IT WAS ALL A LIE SHE PAID FOR EVERYTHING! BLK LOVE YOUTUBE COUPLE AMY AND MAZI BREAK UP!
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- čas přidán 24. 05. 2022
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I give commentary on Amy and Mazi's world. A youtube couple split after promoting black love.
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Did y’all catch the way he tried to insinuate something was wrong with her because she didn’t have any children yet? Our community complains about women and how they’re single mothers, but when they don’t have any children they think something is wrong with the woman. So which is it?
This or never been married.. like our community doesn’t promote healthy relationships and this is why things are on a decline.
The nerve of him to waste her time for 5 years with no marriage proposal and talk down on her not having children. They are such deflectors and hypocrites, it's quite annoying. But this is the gender that SWEARS they take accountability.
Honey the BC all confusion
I go through the same thing. 34 with no kids. Somebody always saying something or looking at me funny when I tell them.🤔🙄😠
They want you to be trapped & poor
Technically she won she got out no baby, no diseases, and a homeowner 🙃
And not legally married🙂
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@magicshroom1950 yo white boy I know the way to Cracker Barrel
Booop 🥂
@@jessology223 No soy gringo
She lost the subscribers she sold black love to. But she has gained the subscribers that want self growth!
Very well said.
She was selling a lie for coins.
@@QueenAntianara Not if she was buying her OWN lie. She was lying to herself about their relationship, MORE than she was lying to CZcams.
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My questions are why are we as BP expecting “black love” to be perfect tho. ? I’m not saying you must struggle but it won’t be perfect all the time. You will have high points you will have low points as long as you have more happy times then bad times meaning and not excusing abuse, then the relationship should be good. Plus you grow up in relationships. How you both thought when you 25 yrs old one of you or both of you may be thinking differently at 30yrs old. I have been happily married to my hubby 19 plus years - he is a BM and I am BW. I always say we making it cause we growing together. His path is my path- we on the same page with God and love In the centre. I think a lot of the times people just growing up at different paces and that is why they fall apart. It is a shame really - but for her to be working so hard and he did not contribute- proves they are not on the same level and page. Black love is not perfect but it can be when a BW and BM are right for each-other. 😌
I just can't respect no man that let his girl fund him. Signing a blank paper. Really?! Where's his pride🤢🤮
And had the NERVE to be standing up there giving a damn thank you speech talking about “y’all made things so easy for *us* “ like dude you didn’t put your name on nothing. Up there on TV looking a fool. Never knew the day was coming where the world would find out he was on TV signing a blank sheet of paper making it seem like he had any part in it besides living there. 🤧🤧
It’s pathetic and honorless. But also no woman should ever do that. What is the matter with some women to allow a man to exploit her like that (just like some low life pi*p). Men have been protectors and providers since beginning of humanity for a multitude of reason as their superior strength and energy and resilience (these are the main functions of testosterone) so the delusion and generational destruction of some women needs to stop. These honorless worthless dusties will do whatever women let them get away with
14:30 min in contd 💯 it’s so narcissistic and evil
N he looked crazy
Where is her pride though? She allowed this.
Ooooh lawdt! How did she tolerate that for 5 years? Incomplete sentences, zero accountability, 4 children (known), no job, or a backbone. Amy’s glow up is going to be epic while Mazi will be struggling or leeching on a new trick.
Incomplete sentences Lol
@@kekelah7857 My head hurts
He was actually holding her back. Her glow up is gonna be EPIC.
I saying….I was so confused in seconds
So basically he had good D. Yanie be warning us!
I hope she heals and then attracts a protector, provider, and man with no children that will marry her and she will be proud to bear his seeds...NO MATTER WHAT RACE HE IS!!!!
I wish that for her too, particularly given her age and desire to have children. It can be done, but be under no delusion about the committment to healing her ways will take.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
And she be a woman of virtues and a blessing to him, herself, and the family they create.
I’m not familiar with her but I really do love how she thinks. Accountability and choosing to be gracious when she could choose to be spiteful. Her heart is genuine 💎
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
“When you start defending yourself for the first time people feel some type of way.” That is a word!! Absolute facts!!!
❣️❣️❣️❣️
so trueee!!
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
I know that all to well. So I ride solo.
This is Facts I know by Experience 🙌
That wasn't her man, that was her son. His ego is hurt and I hope he doesn't try to harm her. She needs to change her locks and security stuff. He isn't articulate. Just mumbling less than basic vocabulary, talking shit.
I'm concerned about her safety as well. We all know how they get down when they get rejected.
This right here, but we have to realize too, we want a certain type of man and it gets us into trouble every time
@@kladies3021 Yup. We get killed.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
Well black men are always saying that black women should choose better. Well she just did. By breaking it off. Nothing more, Nothing less.
What’s crazy is everyone pretending that man signed those papers 😂 everyone protecting dusty behavior that’s the problem with our community now
😂😂
😂 right!
💯😂😂
All actors. That’s what is giving me pause. He did help her sell the black love lie as a marketing strategy. I feel like she pulled the rug out from under him and he was too $tupid to see he was just a part of the business plan. He got comfortable and lazy thinking she was a desperate bw that needed a man. Boy was he wrong😭
@@danak1600 🤣
She was his check book.. He was rushing to marry her cause he knew he and his kids /baby mama's were set... Best believe if she'd married him the baby mama's would've demanded more child support out of her pocket (clearly the bm's knew how to manipulate this sweet lady)... She dodged a HUGE!! Bullet 🥴 sick man.. I'm happy she woke up early
Single women especially without kids please be careful. These men see this and think she doesn't have any kids she could take care of me. I am single with no kids I see them coming a mile away. They try to move fast and act like they smitten with you. Be careful especially the ones that look like they are well off.
THIS!!! It’s also the warfare on my uterus. I had a guy say “I should’ve impregnated you when I had a chance”. WHAT SIR?! To trap me?! Oh nah. I’ve been abstaining since. That message was loud and clear Lord
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@magicshroom1950 and your mama knows her way to Taco Bell
@@kekelah7857 They literally comment the same thing over and over on different channels. That's all this channel does (and their other channels). I don't know if it's an experiment or what, but they should be reported.
He upset that Amy calls her step father "dad" why does he even care? He act like he didn't want her to feel secure in having a father figure.
Yeah that was strange for him to even bring up or see something wrong with. It makes him look desperate and weird
He did that because his real father was a deadbeat just as he is (notice he said “I don’t give a damn what my daddy didn’t do, how much my daddy hadn’t been there…that’s still my daddy”). He is on the same path as his bio father and wants his kids to acknowledge him the same way. Even if his kids are lucky enough to get an actual male figure in their life, he wants to be deemed the “father figure” just cause he came! That’s why he’s so upset, it goes back to him being a deadbeat.
Most of them don't. Then they feel super free to be abusive.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
He doesn't! Especially if her father can identify his low vibrational character, and warm her about it.
I pray for this woman’s healing. Enough is Enough! I’m proud she is doing what she can to move on, she deserves better… WE all DO!
UK in the house❤
Yes we do.
I have mad respect for her. 😊🙏🏽
@@RDCFemmes We love some Yanie here. Beautiful sister empowering us.
I literally just told my oldest daughter (26yo) that I choose to be single and work on myself, figure myself out and get to know ME again; without the baggage and stress of a mate. I told her we,as POC womxn, have always accepted the table scraps. IM STANDING IN LINE WITH EVERYONE ELSE AND GETTING MY STEAK, and taking my "place at the table" that I create for me and MY FAMILY.
Never heard of this couple but what kind of man signs a blank paper while his woman pays for the house they’re going to live in? She dropped a load, & is being classy about it.
The kind that bw allow to.
@@QueenAntianara Girl the excuses bw make are tired. Many are just as bad as the men. Different sides of the same coin.
@@danak1600 exactly. And yes it is tiring.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
So he lied throughout the whole relationship wow hidden children goodness she dodged a bullet..Enjoy that big house and live your best life
What else is new. She got the same bm as everyone else 🗑
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
He aint ashamed at all signing a blank paper!! The most wanted!🤣🤣🤣
The way he signed that paper at the bottom, middle page, middle right, middle left, top then back at the bottom.
@@Soul.in.the.garden 😆💀
I remember watching this episode and I thought I hope this is real. This is an example of Believe None if what you hear and half of what you see
Lol 😆
@@brandypeay5350 Bingo. U got it!
She need a body guard up the protection, these male's are dangerous...
Agreed
Girl i moved to another state Why i met this BW out here living GOOD. She told me she going back to brooklyn to tell her ex why she left him. I was like girl has he came out here? she said no, I said girl just leave that alone. Just dont contact him that dude might kill you out there. Im telling you i felt it.
@@msyemisi7930 right there isn’t any good reason to let him know anything. I’m sure he’s lurking around the corner. He knows she’s living good. She’ll put herself in harms way by trying to get in contact. He doesn’t matter anyways. I hope she listens to you.
@@msyemisi7930 tell her dont go to Brooklyn and tell her ex that ..i live here these men here are 730 tell her to never come here for that
@@msyemisi7930 I hope she doesn't do that. NYC men are wild.
He looked like a dusty watching her sign the contract 🤣
It was very awkward, you could see it on her face.
@@leaaaaah78890 it wassss! OMG!
Even his lil thank you speech was awkward
A real delusional BUM!
@@BellaZ209 we black women got to do betta. I'd rather lay in bed alone for 20 yrs than live a lie.
Lol , shit if that’s what black love looks like. I don’t want it!!!!!
Right he can KEEP THE MERCH! Matter of fact he needs to burn it since he owns the brand.
He is disgusting.
Me neither
Agree
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
I just got out of a relationship just like this. Three Long Years. I'm so glad it ended before I bought my house this year, and moved him in. God saw what he was doing behind my back. I'm so grateful he was revealed. I'm healing now and looking forward to the future. My Heavenly Father GOT ME💯💯💯💯💯
Ide also strongly advise not moving in with men that you aren’t married to, no matter how long or in love y’all are, it’s never a smart idea.
@@CONGLOMERATE32 I know better now. I’m glad I never got pregnant or married him.
Be safe. Don’t let him know where you live. Men often try to circle back around. Idk why they can never tell when women r serious (i.e. fed up). They are always too too late to the party. Missing the last train leaving the station and hv nerve to be mad you meant what you said… multiple times. They call us bitter, but they are too. That’s why they snap when they realize its finally over. 🤷🏽♀️. Why not do the work when you still hv a chance w woman?
@@nicolem2877 I definitely won’t sis. He tried to circle back once already. I’m not playing with him! There’s no coming back from cheating on me. Especially when I am a good woman and “Held you down” like they keep telling us Black women to do. 2022 I’m all about holding ME down. These black men will disappoint you every time.
@@amalik_333 Good to hear you are healing and moving on with a free slate with no ties to a man that didn't serve you the way you deserve.
He's trying to expose her, but it's backfiring - imo. Instead, he's exposing his lack of drive, ambition, immaturity and pettiness. Instead of going hard with her and going after his own contracts, he became content with what she was bringing in/eating off her plate. He keeps saying he was "supporting her". But, contracts like Fenty were rightfully HERS - based on HER look and HER ability to keep her body fit. He cannot take credit for what SHE has accomplished. Yet, that's what he's trying to do by repeating that he was her support. It's obvious that she's about her money. She sets goals and goes after them. You can't "support" a person into that mindset, because they still have to have the drive and discipline to get up everyday and go after it! How was he "giving" her that, but didn't have it for himself - when he has SEVERAL mouths to feed? It's not adding up! Him AND his baby mama's saw her as a meal ticket, once she started manifesting her dreams and real money! She was the brains AND the brawn, of "their" operation.
Couldn't have said it better. The will to get what you want can't be taught or supported, you must want it.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@brendakabanda2181 You worded it perfectly. He's a spoiled bum & a leech like so many of them are 🥱
I'm so PROUD of her for getting out that shit! So many will STAY until their spirit ambition and bank account is all dried up. Amy is bout it, and dropped that bum!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Stop covering for these BUMS. I Know a woman who is now 38 with no children back home after having a state job dealing with a bum. Had a good job had a condo (she paid for) moved him in long story short foreclosed, unemployed, back at home smfh You fill in what happened 🙄
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Exactly. It's sickening at this point. They encourage and allow this.
She moved her dusty in and he ruined her life, credit, and self esteem
A hot mess.
It sounds like he drained her finances that’s literally what happened to me you have been rebuilding for the past couple years married a bum smh 🤦🏽♀️
Him signing that blank piece of paper is equivalent to a woman sliding her man her debit card to make it look like he paid.
There are little signs as women that we ignore. In every shot, look how Amy is dressed, speaking and carrying herself and then look at him. He’s loud, hood, in a building with a hat on. He’s hanging on to her like she’s his bread and butter. When you grow and level up and he doesn’t, expect this to happen
I know right. I saw that too. He dressed more like a teenager. Not an adult that is taking care of business.
right he looks like hes not elevated mentally and spiritually she was leading the realtionship and hes mad his dummy left ..now he has to figure it out on his own its tough cookies
The more we up our self worth the less we entertain the likes of dustys.
Been there done that.
@@felicerobinson indeed.
These dudes want you to feel guilty for working hard building a life for yourself🤔 Let bums deal with what they are use to. NOTHING🤷🏾♀️
🤣🤣🤣
She was wayyyyyy out of his league. As black women our self-esteem is so low and I get it. I’m glad we are beginning to know that we deserve better.
This was me. At least she stopped it prior to marrying. Mine had kids too and I didn’t. Got tired of holding it all together while he couldn’t keep a job. Now sis can breathe because that feeling is so suffocating. It will be alright and she will continue to rise. Stay up sis. 🥰💕
i just met a guy he told me he had 2 kids . I just stopped answering his calls. He was asking for free stuff for his daughter from my store. When i was already nice and gave her something. 🤔 Was trying to be so serious looking for se× too. You know them undercover duties try to put the se× down to reel you in. Nah Bye 👋🏽Everything seem nice at first then you see the bum they really are.
I went through the same thing! I left with no baby! Thank God 🙏🏾
Period!!!
I did the same but thank goodness I didn’t have his child. The way he turned on me was 😳
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
I lost a "friend" the same way telling her the truth. She felt some type of way🤷🏾♀️ People claim they want the truth tough pill to swallow tho
Girl they be in denial.
You don't need friends like that in your life. I had to cut off a few.
@@islandgirl8067 Exactly!
They don’t. You have to allow life to just kick them right in the but.
I literally just had to let go of a woman who didn’t value herself. I finally spoke on her unsafe behavior. She became so upset but I became enlightened.
I watch damn near anything on CZcams and TikTok but I refuse to watch couple channels. Absolutely nothing about it is interesting or goals for me. I don’t care how amazing they look on the outside, I just have no desire to watch 🥴. I never heard of these people. I wish her the best though ❤️.
Yes, I agree. I have no interest in couple channels. I'm here to support Yanie.
THANK YOU🙌🏽 I don't even watch Reality shows. I'm like who TF are they🙄 (not the former celebrities)
Never heard of them either. Ditto on relationship channels- we dont know what happens behind the scenes.
I’m not one to watch couple channels either unless they are doing show reviews. Over the years I’ve seen where the so called couple channels are so different off camera vs the mini blog perception. Once they break up you usually get the realness after the fact like in this situation.
I know right.
You’re right about no examples of black love. I personally haven’t seen black love represented without kids. As you know they use the kids often to hide the dissatisfaction. A lot of women hide behind the beauty and innocence of their kids and lie to themselves about the state of the relationship. People see the family as a whole and think it’s ideal. Please don’t have kids until you get everything you want. Women that can walk away with no attachments are super blessed.
💯
This the one right here
Exactly. I walked 🚶♂️ away no attachments.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@magicshroom1950 so does your mom.
Dang I grew up with a single parent and was taught to be independent based off survival and all that she knew. I had no idea that black girls in two parent households went through the same thing. I'm learning to be dependent while being independent and its hard. I think there's room for both you just have to have balance. Also men have to prove they're worth being dependent on. I'm in my 20s and that's very hard to come across.
I'm in my 20s also and that's exactly what I was taught too, even though I had a step father (2 parent household) I too am learning to be codependent with the right person. I always will know how to be independent though because I was raised that way but I don't want to be if I have a man that is supposed provide and protect.
@@beautywithbre5531 so if the right person isn't coming yet u have to be independent. Africans we are taught to be independent to survive in a relationship the man is expected to provide. Every human need to be independent when single, in a relationship u codependent on each other
Always have a good support system other than your spouse, also always have a life outside of your spouse
Absolutely I was raised in a 2 parent home and was definitely taught to be independent
Interdependent. You retain your sense of self and grow.however you can also be a part of the relationship and grow as a unit.
That was a whole kept man! I don't know how some women are able to carry that much burden in their life...
BM practice hypergamy early on in life by way of his mother not having a man in the home and she spoils her son like she would her husband…so they expect us to do it…they should bend over too
23:18 Why is he talking like he did something. The Male signed a blank paper and think he moved mountains. 😂
Imagine if she had left him after marriage. She probably would have had to pay alimony to her husband.
Yes our community does groom women to be independent. I was raised in a two parent household and have to say my sisters had it rougher than us boys smh
It’s ironic that Amy & Mazi were friends with Supacent & Lou and both of their relationships have/had the same theme
I like Amy’s attitude and how she’s handling the situation. Supa never learned I had to unfollow her because she was doing too much going off on her lives behind Lou and had other temporary men all in her house around her children. She never took the time to heal and now she’s engaged to another guy. I hope it works out but I couldn’t keep following her.
wow
@@deasyastarr She just bought they new guy a house. he proposed to her with the money she gave him😳
@@msyemisi7930 😒🤦🏽♀️. Lou 2.0
@@msyemisi7930 omg! and that dude and every single one she mess with is addicted to them boys.
What did she see in this man because after watching that rant I can’t find one redeeming quality about him. I’m glad she left because it makes me sad to see smart attractive BW lower their standards for “black love.” By the way Yanie, you slayed with the pretty green top & eye shadow. 😍🥰
I think the concept of "Black love" needs to be restricted. Simply two Black people in a relationship doesn't mean love is there. If there is disrespect, abuse of any kind, and generally more times of unhappiness than joy, it's not love.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
We’ll I’ll say that I’m HAPPY to know he signed a blank piece of paper 🤣🤣🤣🤣. She was smart enough to not put him on her assets and she got away baby free!!!
BABEEEE SHE IS FREE OF HIM💯💯 SO glad she bought that house IN HER NAME ONLY...Best and smartest thing she could have ever done.
Lol the fact everyone in that room knew he signed a blank piece of paper is hilarious. Goes to show you some things are smoke and mirrors. Never compare yourself to others. Although it’s hard not to, but honey sometimes it isn’t all what it’s cracked up to be.
This woman is an example of emotional maturity. She recognized an unhealthy relationship and understood it was time to walk away. Take heed to how she chose to handle this and how that man is choosing to handle it. That man isn’t heading anywhere but down. The only thing I caution is that she keep an eye on him. His energy is dark.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@magicshroom1950 you talking about your moms house behind the store ?
@@Vnril84 I know how to get chicken sandwiches from Popeyes black girl
@@magicshroom1950 so for your moms who lives out back . Got it .
@@Vnril84 I know how to get some black girl
I saw this couple quickly on IG. Her man was weird and immature for me. Yes they was entertaining but he is a big joke and act like a child. Glad she left him. She need a real man in her life.
He was struggling to find something bad about her. He has nothing.
Good for her👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Love that Yani mentioned De’arra choosing herself and happiness FIRST! She has been thriving ever since. The black manosphere loves to gaslight us about BW choosing to be successful and being ambitious (as if that is a bad thing). They just want us to continue to choose to struggle and they are upset and throwing Podcast tantrums because BW collectively are starting to choose themselves and are letting go of the “Ride or Die for my man” lifestyle.
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@magicshroom1950 happy for you
Love this comment. I never cared about what men claim they want, nor wish to be the ideal woman for them. They say they hate women with no job, but then say they miss having housewives . Then claim that they hate career women, but talk crap about women who aren't established. 🤷🏽♀️
Anytime you see a black married couple between 20 to 55 years old, the wife is the main provider.
The husband’s income goes to his back child support, his car and his credit is shot- so they can’t qualify together for a mortgage. OR she already owns a house and he just moves in after she puts his name on her house title. The majority of the time these blk husbands come EMPTY handed and only bring their looks.
My mother's relationship to a T. SHE left her bummy husband, found and bought a fabulous house, and guess who showed up because he had no where to go? The woman is double degreed, worked for the government, had her OWN home after my father left and they divorced. Meanwhile husband #2 was working PT, didn't take care of ANY of his 6 kids, no DL or car (she taught him to drive at 50 years old 🥴) missing teeth, and owed back child support up the wazoo that the IRS went after my mother for grown children that were not hers! He has zero savings nor investments, works at Walmart at the deli counter, they go 50/50 on some bills but she pays for everything big concerning the house maintenance because he has no money, she cooks, cleans and does all the yard work. Yet he acts like he is king and man of the home . Couldn't be me. So gross. 🤮
@@michonnegrimes880 This is the case with most of the successful black women including female celebrities like Mary J, Wendy Williams etc.
These dudes are the TRUE Gold Diggers because I have yet to hear of a black woman “coming up” after marriage to a black man.
Sorry for the many comments but Sis what you said about the women in our bloodline who didnt have the opportunity to have the freedom and choices we have. Please preach Sis...my nana was forced into marriage at 12 and was abused till that dusty man died. She never had the choice cos of her 7 kids. You are so right. We all need to tell ourselves this like a mantra..our grandmothers and mothers ran so we can walk.
Whew this comment 😢 sounds like my grandmother who was forced to have 11 kids. She was a mean woman towards all of the kids. My Mom broke the cycle with my sister and me. My cousins are messed up though. Their parents continued the anger cycle. 😢
Whoa….”our mothers/grandmothers ran so that we can walk” 🧐
@@ThePatriceProject my nana had 17 kids and she couldn't even read she passed last year at 94😪
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@magicshroom1950 you may wanna stop by taco bell first. Bye
Why does a broke man need two phones 🫥😩? Bless her on her journey, sounds like she was dealing with a dusty with NPD and she was trying to “do the right thing”. I’m so happy she’s moved on 🤲🏽 ✨
WHY was a BROKE man driving a MASERATI? Sis gave him a WHOLE life! Smh!
@@p_tiffanii that part!!!!
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
Black women stop bringing these men into your lives with all these children and want to build them. Black women ✋ stop bringing the whole table and these men all they bring is their several children and you have none
Pathetic. How can you even sign a blank paper🤦🏾♀️
Them BUMS will do it with no problem.
That’s very embarrassing. I was shocked at that honestly. Oh my gawd. 😩
The new norm for these boys growing up is to be taken care of & be dependent on a woman. So there’s no longer shame or embarrassment for them because it’s been normalized to them. And he said something like he did his part being behind his woman because sir she was leading you. The roles were reversed and he was in his feminine bag.
A lot of these folks online have a fake relationship online with curated outfits and life but in real life its cap thats why i dont take people seriously i just listen to what they say and dont even internalize it...as a nurse i have seen people that say theyre married for years come in and ou the clinic of std testing etc because of infidelity..as i tell people do not wish for other peoples life you might just not like it........as they say people want the rythmn but dont want the blues.. a lof of women are living like this ..keep your eyes open
My cousin’s relationship is like this, on social media even my friends are like “couple goals”
but in the inside the guy does not have a job and can not hold a job at all (sometimes people triy to find him a job) he seems uninterested.. so my cousin pays for everything. They are married and have a kid (she also paid for her own ring and the wedding). And she is so young having such responsibility, i feel bad for her. But i dont want to say anything her family would say im jealous.
@@hiyd.y9787 I understand I grew up in a two parent household my dad paid for everything and my mom never worked outside the house..i am one of three girls and he worked 2-3 jobs my whole childhold till i was 17 he retired....I am an unambiguous black women i am not struggling with no man and splitting any bills ..I make good money as a nurse i do not need a broke/broken man..I have men tell me i am going to die alone that fine..i am in my 30's lol they cant shame me to choose them
You said a WORD right there. THANK YOU
What doesn’t sit well with me at all, is the fact that these women made her feel as if it was her responsibility to answer for or make the man that THEY chose to lay down with step up! They also made her feel as if she had to then step in basically as their father financially. They shouldn’t have been reaching out to her; it should have strictly been him that they communicated with when it comes to what he he’s not doing for THEIR kids because that was who they laid down with! Stop making your kids someone else’s responsibility!
Exactly how I feel, every time they would have called me I would have just added him to the call and told them I assumed they miss dialed and meant to call him.
I know it looked like that but she placed herself as a STEP MOTHER, she was with him for 4/5 years if he wasn’t reaching out or providing financially but he’s everywhere having fun 🤩 it was their business to contact her! He needs to be accountable for his children!
@@cupcakepatrice8418 She would have been a step mother after she walked down the aisle. I agree HE needed to step up. Not her. If you see them out they should be questioning him not his gf. He’s the one not doing his part. She was not there when the baby was being made. That was between the two people involved. There are ways she could have handled that without placing responsibility on someone who else.
@@allyross3321 Exactly! Like why are you calling me?
@@skyw.8767 you’re absolutely correct! I wouldn’t be with a guy that doesn’t provide or see his children
I'm 34 single woman and I'm planning buying my own home in Cali, and in future if someone comes along that still my house only.
As soon as he started speaking, I didn't understand why she paired herself with him. He didn't seem to be on the same level as her.
Your Dad already know these other black men ain’t ish. He know what’s out there.
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Dust
I'm glad she put her truth out there instead of "being the better person" and letting him have his side of the story out there alone. Being the better person doesn't mean letting ppl sh!t on you. She's nicer than me though...I would have embarassed the life out of him! Would have embarrased the butter off those yellow "teef"!
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
I’m so lost as to what her smoking or her relationship with her stepfather and siblings has to do with her leaving him 🤷🏽♀️ he’s bragging about how “supportive” he was, okay and? You want a biscuit? Wasn’t she supportive of your kids, including a secret kid ? Some people be so mad when doormats get up, wipe themselves off, and choose better.
look at him bouncing his head like he's doing something like he did something. signing a blank piece of paper get out of here! LOL I couldn't hold it in I had to laugh so hard
Thank goodness he didn’t put his name on the house!! Hopefully she has nothing owned jointly with him. Smart young lady!
They don't. He is a certified BUM. Nigga cant keep a phone on. wow
Gawd! You are so gorgeous Yanie!😍
Omg so are you! 💕
Thank you 😘
@@szasremmurd8002 thank you💕
She should have just bought a house for 250,000. I believe that was a bad investment.
My exact thought. $200k as a down payment,ain’t know way.🤦🏽♀️
She could afford it with her finances. She got what she prayed for and deserved. She can always utilize her property to make money. Real estate don’t just depreciate in value like that.
She can sell and get back what she spent plus more if it comes to that
My problem is being told no . In all my relationship I left when he said no. I was raised if he say no my brother and grandpa said yes. Left him
As the phuck you should BYE👋🏽 Somebody else has it when he doesn't.
Cheers for you sis!!!
YUP! My dad & brother literally told me "if you have a man & you're asking us for money I BETTER leave him! our I'm beating your ass. it ain't like you'll ever go without our never have a place to stay, your old room is still here" my brother: "& i got a spare room" lol
I was raised by a single mom and started living with my dad at 16. When I tell you it HELPED me so much!! He taught me to sit in the glory of my divine feminine energy!!!
I refuse to open/close doors, take out garbage, fix or put things together lol
My man makes me want to be the woman I know I am and should be, because he is the type of man my dad is. A leader, hard working, God fearing, family oriented and financially sound and knowledgeable.
We're about to buy our first home and I cannot wait. I don't have to worry about anything.
I'm not use to or like a matriarchal lead family for myself. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
That's wonderful. If only all black girls were raised that way. We would all be Soo much better off. That would even force the males to behave more masculine.
@@GoaWay... well said. 100% Agreed
@@mi_bulle_ha_noname3775 thank you. 😊
Even if you grow up w that the collective of bm will try to
Intdoctrinate u to
their dusty ways. u just hv to get out. Bm resent BW that were raised well by their fathers. They will call u selfish for having HEALTHY boundaries and expectations. Its because the bulk of them dont qualify.
Being used to struggle seems generational 😢 sounds like my grandmother who was forced to have 11 kids. She started having kids at 12. She was a mean woman towards all of the kids. My Mom broke the cycle with my sister and me. My cousins are messed up though. Their parents continued the anger cycle. 😢
I want healthy relationships for all. Break the cycle, please 🙏🏾💕
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@fa1a2ha what’s funny
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
@@fa1a2ha what’s so funny?
Good for you..sound like my grandma..unfortunately my mom didn’t break the cycle!! I did though!!!
Black women are always in survival mode. I’m so tired, I believed in 50/50 for a long time. Not any more I’m resting now.
Shameless. Look at him giving a speech like he contributed. Bum.
I’ve followed them on IG for a while and you have seen Amy glow up over that time. Mazi, on the other hand, lost a ton of weight and started to look “dusty” fr fr. I’m glad she was able to see through the fog and I hope she finds and keeps her peace. ❤️❤️
Her success was probably eating him up - from the inside. She was sleeping next to her enemy and didn't know it!
@@p_tiffanii EXACLTY that’s why I cringe when she said best friend. A best friend doesn’t do what he did
@@AkishaTatiana Right! She was HIS friend. He damn sure wasn't hers!
He look like he sleep all day and only wake up to smoke blunts. Probably why he losing weight
May more of us wake up and get out of these toxic relationships. And we must stop looking at these public “couples” for advice or leadership.
Aye black girl I know the way to popeyes
I don’t know these ppl but I saw that episode and it make sense. As soon as she said she paid for everything I believed her. Our community always absolves BM from any sort of responsibility. They are Karen’s of our society. Her entire disposition gives grown woman energy. I’m so happy for her and her new home. I hope she continues to prosper ✨
So glad she got the truck back. Let him go back to the start line 😝 He was jealous dusty bum. She need to watch her back he could be dangerous. wishing her more blessings and more success.
It’s the BLKLUV t-shirt at the fake signing for me! Amy dodged a bullet. Watch her soar even higher now that the dead weight is no longer holding her down.
I've never heard of this couple before.
I respect her for seeing that the relationship was uneven and not working.
Also, I respect her for being a shrewd businesswoman while maintaining a good heart.
This man is unhinged. I couldn't understand anything he was saying
He’s jealous of her success!
My cousin is in this kind of relationship (they are married) the guy does not have kids outside but he cheats alot.. and my cousin is a breadwinner of the family, I feel sad for her and the fact that she is so young, taking care of a grown man and a kid. I can’t say anything, I just watch cause if you say anything about her man. She thinks you are jealous of her or you want her man.
My cousin is getting married in two weeks and her man isn’t a provider and I’m in the wedding so I’ll be watching just to see and hope their is some change for her
My good friend is with the King Of Bums. She told me yesterday she's marrying him next year.
I was very honest with her.
"I will always be your friend however please don't invite me to that debacle. I will NOT stand by a watch you marry a non providing, verbally abusive half ass drug dealing idiot."
Plot twist:
He moved his15 y.o. daughter to Atlanta from Chicago into HER house, yet ANOTHER mouth to feed, one top of her own children.
SMH!!
I used to watch them on YT and I was shocked to learn how bad things were behind the scenes. They looked so happy in their prank videos and it’s crazy that after all of that time, he didn’t create his own lucrative business to become the breadwinner legitimately.
Kudos to her! I’m proud of her💞. Ain’t no way she should have been carrying the entire relationship on her back😩
I’m convinced this man on drugs.. he mad she call a man dad that’s in her life? And also was I the only one who heard the sniffing when he sat the phone down?🤔👀
1:33:05 Trash. He really demonizing her for not having kids. Trash. Tomato. Tomato. I'm throwing tomatoes. 🍅🍅🍅🍅
Girl you look so gorgeous 😍
Thank you, thank you! 😘
Yes I was thinking the same thing. You look adorable.
Yes she does and so do you
This relationship dynamic is so common between BW&BM, I have seen in it my family and friends. Let’s be honest, it’s actually financial abuse, to be completely reliant on your woman to handle everything and you have no incentive to change it, or contribute ever. As much as black men talk about the hustle culture, it’s ironic that this is how most of them are.
Damn he just a bum. Can't pay nothing.
And this fool had the nerve to give a speech lol. I am happy she walked away from him, but I wonder if this is truly the end of their relationship as it has been 5 yrs. I have a good friend who just bought a house for her family --common law hubby and son. Her guy did not give her a penny towards the house and she had a birthday party a few months ago and I honestly thought he would finally propose to her but nope, nothing.
Why would he? She's buying houses and giving birth when he's not even providing.
Tell your friend to wake the hell up...
1:31:52 Black love?! Black love isn't hiding the amount of child you really have. Black love isn't going on social media and talking mad hurt. Black love isn't *points to whatever the heck he doing* .
She got out of the relationship at the right time. Just look at how’s he’s acting now. Imagine the torture he would have brought into her life if they were divorcing.
That's the damn problem, giving the man that wasn't in your life, all the respect, soley due to him being your biological dad. My biological dad can kick rocks. My step dad was my dad. Did what my dad didn't, wouldn't and couldn't do!! There is nothing wrong for her to call her step-dad, her dad. That man probably was more of a father than her biological father was.
Girl take that Maserati to the bank and tell them to keep it
Im loosing brain cells listening to him.
😂🤣 What happened to complete sentences?
Chiiile it was so damn difficult!
@@PeaceNU2 that and he was all over the place, what does her calling her step-father “dad” have to do with anything? But was trying to make himself look better by saying “I don’t call my step-father ‘dad’” like what was he even talking about?
Yani, your experience really resonates with me. I came from a two parent household as well. My mother & father were married at 19 & 20. He was abusive my mom left. My Step Father raised my sister & I since we were 2&3. While I did have some good experiences I always felt guilty saying i incurred much trauma and didn’t feel he genuinely loved. I couldn’t even address it because I looked at everyone else and I thought I was blessed coming from a middle class two parent home. But my step father checked out emotionally.
He claimed to not remember the verbal abuse from my mother or her taking our money when we went to work, claiming it was gas money. $60 each in 2007 lol and my sisters boyfriend took us home not them. But now being older I know my sister & I were paying a bill. See my step dad hasn’t worked since 2005, when my baby sister (his daughter) was born. My mom is the bread winner. She’s a practice manager for a large healthcare system over a few facilities. Now as an adult woman I despise him!!!! My baby sister is 16!!! My mom bought a new house in 2017 and I got sick in 2019 she told me I was grown. Meanwhile a grown as man who’s in his 50’s has his own room for his pet snake, model cars he builds, his collectibles, his guitars, electric drums and keyboard. He also has an additional room with a large tv and his PlayStation set up. I cut my family off. I was extremely sick (rare brain disorder, I lost my vision) and couldn’t work and ended up homeless living in my car. Meanwhile he is living his best life.
My father is a narcissist he lied and pretended he didn’t know I was losing my apartment. He pretended he didn’t know I was sick even though he knew my neurologist had referred me to a neurosurgeon. They wanted me to have brain surgery that only had a 80% success rate. I was 28 I said no. Thankfully I healed through herbs n fasting. I have my vision back yall and now I have my head on right. I am putting myself FIRST. I was drowning and everyone gave me a high five saying I could pull through when all I needed was help. As black women we don’t have a safety net we have ourselves. Our community doesn’t GAF about us. Sis I was forced to wake up. I cut them all off and I’m not looking back!!! I’m focused on fully healing all the trauma. No more people pleasing no more being taken advantage of mentally emotionally or financially. I’m first always. Love you Queens💜
I am so sorry you went through that! Black women we need to stand up and support each other!!
Wow.
What a powerful story!
Overjoyed that you're still hear with us and you are emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Love you right back, Queen!💖🥰
Yo black girl I know the way to popeyes
Wow so sorry you went through all of that. I am glad to hear you got your sight back & that herbs and fasting are both great natural remedies. God bless you 🙏🏾🥰🤗.
I dealt with something similar. I also come from a 2 parent household. I remember opening up my first bank account at the age of 11, I saved up over $200 over a couple of months for something that I wanted and when I went to get the money out I only had $5 left. The bank teller gave me a statement that said a withdrawal had been made 2 weeks before. When I showed my mom she admitted that she took money out to handle some things. I was so mad at her but years later it was revealed that my father would at times refuse to pay the mortgage/bills so it was his fault that my mom had to take money away from me.
Everyone in his family has been together, but he couldn't marry any of his babies mothers???
I'm sooooooo glad she was smart enough to only put the house in HER name.
She seemed nice and a good hearted person but what made me look crazy is when she said she had no kids but he did and was hiding other kids from her. I bet if she had kids and he had of put a down payment on a home like that he wouldn’t have messed with her. These dudes be lying about having kids she found out about 2 more kids they shame single mothers but expect u to accept them with multiple kids when I seen the socks and sandals I said hell no but I wish her well.
Exactly I have one kid and they be having more than that and be talking crazy like bye lol
lm so out of the loop l never know who these people are, how do you even find these people on CZcams?
Same. I think subs send her information some of the time.
@@iseeyoushay Ok, Thanks!👍🏽
You said you weren’t preaching during this video but sis you were giving the WORD. Especially regarding black two parent households raising black women to be Independent because we can’t depend on the men in our community. Also it’s just so sad that they gave this man a BLANK PIECE OF PAPER for him to sign. It’s like for what? To preserve his ego? To make him feel like a man even when he’s not showing the actions of one? No matter the scenario the community is built to protect black men even when we are left exposed and vulnerable.
My parents prepared us to be independent too. My dad told me specifically it's because even men know the majority of these dudes are bums. Simple as that.
You can understand what he said?🤯 He was pretty incoherent. 😵💫
Well at least she signed alone for the house. Can’t say the same about other CZcams couples
Wait he wants her to give him a car in her name that he can’t afford? Ninjas be wanting women souls