The fact this woman said that OP ruined her life by not taking her back after she was "having a little bit of fun" shows she's a true narcissist. No you didn't have a bit of fun. You cheated on him, left him, showed no remorse and was condescending as he was begging you not to leave then got what you deserve when your AP called you an old woman who was only good for a good time. And somehow it's OPs fault? Karma is a bitch
I love how she basically called their marriage loveless but wanted to return to it when she's now alone and got cheated on. If I was OP, I would save the clown honking noise as her ringtone for her contact.
I don't know why she thought op would want her back and why would she think that child would want to stay with a old woman, her children is almost his age.. WOW and why would OP take her back audacity 😂😂
In the end, Matt actually saved OP from a toxic marriage, while ruining that narcissist's life in the process. Ahhh, I never get tired of stories where the cheaters get cheated on by their own AP. Karmic justice at its best.
@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing lol sometimes these stories are almost unbelievable, how can a 50 year old be so naive to think a 27 year old actually wants to be in a long term relationship with her? But then again, I know how self centered and stupid people are even at that age so it wouldn't surprise me if this story is completely true
Stepping on someone’s foot in the movie theater is a mistake, putting sugar is something, thinking it’s salt is a mistake, saying “hey, when’s the baby due?” And it turns out the person is just fat is a mistake! Cheating is in a league of its own
The audacity to cheat on someone, get cheated on/dumped, beg to come back, and then gaslight the person you cheated on because they won't take you back is unreal.
TBH thats one of the most healthy responses towards an AP I've heard in those stories in a while. If you're in a monogamous relationship, its **you** and **your partners** responsibility not to cheat on each other. It's NOT some stranger 3rd parties responsibility to respect your relationship and not flirt with you or your partner. If you and your partner are loyal people it literally doesn't matter if the most charming, rich, famous, perfect 10/10 tries to flirt with them, they WILL reject that 3rd party and cut contact the moment they realize what's going on, otherwise they aren't loyal.
I agree but I also know so few couples actually talk about this. Normally in a marriage after a bit, the husband and wife start building their careers and working more. They both trust each other and if they have children their focus is on work, keeping the home clean and updated, children and children's activities and then each other. Life gets mundane but for those that stay together these are the awesome times. However, outside dudes who know how to prey on women like this and are experts at getting women to sleep with them are real. I know of a dude who has slept with over 50 married women. He targets women in the 4-7 years of marriage timeframe. Dude has a template and says how easy it is to get so many women to sleep with him. He is scum and I hope bad things happen to him but one would be a fool to ignore that there is a pattern here. Yes there are some women that turn this dude down, he says he can tell quickly, but a dude who works with another woman? That dude can take his time and he gets to spend 8 hours a day with her if not more. 8 hours where he doesn't have to take the garbage out, there are no kids, etc. He can be the perfect dude in her eyes, all while he will be figuring out cracks in the marriage and saying crap like "I would never do what your husband did." when she complains. In short husbands and wives need to talk about these tactics being used by other men and learn how to defend against it. Also so few understand how God awful divorce is and what their life would be after it.
She said it was a loveless marriage. By her own words, she didn’t love him, she wanted a financial safety net. Hell, she probably figured she could force the kids to forgive her by saying their father had. It’s all just emotional manipulation when she doesn’t actually care about these people, she’s treating them like a backup family when she was ready to run off and abandon them for her younger boyfriend who didn’t even see them as a couple
You know it was the funny thing about this story she damn near in her grandma stage why did she think somebody is so young and want to spend the rest of their life with her
All women it's the same thing, they are of manual, all they have the same excuses the same behavior etc, and they are always victims and men is always the villain haha, they all have the same speech
One thing stands out here: The sheer stupidity. Even if the AP wasn't leading her on does not mean that he was automatically ready to have her in his house. I mean, you can be in love with someone, but that is not a quarantee that you are instantly ready to take your relationship to the next level. What did she expect? That she could blindside him like this without any previous serious convertation?? How stupid can someone be ffs?
You know why she asked to be taken back? Because she considered you a weak man. When you cried and begged for her, you confirmed that fact and she did that to you because she wanted to see you suffer, glad he grew a back bone in the end and told her to f off.
It’s actually hilarious how the cheating wife has the audacity to be upset that Op isnt taking her back with open arms after she threw away her marriage to hook up with a guy at work😂
100% NTA. The fact she had a mental breakdown when her AP admitted to only using her as a cheap toy to mess around and not really liking her in the way she assumed and instead of taking accountability, she goes on to babble about how she’s “the victim”. Why is she even surprised that OP refused to welcome her back after what she did? What did she expect would happen? Pretty embarrassing she’s spending her precious time whining about how Matt led her on and stupidly assumed he “loves and wants to be in a relationship with her”
You know, all women are always victims of men, they born and live being victims, they never are accountable nor responsible for nothing, they are just childs forever
Not condoning cheating at all... but I am baffled at how many of them don't secure the AP before burning bridges. Like, wouldn't that be the first logical step?
The only thing this channel was missing was that medium-length format, I really like listening to these stories before sleep, but half an hour always seemed like a bit of a stretch, now I can enjoy these to the fullest, thanks!
So she cheated on Op, realized the adulterer didn’t want to have a real relationship, and decided to come back to Op thinking he’ll take her in? That’s laughable. 😂
If cheating is supposed to be a mistake you don't keep doing it for two years. By then she did it because she wanted to keep doing it and she already had a bag packed showed she didn't want to give the marriage another try. Only after her decisions backfired on her does she want to. And if he had actually let her back in how long before she did it again because she never apologized for her behavior before.
She thought he looked his age at 50 compared to her boy toy 27 . I would have like to be a fly on the wall when Matt told her she is 48 and too old for him 😅.
He is such a pathetic guy. Only has a spine when he feels like he has the control. Couldn’t let her go when he was he was the loser but once she was the loser he was a big man.
It always happens to men who put every ounce of being into loving a woman and basically worship the ground she walks on. Dude must have been raised by hollywood movies and romance novels.
Not true it goes both ways . If you gonna base this on the storys from Reddit , Is just the guys who post on Reddit are normally more soft emotional guys who need outlet for they are feelings and problems . especially if they have focused on they are wifes for X amount of years . The reality there is no base for this things . Men cheat as much as women and but one thing i gotta say is that there is one personality trait of most cheaters and thats the narcissistic one and is always about them and what they want . Like in this case his wife was so sure of herself about how Matt was gonna take her , because she is her and thats how should be .
Yeh that's what Hollywood and Disney did to all us, sold us a fake fantasy, sadly many bought it, few did realize it was fake before it was too late, others still keep and hols it with a false hope it be real, others realize it's fake when it's too late, and some many ones even after realizing it's fake they still hold it hopping sometime it turn real
It's not your fault, she CHEATED she LEFT. It's not your fault that she was too stupid to make sure that her ap wanted to move forward. This is less than what she deserves.
She didn't even check to make sure that little boy would take her in beforehand?!? Lmao For someone so conniving as to be able to hide a multi-year relationship, that just seems sloppy on her part 😂😂😂😂 Enjoy the curb x2, lady
This literally how emotional abuse affects a person 12:08 -12:39 that’s how it feels. If your in an emotionally abuse relationship weather it’s platonic or romantic it’s not ok. It’s extremely difficult to leave because part of you sees it as normal especially if no one has said anything or if you grew up with it. But TURST me you will always become a stranger person for not only recognizing but also trying to get out. I’m trying to distance myself from certain family members right now because the emotional abuse I have gotten all my life is unbelievable and unbearable to me. To believe that even happened is EXTREMELY HARD! You think if your fault got it yet. You think they will change. They never do. Narcissists don’t learn. Well very rarely like 0.000000001% that they will. Also the best thing you can do if your in an escape goat relationship. Is realize in fact it’s not your fault. But also it’s not your job to change the other person.
"It's kind of pathetic that she's still trying to shift the blame onto me and make it look like what she did was fine, and I should've been the one to fix myself, but that's just how she is." That's how like 90% of them are.
You even questioning and second guessing if you should take her back or not is part of the reason why you got cheated for 2 years without realizing it. Never completely trust anyone.
Classic Women and accountability kryptonite... It never fails to amuse me when they get caught how they just cannot admit the blame and then have the audacity to try to gaslight you into thinking that you are the one to blame lmao
Amy, a 48 yr old woman: I’m gonna marry a 27 year old Me: I’m sorry you were 21 when he was born. Is that even legal? Edit: Also, isn’t there like a weekly thing where people can technically live for a while in a hotel? Or was the book I read just spitting nonsense?
This is unrelated but I've watched so many of these reddit stories but I dont play minecraft so I'm so confuse of what this exact gameplay's goal is? All the vids I watched are just them walking around, no getting coins or anything, no finish line (as far as i know), so whats the goal?
Exactly my question. My brother is 6 and he absolutely LOVES Minecraft. And when I asked him "So, what's the goal of the game ?" "It's fun" "... What happiness do you get from just jumping around building stuff ?" "...." (*Ignores me*) Like bro 😃🔫. WHYYYYYYYYYYY
I play Minecraft with my kids and niblings, he is playing a parkour game with an end game and there are also maps(different user made game) that has goals but usually outside of beating the ender dragon, you just let your creative juices flow and make of the game what you want.
Hey, word to the wise. If you're going through a divorce with someone, especially an ugly divorce, do not block them until after it's done. If they send you vile things, make sure you share them with your lawyer. If they threaten you, report them to the cops. Additionally, keep as much communication as possible in writing. It may not make a difference in court, but it never hurts to have proof of vitriol from someone you're in a legal battle with.
I'm going to say this much... A twenty something year old guy or girl, should never be going after someone 20 years older than them. Even if its just for a "good time," because in sad truth, there is nothing to gain from it. That age gap is real, and it's not just something to throw to the side when someone is just looking for a "good time." Actual feelings or lives can be ruined. Maturity levels are completely different due to life expericences or lack of. That is why you should never involve yourself with someone with that kind of age gap. She made her bed, now she can lay in it. There is no coming back after two years of cheating on your significant other. Heck not even after one time. Cheating is cheating and it necer ends good for either party.
Utterly hilarious that AP told Amy to get lost. Women need to get it through their heads that whatever men find attractive in mistresses, they don't find attractive in wives. She gets on OP for his natural ageing when that's exactly why her 20-something AP told her she was delulu.
Pretty much the same thing that happend to my buddy in the service. His wife cheated, literally abandoned him and took everything in thier appartment to live with a younger man. He filed for divorce and she didn't contest it at all. Later his now X wife found out she was being cheated on and the dude kicked her to the curb. She called my buddy looking for a " second chance " but he had already moved on and found someone new. So get this It was his x wife younger sister or step sister. Anyways last I heard they were happy and he left the military and is doing well with his own business. Family reunions must be awkward.
Starting to think people need to read the Bible more, jezebels fate in the Bible should deter women cause while that won’t happen fate usually isn’t kind to cheaters
i dont get the wife at all. was she living in a cloud? she decides by herself to leave her husband for another man after cheating on him for 2 years without first confirming with the AP if is ok to make that move? also burning bridges while doing so (i mean burning an already burned one because of the cheating, but saying that this is a loveless marriage is a twist of the knife)
Lmao. She didn't even talk to her AP before leaving her husband.. I mean I'm glad because now the husband see's who she really is but damn that's funny. She monkey branched and fell on her ass. Now she wants her fall back option until she can find someone else to branch to. When she said he was selfish and didnt think about her at all i wish he said "you mean like how you were selfish and didnt think about me or the kids while you were all over matts D.? How dare you say im selfish for not thinking about you. Why would i think about the woman who obviously thinks so little of me she cheats, leaves, gets dumped and then expects me to roll over and take her back.? I am not and will never be your doormat. Besides we both know you only wanna come back until you can find another AP." Id love for ex to see OP and kids with another woman happy while shes alone and miserable. Lol.
Jesus Christ. I’m embarrassed on OP’s behalf. What a ridiculous reaction. Grow up and be a parent. What kind of grown adults sits in bed sobbing over a divorces? Good lord
It’s fine to cry. What’s not fine is to sit around depressed and sobbing all day, forcing your KIDS to have to take care of you and do your shit, because you won’t
The fact this woman said that OP ruined her life by not taking her back after she was "having a little bit of fun" shows she's a true narcissist. No you didn't have a bit of fun. You cheated on him, left him, showed no remorse and was condescending as he was begging you not to leave then got what you deserve when your AP called you an old woman who was only good for a good time. And somehow it's OPs fault?
Karma is a bitch
I love how she basically called their marriage loveless but wanted to return to it when she's now alone and got cheated on. If I was OP, I would save the clown honking noise as her ringtone for her contact.
@@calico_queen8976 Ooooh, we like petty queen!
If that was me I would’ve done something worse because I don’t have the control of my anger like this guy here. He is not the ass hole
If you burn your bridges, don’t be surprised when you can’t go back and cross them
Well goddamn said dude
Well said..
deep
“But that burnt bridge needs to be the bigger person!” 😉
@@princessmarlena1359crazy
Wow a 27 year old didn't want a 52 year old? Who would have thunk?
I don't know why she thought op would want her back and why would she think that child would want to stay with a old woman, her children is almost his age.. WOW and why would OP take her back audacity 😂😂
In the end, Matt actually saved OP from a toxic marriage, while ruining that narcissist's life in the process.
Ahhh, I never get tired of stories where the cheaters get cheated on by their own AP. Karmic justice at its best.
Yeah, cant really blame the dude. He had some easy pussy and took his chance
Not Amy coming for OP’s looks cause he’s aging like a normal human being 😭.
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Yeah, but I bet a house mortgage she sure as hell don't look as good as she did when she was in her 20s
@@TheKnightofAwesomenessYeah her affair partner even mocked her for being 50💀 the projection was crazy
@Extremelybraindeadhumanbeing lol sometimes these stories are almost unbelievable, how can a 50 year old be so naive to think a 27 year old actually wants to be in a long term relationship with her? But then again, I know how self centered and stupid people are even at that age so it wouldn't surprise me if this story is completely true
"little bit of fun"
Lady threw away twenty three years of marriage for nothing, and that little bit of fun cost her _big time_
Yeah, want a "little fun" Go ahead and have days off, but not cheat. Cheating at this age is pointless.
@@Nameless82284 Cheating at any age is pointless. Only thing it does is destroy you.
She sounds like a narcissist.
She is
That's cuz she is lmao
ohhh really?
Sounds like the average woman
@@SlugSage *average NARCISSIST woman
Karmas a bitch.
Karma is his boyfriend actually
@@friskybaCON his?
@@lelo8744🤔
@@lelo8744🏳️🌈
Cheating is a choice not a mistake.
Super mega very much right
Stepping on someone’s foot in the movie theater is a mistake, putting sugar is something, thinking it’s salt is a mistake, saying “hey, when’s the baby due?” And it turns out the person is just fat is a mistake!
Cheating is in a league of its own
For real. What goes around, comes around!
The brother is so sweet and caring.
The audacity to cheat on someone, get cheated on/dumped, beg to come back, and then gaslight the person you cheated on because they won't take you back is unreal.
"I always loved her more than she loved me" and now she dun goofed big because he got snapped out of his relationship fog.
TBH thats one of the most healthy responses towards an AP I've heard in those stories in a while.
If you're in a monogamous relationship, its **you** and **your partners** responsibility not to cheat on each other.
It's NOT some stranger 3rd parties responsibility to respect your relationship and not flirt with you or your partner. If you and your partner are loyal people it literally doesn't matter if the most charming, rich, famous, perfect 10/10 tries to flirt with them, they WILL reject that 3rd party and cut contact the moment they realize what's going on, otherwise they aren't loyal.
I agree but I also know so few couples actually talk about this. Normally in a marriage after a bit, the husband and wife start building their careers and working more. They both trust each other and if they have children their focus is on work, keeping the home clean and updated, children and children's activities and then each other. Life gets mundane but for those that stay together these are the awesome times. However, outside dudes who know how to prey on women like this and are experts at getting women to sleep with them are real. I know of a dude who has slept with over 50 married women. He targets women in the 4-7 years of marriage timeframe. Dude has a template and says how easy it is to get so many women to sleep with him. He is scum and I hope bad things happen to him but one would be a fool to ignore that there is a pattern here. Yes there are some women that turn this dude down, he says he can tell quickly, but a dude who works with another woman? That dude can take his time and he gets to spend 8 hours a day with her if not more. 8 hours where he doesn't have to take the garbage out, there are no kids, etc. He can be the perfect dude in her eyes, all while he will be figuring out cracks in the marriage and saying crap like "I would never do what your husband did." when she complains. In short husbands and wives need to talk about these tactics being used by other men and learn how to defend against it. Also so few understand how God awful divorce is and what their life would be after it.
Nothing like the selfish mentally of a cheater going "I know I burned the bridge but could you please let me back across?"
She said it was a loveless marriage. By her own words, she didn’t love him, she wanted a financial safety net. Hell, she probably figured she could force the kids to forgive her by saying their father had. It’s all just emotional manipulation when she doesn’t actually care about these people, she’s treating them like a backup family when she was ready to run off and abandon them for her younger boyfriend who didn’t even see them as a couple
My birth giver did this and destroyed my family. I moved so far away she has no idea where i am ánd she will never see me again.
You know it was the funny thing about this story she damn near in her grandma stage why did she think somebody is so young and want to spend the rest of their life with her
When the grass looked greener, but it was actually a field of thistles . 🤣🤣🤣
he should have said 'we truly are made for one each other, beacouse you didn't give the marriage a second chance, and neither am i" and block her
Man hearing her blame him for the consequences of her own actions reminds me so much of my ex
All women it's the same thing, they are of manual, all they have the same excuses the same behavior etc, and they are always victims and men is always the villain haha, they all have the same speech
One thing stands out here: The sheer stupidity. Even if the AP wasn't leading her on does not mean that he was automatically ready to have her in his house. I mean, you can be in love with someone, but that is not a quarantee that you are instantly ready to take your relationship to the next level. What did she expect? That she could blindside him like this without any previous serious convertation?? How stupid can someone be ffs?
You know why she asked to be taken back? Because she considered you a weak man. When you cried and begged for her, you confirmed that fact and she did that to you because she wanted to see you suffer, glad he grew a back bone in the end and told her to f off.
Know your self worth people.
It’s actually hilarious how the cheating wife has the audacity to be upset that Op isnt taking her back with open arms after she threw away her marriage to hook up with a guy at work😂
A classic story of "am I the asshole for saving a puppy that was about to burn alive?"
Nta thinking about it with dispassion is best, she cheated and hurt you and now she's getting what she's earned...nothing
100% NTA. The fact she had a mental breakdown when her AP admitted to only using her as a cheap toy to mess around and not really liking her in the way she assumed and instead of taking accountability, she goes on to babble about how she’s “the victim”. Why is she even surprised that OP refused to welcome her back after what she did? What did she expect would happen? Pretty embarrassing she’s spending her precious time whining about how Matt led her on and stupidly assumed he “loves and wants to be in a relationship with her”
You know, all women are always victims of men, they born and live being victims, they never are accountable nor responsible for nothing, they are just childs forever
Thats hilarious. Im 5 minutes in but the husband has a perfect chance to drag her through the mud for this.
Moral of the story, never put women on pedestals and have frame.
Not condoning cheating at all... but I am baffled at how many of them don't secure the AP before burning bridges. Like, wouldn't that be the first logical step?
Narcissism , there is no way someone will decline them because IS THEM , they are the light of the universe and everyone must bow down to them .
@@Lorexbg good point.
damn bro thats wild😢
The usual
The only thing this channel was missing was that medium-length format, I really like listening to these stories before sleep, but half an hour always seemed like a bit of a stretch, now I can enjoy these to the fullest, thanks!
Like if skibiti toilet is cringe
why
Nah man I looove skibiti toilet. Best thing since sliced bread.
what is "skibidi toilet"?
@@justsomeinternetuser its a crapy thing that gen alpha kids like to watch
@@OlivierMoisan-um2lnit’s better than anything from Hollywood these days especially marvel.
The brother and kids are true mvps
So she cheated on Op, realized the adulterer didn’t want to have a real relationship, and decided to come back to Op thinking he’ll take her in? That’s laughable. 😂
If cheating is supposed to be a mistake you don't keep doing it for two years. By then she did it because she wanted to keep doing it and she already had a bag packed showed she didn't want to give the marriage another try. Only after her decisions backfired on her does she want to. And if he had actually let her back in how long before she did it again because she never apologized for her behavior before.
She thought he looked his age at 50 compared to her boy toy 27 . I would have like to be a fly on the wall when Matt told her she is 48 and too old for him 😅.
“…the woman I loved more than life itself…” OP, that was the root of your marital problems.
He is such a pathetic guy. Only has a spine when he feels like he has the control. Couldn’t let her go when he was he was the loser but once she was the loser he was a big man.
Great storie!
Men have to stop putting women first , my god don't make a woman your everything, you will lose every time.
Ong, I hope this is fake, what kind of man starts crying and begging his wife not to leave after she exposes her cheating?
@@magnus19g8xc9it is
Beta guys, white knights, guys raised by Disney
Tell her to have fun then just not on your money or your house she can have fun on her own
It’s so funny how they always think they found something better and then realize they blew their life up for nothing, enjoy living with cats lady.
Not only is karma a bitch, karma is this man's new girl.
(Yes, a reference to Taylor Swift's song "Karma.")
It always happens to men who put every ounce of being into loving a woman and basically worship the ground she walks on. Dude must have been raised by hollywood movies and romance novels.
No we're just naturally more romantic than women
Not true it goes both ways . If you gonna base this on the storys from Reddit , Is just the guys who post on Reddit are normally more soft emotional guys who need outlet for they are feelings and problems . especially if they have focused on they are wifes for X amount of years . The reality there is no base for this things . Men cheat as much as women and but one thing i gotta say is that there is one personality trait of most cheaters and thats the narcissistic one and is always about them and what they want . Like in this case his wife was so sure of herself about how Matt was gonna take her , because she is her and thats how should be .
Yeh that's what Hollywood and Disney did to all us, sold us a fake fantasy, sadly many bought it, few did realize it was fake before it was too late, others still keep and hols it with a false hope it be real, others realize it's fake when it's too late, and some many ones even after realizing it's fake they still hold it hopping sometime it turn real
It's not your fault, she CHEATED she LEFT. It's not your fault that she was too stupid to make sure that her ap wanted to move forward. This is less than what she deserves.
She didn't even check to make sure that little boy would take her in beforehand?!? Lmao For someone so conniving as to be able to hide a multi-year relationship, that just seems sloppy on her part 😂😂😂😂 Enjoy the curb x2, lady
This literally how emotional abuse affects a person 12:08 -12:39 that’s how it feels. If your in an emotionally abuse relationship weather it’s platonic or romantic it’s not ok. It’s extremely difficult to leave because part of you sees it as normal especially if no one has said anything or if you grew up with it. But TURST me you will always become a stranger person for not only recognizing but also trying to get out. I’m trying to distance myself from certain family members right now because the emotional abuse I have gotten all my life is unbelievable and unbearable to me. To believe that even happened is EXTREMELY HARD! You think if your fault got it yet. You think they will change. They never do. Narcissists don’t learn. Well very rarely like 0.000000001% that they will. Also the best thing you can do if your in an escape goat relationship. Is realize in fact it’s not your fault. But also it’s not your job to change the other person.
OP haven't heard about "let bygone be bygone"
"It's kind of pathetic that she's still trying to shift the blame onto me and make it look like what she did was fine, and I should've been the one to fix myself, but that's just how she is."
That's how like 90% of them are.
You even questioning and second guessing if you should take her back or not is part of the reason why you got cheated for 2 years without realizing it.
Never completely trust anyone.
Classic Women and accountability kryptonite... It never fails to amuse me when they get caught how they just cannot admit the blame and then have the audacity to try to gaslight you into thinking that you are the one to blame lmao
Amy, a 48 yr old woman: I’m gonna marry a 27 year old
Me: I’m sorry you were 21 when he was born. Is that even legal?
Edit: Also, isn’t there like a weekly thing where people can technically live for a while in a hotel? Or was the book I read just spitting nonsense?
This is unrelated but I've watched so many of these reddit stories but I dont play minecraft so I'm so confuse of what this exact gameplay's goal is? All the vids I watched are just them walking around, no getting coins or anything, no finish line (as far as i know), so whats the goal?
Exactly my question. My brother is 6 and he absolutely LOVES Minecraft. And when I asked him
"So, what's the goal of the game ?"
"It's fun"
"... What happiness do you get from just jumping around building stuff ?"
"...." (*Ignores me*)
Like bro 😃🔫. WHYYYYYYYYYYY
I play Minecraft with my kids and niblings, he is playing a parkour game with an end game and there are also maps(different user made game) that has goals but usually outside of beating the ender dragon, you just let your creative juices flow and make of the game what you want.
She Cheated and she's the victim 😂😂😂
Hey, word to the wise. If you're going through a divorce with someone, especially an ugly divorce, do not block them until after it's done. If they send you vile things, make sure you share them with your lawyer. If they threaten you, report them to the cops.
Additionally, keep as much communication as possible in writing. It may not make a difference in court, but it never hurts to have proof of vitriol from someone you're in a legal battle with.
Crying ? So embarrassing !
I'm going to say this much... A twenty something year old guy or girl, should never be going after someone 20 years older than them. Even if its just for a "good time," because in sad truth, there is nothing to gain from it.
That age gap is real, and it's not just something to throw to the side when someone is just looking for a "good time." Actual feelings or lives can be ruined. Maturity levels are completely different due to life expericences or lack of. That is why you should never involve yourself with someone with that kind of age gap.
She made her bed, now she can lay in it. There is no coming back after two years of cheating on your significant other. Heck not even after one time. Cheating is cheating and it necer ends good for either party.
I aspire to be an Eric, "solid dependable guy"
Utterly hilarious that AP told Amy to get lost. Women need to get it through their heads that whatever men find attractive in mistresses, they don't find attractive in wives. She gets on OP for his natural ageing when that's exactly why her 20-something AP told her she was delulu.
He has a great brother
It's a no from me
I love happy endings
*Price Is Right losing horn*
You know these stories would seem a lot more plausible with such over-explanations.
Amy liked doing laundry because it was a means of covering up her affair.
Wow amazing
Why would he take her call ?
Pretty much the same thing that happend to my buddy in the service.
His wife cheated, literally abandoned him and took everything in thier appartment to live with a younger man. He filed for divorce and she didn't contest it at all. Later his now X wife found out she was being cheated on and the dude kicked her to the curb. She called my buddy looking for a " second chance " but he had already moved on and found someone new. So get this It was his x wife younger sister or step sister.
Anyways last I heard they were happy and he left the military and is doing well with his own business.
Family reunions must be awkward.
Salute to matt 👏
Woman: "I can't stay in loveless mariage"
Man: *cries for hours cuz love of his life cheated and left*
How tf does woman think?
I really want to live in this video world. It’s wonderful and weird and magical !
Honestly, even if Matt hadn’t come along she would of still cheated
Story sounds so fake. Why would the older woman dump her husband if the younger guy wasn't ready? It just doesn't make sense.
Starting to think people need to read the Bible more, jezebels fate in the Bible should deter women cause while that won’t happen fate usually isn’t kind to cheaters
i dont get the wife at all. was she living in a cloud? she decides by herself to leave her husband for another man after cheating on him for 2 years without first confirming with the AP if is ok to make that move? also burning bridges while doing so (i mean burning an already burned one because of the cheating, but saying that this is a loveless marriage is a twist of the knife)
Don't you just love how karma works?
You're not on the wrong
Nothing to do with the story, but who the F is ava?! That song is all I could hear 😅
telltales would it be possible to put author in description
Im a little confused why he would turn to reddit for advice when he has his whole family there.
damnnn
You reap what you sow
i have yet to hear a cheating story were the cheater ended up happy and i have listened to alot of these stories so in the end whats the point
Lmao. She didn't even talk to her AP before leaving her husband.. I mean I'm glad because now the husband see's who she really is but damn that's funny.
She monkey branched and fell on her ass. Now she wants her fall back option until she can find someone else to branch to.
When she said he was selfish and didnt think about her at all i wish he said "you mean like how you were selfish and didnt think about me or the kids while you were all over matts D.? How dare you say im selfish for not thinking about you. Why would i think about the woman who obviously thinks so little of me she cheats, leaves, gets dumped and then expects me to roll over and take her back.? I am not and will never be your doormat. Besides we both know you only wanna come back until you can find another AP."
Id love for ex to see OP and kids with another woman happy while shes alone and miserable. Lol.
yea matt game is game.
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha
God damn reposting come ON
Alpha fux beta bux
This sounds absurdly fake😅
‘Using fake names for obvious reason’
Well yeah, if the story is made up then it figures the names are name up as well.
Jesus Christ. I’m embarrassed on OP’s behalf. What a ridiculous reaction. Grow up and be a parent. What kind of grown adults sits in bed sobbing over a divorces? Good lord
Ok kid
A person who has loved and thought he was loved for twenty-three f-ing years
Probably someone who isn't an emotionally stunted robot person. If I had to wager a guess.
It’s fine to cry. What’s not fine is to sit around depressed and sobbing all day, forcing your KIDS to have to take care of you and do your shit, because you won’t
First
If he is a real man he'd take her back.
I believe you misspelled “doormat”
Oh look a woman that doesn't know any better, what a surprise.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA