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I believe my ex might be bisexual because he always lied cheated and had a strong spirit of lust. He is very sneaky. I spent 30 years with him. We were only 15 years old when we met. It’s by the grace of God I got out! Towards the end I had four UTIs and they were pretty bad. I never felt loved I had low self esteem. I knew something was off. I know things could’ve been worse thank you for sharing this information. It’s really helping so many people. It’s really shedding the light on the darkness. That gut feeling comes from God God bless you.

Yes, you hit the nail on the head so many times in this video.... I have lived this precise relationship experience for a year and half - transforming (to love and kindness), healing, enduring, and forgiving along the way. Once I figured out the correct label for the pattern of behaviour (about 5 months ago), so much confusion fell away. Thank you for the validation your video provides.

How articulate and truthful your authentic session was

Got an old man narcissist down the street strang bird for years , stalker and has flying m9nkeys😊

Feel invisible around my narcissistic father he acts like he owns me .

This is what my father does he's very neglectful he's one sided on everything I cannot do anything right .

This describes me so well, yet my therapist tells me I am not a narc as I have sought out help. As for sex, not had it before the plandemic, and I know I will never have it again. Not only that the veiws of others on stuff like bi sexuality, are still as prevailant today as the ywere in the 60's and 70's.

Monogamy is actually narcissistic . They feel superior by being chosen over others

I'm so sick of these "self help gurus". All they know how to do is to tell you "you're not alone. Call someone else on a hotline. Have a nice day." I just saw a video where tons of people said they called and the hotline is a fn WASTE. They talk to you for 5 or 10 minutes and tell you there's someone else than you waiting on hold. DONT do the damn suicide videos if you're just going to bs your way through it and tell people to call a useless "hotline"!

It isn't always the case of a famous person being stalked by a fan. Sometimes the more rare thing happens is when a famous person who has made it despite all of the odds out of the blue will contact someone they have all along heard gossip about to test the person whom they heard about to see if they get an expected over reaction from that target. If they get an over reaction then then next copy cats from the communal narcissism crowd they are in will keep on doing that sort of thing from time to time just to remind themselves and that target about how much more successful of a person they are than the target. That is called gang stalking regardless of how succesful in the world some of the people in that gang are.

Please talk more about moral superiority. Pharisees

Do you know why the entire narcissistic abuse community was harassing me for 6 years?? Producing gaslighting content to harm me? Do you know who did this? Because nobody will help me. I feel s*c*dal - 30 burglaries - last few - grand theft - and I think my neighbors are involved in committing the burglaries here - I’m physically disabled after a fall during this stalking- fell because of the harassment and electronic intrusion- was too stressed out and fell - I had been isolated in the smear so nobody took me to the hospital- please help me recover my property if you know the platforms who knew about this - false accusations- the Queen Bee was involved- I need my stuff back - pictures of my dad stolen- he died from cancer recently- maybe you know? - I’m a skier - my dad was too - please help find my stuff.

I feel sorry for the new supply, she got a bumpy ride ahead of herself. My ex narc friend got together with a controlling narc who already programmed her to ruin our friendship of 16 years and she was hoping to simply replace me with another person that is similar to me.

Also. Strange ball of light in the video at 16:16

I called mine the emotionally constipated manager

When I had Sex with my now separated 19 year wife and I always told her she is Great in Bed but it was Like Banging a 1 pound warm glob of hamburger meat…I. Will do her Sister soon lol!!!…

Men are always the blame. Women are never held accountable. That’s the vibe I’m getting from this.

I’m surrounded by narcs, it’s so exhausting..my son, my mother, my siblings, my child’s father, the men I dated…I isolated myself from mostly everyone except my mother and my son.

My son just did this to me..I told him to wash dishes and I noticed he just went to bed without doing it. So this morning I confronted him in a calm manner, he swore I had a tone he didn’t like. He shifted the blame to where I agreed 🤦🏾‍♀️

yessss they compartmentalize worlds.

omg, money petty, ocd, you described my ex, she never hugged her kids, just provided.

the ones you wish would argue, even in sight out of mind

I remember closing his computer and feeling so ugly, sick, sad, used. The history on the computer was on the screen. I thought it said juice box…. No, it said juicy boys.

This describes exactly my wife except that she’s an active mother. She’s also sort of a kid with the kids. Does that make sense?

Well I’ve learned my husband has been doing porn for 42 years. I’ve been married/with him for 25 years my whole marriage. I’m in the middle of a divorce and he now going counseling. It’s too late for the marriage .. I’m out!

Tell all the gals to get a head save Caz RAWALPINDI has entered Chat💋

Ab Tu Iv seen his workout video Meyra Tu Khushi Kay maray Jinaza hi nikal giya hai The Boy is So Mine🧿 I dn't get the odd hate though✨

All I said was omr HAWT as Fuck..then I got attacked by fat ppl... ahahaaaaaaa..id so marry him in a ❤ beat..Iv always said it...I dn't get the hate..he hardly knows anyways...I know enough to knw he's Fine 🍷 Then the bombardment of odd lame unrelatable quotes..I dn't knw why..why wud ugly folks stalk me.. shouldn't they look in the mirror..🌹

It's like being in a relationship with a fkn corpse!!

I had a woman come up behind me at an event. She said to me that I seemed like A nice person and asked me why I was with the person I was with. She said that I should find another boyfriend, because he has some “deep dark secrets “ . When I asked what, when, where, why, who? She didn’t give me any receipts. So I thought she was just trying to cause trouble. I wanted some info as to how she knew but she didn’t give me anything. I wish she would have. I would have RAN!

This is so hard nobody understands but you did thank you for this video.

I don't recommend telling therapist you're suicidal because they'll lock you up with very sick, drug addicted and homeless people.. Talking to friends and family is not good because they don't understand and get scared. You have to go to God Study the Bible, spirit of madness, rejection and abandonment. Study psychology and pamper yourself. Tell your Dr you are very anxious and depressed and you need meds and talk therapy to discuss why you're hurting.

Excellent summary.

Very good video. A lot of really good information, and you described the narcissist I experienced perfectly. Blech 🤮 It’s crazy. Thank you.

This hit the nail on the head! After 36 years and 10 knowing the truth, I’m still trying to wrap my head around it all being deliberate. It’s quite literally crazy making! He was absolutely neglectful of his parents and siblings. I worked hard to maintain relationships with his family even though they treated me horribly.

if they can't control you, first they will try to 'love bomb' you hopefully u will return to them. if love bomb fails, narc will control how others see you, smear campaign etc. just like little kid telling other kids not to play/talk to you Narc is fascinating people that couldn't mature mentally, filled with jealous juice and vengeance.

I feel a friend of mine is . And it's hard to Pinpoint because we are not always around eachother , I get a bad feeling about her-

I won’t be mad I promise

Was that with me or in the past?

Hmmm

I feel it now 😔

I've been asking in several groups about exposing the one that tried something so strong that I sorta self imprisoned myself, because of what happened. I came within 110th of a second of shooting someone who I only know who works this person. Last week I have never seen him go all out to get me to do a job for him and the person who was helping caused me to get a cut on a finger requiring stitches, as it happened I saw a red face with the horns, I swear. The hour prior he had polluted the area with noises from dogs barking, music that you don't know and questions over and over again triangulated and he went onto saying that you don't have to do the work your way but mine, and you have been going on for hours and you don't back down and he is changing the agreement, altogether and you have left your tools at one place and injured at another, and for hours you hear him say he didn't want this person driving and you tell him you have license and he changes it again and you have to make them think you're going to do the work and get there just to get your tools back, and they drive past your own house and park 1 1/2 miles away and you have to carry your tools. And out of the blue, one of his flying monkeys come charging at you with a golf club saying he was going to wrap it around your head for telling the narcissist stuff and you drop your tools and step back one step and have your hand on your gun in your pocket and another step toward by him would have made you a subject to injury and you don't even know this person name. I'm going to have to get it and pay for the warrant and I guess a restraining order, I've been in prison of my own home this week and I want my independence back.

It's so sad when this person is your father!

When the body says no by Gabor Mate. Another brilliant book to read...❤

It's a game that they have to win. A covert narcissist told me that one day. Shocking!!! 😳😧😦😔

N have lot of secrets and make their victims do so

A porn addiction, a harem of about 5 people ( that i know of ) including a good friends husband plus random guys.....dodged a massive bullet. Just waiting for the health check results.

how can we distinguish them from normal dismissive avoidants? just by the intensity? i guess it's all a spectruM? The severe dismissives are neglectful narcissist? because all you are describing is dismissive avoidant as well

do they also behave hot and cold, like somties they suddenly act charming and warm, but only for short?

Absolutely not. Let them enjoy every bit of what you had