar, too many people extract a whole life story out of one piece of information as if theyre detectives.