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First husband was sociopath. Second a sociopath. Third a narcissist. I feel as if I can’t win.

For me the best revenge has been getting to that point of indifference. For a long time I would check toxic friends or ex’s Instagrams, or would still be following them. I set a boundary to block them, and never look again. This was years ago, and it was the best thing I ever did. I never really think about any of them anymore, and this is my version of winning 😁 because I’m happier.

Yes, empower women from the very beginning.

Powerful!!!

What is that white disc on her arm (Lisa)?

The bleeping out in this interview is so distracting

Brilliant.. Bravo! Thank you!!🌹

What are your thoughts on Grapefruit before a meal?

As an INTJ woman, I and many of my female INTJ counterparts have dated narcissists as well. They are attracted to our intelligence, long roster of achievements, and indomitable spirits (which they see as a challenge to dominate). While we’re very rational, many of us are secretly very empathetic and humanitarian (tertiary Fi when developed), and also don’t tend to judge people for going against social norms (as many low-empathy types often do). Our hyper-rationality also tends to cause us to doubt our gut or our feelings when we don’t have concrete data to back it up (secondary Te). Honestly, Robert Hare, who first observed and developed the concept of psychopathy, said anyone can easily be sucked into their manipulation and charm, and Hare cited examples of highly trained team members interviewing known psychopaths in prison and being sucked into their charm. What makes you most vulnerable is thinking that you aren’t.

lisa believe you. this was a good episode.

My journal was my greatest asset, dealing with a narcissist. Also I noted fights, drunk driving, binges, etc on the kitchen calendar. There was the pattern in its truest colors. No lying.

No attention just avoidance of uncomfortable interaction with these negativity projecting entities 🕳️ so draining conservation ⛽4 di distancing

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Is she talking in fast forward mode? Lol

'hey, you got a light?'. Nope. That guy does not need a lighter from me, he just wants me to get within 3 feet of him so he can ask me for something else. Classic checking for social compliance.

I so needed to hear all this today! It really helped me with all these thoughts going through my head! Thank you ladies!!!

I love Terri Cole. She really helped me a few years ago. I appreciate her giving people the dialogue they need to navigate those situations where we were taught to people please or cater to narcissistic parents or family members.

I have been battling with chronic fatigue for over a yr now especially an hour after eating I just left like crashing but wasn’t tired like I needed to sleep. I’d grab a coffee and I now realized it was my glucose rollercoaster. I experimented her protocol and WOW 🤯 I immediately felt the difference. I can now eat then feel satisfied for up to 6 hours. Extraordinary!! The most exciting thing for me is I don’t have to give up my piece of chocolate cake. I now eat it after dinner with zero guilt. 😌

I AM BOTH ENTJ OR INTJ. MY HUSBAND AND OTHER MEN ALWAYS COMPETE WITH ME AND I LIKE HAVING MALE FRIENDS OVER FEMALE FRIENDS. IN REALITY I WISH I WASN'T SO MUCH OF A THINKER AS I GROW..I AM GRATEFUL FOR IT, BUT LIFE WAS SO MUCH FUNNER AND EXCITING WHEN I WAS NAIVE.

Why are some Men doing 50/50 in marriages, dating and relationships: 1. According to a 2019 report from Azusa Pacific University and UC Merced, 33% of women are on dating apps to used Men solely for “FOODIE CALl” which means 33% of schedules dates with Men they aren't interested in just to get a free meal. 2. According to New York Post! These women claim If they had been forced to pay, they probably wouldn’t have been able to eat for months afterward. So what do those women do on social media on daily basis they shame Men! Using tactics like insult shame and guilt to keep habitually taking advantage of the generosity Men! 3. According to daily Mail, HALF of married women, women in serious relationships, women who are seriously dating have a fall-back partner on standby who has always fancied them, in case their current relationship turns sour. 4 According to AmericanSociologicalAssociation 70% all divorces are caused and initiated by women: Partly due to how many men have been screwed over by “good” women. If things go bad in a marriage, the guy generally has the most to lose financially. Child care and alimony are typically paid by the guy. To all the women in the comments using insults, shame and guilt towards these Men! Tell Me that after knowing all these facts you will advise your brother, uncle, son, father, etc to keep on moving with a blind eye knowing what some women out there are doing to these good Men. in a capitalist society that’s adjusted for dual income households, you’re basically saying over 90% of men are “broke”. And those 10% that aren’t broke are wealthy individuals with a lot of options that will likely choose a woman with a healthier mental state than you’ve displayed in this video, so good luck.

Why are some Men doing 50/50 in marriages, dating and relationships: 1. According to a 2019 report from Azusa Pacific University and UC Merced, 33% of women are on dating apps to used Men solely for “FOODIE CALl” which means 33% of schedules dates with Men they aren't interested in just to get a free meal. 2. According to New York Post! These women claim If they had been forced to pay, they probably wouldn’t have been able to eat for months afterward. So what do those women do on social media on daily basis they shame Men! Using tactics like insult shame and guilt to keep habitually taking advantage of the generosity Men! 3. According to daily Mail, HALF of married women, women in serious relationships, women who are seriously dating have a fall-back partner on standby who has always fancied them, in case their current relationship turns sour. 4 According to AmericanSociologicalAssociation 70% all divorces are caused and initiated by women: Partly due to how many men have been screwed over by “good” women. If things go bad in a marriage, the guy generally has the most to lose financially. Child care and alimony are typically paid by the guy. To all the women in the comments using insults, shame and guilt towards these Men! Tell Me that after knowing all these facts you will advise your brother, uncle, son, father, etc to keep on moving with a blind eye knowing what some women out there are doing to these good Men. in a capitalist society that’s adjusted for dual income households, you’re basically saying over 90% of men are “broke”. And those 10% that aren’t broke are wealthy individuals with a lot of options that will likely choose a woman with a healthier mental state than you’ve displayed in this video, so good luck.

I love thiis woman.

Folks just think of it as training. Now, you know what to look for or what looks familiar, you know what to do and what NOT to do

If he only wants sex he will try to convince you that he doesn't want sex.

Yes I say all the time in starved of love and it is so horrible

This was like you were identifying my past relationship I just left

I LOVE HER

What a trashy person.

I've started telling people to remember that humans are the worst predators I've known, and they should be treated accordingly. I've left a marriage of over 35 to a grandiose narcissist that literally almost killed me, whether by threat, situation or so much stress it almost ended me and I am very leery of people now.

Never heard of Dirty John. Going to look this up before I continue to listen to this podcast beyond the 20 minutes mark. Thanks 👍

SADRAT is literally the D.E.N.N.I.S system 😂

What about brain injury

Mine terrorized me on the road. He liked to pull the emergency brake on the freeway.

INFJ here.

The way to know if someone is using you is that they will be talking to you and/or standing next to you.

I think sometimes good people get attracted to the bad boy/girl person who they think they can change into what they're looking for, but don't ever think about the fact that they're entertaining trouble (or they do, but they're just reckless with themselves.). I've seen the out there bad boy, whom everyone likes/loves, father/husband, etc. a man of the community with a big mouth and thinks he's everything a woman needs. He's more evil than anyone can imagine. Eventually the mask will come off, but you must learn to discern between good and evil.

This explains why my narcissistic husband abandoned me after brain surgery and his new relationship was with his 12 year old niece. I was replaced in three weeks

Wait..this man is hot, not "grey".

They call it going Grey Rock 🪨 with showing no emotion and no engaging! Then run as fast as you can!!! Let them go

We are to blame for these sick people getting ahead. Majority of people are so easily manipulated without responsibly searching for facts. Most people are so easily lead down the wrong path and then they don’t want to admit they were stupid and wrong so they keep following. We will be our own demise. Really. So everyone has theories and writes books and goes on talk shows. Does the cia fbi like this guy being out there? Why did he leave or asked to leave?

Grief is a change we didn’t want 1:02:04

I aged like 10 years living with a narcissist for 4 years. Everything was about her, even the negativity we were going through.

Words spoken confidently may not be genuinely beneficial. Wake up.

The shirt was enough for me. 💩alert. Actor with a R0le to play. It's a JOB.

My ex literally said he can “mold and change himself to fit any situation and get what he wants and win” He literally told me that about 2 weeks in. This is when I started my digital agenda and documented everything I’m about 3 months after months of love bombing, I noticed he completely pulled away. Causing me to start chasing. This lasted just a few days before I remembered all of the podcast that I listen to. All 3 months I noticed he would ask me for things, want to spend the night a lot because it was closer to his job, and he would want me to buy him things. Educate yourself ladies.

I often use time and distance with men. Redirecting when I know their not for me

Women often lose their good judgment ability when they start sleeping with the man. I don’t jump right In but try to get to know them for a few months first and glad for it!

When I heard about autistic people being frustrated, it was an aha moment for me, thank you so much for this

I dislike your lesbian haircut.

I dislike your lesbian haircut.