Delulu Best Friend Tried To Seduce My Fiancé & Ruin Our Wedding By Claiming He Got Her Pregnant...
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- čas přidán 26. 03. 2024
- Delulu Best Friend Tried To Seduce My Fiancé & Ruin Our Wedding By Claiming He Got Her Pregnant. So I Had Her Husband Serve Her Divorce Papers In Front Of Everyone.
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Op ticks me off. Like she’s ok with cheating and her friend coming onto other guys that is r her SO until it effects her. She should have told the fiancé the moment she found out.
This scummy people both of them
Edit: and as I continue she gets worse
Story is fake friend
Lmao, THANK YOU! I despise people who seem to turn a blind eye to cheating, but when it happens to them, they can suddenly go scorched earth. That's why I applaud anyone who has no fear in ratting out a friend that cheats, even IF it doesn't affect them. If you support cheating, don't get upset when it happens to you.
Agree, but I also understand OP. To be honest, the moment you're in the clench of a manipulative person, it's really hard to get out of it, especially when it's for years like this. My best example is my toxic family. I suffer from C-PTSD, Anxiety disorder, depression and stress problems too (and I just started it). For years I was under the hands of my grandmother (father's side) and my father's manipulation, I can tell you how hard it is to change the way you feel about specific things and how you handle shit.
I don't tell random people that kind of stuff anymore. I did once, because morals, but then I told my husband's friend's girlfriend that friend was cheating with his children's mother (both of them openly discussed it in front of me) and it completely blew up.
She not only told friend it was me who told (causing problems with my own relationship, which involved my 3 year old daughter), but freaking stayed with him, stronger than ever apparently!
If you were going to stay anyway, couldn't you have kept my name out of it and not caused problems between my husband and friend for no reason?
Things were hostile for months after. Never again
Op and her BFF are terrible human beings
Right!!! I was just thinking op is trash.
@@kalefenneman7637 Like seriously, if I were Op's boyfriend, I would've left her.
@@DarkskinUnmei you speak the true true
@@DarkskinUnmei Why? just curious on why op is a bad person though?
@@VanillaOreoCatHer friend cheats and she stays silent.
Her friend actively flirts with other guys and she brushes it off as nothing.
That’s what makes her a bad person.
OP found a friend on her level. They're both not great people
Real
4 minutes in: "It was kind of annoying how my BFF continued the exact same pattern of behaviour." We had a tiff over that. Like, that's a lot of moral license.
LOOOOL, oh I get it. Op doesn’t care when her trash best friend cheats on her boyfriend, or accuse her good friends of SA…but the second she tries to cheat with Op’s boyfriend…oh THATS where she draws the line.
Tbh they’re both awful people.
I was gonna upvote, but I wanna keep it at 69 likes for the meme, lol
👍🏿💯
Well...I mean yea...as long as your as doesnt affect me or mi es....meh🤷🏾♀️
"Look I know that what she had done is bad but she was my best friend for so many years!". Darn OP is lucky her boyfriend didn't leave her when she revealed the truth, because if I were him I would break up with her because if she can hide the fact that her "Best friend" cheated, what's to say she will not cheat in the future and will not confess to "protect" my feelings. Like I don't want to marry a person with loose morals
Im not trying to defend her, but there is something to look at here. 8 years together as friends where Samantha was toxic and keeped it hidden well. Op probably fell into the "Sunk cost fallacy" where people can't just cut someone out so easily as they have known them for years.
Now, yes, there is the argument that she only told kyle only AFTER Samantha hit on Ops BF. That's the moment she realized she was next on the cheating list.
Her bf doesn’t know op on bullshit
I would break up too. It's true that OP is probably a cheater as well that's why she condones her bffs behaviour.
@@changedmyname26 🥱 easier said than done.
Had heard similar story before but the husband is the OP and he divorce his wife 😂
Every betrayed spouse: "I know you've been cheating and I want a divorce."
Cheaters: "It's everyone else's fault I'm getting divorced!"
Fr, cheaters don't apologize. They only make excuses
Also OOP: 'I know my friend goes after committed men and cheated multiple times on her boyfriend, but I didn't think she'd come after MY boyfriend!'
Can't believe the dude still married her. She willingly chose to keep quiet about her ex-friend's affairs out of 'loyalty' to their friendship.
well one of 3 things
1; is fake
2; the guy doesn't care
3; idk i cant think of one lol
@@gotenblack2542 It is fake, no one talks like this
true
@@gotenblack25423. OP is an idiot.
This feels like a case of "I voted for the Leopards eating faces party, but I didn't think they would eat my face!"
OP is already terrible at the start of the story for not telling the fiance and letting him get married to a cheater. Karma will come for OP
Yah she keeps talking about her “great guy friends” who willingly slept with someone who they knew was In a relationship
Op sounds like another story where this dude was friends with a guy who was downright garbage
And would openly tell op terrible things and all the bad stuff he did including cheating on his wife
Then he used that against him only after he stole weed from him
They are both the type that lie down with dogs and get up with fleas type of people
I don't think that's the case here. OP wanted a close friend but she was a cheater, so she tried all ways so that the friend would change her ways until she reached her breaking point. The fiance understood where OP was coming from. He didn't hold it against her.
If i was op's bf/ now fiance, i wouldve dropped her dawg. Like whhh how can u keep cheating a secret
It was not her secret to tell!!! She's not the one who cheated duh??
@@Alice15210 it was lol, ain't letting my homie suffer when he could obviously go for a better women who wouldn't cheat lmao
@@ezoez7548 the cheater was her friend, the cheateee is not OP's friend that's why she didn't say anything. She had 'loyalty' to the cheater as a friend (I'm not condoning this tho. If my friend cheats then I'm out)
@@Alice15210what else is she willing to hide? Obviously her own affair. Her poor now husband is gonna get cheated on by OP
@Alice15210 In my eyes, anyone who cheats is honorless, and telling their partners is the honorable to do. As soon as you cheat, you lose _any_ rights to dictate who tells what.
“Consciously distancing myself from the complexities that had defined that chapter.” Ah yes, spoken like a real human
Just because some people don't use the same 5 words to describe everything doesn't mean it's fake... why listen to this shit if you think it's fake just go watch a movie so you know it's fake.
Lines kinda fire
Dude, some of us like our vocabulary to be applicable to a myriad of scenarios. If you desire to let your capacity for complex communication corrode, by all means continue ambling down that narrow, uninspiring avenue of self-inflicted idiocy. Just know that whining about other folks striving to be verbose and clear in their conversations will only result in you looking bitter as well as willfully ignorant. Do better.
@@hurricanev6 preach smart homie
I'm with ya there. Why do these channels hardly ever provide a link to the post? Cause its fiction 80% of the time.
This poster worries me because she only told the him after the ex-best friend did the same thing to her boyfriend. The ex-best friend sounds like they're very insecure in their relationships.
It’s fake. You can always tell by the excess level of detail.
OP fed and protected the snake until it bit her. I have no sympathy for either of them. They are horrible human beings. Cheaters are the lowest creatures and one step above are the ones who help them keep it a secret. I am actually surprised the bf proposed and got married to her. The friends who slept with Samantha are no different. The only sane and innocent person in this whole story was poor Kyle. I hope he finds happiness.
OP is an awful person for enabling her friend like that. She's no better than her cheater friend. If I were her partner, I'd dump her. You can't trust someone who protects and makes excuses for a person like that.
Fr. She might just have no issue cheating in the future as well. Why would she have second thoughts when she actively helped a cheater like that for so long.
The fact that she hid the cheating, as her bf, Van should have dumped her ass immediately since she was willing to hide disgusting things like that from people.
OP is the AH for not telling the dude before he got married.
She didn't feel any duty to tell him that his soon to be wife was a massive cheater?
Gross.
Never help a Cheater. When you do your just as bad as the cheater. Your so called friend hates you & only thinks of getting off on other men.
“delulu best friend” these titles are getting crazy
I mean delulu is quite popular term those days xd
Facts
I can understand not wanting to be in other peoples business but cheating is one of those situations where you need to step in,
If you have to enable some BS just to keep the peace, you're doing the wrong thing. OP should know better to hold Samantha accountable. That girl is a whole vacation to Paris type of trip.
"What good for Peter, good for Paul." Her infidelity shouldn't only be an issue when she's trying to flirt with your man, her husband should have known about her behaviour from the get go. OP only cares about herself at the end of the day
If I was OP's fiancé I would run for the hills
They're both terrible and both the men should run.
If my best friend slept around behind his wife's back I would go to her the first time it happened. This pisses me off.
"You cheated on your fiancé and accused your partner, my friend, of SAing you as a cover. I will do nothing about you until *I* am personally affected."
Screw you, OP.
lol the comments bashing op is so great to see people not always side with em
OP is an enabler, she didn’t care that her friend was cheating on her SO and stayed silent, brushed off that her friend was actively flirting with other men as if it’s nothing but as soon as her friend sets her sights and goes after OP’s partner suddenly she’s a problem.
I do not feel sorry for OP.
If someone does bad things when under the influence of alcohol, common sense would be to NOT drink alcohol then.
Yet people choose to indulge in their vices at the expense of a good life all because they're too weak to control themselves...
Past mistakes aren't past mistakes if you're still making them. I HATE when that excuse gets thrown around.
Honestly OP is just as much a POS as her friend. She knew she was cheating on her fiance and still let them get married. If she was in that situation she'd want to know....
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oh so op is the type of person who is ok with the world burning but has a problem when the fire approaches her
I will never not find it satisfying when someone’s attempt to embarrass another person completely backfires and end up embarrassing them instead
Op and her friend are both terrible, why didn’t you tell him the first time it happened or even stay friends with a person who is a serial cheater
OP is a massive AH for covering a cheater. Disgusting morals.
I could understand if she just learned about it but then told the boyfriend but since she hid it multiple times and still hid it yeah she seems like a person who would betray you. If I found out my friend was cheating on someone I’d tell their significant other right away. But of course it would have to be actual evidence, because unfortunately I’m kind a jaded due to all the false accusations. But if I found out I’d let the significant other about it but if u wasn’t sure I’d tell them where I got the information.
@@eaglewarrior7979 Sure, I agree, without evidence you're gonna do more harm than good. But if there is evidence of for example my best friend cheating on his gf (even if they were together for like a month), I'm still telling the gf. Cheaters are disgusting and a friendship with a cheater is worth nothing, well, it's a net negative actually, a burden.
@@danielt2505yeah I agree with that. If I’m suspicious I won’t say anything unless there’s definite proof.
Sad it took OP being the target for her to realize she was a doormat. Good that she got rid of her toxic bestie, now she needs to remember the lessons and be a better person lmao
I don't know why, but "Delulu" makes me laugh so much
If you're constantly flirting when getting drunk. Avoid alcohol. Problem solved.
I don't completely blame OP. She is super young and didn't know how to deal with narcissistic and abusive people. She eventually learned. I'd be more worried if they stayed friends in her late 20s and into the 30s.
“I would’ve never expected her to flirt with my bf” bruh she did with everyone around you
Being delulu is not the Solulu
Ooh, that’s a good one!
Homegirl really said "aita?" After removing a toxic friend from her life that was cheating with their partner and covering it up. At this point, u are.
That girl needs to stop drinking and not just shame on her, shame on the two male friends who knew she was married and still hooked up with her and shame on OP for the obvious matters.
On all four of them.
OP needs to get up from the throne and realise shes as worse as her best friend.
OP herself sounds like a delulu best friend.
OP has a bright future with a career writing for All My Circuits.
If I was OP, the first time I see her cheating, I would tell immediately. Even if shes "a friend of 8 years" doesnt mean shes good. They are both bad people, one is just worse than the other.
Never trust a cheater, even if they didnt date and cheat on you specifically. The type of person a cheater is, thats not friend material either. A cheater is, above-all, self-serving and self-motivated. No friend or partner is anything more than a toy or tool.
Never defend a cheater
I don't get how OP brushes off the part she played in hiding the affairs to begin with. Her confessing to Karl when her BFF's actions started affecting her was wild. It needed to happen but she should've told Karl right away. Just being good friends with someone does not stop you from doing the right thing, even just telling the BFF to tell him or you will is enough. This would've been resolved a lot sooner with the same outcome.
Second half felt like it was AI generated
It is crazy how we hang out with people who do dirt to others and convince ourselves that this person will not do the same to us. Then we feel entitled to be mad when the person literally does the same thing to us.
This story irritates my butt.
First they had a lovely wedding, then the bff interrupted before they said their vows. It's almost as if rhe pister has no idea of the order of events for most Christian weddings.
and then everyone clapped because this totally happened.
from bestie to worstie at the speed of sound
Nah everybody sucks here. Actively seeing someone cheat, in your own friend group no less and still keep quiet and just let her keep cheating? Nah I wouldnt want a "friend" like her, if she's willing to keep her mouth shut about a friend cheating whose to say she wouldnt do the same if my S/O did the same.
It was bound to happen to OP. You’re “bestie” is a liar, you’re supporting this lie cause it isn’t affecting you but gets upset when it’s her man🤦🏾♀️
this whole story sounds like op, has absolutely no common sense
i feel sorry for her boyfriend if she seriously thinks flirting is harmless, and her ideals concluded that it was better to aid in betrayal than to do the right thing, until she felt it herself.
I would stop hanging out with them the moment they started cheating. I don't mess with fake people
this is written like an AI movie script
Pls update name database 😅 every single husband is called Kyle. This is getting out of hand 😃
Sorry but OP was a passive enabler to her BFF's cheating. Excusing the flirting as harmless but I'm sure would be pissed if their BF did it. OP's passive enabling behaviour is what led to it getting as far as OP's BF.
with a palpable tension in the room, everyone could tell this was written by a bot
OP really brushed off her BFF accusing someone (let alone her "close guy friend) of taking advantage... That's so disgusting... And she's way too comfortable hiding the cheating.. I get that OP wants to protect her friend but... Red flags all over the place tbh
Of all the shit that didnt happen, this didnt happen the most.
Thought I was the only one who was pissed off with op but thankfully the comments reassured me
“She had been my best friend for the last 8 years…”. uh… she manipulated you into lying for her. Made you complicit in her drama. That’s not friendship.
You know if I was in Vans' situation, i would've never married OP. You hide someone elses affair from their spouse, how are you any better than the cheater?
OP Is not a saint at all in this. I really hope Samantha's husband is not friends with OP and has not forgiven her for hiding the truth for all those years. Who does that? When your best friend cheats on her s/o, she is NOT a best friend bc she can do it to you as well. I hope reddit also knocked some sense into OP for her actions bc she is also very wrong in all this and just made Kyle stay in a marriage with a woman who was hooking up with other men when he could have known the truth way before and divorced her sooner.
I feel like op left some stuff out. There’s no way Kyle didn’t flip out on op after finding out she covered for Samantha’s multiple affairs. Especially after the bullsht excuse she gave about having to be loyal to Samantha
@@_juju_jojo_ Yea, she definitely left out the portion where people were actually mad at her for hiding this secret. It's not like her life or image was on the stake here, Samantha was crazy to in the beginning and was till the end there's no use being "loyal" to a friendship like that!
Around minute 9 the story became weirdly worded
Any normal woman would stop drinking the moment they realise it causes them to flirt indiscriminately and even cheat. OP shouldn't be helicoptering her "friend", it's not her responsibility.
This is probably a fake story cause idk how it works in other places but here you can't serve divorce papers yourself you have to have someone else do it unless it's an agreeable divorce.
i feel so bad for kyle
I think OP hid it simply because if your in a toxic friendship or any real you want to keep them from doing anything drastic, from hurting others, to hurting themselves. OP in my opinion just didn’t know how to grasp that the situation was bad until she experienced it hers which makes alot of sense-
Well, at least OP tell Kyle about his wife's affair. Better later than never😕
Tbh, OP deserves all the problems for not cutting the garden tool sooner. Don't want to betray her 'BFF'? She doesn't even get a rat *ss about OP. Lol
Someone please tell me why OP is friends with a homewrecker??!
Because she had to be loyal to her best friend🙏💯(her bullsht excuse)
@@_juju_jojo_ well in some cases loyalty does have a limit, I mean think about, would you seriously remain loyal to a narcissistic, manipulative, dirty minded, spiteful "friend"?
@@thehiddensilentone1795 I was being sarcastic, made my own comment tearing into op
@@_juju_jojo_ I get it, but like I said loyalty does have a limit sometimes
3 minutes in I have zero sympathy for whatever happens to OP
Look on the bright side, Kyle lost a lot of dead weight, and with concrete evidence he doesn’t haft to pay her anything.
Now it wasent right for her to hide her best friends cheating but keep in mind that was her best friend and she probably wasent close to kyle and thought it to be none of her business
i feel like everyone saying op is a bad person is completely missing the nuance of long friendships and loyalty, and also ignoring what toxic relationships do to people. op was in the wrong, certainly, but shes not a piece of shit for it, shes a normal person in a bad situation with a bad person. her ex friend was manipulative and cruel, whos to say op wasnt blackmailed at some point in their friendship? whos to say there was never physical abuse? op clearly thought their friendship was normal and just ran out of patience for the bullshit when she realized its NOT normal for friendships to be like that when her ex friend hit on her boyfriend. we only have the context of this one story, we dont have the context of their entire eight year friendship.
Oh absolutely, OP was absolutely a victim and clearly felt terrible about not telling Kyle that his fiancé/wife cheated, but would’ve felt even worse if she spilled the beans because that would’ve been “betraying her friend“. Clearly, Samantha trying to hit on Van and the argument that followed afterwards is the straw that broke the camel’s back and made Op realize just how terrible her friendship with Samantha was. When you’re in a long-term toxic relationship, whether it be friendship, familial, or romantic, you become conditioned to overlook many red flags because they’re supposed to be your loved one and betraying them would be a bad thing
As they say : "it takes a theif to catch a thief" and " burst somebodys bubble" because she covered up multiple affairs for ber bff because of loyalty and at the end of the story she realizes how toxic the bff is.
pls be civil in the comments
damn that guy friends had a lot of beans to spill
Disgusting waste of beans😔
Op is walking red flag! Shes ok that her best friend cheats with the friends she has. Yeah nah 😅 she knows that she cheats and the husband is hanging up with the dudes. And she is ok with flirting when married 😂
I bet it was a lot to swallow....for your bestie🎉
So……op was fine with her best friend making other taken men uncomfortable, but the moment it was targeted to her bf it became a problem? L O L.
I think ppl shouldn’t blame op for not saying anything about the cheating. I have been in this situation my ex bsf she flirted with many guys . I wanted to tell her boyfriend but couldn’t cause it would destroy our friend group and cause a divide in our friend group . I didn’t want to involve myself in this drama . I never condone cheating I have never cheated but I don’t think u ppl should judge her
A good novel 😂 quite enjoyable.
6/10
Ok, OP was also an ahole for only telling on her friend when the problem started affecting her, BUT, people saying that she was just as much as an ahole as her friends are exaggerating. Though if i was her boyfriend then i wouldn't be sure if i could keep going with the relationship (if she hid her best friend's affair then who's to say that she wouldn't hide her own?).
Poor guys
Fake af. Is it different in other country? Because in ours, interrupting the wedding once the priest asks if anyone didn't agree to the union are taken seriously. Ceremony will not proceed
Her friends are trash, the men sleeping with a woman in a relationship, the woman being unfaithful to the fiancé. Woman with guy friends is a red flag.
Story may be fake idk, but my take on it is this: OP should’ve said something to her bff’s significant other when the cheating was happening, but maybe she felt like it wasn’t her place or truly believed her friend was done or going to change. But for me, idc im telling because I’ve had my share of trifling people that could’ve brought me down with them when the ish hit the fan. Plus im not helping nobody lie at all. Back to the story though, she should’ve said something initially instead of waiting until her own bf was being affected by it 🤷🏾♀️
What an awful pair of people
WHY DO YOU KEEP REPEATING PARTS OVER AGAIN?? LIKE IF YOU MADE A MISTAKE REDO THE WHOLE VIDEO INSTEAD OF THIS.
That’s how chat GPT writes
EHS, Y’all should honestly just stop with everything, the relationships, y’all deserve eachother.
OP cheats herself
Does anyone else think this story sounds fake? Everything incredibly convenient
Birds if a feather OP is just as messy as a human imo
Op sent that message to Kyle because she wanted to be evil not because she wanted to help or be a good person
There is no way I’d be able to bring myself to be buddy buddy with a cheater that happily brings other people they slept with around their SO so freaking weird and messy
It doesn't matter who you are I'm telling you significant other you cheat I don't like it won't condole it.
OP sucks the most