nagging and complaining is a way to control men. many tend to give in just to stop her behaviour. i personally think it should be considered some kind of assault. just like words are often used by women as assault.
I rather be dead than listen to another rant of my partner , I even want to leave her but she makes me feel so guilty oh man I don’t know what to do I really don’t feel like living every time she starts nagging , every day the first thing I hear is not “ hey honey” or “ good morning “ noooooo what I wake up to ever day is to complaining about the smallest thing like the dish was placed in the wrong spot or why was the dishes in the right spot it’s like I can’t do anything right , but she clames I’m the man of her life and everything shes ever wanted like I just want to escape this nightmare
Women are bad people. They are trying to kill me as we speak. One ex tried to run me over with her car the other day. She has firearms and I am a little bit worried about things.
Nagging is when your wife asks you for a new car and you explain 2 her litle head that you can t afford it , but she keeps askin over and over again, and you know why ! ? Because women don t care about your strugles, they only care what you can do for them!
@@ReptilianAnusWizzard not necessarily women. I've been with a verbally abusive guy, but everyone saw him as the victim because he was playing the victim all the time in front of friends, and they always assumed I must have done something...
This guy is totally wrong. Women nag because they are conditioned to believe that men are stupid, interchangeable and must bend over backwards to make her happy. “Happy wife happy life”, right? It’s a form of narcissistic abuse and it needs to be called out as such.
I’m just waiting for my wife to loose it and I just laugh at her, I’ll calmly get up and walk out of the marriage….happy to live in my car with nothing
Man experiencing the same thing. Not to be disrespectful or anything but at this point i would just laugh off my spouse when she throws a tantrum especially for the simplest of reasons. Wanna grab a beer sometimes? Its gettin tirin fr
I learned to go to work before she gets up and come home in time to go to bed so that while she’s spending my paycheck I don’t receive as much nagging...
I feel women don't understand how much a guy just needs to relax for 10 minutes before doing anything after work. You see and this can go for women too when you get home from a long day you just wanna chill for 10 minutes but as soon as them step one foot in the door the women's right on him to do this and this. Then the guy responds negative because well shit he just walked in and your up his ass why you women do that. You put your needs first yes we know looking after kids isn't easy we know you need help but we guys also just need time to wind down give him 10 minutes then he will come help he would want to help cause he knows you been busy all day too. That's why some guys dread going home cause there wife's are going to nag them lady's need to learn to chill you act like we don't work hard either let us wind down then we will be glad to help ya.
As always, guys fault, "if he would answer me the first time I wouldn't have to nag!" How about " if you would quit nagging I might respond to some constructive dialog!"
Women find it diffucult to dicetly communicate their needs - amazing for people who never stop talking. It gets bad enough that you can't have a conversation some times, because every thing you say remends her of one of your shortcomings. So you just stop talking. Of course you'll get nagged about that, but that's just one thing, not a hundred.
Just listening huh? WRONG!!! The underlying cause of a nagging wife is power and control. She is basically trying to take the dominant position in the marriage, and may even be doing it out of love and concern. Sorry, but just listening, or even listening and responding in a way you think she wants only addresses the symptoms, and not very effective at that - especially when she thinks that what she does is right. The real solution is to talk to her about who should be dominant and who should be the follower. Now take notice, the best solution to a harmonious marriage is one where there is no dominance or following. You should be equals, so work together towards treating each other that way.
The man has to be dominant and leading or it won't work. Why you think whenever the man isn't leading she will attempt to and be angry doing it because it's not her natural role. You can sit two humans together and one will be the dominant one and the leader out of the two because it has to be one
People understand that she will make an argument happen because she needs to get her daily dose of emotions out. Trying to show your belly will only make her want to take it to the next level
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM i been married 20 years to an extremely emotional constantly upset>angry women, the only was to have a normal life is to show her that she reponsible for her actions and controlling her emotion, i never walk on egg shells, sure i will listen when shes stressed and wants to talk, though i just listen, i dont give advice, and i stand my ground.. this seems to work...
That's how marriages work. One person will always be the one compromising, changing and sacrificing to make the other happy. The man dies first because he's worked into the ground, physically and emotionally all so she can have a care free life. Some men find this type of lifestyle as noble but it's a waste of your life
Women dont find it difficult to express their needs... women are tired of expressing their needs to men who dont care or dont listen to them, while expecting undevided attention when they want to talk about a football game or a video game.
The unfulfilled needs is a silly theory. Most nagging is for trivial tasks that don't matter or don't even concern the nagger. Ignoring the nagger is an excellent Cesar Milan trick. You can't acknowledge your dog barking, that will just reinforce the behaviour. The nagger simply needs to learn that her needs just aren't that important and neither is she.
@@ExtroOutt_Deluxium Thankfully not. You have to remember, whether your partner gets upset doesn't matter. Much like a child, you cannot indulge their tantrums because they need to learn how to control their emotions. You wouldn't hold off disciplining your child because you wouldn't want to upset them, the same principle applies here.
If you want me to do what you want, stop the nagging, get to a peaceful talk with me explaining the changes you want. Husband(victim of "nagging" from the wife)
You can do all she says but that would never solve the problem ... just like the alcoholic blames others for their problem, the Nag does the same, face it you experts, a Nag is an abusive person, they need Help
Hey, I gotta admit, my girlfriend can drive me nuts sometimes even though we're not married. But, at the end of the day, I still love her loads. She can be kinda emotional over minor things and doesn't always take my advice, which can be frustrating. Despite all that, I care about her a ton.
Yup just wait buddy you can be married to the love of your life eventually that live will fade and all you’ll hear everyday is *meeeeeh meeeeeehhhh!* yes it’ll drive you crazy good luck
Do not marry that girl. Do not deal with crazy. Do not put a ring on crazy. Are u driving her nuts. ? I don't think so. Respect goes both ways. Plz evaluate your life and how your future will look should u keep accepting the behavior
well, we all get tested as men! and it's good you still love her, despite the differences! it all depends on how you speak to her and whether or not she wants you to listen or hear you out, but hey, we're all learning. keep caring about her, and may your relationship stand the test of time! c:
I don’t get it. If they want something to get done exactly when they want, why don’t they just do it themselves? They are grown-ass adults too. If you put it on your man’s plate, he will fit it in his schedule when he deems it convenient to get done. Since when does the wife need to become so dependent on others for things to happen? Did you go straight into marriage after leaving your parents? And of course the only exception to this can be said something like physical labor she wouldn’t be able to handle or something alike. If that’s the case leave the relationship.
My wife just cursed me for not checking her insurance claim immediately after she told me to. I told wait till I off work. She wouldn't accept. Worst decision to get married
26m 32f, married a year this coming sunday. Everything is fine and dandy until she starts nagging. 96% of the tine its good. But when she nags she doesnt stop. If i agree its not good enough snd god forbid i tell her not to demand i do something or tske a certain tone. I keep telling her its not her criticism that pisses me off, its the fact that she just pushes to fsr with it.
Why don’t wife just say direct I don’t like this this and this please change and forget about it and be happy and have happy chat with your man. And we man need to take serious look at things she mentioned not happy about and do the right thing. I personally think this would be a happy marriage.
It happened to me yesterday but before that's why i decided to come and check on CZcams. The incident was. She came to my place with her friend so i prepared everything for her when she was going she left around 12 am and am going to work at 4am. I ordered Uber for to go to her home place and then i took a little break in bed. Then the next day i called her in the morning to say good morning and in the afternoon then at night again i called to say goodnight the she stared hihihiihhihhihi lulukuluuu gigi hi giugg Bhdggdi7yeyj U DID NOT CALLED LAST TIME TO SAY GOOD NIGHT hdhdhdyd hhdjeue jdhdjeudh hhwtggh hehxh i was like have i called with for the battle of words
Dump him, if you haven’t already. An upstanding virtuous man never dose this. It is a feminine characteristic. It’s becoming more common unfortunately, it’s a sign of weakness and immaturity. Dump him.
Total bullshit. The amount of nagging you cop has nothing to do with your wife and everything to do with your inability to see her needs as being as important as yours, a wife who is listened to, won't need to nag (so just take the damn trash out before you have to be asked, you have eyes so use em) The length of time between the asking and the doing is based on how important your partners needs are to you. So if you ask for something and expect it done straight away why can't she expect the same? You want dinner on the table? She wants the washing up done... how long did you wait for the dinner? How long did she wait for you to do the dishes? And yeah.... you can't nag someone to do something that's already done. So if she's asked you to do it... just do it... then she can't nag about it. Problem solved.
Happy life without wife.
Rucus Rucus stay single guys my best advice
Damn right. 太他妈对了。cierto amigo.
Happy life if my wife is on Ritalin or Provegil
I learned my lesson
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Being single is the best decision I’ve ever made
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@@MrLiquidxIce yes
Your a saint, save me.
"No woman, no cry"
- Bob Marley
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nagging and complaining is a way to control men. many tend to give in just to stop her behaviour. i personally think it should be considered some kind of assault. just like words are often used by women as assault.
I rather be dead than listen to another rant of my partner , I even want to leave her but she makes me feel so guilty oh man I don’t know what to do I really don’t feel like living every time she starts nagging , every day the first thing I hear is not “ hey honey” or “ good morning “ noooooo what I wake up to ever day is to complaining about the smallest thing like the dish was placed in the wrong spot or why was the dishes in the right spot it’s like I can’t do anything right , but she clames I’m the man of her life and everything shes ever wanted like I just want to escape this nightmare
Ha, try telling a woman to calm down. No woman has ever calmed down in the history of saying "calm down".
LOOOOL!
Women are bad people. They are trying to kill me as we speak. One ex tried to run me over with her car the other day. She has firearms and I am a little bit worried about things.
Its different in muslim countries though...
Last Standing Deplorable MGTOW Ha! You don't know Muslim wives.
Men may have more overt 'authority' in Muslim countries but they also have way more material and protective responsibilities
I went MGTOW as Solomon adviced!
Nagging is when your wife asks you for a new car and you explain 2 her litle head that you can t afford it , but she keeps askin over and over again, and you know why ! ? Because women don t care about your strugles, they only care what you can do for them!
Same thing with me again and again just like kids
Oh yes. I agree. My wife is this way.
Nagging is verbal abuse, it's the female equivalent of bullying and dominating why is this treated with such comedic mirth?
Simeon The Free Range Human
Because men are not in a position where society will acknowledge thhat woman can bully men, men are allways the bad ones
@@ReptilianAnusWizzard not necessarily women. I've been with a verbally abusive guy, but everyone saw him as the victim because he was playing the victim all the time in front of friends, and they always assumed I must have done something...
So very true
@@TheWilDOn31 Everyone? You mean his friends. Obviously they’re going to defend him.
@@TheWilDOn31different topic for another time. For NOW, stay in context!!!!!
This guy is totally wrong. Women nag because they are conditioned to believe that men are stupid, interchangeable and must bend over backwards to make her happy. “Happy wife happy life”, right? It’s a form of narcissistic abuse and it needs to be called out as such.
I’m just waiting for my wife to loose it and I just laugh at her, I’ll calmly get up and walk out of the marriage….happy to live in my car with nothing
I think many men feel the way you do. It’s come to that point in society where it’s better to walk away.
lol i do the same.
loser
No doubt, I’ve been married for almost 3 years and on a few occasions I slept in my truck, freezing cold, but it was much better than the nagging
Man experiencing the same thing. Not to be disrespectful or anything but at this point i would just laugh off my spouse when she throws a tantrum especially for the simplest of reasons. Wanna grab a beer sometimes? Its gettin tirin fr
Waking up every morning and hearing complaining. It's a broken record playing the same tune. Telling me every day that I am a failure.
I learned to go to work before she gets up and come home in time to go to bed so that while she’s spending my paycheck I don’t receive as much nagging...
Just leave her dude
Wow. Emotional abuse.
Bail, let some other desperate sap suffer the nag.
I feel women don't understand how much a guy just needs to relax for 10 minutes before doing anything after work. You see and this can go for women too when you get home from a long day you just wanna chill for 10 minutes but as soon as them step one foot in the door the women's right on him to do this and this. Then the guy responds negative because well shit he just walked in and your up his ass why you women do that. You put your needs first yes we know looking after kids isn't easy we know you need help but we guys also just need time to wind down give him 10 minutes then he will come help he would want to help cause he knows you been busy all day too. That's why some guys dread going home cause there wife's are going to nag them lady's need to learn to chill you act like we don't work hard either let us wind down then we will be glad to help ya.
women don't know how to give space to tired men. thats why men disenaged and women filed for divorce. it is all women's fault.
Or try this: Stop. Fucking. Nagging.
Is it too much to expect of a woman to be able to communicate like an adult?
Apparently yes
Yes
stay single guys
Women are so sweet in public.
Don't fall for it.
Go MGTOW
MGTOW saves lives
naggig wives should get dicvored without compesantion. sometimes it is the wive's fault of damanging the mirrage to beyound repairable.
Go your own way mates
As always, guys fault, "if he would answer me the first time I wouldn't have to nag!" How about " if you would quit nagging I might respond to some constructive dialog!"
Bryan Curtis the solution is to put on some headphones and go directly from work to your mancave. It ensures peace and quiet
Jason Young I know right we men need just 10 minutes to wi d down but the women feels she needs to be up your ass as soon you walk in
They never give you a break. Even if you tell them that you heard them they just keep going.
It goes both ways, its almost never just one person thats the problem
Dear ladies,
The lesser you complain about things the more successfull your demands are going to be.
- a random dude on the internet
Women find it diffucult to dicetly communicate their needs - amazing for people who never stop talking.
It gets bad enough that you can't have a conversation some times, because every thing you say remends her of one of your shortcomings. So you just stop talking. Of course you'll get nagged about that, but that's just one thing, not a hundred.
Haha well stated
I think you cant change a nagger, women love it too much.
and men die earlier bc of that.
I work 14 hours a day for 6 days a week. My only day off is filled with getting nagged. Nagging should be illegal
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM exactly
Just listening huh? WRONG!!! The underlying cause of a nagging wife is power and control. She is
basically trying to take the dominant position in the marriage, and may even be doing it out of love and concern. Sorry, but just listening, or even listening and responding in a way you think she wants only addresses the symptoms, and not very effective at that - especially when she thinks that what she does is right. The real solution is to talk to her about who should be dominant and who should be the follower. Now take notice, the best solution to a harmonious marriage is one where there is no dominance or following. You should be equals, so work together towards treating each other that way.
The man has to be dominant and leading or it won't work. Why you think whenever the man isn't leading she will attempt to and be angry doing it because it's not her natural role. You can sit two humans together and one will be the dominant one and the leader out of the two because it has to be one
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM I agree ish...there should be a leader...but leading has been confused with dictatorship and kingship.
keep the engine running , and get out of there at the first sign of nagging , ie when she start talking
gging
They are unstoppable
'stay calm and avoid escalation' This does not work with women. if a couple don't gel then NOTHING will fix this...
People understand that she will make an argument happen because she needs to get her daily dose of emotions out. Trying to show your belly will only make her want to take it to the next level
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM i been married 20 years to an extremely emotional constantly upset>angry women, the only was to have a normal life is to show her that she reponsible for her actions and controlling her emotion, i never walk on egg shells, sure i will listen when shes stressed and wants to talk, though i just listen, i dont give advice, and i stand my ground.. this seems to work...
So.... the “man” needs to alter his behavior to stop her nagging..... got it
That's how marriages work. One person will always be the one compromising, changing and sacrificing to make the other happy. The man dies first because he's worked into the ground, physically and emotionally all so she can have a care free life. Some men find this type of lifestyle as noble but it's a waste of your life
but they never stop
1:02 and 2:18 I was like WTF!
"People who annoy you." ...
@@jpg7051 he said nigga better recognize!🤡
Women dont find it difficult to express their needs... women are tired of expressing their needs to men who dont care or dont listen to them, while expecting undevided attention when they want to talk about a football game or a video game.
If I listen to my wife, and give into whatever she is nagging about, she will just find another thing to nag about.😏
I have never met a woman who has had difficulty stating what she wants.
The unfulfilled needs is a silly theory. Most nagging is for trivial tasks that don't matter or don't even concern the nagger.
Ignoring the nagger is an excellent Cesar Milan trick. You can't acknowledge your dog barking, that will just reinforce the behaviour.
The nagger simply needs to learn that her needs just aren't that important and neither is she.
Hey, I just wanted to give you a heads up - if you tell your partner that exact phrase, they will be extremely pissed. Are you hitched lol
@@ExtroOutt_Deluxium Thankfully not. You have to remember, whether your partner gets upset doesn't matter. Much like a child, you cannot indulge their tantrums because they need to learn how to control their emotions. You wouldn't hold off disciplining your child because you wouldn't want to upset them, the same principle applies here.
@@professordogwood8985 I apologize, man. Maybe you're right
@@ExtroOutt_Deluxium What happened?
"If you want the nagging to stop, then do what I'm telling you to do!"
-Nagging wife.
If you want me to do what you want, stop the nagging, get to a peaceful talk with me explaining the changes you want.
Husband(victim of "nagging" from the wife)
Leave her
You can do all she says but that would never solve the problem ... just like the alcoholic blames others for their problem, the Nag does the same, face it you experts, a Nag is an abusive person, they need Help
LOL. That sums it up well
@@ecocolordopplergrafiacardi4187 LOL don't say it like it's trivial. You have no idea of the inner strength a woman must muster to do this
I tell my children to focus on themselves and never get married and they will stay happy.
Will they get lonely if they are alone?
Come home from work tired
" oh your tired I did this that this and that cooked dinner bla bla bla"
Hey, I gotta admit, my girlfriend can drive me nuts sometimes even though we're not married. But, at the end of the day, I still love her loads. She can be kinda emotional over minor things and doesn't always take my advice, which can be frustrating. Despite all that, I care about her a ton.
Yup just wait buddy you can be married to the love of your life eventually that live will fade and all you’ll hear everyday is *meeeeeh meeeeeehhhh!* yes it’ll drive you crazy good luck
Those are enough red flags to keep away ask us in marriage,it's hell in hear
Sounds like a Simp to me.
Do not marry that girl. Do not deal with crazy. Do not put a ring on crazy. Are u driving her nuts. ? I don't think so. Respect goes both ways. Plz evaluate your life and how your future will look should u keep accepting the behavior
well, we all get tested as men! and it's good you still love her, despite the differences! it all depends on how you speak to her and whether or not she wants you to listen or hear you out, but hey, we're all learning. keep caring about her, and may your relationship stand the test of time! c:
Bill Burr has been tryna warn us for ages! Lol
No wonder Even Bible said those who marry will do fair but those who doesn't will do great.
I don’t get it. If they want something to get done exactly when they want, why don’t they just do it themselves? They are grown-ass adults too. If you put it on your man’s plate, he will fit it in his schedule when he deems it convenient to get done.
Since when does the wife need to become so dependent on others for things to happen? Did you go straight into marriage after leaving your parents? And of course the only exception to this can be said something like physical labor she wouldn’t be able to handle or something alike. If that’s the case leave the relationship.
Duct tape.
Turning “OH NO YOU DON’T!!!” into “Mmmm! Mmmmm!!! MMMMMHM!” since 1946.
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Instead of nagging women why don't you just change the way you react to men not listening to fast response
My wife just cursed me for not checking her insurance claim immediately after she told me to. I told wait till I off work. She wouldn't accept. Worst decision to get married
He's talking to her about nagging women and she naggs him
Men expect a peacful home. We are pretty clear about it, and yet it dosent happen.
26m 32f, married a year this coming sunday. Everything is fine and dandy until she starts nagging. 96% of the tine its good. But when she nags she doesnt stop. If i agree its not good enough snd god forbid i tell her not to demand i do something or tske a certain tone. I keep telling her its not her criticism that pisses me off, its the fact that she just pushes to fsr with it.
This is the most superficial description of what form nagging takes on. 🤦🏼♂️
"post it on his forehead" oh lady, i think you need to sort out your own problem first before trying to help others
Oh, so its a comunication problem. So what women want? Just everything.
Speaking of focus; Ritalin could stop a nagging women
Why don’t wife just say direct I don’t like this this and this please change and forget about it and be happy and have happy chat with your man. And we man need to take serious look at things she mentioned not happy about and do the right thing. I personally think this would be a happy marriage.
It happened to me yesterday but before that's why i decided to come and check on CZcams.
The incident was. She came to my place with her friend so i prepared everything for her when she was going she left around 12 am and am going to work at 4am. I ordered Uber for to go to her home place and then i took a little break in bed.
Then the next day i called her in the morning to say good morning and in the afternoon then at night again i called to say goodnight the she stared hihihiihhihhihi lulukuluuu gigi hi giugg
Bhdggdi7yeyj U DID NOT CALLED LAST TIME TO SAY GOOD NIGHT hdhdhdyd hhdjeue jdhdjeudh hhwtggh hehxh i was like have i called with for the battle of words
Misleading title. This is useless advice for actually stopping my wife from nagging in the first place.
Obviously it’s a click bait… you cannot stop them for nagging…
Islam solved this problem 1400 years ago
😂😂😂😂 Really! How?
Don't get married don't live together and have no kids 😉
Best solution , do not get marry.
😂😅
Are these the WACO people?
I'm late. Hahaha. Sorta kinda. Waco people were a splintered group.
Be single.
This is some BS 😂
Very bad advice, talking wont do sht
I love how it's gendered towards women but the reason I'm here is to deal with a whiny nagging male💀
Everything in society is gendered towards women.
Dump him, if you haven’t already. An upstanding virtuous man never dose this. It is a feminine characteristic. It’s becoming more common unfortunately, it’s a sign of weakness and immaturity. Dump him.
Insecurity
Stupid movies in the last 50+ years where they glorified the women at expense of men is the reason for this nonsense.
Total bullshit. The amount of nagging you cop has nothing to do with your wife and everything to do with your inability to see her needs as being as important as yours, a wife who is listened to, won't need to nag (so just take the damn trash out before you have to be asked, you have eyes so use em)
The length of time between the asking and the doing is based on how important your partners needs are to you. So if you ask for something and expect it done straight away why can't she expect the same?
You want dinner on the table? She wants the washing up done... how long did you wait for the dinner? How long did she wait for you to do the dishes?
And yeah.... you can't nag someone to do something that's already done. So if she's asked you to do it... just do it... then she can't nag about it. Problem solved.
Wrong because she’ll find something else to nag about, its like satisfaction for them, almost like a drug.
Happy wife, happy life.
No wife, best life
You simp.
WRONG!👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎
The statement is false because females are never happy even if you do exactly what she wants
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I love how it's gendered towards women but the reason I'm here is to deal with a whiny nagging male💀
I can feel your nagging when I read your comment
You are the problem,
@@mr.youtube975 LOL Nagging vibes!