Jealous Brother Hooked Up With My Fiancée Right After Our Engagement. So I Snitched To The Whole...
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- Jealous Brother Hooked Up With My Fiancée Right After Our Engagement. So I Snitched To The Whole Family And Now They're Being Cut Off.
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"Yes mom, it is stupid to have a family torn apart over something as petty as a fight over a girl. Which is why it was stupid of Adam to do something as petty as ruining my relationship with my fiance within days of my proposing. It is really disappointing that you raised Adam to be so petty, but I guess that is just the way it is, and now he has destroyed our family."
also no word from her how the narrator feels. should ask her why she never cared that he felt miserable all his life because of her and adam. but demands sympathy and forgiveness when golden boy feels sad as a result of his actions.
ON GOD!! they always say this in these stories
I can understand the ops pain even though I'm not even in such a relationship
It's so painful from all these stories like the person who you grew up with and you hate.
In this case his big brother and then for the person who said that they wanted to spend the rest of their life and grow old with them to betray and go after the person that the op hates the most.
And the worst part is his mom tried to justify it.
Like literally that's like saying I'm sorry your future wife f##### your big brother but he is going through depression so it's ok it can happen like what justification is depression to cheating.
And then the biggest proof of the rerentlessness is that his brother tried to flex how much of a jerk he was .the stuff is sent to the op is disgusting if I ever saw the same from my big brother which I hate I would vomit on the spot.
Don’t forget the fact that his mom is acting like the OP was never treated kindly and tormented in high school yet nobody cared as well as the fact that the brother had millions of chances to study and learn about his jobs but as OP says his brother figuratively ran head first into a wall then unprepared broke a bunch of bones and ran into it again multiple times.
Understandable and agreed
1. Adam is the typical “peaked in high school” type.
2. If Riley caved that easily to Adam odds are she had already cheated in the past. In a way Adam saved him the trouble of marrying her.
3. Mom needs to get her golden boy off her breast and let him find his own way. These type of moms set their sons up for failure when they realize the world isn’t going to treat them like “mommy’s special boy.”
Marrying in the USA is the worst thing possible maybe get his passport and marry a Filipina
@@JamesAvila-xu7ds that's oddly specific
@@jgrAnimations23 that's pretty much the play for "passport bros". Establish yourself, move to another country (anywhere in Southeast Asia is the most common), find a girl to marry, and stay there for the rest of your life. As long as you stay true to your values and doing your part as a traditional man, women in other countries will treat you way better than women in the US.
The Philippines is the recommended route for passport bros because most women here are traditional and family-oriented, and divorce isn't a thing (only annulment). Are there bad apples? Yeah, we're starting to see bits of modern feminism and DEI bullshit forming, but it'll take a long time before it plagues the country.
@@stupidron7108 kaya umalis na kayo sa pilipinas mga passport bros nabibilang na ang mga araw nio mananalo ang feminism laban sa inyo
@@jgrAnimations23 Didn't know you were a Filipino, thought you were gonna speak in English but in Filipino 😅👍
It's amazing how, at the beginning, OP said his mother didn't play favorites, yet there she was at his door, downplaying what Adam did and trying to get OP to pity him.
Adam has always been her golden child.
I was going to comment about this. The mom never had to actually play favorites because Adam was so much more gifted than OP. The results spoke for themselves.
But now is the one time her younger son got the better of Adam, leading to her colours showing.
I actually experience this.... Adam is most likely playing the victim.
Add to the mom basically saying she expected OP to always be a failure and him actually being the successful one was shocking. Imagine telling your son, you've always seen him as a loser and didn't expect much from him...
Yah but some parents have favourites but they hide it very well
Mom showed her true colours at the end cuz it’s a very serious situation
He should've reminded her that even if it hit Adam VERY HARD to be excluded from the family, he literally rubbed the fact he hooked up with riley on OP's face, so Adam was clearly trying to throw OP into a psychological rock bottom, and whatever rock bottom Adam fell into, thats deserved x2
Massive Bullet Dodged!!!! It's actually scary how fast she agreed to cheat on OP, when he literally just proposed to her. Honestly this might not have been the first time she cheated. OP should get checked just in case.
What I was going to say. If it wasn't OP's brother the literal day after proposing, it would have been some other man at some other time. The circumstances change but cheaters will always cheat and justify it to themselves. Cut out the cancer before it grows. OP is saving himself SO much heartache down the road.
Her justification is that he manipulated her and that she felt sorry for him. But, you see, it's perfectly possible to console someone without removing your pants for them. Pity sex is no less pathetic and disgusting than any other form of cheating.
This fact right here. You literally just got engaged, and you cheat on him almost immediately with no real work put in at all. This dude flirted with you a little bit, and your first action is to spread your legs. Like what? You don't get to cry and beg for a chance to explain yourself after that.
I completely agree with your assessment however, you can't discount the fact that his brother Adam used this as a mean s of revenge for a perceived slight. The fact that his younger worthless brother, did better than he did. And maybe thanks to him will do even better.
She probably thought that her safety net was all set so she could "go wild".
Foolish of her.
Yeah. Even if she genuinely felt bad for the guy there’s a pretty big gap between just listening to someone’s problems and hooking up with them.
OP is right. If HE was the one who cheated with Adam’s fiancé, mommy dearest wouldn’t be so forgiving or trying to get the family to forgive
your pfp describes how i think about the mother
That mother, wow. Hope OP can move on from his crazy family...ezcept the uncle and the other relatives who supported him.
AKA: stop contacting the mother and the brother, but keep in touch with the rest, who are actually good.
I know this is a bad situation and the brother is terrible...but if she cheated with his brother that easily I have a strong feeling she already cheated on him multiple times before this. Adam kind of saved him a lot of future trouble, it would've been terrible if he found out she was a cheater after marriage and already having a few kids.
Yep.
Kind of a "silver lining" look on the horrible situation.
@@MommaSkellyI agree. The brother's crappy actions probably saved OP from a horrible marriage and likely an expensive divorce, LOL.
Fake story. Too well told and too ridiculous.
Bro I would do the same thing to like bro she is a simp for Adam bro💀💀💀
1. OP's brother was and will always be mom's golden child.
2. The fact that Riley cheated so easily on OP show that she most likely cheated before too
3. The fact that mom brushes off the cheating so easily do suggest that she might have cheated on OP's father too
OP’s egg donor definitely cheated on OP’s father. OP might not even be his father’s as it would explain a lot, including Adam’s hostility and the egg donor’s preferential treatment of Adam.
@@PastorRapturearen’t affair babies better treated by the mother
@@mantelumgamingloilol123 Unless she always saw him as a mistake.
@@PastorRapture Him being an affair child could explain a lot.
When putting cheaters on blast go right ...
I mean what can I say... he shouldn't have sent the screenshots like a dumbass he did it to himself
Things always go right in fake stories
@@Jordan-qf4kdshut the fu#k up no one cares
@@K1-638 how is this fake.
@@HuntCares-zo8qx u responded to the wrong guy 💀
My theory is that the father is not dead, the brother's father left the mother because her 2nd son wasn't his and both the brother and the mother blame him
Mother being a cheater does explain her defence of the brother.
They BOTH had intentions twords each other from the beginning, otherwise she would not have been texting chatting to begin with.
Yeah exactly. How did they even have each others phone numbers if Adam wouldnt speak to anyone and would leave gatherings early?
That's what I was wondering. Him and his brother weren't on speaking terms, so there's no reason she should have had his number unless this had been on goung for some time. I suppose it's. Ot beyond reason he got it before he left that night, but for her to cave so quick. It most likely wasn't the first time.
Honestly with the way op mom is acting I won't be surprised if she had an affair and that op brother isn't their dad's kid
I think there are reddit stories like that where the golden child is the AF baby.
My question is why did she sleep with the brother at all? Like why even flirt? You just got engaged! Was it pity? Sympathy? A power trip? Like I genuinely don’t understand. I’m makes me wish OP had talked with her just so we can know what her bizarre reasoning was. I genuinely can’t fathom why someone would cheat on their literally just now made fiancé, let alone with said fiancés brother that she knew he didn’t have a good relationship with. Like WHAT WAS THE REASON BEHIND THIS?!
Because is convenient to the story and entertaining to the readers
There is no reason for it, some people are just like that, you cannot trust them because they are complete hoes... male and female
@@MrArielK bro I know people who have been cheated on the night of their wedding, it's not that crazy to believe
Adam made himself out to be such a loser that she basically pity fucked him. She was likely under the impression he wouldn't tell OP. Honestly if she's that easy to manipulate, she'd be cheating at some point in the future.
@@MrArielK Bold to assume that, when truth is stranger than fiction.
Mother is an expert gaslighter. Go no contact and be rid of two toxic people.
Maybe even change surname or aomething. Just to make sure there's absolutely no link between him and those two people anymore
That mom “why can’t you boys just share?” 🤮 Gross
"Share a girl, make 2 babies, one Adam's and one yours. So easy, I'll be a grandma" mom probably.
sounds like girlfriend was just along for the ride because OP made really good money. She was probably cheating on him behind his back before she made the stupid decision to cheat with his brother.
Exactly. She is a gold digger.
Second this. She was so easy to get on the bed.
Couldn't be me. I would have responded to Adam's text with: "I know you want me to be mad at you but honestly this is the nicest thing you've ever done. Thanks for showing me how worthless Riley truly was and for giving me the evidence to prove it. You really helped me dodge a bullet there, buddy."
In other words, thx for making a cuck out of me, that what every men dreams off and im sure people don’t laugh at my back
Don't forget about how Adam showed how worthless he is too.
@@maskednil OP already knew that. He expected better from Riley
A bully is never promising as a child, even with good grades or an athletic body. A bully has a certain mindset that will more than likely screw them up in adult life.
Adam had all this bad stuff going on, but still chose to mess with OP and sleep with his fiance, as if there wouldnt be any consequences. Adam couldve continued to milk sympathy, but OP wouldnt have been able to tell others days after proposing that he's no longer getting married without explanation. Did his mom expect him to lie when that time came? Did his mom expect OP to say Riley cheated but not reveal Adam as the other partner? Did his mom expect OP to not use the proof? Did Adam really screw himself over just to have a big "haha in your face!" to his little bro thinking he wouldnt be punished?
Ops mom is an enabler
"They can go to hell for all I care"
That's some real shiit 💯 👏
The way the mom is treating them so differently- I think there are two different fathers
Adam really is the textbook definition of “play stupid games, win stupid prizes”
I can’t believe Ops mom can be this delusional. Op fiancé cheated on him with Adam and she wants Op to be okay with it, “oh because his life has gone down hill” So?!? That’s not Ops problem.
True. As he said, his mom has a favorite kid.And certainly, not op.
OP would probably have been in a better spot if it was the egg donor rather than his father in that accident.
I can see this happening in the future once OP gets a partner who's actually faithful.
OP's Mom: Your brother is depressed, so give him your gf so he can be happy.
Finally, an OP who isn’t afraid to go to the extreme option and isn’t a doormat.
Funny thing is, his extremes never got law, police or friends involved. He just showed others what his brother did and everything took care of itself.
@@DragonOfTheMortalKombat Yeah, most people (probably due to therapy) tend to go with “forgive and forget” until the issue has blown so out of proportion that it can’t be permanently fixed anymore without lawyers, and every story that isn’t obviously fake has OPs that are like this.
WTF was Adam's end goal here? Did he expect OP to just not tell anyone about it? Like how foolish is he, no one was going to take his side except for the delusional mother which makes me think she might have had a hand in this too tbh,
The moment OP told the family, Adam knew HE F_CKED UP
"I won't speak to you until you speak to Adam".
Best response would have been to tell her that you guess you'll never speak to her again.
OP should've told his mother to be happy Adam is breathing after all that.
LOOOOL the nerve of the mother here is actually hysterical.
“Oh Op, after your golden child brother slept with your fiancé immediately after you got engaged and then sent you pictures of it…but cmon, my precious baby is sad now”
Ffs whats an awful mother. I’m glad the family disowned them both.
Adam is only 27, his life isn't over
I'm 27 as well
@@gapgamer0954rip
Considering he's lonely, friendless, family less jobless homeless depressed mess, it'll be soon 😉
They'll come back, mother and Adam, when he finds a good woman and start a family. Mom will try suing for grandparent's rights (whatever that is) and Adam will go after his wife.
Why cheaters think they're owed a person's time to "hear them out"?
Clearly they cheated because they _could_ and because they _wanted_ to, what's there to "explain"?
Whatever they say will just be a ridiculous excuse for them to try to guilt trip the cheated person into accepting the cheater back and forgiving their "mistake".
The trash walked itself out 😂😂
Ngl if OP here had posted it to his workplace through social media and somehow to his employer, he would've been more miserable, I think he deserved more revenge than he did
Am I the only one flabbergasted by the fiancee?
Like, now I'm very curious of the kinda reasoning she could produce to explain how she hooked up with her fiancé's bully the day after being proposed to.
Though to be truthful my money's on them having something for longer than that.
She’s probably been cheating behind OPs back the whole time. Adam just screwed Riley over by bringing the cheating to light just to be a prick to OP.
The mental gymnastics of 3 idiot's
@@windrider2190That's pure unfounded speculation. We simply don't know why she had sex with Adam.
I’m not sure what Adam was expecting after sending the conversations and pictures of the clothing? Obviously all it takes is a screen shot and a post to social media. He just sent his brother evidence of his crime. What a stupid thing to do.
Because that was his whole point to shove it up in little brother's face, like a bully
The dumbest part of this all is that mom could have kept supporting Adam and making sure he was getting the help he needed while also not badgering OP to downplay what Adam did.
It wasn't enough to make sure her son's life wasn't destroyed by his own idiocy, she wanted to go and make his brother who he wronged in all that idiocy do all the work fixing it.
Had OP bent it would have been a matter of time before Mom would have been on him about how he owes Adam for what he did and so he should give Adam a loan or get him a job and then put his own neck out to defend Adam when his slackass self got in hot water.
Was it because of brother that op was a “loser” and suffer on high school? You can’t run away from your problems...
There is a difference between a "sibling rivalry" and familial shame.
But he didn't run away from his problems though. He found a college that would help him get the profession he wanted and it helped that it was so far away from home so he didn't have to worry about being in his brother's shadow. Being in an older siblings shadow is a very real thing regardless of it being on purpose like this story or if it is a coincidence like with myself and my brother.
@@vengefulwarrior5852 True that about being in the older sibling's shadow. I'm the older sibling and it took me many years to understand why my little sister (there's a 12 year difference between us) was so bitchy to me. We're now on the best of terms, but it took a lot of work on my part and a lot of growing up on hers before we got to where we are today.
The golden child was just golden 💩. 😂
Adam high-key saved his brother honestly.... His fiance folded like a beach chair and smashed the day she got engaged😂
That brother sounds like someone who peaked at high school, and cannot accept failure cause he was never put in that kind of position ever, which kind of explains his behavior. I am also going on a limb by saying that the brother resembles their late father more, hence why the mother gravitated to him so eagerly.
OP, while it's sad that you had to cut out your immediate family and your fiancé, but that's what you do with tumors. At the very least, you have your uncle as a pillar of support, and honestly, not peaking like your brother did was a blessing in disguise. All that's left is to live your own life, away from the toxic individuals putting you down.
I mean, great guy Adam, he saved his brother years...., who cheats after they engaged the next day...that could have been ruined life..
Because it's all made up. 23 yeras old and huge paying job. Yeah right. And even if it's true, how did he do op any favor? He might do it again with op's next fiance to hurt op. It's so weird you're defending a pos man.
@@Souchi-ito oh no, you don't understand, first of all not every fiancé will be foolish enough to hookup with a miserable lonely guy. Secondly, considering the state of his mind and emotions it probably won't be long before he does the unthinkable 😁
@@Souchi-ito Also you don't understand sarcasm.
Mom - “She wouldn’t talk to me until I reached to Adam…”
OP - “promise?
This was not the first she cheated, with either the brother or somebody else, OP dodged a huge bullet and his brother did him a favor, but he still needs to go complete N.C. with him and mom forever.
You don't know that. It's just unfounded speculation.
@@vaska1999 You don't know that it's not either. If you don't know her personally, it's pure unfounded speculation on your part that she hasn't. It was far to easy for her to jump into bed with the brother even before she was married, like i said, and will say again, this is not the first time she has cheated on him, or anybody else that came before him, it would not surprise me if she has been a serial cheater her whole dating life.
@@lanceloyer9147 Except that I'm not speculating one way or the other, as you are, but keeping to the facts we know.
Finally at the end OP realizes his mother isn't worth it.
'she didn't pick favorites but if my mother had to choose one, it'd be Adam.'
What in the ai generated bullshit is this. So she does have a favorite? 😭😭😭
Okay, almost done with the story. HOW MANY CONTRADICTIONS DOES THIS DAMN STORY HAVE? first, Riley was blocked and then he said he hasn't blocked her yet. Then the vagueness of the relatives, like wtf? 😭😭😭 This story is for sure fake
That bugs tf out of me 😂 is it one or the other? AI stuff bugs me to no end. Especially the art stuff.
Nah it’s more like my dad, me and my sisters (not his kids) he’d treat us all “fairly” in that he’d always get us the same things, if I got a chocolate bar, they also got chocolate bars, but if I did something wrong he wouldn’t punish me to the same degree as he’d punish them
I was my dads golden child and my sisters were my mums golden children, and with that said we were all neglected, abused and traumatised, sometimes life is just messy
@@3adgamd3rI get that for sure, and maybe that's what op in the story meant. Life is quite messy, with relationships and stuff. but let's be real and say it how it is, that is just picking favorites blatently. Sorry that you went through that though, hope everything gets better.
@@catpoofa eh I’m 27 now and haven’t spoken to my dad since I was 23ish, I miss the person I thought he was as a child, but as I grow older the more I realise he wasn’t a good person
My family sorta imploded a long time ago for various reasons
I would have definitely told the family what mom tried to do.
I hope op got his ring back from the horse with W
Unlikely, op has no backbone
I'd thank Adam for exposing Riley.
7:07 She wanted to be manipulated, she was into him.
Honestly, I would be happy, I wouldn't want to have someone like that for the rest of my life
He's not being a good sibling. Maybe you should confront him. That'll help escalate the drama.
Mom is definitely playing favourites. Her enabling him has made him the horrible person he is.
If he maintains contact with moms side of the family too, he should treat that relationship with a grain of salt and be prepared for them to possibly start to flip sides later down the line. I'd hope they do not but in the long run people have a habit of wanting everything to magically work out. It's easier for dads side of the family to cut them off for good then moms.
I can never understand how people like Adam can betray their siblings. Hell me and my brother might fight on occasion but it hasn’t gotten any worse then an argument here…a bit of fighting there and that’s it neither of us would dream of convincing the others SO to cheat
Bruh, how strong of a drug is jealousy for the big brother to throw his life so much further under the bus than it already was?
Mom: "I can hardly handle losing the most important in my life."
Also mom: "Being mad at your brother for convincing the most important person in your life to betray you is silly. Get over it."
What if the true reason his mother doesnt show him as much love and support as his brother is because she cheating on her late husband and they don't have the same father?
1. Blocked ex fiancé after sending text
2. Haven’t blocked her yet
??????
Cheaters and homewreckers makes my blood boil.. God damn I hate those pathetic little things. Cheating should have a sentence.
XD ya good luck with that x.,x
He should look on the bright side. Adam revealed who Riley really was before any permanent commitment.
Come on man. Brother did him a huge favor. If the brother could get over his pride, he could have apologized for getting his fiance to cheat, said he did him a favor, and used that opportunity to fix things. If she cheated on him that fast, probably was already cheating.
bro dodged not just a bullet but tactical nuke!
Pretty Much Most Mothers with Favourite kids in a Nutshell: My Favourite Child took part in an afair of my mother child's Fiance? Oh Don't worry sweetie, its just a little squabble, my favourite child deserves all the happiness in the world for fucking up your Engagement and Life!
I actually wanted to puke after typing that.
The brother, mother, and Riley are just horrible for hurting OP like this
He took your letter badly because that's his projection. It's a truly despicable individual.
I always hate the whole "be the bigger person" thing. Like yes, in some situations being the bigger person is helpful and will save future problems but in others, forgiving someone who will never change or be better will just cause yourself more pain and isnt good.
It's so weird to me how everyone who cheats and is caught (it doesn't matter if I read it online, heard it from one of these videos, told about it by a friend, co-worker, family member, etc, etc, etc....
The cheating partner always reacts by "Just let me explain!" Things like "please just wait, just listen"
Like, seriously, what could you possibly say in explanation at that moment that would make it okay?
It’s simply just a rat getting caught and trying to come up with an excuse for why they fucked up.
turns out being good at sports and school isn't as applicable to success as an adult if you aren't putting any effort and jumping straight in with no research.
Dear mother would have got the back of my hand.
W uncle for being a better parent than his own mother
I love that op 😂
Seriously, the mother has some serious issues. This is so stupid . The brother slept with the fiancée on purpose, even rubbed it on op's face and now he needs to be pitied ? Go to h*ll !
He's an adult. He should know better than anyone that actions have consequences, and if he wasn't ready for them, he shouldn't have started this
Adam really helped reveal that character.
I have literally never heard a real person refer to their parent's death as their 'demise'.
Even a family should know when their is a traitor in their midsts.
As much as I hate break ups through text THIS MOMENT IS THE MOST APPROPRIATE TO DO SO. Massive bullet dodged.
Given how easily she betrayed OP, it’s good that she did that before the wedding. Now take her to court for the wedding expenses. And thank your brother. He did you a favour by taking himself out of your life and also took your low life sorry excuse of a woman.
Won't feel like it so soon but OPs bother did him a huge favor. That girl would have cheated on him throughout their relationship. At least now there are no kids to be hurt or even more years wasted.
I hate it when parents playing favorites like why? they are all your child I am happy my sister never did this to her 4 childrens and we never do too to our nieces and nephew so they can love each other equally too.
What a Bro, Adam is. Dude removed all the toxicity in OPs life. Removed toxic family, removed Riley who is very likely a habitual cheater, then removed himself from OP's life.
First Time I had seen a Uncle more Supportive than their's own parents 😢😭
The mom is right, Adam is a grown man. His downfall is his fault. Op isn't entitled to Adam’s feelings and his life. Adam is stupid for sending the screenshots and stupid for going headfirst into a business he knew nothing about.
Did the OP say at first that he blocked his ex and then later said “I know I need to block her.”
Bro had to get this hand with a side of fries
If your mother admits Adam is an A**hole then that means she had to admit the large role she played in helping him turn out that way, which would mean she needs to confront the type of mother she’s been (including how much she neglected you) but people are cowards, especially insufficient parents😂
The thing is the brother shot himself in the foot. If he had just been content knowing that he had slept with her that would be really bad. But he wanted OP to know he had done it as well. What did he think was going to happen? Did he think people would magically forget about Riley? Also, seems like Riley got off pretty light for being the worst fiancee.
I would have disowned my mother if she did this to me. Thankfully, I know she would never do something like this and I’m very thankful for it. This is such a crazy story, feel bad for the OP but I know he’s doing better.
It's sad that he lost the love of his life at the time. But he dodged a bullet for a nasty divorce and settlements.
He should charge his brother with a restraining order against him anyway to prevent further issues. Also (just to spite his ex), post happy pictures with a new girl to social media feeds Riley views to show how stupid she was to lose the one person who wanted to spend the rest of his life with.
Well OP dodged a huge bullet. If his wife caves in that easily to Adam’s suggestion and was even flirting with him she probably was already cheating on OP. Especially only a day after he proposed. That’s definitely a horrible situation but OP’s brother (Adam) saved him from getting married with Riley and only finding out after they get married/have children.
One cardboard box for all of Riley's things after they'd been living together fir a year?! 😂
This HAS to be fiction, folks!
Brother - narc; Mother - enabler
Adam: Wanna have s##?
Riley: Why not now 😍?
Adam: Okie dokie.
OP: she did not even take an day of not cheating when Im proposed to her.
OP: Massive bullet dodged 😎.
adam is the kind of person who will always blame others for his own failings. Nothing is ever his fault, so he never needs to take responsibility.
Sounds like the mother needs some psychotherapy herself because THE UTTER AUDACITY TO BRING IN YOUR DEAD DAD TO DEFEND HERSELF
What's a booty so good from afar that you just had to ruin it like I don't even know how you even do that every time I watch videos like this I just laugh because all the time it's I they all suffer in the process they get nothing in return and they are completely cut off from the rest are they actually are accepted from the rest and the one person that leaves they need that bad I find it hilarious cuz there's no way I'm doing that I honestly only want to watch the video cuz I already know that the brother already got kicked the hell out😂😂😂
Yeah we watch because it scratches that itch in the soul that wants things to work out the way they should.
Yeah some people are just that horny that they'll ruin their lives and others' over it and not think twice at the time. I know because my "father" was one of those that couldn't keep his pants up. My step brother (found out later half brother) is only six years younger than me. He got people fired. We had to move frequently and change circles frequently when I was a kid. It never stopped. Still might not have, don't know or care to know.
Unfortunately reality rarely has such happy endings as "everyone got what they deserved in the end". But that's why the good ending stories get so popular. We, as a society, need them.
so did he or did he not block his ex fiancé 🤔
anyway big W for the uncle
Better he found out early than after wedding
Mom deffo sees Adam as a husband's replacement. It's called emotional incest.
I'm worried about OP. That last update sounds like someone who's spiralling downward. There's so much anger and hate there. I hope OP seeks council.
This shit hits close to me. Both my mom and younger brother are like this. Abusive brother and enabler mom who always guilt me into understanding your brother.
At least you weren't already married when it happened. Can you imagine the legal shitshow if that was the case?
I've seen things where people go and lose everything. And yet the thought that never enters their mind is it happened with their own decisions. Mother loses a son and family because she won't stop covering Adam. And throughout this entire thing not once has Adam or the mother apologized for their actions.
The guy has clinical depression. So do a lot of other people. If he's not feeling guilt now he probably never will. The OP's mother and brother really need a reality check and see just what they cost themselves by trying to downplay something very serious.
I've never been cheated on, has the "I can explain" ever worked? Like I hear that with these stories and can't understand what they would say that would make me go "Oh yes those are some very reasonable arguments OK let's continue"