Conquering Male Loneliness (This Won't Get Better Until You Fix This)
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- čas přidán 2. 08. 2024
- Unveil the reality of male loneliness in this thought-provoking video. From the harsh truth to identifying loneliness and the paradox of technological connection, explore the depths of this prevalent issue. Learn strategies to combat loneliness through self-acceptance and emotional discipline. Join the conversation and break the silence surrounding male isolation.
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Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Harsh Truth
02:23 Identifying Loneliness
04:58 Paradox of Technological Connection
07:29 Fixing Male Loneliness: Self-Acceptance
10:25 Embracing Emotional Discipline
16:35 Breaking the Silence
19:42 The Role of Friendship
21:56 Community Engagement
23:48 Cultural and Societal Factors
Key Topics:
Male Loneliness Reality
Identifying Loneliness
Paradox of Technology and Loneliness
Self-Acceptance Solutions
Emotional Discipline for Connection
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As a Male with Autism, I believe that Autism is a direct reason for my and others' attachment issues. Honestly, I believe that Autistic people, both Male and even Female, are treated more Harshly by society than the majority of men in America.
Adam, are planning on future making videos for Autistic People on Attachment and how to overcome it? I think it would be very helpful for us, as we are extremely underrepresented, even in this whole "Self-Improvement" space on CZcams.
Hi there. You're not wrong. So many of my coaching clients who have autistic features share horrible stories about being disrespected, dismissed, and even emotionally abused for not being able to understand social cues. It can create or worsen attachment issues to an awful degree that leaves lasting scars. Still, I know for a fact these attachment issues can be fixed. And my clients with autistic features enjoy my solution-focused approach more than anyone else. I am definitely here to help and will continue to bring information that's useful, and while I don't have any autism-specific videos on this channel yet, all of the material I've presented can add up to understanding social engagements as a system, which is the best approach an individual can use to gain the social insight they need.
@@s1hr1As someone with Fearful Avoidant Attachment myself, I think that most males with ASD have FA, Because we constantly use to people either immediately rejecting us for Autism; assuming we have bullshit stereotypes of us being "Creeps" from the Media, People being friendly with us at first, only to backstab or Exploit us in some way later, or people who try to "Change" us, and constantly criticise us for not being "social" or "outgoing" enough.
ok, ya, done with this channel, if my comment is going to be deleted when i post an honest experience, f you, bye
Yes plus autistic women and men are so different too
I am female with a fairly masculine temperament and this video is really helpful for me too.
Adam, thank you for what you do. You really reach me as a man in a way I can understand and really help to change, I’m in tears a bit just learning and having hope. And I’m sure you help many others too.
Loving the dedicated discussions of male issues. Keep up the good work!
I’ll keep them coming! Any specific topic you want to see?
@@AttachmentAdam would love to see more material about attachment and fatherhood. And also how younger men can (re)connect with their fathers and older males in their lives
Thank you Adam. So much. I have been so disconnected from myself, I now experience loneliness in a relationship. I’m now mature enough to understand my own issue with it. It’s not her, it’s me, and my own neediness. The more detached, masculine and calm I am, the sweeter and more loving she is. But when she can subconsciously sense that I’m placing my inner sense of security in her or the relationship, she pulls away slowly, on the affection and the connexion. I can almost see it happening live, something happens that make me go slightly anxious about the relationship, my whole “persona” changes and her attitude with it. She’s subconsciously asking me “Be the masculine man I can rely on, and that stands on his own so I can feel safe” but moments like that I become caretaking, approval seeking and lonely as hell. But I think it’s also because I have her that I’m close with, and no one else besides friends living far away. That is something I need to change.
The problem is the narcissism from most people is off the charts! Nobody is willing to make even the simplest sacrifices to make platonic friendships work! I have seen it way too many times myself! Very sad indeed!
In a similar situation. Why secure attachment is so critical in building a new world
Not to say i wouldn't be impressed by 50 cool facts about Batman, but emotional intelligence and self-mastery are waaay more impressive and attractive.
You know who also values self-mastery?
Batman.
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P.S. - Do you have or can you recommend good resources for developing emotional intelligence and discipline?
@@vital.elementswatch Batman? 😅
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How great TY. Context is everything. I was born in the USA, but my folks were immigrants. Seems that men in Mediterranean cultures are more overtly emotional. I saw my Pop💔cry more than my mother. She was unusually stoic. This bizness of emotional intelligence is overrated. If women really had it they might not be so irately judgemental of men. Respect the reserve. Men express via actions.
This is so heartbreaking to hear as a woman who loves a DA man who has no one but me. He can't move in towards me and he has no idea how to find friends or really establish meaningful and deeply connected relationships.
In the same situation. He has another video on that. Avoidants have so much growth to do, they've put it off for so long
Adam I was wondering what your stance on IFS therapy as a tool for healing and becoming secure is?
Adam , Can you do a video about Hypergamy (The financial part of it)? Thanks
As a woman that's not really a thing unless a guy has insecure attachment or in denial/not willing to grow, or she wants a family and he doesn't (which was a lack of communication). Otherwise most women (unless severe personality disorders) are not wanting to leave their man of choice.
Honestly, content consumption became the dukt tape he mentioned.
Cheap internet dopamine