Not Physically Attracted to Him, But I Married Him

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  • čas přidán 23. 07. 2024
  • From the outside looking in, our relationship was not necessarily set up for success. In this episode of #HowMarriedAreYou, we reflect back on our decision to choose each other. We’ve discovered that what matters most above financial stability, physical attraction and other distractors that society may try to tell us are important is a solid foundation in #Christ. #faith #family #marriage #physicalattraction
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Komentáře • 75

  • @loveppl6999
    @loveppl6999 Před 2 lety +12

    I LOVE HOW HE REASSURED HER QUICK FAST AND IN A HURRY THAT HE AIN'T GOING ANYWHERE,

  • @Cbear58
    @Cbear58 Před 5 lety +28

    That confident Baltimore bop/walk is very attractive. I do look at the way men walk and the confidence they exude.

  • @N.Jersey
    @N.Jersey Před 5 lety +45

    These podcast are so amazing and really underrated...Beleaf you are always describing my exact perspective on so many issues...so grateful for these, Yvette, and Beleaf, you guys together equal so much wisdom and guidance. Thanks for sharing your marriage with us.

  • @elizabethl.1143
    @elizabethl.1143 Před 5 lety +26

    Yesss!!!! Please do an episode on dating/marrying a virgin!!!! Lovin these podcasts

  • @AlwaysLime
    @AlwaysLime Před rokem +3

    “We had to become something together”
    🔥🔥🔥🔥
    I mean… preach 🎤 ‼️
    12 years in… still becoming over here!

  • @cyrus6604
    @cyrus6604 Před 4 lety +12

    I don't do film editing, but the way they made theirs boopers into their intro was smooth👌🏽

  • @itsxandyy
    @itsxandyy Před 5 lety +59

    Can you talk more about your single season Yvette? A video of you talking about your experience growing up and how it shaped you.

  • @estadje
    @estadje Před 4 lety +6

    Yvette is GLOWING. Beautiful.x

  • @HOBBYMONEY
    @HOBBYMONEY Před 5 lety +5

    I love this show! The music goes well with the theme of the show.

  • @jessiemac4970
    @jessiemac4970 Před 2 lety +3

    Love this! Definitely gonna start watching this with my wife🙌🏾💯

  • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
    @sunshinesunflowerz1647 Před rokem +2

    Woot woot… one time for the southpaws: gotta pick one up for myself.
    I was like Yvette, being content in my own single hood too; when my beau and I came together. God was playing matchmaker ❤.. it’s always dope to witness a relationship when God is in it.

  • @BelovedsPlace
    @BelovedsPlace Před 2 lety +3

    Been watching Chocolate Babies for years but #HMAY is awesome sauce as well! The truth + laughs were much appreciated! Praying love, prosperity & good communication for your marriage & individual lives! #GodBlessYouAll

  • @TheCinComedy
    @TheCinComedy Před 2 lety +2

    I've been binge watching ya'll for days!! lol I love it

  • @loveppl6999
    @loveppl6999 Před 2 lety +3

    GLEN IS SO HONEST. I LOVE THEM TOGETHER

  • @robbinsnest6163
    @robbinsnest6163 Před 5 lety +8

    I am a lot like Yvette.... Oblivious 😂😂 not as much now, but definitely when I was younger!

  • @07Lalli
    @07Lalli Před 4 lety +5

    Whew this was fire, thank you guys. I’m single and resonate with a lot of things you both talked about. Glen swag y’all got me hollering. Yvette n the draws story, so good 😂. That could be an adult story book. Yvette, what you said about Glen being direct n firm but it being a good thing, is also helping me understand people around me that have that character trait as well. I’m now thinking, do I need to learn not to be scared of it and not push people away because of it. Yvette, Was it something you were resistant to/scared of initially, but then learnt how to deal with? Would appreciate your response ❤️

  • @10rmap
    @10rmap Před 4 lety +8

    so cute to see how you guys have grown

  • @ValentineTadiwa
    @ValentineTadiwa Před 5 lety +15

    Thank you for posting these

  • @melissabarham4837
    @melissabarham4837 Před 2 lety +3

    I loved every moment of this. You two are beautiful together. I envy the way that you communicate with one another. I am learning. God bless you both and your beautiful children and family. ☦️☦️☦️🤗❤️💙

  • @nonenone3624
    @nonenone3624 Před 4 lety +5

    Yesssssssss!!!! Left-hander shout-out lol. Love the African earrings and Toddler Tears.
    Excuse me guy's, i felt like i had to start from the beginning of this podcast before becoming a patreon. Beleaf in fatherhood introduced me to hmay but around episode #40 or something.

  • @TheLatatiana
    @TheLatatiana Před 4 lety +1

    This so sweet !

  • @sanjanasabu
    @sanjanasabu Před 2 lety

    ❤️😂 you guys are lovely, I want to watch them all but first let me drag my man so we can watch together

  • @TheEllzdafinest1
    @TheEllzdafinest1 Před 2 lety +2

    It's ok Yvette, I get all hot and bothered when I talk about my King as well 🤣

  • @ashleys6768
    @ashleys6768 Před rokem +1

    I am hollering 😂😂😂😂😂. This is halarious. I love you guys. 4 years later lol

  • @lovelife8968
    @lovelife8968 Před 4 lety +9

    "It looked like a chastity belt/ birth controle" I promise this is a funny episode 😂

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 Před rokem +1

    I’m always down for a good time too Yvette. Except a seed die and fall to the ground it abides alone. But if it dies, it brings forth more fruit. John 12:24

  • @jjuglimu8876
    @jjuglimu8876 Před 2 lety

    This is way off topic but, your daughter is your mini me!!🥰🥰 she is too funny to watch!!

  • @AandP4dummieslikeme
    @AandP4dummieslikeme Před 5 lety +7

    Frank is chillin' LOL

  • @peetryman1
    @peetryman1 Před 4 lety +2

    Got me thinking I need to work on my walk now. But I feel like I dont want to fake confidence.

  • @la-nekabrown6825
    @la-nekabrown6825 Před 4 lety +15

    OMG with the dreads you look like Theo’s older brother. 😂

    • @memefaison6007
      @memefaison6007 Před 2 lety +2

      I actually see a strong resemblance between him and Anaya. Especially when she was a baby.

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 9 měsíci

    Omg it’s live ! lol had no clue

  • @HOBBYMONEY
    @HOBBYMONEY Před 5 lety

    8:50 Sometimes you learn that confidence walk from your parents, family member, etc.

  • @Brooklyn-wr6wp
    @Brooklyn-wr6wp Před 2 lety +5

    Hearing Yvette saying her man is sexy is so cute.

  • @loveppl6999
    @loveppl6999 Před 2 lety +1

    YOU ELEVATED BCUZ HE BEEN HITTING THAT RIGHT. THAT'S WHT GOOD ICK DO.

  • @Ntjitube
    @Ntjitube Před 4 lety +5

    Lol you guys were made for each other

  • @RayLaw89
    @RayLaw89 Před 5 lety +3

    Hey hey hey! Us Baltimoreans have an accent that’ll never go away! Lol!

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 9 měsíci +1

    19:30 lmfao funny because my boyfriend is not into hip hop and we often laugh about how he had no idea queen latifah was a rapper 😂😂😂😂😂 imagine his surprise when we saw her perform 😂😂😂😂

  • @Nyjaburkett
    @Nyjaburkett Před 2 lety +2

    The whole poem thing reminds me of Love Jones irl.

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 9 měsíci

    8:38 lmfao wait BELEAF ARE YOU A GEMINI 🤔 lol cuz I constantly change my walk hahaahahah

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 9 měsíci

    5:48 can’t wait to actually hear this here poem ! 🤔

  • @justvibinwithtaneshapeace

    you are both a jewels but Glen is rare..yevette that's dope you are good commodity... you basically showed your daughter how she can save her self and love the Lord.. incredible and Glen shows his son he to respect and honor God the young lady and themselves... incredible

  • @loveppl6999
    @loveppl6999 Před 2 lety

    YOU LOVE WHO U LOVE

  • @Cin2023
    @Cin2023 Před 2 lety

    Ok...so are these epi in order? Does part 5 have the same title? I'm lost and I'd like to see more.😐

  • @truthoverfictionii5760

    i'm curious as to how did you go from the locs to the bald head? Was it by choice are just plain necessity?

  • @HOBBYMONEY
    @HOBBYMONEY Před 5 lety +2

    6:35 That is what you call CONFIDENCE.

  • @mochawriterandy
    @mochawriterandy Před 4 lety +8

    I need the toddler tears mug to save the tears of my nephew during one of his daily meltdowns.

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 Před 5 lety +1

    How long have you known each other in all?

  • @stephpowell7648
    @stephpowell7648 Před 4 lety +4

    Yaaay I'm a lefty!

  • @loveppl6999
    @loveppl6999 Před 2 lety

    LMAO.... I LOVE THEM TOGETHER

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 9 měsíci

    6:03 lol it is true lol hahaha I’m crying

  • @lovelynita1
    @lovelynita1 Před 4 lety +3

    It's that bmore swagger

  • @meezursrule
    @meezursrule Před 2 lety

    Yeah, we noticed the swag, lol...he's very self confident (in a positive way)...

  • @stephanieo5441
    @stephanieo5441 Před 3 lety +3

    Your skin!

  • @eclectictreasures955
    @eclectictreasures955 Před 2 lety

    All the swag but get your wife a fan!!! Now that’s mire swag than a walk..y’all the best though

  • @Dvinecreations7
    @Dvinecreations7 Před 4 lety +5

    You can tell Glenn and Yvette we’re just having a “creative conversation “ because she snapped like “let me talk”😒I’m not use to seeing her do that but it was so special! Lol

  • @b4real2me
    @b4real2me Před 4 lety +2

    YEA FOR THE LEFTIES!!! 🎉🤸🏾‍♀️💯🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @n4musica
    @n4musica Před 2 lety

    I’m curious do men watch the way women walk? 🤔

  • @nonenone3624
    @nonenone3624 Před 4 lety +3

    Obama swagg lol i can't with y'all 😂 you just about took Yvette out when you said she ain't have a walk smh so unexpected 🤦.
    Blocking mom's smh this episode is hilarious.

  • @Brooklyn-wr6wp
    @Brooklyn-wr6wp Před 2 lety +1

    I think black people have a natural swag.

  • @hoodhippie7117
    @hoodhippie7117 Před 9 měsíci

    13:39 what tats and what piercings ? lol like omg

  • @dednika6350
    @dednika6350 Před rokem

    I am Evette, Evette is me. Whose Nate Dog?😭😭 I don’t know none of these people

  • @ErickaWilliamsCC
    @ErickaWilliamsCC Před 5 lety +3

    8:00 southern is beautiful and glen is cancelled today. I am done with glen. As a southern.

    • @rhondareid1972
      @rhondareid1972 Před 4 lety +1

      Glen is always hating on the south. I love their podcast topics, but Glen is FULL of himself.

  • @amandaweires
    @amandaweires Před rokem

    Can we hear The Poem? Also, needs change, and love languages change as your needs change.

  • @stacywilliams3983
    @stacywilliams3983 Před 2 lety +2

    Glenn doesn't know how attractive he is inside & out minus dreads.

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  • @soulspurposeme
    @soulspurposeme Před rokem

    Yvette is so mean and disrespectful. How Glen stays with her is beyond me. I’ve watched enough of these to understand the dysfunctional dynamic between these two. Let me just say this. No matter your traumatic childhood and what the women responsible for you made you feel about yourself, you are worthy of being loved, liked, and respected by your wife. This ain’t it bro.

    • @crystaldreams3978
      @crystaldreams3978 Před rokem +1

      You prolly only watched one video or your just a complete hater. How is she disrespectful?