How to deal with living in a house with negative people

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2017

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  • @michaeljarreau3185
    @michaeljarreau3185 Před 6 lety +60

    I needed to hear this cause I have some negative ass people in my family. One in particular always coming around putting a burden on other people. This was a excellent video for me

    • @michaeljarreau3185
      @michaeljarreau3185 Před 6 lety +5

      Shayla Johnson yup and the fucked up part about is, sometimes I feel like I can't get away from it . The only thing I can do is try to stay strong and positive

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +4

      micheal jarreau. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

    • @michaeljarreau3185
      @michaeljarreau3185 Před 6 lety

      Tyler JTI when you get chance, check your email cause I email you back

    • @theuglybeing4673
      @theuglybeing4673 Před 6 lety

      michael jarreau IKR

    • @taniathomas7353
      @taniathomas7353 Před 5 lety

      michael jarreau Stand firm

  • @s.b.9299
    @s.b.9299 Před 6 lety +27

    thank you this was me all my life ha, love my own space now and time alone , all toxic family r crazy

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +4

      lovingmyself. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @carrieparkermusic
    @carrieparkermusic Před 6 lety +16

    I’ve had a couple roommates that were very cool then a few months later it was different. So negative. Now have a new roommate same situation. I began doing all the things you’ve talked about. They’ve asked why don’t I want to watch tv with them. They’ve realized a lot. But it’s very draining as a very positive person. I just keep sending love. Next move will be my own place ❤️💯

    • @thierryestiverne4686
      @thierryestiverne4686 Před 2 lety

      Never move is move out change your number on their ass and start moving different and turn your back on them for the better and cut their ass all off for the better you gotta do what’s best for you

  • @gerrimiller6607
    @gerrimiller6607 Před 4 lety +6

    You know that individual that is super nice when they only want to benefit themselves.... once they get what they want ( 💰 cash money, food, a ride, whatever they try to get outta ya) they change back into the Hell raiser🦇... love 💕 ya handsome Tyler🦊

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 Před 2 lety

      Or stonecold and pretend like they don't know you. I have two family members who come the house like that.

  • @thirdeyethirst6000
    @thirdeyethirst6000 Před 5 lety +7

    Damn this is so true man, thank you for making this video you couldn't of said it any better.. that is very painful to go thru I experienced it myself I wish that on nobody

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 Před 3 lety +2

    I have two very negative notorious narc who live in my home or come to stay due to having rights to the house, and avoid them like the plague because if I sit around them then they blow hot and cold on purpose and if I say something they try to say I am imagining it. They watch everything I do and give negative opinions or cut their eyes at me. My husband looks at everything around the house to micromanage me with..etc. I can't even join him for movie time cause he is cold. I asked to spend quality time with both of the people and each signed or blew me off or acted like I was interrupting something really important they were doing. I have got tired of it all so I keep to myself in my own room and it is quite peaceful.

  • @brooklyn90s77
    @brooklyn90s77 Před 5 lety +7

    How can I deal with a negative parent. Or a parent who gossips about nothing but negatively. And gossips about there children’s personal business

    • @Queenlylux
      @Queenlylux Před 4 lety +2

      510_fitness try to not me phased by it , practice not caring and keep your personal life private from her/him & thier family member , keep walking away from thier petty little arguements & keep your finances etc privately. Build a life outside the house (hobbies, gym etc) & dont do anything the give them a story

    • @tanyawashington6338
      @tanyawashington6338 Před 4 lety +1

      Right! I did exactly what Tyler is saying. Made sure I spoke, but kept my business to myself unless I was talking about something positive that happened. Well.. They had nothing but negative things to say. People are weird! They generally dont like themselves. So they try to make you not like yourself. They see light in you and dont want you to have it in you. They'll try everything they can to make you feel like shit. When you don't...watch out! So sad.

  • @saffire3013
    @saffire3013 Před 6 lety +10

    HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVE NEIGHBORS? I NEED A EMERGENCY VIDEO ON THAT..CAUSE I WAS trying to throw away some garbage in my building when the neighbor whom happens to live nearby the incinerator door always comes out and harassing me in the hallway..i don't know what to do other than tomorrow I'm going to notify the landlord about this evil enity.

    • @refi6438
      @refi6438 Před 6 lety +4

      S A F F I R E L ask them wtf is wrong with you and leave me alone!!

    • @saffire3013
      @saffire3013 Před 6 lety +2

      Re Fi They threaten me for no reason like I think she's a crackhead

    • @saffire3013
      @saffire3013 Před 6 lety +2

      Travis Kelly In New York city if a Amazon 30 yr old woman who is 298 muscles and not fat hits a old was woman ..they will lock me up

    • @saffire3013
      @saffire3013 Před 6 lety +1

      Travis Kelly I have security in my building i notify them right after it happened

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +1

      Saffriel. please email me your video request at tjlwriter32@gmail. com so that I won't forget. peace and blessings to you.

  • @tamwa8723
    @tamwa8723 Před 6 lety +2

    Omgoodness. I'm so loving you. It's like you're saying, "snap the fuck outta that coma."

  • @taeetaeelit3271
    @taeetaeelit3271 Před 6 lety +10

    Thank you Tyler! You are the best for this! You hit it on the nail! as if you were here with me! I will most deff try those methods, im student for now & instead of going home i'll just stay at the library for a few hours! I dont like the negative energy these two people give off when im around! im a very positive person and I see the best in everything & its hard to be positive around a negative force! I Will be glad when I Find a job so I can finally move!

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +1

      TaeTaeeLit. Thank you so much for your commetn .PEACE AND BLESSINGS TO YOU!

    • @gerrimiller6607
      @gerrimiller6607 Před 4 lety

      I usually say : lord block all negative entities from me and help me to keep my peace

  • @MelsPlace29
    @MelsPlace29 Před 6 lety +4

    Thank you. I live with a toxic person, 21 yr old daughter of my boyfriend, she either ignores me never says hello. Once told me I wasn't likable or interesting and she didn't respect me, all in front of my boyfriend, who did nothing by the way.

    • @starisesun7692
      @starisesun7692 Před 4 lety +3

      Dump him

    • @tanyawashington6338
      @tanyawashington6338 Před 4 lety +1

      Chances are, he's talked badly about you to her. My mother talked about her friends. As a child that made me not like or respect them. Let him go.

  • @lovegoddess29
    @lovegoddess29 Před 4 lety +4

    Get video! I came to realize that my mom is a covert narc plus she complains a hell of a whole lot! I simply stopped talking to her in the house. I don't ask her for anything! She goes to work in the morning n I go to work in the evening. Therefore we barely see each other in the house. If she's home one day, I just get ready n walk right past her. I know she feels like shit when I do this, oh well. Also if she tries to get me to engage in her negativity, I simply tell her, "I can't talk right now, I'm busy. We'll talk later", then turn up the volume on my radio or plug in my sound-canceling earphones n listen to music or an audio book. As I'm getting ready in the bathroom, my ears are plugged in just in case she comes at me with her negative shit. I been doin this for a while now n she got the message. She pretty much stopped coming at me in the bathroom with her stupidity. Very occasionally will she pretend to enter the bathroom to grab something. So childish and annoying! Can't wait to move out! She put me through so much these past 3 years. And I've been nothing but a good child to her and overall. Karma gon tear that ass up one day!
    I Also do a few of the things you said like go shopping or window shopping, the library, bookstore, etc. By the time you get home, they're sleeping and you feel better overall.

    • @tanyawashington6338
      @tanyawashington6338 Před 4 lety +2

      Also jealous of you. How a woman can be jealous of their own child is unbelievable

    • @lovegoddess29
      @lovegoddess29 Před 4 lety +1

      @@tanyawashington6338 I know right! It's NOT normal! This is how you know she has a personality disorder. And that's Narcississtic Personality Disorder, no doubt about that!

  • @linnaewillis8737
    @linnaewillis8737 Před 5 lety +3

    Hello Tyler , thank you so much for this video. I myself am in this situation and now I know what steps to take to fix it. Thanks for you're blunt but caring advice. God bless you have a great day!

  • @jaybae7315
    @jaybae7315 Před 2 lety +2

    The best thing to do is to stay out of sight and out of mind.

  • @dontworryaboutit8213
    @dontworryaboutit8213 Před 6 lety +7

    Perfect timing Tyler, Peace and blessings beat you to it lol

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +3

      dontworryaboutit. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @tonyglass9065
    @tonyglass9065 Před 6 lety +1

    Tyler I just want to say man I ran into your Channel today I love you keep doing what you doing you are a blessing melanated brother

  • @properlike11
    @properlike11 Před 6 lety +10

    You are so beautiful Tyler😍😍 Enjoy your day today💋

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +4

      proper like. thank you so muchm I appreciate your comment. peace and blessings to you

  • @katerinapatiniotis5598
    @katerinapatiniotis5598 Před 6 lety +3

    Thank you very much sir, for your valuable time you spend to help us with your advice. I'm dealing with very negative relatives and a negative father who's accusing myself and the rest of my family to every person he knows.

  • @nicolep.scorpio5506
    @nicolep.scorpio5506 Před 5 lety +5

    My mother is my problem

  • @donnajustbeingreal6607
    @donnajustbeingreal6607 Před 6 lety +4

    Great points to avoid bull. 👍💛

  • @marcusbiggs621
    @marcusbiggs621 Před 5 lety

    What you're saying is the truth, Thank you so much and I love all of your videos. :) ♡😀😃❤❤

  • @soniccan9960
    @soniccan9960 Před 2 lety

    Tyler u make me feel better sending you and your family peace and blessings 💖💖💖💖😊😊

  • @lindaaiello9391
    @lindaaiello9391 Před 5 lety +1

    LMAO!!!! I love you Tyler! This is the greatest advice!

  • @FeachC
    @FeachC Před 6 lety +5

    I've Doing This Method For A While hahaha Thank You Tyler This Is True

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety

      feach c. thank you so much for your comment peace and blessings to you.

  • @Lutf_fitness
    @Lutf_fitness Před 4 lety

    Great video i needed this.. Thanks

  • @MrTedclayton
    @MrTedclayton Před 6 lety +1

    Great video

  • @Gillidiamonds
    @Gillidiamonds Před 6 lety +7

    Thank you SO much!!!!!!

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety

      gillidimonds. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @frhickinredhead6141
    @frhickinredhead6141 Před 5 lety +2

    Thank you for this! Also, this is random, but I love your accent.

  • @Keyoutubetv
    @Keyoutubetv Před 4 lety

    That was so nice thanks for the video ! ❤️👑

  • @nastyempire8127
    @nastyempire8127 Před 5 lety +1

    Thankyou soo much for this i need it right now 🙏

  • @tereniasurratthall8157
    @tereniasurratthall8157 Před 5 lety +2

    So true...

  • @lucillesamuel7331
    @lucillesamuel7331 Před 6 lety

    great video Tyler!✌✌✌✌✌✌

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety

      Lucille Samuel. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @andreavictory1334
    @andreavictory1334 Před rokem

    Thank you brother

  • @giovannij1368
    @giovannij1368 Před měsícem

    Be careful because, if they act funny with you, the moment you try to give them space in order to protect yourself, they will accuse YOU of not talking to them.

  • @1ahozz
    @1ahozz Před rokem

    Keep it up

  • @theuglybeing4673
    @theuglybeing4673 Před 6 lety +5

    You sound like Kat Williams

  • @marwanyaici3370
    @marwanyaici3370 Před 6 lety +3

    Just buy mini bluetooth earphones and listen to music and don't give them a fuck

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +1

      marwan yaici. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @jeremyarroyo360
    @jeremyarroyo360 Před 5 lety

    @tylerjti i am going threw this right now. It is also outside forces via there family and friends

  • @iluvu.6161
    @iluvu.6161 Před 6 lety +1

    soon, can you talk about twin flame death. meaning, one of the twin flame has went to the afterlife...? Thanks.

  • @theuglybeing4673
    @theuglybeing4673 Před 6 lety

    THANKS

  • @tyranichelle
    @tyranichelle Před 5 lety

    🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @skaijohni3938
    @skaijohni3938 Před rokem +1

    WHOOO! Maaaaaaaaan LISTEN!

  • @tashahendrix4419
    @tashahendrix4419 Před 5 lety

    The truth

  • @daphnerodriguez9980
    @daphnerodriguez9980 Před 6 lety +1

    POWERFUL GREAT VIDEO! AGRADECER OS HECHO THANKS YOU FACT! ●FAMILY DAPHNE COTTON. ☺JTI. 💜

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety

      daphine Rodriquez. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.

  • @etherealism8_
    @etherealism8_ Před 2 lety

    3:21

  • @ladyredconstance
    @ladyredconstance Před 6 lety +4

    That's right Tyler I have friends that are staying with people and giving them money, and the people are treating them like dirt. One guy sits at the bus stop all day and he goes home later. I don't see why people don't stay at a motel. They will let you pay every two weeks. Great video Tyler. When this guy I know get his monthly check, they o.k.

    • @TylerJTI
      @TylerJTI  Před 6 lety +1

      inspirational word. thank you so much for your comment. peace and blessings to you.