They see the old supply as an enemy someone they are compared to by the narcissist and they will be "the one". In their eyes you didn't cut it and weren't special like them. But they have to learn for themselves. It all comes out in the wash.
It’s crazy how others have no clue what is in store for them. What a shame. My dilemma is I’m a B**TCH because I’ve wanted to teach her kids respect, responsibility, discipline. For several years their dads are no where to be found to assist with them finically but I’m a piece of 💩because I’ve loved them enough to help them. Years I put up with being told to F off, F you, calling me the B and C word as well as being called a PHAGGOT because I’m a soft butch. And they’ve all made me into the crazy one while I settle. NOPE not any more! This is insane the videos I’ve been watching by you. To the T you are describing her! NONE of them can accept responsibility! They ALL claim to do NO wrong and that it’s all in my head 😢
I didn't contact the new supply to warn him, but to ask if she was sleeping with him at the same time. I was mad that she was putting me at risks for STIs. I know you are not supposed to contact the new supply, but my health was my first concern.
I am working really hard to mind my own business and let people figure things out on their own because I know that any other response will fuel the narcissists - it will only give them more ammunition to fire.
Don't warn the new source of supply. Bring pain down on the narcissist with such veheminent rage, that they'll not even give the next source a moments consideration.
The only warning I got prior to marrying my (now ex) was from her stepdad who told me "you don't know what you're getting into). I wasn't sure what he meant...I'd never researched narcissism back in 1994 to know what red flags to look out for. When my ex was engaged to her now husband, I didn't say a word to him because I knew he was already a self-centered person who didn't deserve to be warned. I could tell by how he hogged the TV remote and didn't let my daughter watch her shows. And later I found out through doing due-diligence online surfing that this guy had done 6 months in jail for molesting a previous stepdaughter when she was 9. So...yeah, our judge sided with me to have primary custody when we had a custody battle...he said it was for the sake of my daughter's "continuity and stability". Plus, she's always been a "daddy's girl" ever since before we adopted her at age 2. She still lives with me now she's 21. We're just fine...the two of us and 6 cats.
It's a truly great video, but I a bit disagree. Yes, I wouldn't believe if someone approached & warned me about the narcissist. But this warning would be definitely some kind of red flag to me. Because it'd help me doubt all the lies he told me (when he already got into abusive stage of relationship), plus prevent me from making some stupid decisions, & I'd finish this toxic relationship faster . That's why I'd be grateful if someone had warned me ahead about the narcissist.
My wife is a covert narcissist. we was married for 18yrs with three children and I got proof of her infidelity. I am so devastated. Recovery is so hard, she is doing a smear campaign on me currently. I am going towards divorce, what advice I can get on recovery would be much appreciated.
The type of person that falls for a covert narcissist loves the drama and love bombas. It's so much fun. I loved it too. Great memories but not authentic. You have to go through the pain to learn it isn't worth it. You have to become an emasculated pathetic try hard codependent before you'll see it isn't worth it. I didn't ever consider warning the new source. I was married to one for 15 years and would never go back to that hell even though it wasn't hell all the time. There were respite periods. I survived it and am more self aware and a healthy person now. The experience taught me a lot about myself and my lack of valuing my own self. Took me awhile to work through that but I feel peace now and I have no animosity towards my ex. I actually see narcissism as a spiritual problem and very difficult to break away from if you have those traits.
Them flying monkeys are just as bad as the narcissist they don't want to ruin there friendship so they just go along with the narcissist sad situation no common sense for sure
Something has to be done about this. I realize there is only so much I can control, however.. when a person is unstable.. when they go off their meds and have blackout episodes and wreck their car they could kill someone! This is a serious problem in society!!
It sure is. IMO emotional abuse should be a crime and their parents should be held accountable for unleashing a predator into society. Victims should be able to call upon expert witnesses to testify on their behalf. All other scams are a crime. It makes no sense to me why romance scams aren’t. It’s a form of emotional rape.
Hi Kat! I'd appreciate if you can contact me. I'm divorcing a borderline woman and I'm in urgent need of a lawyer who understands cluster b personalities. Please let me know if you have any recommendations.
My narc ex treats his new girlfriend great. They’ve been together a long time. These videos are all bullshit. I was the fat,ugly problem in our relationship
It drives them closer together if you warn the New.
That’s actually a really good reason to do it then
Coach Kat nailed it! No one could have convinced me during the love bombing stage. Best thing to do is to move on and thrive.
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Screaming ABSOLUTELY NOT! NC FOR LIFE
They see the old supply as an enemy someone they are compared to by the narcissist and they will be "the one". In their eyes you didn't cut it and weren't special like them. But they have to learn for themselves. It all comes out in the wash.
The truth will not come out for the latest. Why can’t you people all realize that the problem is us?
My ex was just like Amber Heard. It's funny how art imitates life.
So was mine haha. She recorded me after provoking me to react to her hateful words, lies and lack of accountability.
@@KN-os1pv Wow i forgot about Coach Kat, i haven't seen her in about 6 months. Her videos are some of the best on narcissism.
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It’s crazy how others have no clue what is in store for them. What a shame. My dilemma is I’m a B**TCH because I’ve wanted to teach her kids respect, responsibility, discipline. For several years their dads are no where to be found to assist with them finically but I’m a piece of 💩because I’ve loved them enough to help them. Years I put up with being told to F off, F you, calling me the B and C word as well as being called a PHAGGOT because I’m a soft butch. And they’ve all made me into the crazy one while I settle. NOPE not any more! This is insane the videos I’ve been watching by you. To the T you are describing her! NONE of them can accept responsibility! They ALL claim to do NO wrong and that it’s all in my head 😢
Peace and blessings Kat 🙏💜
Amen lady. You are so right. Thanks for all you do.
I didn't contact the new supply to warn him, but to ask if she was sleeping with him at the same time. I was mad that she was putting me at risks for STIs. I know you are not supposed to contact the new supply, but my health was my first concern.
Absolutely not. Let them enjoy every bit of what you had
Our moral obligation is to tell real human beings they are dealing with a psychopathic criminal narcissist, they are not human
I am working really hard to mind my own business and let people figure things out on their own because I know that any other response will fuel the narcissists - it will only give them more ammunition to fire.
Don't warn the new source of supply. Bring pain down on the narcissist with such veheminent rage, that they'll not even give the next source a moments consideration.
They'll learn the hard way... the only way they will authentically be able to ultimately understand
The only warning I got prior to marrying my (now ex) was from her stepdad who told me "you don't know what you're getting into). I wasn't sure what he meant...I'd never researched narcissism back in 1994 to know what red flags to look out for. When my ex was engaged to her now husband, I didn't say a word to him because I knew he was already a self-centered person who didn't deserve to be warned. I could tell by how he hogged the TV remote and didn't let my daughter watch her shows. And later I found out through doing due-diligence online surfing that this guy had done 6 months in jail for molesting a previous stepdaughter when she was 9. So...yeah, our judge sided with me to have primary custody when we had a custody battle...he said it was for the sake of my daughter's "continuity and stability". Plus, she's always been a "daddy's girl" ever since before we adopted her at age 2. She still lives with me now she's 21. We're just fine...the two of us and 6 cats.
It's a truly great video, but I a bit disagree. Yes, I wouldn't believe if someone approached & warned me about the narcissist. But this warning would be definitely some kind of red flag to me. Because it'd help me doubt all the lies he told me (when he already got into abusive stage of relationship), plus prevent me from making some stupid decisions, & I'd finish this toxic relationship faster . That's why I'd be grateful if someone had warned me ahead about the narcissist.
I exposed my narcissist, but will not tell anyone that is still in her life about it, because that could be dangerous.
Thank you.
Yes my mother in law, and old supply kept saying HE'S NOT NORMAL! LEAVE HIM ALONE... SMH I believed them. I just thought I could fix it/him
My wife is a covert narcissist. we was married for 18yrs with three children and I got proof of her infidelity. I am so devastated. Recovery is so hard, she is doing a smear campaign on me currently. I am going towards divorce, what advice I can get on recovery would be much appreciated.
The type of person that falls for a covert narcissist loves the drama and love bombas. It's so much fun. I loved it too. Great memories but not authentic. You have to go through the pain to learn it isn't worth it. You have to become an emasculated pathetic try hard codependent before you'll see it isn't worth it. I didn't ever consider warning the new source. I was married to one for 15 years and would never go back to that hell even though it wasn't hell all the time. There were respite periods. I survived it and am more self aware and a healthy person now. The experience taught me a lot about myself and my lack of valuing my own self. Took me awhile to work through that but I feel peace now and I have no animosity towards my ex. I actually see narcissism as a spiritual problem and very difficult to break away from if you have those traits.
So true. This happened to my wife. Ugghhh
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Them flying monkeys are just as bad as the narcissist they don't want to ruin there friendship so they just go along with the narcissist sad situation no common sense for sure
Something has to be done about this. I realize there is only so much I can control, however.. when a person is unstable.. when they go off their meds and have blackout episodes and wreck their car they could kill someone! This is a serious problem in society!!
This has nothing to do with people being narcissistic.
It sure is. IMO emotional abuse should be a crime and their parents should be held accountable for unleashing a predator into society. Victims should be able to call upon expert witnesses to testify on their behalf. All other scams are a crime. It makes no sense to me why romance scams aren’t. It’s a form of emotional rape.
Hi Kat! I'd appreciate if you can contact me. I'm divorcing a borderline woman and I'm in urgent need of a lawyer who understands cluster b personalities. Please let me know if you have any recommendations.
My narc ex treats his new girlfriend great.
They’ve been together a long time. These videos are all bullshit. I was the fat,ugly problem in our relationship