WOMAN ASKED FOR RELATIONSHIP ADVICE ABOUT HER STINGY MAN & THEN CRIED ABOUT THE ADVICE SHE RECEIVED!
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- čas přidán 4. 01. 2024
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I talk about a woman going viral asking advice about her relationship regarding a stingy man.
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Most people who ask for advice are just looking for reassurance to keep doing whatever they’re already doing.
This was the comment I was looking for.
Yep truth
I realized this!!!
Facts!!!!!
This! 💯💯💯
If a man is comfortable watching you struggle, then sis that aint the man for you.
Ya and she's working 3 jobs and doesn't have much money and he complains if she asks for $10 like this is a mess. I wish my husband WOULD have me out here working 3 jobs and being a wife/mother. I definitely wouldn't be with him that's for sure.
That’s not a boyfriend, that’s a roommate girl.
He’s not even a roommate, he’s a parasite. I don’t understand how she hasn’t figured out that she’s his “man.”
Girl a roommate know they gotta pay for some bills, that man don’t wanna pay for nothing
Not even a roommate, roommates pay rent !
Lmao! Y’all are all 1000% right 😭
@@user-pk4sj8fs4xlmaoo
These kind of women call you for advice, get offended by the advice then they try to convince you why you are wrong… ma’m you called me 😂
That's what I'm so confused about like she asked for advice but getting mad at the people who gave advice
I bet if she looks through his phone she’ll see the type of chick that he is willing to spend his money on. 🤦🏽♀️
& she STILL gon stay 🤣
This!!! He spending it on someone 👀
Facts! And still gonna stay!!!!
That part Sprinkle sprinkle
@@freshmanjeans She’s a “Barbara the builder” 😂.
He doesn’t want you. It’s very simple. Men take care of the things they want and find valuable. Period
I was going to comment the same thing, but you beat me to it. She needs to walk out of that relationship.
What is the purpose of having a man if he’s not alleviating you financially. That’s the whole purpose of being in a relationship with a man. Men provide financially and protect physically.
I don’t ever understand why people can’t understand this. WHAT ELSE IS THE PURPOSE OF A MAN?? WHAT ELSE? Sigh
In this instance I understand women having a man per need, one for outings, one for peen, one for money and company, etc. I wouldn’t do it. But I understand ones that do.
Because they try to cope with their mediocre life and their mediocre men, and then get angry when you don’t except that for yourself, and have a man that provides
I never understood the “protect physically” part since women are most likely killed by an MALE intimate partner. Chances of women being killed in DV rises when she’s pregnant (leading cause for death in pregnant women is homicide by men btw)
Girl bye ✌️ you a be the same female that will get on here and cry because that man left with the money and you don’t have ish ‼️
All men are not providers. You can’t turn a man into something he is not. You need to date providers if that’s what you want. If you’re dating and the man is cheap, stingy, selfish, expects 50/50 or you to provide, that’s not likely to change. That’s who he is. Don’t commit to him and then get upset he won’t buy you a car like your friend’s boyfriend did for her. Just like you wouldn’t date someone with green eyes and get mad 2 years from now that they aren’t brown eyed. Find a provider. It’s a character trait not a choice.
You ate with that "it's a Character trait not a Choice" LINE 🔥🙌🏾THATS REAL FACTS
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Well said!
My favorite comment on this whole thread..
Stingy and love don't even go together.
You are so right, just like an INTIMATE RELATIONSHIP & BUSINESS don’t go together! Why are we as women searching for a partnership! Men don’t want a business relationship or a business partner! But the legal court system have already said MARRIAGE & RELATIONSHIPS are a BUSINESS!🤔🤔🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@@keishaspatts9559 We have a saviour complex about them(they put in us), they manipulate it out of us, or bully it. All they have to realize is they are not regular women and they can not move like most. These situations have been life and Def ones and very expensive throughout history. Black women been paying alimony since 1927. A bm wife got another bw wealth after her husband died, because her rich-self was sitting back playing house with her husband. Don't let them move in, anything he does for you create invoices and give receipts, and do not give him public credit for absolutely anything you built.
A broke man is a miserable one. Don't do it to yourself
This is embarrassing!!! How is she not embarrassed to have a man that don't give her or her child anything but lives under the same roof??? Could never be me sis. I'd rather die alone than be with a stingy man.
He not stingy he just dont want her ass and need a place
Yep
This.
Exactly 💯
My last ex paid for EVERYTHING! Flights, vacations, dinners plus princess treatmenr, so i refuse to date down.. no way I could do a stingy man yuck!
So if he was all of that and plus more, then why is he your EX!🤔🤔🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️…. BASICALLY, he wasted a lot of money on you! Somebody who is no longer around! There is no refund back to him of all the money he spent! He could had spend the money on stuff like stock that give him a financial return! We as women don’t give financial return like stock, REALESTATE, and other type of assets! Giving vagina to a man is no where near equal to money!🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
7 years and he hasn’t proposed? Wow! She doesn’t get it. She’s a placeholder.
He stacking his money so he can leave her and get the woman he wants
@@Alyssaj1236 Hello!
@@Alyssaj1236The realest comment
Honestly, the worst thing to happen is him proposing at this point. She's being blessed and dodging a bullet, and she doesn't even know it.
She’s wrong, not for feeling the way she feels but for tolerating it.
“Ion need this, my woman has three jobs” 😩😂😂😂 the roles has reversed so badly I’m sick
Hahaha these modern day men are gonna die alone and in high rates of depression ☠️
It’s very important to let a man know from the beginning that you expect him to provide. If you’re not spending your man’s money, someone else is
Someone else is!!! Important to know, because more of these men than we think are paying these “hos” they claim to not like (the models/OF girls), how do you think they make so much money?? I’d never stay with a man who played into that toxic cycle.
I know you’re talking about a regular side-chick but I’m just sharing this point as well.
Hello! They saving up for the woman he really wants! 🤷🏾♀️
This is my parents’ relationship. My mom worked 2 jobs for 30 years and my dad did NOTHING. He hasn’t worked since the 90s. My dad was the stay at home parent and he was very abusive. Me and my siblings are all in our 20s and 30s, and we told our mom to divorce our dad, she doesn’t want to. My dad just sits there and do nothing. Like right now, he’s at home relaxing and my mom is working her second job. They always argue about finances and I’m like “how does he have a say in the finances?” But my mom doesn’t want to leave. She’s beyond the sunken place. She’s been a married single mom for 30 years.
Call her a suga mama. Lol that will gnaw at her
My mom acts like she's stuck w/ my dusty dad as well. I accepted a long time ago that they're deserving of each other & I just stay away. They weren't great parents anyways so hey
Do you think stay at home wives shouldn't have a say in finances? Just because a spouse doesn't work don't mean they don't get a say.
@@lachell257 no the problem with why he doesn't get a say isn't just bc he stayed at home, but bc he dies NOTHING!!!!!! AND is ABUSIVE!!!!!!!
I'm sorry but she lost me when she called us "females". We are "WOMEN" not females. She clearly accepts him calling her a female. His lack of respect is a super red flag for me. I don't know why she is asking this question because she already knows the answer. Men love struggle love and ride or die women as long as it benefits him. He would never show her struggle love or be her ride or die. If she was stingy he would not be there with her.
I despise being referred to as a female. A female what? Rabbit, elephant, dog. Women are bad at using this term just as much as men.
I don't like that she called women females ether SMH
Honestly guys sometimes people just don’t know better I used to say females too and males I didn’t realise the stigma until about two years ago
Yeah as soon as she said females I list any kind of empathy I would’ve had for her. Women who call other women females are male identified mammies. Until they wake up they are on their own. They accept men’s BS and have convinced themselves that it’s normal.
I personally did this since being in the military. That is the terminology that is required, however.
Sharing a child, home, you working 3 jobs, and you don't have access to his account at your beck and call. Then you're still living with him, and sleeping with him is wild. Check yourself into your nearest mental health hospital. You are not well, ma'am.
Hahaha
And this is why, in modern day times, men are thinking totally different! They don’t want to have children, buy a house with us women, or live with a women, build a partnership with a woman, (because a man want a companion not a woman as a business partner! He had his success before he met her on purpose), and stay in SITUATIONSHIPS, pay escorts or ladies of the night just so he don’t have to hear no woman say all the stuff LaVieEnVioletV and women like would say!
Ladies please hear me out: YOU SET THE TONE OF THE RELATIONSHIP.
Honestly if he’s stingy with his girlfriend most of the time they are VERY generous with their side pieces and mistresses.
And I thought she was 30 but she’s def giving about 23.
Can people stop trauma dumping on us please. We don’t gaf anymore about y’all problems. Y’all want to sit in shit so I’m going to let you.
I would give her some sympathy if she’s actually under 25 but being 30 with that mindset is just embarrassing and downright pathetic!
He's saving his money for who he really wants to be with. Hes gonna blindside her with I found me a place. Then he miraculously will have money to pay his way. She's being used as a mattress and a mule.
Facts! Barbara the builder should be her name. 🥴
Facts! They always do!
She was taught nothing about men, nor relationship. She never knew what to do.
Same with me 🤣🤣🤣😒🙄🥺
That was reality for most of us, unfortunately...
These are the types of women online shaming other women for wanting/having a provider man... Ladies don't fall for it. Deep down, they would love to have a man like that, so when fox can't get the grapes, they say it's sour.....
People will always project but just keep your head up❤
Her: Its not that he doesn't love me, he DOES, its just DEEPER than that.
Me: So he hates you? Because the only thing deeper than love is hate🥴
She's coping
Real talk.
Dammmm 👏🏽 IKTR!! 🤷🏽♀️
Not so he hates you 😅😂😂😂
6:25 Ma'am he don't want to spend money on you. He got the money. Just not for you. That's just it.
You'll know what a man values based on where he spends his money.
She’s exhausting me. I don’t have time to beg a man to give me the bare minimum. I wish her the best.
A husband will not argue about giving you $20...however a roommate will.
When I was dating my husband, I lost my job and he said don't worry about it. He paid my bills and took me shopping. That was in 2016, we married in 2017 and besides doing real estate from time to time I haven't had a job since, except taking care of our 4 year old. I used to have very low self esteem as a teen, but I was also comfortable being alone and wasn't ever going to work for a man's affection. I also had too much pride😂 I worked on my self esteem and still do. I give myself compliments. You have to love on yourself because the world is not going to slow down and cater to you. Self- esteem is about survival; when you don't have it people sense it and prey upon you
Sprinkle sprinkle❤
@@purplegirl8036Girl you are heading to financial freedom to the point where you won’t have to work ❤
Those last few sentences were a whole word sis!!! 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Sounds like you gotchu a GOODT man Savannah!! 😂 congrats!
How long were you all dating before he paid all your bills?
@misskris117 Chantes got a man 😅 that's what's its giving
That man dont like her at all, if you gotta ask for change when you are in a whole relationship- you are single with a roommate.
Sis not even a roommate. Roommates pay their way, clean their own sh*t, and I’ve had multiple even offer me food sometimes. She’s got a ragamuffin that had the audacity to create a child 😮
She knows she needs to leave the relationship but she wants us to be the one to tell her. Like why?
& we did .. yet she still stayed 🤦🏾♀️😂
Because she then can formulate an argument against that common sense. It's like sea lioning or trolling. Just hearing the truth to learn now to argue against it.
To go viral
So she can get mad at strangers for telling her what she already knows instead of getting mad with herself 🤣🤣
So she can’t deflect and project it onto us and say that we’re just bitter and single and how we’re mad that she got a man. The pickme squad will rally behind her and justify the BS and then a couple years down the line, she’ll be crying and posting about her toxic relationship 🤷🏾♀️
yall the OP is poor. literally poor. she makes 15 and hour n he makes less. they had no business having a baby. 15 an hour aint nothin. for even 1 person to live off of/. wtf.
Ain’t minimum wage $15? How can make less than that?I guess it depends on the state
Welcome to Blackistan chile😂
You will find people earning $12 an hr having a bus load of kids.
min wage in nyc is 15. fed min wage outside is 7.25. most states don't have much high than that. @@ettelra73
Honestly I think the root of all this is her fear of being alone. She’s afraid to walk away and the sad thing is that she’s running herself ragged trying to hold onto dead weight (by choice). Hopefully she finds the strength to leave at some point.
Had to come back and edit. After seeing more of her responses, her energy is giving “she approached him.”
This is why chasing a man is a hard NO!
Very true, we aren't victims in the story, our belief systems can make us a party in our own abuse, "It takes 2 to tango".
Even being a lonely woman with cats is better than staying with a man that makes your life difficult.
@@jxtchilling exactly! At the end of the day she could take steps to leave if that’s what she really wanted to do.
@@PossibleBat facts! That fear of being alone holds so many women back and keeps them stuck in toxic situations.
FACTS FACTS FACTS!!!!!!
A stingy man is mentally broke. I refuse to seek a stingy man. I just dont want to settle. Thank you for the commentary on this video 😊.
She already knows the answer leave or accept stingy behavior.
No there's an in between! Leaving is extreme.
She lost me at 3 jobs...because no😮
She’s asking her followers because she didn’t like or trust her family’s and friends’ opinion. 😗😗
Realistically, she knows exactly what she needs to do.
I just don’t believe anything a man says unless it can be supported with actions.
The whole “he says he loves me” is crazy because that could be a lie
Why are ppl constantly coming to the Internet- telling their business, then get mad when STRANGERS judge because they don't know all the nuances to your situation?!
This ☝🏾
If he ain’t adding he getting subtracted simple as that.
The math is mathing😂😂😂
It's just that simple...periodt.
Don’t even talk to women with relationship problems. Distance yourself from them and let them figure it out.
There's no such thing as a perfect relationship. Every one is going to have flaws.
@@lachell257 True but she can handle all that on her own because a woman like this knows deep down that man she's with ain't shit but continues to stay with him. Hell, she'll come to vent to you about her relationship problems, call him out for all the bad he does, etc, and by the end of the night or the next day, she's under him again and the cycle continues. No. She can deal with that on her own. When she's done, then she'll be done but no one wants to deal with someone like that when they know better but continue to act like a little kid. You can go be friends with her. I'm not.
“He tells me he loves me and wants to be with me” 😮awe girl the key is he doesn’t SHOW you with any actions that he “love” you. I quit giving any advice or helping people who don’t want to be helped early last year. 🤷🏽♀️ hope the women who can focus on self love 💕
“If you give everything you have you will be nothing…”
Now that’s a word. Self-preservation is the FIRST rule of nature.
This is so embarrassing. Coming to social media crying about a dude ain’t giving you no money. Like what is going on in this world…. Every body is delusional my pride wouldn’t even let me post nun like that. I hate how open people is these days like some of these stories should’ve stayed in the drafts PERIOD.
Omg! For real. We now live in the twilight zone
🙄 she knows she needs to leave.
She had his kids,, sadly,,, she believes,, he is going to marry her in the future,,, Mr crab is gaslighting her while saving for his drream girl
7 years?! And he’s always been this way
Who are we really to blame? We gotta start taking accountability for the men we choose, knowing they’ve BEEN this way from the beginning
The guy is dead weight. Seems like she is with him just to say she has a man. Him saying I love you is just manipulation to keep her from leaving. He says he loves her but his action says he hates her. He brings stress to her life. She would be better off without him. She should prepare an exit plan. Ask him for more money let him argue with himself. One day just leave him.
I'm surprised that she's even considering marriage with this man. Marriage dsnt make things better. It just worsens all the red flags you saw & chose to ignore. Prime example is Cardi B too.
Can we talk about “Big Girl Syndrome?” …bc it’s eating these women up 🤦🏾♀️
Money is a spiritual thing. What we (especially men) spend our money on, reveals our hearts true desires and what’s important to us. Men will spend whatever to have the latest shoes, game console, etc.. because that’s IMPORTANT to them! If he doesn’t spend money on you he doesn’t like youu it’s simple.
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Money is a man creation not God's creation. There is nothing spiritual about that.
Wow i'm dumbfounded by this woman. My boyfriend would NEVER have me working three jobs. He gives me money just cause and would rather me be able to spend time doing my hobbies and ish. That's crazy her self-esteem has to be so low. Three jobs is just insanity, especially if he's working.
It’s always the same girls that come online airing their struggle 80-20 relationships that are defending their mindset that got them in these circumstances to begin with. You’ll never be able to convince another woman what’s best for her. A lot of times she doesn’t want to hear it.
Girl it's 95/5
If he’s a straight bum - no job, no car, eats for free, pays no damn bills for anything, anyone, or anywhere, AND got bad credit…that’s a 0%. Sadly, if these 0% men manipulation and D game is on point, they don’t starve because there’s enough females out here willing to put up with them.
“Do you females”…..while calling the dusty a man 🙄. Why is it so hard for the black community to call women women instead of females? I know this comment is off topic but that always irritates me.
He is saving for his future dream girl,,, while she dawned herself with having his kids at her young age.
Is she not tired? One sided relationships are very exhausting. It truly is a lack of self love and self esteem. I think some women convince themselves that this is as good as it’s going to get so allow themselves to stay stuck in these type of relationships. They have a scarcity mindset. She may believe that she can’t get better or there isn’t better. She doesn’t seem to care for the constructive feedback she asked for and continues to gaslight herself. Some people have to learn the hard way. It’s going to take for her to be fed up and right now she’s not. She just wants to vent.
I was in a very lopsided relationship for over 10 years. I struggled alone financially for a while but I was ECSTATIC knowing that I was no longer a single mom of 2 (1 baby and 1 grown child).
@@jennifernabrahamable At least you can be honest about it but didn’t being in a lopsided relationship make you feel as if you were still single? I understand most of us women really love the idea of family because nobody wants to be a single mother but if the man isn’t doing his part then is there really a point?…
@@purplegirl8036I don’t know what happened to my comment but I said I hear what you are saying, I’ve been single almost 4 years now. I can’t be with someone just to say I have someone.
@@RiriLove88 I think maybe my comment wasn't clear/complete. I meant once I left my (then) husband, I was ecstatic to no longer be a single mom of 2. Yes, it felt like I was still single in a lot of ways. But thankfully that part of my life is over.
@@jennifernabrahamable Understood. I can definitely see why you’d feel that way. I’m glad you no longer have to deal with that. No woman wants to feel like a single mom while in a relationship. It takes a village to raise kids in the first place.
She needs to find some self-love and self-respect. How is she working THREE jobs to make ends meet, while she claims to have a “man”?!?!?! Then he’s getting angry if she asks him for $20-$50?!?!?! This cannot be real life. 🤣 What is he doing to contribute???? Then she has the audacity to “my man, my man, my man” AND talk about marriage in the future. To that clown????? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Watching her go off on the one comment that told her to stop complaining if she’s not gonna leave him sent me 🤣🤣🤣. Her was over explaining why she loves him but ma’am…7 years and you have no ring 💍 but you’re cooking, cleaning, having sex with him when he wants and it’s probably not good all while working 3 jobs and still broke but he works 40 hours a week and keeps his coins 😮💨😒🥴.
That means you’re paying all the bills and if you’re gonna do all that, be single. The jokes write themselves and no wonder she took down her page after she brought us into her relationship. I happily work 2 PRN jobs as a nurse and collect military benefits because I like having money for things I want after paying all my bills like traveling internationally. There’s no way I would tolerate a man in my home where I pay all the bills and I gotta fight with you over $20. I did that when I was in my early 20s and I’m not doing it again. It’s 2024, do better ladies.
That video was sad if a man loves you he shows you, there is no reason she should have to ask a man she’s with for money. He’s using her and doesn’t love her.
3 jobs, a baby, 7 years (no ring) and a stingy man???🤔🤔🤔
What do people do with a stingy man? We Exit Stage Left.
His not giving her money because his spending it on another woman. If a man can see you struggling and does nothing he does not love you. If words and actions dont line up than its manipulation she's too old to be falling for this bs.
I agree. A stingy man is worse than a broke man.
Let her have him! Keep him away from the dating market! Thanks boo
She needs therapy. She doesn’t even have any pictures of him on her instagram. He don’t claim her.
He doesn’t love that woman 😂 at all 😂
My broke bf who can barely pay bills heard I couldn’t afford groceries immediately sent 100$ even tho he didn’t have that to spend Yani never lies
Men who love their wives/girlfriends often times show that love through privation. If he doesn't even want to give you money to get the things you need or want within budget, he definitely does not love that woman or believes she's his dream girl.
I’m thankful to have outgrown struggle love. Ain’t no way I could accept this reality with a man today. Jokes on her and she doesn’t even know it. Maybe one day she’ll wake up…. Just not today. 😆
I was just like her. Recently just got out of a situation with a stingy man. I’m going through a mental shift at this time and just focusing on my responsibilities and got back in school. Completely single and praying for discernment. I did lack self love, made poor decisions, and assumed a lot. I pray she receives the wake up call I had and just let it go. I couldn’t help but to think, dang, was I really like this? It’s cringing. Thank you for the sound advice.
Who you telling . I can’t go back them ways ! Them days are over .
Yes, I know I’ve allowed myself to be in a situation where I was receiving breadcrumbs in the past so I don’t judge her but I do hope that she realizes she deserves better. If she’s allowing herself to continue to stay in this relationship then there is a lesson that she has yet to learn. Some women repeat these toxic cycles because they don’t take the time to self reflect and heal in between relationships. They just jump from one no good man to another. At least we can say we are doing the work. It takes being self aware and holding ourselves accountable.
So what wakes you up? Compassion. From someone??
@@user-je7db7bi7i no.
@@user-je7db7bi7ionly you can wake yourself up! You have to take accountability for who you are & chose to not just do better but be better.
Lawd its getting worst with each video. She is trying to convince us that he is a good guy. If your man is stingy with you. Get you a new man!
I don't feel bad for women that choose to date a guy that is stingy and selfish. I'm sure guys that aren't generous show before the woman consider dating them that they aren't generous. But the woman chose to over look the red flags 🚩and date them anyway Smh. A lot of women need to stop trying to see good in a man that's not a man and doesn't have any good within him. There is no excuse in this day and age to be dating a guy that is a self centered selfish person.
This 💯💯💯ladies let’s do better!
Men who aren’t naturally providers definitely show signs in the beginning. There are ALWAYS signs. A lot of women tend to overlook them
@@chombachipalo4448 Facts! 💯💯💯
You don’t ask a man for money. Real men offer without you having to say anything at all!!
The harsh reality is that this is learned behavior, most likely seen from the moms who raised these women. Women raised by provider fathers who see their moms are loved, respected & took care of by the man of the house understand what a dusty is from a young age & usually stay tf away. I never had that but I always promised myself I would not end up like my mom. Prioritize yourself ladies. You'll never regret it.
I have a boyfriend that i am supporting . I would never recommend this type of abuse 😭 for any woman. Then after a while men become comfortable being lazy and will unalive you if you attempt to take it away
😭free yoself sis
@@aundreanaphiffer3572 i am i unfortunately have to save up and come up with a safety plan rn 😉
Run
She doesn’t want advise. She wants to complain AND defend her dusty at the same time.
People need to stop with the nonsense.
She better not ever get seriously ill cause he will let her dye. Period!
The more she talked the worst her situation sounds 😬. Yanie you are absolutely right, she is delusional. There appears to be cognitive dissonance on her part. She doesn’t want advice, attacking your followers 🤦🏾♀️. This is why I keep my mouth shut when it comes to friends relationships. I do not feel bad for women like this. Her situation is NOT RELATABLE! We do not relate SIS EVER! 🙅🏾♀️
I hate when these women come and tell their stories online and when they don’t get the answer they want they turn on the people that they were once seeking advice from! It’s really weird.
That being said. A stingy man is definitely worse than broke man!! Her situation is sad but it’s clear that she doesn’t want more for herself. I pray that she finds the strength and self worth to leave.
Thank you for doing these videos Yanie as a woman in her 20’s it’s invaluable ❤❤ . Put yourself first ladies cause these men sure as hell will xx
I don’t ask my man for money, I honestly hate to do it lol but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t give me money. Like I don’t find a need to ask him for money because he automatically provides it. Like I told him my business idea, he turned around and bought me a LLC. I got sick and couldn’t get out of bed, he bought me an iPad to past the time. My point is he’s providing and taking care of things without being asked. If he wants to, he will.
Pre-marital counseling may identify any hidden flaws. I think everything should be cleared up before marriage. If you are experiencing discomfort before marriage, things will probably only get worst after marriage.
Can I go to premarital counseling on my own to see what it’s like to prepare?
That is a question for a counselor.@@CL-do5eq
Yes you can do it with a trained psychologist, most pastors are not trained in psychology@CL-do5eq
@@CL-do5eqyes
She keep saying “you know what I’m saying?” And I’m like NO B, I DO NOT KNOW
She's spiraling so bad, she needs to get help!! Or keep her piece of a man and stay offline. Sad.
They come to the internet for advice, then tell us the worst things about their partners only to defend the bs 😭🤣😭
She’s not his dream girl, period
When people go to the internet with personal matters, I sometimes wonder whether they have friends and family to speak to… Although, I understand people get frustrated at times & desperately need to vent
I think that sometimes these people have already gone to friends and family, they just didn’t get the answer they wanted to hear so the went to the Internet.
They run the friends and family off. People start isolating from them and it's down to sharing in a journal (inner reflection) or venting to the internet.
She needs a real friend, someone to take her phone for a few days, and to be rescued from herself
She probably drove them away
She is calling him her bf 😂😂 delusional. A man who gets mad when you ask him for help ain’t your bf boo. try a different title like “ your brother in sin”
This reminds me of the movie “The Joy Luck Club” where one woman was going strictly 50/50 - she was with a stingy man and she played the pickme.
I’m starting to believe these lil viral clips less and less. These folks clever now lol they are good actors and will play in our faces for viral moments and views
Yup it’s getting old I’m tired of it
This is true. A lot of people using the internet for their acting careers they always wanted to pursue 🤷🏾♀️
Come on sis 3 jobs . I would literally be disgusted with him
I ask whoever im dealing with for money they give it. Male friends do it without question. Male coworkers offer to help financially all the time and have cashapped me. Its not a brag. But you shouldn't have to fight for help. Especially as a woman.
I can understand asking for money from a man you're dating but I've never thought about asking for money from a male co-worker. Why would a co- worker give you money. Does he like you in a romantic way? I am legitimately curious.
@@The-Oneness11I’m curious too…..?
@@The-Oneness11yea something about isn’t making sense
Our interactions with others are reflections of our own boundaries and standards. Nothing more. You want a provider man? Be a woman who requires such behavior. You wouldn’t feel you have a stingy man if you don’t allow a man space to, well, be stingy 😅
Yassss!!
How does your man, make you feel comfortable, without taking care of you."GIRL BYE"
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At this point, this woman needs to hang it up, break up with him, carry him to the courts, get child support and keep it moving because she is already financially supporting herself as a single parent while he's not doing anything. He should at least pick up some expense. Smh. He does not care and he's not going to marry her. He's leeching off her. Period
Why do they do everything BUT leave?
She is still calling him "my man"????
Oh she just want to waste our time
She keeps saying its not about the money … but it is tho!!! She needs to log out and keep her situation to herself
The minute I heard the excuses I can’t pity her,she will listen to no one
I couldn't get through this, lol. Yanie, you're spot on with your assessment. There's no saving this girl. Just take her story as a lesson for yourself 🎯
I guarantee you he’s giving every penny he has to another woman without hesitation. She already knows what she should do, but it seems like she will continue to tolerate her situation.
I hate that dream girl narrative because it makes it seem like a shitty guy will not put you through SHIT!!! Whether you are his dream girl or not.
Majority of people aren't going to get the "dream" guy or girl. Majority of people are average. We got to start to give realistic advice.