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  • @alromaani
    @alromaani  Před 2 lety +20

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    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Před 2 lety +3

      Akhi, don't talk about things like this. The solution is simple. Tell those that you are counseling to train themselves with lesser internet and lesser smartphones. Time will go slow, there will be lesser images and screens, people will become in touch with reality, focus more, the spouses and families will engage with one another more. Memorizing and getting images when your read Quran, Hadith and Sirah will increase. Your worship and concentration will increase.
      Bring solutions. Set up retreats that help people discipline themselves into getting out of addictions. I believe the root cause is the internet itself. And then these devices. Islamic training programs like those health apps that have 3 day training, 5 days, a week, a month, a year etc. They set up everything for health and body, but not apps like that for becoming more educated and practicing in Islam. Look up samsung health app, take the rationale behind it and convert it into a Muslim practicing training app where people encourage one another. Did you pray your five daily prayers on time today? Check ✅, you have 29 days left on your program. Good work!
      But mentioning these things could make it normal and mainstream. People might think it is normal, so I'm not alone.

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Před 2 lety +4

      I have 3 days without internet and smartphones each month. And it's the best three days.
      You will begin to see the usefulness of the internet i.e to research and get knowledge. While you're reading a book, then all of a sudden you need to do research. That's what the internet should be used for and not instragram, tic toc and scrolling one kilometer every day.
      But when it is used for setting up profiles and uploading images of yourself, that's when you'll get people like this. They are constantly bombarded with images of uncovered women, they see people who have fake happiness, become envious, and begin to hate their husbands until they talk like the disbelievers and say "you're not making me happy anymore".
      A man should not give his wife a smartphone. Give her a Nokia ds 150.
      Bring solutions brother. Exposing things like this is not wise.

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Před 2 lety +2

      And put stickers on the camera, and turn off the phone when you're with your wife. These devices are spying on you until your 'Awrah (private parts) are exposed. Would you have allowed someone to peek into your womenfolk? How can you give them these smartphones? Look up pegasus, trojan horse, cybergate rat.
      Allah سبحانه وتعالى said,
      يَا بَنِي آدَمَ لَا يَفْتِنَنَّكُمُ الشَّيْطَانُ كَمَا أَخْرَجَ أَبَوَيْكُم مِّنَ الْجَنَّةِ يَنزِعُ عَنْهُمَا لِبَاسَهُمَا لِيُرِيَهُمَا سَوْآتِهِمَا ۗ إِنَّهُ يَرَاكُمْ هُوَ وَقَبِيلُهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا تَرَوْنَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّا جَعَلْنَا الشَّيَاطِينَ أَوْلِيَاءَ لِلَّذِينَ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ
      O Children of Adam! Let not the Shaytan (Satan) deceive you, as he got your parents out of Paradise, stripping them of their raiments, _to show them their private parts._ Verily, he and Qabiluhu (his soldiers from the jinn or his tribe) see you from where you cannot see them. Verily, We made the Shayateen (jinn devils) Auliya' (protectors and helpers) for those who believe not. [Al-A'raaf 7:27]

    • @Ibn_Abdulaziz
      @Ibn_Abdulaziz Před 2 lety +2

      The united snakes military, used the naked body of women as a weapon against Muslim detainees. Ask yourselves why? The easiest way to drain Eemaan is the body of women. All the dayyuthism (cuckoldism) that's going around, stems from that.
      Go to 'Umrah or Hajj, increase your Eemaan for a month, and as soon as you land at the airport and you see the images and uncovered women, how many of you have not felt the missiles, as if all the shayateen at the airport saw fresh meat i.e your heart with Eemaan, and so they rushed to get to it first? We need to block the Muslim mind and senses from that which harms Eemaan.
      How strict the Sahaba were, protecting the Eemaan inside their hearts.
      It was narrated from Naafi' رحمه الله, the Mawla (freed slave) of Ibn 'Umar رضي الله عنهما: "That Ibn 'Umar heard the sound of a shepherd's flute. He put his fingers in his ears and directed his mount away from the road, saying: 'O Naafi', do you hear that?' He said: 'Yes.' Then he moved on until I said: 'No (I do not hear it any more).' So he took his fingers out of his ears and brought his mount back to the road. And he said: 'I saw the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم, when he heard the sound of a shepherd's flute, do something like this."
      [Musnad Ahmad (4535), Al-Arnout رحمه الله said: Hasan Hadith. And Sunan Abu Dawud (4924) Classed as Saheeh by Al-Albaani رحمه الله]
      These devices are their spying tools. Buy a Nokia ds 150, and use it when you are at home. Use the smartphone for paying bills and banking. Train yourselves out of being addicted to them. That's my advice.
      Once they set up metaverse, and turn it into engine 5, and the banks and big companies get involved, you will migrate from these obsolete platforms to that. And how will you be able to resist then? And I think this Hadith will be understood then, when you see people becoming like surrogates inside a tube.
      Narrated Abu Sa'eed al-Khudri رضي الله عنه: Allah's Messenger ﷺ said:
      "There will come a time when the best property of a man will be sheep which he will graze on the tops of mountains and the places where rain falls escaping to protect his religion from Al-Fitan (trials, temptations, afflictions, polytheism, forced apostasy)."
      [Sahih al-Bukhari » Beginning of Creation - كتاب بدء الخلق » Hadith 3300]

    • @altin3408
      @altin3408 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Ibn_Abdulaziz
      You are right about the solutions.
      And brother Gabriel is trying to help and he is wise enough to expose these issues, and maybe there are being too many cases (or like a pandemic, figurative speaking) so he had to address the issue.

  • @muskaan1987
    @muskaan1987 Před 2 lety +59

    The problem for all this porn and masturbation is getting married late ..for men and women... mostly parent don't like to or want to understand that our child needs sex now simple

    • @maazmustafa2322
      @maazmustafa2322 Před 2 lety +9

      I don't know much about this issue. There are so many positives and negatives to this. If I speak about my case in happy I'm not married yet. If I was married as soon as I hit puberty I wouldn't have got time to understand myself and my likes/dislikes and make sense of the world. I was also very liberal back in the day and if I got married would probably be living with a liberal wife too and to bring her closer to Allah would've been a challenge and would have caused chaos for our marriage. I was thinking of marrying recently and have got even more strict in practicing deen and the girl I liked doesn't wear hijab just as I used to wear shorts and didn't cover my awrah. So I'm thinking as I'm working on dressing appropriately, fight off music addiction should I marry a girl who still does all this? That's why I'm delaying my marriage further to be fully sure of what kind of wife I want

    • @poppydaline6825
      @poppydaline6825 Před 2 lety +2

      @@maazmustafa2322 Understandable

    • @thealpha1687
      @thealpha1687 Před 2 lety +3

      Facts!

    • @TeymurKhan571
      @TeymurKhan571 Před 2 lety +4

      I agree, people need to be encouraged to marry when there young and fertile. People have there desires, shaytan wants us to take these desires and destroy the bonds with our family, rape, pornography, adultery, fornication. Allah swt wants us to have these desires so we can make strong bonds between the opposite genders, and make a strong happy family

    • @muskaan1987
      @muskaan1987 Před 2 lety +1

      @@maazmustafa2322 when I mean late I mean well into their late 20/30 early 30 not 14 lol

  • @user-ys7oh6eu8m
    @user-ys7oh6eu8m Před 2 lety +38

    “Such is the Paradise which We shall give as an inheritance to those of Our slaves who have been Al-Muttaqoon (the pious)”
    [Maryam 19:63]

    • @idreesabdallah.2664
      @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety

      Please say “Alhamdulilah al lathee 3afani min ma ibba talakum bih, wa fadallani 3ala katheeru min man khalaqa tafdeela” when you see someone who has gone through or is going through or has some hardship or trail etc say this always! You will not be afflicted by that thing if you do this, Inshallah.

    • @TeymurKhan571
      @TeymurKhan571 Před 2 lety

      The muslim, the christian, the jew, the sunni, shia, ahlul bidah arent the ones in heaven. But the mutaqoon are

    • @ztm5608
      @ztm5608 Před 6 měsíci

      @@TeymurKhan571 yoy cant have taqwa without being a muslim.

  • @ahmadfared1204
    @ahmadfared1204 Před 2 lety +84

    We men have to be extra vigilant when it comes to choosing a wife because women are not angels or sinless. First, we have to beg Allah to bless us with a pious wife, then we have to look at the right place ( for example not looking at liberal apps because no pious women will be there ).

    • @muskaan1987
      @muskaan1987 Před 2 lety +17

      Same for women

    • @moonwalkerr87
      @moonwalkerr87 Před 2 lety +9

      A pious woman may have a history you wouldn’t know about. Cannot expect every woman to be chaste her whole life, especially if haram is promoted everywhere and marriage is delayed till late 20’s.

    • @Muwahid999
      @Muwahid999 Před 2 lety

      @@moonwalkerr87 not 20's i would say till 30's or more (in case of men)

    • @Fadedfrost1
      @Fadedfrost1 Před 2 lety +6

      Lol liberals are filled everywhere man.
      Just make sure she follows the sunnah and noble companions not ikhwanis, sufis Shias or pagans.

    • @ahmadfared1204
      @ahmadfared1204 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Fadedfrost1 true

  • @muhammadnavid4967
    @muhammadnavid4967 Před 2 lety +31

    May Allah bless you for the unique questions that you are addressing ya akhi

  • @fastng
    @fastng Před 2 lety +15

    men are providers, it is the man's responsibility to pleasure his wive(s)

  • @mukhtar768
    @mukhtar768 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for bringing it out.

    • @idreesabdallah.2664
      @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety

      Please say “Alhamdulilah al lathee 3afani min ma ibba talakum bih, wa fadallani 3ala katheeru min man khalaqa tafdeela” when you see someone who has gone through or is going through or has some hardship or trail etc say this always! You will not be afflicted by that thing if you do this, Inshallah.

  • @Finggy
    @Finggy Před 2 lety +48

    Request for the sisters who are watching, please lower your gaze and just listen to the video, as we all know Brother Romani is handsome mashallah.

    • @SSSuzyyy
      @SSSuzyyy Před 2 lety +12

      🙈

    • @theogsa5371
      @theogsa5371 Před 2 lety +22

      Bruh- lol 😂🤣🤣

    • @mrbaseeth7506
      @mrbaseeth7506 Před 2 lety +11

      yeah lol
      Mashallah
      May Allah protect him from evil eye

    • @Finggy
      @Finggy Před 2 lety

      @@mrbaseeth7506 Ameen.

    • @DSJWIX
      @DSJWIX Před 2 lety +5

      He’s not really attractive to me

  • @agatsuma22
    @agatsuma22 Před 2 lety +5

    Allahumma barik for this educational and needed inside! May we work on ourselves every day, may Allah allow us to become the best Servants and Spouses and may He bless all efforts to make marriages work! Allahumma amin! JazakAllahu khayran Brother Gabriel. 🤲🏿🌱

  • @hyedefinition1080
    @hyedefinition1080 Před 2 lety +2

    Jazakallah Khair, may Allah bless you for this subject. It is beneficial to both men and women in sha Allah.

  • @idreesabdallah.2664
    @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety +22

    Just because some do something wrong doesn’t mean it’s okay to do!! Please say “Alhamdulilah al lathee 3afani min ma ibba talakum bih, wa fadallani 3ala katheeru min man khalaqa tafdeela” when you see someone who has gone through or is going through or has some hardship or trail etc say this always! You will not be afflicted by that thing if you do this, Inshallah.

  • @arshiabasheer75
    @arshiabasheer75 Před 2 lety +7

    Subhanallah may Allah bless you I really hope people watch this message and take it seriously because it is a serious issue. Please keep on the good work we need people like u.

  • @farahashique6056
    @farahashique6056 Před 2 lety +5

    May Allah subhaanahu ta aala bless you always for trying to help the ummah out of these fitna's we are facing nowadays may Allah subhaanahu ta aala protect us all 🤲😥🤲and help the men and women understand wrongs and rights of the do's and don'ts

  • @hamood8934
    @hamood8934 Před 2 lety +2

    new intro OP bro

  • @speakersofislamtv6719
    @speakersofislamtv6719 Před 2 lety +15

    May Allah see us through our problems.

    • @idreesabdallah.2664
      @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety +1

      Ameen, also please say “Alhamdulilah al lathee 3afani min ma ibba talakum bih, wa fadallani 3ala katheeru min man khalaqa tafdeela” when you see someone who has gone through or is going through or has some hardship or trail etc say this always! You will not be afflicted by that thing if you do this, Inshallah.

  • @billyrussell7237
    @billyrussell7237 Před 2 lety +6

    The guy with a drink at 15:41 almost got hit. He caught the wind from the passing trucks.

  • @SilentEmpires
    @SilentEmpires Před 2 lety +19

    There's no eeb/shame in explaining Deen

  • @idreesabdallah.2664
    @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety +2

    Please say “Alhamdulilah al lathee 3afani min ma ibba talakum bih, wa fadallani 3ala katheeru min man khalaqa tafdeela” when you see someone who has gone through or is going through or has some hardship or trail etc say this always! You will not be afflicted by that thing if you do this, Inshallah.

    • @idreesabdallah.2664
      @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety +2

      We also need to be very careful just because some people do something doesn’t mean it’s okay!!!

  • @Dont-worry1618
    @Dont-worry1618 Před 2 lety

    The best way is too, to deprive urself as much as possible then when you or on the breaking point. Then the spouses can do intimacy.

  • @ahmadfared1204
    @ahmadfared1204 Před 2 lety +57

    Exactly, women are not angels or sinless. This is idea that women are pure has to stop .

    • @speakersofislamtv6719
      @speakersofislamtv6719 Před 2 lety +9

      It should not be a fighting thing. We all know that human is created imperfect. We make all make mistakes.. What we should be talking fight on is how can we solve this problem ?

    • @ismailah4576
      @ismailah4576 Před 2 lety +3

      more women will be in jahanam then men on average Muslim men are better in character than women and religion. usually.

    • @sofyanachi784
      @sofyanachi784 Před 2 lety +2

      Who is saying that woman are not just human? And is it not better to assume the best? How can you even assume your wife is someone that commits major sins.
      Of course a couple need to pay attention to each other’s needs.

    • @GokuBlack-sn5dr
      @GokuBlack-sn5dr Před 2 lety

      how dare u

    • @PoeticAmmunition.
      @PoeticAmmunition. Před 2 lety +1

      @@ismailah4576
      There will be more women in Jannah so....what does that say...

  • @karimtemri1664
    @karimtemri1664 Před 2 lety +35

    Masturbation is haram for man and woman no difference

    • @ahmadfared1204
      @ahmadfared1204 Před 2 lety +2

      True , women are condition to thing that are angels or sinless. A lot of them think that they don't have roles which is not cases because they have roles .

    • @SIGSEGV1337
      @SIGSEGV1337 Před 2 lety +1

      Eh there's a wide range of opinions on it (from haram to halal only in some cases to makruh), but obv it's clearly haram to watch dirty material either way

    • @user-ys7oh6eu8m
      @user-ys7oh6eu8m Před 2 lety +16

      @@SIGSEGV1337 there is no opinion on this akhie, don't spread misguidance follow Quran and Sunnah according the understanding of the first 3 generations of the Muslims

    • @sweettea1193
      @sweettea1193 Před 2 lety

      @@user-ys7oh6eu8m what if someone can't ever marry and they use that to protect themselves from zina as a long term solution, because fasting is only a temporary one. So it can be the lesser of 2 evils

    • @sweettea1193
      @sweettea1193 Před 2 lety

      @Obvious Incel it's a longer term solution than fasting

  • @yknows3158
    @yknows3158 Před 2 lety +8

    Porn limits a man and makes women pass limits in regards to human capabilities.

  • @YourLordIsOne
    @YourLordIsOne Před 2 lety

    wa aleikom Assalaam wa rahmatuLlahi wa barakatuh

  • @zampyr1
    @zampyr1 Před 2 lety +19

    ya sheikh this is disturbing, anything negative to do with muslim women and wives just really disturbs me like my gheerah rages. May Allah Protect Us All.

    • @idreesabdallah.2664
      @idreesabdallah.2664 Před 2 lety +5

      Please say “Alhamdulilah al lathee 3afani min ma ibba talakum bih, wa fadallani 3ala katheeru min man khalaqa tafdeela” when you see someone who has gone through or is going through or has some hardship or trail etc say this always! You will not be afflicted by that thing if you do this, Inshallah.

    • @ZeeshanAli-nm7eq
      @ZeeshanAli-nm7eq Před 2 lety +2

      @@idreesabdallah.2664 jazakAllah u Khair

    • @az9324
      @az9324 Před 2 lety +2

      @@idreesabdallah.2664 jazakallah brother

    • @theogsa5371
      @theogsa5371 Před 2 lety +2

      @@idreesabdallah.2664 💯 Jazakallah khairan

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 Před 2 lety +1

      Same bro

  • @anti-narc1343
    @anti-narc1343 Před 2 lety

    Lol @ title of the video
    So the wifey been enjoying herself

  • @mukhtar768
    @mukhtar768 Před 2 lety

    Mashallah

  • @strictlyyoutube6881
    @strictlyyoutube6881 Před 2 lety +57

    15 years ago a brother I used to work with told me the same thing, but he divorced her. Sexual compatibility can be a challenge. I think if a woman is not a virgin she should really have a candid discussion about who and how she really is. She needs to target the scope between the eyes/ She needs to be direct and explain about her labido levels and what her desire is and if you feel you can handle that then at least you aren't going in blind.
    You have the frigid sisters too on the polar opposite. They don't masturbate nor do they want sex, maybe once a month if all stars align. If you are a brother with very low labido and busy being a working man then that is a great fit for you. If you are a Mr. I want 4 wives, I watch how to be an alpha videos, then forget about it, it will be a non starter.

    • @mohammedsalmanshaikh4041
      @mohammedsalmanshaikh4041 Před 2 lety +5

      Very well summed up..

    • @strictlyyoutube6881
      @strictlyyoutube6881 Před 2 lety +7

      @Obvious Incel Good question. If she is a virgin 100% you can't do this as her father or Wali will be there, plus she will most likely not know herself.
      As for the divorcee, then the wali needs to give her some space for conversation time. Maybe a little wriggle room after a few meetings to have a private conversation between them. Keep it halal, but keep it real.
      Communication and transparency is a wonderful thing in a marriage. Even if she tells you she watches porn don't give up on her, at least she told you the truth. Get married to her and try and knead it out. God knows how many sisters are marrying porn addicts, if they knew 95% of us would be divorced by khula' LOOOL.

    • @somedude454
      @somedude454 Před 2 lety +11

      She can be a virgin and still have these problems. Like in the current example it started at an young age.

    • @strictlyyoutube6881
      @strictlyyoutube6881 Před 2 lety +7

      @@somedude454 Yeah agreed bro. I have bumped in to those before. You got to play it by ear. Virginity is not binary i admit, it can be like a spectrum. She may have not have been penetrated in virgina, but she may have been sodomised, or she may have rubbed herself. Fully understand, but you need to make dua to Allah, make sure she loves Allah and keep it moving forward or move on.

    • @somedude454
      @somedude454 Před 2 lety +7

      @@strictlyyoutube6881 I think masturbation is far more common with women than what most men think. Especially in the Muslim world.

  • @frankiecal3186
    @frankiecal3186 Před 2 lety +1

    Why didn't you record it?

  • @lujainot5495
    @lujainot5495 Před 2 lety +13

    the problem is , in many cultures like arab culture people don't simply talk about the bedroom so if the woman is not pleased she can't say it

    • @d.bcooper2271
      @d.bcooper2271 Před 2 lety

      How do you know they don't?

    • @MohammedAlAmriki
      @MohammedAlAmriki Před rokem +1

      You are right bro/sis
      It’s sad tbh and really unfortunate for the women to be in this situation. Most of the men I knew have zero interests in making their women happy in bedroom. Problem is their parents or teachers not teaching them anything about love and affection in any way. Let’s talk about desi culture. Desi and Arab men don’t care about these things in bedroom weather she wants it or enjoying it.
      So much to say but I’m sure you know or heard it before. It will take some time to change those mens mindset

    • @lujainot5495
      @lujainot5495 Před rokem

      @@MohammedAlAmriki that is the last thing on their mind

  • @ozhoneybadger
    @ozhoneybadger Před 2 lety +2

    A lot of these issues maybe porn related.
    The same dopamine issues happen to women.
    The same desensitization happens to them as does men.
    They struggle to finish easily.
    These days as much as we don't like these topics and fear that our partners or people around us suffer from such issues sometimes it has to be discussed.

  • @muhammadnavid4967
    @muhammadnavid4967 Před 2 lety +14

    but i dont have a wife. so why am i watching it?

    • @mxxz3900
      @mxxz3900 Před 2 lety +21

      To be prepared mentally to what could happen and eventually addressing it beforehand what you as a husband won't accept from your wife etc

    • @1eV
      @1eV Před 2 lety +4

      To be prepared for unwanted situations if any arises

    • @thevjrecords7866
      @thevjrecords7866 Před 2 lety

      😂😂😂

    • @anasmalik9131
      @anasmalik9131 Před 2 lety

      There is no harm in knowing about these things

  • @saturn2222
    @saturn2222 Před 2 lety +1

    I would join 😁😁

  • @afzalhossain1429
    @afzalhossain1429 Před 2 lety +5

    Are u driving tesla or something else ? Cause ur hands are not moving i guess!!🙄 😂 & by the way thanks for your advise. Its very useful Alhamdulillah

  • @satti80
    @satti80 Před 2 lety +18

    Can you choose a more modest title brother? Maybe I caught my wife in an unpleasant situation.

    • @Sorel366
      @Sorel366 Před 2 lety +8

      But you still clicked.

    • @waqstar7067
      @waqstar7067 Před 2 lety +2

      Fair comment. Why are people mocking hi.. Itt is bit of a click bait title

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Před 2 lety +2

      He can but not everyone might understand completely. So it's needed here to be more specific so that viewers may understand the issue.

    • @satti80
      @satti80 Před 2 lety

      @@obnoxiousfaryas really brother really? Are you that weak in language comprehension that if things are not said to you specifically you won’t understand them?

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Před 2 lety +1

      @@satti80 I'm speaking for everyone. Yes there are people who aren't used to hearing euphemisms and indirect words.
      Issues like this is best spoken clearly to convey the true meaning of the issue.
      Last thing we want is people assuming stuff and making things worse.

  • @al-Jakarti
    @al-Jakarti Před 2 lety +3

    Can an underage or teenager come across this video on CZcams? Is it appropriate for them to watch this?

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Před 2 lety +4

      There's much worse videos like music, indecency, almost nude people, violent games etc on CZcams.
      So please.

    • @al-Jakarti
      @al-Jakarti Před 2 lety +2

      @@obnoxiousfaryas yes, I mean we're muslims, and we're responsible of what we're doing. I don't know how algorithms work, but at least make this video restricted, so no kids (muslim kids) will stumble upon this video.

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Před 2 lety +4

      @@al-Jakarti that's the job of parents to monitor their kids.
      And not give them access to everything and anything.
      Restricting such a common and ongoing issue in muslim marriages will only further increase it.

    • @al-Jakarti
      @al-Jakarti Před 2 lety +1

      @@obnoxiousfaryas but it's also the job for anyone of us who knows that there are kids who can access CZcams, regardless whether their parents are aware of it or not, as muslims we should take it into consideration.

    • @zaid4128
      @zaid4128 Před 2 lety +2

      As a Gen Z teenager, I'd hate to say it but majority of us were exposed to internet pornography at around 11-13.
      This may be thru ads, popups, redirects, or someone else telling about that.

  • @frankzappa951
    @frankzappa951 Před 2 lety

    Genuine lol

  • @lost_poet_
    @lost_poet_ Před 2 lety +19

    If she's a nymphomaniac she's more likely to commit adultery because no matter how much you copulate it will never be enough to satisfy her carnal needs. She will demand more. Therefore she is more likely to cheat. I personally would feel insecure and inadequate and would constantly have that worry at the back of my mind when I'm not home or at work

    • @sammyz4eva
      @sammyz4eva Před 2 lety +8

      I don’t necessarily agree with this you can have high desires but also have self control. Also if she is struggling with it pre marriage and shes a virgin then most likely once she gets married the issue will (hopefully) be resolved as long as there isn’t a big mismatch between her and her partners drive

    • @lost_poet_
      @lost_poet_ Před 2 lety

      @@sammyz4eva but what if she doesn't have that degree of self control like this sister in this video?

    • @sammyz4eva
      @sammyz4eva Před 2 lety +11

      @@lost_poet_ if she does cheat then of course it is wrong. But you can’t say someone will just because they have a high drive.

    • @lost_poet_
      @lost_poet_ Před 2 lety +2

      @@sammyz4eva I didn't say she will. I mentioned it's most likely, in my opinion. If the husband can not fulfill those needs then she's bound to look elsewhere

    • @lost_poet_
      @lost_poet_ Před 2 lety

      @Ceiling Fan .. What point are you trying to make?

  • @aboeAimen
    @aboeAimen Před 2 lety +4

    Taqwa removes al bad things and gives room to 7alal pleasure. Profhet Mohammed peace and blessings op on him sayd if you knew what I know you won't even feel pleasure whit your spouse.

    • @angelinataherin3102
      @angelinataherin3102 Před 2 lety

      reference?

    • @aboeAimen
      @aboeAimen Před 2 lety

      @@angelinataherin3102 hadiets are saying from profhet Mohammed peace and blessings op on him.

  • @ebtisamali359
    @ebtisamali359 Před 2 lety +23

    When a man gives in to his desire oh well he is a man but when a women does all hell breaks loose ! Just because a sister falls into haram doesn't make her less God conscious or she is far from the deen or she is a bad woman who will end up cheating. Men please stop with the double standard Muslim women are like any other women with feeling and emotions dont shame your wives/ daughter/sister advice them kindly!

    • @itachiphoenix33
      @itachiphoenix33 Před 2 lety +3

      Stop Your BS please... Western Men dont wanna marry anymore, look the red pills and mgtows... Because the women have no shame, to fu** with so many guys, then they try a good men with money, but not a sexy body, then the start to cheat or split up with the men... Or they get pregnant and then split up...
      And what say western men now... The Religions make it good... And try to marry a virgin...
      And you say now, we better stop to shame?? Germany say to, most man, marry a women is madness... Why?? They have a lot of s*xopions and you cant trust her... Because the most men was betrayed... Not only incels and blackpiller, good men too... And the new men was most time more rich or more badboy...
      Sister need to know, if you have more mens, you are not like a virgin, you are more like a whore, and nobody with selfrespect and money, wanna you marry... Until we have virgins here, they try to land on one virgin or one women, who have only 1 husband...
      Mens have more hormons for sex... Mens dont Love so fast... And what is this for a women, who let a randoom men in her body, only he looks cute or badboy...
      I dont say men do it good, they need punishment too... But a men hornylevel and a women hornylevel are not same... Because this, the women loose more...

    • @itachiphoenix33
      @itachiphoenix33 Před 2 lety

      If she go back to God, and make her soul clean, and swear to God she wanna never again go back to bad boys, then she learn her Religion and are the best women in town for Religion, maybe then some men look again to her, but she cant cry, if the men found out, who she was... Because we trust no women, without a virginproof...
      How many time she can meet with boys for a*al or blow*ob, if the Family Look at her... And she never feel a another men in her vagina, this emotion she safe for you...

    • @lost_poet_
      @lost_poet_ Před 2 lety

      Sister, double standards exist in society and rightly so. It doesn't always "work both ways" Men and women are different so double standards should apply. If we were to use the same standards we use for men for women or vice versa that would be unfair.

    • @ebtisamali359
      @ebtisamali359 Před 2 lety +4

      @@lost_poet_ what do u mean ?so a man can do as he pleases ! You know women are not robots they have desires too and they fall into haram

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Před 2 lety +3

      Nobody said when Men do haram it's okay.
      So kindly stop spreading your poisonous words.
      The issue here is wife masturbating on her own right after having sex with her husband.
      Even if it was the other way around it's still haram and also not right to the spouse psychologically.

  • @salmanahmed4262
    @salmanahmed4262 Před 2 lety +1

    Sheikh are you back in Dubai ?

  • @khedijahismail2568
    @khedijahismail2568 Před 2 lety +12

    Women check out men ....true
    So the ulama should not let their camera focus on their faces when giving advices.they should let their cameras focus on the road, or a beautiful picture ....this will prevent women from looking at their faces ,and at least we will enjoy the scenic routes that they take while driving...

    • @onlyallahisworthyofworship5599
      @onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 Před 2 lety +8

      This is silly, men don't need to cover their face. Just listen and don't look at the video.

    • @1eV
      @1eV Před 2 lety +2

      That's an interesting POV. But I think scholars have already answered it

    • @onlyallahisworthyofworship5599
      @onlyallahisworthyofworship5599 Před 2 lety +14

      @Obvious Incel women must lower their gaze when they find a man attractive.

    • @moonwalkerr87
      @moonwalkerr87 Před 2 lety +4

      As long as he’s properly covered, he has done his part. If looking at him is a fitna for you, then you have to look away. Cannot blame someone who is blameless.

    • @Melvinwateren
      @Melvinwateren Před 2 lety +2

      @@moonwalkerr87 "… and say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty" Surah Al-Noor [30 -31]

  • @ItsMeRunNgun
    @ItsMeRunNgun Před 2 lety

    They wilin

  • @SativaSeanLasVegas
    @SativaSeanLasVegas Před 2 lety

    Masturbation is NOT haram?? Only Adultery or lusting after someone who is not your wife (the same thing) if you're married.

  • @melissafreimuth9435
    @melissafreimuth9435 Před 2 lety

    We need this in German 😓

  • @taminakhan4690
    @taminakhan4690 Před 2 lety +1

    It's happening now in pakistan community ...men know their wives have boyfriends but turn blind eye to it ......you can guess why .....

  • @Aba-nu8hw
    @Aba-nu8hw Před 2 lety +3

    Be a slave of Allah SWT, become a man and your wife will love and want you only.

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 Před 2 lety

      Simply not true

    • @Aba-nu8hw
      @Aba-nu8hw Před 2 lety

      @@theterminator6121 bro, it's the main ingredients. Plus, try doing the opposite and see where that gets you.

  • @amir_hamzah
    @amir_hamzah Před 2 lety +1

    My wife has a high sex drive allahumma barik

    • @ColonelFluffles
      @ColonelFluffles Před 2 lety +6

      You lucky bastard....

    • @theterminator6121
      @theterminator6121 Před 2 lety +11

      Dude delete this comment have some shame

    • @Lzali10469
      @Lzali10469 Před 2 lety +5

      Bro don’t tell us this, this is between you and your wife

    • @Lzali10469
      @Lzali10469 Před 2 lety

      @@ColonelFluffles bro who are you and what are you? Did you accept Islam yet?

    • @ColonelFluffles
      @ColonelFluffles Před 2 lety

      @@Lzali10469 Yes, I accepted Islam and I will spread it throughout Western Europe.

  • @buzznotaracist3755
    @buzznotaracist3755 Před 2 lety +1

    We need blackpill

    • @TeymurKhan571
      @TeymurKhan571 Před 2 lety +5

      astaghfirllah. Allah disapproved of this bs!

    • @buzznotaracist3755
      @buzznotaracist3755 Před 2 lety +2

      @@TeymurKhan571 it is the best ideology in the dating world it does not require us to hate on women rather understand them and trust me brother it solves everything it does not goes against Islam except for the dating part ofcourse

    • @TeymurKhan571
      @TeymurKhan571 Před 2 lety +1

      @@buzznotaracist3755 akhi, blackpillers are a desctructive group who hate themselves and can’t find women. It shouldn’t be followed by Muslims. Redpillers minus the zina is okay

    • @buzznotaracist3755
      @buzznotaracist3755 Před 2 lety

      @@TeymurKhan571 no brother redpill is the most mysogynistic it will just make you hate women trust me but black pill is the ultimate truth because it focuses on the science and is pretty reasonable to the fitra I came at peace with myself you can't say they hate themselves but if you're below 5'6 then you can't do anything but to give thanx to Allah swt and work for the akhirah Allah test everyone in our case he test us with looks.. maybe hoor for us but we shouldn't destroy a woman's life she has the right to choose best man for herself

    • @arifzuhayri7230
      @arifzuhayri7230 Před 2 lety

      @@buzznotaracist3755 Yes, but blackpill cant be applied to every women. I think most of modern women are the reason for this blackpill, and I agree with that. We dont hate ourselves, blackpill in my opinion teaches us to look at personality rather than looks. Look at most women I’ve met (muslims), they say that they want a tall, rich husbands, but if I say that I want a beautiful (I supposely doesnt mention muslimah, although irl I would search for muslimah), they will mock me and say that I have to accept her no matter what. This is true, but look at the double standards here lol. Again, not every women

  • @davidk7441
    @davidk7441 Před 2 lety +1

    I don’t think it’s wrong if the person does it thinking of their married partner if they are away…
    But if they are thinking of something/someone else, then they’re inviting perversion jinns into their lives…
    Through time, these jinns will encourage more perversions and eventually a person will end up very lost, and never satisfied with their partner…
    I know because I’ve experienced that and I’ve also watched people experienced that…
    You won’t realise how bad it is until it’s too late.
    Even worst case scenarios is that the jinns will drain your energy when you sleep, even rape you energetically… you wake up feeling extremely tired and not know why.
    So best is not let these jinns any invitation into your life…
    That’s why the sanctity of marriage should always be uphold to be as pure as possible, and you keep your mind pure.

  • @icxcnika555
    @icxcnika555 Před 2 lety

    Just get 3 more wifes ?

    • @SoHeartl3ss
      @SoHeartl3ss Před 2 lety +12

      If you can’t handle and take care of one physically, emotionally, and financially, the worst thing to do is bring other women in

  • @SD-yf9hw
    @SD-yf9hw Před 2 lety +3

    The closer you get to God, these things go away, including sex drive

  • @Geebee67
    @Geebee67 Před 2 lety +3

    This is none of your concern it’s for husband and wife to deal with behind closed doors.

    • @safwanshahriar4108
      @safwanshahriar4108 Před 2 lety +3

      He's not advising a particular couple. He's addressing an issue that is not being solved behind closed doors. This video may help save some marriages. So it's an ignorant take to say this is none of his concern.

    • @Geebee67
      @Geebee67 Před 2 lety +2

      @@safwanshahriar4108 it’s not his concern, he should worry about his own relationship. This is for couples to talk in PRIVATE, and his heading for his video is disgusting.

    • @safwanshahriar4108
      @safwanshahriar4108 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Geebee67 Then scholars wouldn't give advices regarding marriage and other relationships. Better yet, the Prophet صلى اللّٰه عليه وسلّم wouldn't even speak about intercourse in public.
      Considering this is a mainstream issue and I didn't have the information or solution close by me, and that this video may even save a marriage or two, I think this video is a logical upload.
      And about the title, maybe it could be better put if I'm being honest.

  • @yousef2154
    @yousef2154 Před 2 lety +4

    Dude what the hell are these questions relax a little Gabriel

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Před 2 lety +10

      This is the reality my bro.
      If you don't know this is a massive issue in our community and our generation then you are in the minority.
      Muslim couples are facing this issue a lot nowadays.
      So it's a very valid question and topic and needs to be dealt with.
      Many muslim brothers have such wives and unfortunately living in such bad marriages.

    • @Lzali10469
      @Lzali10469 Před 2 lety

      Ikr it’s so uncomfortable

  • @abumousewahabi9867
    @abumousewahabi9867 Před 2 lety +3

    You have these bizarre obsessions with woman’s “issues’. This issue generally is extremely rare and to casually talk about it is additionally bizarre.

    • @ColonelFluffles
      @ColonelFluffles Před 2 lety +5

      No, stop trying to portray him as some kind of weirdo, because he isn't. His helping a lot of men (and women) out there dealing with these kind of issue, much more than you will ever help with that weird, bizarre and judgemental mentality of yours. Cheers.

    • @jinfightingjin2758
      @jinfightingjin2758 Před 2 lety

      These men ignore what Muslim men do, Muslim men who have wives and still cheat and find good, although he could simply marry second wife, Muslim men who masturbate, many now say for men is normal, they can do it, although they have wives, Muslim men who do not want to take responsibility. .... It's easier to blame women.

    • @jinfightingjin2758
      @jinfightingjin2758 Před 2 lety

      @@ColonelFluffles This is helping, why not talk about men and women, is it not the same sins.

  • @khaledmosbah4909
    @khaledmosbah4909 Před 2 lety +1

    Please brother Gabriel
    I found that you are wearing a kind of rope حبل أو إسورة this is not suitable for men and porhibited for men. it is also porhibited as it is imitating kuffar who believe in it protecting them which is considered a type of الشرك الأصغر
    I know you don't believe in it ,but don't imitate kuffar
    May Allah protect you and all of us!

    • @somedude454
      @somedude454 Před 2 lety +8

      Bro What are you talking?

    • @rutaz6176
      @rutaz6176 Před 2 lety +1

      @@somedude454 🤣

    • @somedude454
      @somedude454 Před 2 lety

      @@rutaz6176 did U read that in an accent 😅

    • @Finggy
      @Finggy Před 2 lety +2

      Brother this is seat belt.

  • @mikhan5191
    @mikhan5191 Před 2 lety +12

    These are questions that should NOT be aired in public spaces such as the markets or the Internet!
    This has never been our way!
    You are a persistent offender in this "methodology" in order to get more views with sensational Daily Mail type Headlines.
    Stop it. You're just making such indecency more normalised /prevalent.
    Do it in private sessions or Classes.

    • @mxxz3900
      @mxxz3900 Před 2 lety +20

      What about those that are too shy to attend such lectures? What if there simply are no such lectures at all? These are real problems and need to be addressed PUBLICLY since there is absolutely no one talking about this yet it's common in our ummah

    • @somedude454
      @somedude454 Před 2 lety +20

      So let's delete all the Islamic QA pages on the net. Let's delete all the videos of scholars addressing masturbation and porn.
      When the issue is so mainstream you want the solution to be only mentioned in private?
      There are millions of Muslim sisters single above the age of 30, single mother's and what not. Do you not think they suffer from these issues in the current highly sexualised environment?

    • @bbalpha4921
      @bbalpha4921 Před 2 lety +14

      Bro he makes so much money by himself do you think he needs youtube or something? Brother gabriel is one of the only Islamic youtubers who tackle these huge problems. Do you know that the number 1 po*n viewing country is a muslim country?

    • @somedude454
      @somedude454 Před 2 lety +1

      @@bbalpha4921 I dnt think Muslim country is the top most watched that is with America, India, Japan or China.
      It is most searched as the westerners know each site whereas in the Muslim country they would search for it as there is restrictions on the net in some Muslim countries

    • @moonwalkerr87
      @moonwalkerr87 Před 2 lety +11

      Those attitudes are EXACTLY why he needs to adress these problems. If no one talks about these things, then who will? «There is no shyness in religion». Many people suffer in silence and are two faced because we all pretend to be angels. Real talk.

  • @everygoodisinwhatthesalafb7613

    Thank You Ustadh Abdurrahman Hassan..
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