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Sunday Special: 'Modern Love'
Over the last two decades, Esther Perel has become a world-famous couples therapist by persistently advocating frank conversations about infidelity, sex and intimacy. Today, Perel reads one of the most provocative Modern Love essays ever published: “What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity (www.nytimes.com/2018/04/06/style/modern-love-sleeping-with-married-men-infidelity.html) ,” by Karin Jones.
In her 2018 essay, Jones wrote about her experience seeking out no-strings-attached flings with married men after her divorce. What she found, to her surprise, was how much the men missed having sex with their own wives, and how afraid they were to tell them.
Jones faced a heavy backlash after the essay was published. Perel reflects on why conversations around infidelity are still so difficult and why she thinks Jones deserves more credit.
Esther Perel is on tour in the U.S. Her show is called “An Evening With Esther Perel: The Future of Relationships, Love & Desire.”
Check her website (www.estherperel.com/tour2024) for more details
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'The Interview': Marlon Wayans Lost Nearly 60 Loved Ones. Comedy Saved Him.
zhlédnutí 1,6KPřed 2 hodinami
The comedian talks to David Marchese on becoming a different person after unimaginable loss. For more on 'The Interview,' please visit nytimes.com/theinterview.
Marlon Wayans Lost Nearly 60 Loved Ones. Comedy Saved Him.
zhlédnutí 473Před 2 hodinami
The comedian talks to David Marchese on becoming a different person after unimaginable loss.
The Protesters and the President
zhlédnutí 8KPřed 4 hodinami
Warning: this episode contains strong language. Over the past week, students at dozens of universities held demonstrations, set up encampments and, at times, seized academic buildings. In response, administrators at many of those colleges decided to crack down and called in the local police to detain and arrest demonstrators. As of Thursday, the police had arrested 2,000 people across more than...
Untangling the Mess of Campus Protests
zhlédnutí 5KPřed 4 hodinami
On this episode, the hosts get heated about the political divisions and contradictions revealed by the recent campus protests and ask why some in Washington seem so invested in perpetuating the demonstrations. (A full transcript of this audio essay will be available within 24 hours of publication on the Times website.) Thoughts about the show? Email us at matterofopinion@nytimes.com (mailto:mat...
S04 - Ep. 7: The Forever Reporter
zhlédnutí 851Před 7 hodinami
One reporter has been covering Guantánamo since the day the prison opened. The military would like her to go home now.
Biden Loosens Up on Weed
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 7 hodinami
For half a century, the federal government has treated marijuana as one of the more dangerous drugs in the United States. On Tuesday, the Biden administration signaled a significant shift in approach. Zolan Kanno-Youngs, a White House correspondent for The Times, explains how big an impact the proposed changes could have. Guest: Zolan Kanno-Youngs (www.nytimes.com/by/zolan-kanno-youngs) , a Whi...
The Democrats' New Chance in Wisconsin
zhlédnutí 2,5KPřed 7 hodinami
For years, Wisconsin has been one of the most heavily gerrymandered states in the country, with legislative districts that overwhelmingly favored Republicans. In fact, the maps were so one-sided that, even though the state has a roughly equal share of Democrats and Republicans, Republicans were able to lock in large majorities in the State Assembly and Senate. But earlier this year, the state a...
The New Abortion Fight Before the Supreme Court
zhlédnutí 7KPřed 9 hodinami
As the presidential race moves into high gear, abortion is at the center of it. Republican-controlled states continue to impose new bans, including just this week in Florida. But in Washington, the Biden administration is challenging one of those bans in a case that is now before the Supreme Court, arguing that Idaho’s strict rules violate a federal law on emergency medical treatment. Pam Bellu...
Emily Ratajkowski Can Take Care of Herself, but a Little Help Would Be Nice
zhlédnutí 1,7KPřed 9 hodinami
Emily Ratajkowski is doing a balancing act many famously beautiful women have to perform. In her 2021 book “My Body,” she reflects on what it’s been like to build a career based on her public image, and her struggle to control that image in an industry largely run by men. Since getting divorced a few years ago, she’s been thinking a lot about gender dynamics and the type of agency she wants to ...
The Secret Push That Could Ban TikTok
zhlédnutí 8KPřed 12 hodinami
American lawmakers have tried for years to ban TikTok, concerned that the video app’s links to China pose a national security risk. Sapna Maheshwari, a technology reporter for The Times, explains the behind-the-scenes push to rein in TikTok and discusses what a ban could mean for the app’s 170 million users in the United States. Guest: Sapna Maheshwari (www.nytimes.com/by/sapna-maheshwari) , wh...
Cows: Just an Environmental Disaster
zhlédnutí 6KPřed 12 hodinami
A decade ago, I was feeling pretty pessimistic about climate change. The politics of mitigating global warming just seemed impossible: asking people to make sacrifices, or countries to slow their development, and delay dreams of better, more prosperous lives. But the world today looks different. The costs of solar and wind power have plummeted. Same for electric batteries. And a new politics is...
Trump 2.0: What a Second Trump Presidency Would Bring
zhlédnutí 18KPřed 14 hodinami
In a special series leading up to Election Day, “The Daily” will explore what a second Trump presidency would look like, and what it could mean for American democracy. In the first part, we will look at Tump’s plan for a second term. On the campaign trail, Trump has outlined a vision that is far more radical, vindictive and unchecked than his first one. Jonathan Swan and Maggie Haberman, politi...
Introducing ‘The Interview’: Yair Lapid Says the World Misunderstands Israel
zhlédnutí 4,9KPřed 16 hodinami
Frustrated at the growing protest movement, the opposition leader defends his country’s “existential” war. For more on the show, please visit nytimes.com/theinterview.
Introducing ‘The Interview’: Anne Hathaway Is Done Trying to Please
zhlédnutí 4,1KPřed 19 hodinami
On the debut of ’The Interview,' the actress talks to David Marchese about learning to let go of other people’s opinions. For more on the show, please visit nytimes.com/theinterview.
Anne Hathaway Is Done Trying to Please
zhlédnutí 2,2KPřed 19 hodinami
Anne Hathaway Is Done Trying to Please
Yair Lapid Says the World Misunderstands Israel
zhlédnutí 8KPřed 19 hodinami
Yair Lapid Says the World Misunderstands Israel
Harvey Weinstein Conviction Thrown Out
zhlédnutí 7KPřed 21 hodinou
Harvey Weinstein Conviction Thrown Out
Salman Rushdie Is Not Who You Think He Is
zhlédnutí 7KPřed 21 hodinou
Salman Rushdie Is Not Who You Think He Is
How Does Trump’s Violent Rhetoric End?
zhlédnutí 7KPřed 21 hodinou
How Does Trump’s Violent Rhetoric End?
S04 - Ep. 6: Part 2, Asymmetry
zhlédnutí 1,3KPřed dnem
S04 - Ep. 6: Part 2, Asymmetry
The Crackdown on Student Protesters
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The Crackdown on Student Protesters
The Comedian Roy Wood Jr. on Biden, Trump and What’s Funny About 2024
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The Comedian Roy Wood Jr. on Biden, Trump and What’s Funny About 2024
Is $60 Billion Enough to Save Ukraine?
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Is $60 Billion Enough to Save Ukraine?
Laufey, Gen Z’s Pop Jazz Icon, Sings for the Anxious Generation
zhlédnutí 955Před dnem
Laufey, Gen Z’s Pop Jazz Icon, Sings for the Anxious Generation
A Salacious Conspiracy or Just 34 Pieces of Paper?
zhlédnutí 10KPřed dnem
A Salacious Conspiracy or Just 34 Pieces of Paper?
This Conversation With Adam Moss Made Me a Sharper Editor
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This Conversation With Adam Moss Made Me a Sharper Editor
The Evolving Danger of the New Bird Flu
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The Evolving Danger of the New Bird Flu
Sunday Special: 'Modern Love'
zhlédnutí 4KPřed 14 dny
Sunday Special: 'Modern Love'
The Supreme Court Takes Up Homelessness
zhlédnutí 10KPřed 14 dny
The Supreme Court Takes Up Homelessness

Komentáře

  • @UXtatic
    @UXtatic Před 3 hodinami

    😂. This topic should have been asked years ago.

  • @wardrobegirl67
    @wardrobegirl67 Před 4 hodinami

    Any outbreak of any alleged virus is a control measure by the elites. How many people have to die from their toxic meds before we wake up?

  • @user-ix3ip6qm4c
    @user-ix3ip6qm4c Před 8 hodinami

    I found that when men cheat they seem to find someone that is lesser of a person than the wife. Someone they weren’t even on guard with or thinking they would want. Or they should stay away from or that it’s too dangerous/ too tempting. Until suddenly it was. Usually by way of an unexpected “innocent “ kiss

  • @whatsgoodpr1861
    @whatsgoodpr1861 Před 8 hodinami

    When my ma passed in her hospital bed- she had a sleeping mask I bought for her to shield bright lights- and it said "Not Yet!" I put that on her eyes when they wheeled her to the morgue so the mortician - could get that message. I think it gave me some strange comedic relief at the very worst moment of my life- to think of the mortician- seeing my mom wearing that -saying not just yet...in her little rebellious way....

  • @joebob92837
    @joebob92837 Před 9 hodinami

    "it's so weird that a seemingly normal western teenager went to hang out with hezbollah for a while then went on to commit attempted murder of a person he had never met. what a strange unexplainable turn of events, what could have motivated that?" queue sam harris laser eyes meme about the power of belief and ideology to radicalize and alter peoples actions being his core argument about the problem with jihadi terrorism that the secular west refuses to acknowledge.

  • @BobQuigley
    @BobQuigley Před 10 hodinami

    Baloney on rhe digging rhings up excuse. We already mine hundreds of billions of earth. Fossil Fuels extraction is many times more damaging, goto Western PA, strip mines out west, mountain top removal in WV, Louisiana's disintegrating delta, many more in US, exponentially more globally. When burned rhe damages extend to the atmosphere we breath, waters we drink, farmland that feeds us. Nuclear yes, unfortunately we're 50 yrs behind due to foolish short sighted decisions made with the very first US commercial reactor. We must act. Weve spikked billions of hours down rhe drain talking.

  • @lifexmetric
    @lifexmetric Před 10 hodinami

    If you ask an LLM to lie it will lie. Yet then you condemn it that it lied... 🤣🤦‍♂

    • @lifexmetric
      @lifexmetric Před 10 hodinami

      Also what's your criteria to determine BS? It sounds like you are implying that we need some authority to stamp on what are the BS and what are not. Somehow people need guardian like you to filter through "truth" for us. 🤷‍♂

    • @lifexmetric
      @lifexmetric Před 10 hodinami

      If Dario has not realized yet, you are talking to a pawn from an institution who aspire to be the king or at least to be the king's mouthpiece 🤦‍♂

  • @user-yf8xe8be8n
    @user-yf8xe8be8n Před 11 hodinami

    Love Simon

  • @joangratzer2101
    @joangratzer2101 Před 12 hodinami

    PHYSICALLY IMPOSSIBLE; GOD FORGOT TO GIVE WOMEN A SEX DRIVE, HE SCREWED UP BIG TIME. HARDLY PERFECT DESIGN.

  • @bhavesh3729
    @bhavesh3729 Před 13 hodinami

    42:51 मोदी - अरे हम तो फकीर आदमी है झोला लेकर चल पडेंगे 😂

  • @vladimirstasov6671
    @vladimirstasov6671 Před 14 hodinami

    Typical NYT anti Israel attitude. They’re called The Hamas Times for a reason.

  • @pamlewis1183
    @pamlewis1183 Před 17 hodinami

    The high court will continue to have to deal with this issue until Congress codifys Roe.

  • @tobymnewton
    @tobymnewton Před dnem

    “Those who lack the courage will always find a philosophy to justify it.” In this case, it’s not even a philosophy, it’s just slavish bondage to the capitalist imperative. The weakest men on Earth.

  • @LoveFaithLive
    @LoveFaithLive Před dnem

    *_Bollocks_* that it’s the ‘Other Woman' who are the home wreckers but not the men. Men too can say “NO” so why don’t they. They choose not to. Leave their children behind to go live with another woman. But it’s not the man who’s the home wrecker? It’s the ‘Other Woman’? She gets that label? What’s really going on? It’s the double-standard, that's what. Someone tell me what’s admirable about men who haven't cheated simply because another woman hasn't said "Yes". Pfft

  • @omurtasar7852
    @omurtasar7852 Před dnem

    a child is killed in Gaza every 10 minutes!! I am not s college students. I DON"T want my tax dollars to kill thousands of children. It's horrible. The whole country should rise and tell Biden to stop it.

  • @christinagreenberg5612

    Please do better journalism. Please look into Israel's influence on all the US owned social media companies. Please look into the ADL's leaked call saying that this was it was their top priority to ban tiktok because it is opening the young people's eyes to what is really happening in Gaza. So it sounds like you're okay with Israel's influence but no other foreign government?

  • @hwadeiv
    @hwadeiv Před dnem

    I think Biden's response to this solidified me staying home in November.

  • @meh23p
    @meh23p Před dnem

    22:22

  • @S62r
    @S62r Před dnem

    More people in the world eat goat than any other meat

  • @moma8956
    @moma8956 Před dnem

    You shi(ts) are still pushing libzio propaganda. Keep it up

  • @user-pb1tb1ux3c
    @user-pb1tb1ux3c Před dnem

    Of course china can excel and outperform the west, they cheat and lie,even more than the west does, they do not inflict self harm, they place the state above the individual,

  • @user-po3km8in2h
    @user-po3km8in2h Před dnem

    I'll have kids when the men stop being deadbeats and can keep up with my income and buy a house!

  • @Tommy-hq1yz
    @Tommy-hq1yz Před dnem

    Im honestly concerned that theres going to be "prison edition" publications. The game has enough of a dogma as it is without death row inmates becoming contributors... Very interesting story 👍

  • @mtm5264
    @mtm5264 Před dnem

    I'm glad they highlight the bloated administration at universities. Their growth has been driven in part by fear of lawsuits and trying to keep as many students as possible in class to keep the rankings high.

  • @VasylDemianov
    @VasylDemianov Před dnem

    "Looked like a warzone?" Really? You haven't seen any pictures from Ukraine or Gaza, have you?

  • @ldonnay
    @ldonnay Před dnem

    Why did the head of the university send in the police? Because she didn't want to get in trouble with Republicans like other university presidents, and get fired. She wants to keep her job, and the Republicans backed her into a corner. Now the chaos the GOP created works well for Republicans, because Biden will get blamed, students won't vote for him, and we'll have an autocratic Republican government.

  • @trytwicelikemice3190

    "They hate us for who we are, not for anything we did". You seriously think there's nothing in Israel's history to cause this? Honestly, I support the right of the state of Israel to exist, from where we stand its clearly necessary. BUT there is this weird denial of what the founding of the state, put aside everything since, did to the Palestinian people. Unless Israeli society en masse can gain empathy for the suffering and dislocation they caused in order to establish their own safety, can understand the anger that process caused as legitimate, the two sides will keep talking past each other and there will not be peace.

  • @MalibuPassionFruit

    In this interview, David unfortunately feels like a reflection of oversensitivity than truly listening to Marlon and his perspectives on comedy and formulating questions around that. Still, I enjoyed Marlon's sharing and the essential nature of laughter to human existence.

  • @devilsfavorite999
    @devilsfavorite999 Před dnem

    60 grams of coke? 😢

  • @androidash6901
    @androidash6901 Před dnem

    With all the stuff going on in the world you have to do this story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @larryames8831
    @larryames8831 Před dnem

    Biden is not Trump.

  • @suzannelee854
    @suzannelee854 Před dnem

    Another reason why people don't talk about sex is bcuz there is a lack of commitment in the relationship. Without that, women especially, are reluctant to have sex or to even talk about it.

  • @maryannribble3254
    @maryannribble3254 Před 2 dny

    GabbyPage6929 your black and white judgement lacks much compassion ; understanding ; depth and insight into human beings and their relationships with one another ! Very cold and autocratic if you ! And reminds me of the emotionally repressive and polarized - violent social context worldwide . This seriously threatens us as a species!

  • @carrollhayes6759
    @carrollhayes6759 Před 2 dny

    The cheating spouse isnt honest about home life to get something extra on the side. Wants both.

  • @calj2090
    @calj2090 Před 2 dny

    Is it a mess? 🤔

  • @edwoodsr
    @edwoodsr Před 2 dny

    While I agree that universities should not be run as corporations that 'maximize shareholder value' I didn't hear why that would change the administrative response to the takeover of buildings (and other campus areas) ... actually the responses in 1968 & 2024 seem quite similar.

  • @andresha9391
    @andresha9391 Před 2 dny

    The biggest threat to contemporary civilization is the lack of honesty and conscientiousness - especially among the people who are supposed to inform and enlighten the masses. It's a pity when often the dishonest ignoramuses with an insufficient brain power are trying to "educate" the public on the subject of our - i.e., of the former USSR nations' - reality and history [especially when it is coupled with a strong intention to divide the union of Russian people (i.e., Russians-Ukrainians-Belorussians-Rusyns) - this is the scammers' old colonial trick "divide and conquer"]. Ukraine, being in the Russian state and in the USSR, became the founder of the USSR and of the UN, increased its territory around seven-fold, population - in around 22 times, and finally became the third power in the world by the main civilization characteristics in 1980-ths! As a Ukrainian, I state that the distorting Ukrainian history and reality media personalities and the instigating ethnic strife criminals should be brought to the future Ukraine Nation's Military Tribunal (in the way as it was done for the Nazis by the Nazi-hunting Wiesenthal Institute) - together with the creators and supporters of the scabies/короста on the body of our nation - current puppet néonazi anti-Ukrainian regime in Ukraine. The Hitler collaborators are the main heroes of this regime, the elite force of its army is "Azov" - which was recognized as a néonazi organization even by the US Congress, the slogans and greetings of this regime are copied from the ones of the Hitler collaborators, the anti-nazi are killed by the "death squads" or imprisoned, the national thinker Oles' Busina is demonstratively killed and his killers are funded by the government! The people who really care about the civilization on the planet Earth and the free-thinking Ukrainians will always remember and hunt (again, to bring to the justice - as Wiesenthal did) the war criminals who have brought and/or supported puppet néonazi regimes in Ukraine and started the Civil war in our country ⚡

  • @stephenboyington630

    It is not just 'the left' that dislikes much of what Israel has been doing in Gaza.

  • @lawrencespicer8671
    @lawrencespicer8671 Před 2 dny

    Why the hell are people building barricades and deciding who gets in and out of a public university campus?

  • @tunahelpa5433
    @tunahelpa5433 Před 2 dny

    If being against the senseless murder of 30,000 mothers and children is left wing, then that just proves that anyone who is not left wing is anti-human.

  • @tunahelpa5433
    @tunahelpa5433 Před 2 dny

    There is a visceral reaction to the ongoing genocide, that's all. You can't assuage that with police. You must respond with empathy for dead mothers and their children.

  • @harryhippie978
    @harryhippie978 Před 2 dny

    Whoever that guy speaker is, yuck.

  • @Avacado721
    @Avacado721 Před 2 dny

    Having read dozens of comments here, I’ll skip.

  • @qjsharing2408
    @qjsharing2408 Před 2 dny

    The conundrum between chicken and beef is strong. Eating chicken hurts chickens. Eating beef hurts future people

  • @llamaboss1434
    @llamaboss1434 Před 2 dny

    Would this be described as "a mess", and the protestors as "confused", if the protestors were rightoids?

  • @rapauli
    @rapauli Před 2 dny

    You pretend to discuss, but you just want to argue. bye

  • @rapauli
    @rapauli Před 2 dny

    Bobert and Beetljuice -- never argue with a college students who are paying attention

  • @bryanmurray9846
    @bryanmurray9846 Před 2 dny

    Its the height of inconsistency and hypocrisy for Biden or anyone else to invoke Rule of Law when speaking of protestors while he sends billions and arms to a State that flouts international law, rule of law and even treaties to which they are signatories in unprecedented heinous ways.

  • @oldasrocks9121
    @oldasrocks9121 Před 2 dny

    Who were the counter protestors exactly? Some pro-Palestinian students have publically claimed Proud Boys and others similar were involved.

    • @TrishV1
      @TrishV1 Před dnem

      The counter protesters were the Pro-Israeli group. You can go back and catch it when you re-listen to the podcast, but it seems to be intentionally misleading/confusing. I'm sure the NYT isn't allowed to expicitly say that the Pro-Israel group were the ones being violent and the reason the cops had to get involved.

  • @itweety21
    @itweety21 Před 2 dny

    Joe will have been definitely against the civil rights protest 🪧 😂😂😂 what he describe is what any protests moment do including the January 6 terrorist/ 🪧 according to the Donald no arrest there lol. My take democratic party definitely NOT looking for the college vote this year .